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Fair point. Still, in my experience, I could spend a week swiping on the apps, or just go up to a couple chicks in one night, and I will get better results in person. Maybe my online profile sucks compared to my in-person presence. Idk. Plus talking to people in person is way more fun.
/r/seduction01/05/20 05:46 PM
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I can only speak from my own experience, but have had extremely different results in person vs online. In person girls are much more receptive; online it's so easy for them to just not respond because it's so impersonal... just my two cents.
/r/seduction29/04/20 01:35 AM
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I consider that an achievement! I'm also happy that my voice was heard. Good day to you!
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 01:18 PM
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I agree completely.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 09:26 PM
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How am I a bigot if I'm simply saying that I want to hate others less?
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 02:30 PM
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That is totally why I started going on TRP and MGTOW in the first place. Another commenter made something clear to me I had not seen before: MGTOW is a place of healing, a place where we can process the "anger phase" of The Red Pill in a trusting community. After going on a journey to find my purpose in life without women, much of my healing is complete and I feel at peace: that is the root of my desire to separate myself from the MGTOW label. I am now seeing that I didn't need to do a grandiose…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 02:16 PM
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I am lucky enough to have seen my father divorce raped, so I am unlikely to fall into the same trap, especially because of my introverted nature. And true, these declarations of affections towards me would've probably been short-lived, and it's a very possible these women only "loved" me because I was never fully committed to them long-term. I will remember AWALT; fitting in is not something that concerns me.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 02:11 PM
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Really sweet subreddit; I shall subscribe! I appreciate the recommendation, brother.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 02:08 PM
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I shall use the term correctly from now on: I've never wanted to be with a particular person for social status. That idea disgusts me. But don't worry, my friend. I won't be searching for women: I'll be focusing on what makes me happy, which is learning, teaching, and benefitting the world.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 02:06 PM
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Thanks for linking that post; I had not seen it before. It actually really spoke to me: it's a good idea to think of MGTOW as a sort of hospital, and saying you despise hospitals because of the disease and suffering you see there is missing the point that the hospital is a place of healing, just as MGTOW is a place of healing. I see now that through self-development I've healed to such an extent that I see no need for this hospital anymore, and that is why I see the need to leave. Yet, when I am…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 02:02 PM
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Huh. I had assumed that since "monogamous," means seeking a long-term relationship with one person, "hypergamous" meant always seeking relations with someone that's more attractive. I humbly admit that my perception of the word was incorrect, and I thank you for clarifying its definition.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:53 PM
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If hypergamy is not about always trying to get the best mate for yourself, then I ask sincerely: what is it about?
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:46 PM
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I believe you can understand the inherent danger in relationships without hatred. I know that a rattlesnake will bite me if I attempt to pet it, hence I will keep my distance from it, but I do not detest the snake. For instance, /r/TheRedPill understands these dangers about women, but they do not hate women at all and still appreciate certain aspects of them. And thought MGTOW trash talks RedPill, I see the communities as highly related, and RedPill as a suitable place to go when your anger has …
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:43 PM
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I hope that I have not come off as a "Chad," because in no way do I consider myself one. I am simply admitting that I'm not an incel, and it took a long time before I actually internalized that I'm not an unattractive person and much of the bitterness I had towards women was misplaced insecurity. Yet, I will ruminate on what you've said. If MGTOW doesn't imply this hatred that I sense, then I am more in line with MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:37 PM
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Thanks dude, good luck to you too!
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:32 PM
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I truly identify with your response, and your idea of MGTOW is exactly what I want in my life. I don't hate women, I'm focused on my goals, and I refuse to be tied down the way that society makes us think we ought to be tied down. In a sense, I'll be MGTOW without explicitly saying MGTOW. I see it similarly to labeling myself as a Confederacy sympathizer: one could say they have a Confederate flag because they believe in states' rights and reminisce about the beauty of the pre-Civil War aristocr…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:31 PM
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I sincerely appreciate your open-minded comment. Now I am re-questioning myself: I believe 100% in the principles you just stated, but it's possible that it was my personal fallacy that caused me to become too enamored with the MGTOW label, and I want to rid myself of associative labels in general and be my own man, but paradoxically, that's really what MGTOW is about. The labels are not as important as I had thought, and it seems this is my process of shedding those labels and creating my own. …
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:23 PM
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I agree that the philosophy is about self-reliance, but it's hard to ignore the associations that come with it. I would say that top posts are somewhat representative of a subreddit, and the top posts here are largely based on negativity towards women. You can have this self-reliance, as I've seen in other communities, even such as /r/TheRedPill, without the extreme bitterness I sense here. I have had female friends my whole life that haven't stabbed me in the back, and I would be bothered if th…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:15 PM
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My intention was not to troll: MGTOW brothers have been comforting during hard times in my life, and I am very appreciative of that. I'm simply expressing my freedom of speech in case another MGTOW companion might be going through similar self-doubting thoughts when they ask themselves what MGTOW association implies politically. I am still weary of divorce rape, still weary of the system being unfair towards men, but I seek to remedy the situation without declaring "I hate women and they are inf…
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:08 PM
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I understand that MGTOW is Going Your Own Way, but it's undeniable that MGTOW also represents an online community. By declaring that you're MGTOW, you're associating yourself with hatred of the opposite gender. Personally, I would rather associate myself with something more benign, like mindfulness: it's still about detachment and focusing on inner peace, but without the included biterness towards other humans.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 01:03 PM
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I disagree. They are pretty rare, but they exist. Anecdotal example: my coworker was a beautiful Asian girl who was the best employee at our small company. She was an excellent problem solver, always organized, always on time, and was a great leader. But hey, I'm not even graduated yet, so you probably have a more well-based perspective and likely have a much higher standard for "average". Just sayin', there's women who make great engineers and men who make great aesthetic designers. It's not co…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:41 PM
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I just don't really care anymore. People can label me with whatever percentage they want. I know what I want out of life and I've set out a clear path to get it.
/r/MGTOW05/08/17 10:15 PM
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I had the same nihilistic thoughts, about nothing mattering, but with a different conclusion. We are the most advanced species that we have observed within 100 light years of our planet. Humankind has achieved so much, and there is so much left to discover. If I can advance humankind in some way and leave a marvelous achievement as my legacy, I will be totally satisfied with my life. No one has ever had your exact DNA, and no one ever will. You are scientifically and objectively unique, and for …
/r/MGTOW05/08/17 05:19 PM
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I'm in the top 20%. No luck. (Or maybe I'm lying to myself about being in the top 20%. I think I have the looks and skills of an "alpha" but nerdiness and personality of a "beta". Which I don't give a shit about because I like myself)
/r/MGTOW05/08/17 05:15 PM
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How romantic!! Hopefully you get a happy ending ;)
/r/MGTOW05/08/17 05:13 PM
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DFAC: Disregard females, acquire currency.
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 08:09 AM
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That's what I like to hear, brother. A lifestyle of self-improvement is so incredibly rewarding. Also, maybe think of getting a loyal pet if you don't have one already!
/r/MGTOW29/07/17 08:02 AM
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Well said. No reason to show lots of bitterness (even if you feel that way inside). In my opinion, we must be more mature than the ladies and handle things professionally. As long as you're putting in minimal effort into the opposite sex and you have your priorities straight, you're MGTOW in my book.
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 04:42 PM
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I disagree with the other responses. You can be MGTOW and still be polite. I think you're going about things the right way.
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 03:44 PM
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YES.
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 04:27 AM
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And then all you gotta say is "I haven't found the one yet," or "I'm too busy for that shit."
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 04:26 AM
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You and I are on the exact same page. Four years of MGTOW so far, and I'm not super rich yet but very fit and quite successful thus far. You know how it is: "Disregard females; acquire currency."
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 04:25 AM
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It's so sinister. And my friend is a genuine, good guy who always treated her with respect. You live and learn.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 10:45 PM
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He wasn't going to take her back, but she cried and begged until he was convinced she would change.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 05:03 PM
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It could be possible!! My friend is SUPER worried that she might purposely get pregnant with his kid. He knows he made a very dumb decision; he was just so happy because he thought she actually loved him again. Everyone always says NAWALT.... Until they get burned.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 03:06 PM
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Now that I watch it again, I see what you mean; it IS fucked up that she's enjoying being slapped. On the other hand, I still stick by my main point: no I wouldn't sacrifice myself to "save" her since she clearly wants to be in the situation, but I still believe videos of men slapping women should not be circulating in this sub. Once more, these kinds of things could result in a ban.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 02:32 PM
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Making posts about hitting women and viewing them in a positive light will get us banned. This kind of shit will make me avoid this sub.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 02:11 PM
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I don't approve of violence against women.
/r/MGTOW26/07/17 01:17 PM
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I don't really get it. Saying "women aren't worth my time" is hate? Yeah some dudes are mad and bitter about what one woman did to THEM specifically, but MGTOW is really about putting that pointless seduction book down, stop asking yourself why you aren't bathed in female validation right now, and then live your life without feeling like you need anything else. To me, that's what MGTOW is about. Distinguishing that women are a WANT, not a NEED. There should be no hate here.
/r/MGTOW25/07/17 09:42 PM
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This is all a man needs to know.
/r/MGTOW25/07/17 06:49 PM
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You "need" physical attention like you "need" millions of dollars. It's simply an illusion because you cannot be content just sitting there by yourself. My opinion is to assume celibacy and make your life as meaningful as possible without sex; have a fap every once in a while, but the less you fap the better it's going to feel when you do. Then, if a female comes around and makes it clear she wants sex you can give it to her, but going out of your way to get it is a huge waste of time.
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 07:11 AM
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Business. I like it!
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 06:52 AM
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I dunno. For a while I was trying so hard to study Game and be a Red Pill alpha to get laid as much as possible, but in my case it just pushed women away because they could clearly tell I was trying to be someone else. I'm generally courteous and respectful with everyone, and went back to being that way because I didn't give a damn about Blue Pill/Red Pill anymore. I get more attention from women going my own way and just not caring; a few girls have been attracted to me without me having to do …
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 06:51 AM
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I have a FWB that hits me up for booty calls once every couple months. I enjoy it a lot. Other than that, no sex. I know that it just comes and goes. I enjoy doing whatever the fuck I want every day and that's what really matters.
/r/MGTOW24/07/17 06:46 AM
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I'm my sincere opinion, Models is all you need to read. Too much reading about seduction past that is a bit of a waste of time, and if you wanna get laid you're better off immersing yourself in other things and meet more people through those activities. You're better off with real world experience instead of reading Field Reports and "tips".
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 11:52 PM
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Really is, dude. Forgive my cheesiness, but I believe that happiness come from within.
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 11:46 PM
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"some women are cool" - that's exactly what they want you to think
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 09:49 PM
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Good luck, man! May she not take half your belongings! (source: my father was divorce raped hard, several millions of dollars)
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 10:01 PM
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A pet will always be loyal to you and love you unconditionally. Excellent choice, brother.
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 09:58 PM
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STD and accidental pregnancy-free life
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 09:56 PM
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You're welcome. What's interesting is that you focus on yourself long enough and women naturally gravitate towards you. I hope that you end up making yourself happy!
/r/MGTOW10/07/17 01:56 PM
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Make your life as meaningful as possible without expecting to get a woman. I highly recommend you find some role models and learn from them as much as you can. Look at the way Buddhist monks live and how happy and peaceful they are even though they don't even masturbate. They are incredible men that strive to improve the world daily. For loneliness, think of getting a pet. Maybe get a musical instrument and practice as much as you can every single day, then meet other people who play music and p…
/r/MGTOW09/07/17 10:40 AM
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That's the one thing I didn't like about this article: he says he wants to stop trying to be healthy because we only work out for pussy. The point o MGTOW is to break free and do things that will benefit you. Stay healthy and strong, and be the definition of success that you determine for yourself. Live for yourself and not for pussy.
/r/MGTOW09/07/17 10:30 AM
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Love you too, buddy. I am the Prince of Solitude. The anger has largely receded (though I do still feel it sometimes) but I love being my own man. I'm a computer programmer, weightlifter, mathematician, musician, and whatever the fuck I wanna be at the moment and I love not being dependent on females. Life is fucking good!! Peace to you!!
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 02:57 AM
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It's a relatively new notation that indicates sarcasm.
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 02:53 AM
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You guys crack me up. Love ya
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 02:52 AM
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I'm not conceited, but I am a good looking and muscular man. Absolutely no luck on dating sites, maybe because I don't try to be a cuck and will tell them if I don't like the same band they do, etc. For the most part, online dating has been a way for females to feel desired, and they usually don't respond to 95% of messages, no matter who you are. That's what MGTOW is about. Stop giving a fuck and develop your skills, do things you enjoy, benefit the world in some way, etc. Going out of your way…
/r/MGTOW07/07/17 04:48 AM
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Oh, man. I've had oneitis so bad in the past. I'm very susceptible to it. In cases of oneitis, I find it almost impossible to be friends. Getting laid never made oneitis go away for me (despite conventional Red Pill knowledge), only when I met someone I liked more. Last time it took 3 years of putting myself out there and meeting new girls before I met someone I liked a lot and basically my oneitis transferred over to her. With those cases, I'll tell the girl, "honestly, I just feel too much for…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 07:15 PM
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Precisely! You can simply keep your distance from a female you're attracted to but doesn't wanna bang. You gain nothing in life by being a rude jerk and burning bridges.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:59 PM
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That's true. I suppose for me, friend me something else. It just means there's mutual respect and we will help each other out (say, let someone borrow my notes if they miss class). Doesn't go beyond that for me.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 06:42 PM
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I do have one female friend who's legitimately a friend who I met through college. It's a mutual friendship, and we'll help each other out whenever we ask (we have similar life goals). We talk about books, politics, art, etc. It's extremely rare, but some female-male friendships can work, if the girl is an actual hardworking, educated, and good person. I also enjoy hearing the female perspective on things and get into the female mind. This girl has been my good friend for four years now, and I d…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 04:45 PM
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I agree for the most part, but I will say this: sometimes a woman genuinely saying she wants to be friends is a little good. If she says she wants to be friends and means it, if you don't want that be honest, but actually wanting friendship is at least an indication that she feels comfortable talking to you and doesn't find you horrendous or thinks you are threatening her sexually. I usually say "yes", if I hit on her and she says she wants friendship. After that, I disappear completely. And if …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:13 PM
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Don't agree 100%. I have one actual female friend, and she does a lot for me. She's always there for me when I need her, even wrote me a long, beautiful card for my birthday when I didn't do shit for her birthday and rarely do anything for her at all. All other ones have been bullshit friends, but this female friend is intelligent and wise, reads lots of books and is a work-a-holic. I trust her. On the other hand, she is not even close to how good friends I am with males. Just sayin' females are…
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 07:12 AM
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Incel. "involuntarily celibate"
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 07:05 AM
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Monks, such as Buddhist monks, are some of the happiest people on Earth. Endlessly chasing pussy is a result of men not understanding how to make themselves happy, so they think they can fill that void with pussy. They get feelings, they get fucked over, they try to find another girl to plug that hole, and the cycle continues. To those that haven't woken up yet: Break the cycle. Be free. Stop trying so hard to make women like you and just try hard to like yourself. You will be so much happier.
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 07:04 AM
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Instagram is pure vanity, pure validation for females. Always hated it and I'm glad I don't have one. Facebook, I still have to keep in touch with family from other countries. The newsfeed is normally trash, but I like using Facebook to share my music. I deactivate my account every couple months when I get sick of it. Snapchat is stupid too, always thought it was a true waste of time.
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 07:14 PM
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Congrats on an excellent life! I'm four years MGTOW, never skip a day at the gym, and I'm radiating happiness. When people ask about a GF, all you gotta do is say "haven't met the right one yet." Simple as that, and no more questions will be asked.
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 12:47 PM
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It's Red Pill rage, my friend. But once you realize how free you are to not be in a marriage with a wife you hate who cheats on you, you will take life by the horns and love for you.
/r/MGTOW04/01/17 04:48 AM
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I had met a girl in a club the other night and she seemed pretty cool. We danced a bit and she asked me for my Facebook. After adding her and chatting a bit, I was surprised she was responding to me so well, because most women I meet are very bitchy. Punchline: I see a FB post of her daughter. She's a single mom. NO THANKS.
/r/MGTOW04/01/17 04:44 AM
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Lol
/r/MGTOW24/12/16 03:55 AM
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With 3 good friends. Two of them are gay lovers and the other is MGTOW like me. We don't see a lot of ladies at our place, lol
/r/MGTOW23/12/16 12:24 PM
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Really good advice! Thanks! $200 is a bit steep for a college student like myself haha, so I'll probably wait a bit. Or maybe I can get a fleshlight!
/r/MGTOW27/11/16 09:15 PM
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Wrote computer programs, watched a football game, bought groceries, played lots of guitar, and read about electronics. Pretty chill day.
/r/MGTOW21/11/16 02:52 AM
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Read your entire comment, and what you've written is true wisdom. You're where I want to be at your age. I started Red Pill 3 years ago and have so much peace now that I've been putting all my time into doing what I love and seeing that women are just a distraction. Cheers, brother!
/r/MGTOW20/11/16 11:55 PM
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That is me right now. I just treat them like normal people when in their proximity and am considered "nice", which I don't mind at all because I know that's not what gets you laid. Secretly I don't give a fuck about them at all, and the minute they try to get me to invest I decline.
/r/MGTOW20/11/16 11:29 PM
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Nice man! I actually vape a lot and I have the Arizer Solo, but yesterday it just died on me. I've had it for two years and the battery has given up the ghost. I will look into the MFLB as my next piece though, I've heard good things about it. I also like the Davinci Ascent. And that's a fucking cool engraving. Stay strong, brother!
/r/MGTOW18/08/16 11:19 PM
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I'm so glad you got something from this post, hopefully I can provide motivation for others the way I've been motivated by Internet strangers. I'm not exactly a god though, because there's still so much I have to learn. But the BEST thing I did to get better at my instrument was getting this book Memorize this book and learn your theory REALLY WELL and everything else comes so much easier. Good luck, dude!
/r/MGTOW18/08/16 11:18 PM
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I don't want people to know of my creations because I told them about them; I want them to discover them because they're just so impressive. You've got to be so good they can't ignore you.
/r/MGTOW18/08/16 03:18 PM
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21 TX
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 10:47 AM
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You can be a nice guy by giving your time to people who actually need it, like starving children in slums. I'm glad you see that giving it to a woman who will always be ungrateful is a waste of time. I'm feeling the same pain that you are, brother. But you're on the right path to happiness.
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 10:43 AM
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Strength and honor.
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 10:40 AM
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You fucking get it, man.
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 10:29 AM
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Realize that you feel like this girl is the only one for you, but this feeling is a complete lie, one of the most disgusting illusions that nature has struck you with. It can be as deceiving any optical illusion you see on the Internet: your brain simply can be really shitty at seeing things as they are. The good news is that you can actually feel this strongly towards other girls (though you might not believe it). I've been entirely infatuated with at least four women in my life (like I couldn'…
/r/MGTOW06/08/16 10:19 AM
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