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firstly also go out and be social with people, but don't put too much pressure to have immediate success, take small steps each time you go out = consistent improvement.
/r/seduction12/05/24 10:22 PM
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night game is important - you get a lot of " quantity experience" quicker, people are often out to be social, and you get get ONS easily. pushes you out your comfort zone and forces you to 'step up'. If you are being social with loads of people then 'approaching' is fluid and natural and NOT a big deal. (note - some of the other comments saying night game is bad are just completely misguided). ALL the old famous PUA gurus said you need to do night game. see what venues are open on the weekdays -…
/r/seduction12/05/24 10:17 PM
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for cold approach you need to do night game and day game. night game 3 times a week is optimal ( mid week, and weekends) day game at weekends, try and fit some in if possible in the week but really depends where you are located/work. don't be one of the socially challenged idiots on here "only" doing day-game cold approach = hardest way to meet women for a beginner. night game is easier to get results quickly.
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:48 PM
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Yes, all the pick up training said to go to night game - rich target enviroment- but don't drink much. If you want to get any where with pick up you need to compromise, many dude's don't seem to understand this.
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:39 AM
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Yes! Op is a classic posting on here: - wants to meet women - does not what to go to the places women hang out
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:37 AM
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Todd v is great wtch all hia stuff. Also look up on youtube Richard la ruina channel. He is his night game formula https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE?si=56PlkNxFA51MbhWG Alex social https://youtu.be/2-udpeTcY74?si=Ly-HZjtkE5r4xfMw Torrent old Real Social Dynamics training. Well amazing you do the diary. Amazing you go out a lot.keep doing it. AA comes and goes, but go out to have fun with all people and you are not really "approaching" you are just moving from person to person. Make sense? You still n…
/r/seduction24/03/24 09:56 PM
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Watch Todd V - night game plan. https://youtu.be/GBWtLFysmns?si=hTI9oEGxaCfsEG2U For obvious reasons it is almost opposite to day game, so you need to switch it up, be more assertive high energy etc, escalate. You give us no details, I expect you have been improving but you need to keep a diary to record your self progress and work out your weak points.
/r/seduction24/03/24 05:44 PM
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nd be cool like it was spontaneous, and I guess approach in places other than the mall since a lot of your work staff hangs out there apparently lol. That's really random tbh and almost like hitting the lotto to not o go to places where being social is expected - night life / parties / busy city center for daygame
/r/seduction23/03/24 05:21 PM
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Bro time to step up to the challenge! Project your voice, and get close up. Communication through Body language is crucial in this environment,use physical escalation. not deep conversations, quick and fun interactions, use statements e.g. " hey...who are you...you look like trouble". push pull, make then qualify, fun and flirty.
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:52 PM
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you are "over gaming", and it probably comes off as insincere, cocky and try-hard. you are likely spitting game when you don't needed to ( they are already attracted ) , its bad vibing, Good game is doing " just enough" - know when to ease off and match their energy/vibe, then built comfort with them.
/r/seduction17/03/24 02:09 PM
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If you are experienced you do not need other things to read. You will have developed your own natural style enough.
/r/seduction08/03/24 01:49 PM
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Where do I meet women? The apps don’t work for me and my social circle is so limited. I can’t go out by myself even tho I’m extroverted and feel incredibly lonely at times. Your Beliefs are holding you back. If your friends are holding you back - By necessity you have to go out Solo. Alternatively, you can be the “social organiser” and take a buddy with you, even if they are not wingmen they can be some social support. If you want this badly enough, you will work out how to make it work – I used…
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:51 PM
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Escalate better/more. Show intent Talk to me girls. Screen for dtf. Keep going out lot and lots
/r/seduction06/02/24 08:22 AM
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The age old saying - " if you want this enougth you will work it out "
/r/seduction03/02/24 03:34 PM
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OP from what you have said - You seem to be misunderstanding social circle, or at least seeing an idealised version of it. Also you seem to be expecting other people to do your work. Either this girl - doesn't want to or can't introduce you, you need to be doing this yourself. Be the coolest person you can be, charisma, authentic etc then this might start happening. In the mean time push your social circle size and get meeting loads more girls yourself.
/r/seduction03/02/24 01:42 PM
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The pojnt of game is to be meeting lots, you gotta really push your self to go out a lot to practice and get better.
/r/seduction02/02/24 07:53 AM
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It's also to be social and many friends but struggle. You are too platonic, not communicating man to woman nor showing intent, not escalating with them, playing it too safe in your Interactions. Edit - also not going out to places where single attractive women actually go, and doing it enougth, - should be lots.
/r/seduction02/02/24 12:08 AM
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Look up Todd V dating youtube he has lots of guides for escalation.
/r/seduction28/01/24 10:39 AM
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high rejections = need more practice, are you a beginner level ? do you know what you should be doing? when going out and approaching/talking to them? being flaked on = not having the girls attracted enough, looks like you need to work on your style/hygiene, this is really basic stuff that will stop any progress or success . + you'll give out better vibe when sorted. also learn to improve charisma
/r/seduction30/07/23 02:25 PM
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Cold approach is difficult for newbies and you need to be in a good social location. To be honest a Mall ( unless it's a very big one) is likely to not have that many options. Edit - to add well done for trying to do this it's scary. Try and change tour schedule so you get weekends free. Else progress will be slow, only picking you self and immersion will give good results.
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:23 PM
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Sure you are not doing 'nice guy behaviours' but for friends?
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:19 PM
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Julien blanc has a lot of good social circle videos look them up on youtube. It's about how you make the other people feel... as a logical person it takes more practice.
/r/seduction12/10/22 07:18 PM
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Always go it bro. All they can say is no. Many would be flattered at least.
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:17 PM
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Also look up the old Doc Love articles and his "The system". More focused about long term things. But is great for RL psychology and helping further understand interest level and being a challenge, and not making bad decisions. That + game = massive success.
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:03 PM
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Night game is much easier than day game to get results. Social environment already, higher concnetration women, day game has to be very fine tuned so easier to fuck it up.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:26 PM
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Todd valentine dating, Alex social. Richard la Ruina. All on youtube. Watch learn go out get laid.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:21 PM
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The confidence boost I would gain by fixing my physical ugliness might be enough to make approaching women and dating a viable endeavor for me. I would prefer surgery to remain a final resort, however, as I think there are far better things I could eventually put this money towards. maybe its worth looking into a life coach, who can help you work on health/weight and also your social skills = which will help your self image. you need to love yourself first bro. i know you can do this. its a mara…
/r/seduction18/09/22 11:06 AM
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Once you are good looking you will find that you don't even need to approach. Girls will approach you everyone needs to learn to approach
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:52 AM
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Do you guys ever worry about people you know running into you after you’ve hit on one of their friends, albeit unknowingly? I live in Sacramento (500,000 in the entire county), and people somehow know each other from one side of town to another. you are over worrying, 500K is a good size. if you are cool then its even a good thing. ​ I ask because I don’t want to develop a reputation as that guy “who approaches women” via day game. I have done only a couple of approaches with a couple of numbers…
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:36 AM
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Title sums it up - I want to see what I’d want to go for, but I’m guessing it’ll depend on the type of girl I come across. I noticed that my biggest limitation is the number of girls I talk to, thankfully I’m getting ‘exposure’ thanks to a hobby, but it isn’t enough and most women are at least a little older. ​ Good work there, give you exposure on communicating with women ( and the other guys there ). These are really great general life skill to have for all aspects of life ( work/dating/friend…
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:39 PM
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They're all having fun, I noticed other British guys are a lot more pushier than what I'm used to in my country. I'm quite shy, Any advice how to have sex with these girls in the club? ​ STOP BEING SHY, BE ASSERTIVE GO UP TO GIRLS, GO AND GET REJECTED, KEEP APPROACHING AND YOU WILL FIND SOME GIRLS TO KISS (AT LEAST) Read this report from a few years ago - this guys smashed this type of situation. http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/lay-reports/week-magaluf-with-dilla-vt191768.html
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:25 PM
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Take this as a constructive comment from one introvert to another ( you) Speak up and find your voice, be more assertive, take the lead sometimes, be the first to make a move and engage in some chat or banter....you have a lot to offer, but no one knows it....
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:37 AM
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Define what you mean by success... Keeping pushing your self each night, going out consistently, gradual improvement = success. Getting laid each night you go out = unrealistic. Getting laid new girls one or two a month = good and achievable....above average also.
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:22 AM
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Every thing moved to natural game which is magnitudes better on every level for game... Look up Todd V dating and Alex social. Both ex Rsd.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:58 PM
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TOP VIDEOS - more advice than any comment could ever give
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:34 PM
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hey buddy, you have a natural advantage, PLEASE don't squander this. most guys will never have girls going up to them, Now imagine you are good at going up and talking/flirting with girls - easily 4 or 5 times that amount go girls you can have. You could be a Legend. to start with please read through the Wiki https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/wiki/index/ for your questions - look up escalation in particular, but all other topics help
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:32 PM
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The best explanation of Social skill I heard was they are Just like a muscle, you can over time train it up and get bigger, but don’t over strain it. Each time try and make the first move or try and keep a conversation going (daily life, strangers, at work,) Small talk is essentially a form of “Vibing” (which comes harder to many introverts of course). Each time try to make one more approach than last time, or you can just chill and hang out (give out a good aura/vibe) and do an approach later, …
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:18 PM
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1) how are you meeting these girls, (a) in real life or (b) online? for online there are soo many guides how to open and what to say - how to stand out and generate attraction and interest , look this stuff up these up, if real life then you need to be firstly in person when you meet people. if you are only doing online, then you need to put yourself in social situations to meet girls. 2) have to read the seduction wiki to start with? everything there : e.g. online dating, how to talk, inner gam…
/r/seduction21/08/22 11:51 AM
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That's introvert versus extrovert and not all geeky or nerdy esque people are introverts. NO correlation - lots of introverts like to party as well , on the flip side there are a good number of extroverts don't like partying either
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:21 PM
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buddy these questions are too basic, go read the WIKI on this community, then expand online for tips and guidance. at university - get to parties and student bars/clubs. join societies to (a) expand your network for guys and girls and get known around (b) meet girls too. (c) they will have parties too get your style/grooming/fitness good, join gym etc/sports groups, improve your vocal skills etc.... most info is online or in the wiki link.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:14 PM
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see it like a social circle, no hard approaching at all. ensure you are talking and chatting with everyone and are good at "Banter", including some flirty banter. see who is responsive to this.... make sure you are getting involved in all activities, and are not sitting at the back, put yourself forward and knowing by all in the group. they and Lead the group in things like decision making/activities, have the group reacting to you, be seen as a condifent/leader person not a follower. put your d…
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:08 PM
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definitely financials are important to have sorted out. have it as some goal, maybe your next job move but ensure its in a city where you can have more life experiences. deep down you want these judging on the post you made, give yourself those options. in the mean-time, smash the gym, join some clubs and groups ( co-ed ones best ), improve your general socials skills,..... go travelling and stuff.... develop your best self and personality further...
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:45 PM
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Seems like the only solution is to move. Bingo, Staying in a small town is a Massive Opportunity Cost versus a city. if you are inexperienced, lots of people/venues to practice approaching, if you are naturally good you quickly exhaust the available supply.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:48 PM
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add in a bit of banter and see how they respond....
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:57 PM
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not really sure why you are getting down voted so much on other comments.... if you are socially astute and smooth then your approaches on a whole will not be overly obvious, you are just a cool social guy who women love talking to and reacting positively to you ( this will help and act as pre-selection). ...... but if you are are just socially awkward also making really obvious approaches then yeah you stand out but for bad reasons, so don't be this kind of person. occasionally yo will get call…
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:53 PM
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I can’t even begin to explain to you how relieving it feels to shave it all when you’ve been fighting with your hair for years. OH yeah....this is one of the most liberating feelings in the world. especially when it is thinning on top and still thick on the back/sides.
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:58 AM
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The thing is when I like a girl or interested it takes up all of my mind and time, like it’s annoying Yeh you need to NOT do this. You should be learning to flirst with all girls, be a cool approachable guy who can talk to anyone. Be flirty with all girls and see which ones a receptive. Don't focus on one single person ( you have a made up image in your head of them). Like The poster above said Do BOTH, its not one or the other. Be the best you can ( academically but also socially) join clubs an…
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:32 PM
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I also have a friend through being friendzoned and made a conscious decision of continuing a friendship with. this situation isn't good for you .. if you never met them before and only wanted to date then Drop them. (if you are part of a wider social group already together suck it up and work out how to DNGAF/move on) If you have read my post, you would know that I have female friends, quite a few in fact. These are women I had no second intentions from the beginning. keep these people, its good…
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:45 PM
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Most guys don't get much it is definately a myth created by media /movies. Most guys only get the odd hook up and the majority of guys who are getting laid do it by a LTR. Only a few guys are having a lot of action with different/new girls. There is a great post on the SOSUAVE forums about this exact issue. Even guys in the top Greek fraternities don't get that much and again mainly in LTRs.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:28 PM
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Good. But you need to go where the hot women are too
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:48 AM
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I'm looking for a relationship. you need to put yourself in locations/situations where women are out to socialise/hang out and where you can meet a lot of them=>more options and more likely to be receptive to you. not just when people are going about their business, much fewer options and less likely to be receptive.. edit - there was a very good recent tread on another forum about unless you go out your way to be in these social places, you wont get many options, you just don't meet enough opti…
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:38 PM
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you did good cancelling the date, always ensure that you are communicating man to woman so they know its a date and don't pull this crap again on you.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:53 AM
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Give them time to wonder about what you are up to. Don't be too avaliable.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:46 PM
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Remember if you feel wierd they will feel wierd and pick up on your awkwardness killing any vibe you had.... , some contact is very normal, start of small and during an interaction increase the intensity/types very slowly, this is all very subtle and back off if they are not conformable with you at that moment, its the same principle for verbal escalation and how you flirt/talk to them. These two combined = powerful. Have a look online for "pua physical escalation" and "pua verbal escalation". M…
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:38 PM
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You need to be able to screen out the peole who will "waste your time".... you need to do some escalation - gentle flirting and some physical escalation ( however mild and subtle) if they are not avaliable they won't respond, if they are not interested in you they won't respond, then you can tell they are just a friendly person and either move on or just continue the freindly vibe. But at least you know where you are. ( this is also called man to woman communication rather than platonic....) Edi…
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:38 PM
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It happens everytime. I'm a really introverted guy and i get shot down by my friends instead of getting help or at least some enthusiasm from them. They never go talk to a girl and i think that this is killing my chances with girls. I think that i lost so many chances. for an introvert social ' momentum' is crucial ...... you need to build up your social momentum through the night, rather than replying on your buddies ( who have none). Its impossible to go from standing still with your buddies, …
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:10 PM
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if you really want this you will find a way... i sent you some links on PM have a look.... ​ I already have That mindset but I feel like it’s impossible to get a girlfriend if your not a social dude like most people get their girlfriends at Party’s clubs or friend circle tje thing I’m not taking part in any of those I just have friends and not circles i know it easy to say here, but work on making a bigger social network, join clubs where yo u meet people, find people to party with and go out wi…
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:36 PM
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The only way to deal with this is to hit it head on, put yourself in the situations you are scared of, but understand that it’s a long term change, and improvement takes time, it will be awkward at first but if you embrace it you can enjoy the process, and the improvements.. Start off small, making small talk with all people, with no exceptions, get comfortable in clubs/bars and approaching all strangers etc… Also quit with the “shy guy” self-image, change how you see yourself and carry yourself…
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:40 PM
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Most dudes do not have a good social circle for women. Period. This is why cold approach is an essential skill for a a guy...
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:01 AM
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You are absolutely right. Busy load clubs work will to an introverts skills. Less talking needed, and more physical aspect.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:43 PM
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Do you actually know how to flirt? How to escalate with a girl? How to communicate "man to woman" not platonically?
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:25 PM
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Why did she ask you this? Do you act or say things that signify it? On the jokes - you need to calibrate. Stop offending people. Make them feel good.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:17 PM
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Tood v on you tube for a start he is very good. There are other good advice too. You also need to go out and practice practice practice.
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:28 AM
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1 - you have good friends from what you say don't underestante what a good situation this is for you. Many guys never have this ever. 2 - don't compare yourself to them. They have been doing it for a while 3 - so you have approached what 3 girls? Keep approaching. Jeep pushing the progress a ting but each time 4 - you need to be approaching don't expect the girls to approach you. Bring value. Say funny or cool shit and lead lead lead. Escalate eascalate escalate. 5 - lots of tips online how to i…
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:26 AM
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not sure if allowed to put links video it called "How To Increase Your Social Status: Advanced Secrets To Becoming High Value!" on JulienHimself.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:53 PM
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Tyler has a video on YouTube where they talk about pinging ( more of a social skills video ) but it's a powerfully point These people run at full authenticity, take them or leave them. Unapologetic who they are. Not trying to be liked or look cool - this makes them cooler. You end up with more peole who love 'you' ( guys and girls) . Every one should be more like this. Edit - some peole who are like this are really successful. Not every one is a dropout. It's a weak correlation.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:36 PM
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Stop feeling sorry for yourself and being scared little girl. You need to Escalate! She needs to be thinking "he is gonna lay be if I stay talking to him".....
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:30 PM
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You are complaining but you've poorly targeted them in some ways.... Most of these places have families and/or tourists and so won't have a good proportion of hotties, Especially in the day time. Proportion will be more representative of the general population Picadilly and Shoreditch have good night life the proportions will be much higher at those times.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:27 PM
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To need to put your ego in check. Currently you are aiming too high and failing. Even if you got lucky with say an 8 your inexperience will show and lose them. get experience with the average girls first, your indifference should make them chase you and you also get the life experience to deal with situations and pther women , keep it casual and dont commit .... In addition work on meeting better girls and having a stronger offering ( game) to people... . Gradually work your way up.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:07 PM
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its not a rejection of YOU, its a rejection of that particular timing and approach ( + hundreds of other life 'things' in the background you can't control)
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:47 PM
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Sounds super fun…..I have some great memories of these holidays. What resort? Some pointers from a good few years of experience: The good news is that the laws of picking up (“game”) are no different, and everyone is up for a party. You need to hit the ground running, scope out the best bars/clubs for pulling, don’t get ‘stuck’ in the bars that don’t help you achieve this. Make sure your buddies are on this point too. Need to be 200% super approaching and chatty with everyone, don’t hold back (b…
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:31 PM
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Dude you can find it for free if you are not sure about it. It's still good even if you had a good upbringing - even if a dude is not a full "nice guy" - many dudes are just very decent kind people but not assertive or honest about why they act/reasons for behaving - it gives you some good mind set points to be more honest or real. It won't really get you girls - only learning to approach and flirt will. Edit - grammar.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:25 PM
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Now go approach. Also se my pm.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:52 PM
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I meant your internal game and how you see yourself. :-)
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:43 PM
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Remember that you are already good enough and worthy of success
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:37 PM
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yea i have same problem, im 30 now and cant be fucked going drinking and to clubs so i have to approach during day. And everybody knows daygame is shit. so you cant be bothered with night game but day game isnt working for you? do you even want to improve? (you don't need to get drunk/drink much when you go out...)
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:41 PM
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you clearly have good interpersonal skills when you have 'Hooked' the girls as you have a good date 'conversion' rate.... it is clear that you need to focus on the initial approach ( obvious right?) if you want to get good and as quickly as possible, you need intense immersion and approaching - good night life venues can give you that intensity and quantity of girls…. that environment also allows you to make mistakes/experimentation/pushing boundaries which will make you learn faster. People are…
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:26 PM
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its not clear, a girl was DTF, and you went to a party with her.... but you refused to do the F part ? ​ rest of the report was good ...
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:45 AM
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Just go! Have fun talk to random people don't have too high expectations, just be social. By simply going out you are winning.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:31 PM
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There are online websites for this lol uk based ones too.. .
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:25 PM
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Tood v also does a lot of night game. Sounds like you are Not doing this It's easier and you get better/more results quicker. If you are not going to parties, bars/clubs, general social groups whilst at u iveristy you are making your life pointlessly hard.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:17 PM
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Another great report A good verbal technique that I use is hyperbolic statements. You say shit that's so wild/crazy that the only way to take it is as a joke.......... It's a hyperbolic statement. Like I just met this girl and I'm talking about babies. Of course I'm kidding. It's good because it's an easy way to sexualize the conversation in a joking way. SUPER SUPER IMPORTANT - EVERYONE PLEASE DO THIS WHEN OUT. HYPERBOLIC STATEMENT WORK WONDERS. Massive part of my own approach and works very we…
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:28 PM
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1) only you can make yourself take this step, stay celebrate or get shit sorted!? 2) its not creepy, stop all these "incel" posts making you worried about it.... there is a slient majority of readers here who don't post and just go out and try it, and get results/improve.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:04 PM
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It shouldn't be and isn't from my experience. Please ignore the people who say the crap aviation being creepy. It isn't an issue for a normal dude with basic social skills. You need to start going out to practice approaching and get experience. This builds to better results and sucess..
/r/seduction24/04/22 11:04 PM
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Went out, wasn't in a good mood at the start, couldn't approach.... decided to chill and hang/vibe in the club .... later on meet two girls and have threesome....glory everyone needs to remember that good stuff happens when you keep going out and push yourself , don't give up, you can get many rejections, but you just need one good approach and the night turns to amazing.
/r/seduction23/04/22 10:03 AM
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The fact this is being asked means you have already lost. You need to get good with all / any girls and get experience - then you can improve your league level.
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:35 PM
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its a mixture of these two A) for some girls they are probably shit testing you, and you keep failing. and for the others b) its an excuse rejection rather than the honest answer why they are rejecting you
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:36 AM
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This post just sounds like massive rant and that you don’t want to bother learning to have better social skills – it sounds like you just offend everyone and have the “subtly of a bulldozer.” I’ve seen people like this and it just rubs everyone wrong. Also sounds like you see these other women as objects and not humans. You need to learn how to vibe and make people feel good about themselves. Else well you won’t get anywhere much.
/r/seduction11/04/22 07:06 PM
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Watch Todd V on YouTube. Good stuff.
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:17 PM
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If you don't want it. Don't do it. Be authentic to yourself that is important. If anything you weed out the annoying bitches and find ones who more align with your personality and values. Do ensure that you are the most charismatic person ever in real life and then they won't care anyway.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:51 AM
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How long how this girl been living ‘rent free’ in your head? Don’t be angry it only affects you. This is a good example of how the “real world” works, you could have been in a LTR or married with this girl and then have it happen, so you got off with no problems. Its good you saw this early on in life, many dudes learn this MUCH later, at great cost. Use the anger to see how you can become a “ good guy” – the nice guy but with “game” who understands how attraction works, has a strong personality…
/r/seduction03/04/22 12:15 PM
1

Bro, you don’t seem to get the points, as that is a typical Nice-Guy reply. Please do some googling about it, look up “No more Mr nice guy” book. Sure your situation is definitely an extreme example, and girls that age are often idiots. But you are logically listing reasons why you are a nice/better person - attraction is not logical it is emotional…. these asshole guys trigger attraction and all the emotions with it. The GOOD news is that any dude can be attractive but also Not an asshole is a …
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:53 AM
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bro realise you are acting like a typical " nice guy". the asshole she ended up with gives her emotions and excitement, and makes her work for it. nice guys don't.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:22 PM
38

One of your life aims if you want to get good at this move to a city....
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:32 PM
6

Night clubs / bars are best for most progress. Everyone is primed for social time and flirting.... Use OLD as a supplement but make sure you know how to work it effectively. Edit - nightclubs are places you can fuck up and no one cares. You can really push and try new shit see what works to improve your socail skill and 'game'. It's a good place to push yourself to 'step up' and be assertive and proactive.
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:06 PM
1

you don not need to rush. Work on your social network at that age, get invited to parties. Learn to be a General charismatic and social person, learn how to approach new people and flirt but Do not be a stereotypical "weird PUA guy".
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:13 PM
1

You say that "meeting girls is out of your control"... On the contrary, it's fully within your control - you need to go out and meet them, go to bars clubs etc. and approach get used to the social dynamics, by doing this you get past basic rejections and get good results.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:28 AM
5

Did u get the chicks number to make a meet up later on ?
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:19 AM
2

remember you also need to go out and approach like a BOSS.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:58 PM
1

Todd V . Older RSD videos and channels, Richard la ruinia ( gambler) among others.
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:48 AM
2

Real socail dynamics they were the biggest pick up advice very very good. Todd V in you tube was from there. Watch his stuff.
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:41 PM
1

Good for you dude. Night game is amazing - where else is there such a concentration of girls already socially primed ( no where else in normal life does). I've god many hot and high quality girls, miles, threesome. Approaching is scary ( to start with ) and approach anxiety is a thing - but after a while no big deal. Always start off making random small talk to everybody that means it's not a big deal when you meet hotties. Don't worry to start with being too ' successful' just get used to being…
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:22 PM
1

OP, you are getting "shit-tested" and you are failing them - see other people's more detailed replies on this, and google this are you only approaching in a gym? it's not clear... But you need to GTFO more and approach more whilst also improving your game. youhave a natural advantage with good looks, Dont waste its by having shit Game.
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:37 PM
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with that reply i can't tell if you are a troll or not? literally loads of information out there, and on the r/seduction side bar. theres NO places you can go to meet girls? BS my dude..... and you dont get any success on OLD but only want to try that? wow
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:08 PM
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I haven't gotten anywhere with women except a few dates. Haven't slept with anyone in nearly 2.5 years either. Since I graduated college meeting women has been very hard. I can only use dating apps and I don't really feel like I could ever meet anyone in real life since I'm so different from most people. Covid has F*cked every thing up, but meeting people is only hard if you don't try. Why can you ONLY use dating apps? you are jsut not trying any other way. The only girls that show any interest …
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:47 PM
1

What the person is saying is that you have come across with a negative self image and belief. People pick up on that when you meet them.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:02 PM
17

Please don't wait ..... start making proactive changes to your situation ASAP.....
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:00 PM
1

Well don’t do this = stand awkwardly, bad body language, staring at people etc… Build up momentum through the night and keep moving, keep talking to people. But Sometimes you need to chill out – keep a good vibe and body language. Look for “ solo game pick up” = loads and loads of guides already there… that will cover anything
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:35 PM
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Mate… It’s not about notches, it’s about “abundance” and having choices NOT living in “scarcity”. To go from inexperienced to competent you need to go out and meet a lot of women, its also very fun… at some point would end up getting serious with one….but you now choose rather than getting ‘scraps’. not sure how you are not already getting this from these ‘comprehensive literature sources’ ( which ones are they ? )
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:22 PM
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careful, you will blow peoples minds on this sub with stuff like this .... ( well done BTW , and enjoy the Abundance lifestyle...) ​ I rarely tested this stuff though, because of anxiety and fear of rejection. imagine how many more you could have had! anyway no better time than the present to keep going and find new plates to spin.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:03 PM
4

well done....more action that 98% of people on this sub
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:51 PM
4

Wow some really useless comments here. Well done you for taking action – more balls then most guys already. You are experiencing approach anxiety, and outcome dependence – look these terms up… Don’t place so much emphasis on an ‘outcome’, start off small and get used to being social with anyone and making small talk to strangers …. enjoy being out and around people, you can expand your extroverted side gradually. Go out for fun which includes approaching, don’t be creepy room scanner. Lots of ad…
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:49 PM
1

truly a bizarre question. you can meet them anywhere, depending on your social skills and social network. do you have any friends? ever heard of OLD? you can literally google this if you have no clue or are you just lazy? Why not bars or clubs? sounds like you are stereotyping the people who go to those places...
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:33 PM
3

great post - keep up the effort and you will definately have more success. What is the missing Step 5 in my process? What do I do to pump the gas on a flirty conversation to finally close? In The Game, Style uses phase-shift routines, but that just seems so heavy-handed in 2022. Maybe I just need to bite the bullet and try? When I get that far along in an approach I start to get worried about fucking it up, but if I think about it logically, it doesn’t matter. If I get timid I’ll fuck it up for …
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:59 PM
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its called " spinning plates" - limit the amount of times you see them and don't do " dates". you need to be honest if they ask but don't be too upfront, remember deep down they like some competition. some girls will bail, you lose some you win some.
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:00 PM
1

You gonna feel like a boss once you have done it! If you don't go you'll keep thinking what if.... Why are you bothered about ethnicity? If anything, you can make jokes about the situation = easy. What are they / you?
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:23 AM
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. To me, getting laid is such a big part of feeling good as a guy. Because it is AWESOME! it's even better if you have gone out, Learned it and experienced your own progress becoming better! THEY ARE FULL OF SHIT. Most DO desire it, they have NO idea how to do it. Most are also too Lazy to go out and learn game, they don't want to put in the effort, and get rejected. Humans are lazy, they are taking the easy way out., the comfortable way of not doing anything. Because it is AWESOME! it's even be…
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:42 PM
1

Yes although it's a basic foundation. Learning the skills to approach and chat up women is what will get you the sucess ( loads online for this )
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:43 AM
1

Mate, the super hot girls do not use OLD. They have more then enoughth options in real life. You need to be in their social circles or another very high value guy. Get rid of this fantasy- all you just need ate the normal girls but screen for the hot ones.
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:02 PM
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Counter argument incoming: you don't have good game and are probably going to poor venues. Seriously someone who is doing well will not say this. As you are a little bit older, you need to avoid the 18 year olds clubs and go to the higher end venues, for the better quality women.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:13 PM
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You need to learn how to 'escalate'... Also if you don't go out then you arnt giving yourself much opportunity to meet women. How do you expect to meet them...only by OLD? How's that going?
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:45 AM
3

Mate chatting up women is a learnable skill. If You go out and practice, you will get good at it. Anyone can do it.
/r/seduction30/01/22 09:29 AM
1

Game is Amoral. Anyone who says it is immoral is just giving a lazy take, it's actually more a positive - you are making yourself a better person who brings more to the world and people meet this Better you. sure you could lie and try to manipulate people but this is not only a lot of effort, you'll also get caught out. much better to be honest, confident, and unapologetic in yourself and your actions => this will also lead to better matches ( a win-win for everyone)
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:07 PM
6

Mate, great start ..... please note that if you want get good you will need to hit this harder. 1 approach a day won't give you the practice and feedback needed and you want. You need to be getting to places where there are lots of women - join groups or do activities with lots of women congregate - dancing, vollenteering. Etc.... And regardless if you like them or not bars/clubs have a very high conentration of people out to socialise and approach. Even if day gaming you need to go to busy area…
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:24 AM
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I don’t have the confidence to approach women at bars or cold approach. NO, you get out to bars and clubs and approach. if you are serious about this you do this. if you wanna get good you need to go where the high concentrations of women are, in a place where everyone is in a social mood already. it doesn't make sense not going to them
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:31 PM
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You are going well ( best you can do in circumstances). There is a point of diminishing returns in terms of looks, obviously keep working on that but you probably have done majority of this already. The most effective things now for attractiveness that you can improve easily and quickly will be the non visual and non physical things- great body language/facial, vocal tone, and then social skills and being a great communicator, and learning good game. These will take you to the top levels.
/r/seduction30/12/21 12:06 PM
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Its the first thing that come suo after searching. But have read other articles that come in between 6 to 8 ish. Also just life experince of other dudes, here is a shit ton out there who have only a few.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:15 AM
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Lol was thinking outside university. If you are in a reasonable location, do night game and have reasonable skills, also do some OLD. 10 should be no problem and 20 if you try harder. Or at least you don't need to accept a mediocre gf and have abundance.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:12 AM
2

The average guy is about 7 people on their lifetime. You are doing well already..... But If you really wanted to you could easily hit 20 + a year
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:29 AM
1

I used to live in a small town and drive for Friday night game to get some "social momentum" and it made the Saturday night much better in my local town. Lots of stuff online and YouTube just by searching, or looking for tips etc. I reccomend Todd V to start with but there are also other good guides/people around. Good luck
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:05 PM
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Lots online about these or other people doing this... Go out and get comfortable being social / meeting random people, don't put too much pressure on yourself to be successful at the start. Try and find other people who like going out/being social/picking up. are you at college otherwise or live in a city - work out how to cultivate a more social life and how to meet girls in those environments where you usually live. Edit ( missing text) just go out on your own if you have bad friends. It is no…
/r/seduction24/12/21 10:59 AM
1

Bossy? What video was that? Well anyway f you want shit to happen for you then you gotta lead people and be commanding etc 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:30 PM
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they were the biggest PUA company, probably as they were one of the best. no more creepy than anyone else. you might not like particular instructors, but there are a few of them - own/tylre, jeffy, alex, julian, todd, madison + more ( todd now does Todd V on you tube which is good )
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:56 PM
2

careful with mystery method it is old school PUA not more Natural PUA stuff
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:50 PM
1

Any of the old Real Social Dynamics programs - torrent them Gambler - ( torrent them) Love systems ( torrent them) Todd V on youtube ( ex RSD ) don't forget you NEED to go out and practice LOADS.
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:49 PM
2

Are you the guy that previously said the UK sucks? If you live in a small town then you need to get creative. • Does your town have ANY small nightclubs? • When you get your car Drive to other close-by towns to do night game, even drive to Birmingham center. • Get working on OLD and be tactical about it /learn how to do it well • Join any clubs or groups / teams in your area for general social life
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:45 PM
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Get these friends to go out wo bars and clubs with you. If you have really good female friends Getting them to act as wing women is incredibly powerful.
/r/seduction12/12/21 12:03 AM
7

Many People on reddit like to think that the only thing that matters is being tall and really handsome, self excuses not to try.....
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:22 PM
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Take it as a learning experience! Remember to set the frame up early for the casual relationship. Be unapologetic in your wants /desires....if they play games then simply drop them.
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:24 AM
2

Exactly sunshine. All these people saying it's so much harder. More a reflection on themselves.... the fundamentals are the same.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:48 PM
37

It's a British thing - always mention the weather!
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:55 AM
3

OP you did fine, you gotta learn from experience and lessons, might be a bit raw now but at least you were not 2 years in with her. on wards and upwards !
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 07:11 PM
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Go to bars/clubs that have an older crowd....easiest location to meet them... Alternatively ( or also) there are some niche OLD sites for this...
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:48 PM
5

Bro she is so not interested. The answer to most problems = get new /more girls
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:38 PM
8

It's great you have decent friends. Remember you are who you hang out with - it's better the be the worst In a good group, than the best in a bad group- make sense? Being an introvert doesn't mean you have to be quiet all the time, especially in a club environment. I'm an introvert but I love clubs and I can switch to a much more social extrovert persona. You will need to match your fiends energy to some extent. As an introvert you need to warm up your "social muscle", Learn how to do that early…
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:27 PM
4

She proably thinks " how does this guy not realise I don't like him"...... she thinks she just FZ you and you don't get it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:38 AM
1

Why are you wasting your time doing this? What does it actually achieve? Nothing.....! You can not repeat this scientifically - every situation and womens emotion is changing each time.....
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 11:36 AM
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Point 5 is good but can be hit or miss. Its tricky to get a balance of friends who like going out consistantly - like the idea of approaching/ picking up - supportive and don't cock block. Sometimes you have go solo!
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:17 PM
3

Also that they give up after only a little bit of trying and obviously failing / being rejected at the start of going out. Course you'll be bad to start with.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:03 PM
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Teach yourself to be a charty approachable and magnetic personality + good SMV = devestationg in even mundane situations.
/r/seduction14/06/21 06:41 PM
1

STOP OLD and go out and meet women. YOU can show your real vibe and personality and get real feedback from the rejections/failures /and success. there is a "way" to hit OLD, most guys just don't have the charisma/banter / correct approach to do it well and take to too seriously, putting all their eggs in the OLD basket. if you include all the other reasons its bad = shit show. look up OLD methods if you don't do it and still want to try. also when they say they have a BF, its often just a shit t…
/r/seduction13/06/21 05:16 PM
2

k you have no influence on wheth DaviD De angelo - what a classic book !!!
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:47 PM
1

look up the old RSD videos ( torrent them ) for lots of good tips and tricks. see what ideas you like/ fit your personality and try them out in real life.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:36 PM
2

most people trash talking have no actual experience...
/r/askTRP02/06/21 06:42 PM
2

This girl is an immature gold digger...
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:41 PM
2

OP DO IT. banging a 4/5 is MUCH better than your hand and putting on Youporn. break the dry streak and get some momentum going to meet newer hotter girls.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:44 PM
0

his current standard is 0 - hes not getting anything. banging a 4/5 is MUCH better than his hand and putting on Youporn. get some momentum going to meet newer hotter girls. OP DO IT.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:43 PM
1

Big respect to wanting to be able to approach its something even most good looking guys don’t do. Approaching is NOT creepy ( except if you think you are creepy then you will give off that vibe) . You already have a head start with being "good" looking. it’s scary at first, but after while you realise it no big deal rejection is not any bother and it not usually brutal, learn how to show Intent ( man to woman communication) and escalation, and read their reactions etc… you will soon become congr…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:33 PM
1

dude it is pretty basic points, you'll need to do some self homework here. find a style that works for you ( not too try hard), work out and learn about body language. also work on your "vibe" learn how to be more charismatic, and approachable.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:09 PM
1

i've seen this before ( had it happen to me a school age) - people like this are the ultimate little bitch, they have a need for attention, people love them as they are good at sucking up and stroking peoples egos, often they create drama/situations they can be in the middle of, all the other friends have no idea its going on.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:01 PM
1

the real test is taking him out to meet girls.... how does he cope? how does he find approaching and being rejected =. he is a newbie it will happen ..... A) does he look at all these women and see the potential, and seem eager? if so he is good to go .... B) does he get deflated at the first rejection and scared shitless of approaching ( even thinking about it ?) = not ready ow or ever....
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:11 PM
1

Move out but don't rush into it and end up making yourself financially poor or end up in a shitty living situation. Don’t move out until you have some kind of emergency fund to cover unexpected problems or costs. Important considerations: Have you decided what area you will live in? you want to be logistically close to the ‘nightlife area’ as much as possible. you will massively cock block your life it you end up living in a bad logistics location... Will you live with people in a shared house/f…
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:35 PM
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Truth! ... fact is guys gotta trim down on other stuff If they really want to get the time to get good approaching/ improve their game. OP clearly isn't invested enough to want this..... its a nice dream for him. To anyone reading this - obviously there is a balance in life but this should be a very important part of your life and you should make the time to get experice and practice ( out approaching/dating) - that is how you get better.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:27 PM
1

Dude the Rsd stuff is gold. Fins out which of the instructors you like ( might be a mix of things) and see what works for yulour personality. Try it. Make screw ups. Learn / improve. The fact you even approached is ahead of most men. If you enthalpy keep improving eventually you'll have multiple girls on the go, hotter girls, all who worship you ....
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:50 PM
1

Mate smash a few new girls and you won't care anymore. Better to cut it off if it's not right than hold out for longer ... trust your gut feelings. Not sure when bars and clubs will fully open but get out there ASAP! . Maybe try OLD in the mean time.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:52 PM
2

i'm very curious.... what do you think has made her have such a high count... is she needy? just loves fresh willy or what? a swinger?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:19 PM
2

Sounds like you have some good guys to hang with. Good luck you are gonna have some epic adventures if you stick with it. Your best night will become become Your average night 4 months later... You'll end up punching much above your level, hotter girls, multiple girls on the go, maybe even threesome etc.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:22 PM
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NO you wont, because you will drop her right away, so you wont care. Get this toxic mess out your life...
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:18 PM
1

beard or not depends on the person, some people look better with stubble, some look better with beards
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:05 PM
2

bro, loads of guys go bald early ( or thin so much they shave it off) - grow a good beard, get jacked, reduce body fat to improve jaw line,...... after getting jacked, wear fitted tops. you are projecting your insecurity , people are not judging you,
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:01 PM
3

Honestly it will probably be pretty tough. Especially if you are inexperienced and/or rusty. You need to find your own vibe, that takes time to be fully congruent. Take it step by step, don't worry about about Not making quick progress, all progress is good, baby steps each time.keep a game diary where you do write up as it helps internalise what you did good/bad. IF you have never approached before, even getting past 'AA' is a big step, that is progress, most men never even approach. Make sure …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:40 PM
3

Unlucky situation dude. I've seen I happen... they don't want to let you to be a better person. Its the crabs in a bucket mentality. Is this your main friend group? If they basically are - Can you ease off a bit /don't be so upfront about TRP lifestyle in front of them?
/r/askTRP18/03/21 07:26 PM
1

Please F close her.......I would love to see the look on their faces when they find out she's hooked up with you...
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:52 PM
7

I read a field report once where a dude banged some twins.... epic....
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:52 PM
6

Dude, If you are not currently getting anything then banging the lower quality women will give you momentum..... momentum is very underappreciated and very important. Easier to go from a 4 to a 7 than from zero/nothing to a 7.... As other guys have said it gives you the subconscious abundance than women can sense.... Edit - guys who get laid the most only rate chick's yes or no. Bang or not. Some average chick's will be fun and possibly a good lay. ( just like you can get hotties who are poor la…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:56 PM
3

Designated ugly fat friend !!
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:08 PM
1

All women are scared of getting "stuck on the shelf " .....
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:55 PM
8

bro, surely that is just taught you how to screen chicks 100% and you have solid red lines/ behavior that you wont allow (unlike most other guys) .... this should make the top quality girls worship you as a super strong male 'frame'....? you'll only put up with and seriously date the top quality women ( in terms of personality/values/loyalty ...etc...)
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:14 PM
4

have experience here... just treat her like any other chick, although women in MILF zones usually are be less into playing games and so you can be more direct and flirty/sexual, just be flirty confident and have fun..... women at MILF stage can often get kinky and more experimental as they just wanna have a good time and are more confident than young immature women.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:07 PM
7

bro facial features are stuff you are born with, yes you can lower you body fat and you should ensure your beard/stubble suits you...... apart from that accept who you are and OWN it.... focus on the shit you can change.....
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:01 PM
3

the other replies have given some good points - lower bodyfat ( but this will take a time to achieve) and getting good bred/stubble style that suits you makes you look more masculine. neither is a magic bullet. apart from that, this is focusing on stuff that you have no controls over - genetics - and having a better jaw line wont make your game much better, it is no magi bullet either..... there are 100 + other tings you can improve that you DO have control over...... going out and approaching, …
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:58 PM
20

Lol saying 'option' half implies he has a chance.... kept as a bit of attention and orbiter more like...
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:24 PM
1

Everyone can understand your point and everyone has been there.. Its annoying reading that everyone puts him on a pedestal, but most other guys are simps. Luckily men a man's value is not defined by looks ( as women are) so you can improve every aspect of your life. Join him. Remember he probably relies on his looks but improve your game and hussle and 'join him'. Game beats looks. You can probably be a super masculine version of him with sick game.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:28 AM
6

Dude you are only meeting trash girls because you must be hanging out in such areas and with young and student types...... go to the more upmarket bars/areas etc and you'll find them. Also move to a more upmarket area ( eg london) loads of nice middle class totty around here....
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:48 PM
1

I wonder how you could tell..... 🐴🐴🐴
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:42 PM
3

Dude.....this happens more than you'd expect..... Most guys can not and do not approach so many many guys end up with a girl who actually made the first move themselves ( or enough of a move so the guy can move it along ).
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:05 PM
1

21 y/o girls are still very immature , even if they appear 'mature' ( deep down they are not) this is the root cause of why you are missing something in the RL,... OTOH you are not happy either and its not far to You or Her to be in a RL that is not going anywhere. Always trust your Gut - seems like your gut is telling you to move one a spin for a while....
/r/askTRP10/01/21 05:54 PM
1

you mum was probably right!
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:04 PM
0

Underrated comment. The op is clearly looking for this. There a lot of normal people going about living a good like and getting laid lol Jesus OP the uk is a normal county your view of totally off.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 03:01 PM
2

She is looking for a replacement to her bf .... many girls keep thr old one around untill they find a good replacement. If they had good morals they would dump him before moving on. The current bf probably has no idea they are about to get replaced. Be very wary of these types as they will end up doing the same to you if you get serious. She gonna bang some guy so it might as well be you. But best not to get serious.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:50 PM
3

Hahah brilliantly put.... Op missed the most open goal ever.....
/r/askTRP10/01/21 02:41 PM
2

Bro you are on the right path
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:33 AM
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As ever the answer is "Get more girls".... if you meet more and some of these will be normal, then you can drop the crazy ones. Also - do you gravitate to the ones who are overly forward ( some will be needy or just crazy) - screen more for the craziness....
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:28 PM
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Now that is an epic reply....
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:40 PM
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OP, to be honest there is a lot overlap between natural game ( which i s what most pua turned into) and TRP . "natural game" is indistinguishable form being a cool/boss natural guy. old-school PUA turned people into a social robot, only 'outer game'. natural game is totally in-tune with TRP and it deals with inner game/inner confidence side. one thing you can take from "outer game" skills are thing like openers/escalation/understanding why/how people react etc..., but make sure that you have als…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:57 PM
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vocal tonality has a big impact, it subconsciously signals how important you are in the packing order, and so if you are worth being listened to.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:47 PM
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I second the "fuck sluts" part...
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:54 PM
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Bro a lunch date offer seems like a soft rejection. Get you somewhere/time where nothing can happen. She still get entertained by you and you can't do nothing! Fuck that shit. These girls are just wasting your time they are not interested enough to give a proper counter offer. Bro how often does this happen... you need to make sure you are building enough attraction in them! Edit this is why the other guy is correctly saying to next them, they are just wasting your time.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:35 PM
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The answer is quite dependant on your personality. Don't be shy and don't be afraid to speak up in groups or ask superiors for help /advice. ( if u are asking for advice try and find out answer yourself 1st/prophet options for them to give feed back ). Make your self heard! Even if you are asking questions to people..... Dont be afraid to 'banter' with people Ensure you have good vocal tonality that signals to people that you are are not a weedy bitch...
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:42 PM
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To need to get MORE friends, make sure you are meeting more people, at some point you'll meet guys who have some skills and wanna bang more women, so will be eager to go out....
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:59 PM
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Great points! At add.... there is a social rhythm to the night when you go out. Everyone is rusty to start with. Just talk random bullshit to everyone and get into a good social vibe. Also for the OP if you are in a good happy socail vibe, then approaching someone is not so harsh as you are bouncing between people . People with a good vibe standout and will be a lot more attractive. Also to OP you can also try to do impulsive situational openers, just random bullshit rather than the pressure of …
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:01 PM
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The book will not blue pill him. Ita faily accessible and easy to read. You can also point how 'not caring' works with women etc.... you might find he is open to some RP concepts after this...
/r/askTRP29/11/20 03:21 PM
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Op needs to chill out and not put some much emphasis on the end result and pressue on themselves. I can feel their outcome dependence from here! Let alone being a hot female they are talking to. They sense you care too much = low SMV ! Stop presuring yourself and do other shit for a while. Go out to have fun but Not specifically pick up and you'll probably get more sucess. Life goes in waves, you can't do 100% all the time else you will burn out...!
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:34 PM
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9/10 hit rate? Even top instructors would say they are only getting like 10 to 5 %. .... I remember the RSD instructors saying something to this effect....
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:27 PM
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Also there will be a hierarchy some you see more, Some are more intermittent.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:24 PM
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Look up No more mr nice guy book for a good explanation. A synopsys of the book should give you a clear idea. You don't seem to fit it. It's more a weak suplicating personality wanting validation for being 'nice', rather than genuine and authentic.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 08:51 PM
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Some who actually talks sense ....
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:45 PM
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Get into fintech or something that combines your computing skills with finance. You should get big bucks increases quickly...
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:38 PM
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Right.... I'm wondering how she got that far....
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:34 AM
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Great reply.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:32 PM
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Shurely its both men and women not knowing how to choose a partner so choose bad parter and it breaks down after they've had kids. Also people rushing in to shit ( kids) with no life plan etc.... many people just go through life not having a clue whats going on and so making lots of shitty poor decisions
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:27 PM
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Surley they be happy if they had no kid. They could do what ever they want/freedom.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:22 PM
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Mathew hussy he is like a pua but for women. Talks real sense.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 11:15 AM
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He clearly mis understood the looks dont matter points they were making...its so people with limiting beliefs accept they can be better even if they are not some model guy.... .. loads/most if not all places say to check your style/clothes etc..!
/r/seduction11/05/20 07:47 AM
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Op, out of curiosity.... where do you prefer to meet your women? Online, bars/clubs, street, general life.... Were you always a natural, or did you teach your self pick up and became good. ( if you were always good then you are very self aware about pick up most don't actively think anything of it they just 'are')
/r/seduction06/05/20 09:03 AM
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Don't they just teach abstinence on many places?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/20 06:35 PM
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