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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 05:15 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 10:37 AM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 08:41 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 12:09 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 07:45 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 01:18 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 06:20 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 02:52 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 01:44 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 04:00 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 03:03 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men07/02/22 03:17 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 07:45 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 02:38 PM
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Dealing with the Ex / STBXmattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 03:27 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 10:16 PM
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mattehorn33/r/Divorce_Men19/02/23 10:48 PM
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40k pending trial. NJ
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 03:33 AM
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Family Court is the easiest money making machine for lazy lawyers. Lawyers don't need brain and hard work. States don't have equal custody laws. No constitutional protection to fathers, no juries, Judges are lawyer's friends. Lawyers, Judges, GAL, psychologists, parenting coordinators all get together and mint millions. Some of the custody evaluators I know became multimillionaires and retired in Hawaii.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 12:37 PM
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That’s definitely NOT 50-50. the only 50 50 states as of 2024 are AR FL MO AZ KY SD WV. Google equal parenting presumption states
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:40 PM
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Just caution . If you divorce now you will be stuck in the same city until kid is 18 because courts wants both parents together . If you decide to move by yourself she will get major custody and you will pay 30-35% of your net income. So. First move to a state which have 50-50 laws and then initiate divorce . elsewhere you will be screwed financially in court .
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:36 PM
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Great insight. Thanks. I am in same boat. I have a PhD. So not new to reasearch but novice in legal writing. I got Westlaw subscription and it helps to research case law and other briefs. It's ton of work and time though.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 05:56 PM
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I have seen shitty things like this on temp orders. Judges have unlimited discretion on temp orders but not final orders. I think it may be because of female judge. Just hang in there. Try to get this to trial as fast as you can. File motions in the interim. I will pray that you will get a better judge for trial. What's your state?
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 06:40 PM
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Upvote question for visibility.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 06:04 PM
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Wrong. It is absolutely lawyers job to guide client. A good lawyer will always provide 2-3 samples. Plus people going through divorce nonsense have no knowledge of the process and legal docs.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 02:13 PM
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You can definitely draft your own plan. In my opinion, it should be as detailed as possible if you have high conflict. I drafted 7 page plan and submitted it after my lawyer tried to trick me. I added specific terms like, -vacation with me will begin at 1st Saturday after the end of school year. the pick up will be done at daycare on Friday at 9 am. If the other parent is late 15 min without notice then it will be considered as refusal and other parent can take child to his residence. If the opp…
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 02:06 PM
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The only things he mentioned that parenting plan shoukd have details like schedule, pick up drop off, vacations. I was hoping that he should send me at least 3-4 pages sample to look at how others do it. Plus I have a high conflict ex. and one 4 yr old.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 11:38 AM
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By no judges I mean the county doesn’t even have judges in family court. In NJ there are historic judicial vacancies. In fact Supreme Court put a pause on any matrimonial trials until they appoint enough judges.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 10:40 PM
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I have a daughter. STBXW has a major custody pending trial (I see my daughter 1 overnight/wk) . I filed motion to increased parenting time but judge asked for mediation . She wants to grab as much child support as she can and delay benefits her a lot .
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 02:09 AM
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Mediation ordered by court. 2 cancellations in 2 months
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 11:20 PM
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It is unrealistic that she got 2 homes and 70% of ur salary . You should definitely fight. Check the time to appeal . Did you read the statutes ? Don’t believe what lawyers say .
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 10:43 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 08:36 PM
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If you don’t mind can you please elaborate how she was able to put a condition on where you live ?
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 04:22 PM
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The tax credits and head of household status gives gives thousands of refunds. Mostly to women since they get the major parenting time. Family courts are biased towards men and give women an upper hand on the pretext of “best interest of the child” once the lady finds out that the perks are unlimited with children , They give birth and then ask for divorce . The perks follow - men become homeless . They have to pay support , they can’t claim credits in taxes and the legal fees on top of it. Lawy…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 02:20 PM
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Not correct . People hide assets all the time . Courts are too overwhelmed to check authenticity of each claim . And….. judges always want easy way out.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 11:31 PM
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NJ
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 06:45 PM
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I also thought that she may be not replying to keep the costs down. But when I saw the bill, she had charged me for an email which she never replied. This was the complete waste of my time and I will be switching soon. Attorneys are bloodsuckers and nothing else.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 10:01 PM
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Yes. I think it's a favor and I have to take it that way. Looks like she wants to show me that she has much wealthy clients than me.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 07:37 PM
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Nothing less than 50 50. Consider it as most Important decision of your life.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 06:30 PM
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Yes. Your lawyer is right and you should be thankful that you got a good one. My lawyer never told me anything like this and i am paying a huge CS now
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 02:30 PM
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Either lump sum or ask for more time to pay off. I got a 0%APR credit card and put my expenses on it so it bought me some time to pay off.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 10:10 PM
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Are you an attorney? You seem to have a very good knowledge.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 06:12 PM
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