How good is your game?

WhiteningMcClean · 2024-06-03T19:51:30+00:00

Text game immaculate, in-person game inept

probable-deniability · 2024-06-03T23:29:18+00:00

You wouldn't believe me.

Slow-Resolution-3748 · 2024-06-03T22:51:52+00:00

Absolute shithouse.

eyewave · 2024-06-03T20:16:23+00:00

I don't bother with stats - I mostly feel shit and unworthy as I navigate life - when some mutual attraction happens I thank my angels and try to play it cool.

It was quite fun, I've moved to a new country last August and since then have had 3 catastrophic flirts/affairs and at last one in progress.

I also have made female friends along the way so yay friend zone I guess.

I don't care. I just need one companion to be happy.

veryrare_v3 · 2024-06-03T20:46:10+00:00

I am a 21y/o 5’7 Athletically built black man. I’d say I have above average but not movie star looks.

Night game is lacking. I struggle to get woman to come home with me right then and there (often is logistical) . I catch a good amount “fuck me” eyes and I make many approaches with 30-40% success. Success being a kiss & Number/IG close. 0 Lays from night game though… so maybe it’s not successful?

Day Game is pretty rare for me because I’m usually not in a place to do so. But I have a very high success rate the times I have made the approach in day game. Led to multiple FWB, some LTRs and ONS.

DesignerSpirited4389 · 2024-06-03T23:46:49+00:00

How do you measure ?

domdomdom333 · 2024-06-05T17:05:30+00:00

I could be studied for how absymal game can be

giveyourselfatry1983 · 2024-06-03T21:11:07+00:00

Mines bad but I’m working to get better at it.

Necessary-Jaguar4775 · 2024-06-03T22:08:01+00:00

My game is no where near good enough. I get attention and looks but struggle to close and escalate. Have gotten better with practice but very limited success so far.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-06-03T22:32:54+00:00

I'm in a polyamorous marriage with my wife, a girlfriend, and a FWB. I would love to date more but I don't have enough time for more partners.

I do approach women when I'm out running errands and have time for a new partner, but I don't have time to do day game. I have a lot better success online as it makes it easier to find women who are okay with non-monogamy.

cokeboofer69 · 2024-06-04T03:33:13+00:00

Pretty bad

Foxito_007 · 2024-06-06T09:30:37+00:00

90% success rate! I look great, and I'm emotionally intelligent, so I always fake it with women until I make it. I tell them what they want to hear ( depends on their current need ) + I do chat and date multiple women at once so if one reject me ghost me , i have plan D and E ; I don’t feel like shit.
Finally women love competitions and dislike needy man … so be sure you are not one .

Wean1eHu11 · 2024-06-03T22:55:37+00:00

When I’m locked in and trying it’s great, when I’m not thinking about it it slips quite bad. Also still have some sticking points to work on

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-03T23:38:08+00:00

Before I got married, I could end up on a date with every woman I approached and probably ended up in bed with the majority of them. But then again, I wasn’t out there approaching 50 times a night and approaching women who certainly don’t look like they want to be bothered.

The_Core_Shadow · 2024-06-03T22:19:35+00:00

hard to rate my game objectivelly but I would say it must be very good because I have never been rejected. Also the fact that I have above average looks helps A LOT.

Every time I go out with a new girl we end up having sex on the first date and if not on the first one then it always happens on the second date at least. The exception are 2 dates that did not end up with sex but we agreed to meet again and never did due to my lack of free time.

That being said, I should also mention that maybe its not my game that is so good. Maybe its just my ability do pick the right girl. I often date women closer to my league. I mean I never had 10s... I have had a few 9s but mostly I date girls in the range of 4-8. And I should also mention that I find this rating system based on looks extremly retarded because there is rarely any corelation between how the girl looks and how much fun we have together. The super hot ones are just not worth the work.

Also I do not do cold approaches. I found most of my dates either through my social circle or on dating apps.

cemj86 · 2024-06-04T02:05:17+00:00

🤣 what's this have to do with you?

My game is impeccable by the way. All I need is looks, money and status but I have none. Please help. Thanks for allowing me to vent my success I hope it helps

StriveForGreat1017 · 2024-06-03T23:27:00+00:00

When I’m present , and comfortable I’m smooth as hell . When I start to overthink what I’m about to say , and start seeking approval easily 2/10

berzerker5000 · 2024-06-03T23:31:34+00:00

I define success as both lead generation and sex. When I cold approach a girl, get a number close, and she doesn’t ghost me when I text her, that is a quality lead. It may not transpire into more, but that’s ok.

Same day pulls are obv the holy grail and I been on a hot streak lately. Bars and dating apps are all I have been doing. Airport bars (I travel a lot) are really good success usually for number pulls.

My issue right now is trying hit that balance of keeping them rotation chicks and not let it develop into a GF while keeping them warm enough that they don’t lose interest. Never had to do the juggling act until I found overall success recently.

There is one girl I have where it is turning into a GF vibe and she is calling and texting alot. I wouldn’t mind if it turned into a relationship I guess. But one weekend recently I picked up a girl at a bar and hung out with her for 3 days. It was very hard to text/call the other girl and keep my focus with her while being with someone else. I ended up being pretty distant for a couple days and then having to do damage control to rebuild the relationship which was fine, but just illustrating that it is all tricky.

When I approach someone it is about 20% getting to know them plus logistics and 80% flirting and saying ridiculous shit that makes them laugh. Seems to work well. I only get rejected when I’m drunk and being an idiot.

epimpstyle · 2024-06-04T10:53:41+00:00

What actually is "game"?

To understand it, consider that when you cold approach a woman, you don't know her personality, character, mood, anything, so you have to "play it safe" to find out if she is "open-minded" or not. If you don't play it safe, your attempt can be considered harassment. ... is not polite and you look rude, for this reason the "game" exists and it allows you to filter out the open-minded women from the conservative ones in a nice way, being witty, using banter, games, DHV and so on...

So... in reality, the real question is how many open-minded women you meet and not really how good your "game" is, because if a woman rejects you, there is no way to change her mind, no matter how good your game is.

If you look like this, then "success" depends on your experience to find the right women, if you have an eye to detect those women, your success rate will skyrocket.

Success means getting laid and an estimation looks like this:

40 approaches

20 rejections

10 phone numbers

5 respond to phone /text

2-3 go on a date

1-2 go on the second date

1 "success"

Ok-Stay666 · 2024-06-04T22:02:58+00:00

Bro I can get numbers but I cannot for the life of me close the deal with women on dates. I legit dont know what to do. I am really funny, thats my personality but I get the sense that every time I crack jokes it becomes platonic and doesnt lead to anyhting. I am conflicted because I do not want to act like someone im not ;/

6'1
Virgin
21y/o in college

Please anyone gimmie some advice

Title	How good is your game?
Author	mariaandmythoughts
Upvotes	1
Comments	45
Date	June 3, 2024 7:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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