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Rant/Ventingmathmanguy/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 08:34 AM
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mathmanguy/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:44 PM
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mathmanguy/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 03:13 PM
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mathmanguy/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:11 AM
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You can’t not feel the pinch from seeing her with some other dude, if you feel it. All you can do is remind yourself that isn’t reasonable, or rational, and move on.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 05:06 AM
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Maybe she just vibed with him better than she did with you man. It’s probably not that deep or personal. I couldn’t get through all of these details. Seems like a lot of text over a girl you don’t really know who might just have not been that into you. It’s happened to me too man. I don’t shoot myself in the foot and say he had higher “smv” than me. Don’t really get it. Next time?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:22 AM
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Okay. Sometimes it’s hard to believe my “social muscle” will strengthen. I feel like a deer in headlights sometimes, especially when people tease me or are joking around and I don’t really know what to say. I’m looking forward to more fluidity and calm. I’m gonna trust the process and keep getting out of my comfort zone. Thanks so much for the reply.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 03:09 AM
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care to elaborate? Everyone has such different opinions on here
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 10:32 AM
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You know man, that makes a lot of sense. People wouldn't drink so much if they were already loosened up and having a great time. I still struggle with comparing myself to others, and this is one of those instances, I suppose. I want to do sober day game, and it won't feel fun until I'm in the moment chatting about shit I actually care about. Just the fact of the matter, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 07:23 AM
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Well, I just went to a rave and I had a really amazing time, for the first time in a long time. I think I would enjoy dancing, even if its just moving my head in the car. I'd like to take classes. This may sound ridiculous but I absolutely love to sit down with my CBT book and read about cognitive distortions. I've suffered from depression for like, 3 years, and I think for the first time I am lifting it all by myself. I enjoy going to the gym with my father. We have just started and it's been r…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 01:46 AM
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How did you go about letting go of the outcome?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 01:17 AM
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Any advice on how to go about “having fun” with it. The thought of approaching girls sounds exhausting and the opposite of fun. I don’t want to feel like it’s forced every time I approach a girl.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 11:06 PM
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Day game is intriguing to me for the confidence aspect. I’m in a part of my life where I’m not super cheerful all the time. I just recently visited a frat house where a friend of mine is staying and no wonder they get chicks. Their demeanor is so light and loose and casual. I’m not saying I’m comparing myself, but I I’m saying I understand it. I don’t want to be like them, I want to be myself. However, I think I’m finally coming out of depression after teaching myself CBT, which I’m super proud …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 11:05 PM
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Jesus. This really hit the nail on the head. I keep asking “why doesn’t this sound fun?”. It’s because it won’t be. It would be a stressful scenario and I really need to do some other shit in my life that I think is fun. I’m not in a lighthearted part of my life. Plain and simple.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 10:38 PM
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Any advice for someone who feels they have 0 potential in approaching girls? My own father was notoriously bad at this, I have no idea what to say, I want to be light hearted but I feel so heavy inside. I am very proud of myself personally right now. I am in no rush, I am actively thinking “be patient”, “your time will come”, which it absolutely will, but I have to get myself there and I’m not sure how to get over this step. I am proud of myself because I have been lifting weights, I am self tea…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 10:31 PM
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Thanks, this was helpful.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:52 PM
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I’d say thanks, but it sounds like you’ve got issues too man. Imagine coming into an Internet forum to type this shit.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:52 PM
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The way I can genuinely ask that question is coming from a place of insecurity, and a past of being excluded and not feeling like I’m enough. I agree, loving myself is a prerequisite to being real and socializing with others. Instead of calling my problems retarded, do you have any advice on how to accept myself as I am? I understand the things I must do, but how do I do them?
/r/askTRP20/05/19 06:36 AM
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This really is the case isn’t it? I need to fumble in my anxiety and my awkwardness until I can start thriving in it. Sucks that it’s the truth, but I think I need to accept it. Thanks
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:26 PM
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How do I “internalize” this form, of assuming I have value. I understand that me even approaching the girl is a massive compliment to her, but beyond that I’m not sure what I offer.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:22 PM
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If I’m at the mall and I see a cute girl, and I want to “approach”, how do I just say hi and start a conversation? I can see myself saying hi but I’d honestly rather get to the point and tell her I think she’s cute and want her number than try to figure out some casual conversation to have (although I’d like this too, I just don’t know how I’d start it).
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:06 PM
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Hey man, I really appreciate it. I’m going to learn how to rest, and not quit. I’ve got this.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:21 PM
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Thank you man. I have a lot of hope, and I had a really good day today. I wish you the best luck, too.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 06:05 AM
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I just turned 21.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:43 PM
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Fuck man. I am just so unsure of myself. I genuinely deep down feel this nervousness like this is not for me, even though I want to become social and active. It’s such an uncomfortable change. I’ve been smoking weed/playing video games/sitting in my basement for like 2 years and it’s just now over the past 4 months that I’ve really full on come out of my shell. No weed, no video games, no alcohol, no dependent girlfriend. Nothing. I hope I can shake this feeling and really get that confidence. I…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:20 PM
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It’s really that magical?
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:16 PM
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Yeah I have a tendency to really get upset with myself when I don’t do shit I say I’m going to do, and once I said I wanted to approach a girl and I wasn’t doing it I got angry so I went out and did it. I think I need to accept that this it is normal to have difficulty doing this. I’m not socially retarded, I can talk to girls, I’ve had sex, I’m not out of the “norm”. I think most guys would shit their pants if they tried to do what I did, too. Regardless of how they “feel” about themselves. So …
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:07 PM
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Can you talk a little more about not giving a fuck? It feels hard to do when I’m doing all of this because I give a fuck about not having sex, missing out, etc...
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:39 PM
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Yeah I can do that. I’ve been abstaining for about a week already. As for my confidence, do you have any advice for feeling less insecure around other females/guys I “perceive” as attractive/masculine? I automatically think they’re better than me. I think these thought processes are shooting myself in the foot. I want to think I’m the shit, but I don’t feel like I can be if I’m not pulling.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:38 PM
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I can absolutely see myself incorporating all of this in the future, but the initial anxiety and fear has to go away first. I don’t even fucking care if she says yes after I’ve approached, that’s how much I want the interaction to end. I wanted to do the thing I set out to do, which was get rejected and learn to “not care” and then be calm in my future approaches.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:11 PM
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Yes if I feel exhausted after doing one approach I agree it some other issue. I don’t know why I’m attached to the opinions other people have I’m finding it incredibly challenging figuring out the source of my “weak frame”. I also am trying not to be hard on myself, I’m trying here but I can tell something isn’t right.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:41 PM
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Physics is also based entirely upon mathematics which does not exist outside of our minds. While physics can predict the world around us it is only because we have a system to describe it. Food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 03:01 PM
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Sounds like I’ve got some work to do. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 09:18 PM
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So when those men fall flat need to objectively re-evaluate and try again, instead of falling back on trying to improve irrelevant areas of their life, is what you’re saying?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 08:21 PM
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Sometimes it’s best for me to hear things that don’t come from my mind, I’ve got too much doubt sometimes. This was very helpful, I’m grateful.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 07:07 PM
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And the hard part about calling something difficult is, it’s all relative. Driving a manual for my father is like second nature, but my first night of driving I couldn’t stop killing the engine. Regardless this post has a lot of information that is extremely valuable for me, as someone just starting.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 07:04 PM
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Can you talk about the transition from step 1 to 2 if you don’t have a lot of experience with game. I’m currently in step 1, and trying to keep my mind off having to begin step 2 because it stresses me out. I’m lifting, running, keeping A’s in school, eating well and sleeping well. I will maintain this and supplement it with some dance classes I really think I would like, and making more of my music. Is this something I should just delve into and trust that things will work out for me? I am not …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 05:41 PM
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It seems layered. During high school I got really insecure because I didn’t feel as funny/charming/successful as the other guys in my friend circle and to this day I feel I’m almost incapable of being so. I compare myself too much. I had sex with one girl, whom I really liked who was a total slut. I learned my lesson about this. I was extremely young and naive and treating girls like they were everything. I learned a lot about not putting them on pedestals, but everyone kind of thought I was a j…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 04:24 PM
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I’m gonna take this to the grindstone. Thank you. Do you mind if I PM you ever for advice?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/19 07:12 AM
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My question is, how do I start cultivating that mindset then? Where did you get this zest for life?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/19 05:54 AM
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Can you elaborate on this? I understand, and of course agree, but do you have any suggestions with regards to specifics in my post?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/19 04:20 AM
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So how do you enter that frame if you aren’t successful with women? I’ve got a great job and I’m working out, but if women were water I’d be in the Sahara desert.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 02:43 AM
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Okay. I’m pretty good at soccer, and I’ve been trying to teach myself to dance. Looks like I’ve got a bit of a plan. Part of me is just screaming to go to the mall and just approach a bunch of girls and get this shit out of me. Just to see what happens. I went on a tinder date and it was scary as shit, and she was no anything I was remotely interested in. But I was so proud of myself for doing it. I want that everyday! Thanks for talking it out. I appreciate it.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 08:07 PM
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So what do you do if you can’t find a consistent social circle? I go to a community college and I’m finding it incredibly hard to meet people, let alone an entire group of them. I have 1 friend currently whom I met here, and we do hang out. But other than this, the rest of my friends are away at college and I rarely see them and if I did, they wouldn’t have any girls near them. This is why the cold approach seems like my only option. I’m truly alone right now in the world, which is fine, I’m wor…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 07:42 PM
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I understand what you’re saying. High school left me with the feeling that men who got lots of girls were just better than me. I don’t know how to work through that quite yet. I don’t want to believe I’m not “wired” for it. That seems very limiting. I think I should take baby steps to approaching this issue practically, no?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/19 06:00 PM
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thank you. Picked up a book today on mindfulness that I will be finishing within the next two days, and meditations will be next on list. mindfulness has been really helping me find peace as things are, and not establish that peace on hope for my future being brighter. I cannot move forward to pave a brighter future without finding peace first, it is certainly helping me focus.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 11:19 PM
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What does this have to do with the comment I replied to?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 08:56 AM
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Can you talk a bit more about this? I’m really trying to learn how to create that inner joy, and reading this post makes that goal feel a million miles away because I cannot imagine behaving like this, especially considering my past.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 02:33 AM
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Sounds like a lot of fun, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 05:59 AM
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