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/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:25 PM
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"Eww, average looking guy trying to get my number in the office! HR please terminate him at once! #METOO! Oh Dave, he's so sweet [and ridiculously attractive], he's been flirting with me for 6 months straight in the office [even though that's not allowed]. That's why I'm going out with him now."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:38 AM
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This. Hot and compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:24 AM
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"I love it when a guy [who is 6 foot tall, with rock hard abs and of Germanic Caucasian appearance] approaches me in the office."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:38 AM
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Asking women for their preferences is always an idiotic move because they don't know what men should do to attract women. They only know what Chads did to attract them - which means literally anything because they are already Chad. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. If you are hot enough to the point that women look at you and initiate conversations with you've pretty much won 80% of the battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:31 AM
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College is one of the most Chad-leaning dating environments around. Even though it's 2/3 girls to guys, winner takes all is still in effect. You are discounting OLD, and girls being in forever high school relationships going all the way to college, girls sleeping with more than one guy at a time FWB style. You don't miss out on much if you don't go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:06 AM
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And most women are looking for free money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:56 AM
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In microeconomics, we call this the winner takes all effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:56 AM
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Looks max.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:17 AM
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The only truth we need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:22 AM
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RP works if you are chad, BP also works if you are chad. Therefore be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:17 AM
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Agree. Everything an unattractive guy does is creepy to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:05 AM
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Anything can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive. Otherwise you will constantly find yourself walking on egg shells and be strongly conflicted even when saying hi to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:03 AM
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or more realistically someone naive to get into one failed relationship after another before landing a 'safe guy' that doesn't tingle her tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:30 PM
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If I say hello to a guy I almost always get a bubby response, but if I say hello to a woman 50-50 I get the cold silent treatment. Women indeed conflate hello with sexual harassment so much that they pre-emptively put up barriers that ruins the vibe for even people with genuine intentions of being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:24 PM
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I blame dating apps. Dating apps due to the hugely lopsided, gamified nature, matches men with the lowest of the low constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:21 PM
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The fugg, this single mother, still dressing like a slutty teen, it's like it's true they never grow up. That's why their guy bailed out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/23 05:27 AM
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You know what's more hilarious? For a girl who is obviously from a repressive culture trying to escape it by being a town bicycle to men - big shocker, no white men wanted to take her seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/23 03:35 AM
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What's even dumber is the practice of blaming external factors rather than having a sense of internal retrospection. You guys want a woman to have sex with you plenty of times, then give her a good reason to want to do it with you plenty of times. It's on you, not her. A lot of guys have this nonsense in their heads blaming their spouses for having low libido when dead bedrooms happen, and refuse to even consider that they suck at sex or getting women in the mood to do it, that they think gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:07 PM
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It's a coping mechanism. They truly loathe themselves deep down inside, that's why they talk so loud and boast their chests.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:21 PM
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Of course there will be some concessions that even with consistent good dickings a woman won't always turn into a nympho, but at least there won't be a dead bedroom situation. That's something all guys can live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:20 PM
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You don't find a high libido woman, you turn a woman into a high libido woman. You do that by consistently having good sexual experiences with her. We all frequently want good experiences in general. That is the basic of human psychology. You just don't find high libido women and then expect everything else to play by itself. It doesn't work that way. If the sex is shit the high libido women will not want to be with you even more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:02 PM
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Have good sex with a woman and you get her libido to increase. You become a cheesecake addict if you find a cheesecake you like eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:00 PM
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Not really, no. IMO a woman's libido takes a nosedive when she has low self-esteem. Ugly girls have low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:59 PM
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And women can't stay loyal with one really good guy that fucks them good? So much doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:58 PM
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Men face the problem of quality over quantity. Women face the problem of quantity over quality. Men's problem revolves around improving their quantity aspect. Indeed, having a sense of honor, backbone and willingness to walk away will steer men in the right direction of opening opportunities to meet more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:25 AM
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They can get sex anytime they want but getting LTR or Marriage from guys whom they find attractive will be very hard Hence that's why I said it's quantity over quality for women. When people insinuate that men are the gatekeepers of marriage, it's really the quality over quantity effect for men in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:00 PM
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True, though old guys can be incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:50 PM
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I like how these men try to push forward the agenda that dating is easy life for women.. Imagine having 500+ new guys on your social media page hitting you up. New guys. Per day. But get this - most of them are perverts, assholes, nice guys and scammers, none of which you are willing to go for even if there is only one guy left in the whole planet. So you sift through the endless drudgery of filtering every single one of them, just to have one that comes through your filter to still be a dumb as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:48 PM
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The normies have relationships and get laid without even internalizing how they pull them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:31 AM
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Reading topics like this it makes me wonder if men on PPD really don't go out much and just mix with 90% male circles all the time while interacting with women primarily on apps. I'm being serious here. Go get yourself involved in social circles with a healthier distribution of guys and girls and you would stop complaining about death of patriarchy or too many guys on OLD or whatever. Also no horni please. Guys being so horny, thirsty and desperate is one prime reason why women shy away from OLD…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:01 AM
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Hundreds of guys ask "what's your instagram?" because they want to see more pictures and move things off tinder. So women get tired of it and just put their IG in their bio. Bro, fake profiles acting as IG funnels are a thing. That's how influences easily get followers. https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/why-do-people-on-tinder-list-their-instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:06 AM
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Even blue collar work also depends, IMO. Here in Malaysia if you tell people you work for DHL people will respect you because it's an American-German GLC, a very sought after company to work for in Malaysia even though it's primarily blue collar. It's definitely something parents of daughters would like to hear about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:34 PM
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Baring shady shit, no. They mostly care if you got your finances in check and wouldn't end up being a male gold digger asking for bailouts in a relationship. Also, if your girl cares about your job more than she cares about you, then maybe you should strongly reconsider your decision on pursuing a relationship with such a person in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:32 PM
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Find a thread on that sub that features a Tinder screenshot with the photo not censored. 8/10 it's a good looking guy shooting himself in the foot with utterly stupid text messages. https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/5ofw9z/nice_guys_from_tinder/ Then of course the bios of these good looking guys on Tinder completely ruining everything the moment a user scrolls down https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/4cj7tn/nice_guy_on_tinder/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:13 PM
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The numerous examples in r/niceguys dictate otherwise. There are tons of good looking guys that shoot themselves the moment they open their mouths or type something. In fact I would argue the otherwise, that good looking people are actually more likely to develop shitty personalities because they think that's all they need to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:39 AM
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That is the old catch-22 situation for men. If a man isn't unattractive, unfit and/or old, he doesn't need to cold approach. All he has to do is live his life and be in an environment with a healthy male-female gender ratio, and then make lots friends with women. Eventually one of those women will show interest. That's it. Also, creepy incels with no friends and horrible social skills. Go take a peek in any PUA communities preaching for cold approach tactics and you can see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:15 AM
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It's a super high school thing where girls go on full blown Chad chasing mode. They select the top super handsome guys only, then surprised when the super handsome guys can use their looks to also charm another girl hence the break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:15 AM
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I am from Malaysia. We have an even worse phenomenon of "starter wives", or even worse than that still, "starter first wives". And yes, this is most practiced ironically amongst the Muslim community, the exact community where you would expect men to stay loyal due to devotion to Allah and obeying the Quranic teachings of not giving in to temptations of lust and crap like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:28 AM
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I screen people enough to know for sure that a person will never appear on a porn tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:31 AM
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I’m a 24-year-old relatively attractive woman who exercises regularly (grew up an athlete) and still have not been approached or asked out on a date by a man in 8 months. This is an unusual scenario. In Malaysia you would be puppied from behind by a guy non-stop or get dragged into a clique of orbiters if you are in college or high school. Also in before anyone unfamiliar with my personal coined term puppy - imagine a guy following behind you incessantly and trying to amuse you or get your atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:23 AM
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Being a pro-CCP and a Z-tard. Spewing 'nationalist' (read: racist) bullshit about whites being lazy and that Asians are going to be taking over, and how blacks are predisposed to committing crimes and should be avoided on the streets. Yes I had an Asian ex-friend who was like this. Basically a bigot through and through. She even consented and turned the other cheek when it came to persecution of Uyghurs and Tibetans by CCP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:48 AM
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Imagine a guy constantly following behind a girl and trying to get her attention, like a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:58 PM
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It's extremely telling if a guy puppies only the hottest girl and literally no one else, then 'trades down' to the progressively less hot girls as his attempt fails one after another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:36 PM
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I’ve dated a lot of guys from the men “every woman wants” to mooks I felt sorry for. The rich CEOs wanted to take care of me and when I told them about my aspirations they said I had to be kidding. “You’re not serious enough for University” “You’re not disciplined enough” “Why would a girl like you have to work for anything” I am seeing some pattern here, the more attractive a woman is, the more likely she is seen not as a woman, but as a fuck target. Suddenly after she breaches a certain attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:31 PM
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I had one coworker who asked for my number to coordinate shift changes, but then used it to ask me personal questions/ tell me how pretty I was. After I turned him down, he became one of the most rude, arrogant, overly critical coworkers I’ve ever had in my life. And this is why my coding school has a strict no flirting rule in place. And like you said, workplace harassment is an ever-present issue. There are few enough girls who take up coding as it is, we don't want them to be discouraged furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:24 PM
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That explains the very dark, gloomy expression some hot girls on campus make when I sit next to them. Then again, I love it because they make the most quiet types at the library. So much peace of mind studying next to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:17 PM
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Yes, ping pong downward starting from the hottest girl. Very common and very cringey tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:05 PM
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It's a school thing, yes. A guy puppies behind one girl, until he catches enough hints and then goes to another girl, ping ponging until girls notice his antics and start pre-emptively avoiding him or not entertaining his attempts to get their attention. It's quite often in my coding school too with such few numbers of girls around, that guys get super desperate and puppy non-stop to cockblock a girl from being approached by another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:04 PM
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Puppying is when you have a guy following behind you incessantly and trying to amuse you or getting your attention, like a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:03 AM
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I know very few women that are swarmed by men although in every friend group I ever was, there was always one who was always the Center of male attention and would fly from one guy to the other. In other words, the top 10%-20%, right? Yet men see this and blatantly claim this is the experience for generally all women, hmmm! Projection much? LOL. It's like the guys keep blasting women for only noticing the top 20% of men hence the 20-80 rule, when they are the ones who are actually doing it! This…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:39 AM
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Ya know, I even have this radical opinion that masturbation is better than casual sex. Basically relationship sex > masturbation > casual sex. Your post makes me wonder if my opinion is actually valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:06 AM
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Social-economic status
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 04:11 AM
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You know what would be the most ironic? That these women then proudly call themselves Christian and old fashioned. What does the Bible say about bastardy and fornication? Yeah, exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 03:13 AM
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I am going to just assume the guy in the chat convo met the girl from an online dating app. Yes, these apps tend to be filled with low SES trainwrecks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 03:12 AM
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Bumble here is fat women who can't be arsed to fill profiles properly. They want people to look beyond their appearances but don't really have anything to offer beyond appearances.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 02:33 PM
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Stability = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 01:21 PM
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Yeah, she had a 9 year old relationship / marriage, but broke up because "Goals changed". Not because of real deal-breakers like domestic abuse or breaches of trust like adultery or stuff like that. Funny how they all failed the test by splitting the moment things go south instead of sticking even closer together. And yes, this woman is beautiful - which was exactly why she was in this current situation now. She took things for granted due to the abundance of choices in front of her, which were …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 01:14 PM
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Sure, you may say that attractive people only can do cold approach, but I will say to you that attractive people don't even need to do cold approach. Warm approach is all they need, and they have plenty of interested prospects just by making new friends and doing hobbies together. If you have a lot of friends AND you are desirable, you WILL know at least one of them who is interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:48 AM
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There is also another factor that men's typical social environments are sausage-fests. The higher income a man is, the more likely he lives in a sausage fest. Forget socializing with women in person - there simply aren't enough women to be around to socialize with unless they take the initiative to be in social environments with a more balanced distribution of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:57 AM
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It's not just OLD. Any place, venue or activity that is set up with the main objective to meet women is bound to be a sausagefest. Vice versa, have rules in place to deter cold-approaching for dates and you will have women joining in. That is why, for instance, night clubs are sausage fests while latin dance conventions tend to have 50-50 male female or slightly more to female (at least in my city)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:31 PM
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I am 5'11. I met a woman who was crazy about my height. She was also a woman who was massively shallow, who was obsessed about buying $250+ of cosmetics every month, likely also with plastic surgery, racist, prejudiced by looks, and also a Z-tard. I dumped her for an older woman who didn't talk about my height and instead talked together with me about programming, math and travel. Sure, capitalize on your height if you want women you would only want to pump and dump at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:08 AM
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Time and time again I have kept saying this, bonk bonk no horny in the workplace. Warm approach if you still want to approach, but it's better not to approach at all. You guys are so free, is it, actually having the time to think about sex when you should be getting work done?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:36 AM
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I blame 'X signs a girl is into you' stupid articles on the internet for this. They are often signs taken from what are really platonic interactions rather than true indications of excitement or arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:20 AM
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gotcha, I am wrong then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:01 AM
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I think patting the labia with the surface of one's fingers can be very stimulating, mixing with the caressing of the area with the fingertips. But I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:13 AM
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Or rats where mothers eat their newborn babies if they get spooked while sleeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:41 AM
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If using the sexual behaviors of a certain species of migratory birds as a benchmark for homo sapiens isn't dumb enough, try using anacondas as a benchmark. "Hurr it's natural for women to have 12 males cuddling and fucking one woman at once. Man the man train! Eww monogamy! Eww marriage!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:39 AM
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Men and women showing skin on their dating profiles yet say they want a serious relationship while also abiding to religious and traditional values. Okay, dudes, name one religion or tradition that encourages showing private parts to strangers online. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:15 AM
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This is the reason why I say to guys, don't sweat it if you are not tall. You are mostly going to satisfy the requirements of these hambeasts anyways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/22 03:46 AM
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Being a racist bigot. Maximum ick. Boner killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:07 AM
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I find the apps better for me because I get to set my preferences. As I have noted on PPD, women really do want things to be as sausage fest-y as possible, to feed into their hypergamy and Chad-chasing impulses. Women become super picky in sausage fests. This is an uncomfortable truth. Whenever there is a social circle with a bit of a healthy male-female distribution the women always try to ruin things by banning people from forming relationships from friends found in those groups. Imagine telli…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/22 02:54 AM
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Yesss.....absolutely this. Flip the situation around as in your typical STEM major class and you always end up becoming a girl's orbiter, one out of many in her 'soft harem' vying for her attention obsessively following her out of worry that she might spend more time with another guy and get charmed by him. Many of the dating advices out there are asked by men who are in situations like this. Moving to places with more women solves a lot of problems for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:30 AM
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Yes, dating is easy mode for women. They just have to be out there in a sausage fest environment, then shelter themselves at any time with their girl-groups with the occasional neutered male orbiters as 'bodyguards'. Meeting the right one for them is often about just 'bumping into' and 'coming across', aka minimum effort encounters. it's a tragedy for men that women not only benefit so much in sausage fest environments, they actually encourage each other to be in sausage fest environments to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:47 PM
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That is why a lot of women find guys easily at sausage fest circles without seemingly even trying, and not only that - they hop from one Chad after another too. The odds are so much to their favor that they can find dates even without the intention of dating as they go about their every day lives. This is even the trope of various rom coms and novels marketed to women featuring protagonists who work in a corporate environment (male dominated) or get involved in intrigues in a royal court (again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:14 AM
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The Chaddy guys always win in sausage fests, and that is even before you make an action because the girls already go for them at the first second. It's the top of the top most attractive ones even though the others are datable just fine. Conversely, however, if you are in a sausage fest and you are the only young male non-fat person around while everyone else is old and fat, the only young female person will notice you and approach you. But that's the only exception I can think of and that happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:08 AM
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I agree with your points, but I do think that joining male-dominated activities with a primary intent to meet girls instead of having fun in the activity will also bring the same outcome, if not worse. That guy would probably leave even sooner. Warm approach is important here, while eliminating one factor that is the imbalanced gender ratio. One can still cold approach, sure, but the guy must really, really, really know what he is doing and not leave behind trails that would damage his reputatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:41 AM
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How do you know you’re funny? If most people laugh at what you do or say. Actually it is when people laugh with you rather than at you, that's when you know you are funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:04 AM
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Definitely. Domestic abuse, dead bedrooms, adultery and divorce are sky high in all those countries with a hugely patriarchal mindset in marriage. You can see that everywhere. And men still think that embracing a tradcon mindset will get them a bangamaid wife they won't get bored of fucking even after several decades. Nope, bruh, I am in an actual traditional country, dead bedrooms are absolutely everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:53 AM
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too many men really hate women and take it out on their wives. They just treat their wives as something to breed. A way to keep their legacy going. Not as real people and its fucking sick. Not to mention all the cheaters. Emotional and physical. Oh man, cheating, yep, a lot of cheating in my country where marriages are expected to be strongly patriarchal with only men having the say in marriage. Somehow this should make the husbands appreciate their wives more....but apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:40 AM
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Not AMOG bullshit, but more like extreme try hard with monies and gifts, a guy trying to brute-force and peer-pressure a girl into accepting him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eBgKPdwn1gU
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:22 AM
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I will respectfully disagree on the notion so commonly spread online that women give bad advice to men. The advice makes a whole lot of sense if you think of it with an open mind. One example is about staying respectful and chill while talking to a woman like you are talking to a man, and that means no lovebombing, no staring at private parts, no negging, no dirty talking, no catcalling, no sexist remarks, no flashing of ones genitals, etc. Imagine doing what you about to do with a guy rather th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:54 PM
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It's not just an issue about them being clueless. You can see the text chat examples that the women did point out the guys' errors, but the guys actually doubled down some more and refused to listen to feedback. Niceguyism isn't a problem of ignorance nor it is of inexperience, it's a problem of arrogance. They deep down inside hate women. They only want to interact with women because they want to fuck, and if fucking is off the table they badmouth these women, refuse to be friends, ghost, becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:59 PM
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Vet harder before going in deep. Yes, sometimes it's unavoidable, but vetting harder is at least one part of the situation men still have control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:27 AM
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Yes, keeping secrets then shaming the guy and defending her decision to keep secrets - thus encouraging herself to keep even more secrets from him in the future, leading to betraying his trust, then leading to doing things against the interests of keeping the marriage intact for her own benefit. AFBB or no AFBB, I refuse to marry a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:25 AM
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That's his choice if he wants to be that narrowly specific. Others are able to marry promiscuous partners and they manage to work it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:15 AM
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And on that ground, I absolutely agree. The desire to change has to be genuine and not opportunistic. A man has to stop sleeping around not just because he wants to get married. He needs to have the conviction to not sleep around ever again even when there is a chance for him to do it and he can get away from doing it without repercussions. Even if he ends up not getting married he should still stay chaste, doing it entirely for himself and for a deeper purpose. There are those to stayed firm, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:11 AM
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Absolutely yes! Men should have self-respect and stick firmly to their guns. If a man doesn't mind marrying promiscuous woman, sure why not go for it. But stick firmly to his guns if he wants someone chaste. That means find someone chaste only. Someone who has been chaste her whole life. Don't budge and make exceptions for someone who only claims to be chaste and assures him that 'she's changed', unless one is absolutely, 100% sure she is honorable and lives up to her word. Definitely I agree, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:05 AM
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If you hate the AFBB behavior don't date women who engage in AFBB behavior. If you see even a hint of past baggage or issues, move on. Don't take anyone's word that they've changed. Hey, maybe a person is genuine when she says she's changed, but do you want to wager your marriage on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:59 AM
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Sometimes you can, sometimes you can't. I have a friend in Vietnam. She said to me that the men there typically sleep around while demanding that the women stay chaste or have as few partners as possible. When they marry, a lot of these promiscuous men then get into extramarital affairs, divorce or have mistresses even though when they marry they all say they are 'not like that anymore.' I will respectfully disagree on this notion, but if you truly manage to find someone who changes his/her ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:57 AM
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If you don't want a promiscuous woman to marry, don't marry a promiscuous woman. Marry someone chaste instead if that's what you really want to go for. I will still blame the guy on that thread for going for women who are in between or just pretending to be one when they are really the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:53 AM
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Fun girls are a big nope for me for marriage. Fun means huge alcohol consumption and an addiction for partying - lots of money thrown down the drain and she sounds like the kind of girl that will use alcohol and partying as an excuse for engaging in infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:24 AM
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Fun in this context also means a propensity for indulging in very expensive and time-consuming hobbies like travelling by plane, going off to 'honeymoon' destinations, drinking wine at high class establishments, shopping for designer brand clothing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:21 AM
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Plus, really devout women, devout enough to regularly attend church, don't want an atheist husband. Plus they can smell guys who attend church just because they have a dry spell from a mile away and will avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:30 AM
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1 - A lot of ladies who attend church are also married women. 2 - The House of God is not a place to find hookups. It's a place of worship. 3 - You go there to look at God, not look at hot chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:29 AM
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I'm not sure about scents, but I can tell you something that perhaps relates to this topic. Guys (often incel types) always say things like 'Be attractive, don't be unattractive', even insinuating that muscles trump everything. Nope, it's not muscles. Nope, it's not even height, nope it's not your race either. The answer may surprise a lot of guys out there, but girls place a huge emphasis on a guy's personal hygiene. A clean scent is the best, most arousing scent out there to be had in a man. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:53 AM
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Divorce, bastardy and fornication are also big three sins in Christianity, the same with indulging in gluttony.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/22 05:38 AM
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I see genuinely nice dudes do well with women all the time. Agree. I often find that guys with girlfriends are often the most likable dudes to hang out with. No wonder they have girlfriends. Guess the difference being is those guys don't create an entire personality out of being nice. It's just something that comes natural and oddly enough none of them never seem to have this problem or promote the idea that women don't want nice guys. They don't become nice with an intent to get girls, but get …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:55 AM
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If all you can describe about a guy is that he's nice, you don't really know him. Like everyone here said, niceness is the bare minimum, not just in romantic relationships but in all kinds of other relationships as well. Also no, don't assume a guy that gets laid is an asshole, cocky and on 'edge' and a freako, etc. Is your Dad like that? What about your grandpa? I'm sorry that the truth just hurts, but a lot of guys genuinely rebel against the idea that genuinely nice guys are desirable because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:51 AM
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Honestly, not that much. Prostitution being legalized will make the prices for escorts go even higher. Though there will be no doubts there are more willing customers to purchase these services, the typical Tinder-lurking guy is a cheapskate when it comes to paying for sex, but not when it comes to paying in hoping he can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:36 PM
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Wait....I thought Free! guys are tall and muscular? I mean, not bodybuilder muscular but more like Olympic swimmer kind of muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:50 AM
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There is nothing wrong with building muscle. However, most guys opt for steroids and going for medium reps, basically training for maximum hypertrophy. Big muscles are a turn-off for women. It's actually more appealing for gay men. Women prefer the 'working body' type of aesthetic, basically body forged from high reps and compound exercises. Muscle size-wise, they only are willing to tolerate at most Jean Claude Van Damme during his Mr Belgium debut - just a bit buff, but mostly agile and athlet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:47 AM
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Porn tends to have little foreplay for women, like why though? Lots of kissing interspersed with stimulation of the neck, breasts and genitals, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:23 AM
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Maybe I'm a wierdo, but I just find most women repulsive. It is only when I get to know a woman and vibe well with her when I start to really get attracted to her. Otherwise, nope, I much rather stay in my room and masturbate. I live in an area filled with young, beautiful ladies, and I even occasionally join Latin dance meetups so I'm very much used to talking to ladies and become desensitized to aesthetics. In fact when a woman overdoes it or opts for the plastic excessive makeup Instathotty l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:45 AM
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If you are only dating a person because hot, yes familiarity will kill attraction. But a pleasant personality and a capacity to love are eternal. In fact one comes to love such a person more and more over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:16 AM
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Clawing / kneading the back during makeouts or penetration is a very big tell that she genuinely desires you. Even more if she moves those hands down to the buttocks. Also on the flipside - starfish. No desire to straddle or cowgirl. No desire to massage. No kissing. Always insisting on wanting to get drunk first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:46 AM
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Keeping score is a very bad practice in a relationship, IMO. Help as much as you can and put yourself out there regardless of your gender or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:05 AM
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So being likable is more important than being attractive then? I have a feeling that girls will forgive a lot of physical flaws and not go "ewww under 6 foot tall" or "lol no sixpack" when they find a man that makes them feel happy, safe and loved? I really pity those gymcel types with zero social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:28 AM
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Besides the pump and dump tend to be dumb sex too. If the sex was good the men would stay after the pumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:08 AM
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Then it runs absolutely contrary to what guys say about being attractive and not being unattractive? That a guy must first and foremost focus on being likable in order for catching feelings to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:12 AM
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and then judging him on his appearance to see if he’s worthy enough for a conversation with you and then maybe judging his personality if she isn’t already too smitten by his looks to care. In my observation it is not the case at all. It's either a - a girl gets hooked by a guy's looks first, then SHUTS HIM DOWN the moment he fucks up personality wise, or a girl notices a guy first by his wonderful personality and then becomes very accepting of his looks either bad or good. It's what a girl -fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:49 PM
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Nasty women go for nasty men. Yet indeed the popular narrative is that women go for nasty men. I have personally NEVER seen a woman with good moral character get aroused, excited, or is dating a man with bad moral character. I feel like a lot of the 'girls go for bad boys' narrative is pushed by incel types who don't get laid much. Because of their scarcity of getting attention from women they overvalue pussy as a result, even going as far as to overlook personality flaws as long as a woman is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:55 AM
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Yes, perhaps my claim should be revised. What a man makes a woman feel is more important than what qualities a man has. I have seen time and time again, that women will tolerate and accept the flaws of a man if he makes her feel good. But no, all the pluses in the world will not make it up for a perfect man making a woman feel like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:15 PM
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Interesting question. I am inclined to agree, but given the embarrassing show of simping for shitty e-girls who are only good for looks for example, maybe it doesn't hold just as true for guys. Guys are the ones who are more looks-focused, hence the entirely male centric-view of "Be attractive, don't be unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:13 PM
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Probably even the sex itself was unexciting that the wife soon relegated sex from fun/bonding to 'just to have kids'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:54 PM
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I just don't get it. What exactly makes it -so hard- to actually get intimacy from a wife? Not even a goodbye kiss on both cheeks every morning before work? Not even cuddles while sleeping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:05 PM
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Single mom trash don't get to become ballroom dancers. There is a speech by Dulaine, an instructor for ballroom dance that actually teaches to fix social problems amongst teenagers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlwRh9fotZQ
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 05:50 AM
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It won't be in any serious dance that requires dedication like bachata or waltz. Actually I haven't heard of any single mother types who get involved in ballroom dance at all. Or maybe I am too sheltered to know otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 03:15 AM
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Imagine actually being 6ft tall, 100k+/year, in shape with six pack abs and you cash in your hotness by marrying a washed up single mother. Even that single mother would lose respect for you and will abuse you in marriage if you choose to do that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 03:13 AM
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She puts her children before any man. That's why she's a single mother. She does not know the concept of loyalty, but only demanding loyalty from others than her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 03:12 AM
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That's pretty much the definition of a 'thousand cock stare', right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 02:01 AM
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It took Saint Mary of Egypt a whole life of solitude in the desert to repent for her past sins of fornication. Yet these women think they are of the same standing as Mary just for declaring born again on social media or bs like that, lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 01:55 AM
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That's exactly it. Cute face. The literally only thing that is a positive merit for her. Would any marriage-minded man would in their right mind marry a woman who is only good for looks? Looks factor nothing in a woman's quality as a mother. What qualities does she actually have as a mother?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 01:53 AM
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I think there are bros here who can testify how these 'Christian' ladies are quick to fornicate when they find a non-believer Chad, but put up a false façade of a pious, chaste maiden when they meet a Christian Billy they are not attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 01:52 AM
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Christians do not show skin. Christians do not ink their bodies. Christians do not fornicate. Christians do not sire bastard children. Christians do not sin with the intention to repent later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/22 01:50 AM
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Okay, nope. Drug-resistant chlamydia. Crabs. Syphilis. Hepatitis. Last but not least, HIV. I am so noping the fuck out of hookups, and certainly noping even more out of raw-dogging bastard kids like what the Millennials and Gen-Zs are doing right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 03:36 AM
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Obligatory head bobbing left and right while she speaks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 03:26 AM
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Old school woman looking like a harlot straight out from the taverns of a medieval town slum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 03:25 AM
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Orbiter is synonymous with a puppy. See how a puppy does? It follows behind you non-stop. I see that behavior a lot in guys, usually young and naïve ones, following closely behind a girl non-stop, often for the whole day, without the girl following him back at all. This strategy often backfires because the guy usually will start mistaking her willingness to tolerate his presence with mutual interest, plus as many of the ladies here can possibly testify, that behavior just isn't mannish and sexy …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:14 AM
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With Chad: It's okay to have sex on the first date. The feelings are MuTuAl With sub-Chad: No sex until marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/22 02:39 AM
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Those are filler courses for women who typically also hate doing STEM majors that actually make real money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 10:22 AM
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That's her pics 20 years ago. Golden rule of OLD. Also she has a nasty habit of burning her skin under the sun. Scooby does it a lot and notice how he admits he's got permanent skin damage doing that. He's younger than his age due to his muscles, but his skin complexion...not so much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 03:27 AM
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How very nice, using strong shaming language against singles. Does she not realize that she is single too as well and deserve to be shamed likewise?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 03:24 AM
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Then you better hope USA has the same economy as 1950s, that single fluke in history where people can literally just work part time jobs over the summer to pay for college tuition, where people can graduate without ever taking loans, where people can buy houses in their early 20s, and support for a wife and 4 kids just working at a factory. It will never happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:03 AM
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This sub is really showcasing women of the underclass. Outwardly devout (hence "Christian") yet depraved? Check. Poverty obesity? Check Alcoholism? Check STDs? Check Bastardy? Check Unemployment? Check Undereducation? Ya know, in spite of the huge availability of higher education in the US, high school graduates / college dropouts are hugely represented here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/22 02:53 AM
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"I'm keeping it so that Chad will stay" Cue Chad swiping on another woman while she's delivering a baby. "BUT I THOUGHT HE WOULD STAY, ALL MEN ARE TRASH!!1111!!11!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/22 01:33 PM
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