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Your problem isn't actually finding someone new it's that you need to stop thinking about her. Have you tried to train yourself not to? Get an elastic band around your wrist, every time you think of her use the band to pinch yourself. This will teach your brain that, thinking about her = physical discomfort. It's a hack, not an actual solution but it will stop you from thinking about her. It sounds like thinking about her has become such a common thing that it is now a habit more than anything e…
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:18 AM
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The advice of having fun is the same as just being yourself. Yes, going into getting women mode will get you laid, but none will stick around, because at some point you'll slip into complacency and stop having the get women mindset. Yes, it's easier to have a button that you can just switch to go into "pick up mode". Because the deep changes needed to become attractive simply by being are very hard and very often you need to let go of your ego and expectations. But the button is just a bandaid, …
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:37 AM
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These are the same type of people that would have walked the streets of Germany with torches in the 30s, that would have ratted out that neighbor who managed to get 1 extra egg at the store in the USSR. They are weak-minded and can't form an opinion so they latch on to whatever the current popular ideology is, whether it's right or wrong. Do you want to date someone who can only think what they're told?
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:47 AM
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She sends you TikTok shit to communicate? Looks like you went dumpster diving.
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:00 PM
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Or, or, how about this idea? What about not carring what society tells you? Do your own thing, be what ever a good man is in YOUR eyes, screw what other people say and their shit ass labels. Do you get the results you want? Then good, keep doing your thing. Let people bitch and bicker over labels. Do your own thing, follow your own path. Stop being a follower and just do what you want to. I know, crazy right? Having the ability to take your own decisions and carve out your own path, define your …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 12:02 PM
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"The more you know, the more you realize you don't know." When you were young you had no direction so you just lived on a "I'll get what I'm given" mindset. This happens to everyone, as you try to sort your life out you realize that there are more and more things to sort out. It's how it works. Always remember that you are the one who chose to chase the things you are chasing. You can always stop chasing one thing or the other. The important thing is to take the time and enjoy the things you obt…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:01 PM
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We as men see a problem and want to fix it, most of the time a woman comes to you with a problem she doesn't need solutions, she just needs emotional support. Emotions are what drives women, while logic is what drives men. That's why when you tell a woman about a problem she won't really offer a solution, she'll offer an emotional response, or emotional support. No true all the times but it is often enough to be considered the easy way to approach things, it's always easier to shift mental state…
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:39 AM
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Just fucking approach. Also get off insta, do something better with your time.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:12 PM
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Same problem here. Stop porn/masturbating, that will help you out allot. Spend more time on foreplay, it's ok if you don't get hard in 2 minutes, more foreplay, don't even think about getting hard, just enjoy the foreplay at some point it will get so hard it starts to hurt, that's when the action starts. Don't worry about spending to much time on foreplay, women love it, you can make her come so many times before you stick it in, she'll love you for it. If even after a long foreplay session you'…
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:46 AM
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Women that say they are independent are either whoring their way around town or are lying about it. They can't be single, that's why they all either are in some form of LTR or have lots of FWB hanging around.Show me a woman who is truly happier single than in a LTR and I'll show you a priest who doesn't molest kids.
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:29 AM
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After 3 years you should have moved on. Everyone is replaceable. Women always do this, most of them can't be alone, so they keep 2-3 guys as backup even if they are in a LTR. Also just sending a song is really shit of her, no message no meaning, she is just messing with you head to get that validation. Ignore, block, she's dead, move on. You're not someone's emotional punching bag. What could have happened is that some dude broke her heart and now she is trying to get some sense of self worth by…
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:46 PM
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If she doesn't put out the first time she is your bed show her the door. You're just being used for attention/affection. Her breath probably smells like cum when she is coming over. Next!!
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:11 PM
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Indication of Interest
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:31 AM
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So we're just about the number of times we have sex now? Get your lay count up as high as possible? Well by this scenario people in a LTR win, you can have unlimited sex. Also see 3 women per week? When would you have time for anything else? Cause it's not just about the days you see them it's also the texting and phone calls inbetween. Massive time sink just to bust a nut.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 09:23 AM
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Because it shows you have more important things to do with your time than post to social media. Also you're above seeking validation from random internet strangers.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:07 PM
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This is exactly what I was going through a few years back, only a couple of years older, what worked for me was make a list of things I wanted to work on after my regular job, every once in a while I had too much free time and ended up thinking I should chase I added more things. You only have so much time, focus it on your growth, these will be your best years in terms of personal and professional progress, I couldn't even have imagined being here back then. The women will still be there, but t…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 09:52 PM
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Don't be so hard on yourself, you're doing great. Working on yours looks is just the first step in the journey and the easiest one. Nobody ever talks about how to work on your inner self, cause very few people actually have the strength to do it as that's where the monsters live. Getting good at talking to women takes practice just as anything else. Did you get in shape by reading about lifting and imagining it or by going to the gym and moving iron around? It's the same with all skills, 10 minu…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 09:41 AM
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Be a man and walk away, she proved that she is not LTR material. No matter how hard you try you can't stop her from being a hoe, only thing that will happen is she will just get better at hiding it.
/r/seduction22/09/21 10:44 AM
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When I was living with an ex we used to eat the same amount of food, I'm 6ft and was around 180lbs, she was 25% ish smaller than me, height and weight. How ever she had a very high metabolism, could chow down on 2500 kcals per day for months and barely gain any weight. So she was eating more than you'd expect someone her size to eat. What I noticed is that I was slowly losing weight, very slowly but I was clearly eating just a bit under what I was supposed to eat. Always assume a man that works …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 08:57 AM
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It's not what you say but who says it and how it's said.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:03 PM
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I just came off a month of doing this. Felt like that became my life.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 10:35 PM
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You most definitely are not a lost cause, your 30s as a man are when you hit your prime and if you take care of yourself it can last for a very long time. At least from what I've seen there are 50 year olds around that dress better, look healthier etc than most 30 year olds around. ​ You only need 3 things. Learn to dress, don't go to top 10 sexy man outfits or shit like that, figure out what works for you, what fits you and your personality, no that doesn't mean wearing Marvel Tshirts or childi…
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:22 AM
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Men also have way more options than they need, every time I end up in a LTR I keep asking what if there is someone better out there. Yes it's more common for women and changed their perception more, but it works both ways. For the incels I think it's also very much down to how society evolved, you can very happily live your entire life without having a single face to face interaction, of course it leads to an army of men who have no idea how to interact with women. The rise in porn made sex easy…
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:14 AM
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Our parents grew up in a less sexually promiscuous world. We, I mean millennials and younger, most of us reach double digit partner count before we get to 20. So we grow up treating relationships like toys, throw it away once you get bored. And the recent rise in online dating shows us that there are more options out there than we need, so why stick around if something starts to go bad, there is always a next one. Marriage and kids were e default step everyone went through, for us it's something…
/r/seduction17/08/21 03:28 PM
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Just like everything in life dating comes with risks, is the risk that dating someone you work with worth it, considering that most relationships don't work out? I'd say no. Just because you spend 8-9 hours a day at work that doesn't mean that has to be the main aspect of your social life. You can't have chemistry with women from work as long as they are completely invisible from a sexual POV. They will try, oh they will pine for you so hard. But don't give in, plenty of single women out there. …
/r/seduction17/08/21 09:05 AM
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"Work...taboo." - that should be a taboo anyway, don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:52 PM
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Crabs in a bucket shit. They don't have what it takes to do it themselves. 6 days might be a bit to much for your body, but as long as you feel rested and keep seeing progress keep it up. As long as it doesn't eat up so much time that you start to see you're losing control of other things in your life you're doing fine. Some people meditate, some go to church, you go to the gym. Welcome to the real men club, fuck what ever those weaklings say.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:47 AM
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You've finally come to the realization that chasing tail isn't the main thing to do in life, good job you broke out of the cycle. Now go find something interesting to do with all this free time and energy that you have all of a sudden. Don't worry, if you have your shit together, do interesting things outside of work, you'll end up attracting women without to much effort, and this is how it should be.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:54 AM
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Don't even demote, dump her like the pile of shit she is. Social Media attention seekers aren't LTR material. Would you LTR a junkie? Same situation just replace drugs with internet clout.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:40 AM
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In my book that's a massive show of disrespect, unless you live in some small town pumping one of your friends exes is trashy as fuck.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:34 AM
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Like others said, you don't need your LTR to be perfect, find one that respects and supports you struggle. This means she is submissive by nature and will also struggle to become better for you. The dynamic between you and the LTR matter more than anything else, it's like going to the gym with a buddy, do you want to go with one that always goes "nah don't do that, don't push so hard" or one that pushes you all the time?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:28 AM
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Or you could never send her any pictures? You know like a well adjusted human being that doesn't need validation? I never send my plates anything, not even a selfie when I get a new haircut and it drives them crazy. "You better look at my cock and take a mental image of it, cause you will only see it IRL" Done deal.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:09 PM
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Discipline. If someone would offer you a really apetizing looking meal, but it's been laced with poison, would you eat it? Even if starving would you eat it? Ofcrouse you wouldn't, think about women from work the same way, they are poisonous if you get into something with them. Grinding on you? Tell them to stop it or you'll file a report for sexual harrasment, no woman wants to be seen as a horny slut so they'll stop.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:39 PM
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Step away from porn, instagram and what ever social mediacrap you're using where you see random sluts showing off their ass. Find something that's only for you to focus on, money, gym, a new skill etc. Stop trying to seduce every woman you interact with, try to see these interactions from a point of "Are you worthy of me trying to seduce you" don't just seduce them because they have a hole between their legs. Generic sex with random women is easy to get, good sex with a woman you actually get al…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:47 PM
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Talk to her about it, I have condoms in my wallet at all times, hell I was in a LTR for years(we stoped using condoms after a while) and still had old expired condoms in my wallet just because they were in a pocket that is made for that and never bothered to throw them away.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:01 AM
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If you can't have fun with her outside of the bedroom she is nothing more than a plate. Why did you even stick around for so long? She clearly has nothing to offer except her pussy.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:48 PM
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You will be the one who ends supporting her financially down the line. Never LTR a woman who can't/refuses to have her shit together, don't let the pussy fool you, looks become irelevant once you LTR her as you'll get used to seing her around.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:23 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. What I do, might not for you but hey worth a shot: I just say stuff that amuses me "would I find it funny" and I have a very aggressive sense of humor, aka everything is fair game when it comes to humor so it pushes lots away but I don't care. I also instantly stop interacting if all I get are random only line replies, if I feel that the interaction has no back and worth I bail. Most women are boring, they have nothing going on in their lives so I expect to ghost 99…
/r/seduction08/04/21 08:30 AM
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Can't you just say yes and hang out like normal humans? Why can't you let a woman who you find unattractive into your home? Not all interactions with women have to be about sex. If it gets boring you can just tell them to fuck of, nicely, "It's been a long day and I'm tired" Fuck man, stop treating life like some sort of chess game where you always judge if it's the right move or the wrong move, just do whatever you feel like.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:15 AM
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Ah definitely stay away from apps, it's a losers game, it's hard and unless you have wicked text game its going to destroy your mental health
/r/seduction07/04/21 09:34 PM
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Have a life outside of dating: Hobbies Career Social Circle Plans and goals that are centered on you A man becomes needy the moment he has nothing going for him outside of who ever he is dating at the time. Make your life about yourself and becoming better, women will come as by product. Women need to be the cherry on top of the cake, yeah it makes it better but the base is still the same with or without it, they are just an added bonus, not a necesity. Once you embrace this mentality you'll hav…
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:07 PM
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My passion is video games and I made a career out of it, not playing them but designing them. You can make money from almost any passion, as long as you're willing to find ways to turn it into something that others will pay for. Even candle making: make high-and expensive ones, teach classes on it. Just be smart about it.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:07 PM
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If they have a kid they might as well be a dude for all I care, but that's just me, I want nothing to do with their shitty choices and their kids. Wouldn't touch one with a 10 foot pole.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:43 PM
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This hits the nail on the head, you're a man, communicate with your actions not with your words. It's also easier to teach a woman do to what you want her to do than to teach her what she shouldn't. If you do it properly she will do anything she can for your rewards so she won't have the time to do stuff that you don't accept. Since OP used "girls night out" as the example. She should preffer to stay home and get chocked by daddy than go out with her shit friends. Enforcing possitive behaviour t…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:50 PM
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I always found it easier alone, it's easier to join a group if it's just you, and women tent to sense the "the boys are out to get laid" vibe. Which you don't give off when you're alone. As long as you don't look like a friendless losser you're gonna be fine.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:09 PM
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One thing that everyone needs to understand to be able to move on from a shitty childhood. Nobody hurt you because they are a bad person, they did it because they had their own problems that they didn't know how to deal with. That jock that bullied you? He was probably getting his ass beaten up every day by his alcholic father. That slut that broke your heart? Someone probably broke hers before.The key is to understand this and move on, don't become better as a form of revenge, do it for yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 11:20 AM
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In the time you would write some shitty insta text you could do 5-10 reps of any given exercise. That has 10000% more roi than insta. Stop joining the masses of useless thirsty losers and become a better man.
/r/seduction16/03/21 12:18 PM
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What helped me was turning it into a ritual. I get up in the morning, have my coffe, listen to mumsic that pumps me up. Then go about my mourning routine, which always includes packing my gym bag as the last step. I go to the gym, even if I don't feel like it, just going there pumps me up, by the time I'm there, dressed in my gym clothes I already forgot the reason I didn't feel like going there in the first place. ​ You only have a limited amount of willpower, people always seem to forget this.…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:56 PM
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Just take some time focus on yourself, don't worry about it being to late. As a man you have yet hit your stride, focus on that, most hit it around their mid 30s. This puts you at an advantage when looking for someone long term, you're mature enough to know what you want, you learned to be happy on your own so if it does go wrong you'll deal with it better. You still have access to the same age groups of women that you had, and even more.
/r/seduction14/03/21 06:29 PM
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Sometimes all you need is a slap across the face to wake up and see things for what they really are. Be strong man, you have it in you, you can become amazing.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:17 AM
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There is no way to get dates if all you do is play games and watch Netflix. Hate to break it to you but this makes you uninteresting. Nobody cares about what Netflix show you watched or what level you are in Runescape. Hang out with your friends, go out for the sake of going out, you'll meet people along the way. Would you date someone who has no stories? Didn't go on adventures? Some people end up in relationships out of loneliness, but they aren't really happy together, it's just less painful …
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:24 PM
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It's a slepery slope. ​ Let's say you only aim for 8's, what ever that is in your book. You have one dry spell and say, ok lemme bang that 7. Next dry spell you'll accept a 6 because you already banged a 7, before you know it you're just banging land whales just because it's easy. Then you'll never be able to imagine yourself with an 8 because you banged dozens of 4 and 5s. You'll be the dude that fucks the fatties, is that who you want to be? A guy I used to hang out before covid is like that, …
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:37 PM
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That kiss that she gave you at the end was definetelly an invitation to ask her out. Just be straight forward, ask her out somewhere neutral, coffe, etc, to make her feel at ease. If she wanted to fuck you badly she would have done it when you initially made out.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:32 PM
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At your age it's just 100% mental, like others said stop porn, stop fapping, in a weeks time you'll get a boner that'll rip through your pants when kissing a girl. Also if you keep up with porn and fapping you will end up having problems reaching an orgasm with traditional sex as you get older, I know from experience, 35 and I can't even remember the last time I came from PIV.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:51 PM
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Stop wasting your time on her, she will use you as an emotional tampon and then when you try to make a move she will go "I though we were just friends". Don't give women a second chance, if one says no, her loss, move on, there's millions of them out there and they are all 99% the same, especially in your age group. Imagine you have 100 pairs of identical socks and you lose one, does it matter? There are 199 other identical socks in the drawer.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:43 PM
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Completelly killed who I used to be: shy, introverted, unfit, etc. basically a useless pieces of trash. Left my home country, moved countries several times, got bored so ready to settle down where I am now. Fucked up my lower back doing deadlifts then years later squats, I atempted to beat my PB so it was forth it. Gave up on the idea of having any real close male friends, at my age most are married with kids or are wasting their life away in pubs/getting drunk alone home during covid. Spent all…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:30 PM
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Like other said end it now, this can only go one way, downhill with an insane acceleration. I've been through this more than a decade ago with my LTR at the time, it's a slippery slope, it starts at just wanting extra attention and then goes to wanting extra cocks. Trust me, save yourself and her the time and pain and just end it soon, it's beyond saving. Since you are so conflicted and ask on here, you really just want someone to tell you to do what you already know you should do, and what you …
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:54 PM
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This is right where I am now. You will have had plenty of experience with women to know exactly what you want. You'll go on dates and will start to look for an excuse to leave after 10 minutes. As most people say, lots and lots of fatties and single mums. You'll swipe left, at least I am due to lockdown and not being able to go out, on more than 75% of the women you see on dating apps. Career-wise everything is amazing and more than I could have imagined. Very few close friends, as most single g…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:30 PM
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One thing to note, women will not approach you, even if you do get fit, and the few ones that do will be 5-6 at best so you'll just end up telling the to go away. Getting fit will just improve the initial impression they have of you, help you get a foot in the door, from there on it's all what you say and do People, especially women, love to talk about themselves, so you can just use that to get a conversation alive.
/r/seduction07/01/21 03:55 PM
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I started out just like you, my hands were shaking uncontrollably when I was talking to a new person. Talking to a woman?? Pff that would have never happened. Job interviews were hell on earth. I grew up in a part of the world/period where mental health was binary, you're either completely schizo or you're fine so I never got diagnosed. What I did was simply this, keep in contact with the few friends I had, use every opportunity to talk to them. Move on to talking to new people at parties/work, …
/r/seduction06/01/21 03:26 PM
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Being married is RP on hard mode. By all means, do start a family but maybe not with someone so young, you need a partner that puts in the same effort as you do, both financially and time commitment. That 22 year old still didn't have her party/freedom years, she might always resent the fact that she gave that up and might go awol at some point. The question is not if you should do it, the question is did you find a woman that is worth doing it with?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:27 PM
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"Don't have time for it" never set up an account for a woman, she can give you her number or hit the road
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:52 PM
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Set an alarm, never snooze. It will lead you to be a zombie for 1-2 days until you fix your sleeping schedule but after that you're good to go. Think of it this way, every step that you don't take today means you either have to take two tomorrow or end up a waste of oxygen. The sooner you start working on yourself the better it is, less work per day, and all of this compounds, it's like investment, small incremental steps taken as soon as possible are better than a lump sum later on.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 11:19 AM
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Wake up at 6AM, breakfast + shower + get ready for gym by 6:30.Get back from gym 8-9 depends on training day, I live 15 minutes away from the gym and work from home currently. Work until 16-17, depending on when I started. 17, prep dinner and next day lunch, done by 18 latest.So from 18 I have at least 4 hours all to myself. 1 hour of just chilling/meditating in perfect silence, 1 hour of reading/learning to improve myself, then there are at least 2 hours left to either slack off, keep on workin…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 10:55 AM
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So once every other days at the gym is considered grinding? Man kids these days want to have it all easy. I'm doing 5 days a week minimum and don't feel it's gridding or difficult. On the other hand I do it because I enjoy the struggle not because I want more pussy. And I get to bed after 10PM, up at 6AM. You need to learn to organize your time, stop wasting it on social media and dating sites trying to score land whales.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 09:32 AM
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Easy, "A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell", each and every time. Stick to it like scripture and you're golden, she's going to give up after 2-3 tries.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:02 PM
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Also don't forget this golden rule: Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you've slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. By default a man bragging about his N count is most likely padding the numbers to falsely raise his SMV.If you have a high N count you don't care about it, you don't brag about, it is what it is. Edit: A woman will not consider a LTR with a man who sleeps around and will most likely chea…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:13 PM
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If you don't go on a date within 1 week of getting the number. If you don't have sex after 3-4 dates max. It's time to bail, easy as that, there are thousands of women around why waste time on only one of them?
/r/seduction24/11/20 10:16 AM
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This! This is what TRP is all about, saying fuck you to society end it's rules and living a life designed by you. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 10:42 AM
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I have the same problem from time to time with plates. You just find sex with that plate boring but don't want to admit it. Spice things up. More foreplay, throw them around, have some fun in having sex don't just focus on getting your dick wet, make it an experience not just a nut.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:33 PM
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You can use your belt as cuffs, just google it it's very easy
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:06 PM
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One of my plates is really into getting used and abused. It takes a few tries to find their limit. Tie her up during foreplay, slap her ass harder and harder until she complains it's to hard and then go beyond that. Learn to safely choke her, don't grab her throat and squeeze, use the bed/wall as leverage and just push your hand against her throat, this way you won't suffocate her if it's to hard. Deep throat her, no not the one you see in porn where she almost pukes, grab her by the hair, while…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:25 AM
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So she used you to get a place to live, a good job. She got everything she needed from you. Your SMV is declining, alcohol and drug abuse, while hers is rising, are you surprised she's looking to trade you in for something better?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:05 PM
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The thing with telling lies is that at some point the truth always rises to the surface. I know a few guys who are pathological liars and once they hit their mid 30s their life became horrible because everyone pushed them away, no real friends, nobody is willing to go out of their way to help them anymore. Ruined their careers, we work in smallish industry with allot of inter-company movement and word travels fast so it's hard to find a new job for them. Also consider if you are ok with yourself…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:59 AM
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Always, always be a bro, even if it leads to losing your current gf, women are replaceable but the satisfaction you get for helping a bro out will stay with you forever. Imagine you are on your death bed, what would be a bigger regret? Losing some random chick or not helping a bro out, knowing very well the pain this might cause him and the fact that you are essentially helping a slut be a slut?
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:23 AM
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This, learning to control your own orgasms give you so much power over them. You essentially tell them they are worthless without using a single word.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:50 PM
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Don't forget water, tap water is filled with estrogen due to the pill, get a reverse osmosis filter if possible, some can be installed on the tap some are like aa coffee machine and require no installation.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:55 AM
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It all depends what you want from them and also your own age. 34 Years myself and this is the way I see it. If you just want a cum dumpster age doesn't really matter as you will just drop her after a few lays or the moment the ugly stuff comes out. If you want a LTR you are more or less forced to look beyond your 26 age limit, you want someone who has their shit together, won't cling to you like velcro, there is no chance a woman at that age has her shit together, she just got out of uni a few y…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:50 AM
29

Girls would abandon their moms funeral for a guy, she flaked, "No Worries, maybe some other time" and don't say anything else, leave ot to her.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:13 PM
1

Same thing, sharing a house is for broke students.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:24 AM
1

Get her to suck you off to get your dick wet, what's why they have a mouth.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:53 PM
24

No roommates! You are not some dead ass looser who can't afford to live alone. No studio flat, studios scream I live paycheck to paycheck. Renting vs Owning depends if you are willing to stay in that city for a while or plan on moving out in the next couple of years.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:41 PM
-1

Tell her to drop social media or you will drop her, social media attention whores are the 2nd worst to LTR
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:05 PM
3

On meetings, you always ask if it's still on several hours in advance. If they don't reply you don't go. If they flake you propose an alternate time, two flakes in a row means a hard-next. You need to show them you don't care about them and have options. They always reach out after a flake. If they don't they broke so you need to get a new plate. Lose this idea of checking them, you gain respect by not being affected by them not by reacting. Don't chase.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:40 PM
3

You "check" her by not giving a fuck and soft nexting her, not by being reactive. RP is not some flow chart that you follow form point A to point B. If you call her in two days and get all butt hurt about it she won and she knows she can do it again because all you will do is wait 2 days and call again. Wait for her to reach out. You have better things to do than to worry about some hoe.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:07 PM
3

Why? The moment you react to some shitty behavior of hers you give her all the power.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:59 PM
3

Just send her simple text asking to hang out. Maybe she was busy riding the cc to answer your call. Also, you are giving her to much importance if she is a plate, plates break, that's what they do.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:56 PM
25

BP Billies are like crabs in a barrel. Get yourself some new friends that actually encourage you to get better, drop this deadass losers.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 11:34 AM
5

Alright bro, so 1st thing you have to realize she was never yours it was just your turn. This does sound like a case of she fell for the Alpha and then as you fell in love you turned into Beta Billy. ​ I know, same happened the same to me, 4 year LTR broke up because I turned into a beta shit and I used her to define my happiness, now 3 months later I'm back way stronger than I was when I meet her, got 3 plates within a month, hardcore gym etc. You need to be the only person fully in control of …
/r/askTRP11/09/20 10:16 AM
1

Just get a hairstyle the works for you bro. I personally do very short sides/back with medium on top. The short sides make my jaws pop out, the top lets me actually style it and not look like all the dudes that have the "I just used my own clippers cause I'm broke" look.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:27 AM
3

AWALT is a universal rule
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:33 PM
2

Yeah, so you need to treat the 1st date just like you would a cold approach, be ok with rejections, learn to read how it's going as fast as possible so you can walk away and not waste hours on a date that goes nowhere.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:33 PM
3

Where do you meet these women? If it's online the 1st date is akin to just chatting them up in public, lots of rejections, which is perfectly normal.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:13 PM
4

Be sure that when she goes out she is sucking of some rando in the toilets at least once a month. Has social media? Attention whore. Male friends? Again attention whore and beta orbiters. I don't see anything that makes her worthy of being treated as more than a plate. She might be hot, great sex but sounds like your generic vapid chick, there are millions of them out there. Get more plates, that's the only solution to get over oneitis. Once you have plates you will see that she is nothing speci…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:08 PM
3

If you want to LTR a woman always looks at her mother, that's what you might end up with. Since her mom is a whale there are high chances she will become one. As you get older your metabolism slows down and you gain weight easier, if she gained so much in her early 20s you need to realize she will most likely double in size in her 30s. Dump the fatty.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:37 AM
5

Never settle, better to stay single, spin low plates, and keep grinding in your attempts to pull high ones. Settling is death. Finding a woman worth keeping around should take a long time, anything worthwhile requires time and effort.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:32 PM
1

Since she agreed to come to your place she wanted to have sex but you did something to kill it along the way. Don't reach out, let her be. You should analyze exactly what you did. You didn't give us enough info to go on here of what happened. Sounds like you aren't really aware of what you did. Did you fail a shit test? Did you lose frame for no reason? Something must have went wrong.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:34 AM
1

I jumped on the online dating bandwagon one month ago. And this is what I found works for me. No social media, I have none and will never make one just to chat to some chick. They either give me their phone number or can screw themselves. I don't instantly push for a date, I just shoot the shit with then, no more than 10 minutes a day. After 2-3 days I say something along the lines of "How about some drinks? I'm busy on xxx but could do xxx" This shows that you would like to go out but also that…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:55 AM
2

It's more about knowing the source of your food so you can do some research and avoid mass-produced food. I'm in Europe, we have an easier time getting clean food from local small farmers.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 03:17 PM
3

https://draxe.com/nutrition/5-high-estrogen-foods-avoid/
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 12:57 PM
6

Just simply tell her you only see her as a friend. Just be upfront, don't beat around the bush, best way to pull of a bandaid is in one fast move. You will no longer be a friend with her after this anyway, but still better than getting with someone you don't find attractive just to not hurt her feelings.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 11:57 AM
19

I'm in the same boat. Discovered TRP due to frustrations with women, years later I'm at a point where I learned so much more from it and women are just icing on the cake. Always pushing your boundaries is the key to a fulfilling life.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 10:39 AM
13

You need to get a LTR to learn how to properly have sex. I know it may sound counter trp but that's the truth. There is no way you are going to try new things in hookups, very rarely does a woman in a hookup tell you what she likes. If you want to get a hookup to trust you to try new things and tell you what she likes just refrain yourself and only penetrate her when she is dripping wet. And stop thinking you learn anything from porn, it's just about having the right angles for the camera and lo…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 12:20 PM
0

Did you make an effort to make the conversations you had sexual? I'm sure you didn't. Also if a woman flakes 2 times move on, she's just wasting your time.
/r/seduction25/08/20 11:18 AM
5

Don't read to much into it she totally forgot about you. Hell I forget the women I go on dates with if there is no 2nd date. If I see them on the street in two weeks I have no idea who they are. Just don't call out the fact that she deleted you, pretend it never happen and just start from a point of "ah I think we might have matched on xxx". An average women gets inundated with attention on dating aps, if she is attractive you're just dude number 234 of the day.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:27 PM
6

Wake up at 06:30 jog to the gym Work from 8:30-9:00 depending on how long the gym session was. Finish at around 17:00 Music/Meditate for one hour. Prepare dinner + next day's lunch for maximum 45 minutes, have dinner. Now it's 19:00. If I feel in the mood I give plates some atention over text for 10 minutes max. Read/Watch some documentary etc until 20:30-21:00. Call it a day and play some videogames or just watch a movie/series until 22:00-23:00 and then sleep. I prefer to keep my week clean fr…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 01:26 PM
3

Give this man some gold, everyone forgets what TRP is really about
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:12 AM
4

Once you manage to internalize it you'll also figure out what you want in a woman. And the twitter crowd is not that Maybe your text game is perfect and you manage to get plates from there, but I never heard of anyone pulling it of, so you might as well spend your time and effort somewhere else.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:04 AM
27

Twitter is a cesspool of Feminism and other extreme left wing propaganda. Going to twitter to find a woman that holds up to RP values is like going to a mosque to find a good Christian woman. That place is the polar opposite of what you want.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 06:58 AM
7

OP confirmed as gay.Jokes aside, I've been coming to the main RP sub since 2014-15. There is less toxicity, less people tearing each other down.But also less quality posts and answers. Back in the day you would post a question and get a really good and well though out answer, the discussions were interesting.Now it just turned into the same questions getting asked 10 times a day.This new generation doesn't take the time to read up before asking, which leads me to think they will never internaliz…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:13 PM
2

I'm in the same boat as you man. The key thing right now is to focus on yourself, make a list of all the improvements you wanted to do when you were together but didn't have the time, a relationship eats up allot of time, and start doing those. Soon you won't even care about women and they will come to you since you have your shit together. TDLR: Focus on number one, YOU.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:52 AM
63

Can also attest to this. I just broke of with my gf after 4+ years. A few months ago I let her see me at my weakest. Coincidence? I think not. You have to be a rock, the moment you crumble you lose your value.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 05:04 PM
1

This stopped being logical from the first line.
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:10 PM
1

also try z library
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:25 PM
6

"mansplaining" and other terms like that belong to a group whose sole purpose is to turn men into obedient mindless drones used for $$ and nothing else. Women will use those terms to put their daddy bux in place while still fucking the chad who simply doesn't give a shit about all this crap. The moment you hear a man using one of these terms steer far away from him he is another crab in the bucket. He is pure poison and should be avoided at all costs, he despises his own masculinity simple becau…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:55 PM
7

are you a fucking idiot?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:54 PM
0

"I don't like to pay for sex"
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:51 AM
10

Maybe don't even use it. Use your time in a more meaningful matter eg gym, study etc
/r/seduction23/05/18 06:12 PM
9

Murica!!!
/r/seduction19/05/18 12:08 PM
1

The way I see it this is just a shit test so any escalation will make you fail it. Or she is an attention seeking little bitch. Which means she will eventually cheat on you the moment some dude gives her the right kind of attention. In todays society being alpha doesn't mean kicking the ass of every guy that hits on your woman. You have to be the ONLY male in her mind and that doesn't come frome mate guarding we are not allot of apes banging our chests left and right in an attempt to establish d…
/r/seduction09/04/18 02:56 PM
7

Also from Romanian but left a few years ago. Since you are a programmer you must have a ton of disposable income right? Hit the gym. Get a personal trainer. Find one that will also help you with a food plan. Get some awesome clothes. And I don't mean the torn jeans and shiny shoes, your a man not a fuckclown. And read and reread the sidebar. Once you get fit a while new world will open up because it will also have a huge impact on the way you see yourself Ps shitty formating because I'm on phone
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:17 PM
8

Do obese women exists? All I see is blobs of fat, don't even bother considering them human
/r/askTRP11/04/17 07:56 AM
2

Are you serious? Single mothers only want some sucker to support them, they just need some dumb ass to pay the bills and help them take care of little tommy
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:00 PM
1

Well is she is married who says you can't pump and move one? If she isn't your going to have a hard time getting rid of her.
/r/seduction07/04/17 11:41 AM
2

You need to look for a wedding ring, if it's there then you can go ahead, if not assume she is a single mom a.k.a. social cancer
/r/seduction06/04/17 12:27 PM
3

No sex = no relationship
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:39 PM
5

Maybe her bringing it up is just a shit test? Women only bring up past experiences when they want to test your mettle.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 10:52 AM
1

I'm more into peer to peer myself. Used to play around with all the free virtual accounts on various platforms but never managed make a worthwhile profit
/r/askTRP06/03/17 10:25 AM
0

If he has the looks and body he wouldn't go for pigs like this on
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:55 AM
1

I go to the gym in the morning before going to work. I just grab a oats, yogurt, protein powder breakfast and am good to hit the weight within 30 minutes. But then again I am only able to do gym in the morning, I have no energy in the evening when I'm done with work.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:15 AM
1

Fact: Water is wet Fact : Fire is warm
/r/seduction24/02/17 01:16 PM
1

You misspelled dicks
/r/seduction24/02/17 01:13 PM
1

A woman will take any opportunity she has to fuck you if she wants to. They hamster everything away for a cock they want. She rejected you.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:00 PM
1

Cabbage and salad are the secret. They add allot of volume to meals with almost no carbs. Also fresh pineaple has lots of fiber tastes awesome and you use up more calories eating it and digesting it then you get from the actual fruit.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:54 PM
1

Instant purchase, thank you for all your work
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:33 AM
1

Thanks for all the replies, even the ones who try to put me down. They point out current flaws and I know that there are other areas that have to be improved. The post might have came out a bit more aggresive then I wanted to. Yes I have some ager issues to deal with and you guys are right most of them are most likely aimed towards how I was and how I still am sometimes and just projected in the wrong direction
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:26 PM
1

37 years old and still having roommates, man what a catch!!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:41 PM
14

Uh paternity test? I mean any guy accepting to raise a kid without that is throwing his life away, even if it's a LTR, better be safe and cover your ass than to raise some other guys kid. Whats the worst that can happen, the kid is yours and you showed her that you don't trust women, big deal.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:08 PM
11

Goo job man!! I'm so happy when I read posts from guys who went through hell and came back better men. Keep up the good work. One thing to note, since you still meet her when walking the dog, when she sees you are improving she will want you back, don't let nostalgia get the best of you, just go your own way.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 11:23 AM
1

I'm in a way better place, in the last 1 and half years I've been fixing so many issues, body, mind, career and I'm constantly fighting to keep on improving and am in full on MGTOW mode. My point was that you should definitely call it quits and move on, it might hurt like a motherfucker initially but you'll thank yourself for it later. A part of you will die there and then but that is a weak part that was never supposed to be there to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:54 PM
3

This is the start of a downward spiral man. My Ex cheated on me after we were 7 years together, lived together for 5 years, during all this time I was God and Beyond for her. But eventually I got a job where I spend more time at the office then at home, the relationship went cold and she ended up cheating. I thought that was a one time deal and gave her another chance, another chance for her to stab me in the back again. The second time I found out I just ended it there and then. My world collap…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:34 AM
17

"Ok, nice I made it. Give me next." That right there is exactly what you want. If you don't have the desire for the next goal you will just relax considering that stuff has been done. Right now you know you did something but there is so much more to achieve. I'll use my gym training as an example, when I initially started I was severely out of shape, couldn't even do a single pull up. So I set some goals, do dead lifts with a weights that is equivalent to my body weight, do 10 pullups, be able t…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:28 AM
3

They are actually a big company 1500+ employees, but it's a creative field so well constructed and educated criticism is always welcomed.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:57 PM
5

Basically yes, my critique was well constructed so it wasn't just for the sake of making me look like a know it all. I've seen allot of mentions of this book, definitely need to read it when I get some time
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:22 AM
3

It was actually a Skype interview and you know how those go. Shirt and boxers
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:01 AM
1

I didn't get mad, I actually found it sort of hilarious how those guys fell for it
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 09:55 AM
1

As someone who has been cheated on, and gave her countless chances which blew up in my face in the end I can only tell you to move on. Take it as a learning experience, you learned that women cannot be trusted and that if you slip into beta for one moment she will jump on the first D which is around. Just move on with your life, try to get her out of your mind, I know it's hard but it's doable, take some time for yourself, thing about what you want to improve, get fit, improve you professional l…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 08:09 AM
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