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marinerhyme/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 03:12 PM
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I remind myself regularly that if my emotions are triggered by something said to me and I react rather than consider my response as that of the oak that chances are Im not going to do a good job of handling the situation in a way that isn't at some point regrettable. I spend some time at night reflecting on my day and how I handled situations. It helps me to see where I did a good job and also where I failed miserably.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 10:02 PM
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I rely on this a lot. In fact, my experience with it is that women see it as a dramatic pause (furrow your brow or something relative, Clintonesque lower lip biting works well) and followed by some A&A or a pressure flip etc really gives some impact.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 09:53 PM
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Coordinate kids destroying the kitchen and then cleaning it as well as deploying hand made cards. She's their mom not mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 08:42 AM
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You have your work cut out for you. I can relate to your husbands position minus the mental insanity and stimulants although at times I have certainly questioned my own. You can substitute immune suppressants, depression and pain meds in my case. I have rheumatoid arthritis and its had a huge affect on my life over the course of 25 years. Google image search and you'll get an idea. Some of that time my wife has had to step up and manage our family because I was simply too sick. My SMV has taken …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 08:34 AM
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This couldn't have come at a better time for me man thank you! I've been stuck in a one man pity party thinking how much anger I have over shit my wife does and there isn't a thing I can do to change it except soldier on and improve myself. Again thanks.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 09:31 PM
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Coming from a guy with rhuematoid arthritis (do a google image search if you are not familliar with it) I can tell you that fatigue can be a real issue with auto immune diseases. I deal with it constantly and it affects me daily. That said I would tell her that you are concerned for her health and ask her to schedule an appointment to speak with her Doctor about the fatigue she is experiencing due to her not being able to keep up with her household responsibilities. Go with her and talk to the D…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 02:47 AM
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I understand the financial and emotional priorities. I too spend a lot of my energy on decisions and actions that will benefit myself and my family financially. Maybe too much actually because I grew up poor. I encourage you to reconsider and make your physical goals a higher priority. If you can meet the demands of financial goals you can certainly meet your physical goals as well. This will also serve as a great example to your children that you are continuing to thrive and better yourself. If…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 04:54 AM
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So in 4 years you haven't been able to lose 60 lbs? I know someone that was in this exact situation; he lost the weight, got his OI back, essential became the man she married and he took her back and re-married her and 10 years later she was fucking chad thundercock again while being heavily overweight and a total shrew to live with. His kids have absolutely zero respect for him. I question whether you would stick with your plan if you haven't met a goal like 60 lbs in 4 years dude. That's essen…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 02:01 AM
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Fucking spot on. Stop with the passive aggressive BS!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 09:04 PM
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I agree 100%. My wife would bring up couples counseling every time we had a serious disagreement (Being a good BP I would agree to go back then) but would never follow through with it. Little did I know it was her way of telling me to get my shit together and lead her. About a month after finding MRP, lifting, reading vociferously and working on frame she threw a huge shit/comfort test at me over me telling her I expected her to hold up her end of the SAHM agreement with regards to the house wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/15 08:55 PM
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Lots of solid advice here, I have rheumatoid arthritis and my hands and knees are pretty messed up with permanent joint damage. I am considered disabled although I work full time for reference. I work on whatever isn't hurting. So in my case my collar bone where it meets my chest will swell up real bad so I work legs instead. I do squats with low weight and tons of sit ups etc. It makes a difference. I can't go heavy all the time but I can sometimes and I just work around the pain as much as pos…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 01:54 AM
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Bonus thing to think about. Would RP knowledge in your wife break your frame ? If it would, you need better frame. This is an interesting proposition. My Pastor and I are good friends and in talking about some of the things I have come to embrace from NMMNG and MRP in general he told me in pretty certain terms that this is not the way to have a relationship with my wife. I disagreed with him and he then brought it up in his sermon the following Sunday and harped on the men of the congregation fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 10:46 PM
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No, never. When my wife asked what I was reading (it happened to be NMMNG) I told her a book to better myself and we talked a little about what it was about and she left it at that. When she noticed MMSLP in our kindle library she mentioned that it sure seemed like I was taking this thing really seriously and I told her that I plan to be working on myself till the day I die. This was about two weeks before zero hour and a bunch of shit tests in between. I did fine with them although I was and st…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 10:34 PM
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I skipped my workout yesterday because I was sore still. I catch my self in the middle of saying "I'm sorry" towards my wife for things that are related to my needs sexually. Im really struggling with the sorry BS as it is such an ingrained habit. I caught myself saying this the other morning (after initiating and getting the cold shoulder) and looked at her and told her actually Im not sorry, I don't know why I say that. I've noticed that she is apologizing toward me much more often than she ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 05:42 PM
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Yes. Stratagos nailed it at least in my case. I enjoyed 10 years of the best sex and fun with my wife I had ever had with any woman until I "settled down" into BB land. Since I have started focusing on my MAP things have dramatically improved in the rest of my life. That isn't to say everything is rosy because it most certainly isn't. It's been a constant barrage of ST's one after another but I am starting to hold my own through them and frame the relationship again. I have set boundaries. The r…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 03:05 PM
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I haven't done it since swallowing the bitter pill but a few decades ago I worked as a fisherman in Alaska and I wrote my wife several during my time at sea. She still has these 20 years later. Thinking on this it seems to me that if the letter is coming from a man with strong frame and Alpha traits it can score some serious points in comfort land. I wont be writing any until I am much further along on my MAP but I can certainly see how they can come in handy especially if and when I struggle wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 02:32 PM
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We are born into this world alone and we go out of this world alone. I put my faith and hope in my relationship with the Lord and know that he takes care of me in all things not my wife or anyone else for that matter. I have a chronic illness and I deal with pain daily and maintaining frame is key. I don't bitch or whine, I put one foot in front of the other and do what I can to better myself regardless of the circumstance in my life. The minute I lean on my wife for support is the minute she st…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 06:16 PM
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