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It's considered an expensive life lesson. Throw a countdown app on your phone and start the timer haha.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 04:52 PM
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Ah the circle of life. Such a beautiful thing.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 12:55 AM
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Yeah me too... You can't even have a simple fucking relationship here without getting bent over.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 01:53 AM
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You live in Canada or US? Cancel that, I read your backstory. I live in Canada where spousal support is tax deductible IF... you make monthly payments. Lump sums aren't Tax deductible.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 03:22 PM
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I opted for the monthly payments just for the tax break haha. I'm pretty tight until 2025 lol. Good luck in the new year!
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 02:22 PM
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Ah you're in the long term boat. I actually heard from a reliable source it's cheaper to kill your ex wife and do the time. Free board and meal while you pet your investments grow 😆
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 10:34 AM
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I didn't start paying until ex was out of the house.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 03:10 PM
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If property was acquired prior to relationship you must split the gain/loss in value over the period of relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 06:04 PM
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I'm sitting around 3100 a month right now between CS and SS. Plus I have to throw in a 10% bonus anything over 163K I make anywhere between 200-300K a year. The struggle is real, I feel yea.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 10:12 AM
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Was a law that changed in 2020, used to be the matrimonial act which was now the family property act. So imagine my shock lol. If you live with someone in codependent relationship you might as well be married
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 09:17 PM
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He is on the hook for 50% of everything built in their relationship. Plus, 40-60% of his income for 1.5 to 2x the period of the relationship. I went through this recently. In Alberta. Not sure if Ontario is worse though.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 09:13 AM
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Even worse if Ontario is the same as AB. I dated 6 years, became common law at 3 years. I was on the hook for 6 years of 50% of my assets.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 09:09 AM
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You guys are lucky, I can't even live with someone without fearing they'll gut me for my high income. "Common law marriage" the most disgusting thing ever
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 09:16 PM
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In canada after 3 years living together you become "common law married". And they passed a family property act in 2020. So imagine as to my surprise I split up in 2022 and now my ex is "entitled" to 50% of my everything since 2016. Luckily, my ex wasn't a gut stabbing money hungry bitch like alot of people I hear on here. I owe about 30% of my base salary for 3 years, then drops to 15% for 16 years for child support. But I could be on the hook for 100K plus 5000 a month. Relationships are essent…
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 08:10 PM
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Just take her to the cleaners like any woman would do to a man lol.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 08:46 AM
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Wouldn't let this hold you back from having a healthy relationship in the future with a family. Just be aware this is the reality of what can happen. Try to protect yourself and your assets no matter what, you never know when things will flip and they'll want to gut you. The system is unfair. I wasn't even married and I was on the hook for 25% of my net worth since I was 18. Along with owing 25K a year in child support.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 10:56 PM
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Haven't been in a similar situation. Seems weird though that what you've done is something to get separated over. Having a few drinks and buying stuff for yourself and the family doesn't seem like a reason to end a marriage to me. Maybe this was the straw that broke the camels back situation, maybe she's been unhappy for awhile and finally decided to pull the trigger. Any previous warning signals?
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 10:01 AM
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I have considered it. Get away from the cold is a plus. I have 13 years in refinery experience. Unfortunately I don't see many companies offering work visas.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 07:50 PM
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Well, we went out on a couple dates and had sex one night. Me being young and dumb years ago didn't bother using a condom for sex and just finished with a bj. Cause you know can't get pregnant unless you cum in them right. My mind knew I fucked up, that thought in the back of my head. So I asked her you know just to be safe why don't we get a plan B pill. That's when the attempting to extort me for money came out. "If you help me with such and such bill I'll go with you and get the pill" "I need…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 01:35 AM
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Yea, was a real slap to the face. I can't live with someone for 3 years without getting a cohabitation agreement now.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 09:44 PM
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Very bad scene where I was. There was even a time where I was being blackmailed for money after a few dates.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 06:52 PM
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How small is this small town? I moved from a town of 60,000 to a city of 1.4M. Dating was way better. Quality and quantity wise.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 06:43 PM
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I do have multiple places. If you sleep under the same roof your fucked. If you become common law with someone for 5 years. They own half of the shit you accumulated in 5 years.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 03:22 PM
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All of canada, it's a federal law rolled out.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 03:15 PM
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Sadly that's canada now.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 06:02 AM
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Yea it floored me because I didn't even know it existed. Fucking liberals.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/22 06:01 AM
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If this was the the early ages I would be claiming they're witches 😆
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 10:19 PM
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No chat function yet?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 05:21 AM
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Mine was 3% lol. Is it too much to ask in this world to have a woman that's not married, not obese, and makes a moderate income 🤔
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/22 02:45 PM
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You guys are lucky atleast. I can't even live with someone in a relationship for 3 years without watching my back. They have "common law marriage" where I am. So bang 3 years living together she's entitled to 50% of the period of relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 03:59 PM
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Yea I have my lawyer. Figured I'd ask around online before asking her. Runs me 40$ a email lol.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/22 02:34 AM
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I get where you're at. I'm going through some shitty situation. 2yr old might be moving across the country with ex. Could be on the hook for up to 5k a month in support. 50% of all my assets for the last 6 years. I'm not even fucking married lol. Just have to weather the hurricane shit storms until you get to the brighter side of the shit sea.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 02:32 AM
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Thanks yea its a shitty situation all around.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 03:53 PM
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I'm working on some deal in mine that the cost of flights will be deducated from the spousal support/division of assets. 16 years of flights would cost me roughly 75K. So ill just pay my own way to travel and not pay her anything.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 04:22 PM
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Thanks, I havnt thought about Digital visitation time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 03:48 PM
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My pay goes from 275K to 60-75K. Really good pension at retirement in the range of 15-20K monthly. I'm looking at online/evening school to get a new career and just do internal transfers. I couldn't financially take the hit at this time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 03:47 PM
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Yea I'll just end up being a vacation dad. I work days/nights different every week. Sometimes I work a stretch of 4-5 months at a time of days or nights.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 03:33 PM
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Yea, I figured that. It sucks but my 90/10 is just how life goes I suppose.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 06:52 AM
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Alimony is the real kicker lol. If someone makes 250k here and the spouse makes zero. Could be on the hook for 5000 a month for the length of the relationship. PLUS child support if a kids involved
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 04:28 PM
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Yea, basically the entire system is rigged against anyone who tries to get ahead in life. A society full of bottom feeders trying to take the easy way in life. Liberal canada at its finest.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 12:33 AM
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Essentially in Alberta now if you have a child or live together 3 years you're considered common law which is Essentially married without a piece of paper. Anything you own in the period of your relationship is 50/50. Pension, investments, property, everything. On top of that you would have to pay alimony based off your annual income difference. For 1/2 up to 1 year per year of the relationship. Huge put off for me of ever living with someone unless I get them to sign legal documents. I had a ki…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 11:13 PM
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Yea unfortunately my relationship ended after the law changed. So I'm trying to wade through a shit storm now. Best to just never get married and always back up a relationship with signatures protecting yourself lol.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 06:22 AM
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I live in canada and they just changed the law in 2020 so you don't even have to be married to get fucked by alimony 😵.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 02:41 AM
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