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Oh ok... THANK YOU MEN FOR PIZZA ROLLS!!!! Num num num...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 05:11 PM
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I'm showing gratitude by making sure their inventions were not created in vain! Time for me to microwave some pizza rolls! Wait I gotta look up who invent the microwave first to see if it was a man or women... Ok it's a man... Do I need to fucking look up who invented what every single time I use something? What about the investors who helped the inventor bring the invention to market? Do I need to look up who discovered tomatoes for the pizza sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 02:55 PM
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Whenever I seen anyone get offended by this analogy is when they interrupt simply as "if a woman sleeps around it's bad but if a man does it it's good" and get upset over double standards. They are not seeing the reasoning behind why women have a lot to lose. The modern birth control got rid of that disadvantage so they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 03:04 AM
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Interesting. Someone else bought up the same idea. Except for accused rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:03 PM
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Oh ok. You're on. 10 bucks. Let's just get into our time traveling machine and see for ourselves. You're the idiot who believes groping equals rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:37 AM
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Groping is not rape. Don't be like the feminists who claim that everything under the sun is rape. She complained about him immediately after it happened. He got fired. Lost his job and is suing her, a strong indication that foul play was involved Or he is trying to get fame and money. Seriously which is more believable? A guy taking the opportunity to touch one of the most sought after woman in the world or Taylor Swift just randomly going around accusing people of groping? He did it. She compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:34 AM
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Does it really matter that they are doing "half night stand" instead a full ONS? It's still counts as one to their N. What is your point? How is this worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 02:17 AM
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Its their "safe space"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:59 PM
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This is a good post. Email it to all hypocritical SJWs you can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:52 PM
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One of the differences that I see why neckbeard incels don't get much support is that their situation is improvable. They can move out of the basement, they can stop the constant video gaming and shave. It's the same reason why fat shaming is harder to stop. Fat people can just lose the weight. Being born black or a woman is not choice. Most trans and gay feel that they were born that way too but that's debatable. Being born to be fat is definitely untrue. There is a sense of helplessness and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 12:00 PM
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I wouldn't say that everyone is shamed or prejudiced against equally. Cool. Nor did I. I honestly would have to call you a straight-up liar if you think there is any woman who would rather have the same social status and social treatment of an autistic, weird unattractive male neckbeard than that of a woman. Well I don't... -_- But regardless of that, you glossed over the whole SJW/feminist aspect of the thread. No I didn't. Like I said if they are hypocrites, they are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 11:07 AM
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Well you see the forest. I see the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 10:47 AM
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Most people aren't vocally open about being anti-whatever and pander to the mainstream idealism. But that doesn't mean that their actions follow suit. There are tons of studies that we act on our prejudice. Like the craiglist ipod experiment. http://venturebeat.com/2014/06/09/sellers-of-color-this-craigslist-experiment-reveals-americas-latent-racism/ Either way there are clear prejudice and shame going on in all demographics. It doesn't really matter which one have it the worst. The fact is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 10:43 AM
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I never thought SJW were champions of all people. Most I have read specialize in one certain demographic like gays, trans, blacks and the obese. People group them all together when really they all have a different goal in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 10:23 AM
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The very same folk who happen to be more socially disadvantaged, more bigoted and prejudiced against, more being dissuaded from speaking up their mind or not hiding their identities, and more underprivileged in mental and physical health inbetween themselves, than every female, transgender or homosexual in the SJW community combined, which is why it's taboo to speak any ill of the latter but no one bats an eyelash when the former get regularly talked about as subhumans and scapegoated? This is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 09:48 AM
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It's just like being called fat by TRP if you're a woman who posted something they disagree with. With any ad hominems just call them out on having schizophrenia. Anyone who thinks that they know the physical characteristics of random people over the internet have a screw lose. They use ad hominems because they don't have an actual argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 09:17 AM
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If we go with the literally term of SMV than yes it makes sense. That's why some use MMV or RMV instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 01:13 AM
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SMV means Sexual Market Value. If it has nothing to do with sex than what is it based on? How can a man truly know whether he is a 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 01:11 AM
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Especially when the users only post the best picture of themselves. Overall women have a higher SMV. Men are less choosy than women. Men love women in many more different shapes and sizes. This hike in demand drives the SMV of men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 01:09 AM
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How can a man be considered a SMV 6 if he can't pull a SMV 6 woman? Shouldn't your SMV be based on what you can pull?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 12:56 AM
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Oh ok. Never mind then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 01:24 AM
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Expect incels. They whine a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 11:14 PM
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I'm not his boss. Anyone who thinks that your mate choices won't get judged are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 01:22 PM
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I definitely notice whether or not a man has a good looking wife or girlfriend. It doesn't affect my respect for him though. I judge men more on their profession. There is one idiot at my job that has a super sexy petite wife. It just makes the wife look stupid too. He is going to lose his job if he doesn't turn himself around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 10:09 AM
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4-for-4 in zero-substance non-replies. It's all the rage with some TRP posters. Avoiding arguments that they know they can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:34 AM
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TRP is a lot more complicated. They don't like sluts because the sluts were not giving them sex or they had to put an inordinate amount of effort to get sex from them. You're friend is probably jealous and wants to suck you into the misery. Good for you avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:29 AM
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Ummmm.... I have. Born in another too. -_- Some people really hate pregnant women don't they.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:05 PM
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That's weird. They look like they match in SMV. She is making a weird face so maybe she is more attractive in other pics but still within range of each other. I'm surprised that some here are calling her fat. It's hard to tell from this angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 10:33 AM
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Instead you tell your buddy AWALT. What are you actually telling him with that? Women create shitty relationships? No that couldn't be true because they are enough people with good relationships. In essence it says that women are vile like his ex but after some reflection it dawns on him that if he had done some things differently shit might have turned out different. I don't think most men would process the AWALT information like that. Most will see the good relationships and conclude that NAWA…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:03 AM
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I agree. Not enough information to call him a creep either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/15 11:14 PM
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Women grow up but the underlying desire to do it is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 04:12 PM
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Currently in mid 20's. This happened in my late teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:14 PM
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Yes. It's not just with boyfriends. Even friends. I got invited to a party once but was told in a passive aggressive manner that my fat friend can't come along. This is why social status is important for men to have to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:05 AM
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MGTOW - They're cool. Just living their lives without any women keeping them down but the ones in LTRs seem to be contradicting themselves. Committing to a women without marriage just doesn't seem like they are truly going their own way. MRA's/anti-feminists - They are not making many strides in the world. The public support is just not there for them. The Omegasphere - They need to do something and get past the whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 02:51 AM
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I wouldn't have tried to help you if I knew you were a chick. You're delusion and making stuff up as you go. Sigh... You drowned in the koolid. You think TRP is this infallible system that you get angry by the tiniest of criticism. It sucks that you were given many chances to bring forth evidence to back up your disagreements but instead you responded with a bunch of logical fallacies. I'm done with you. Bye bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 02:29 AM
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I'd assumed you were a torqued off incel man. Oh stop projecting. You need to stop getting mad and stop making up shit to throw at people. TRP has no practical advice. I didn't say that. You need to read again. The world isn't black or white. TRP is wonderful at inner game and passing shit tests for men who are already interacting with women. It's getting to the shit tests that it lacks practical advice in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 02:14 AM
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Looks, Money, Status, and Game You just proved what I been claiming this whole time. Abstract concepts. No practical value. You're so lazy. Let's start with seeing how bad off you are. Lol. You're such a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:59 AM
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Please elaborate. Are you saying that giving up the right to abort a pregnancy isn't giving up anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:54 AM
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I like having that choice but if that's what it takes to gain equality between genders then I'm willing to give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 06:05 PM
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Oh great another red herring. It wasn't about the financial abortion. Please go take a reading comprehension class. I guess I need to spoonfeed you. Your red herring was my view of woman's body, her choice which is not my view at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:50 PM
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We do have different definitions. Financial abortion is a paperwork contract that the father will not being held for child support and stripped of his rights over his child. The whole point of it to be done when the mother is still able to have an abortion so she can make an informed decision. It is to get the father in on the decision making process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:44 PM
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Where did I say I didn't like the notion of bringing men rights up to par? I said in the last financial abortion thread that the only practical way to even the playing field between genders is to ban abortions all together. Grow up and stop throwing red herrings around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:35 PM
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Financial abortion is a logistically nightmare. The women has to find out about her pregnancy in a timely manner which doesn't always happen since many birth control stops the menstrual cycle and also many are fat that the baby weight is not noticeable. Some even still get bleedings while they are pregnant. The women has the know who she got pregnant by. If she is a hoe then she won't know who the father is until later in the pregnancy after the legally acceptable time have an abortion. The fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 03:19 PM
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I been on that boardwalk before. There are many weirdos there and they do a lot of things for attention. If I was walking by I would have thought it was a stunt. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 02:31 PM
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You were not that interested in women then. That's fine. Not gaming as teenager probably prevent you knocking up some random girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 02:12 PM
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You want me to link to enough of the red pill subreddit to prove to you that "most" of it is not in fact aimed at men in relationships? Yes. It's not that hard. Anyone can post on it and if there is step by step instructions to how to approach a woman it's probably PUA. That makes as little sense as your downvote. What downvote? I was sleeping. -_- lol I'm not here waiting for your response. Are you a sexually successful man, who was once unsuccessful? Your experience there is significant regard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 02:10 PM
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Please link then. Because I went through the side bars. For beginners I would think developing outer game (PUA) is important first and learn to get over the nervousness of talking to women. Then after finding success there is to move into the inner game (TRP).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 04:52 AM
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Need more information because the way you successfully approach women will differ in different environments. I don't really know what TRP would suggest because most of their advice is for men who are already in a relationship and how to choose which women to date from their already available dating pool. PUA is a better choice for beginners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 04:45 AM
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So pretty much you have a body of a boy with boobs. :( Most women claim that shopping for clothes is hard. Women have diverse bodies. Big butts, small boobs, thick thighs, etc. Fashion has a hard time fitting everyone. I have unusually thick arms. Most people think I'm fatter than I am until they see how small my waist is. There have been more than one occasion that I have surprised people who I met in the winter and they see me with more tighter clothes in the spring. I hate buying button down …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 08:13 PM
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There is none. It's a discussion. Read the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 07:27 PM
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Nope. I wouldn't go and attack it if it's providing me a service that I can't get anywhere else. I'm sure that there are black terpers who ignore the racist comments made by some. It's hard to find the same information outside of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 04:44 PM
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TRP based their logic on this data chart on premarital sex. Virgins are less likely to divorce according to this study. Virgins tend to be young. TRP likes this combination. TRP don't like older career women. Even though most other studies show that they are less likely to divorce with older career women, they don't care. If they are going to put themselves at risk for divorce rape, they will go for what they want. You refuse to marry women who might be able to financially support themselves, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 01:06 PM
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The solution is prostitution. I see that others have posted the same answer yet you have not replied to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 07:50 AM
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You're right. I did neglect that detail in your situation. Since it's a fitness club then people's racial views don't matter. If I was a part of that club than I wouldn't say anything to change their views because I'm there to workout. That's my focus. If I mention in a conversation that I don't see them eye to eye and they have a problem with it then I'll leave. If they don't and if they like me enough then that alone may make them rethink their views. If my social life is being affected by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 07:15 AM
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How is leaving the group gonna help the group to see their views are wrong? The increased ability the find people who matches your point of view is one of the biggest changes that have happened in society due to technology. We are more socially segregated than ever. We have less friends and neighbors who hold different political views. We shouldn't walk away from people who hold different views and than complain about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:00 AM
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He started saying that he actually empathized with the Creepster, and then went on to say stuff that was straight out of the Terper handbook, like society is feminized and despises men like the creepy dude which only ostracizes them more, blah, blah, blah. I immediately clammed up (couldn't believe what I was hearing), but what was amazing (and awful) is that a lot of the girls agreed! You know why? Because he is attractive. If the creepster was saying this then all the girls would disagree. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 05:57 PM
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Then they are willfully ignorant. Even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 10:54 PM
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Thank you for writing this. TRP backing him up is an embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 10:29 PM
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Exactly hence why not measure a women's ability to have commitment sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:44 PM
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You can't talk about casual sex without commitment sex coming into play. They are two sides of the same coin. You can't separate these two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:23 PM
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She's attracted. Penis enters vagina. Same conduct. The only thing that's different is the factual context. If we are purely looking at conduct then her relationship status wouldn't be calculated in. Just purely penis enters vagina. Casual sex and commitment sex are both factual context. You are just accepting one factual context over another. You are picking and choosing based on what would help your agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:02 PM
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pulling out a very important element in the decision making process It's like he doesn't live in reality. Context matters. Why go and twist logic? He should just say that men don't find sluts attractive. It's simple. I don't understand how he just can't stick with the truth and be happy with only that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 11:00 PM
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There is really no way. Just tell them to stay away from shady female characters. Of course if you start educating what specific "type" of women to avoid then you will be called a women hating jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 04:21 PM
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Strawman. No one is arguing against lifting and strength. The argument is what is considered Alpha or attractive other than the physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/15 01:40 PM
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In the local area assuming no leads. I said this before. Depending on the location you can have 1,000 plus people living in one area. They could still try. We don't catch every murderer. We still look. Even if it costs a few bucks. That's fine but I'm pretty sure the courts will not allow such a search warrant because you are collecting private information from people with a very weak reason based on where they live. You would think a woman would secretly abandon a newborn in an area far away fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:55 PM
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Times the population of how ever many females in population. You are failing in math. Its not guaranteed to find the mother unless the whole country gets DNA tested!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:34 PM
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I don't think you are getting this. The father gets rid of child. Where did the child go? Just gone? Huh? How do you know whether the child is safe or not? You are completely disregarding the child. The most important component. Mother gets rid of child secretly through safe haven. Gave birth. No one knows. Not even father. Child is safe. See the difference? Its not a comparable solution. Its just fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:32 PM
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Wait what? How is the kidnapping killing daddy be the best interest of the child? The whole point of the best interest is to keep the child alive. Not dead! If a dead baby is found and the police investigate and found out the mother did it she will be arrested. How could the women lie about it later if the police doesn't know who she is? Whats so hard for you to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:20 PM
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Now you are really reaching with the defect angle. Of course these few children with have a harder time. Exceptions, not the norm I didn't claim that it cost nothing. Please follow the conversation. The dad does get arrested too if he was involved. So that's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 05:15 PM
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The father can get away with that if the police investigation doesn't figure it out. Though in all kidnapping cases the parents are looked at first because it has happened in the past. Its an option they have regardless whether safe havens exist or not. She can abandon the newborn on a park bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:57 PM
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The mother will call the police. It's not doable. Its not equality. Men cant secretly give birth to children. The law is not meant for women to have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:43 PM
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Those children are different from safe haven ones. Safe haven laws require the newborn to be under 30 days old. Newborns are easier to adopt out. They are young and cute. A mother can't abandon her ten year old in secret. There would be plenty of records about the existence of the child and the mother. Hunting the mother down to arrest her is way easier and doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:39 PM
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The initial cost of the public adoption will apply but after that it's the adoptive parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:29 PM
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I already explained this. The mother will need to be on the same page as him. Since she knows about the baby. Sure men can do it if the mother is on the same page too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:26 PM
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Exactly. In this situation we gotta pick the lesser of two evils.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:18 PM
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Men can't do any of that without being caught and keeping it a secret. How is that relevant? Women is not owed that option. Its not for them. Its for the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 04:10 PM
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If they gave birth at a hospital. Most women who abandon a newborn gave birth in secret. Knowing that they will abandon it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:45 PM
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A DNA test costs more than raising a child to adulthood? A DNA test? It's potentially thousands of DNA tests depending on the population of the location. The cost of raising a child to adulthood? That's coming out of the adoptive parents' pocket. You don't understand something as simple as the adoption process? Since you can't then you are mentally incapable of understanding the cost of building an system to round up all local women and testing them every time a random baby is found. Do I hate c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:43 PM
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As I said to other posters here, good luck finding these women. If identifying deadbeat mothers is easy then there wouldn't be safe havens in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 01:28 PM
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And since the best interests of the child trump any adult parental rights just round up any fertile women in the area and force them to give some DNA for testing More government is the answer? Spend your tax money on a bunch of expensive DNA tests? It's more cost efficient to just to put the the newborn up for adoption. Even if they do this the woman can just drive several states over to abandon the newborn. The government can't possibly DNA test everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 01:08 PM
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They will abandon the newborn someplace else. There is really no way to control this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 01:02 PM
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How do you think men will be able to kill their newborns in secret? We can always get rid of safe havens but then churches will replace them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:57 PM
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Good luck trying to find these women. If they can't leave a newborn at a hospital they will just leave it at a park bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 12:32 PM
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Safe haven is a place to abandon newborns secretly. Unless the government finds a way to track every pregnancy, women will be able to get away with it easily. It happened plenty of times in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 10:41 AM
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The whole thing will be resolved if neither have the choice. Both decided to not use birth control properly, both take responsibility. There is no force. Paper abortion is a logistical nightmare that will have the government intrude in our lives even more. I don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 10:34 AM
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Men will have a harder time killing their newborn in secret. The mother will need to be on the same page as him. She automatically knows about the newborn since she gave birth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:04 AM
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If she terminates then she is making the choice to be not responsible for the man as well. Paper abortion do not solve the problem of giving men a choice. Men can't choose to keep the child if the woman wants to abort it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 03:00 AM
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No. There is no way of preventing women from killing or abandoning their newborn if kept a secret. Might as well have the safe havens. Prevent dead newborns > keep women responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 02:52 AM
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It's a no go. She has been through a lot for a 24 year old and I'm confident that there will be more in the future. Enjoy this LTR while it lasts. Don't have kids. You are too old and too settled for your low stress life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 02:45 AM
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I really hate that "best interests of the child" argument from feminists as well. It doesn't hold up as you described. I'm against paper abortions in the name of equality. Paper abortions do not produce the same result as real abortions. Real abortion terminates the responsibilities of both parents. Paper abortion only does that for the man. It doesn't level the playing field at all between genders. In this situation, biological inequality can not be solved unless you ban abortions all together.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/15 01:25 AM
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The implication put forth by mainstream wisdom (and not contradicted in any way by feminists or women in general) is that women have a list of logical "criteria" that men must meet in order to be deemed worthy. What exactly are the criteria? Being a doctor? Let's say that someone told a male doctor that I would love to get together with someone in his profession and that man decides to approach me. I reject him and he asks why. I tell him I'm not attracted to him whether he is a doctor or not. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 05:06 PM
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I think that men are more than willing to admit that there's very little thought process that goes on when determining which women they're attracted to. Men even acknowledge this superficial, thoughtless attitude in a somewhat joking manner by telling each other "you're thinking with the little head instead of the big head." Likewise, even women might criticize men for "only having one thing on their minds," yet men seem to take it all in stride and almost revel in that idea. There has been many…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 08:14 AM
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I don't quite understand this about narc.s If they have a delusionally high self esteem, why believe they have to go to such great efforts to look amazing? A need for narcissistic supply is one of the main traits of a narcissist. They have to be the prettiest compared to others. Being an extra 10 pounds lighter and having eyeliner on can bump you up a full SMV point. The data was rather ambiguous about what exactly define adaptive vs. maladptive traits, could you give some examples iyo? It is. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 03:09 PM
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If the real world hasn't given you reasons than this thread will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 01:15 PM
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What % of women do you believe have NPD or high presence of narcissistic traits? What % of men? I googled the percentage. Anywhere between 6 to 10 percent of the total population. Men have a higher rate on narcissism than women. So if it's 6 percent than only 2 percent are women. Do you believe that higher SMV people have on average higher narc. traits? Yes. Do you believe that this is gendered or agendered? Agendered. Do you believe that high SMV women in particular will have higher narc. trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 12:51 PM
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You can't match up in SMV when women's SMV are higher than men in general. There are more "8" women than "8" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/15 02:39 AM
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Would you leave a man who said that you were less than his physical ideal and that he enjoys sex with you and is OK with you but would enjoy it more if he was with a better looking better feeling woman? I have met men that I was more attracted to sexually as well. No one gets together with their first choice. Even if they do, they will still want variety and get together with other attractive people. So no. I won't be upset and I won't leave. The perception that you can only love one person and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/15 10:09 AM
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But the girls won't lower their sights. and they get used everytime they choose not to lower their sights. Isn't lower their sights a bad thing in TRP? Women who do this are terrible people who pull men into an AF/BB relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:50 AM
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Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 08:24 AM
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Typical modern women who ride the CC and become ultra jaded aren't loveable. Why did the man marry her then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 11:01 PM
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They do when they turn 27. Gotta take that shot at a high level male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 03:23 AM
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It's anyone's guess. Amit maybe gay and realized that Nikki's family maybe too much of a hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/15 12:00 AM
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I don't have enough information. If the red pill brother was actually Nikki's brother who lived with her and watched her over the years get together with 10+ white dudes then sure. A relative that lives far away who potentially be overdosing on TRP to the point where maybe he is hallucinating then no. Nikki may have lied about her virginity and the fact that they were with white dudes may not have mattered to Amit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:48 PM
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So she spent over a decade fucking white men who only wanted her for easy sex and she somehow expects complete compliance from her fiance? She could have lost her virginity at 22. You are jumping to so much conclusion without any evidence. Amit did nothing wrong, he got new info, made a decision based on it. I know. I didn't say that he did anything wrong. The RP brother did nothing wrong, Amet and Nikki talked about what the RP brother said, and it seems Nikki revealed information she omitted. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:27 PM
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He should automatically believe that she is not attracted to him because she dated two white guys in the past? That's dumb. The number of men definitely matters. It's like an N count. Whether she lied about it is an educated guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:13 PM
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Then she is hiding shit and it's been more than a couple of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:10 PM
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The brothers only see their cousin once a year. A good chuck of her 20's were when they were teenagers. How in the world does the red pill brother know so much about his older cousin's love life? It's not unusual for Asian parents to meet the significant other after the engagement. Asian parents are super overbearing and it's less stressful to postpone the introduction as long as possible. I'm dreading my own wedding because of my Asian mother. The white men she may have been dating might have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 11:05 PM
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that his value as a man will only rise Technical nitpick here but only rise? Come on. If his finances or personality don't improve then it's a SMV fall fest. My question is how many relationships were she in before Amit? If it was only two and they were both white that doesn't indicate a strong preference for white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 10:26 PM
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Can you define alpha and beta for us? Most men are a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 09:24 PM
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There are some evidence that men with little to no resources prefer heavy women. "If you live in an environment where food is scarce, being heavier means that you have fat stored up as a buffer and that you must be higher social status to afford the food in the first place," Tovee explains. "Both of these are attractive qualities in a partner in those circumstances." The study only involved 40 men though. http://abcnews.go.com/Health/stressed-men-prefer-heavier-women-study/story?id=16950542
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 04:38 PM
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It's not a hyperbole. I'm being serious. Many sociopaths in history had weird body language. If I'm talking to someone and they are rolling their eyes at me but at the same time claiming with their words that they are taking me seriously than I'm not going to believe them. You can go ahead and naively take their words seriously. People lie or try to manipulate other people into believing something else all the time. Training the body to nonverbally communicate the lie is very hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 12:51 PM
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You are underestimating the importance of body language. Body language is nonverbal communication. Your partner's nonverbals should put you as ease and make you comfortable. It's just as important as honesty, empathy and kindness. Body language is not something made up and illogically given importance. It's a natural and initiative human process that helps us separate dangerous sociopaths and potential mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 11:38 AM
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I can't believe you didn't mention being fat. The number one trait that I see with white women that date black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 03:08 AM
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I know women want high status men or men demonstrating high value, my conditions make me do the opposite often, will I be foerveralone? You sound like an obese woman complaining that she will never be loved because she is not a Victoria Secret model. Most men will date women who aren't extremely thin. Most women will date men who do not have high value. An obese women can lose weight and become a "chubby but cute" type who has a chance. Your goal should be to improve and not give up just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/15 04:56 AM
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it helps to have those instincts properly formed up and not intentionally suppressed by the FI and feminist indoctrination. Or by random people on the internet. Your bias against sluts are your right but I wouldn't go around accusing individuals of lying without any evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:12 PM
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As a REAL man, why in the hell would you believe it if a reformed slut says she "really cares about you" or "wants to do it right this time"? Are reformed sluts automatically a liar? If that's the case then why don't they just claim that they are virgins? And how do you know she's honest about her intentions? because you "ask" her what they are? You can never tell if someone is honest at all. As a man this is when you trust your instincts. If you think everyone is lying then go MGTOW and stop wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 01:56 PM
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If you were in a new relationship with someone, found out they had slept with almost every other one of their partners with little delay, but wanted to make you wait much longer... knowing little to nothing else about their sexual past/reasoning... would you be ok with that? I'm going to try to see it from a man's POV. Since I don't know the woman's reasoning behind it then I'll start asking questions. If she tries to dodge them then I'll dump her. I would feel like a chump. If the reason was be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 11:03 AM
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Well then they aren't very Red Pill now, are they? We had these conversation before about TRP potential. TRP can't possibility make every man into an alpha. There are limitations to TRP. You can only realistically go up 2 SMV points. A redpiller is a man who learned the reality of the SMV market. How he chooses to do with that information is up to him. Many redpillers are MGTOW and have no relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:00 AM
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It is a given that the hero will be the lead in the relationship, and things like pinning, grabbing, and even forceful kisses are common. I read manga when I was a teenager. It shows that if a man is attractive enough he can get away with pretty much anything. It doesn't work for unattractive men though. The main girl being saved by a hottie from an unattractive loser trying to force her to doing things with him is a common plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 10:07 PM
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A male sexbot that I can program it to do what I like? Artificial wombs so I don't have to go through labor pain and weight gain? Sign me up!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:54 PM
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It bothers me that someone like Katherine Heigl in the really bad movie "The Ugly Truth" is portrayed as someone who has a hard time getting a date. In the movie, she is beautiful and works on TV with plenty of social opportunities. How am I suppose to take her disastrous dating life seriously when in the real world she would have had no problem locking down an attractive man? I know that I'm the minority in this mind set. Most women who have trouble dating want to believe that they are just as …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 09:41 PM
2

Yup. I love my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 11:57 AM
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Pretty much manage a warehouse of product and ship them safely to different parts of the country. The product that I work with is hazardous chemical protection gear for various jobs like firefighters and military.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 11:49 AM
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It really sucks that people feel that way. I'm a product of race mixing being half asian and white. People who are against it just come across to me like they are pro-incest. That mixing different genes are bad even though it's the healthy thing to do for the population. FYI the boyfriend who said ew was Brazilian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:34 AM
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I'm not attracted to American black men. Their culture is a turn off. I did date an African immigrant who grew up mostly in the states. He had extremely dark skin, his parents pushed him to do well in school, respectful, dressed nice, pretty much the opposite of the negative stereotype of blacks. Things didn't work out with him after dating him for 8 months. I did get shit for dating him. Black women hated me. White men thought I was a whore and that I was "experimenting". The next boyfriend acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 03:05 AM
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Supply chain specialist and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 02:56 AM
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Recently a male coworker in my section talked about how a female from another section is crazy in love with him. I'm friends with this female and knows she doesn't like him at all. She literally thinks that he stinks and needs to take a shower. She is a friendly person and puts on a smile for everyone. You can't trust people's interruption of reality. Internet or IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/15 02:30 AM
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My sisters are into yaoi manga. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 07:32 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 09:39 PM
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I don't really know my state of mind at that time. I remember my feelings for him increased two folds the moment it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 10:06 AM
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You did better than me. I balled my eyes out for 3 months after things fell apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:12 AM
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I'm glad that you didn't marry him! Divorced men are a deal breaker for me now. Too much risk involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 01:00 AM
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Bad. Very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:40 AM
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I decided to date a divorced man 8 years older than me. He told me that his ex wife cheated and he did everything he can to make the marriage work. We got engaged within 3 months of dating since he was the first man to ever say "I love you". I really wanted it to be true. Turns out he jumped the gun and I was the rebound. He wasted six more months of my life trying convince me to leave him because I was "too good for him". My mistake was that I thought he was having self esteem issues and that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 12:36 AM
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She got pregnant with her husband's DNA. I highly doubt her not wanting to become pregnant the second time is because the DNA is not good enough anymore. She decided that she doesn't want kids and purposely not telling her husband. She is wasting his time. He is the breadwinner and she is a parasite. I can understand why he got angry and lost control but what she is doing to him is unforgivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 03:43 AM
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The beauty of the reading men is that their pictures were taken in public. The coffee men are posing. They are models. They know they are attractive. These men are unattainable. The reading men are attainable. They are normal people among us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 11:29 PM
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Novelty and entertainment. Its not like he was successful with these women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 07:10 PM
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I think this website should be renamed Plenty of Female Social Retards. And to all the women I have emailed who have not bothered to give a great guy a chance, or even an response, you really do deserve someone as ignorant as yourselves. As he said previously on the forum, women get messaged a lot. It's really impossible to message back and give a chance with every man. Most women don't use those websites to actively find someone. Especially a free one. They just make a profile and will only mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 04:06 PM
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How do you manage shared property? Even though he technically lives with me, I pay rent for the apartment. He pays for his own apartment which is like a storage place right now. He already sign the lease for it and waiting til it ends. How is being a grown up and paying bills and cleaning the house handled? I do the laundry, dishes and vacuum. He takes the trash out. I pay the electric and internet bill because it's my place. The apartment is so small that keeping it clean is super easy. I'll ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:43 PM
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It's the equivalent to lift for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 04:54 PM
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No. He was still a jerk. I just thought that it was actually nice that he realized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:57 PM
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Ranting it on the internet anonymously is healthier than doing it IRL where it will have an effect on your social group. When we are sizing up someone as a potential mate we don't look at their reddit account unless you're a snooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:41 PM
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It's kind of funny to see the goalpost moving going on here It's kind of funny that was my opinion about your OP. Taking something that women said and exaggerating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:15 PM
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Well he grew up. He opened up about it and admit that he did stuff that wasn't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 02:10 PM
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Where is the toxicity in that thread? I been told that I'm fat, stupid and entitled on PPD. I'm still here. If someone doesn't have enough of a backbone or emotional intelligence to shrug these things off than don't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 01:48 PM
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Or because they know they will not be held responsible for their actions? Why is being beaten up for talking smack is considered taking responsibility? Let's look at it from the other perspective. If someone comes up to me and try to convince me with words to throw a punch, am I obligated to? No. I don't want to fight. I'm not going to potentially hurt myself to hold someone "responsible". No one should be handle responsible if it takes freedom and safety away from another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 09:47 PM
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There are escorts all over the internet. Legalizing it is not an important enough issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 01:18 AM
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I wish there were examples posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/15 12:06 AM
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Level 1 through 9 is fine. 10, 11, 12 clearly tells the woman she is going to be cheated on or divorced. That's not dreading something bad is going to happen to the relationship, it's confirming that it's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 11:10 PM
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I did get fed up. I thought about making a thread about it but was not really looking forward to argue whether it's considered dread or not. Originally I thought dread was to make one feel like they are about to lose you even though you are not planning on leaving. But a RP post called "12 levels of dread" painted a much different picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 10:41 PM
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I accidentally used dread on my sister. My relationship with her has been difficult. My opinions are often different from hers and she has a high need for validation. When she doesn't get the reactions that she wants out of me she starts being passive aggressive. I stopped engaging with her like a year ago. Kept things short and to the point. She recently broke down and cried to me wondering what has happened. I told her my feelings and we been trying to get along better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 05:42 PM
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Never been in one. Thats a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:16 PM
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No. The disagreement is about how the world is which determines sane behavior. If someone named Neo came to me and told me that what I see is in front of me is not real then can you blame me for not believing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 11:59 AM
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No woman is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 12:48 AM
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The ultimate goal is being in charge of your own life and not being at the mercy of a particular woman who can either grant or deny you her grace. I like that version of TRP better than the OP's. I was dumbfounded on why the OP asked for failure examples. Asking that question implies that he thinks TRP is an infallible system. No system is perfect and works 100 percent of the time. Failing is an important part of growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:25 PM
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Where in the TRP side bar link give insight to when to be a beta? What if the story would have had a different result? What if it was a field report, and she cleaned up and got over it? Would the TRP crowd response be any different? Would they have been patting him on the back good job? That she had enough time to get over the miscarriage and needed a strong man to tell her to? Any evidence that shows that TRP doesn't work is just going to be hamstered away as "That's not TRP!" because TRP is an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 09:55 PM
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BP as in purely not being RP? Sure I guess. TRP tells men to be paranoid in this social climate, I don't disagree. With globalization, meeting new people are more common and easier than ever. Attractive married women are constantly being reminded of how easy it is for them to find a replacement husband. Edit: I just noticed my flair was on off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 03:45 AM
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I'm glad that he pointed out that married women will still want an attractive alpha man even when they never indulged in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 03:26 AM
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I think men assess their women based more of whether she flirts with other men, have a slutty reputation, wear certain clothes that asks for attention, cheated in past relationships, etc. When men feel safe in a relationship, they will not ask. There are no reasons to dig up such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 05:08 PM
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Because I seen the two of the biggest sluts that I have ever met in my life get married to decent attractive men. None of my past eight boyfriends ever asked how many I slept with. The only time I ever heard of a woman's past being brought up was after the man dumped her because he found her cheating. Ironically this man married one of the sluts I mentioned earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/15 04:25 AM
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A man with options can certainly wait for sex. He can get it on with a side chick while getting to know a woman before agreeing on monogamy. I seen many men do this. They would be going after a prudish 8 who is relationship material while having a 6 FWB. Lots of attractive men don't live the player lifestyle. Lots of men are willingly to wait it out for more than a couple of dates. It's a good filter to see if he is a hit it or quit it type and to get to know him to see if she actually likes him…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 09:15 PM
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Look I'm not taking my time to report you. I get what you are saying. I have no desire to have such a debate. My bad on this. I should have not replied back to have this continue like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:50 AM
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It's irrelevant for the OP topic. If it's personally relevant to you make a new thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:35 AM
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That doesn't invalid the reason. It's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:23 AM
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Feminism has told woman that they can sleep around and still find their prince charming. Prince charming don't care about her past. He "mans up"!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/15 12:14 AM
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If a woman finds that sleeping with men too early doesn't help her meet her relationship goals than it would pretty stupid for her to keep on doing it. It's like a "nice guy" staying nice instead of turning to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/15 11:41 PM
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That breakdown is so impractical for everyone to use IRL. The N means unique sex partners. HJ is not sex or titty fucking. It's slutty yeah. But it's not sex. Sex can't be quantified in decimal places. Next thing you know wearing a short mini skirt is considered sex because it gave someone a boner. If you make everything into sex it loses it's meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 08:05 PM
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Oh I see what you mean. I do see it in mostly with teens and mid 20s women. Women do get better at learning and going for what they like when they are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 06:05 PM
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If tongue and dick penetration counts then logically french kissing can be considered a plus to the N. And it's less about the penetration as it is about the fact that she's allowing a guy to sexually stimulate and gratify her. I agree and broadening the definition of sex and what counts as N seem like it will cause more confusion and muddle what people actually have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:26 PM
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Idk understand what you mean by that. Sometimes people cut each other off in "warming up phase" because they found out information about the other one that they don't like. It's not a rare situation for a man to finger and oral stimulate a woman in the beginning and the woman either didn't like his performance enough to go further or she met Chad the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:22 PM
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So a woman receiving oral doesn't count on her N?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 05:16 PM
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Wanting to do more stuff and being able to are two different things. Many people when they start dating will start off with fingering, hand jobs, and oral before moving up to the main event.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:58 PM
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Would a man who only licked clits still consider himself a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 04:05 PM
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So if a women receives oral sex it doesn't count? Does it count for the man? Broadening the definition of sex and what counts as N seem like it will cause more confusion and muddle what people actually have done. I'm sure a man who only licked a clit would still consider himself a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:51 PM
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Why do blow jobs count? Is a woman not a virgin anymore if she only done blow jobs? Do men count blow jobs in their N?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 03:31 PM
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Dumb questions get dumb replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/15 02:27 AM
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Your flair is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 12:48 AM
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That's good advice and if you have enough choices to where you don't need to change the mind of a fence sitter then that is good too. But most men don't have an abundance of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 12:36 AM
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If she doesn't want to date, then she should decline the invite. I agree but what about the indifferent ones who don't know? Do you want to be given a chance or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 12:18 AM
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If he doesn't want to date than he will not ask or accept dates. The asker is wanting the assess more the the askee.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 12:05 AM
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This opens the door for women to abuse their privileges, as they often do. Oh the foodzone. This is why I think eating out is not a good first date. It's terrible that many women accept dates with men that they know that they will never be attracted to and use them for free meals. But there is a gray area in attraction. If someone is interested and asks you out but you're feelings are neutral, what should happen? Should you go out of the way equally for someone that you are indifferent toward? L…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 11:52 PM
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You don't have to go on a date if you don't want to. Nobody is holding a gun to your head. That's irrelevant. People don't have to do anything. When asking someone on a date, you are asking that person to invest their time to get to know you and share information about themselves. That person is going out of their way to accept your request. Offering to pay for the date shows gratitude for that chance. After the first date and the one who was asked out wants another date then they should pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 11:26 PM
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Yeah but they are unattractive. To women they are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:41 PM
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I'm cool with you too! The market already did a good job regulating itself. Men don't ask out promiscuous, obnoxious, horrible dressing, short haired, microwave addict with a masculine personality. The women who are like this that demands to get equal attention are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:35 PM
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I'm being serious not sarcastic. You shouldn't pick and choose to demand equality in areas that only benefits your gender. Men don't have to pay for the meals. Men don't have to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:22 PM
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Why do you care about equality of the who asks who out? Men are the buyers in the SMV market. Women are the sellers. Feminists can try to push women to become CEOs and engineers for "equality" but reality is that most of them are not suited for these jobs. Same with initiating dates. They are not suited for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:13 PM
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Asking someone on a date and not offering to pay is rude. I'm not gonna ask someone to come over for dinner but tell them that they have to bring their own food.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 09:55 PM
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Well it's play or get played. Giving up the monogamy on the first date is the equivalent to sex on the first date. Just asking to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:41 AM
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Ambiguity is everywhere. I read this dating blog years ago that advised women to date multiple men at all times until the topic of monogamy comes up. You can't waste your time and emotions on one person hoping after seeing each other for weeks or months to find out whether they like you enough to make things official. Being ghosted is rough. Purposely being kept ignorant is maddening. My ex-fiance decided to do the extreme disappearing act after failing to manipulate me to break up with him. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 11:31 PM
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I'm surprised that the man didn't get hurt when she told him she needed to think about it before making things offical. That's a major red flag. She is a dumbass for putting that shit on the internet. Plenty of women have been in her place. Very rarely in life that a couple is each others first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 07:32 PM
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Women want to fuck slayers, but they want their sons to be the exact opposite? Women don't know that they want fuck slayers. They consciously want nice guys but subconsciously want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 02:32 PM
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Lol. Marriage is a status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 01:34 AM
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1) No because freedom. 2) I don't know. 3) John opens himself up for more risks but he also has more opportunities to gain. His client options are limitless. If his holistic algorithm is correct, he is gonna roll in dough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 12:21 AM
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The only reason why really adoring and caring for someone is lame, is that apparently women don't understand it and can't reciprocate it. Pedestrianization is not simply adoring or caring for someone. It's believing in grand characteristics or traits of a person when you haven't taken the proper time and effort to get to know them. Or it's being willfully ignorant that the shitty person you are dating isn't really shitty. Hence the saying "love is blind". I had the opposite happen to me. I dated…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 03:20 PM
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It's fine by me. Unless you are going around purposely treating women like shit or trying to convince other men that their SO is shit simply because she is a woman than I see no harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/15 08:14 AM
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ATTRACTIVE men play the field. Because they can. Goes to show that when men are given options they will play the field. Men who strive for higher education aren't attractive because of their higher education. It's a very accepted fact in the TRP world that women only want men with at least equal or higher education as themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:29 PM
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I think that it's not men who are delaying commitment and marriage. Men play the field. It has been shown that when men are in an environment with more options they will delay marriage. Men who strive for higher education get married later. Men want to be financially stable first before marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 02:19 PM
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Read this thread and check the graph out!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/15 01:48 PM
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The answer is in your own post. "Hey, AWALT is generalizing and generalizing is wrong!" "AWALT is meaningless, guys, I can't believe you silly twerps are so simple minded!" "How could you live by that nonsense, women are all different and special?!" You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 09:05 PM
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I like that you didn't just say sex and stay slim. Just being physical attractive and available isn't enough for some men. Behind every hot chick is a man tired of fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:30 PM
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If a man doesn't bring anything else on the table than why would a woman even try to lock him down? Stick with the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:27 PM
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No. Not at all. One of the major advantages I love about being a woman is that I'm accepted in society whether I'm a masculine career woman or a feminine SAHM. A tomboy or prissy princess. Men don't get to have a variety of personas to take on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 02:23 PM
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ID checked to must sure you are 21 or over for alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 07:35 AM
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I choose ass. I got carded less when I was heavier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 06:59 AM
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Omg... mods please delete this troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 12:27 AM
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Black women have a hard time in the dating world. Black men are swimming in pussy because they have a high incarceration and unemployment rate. Basically there are more women than men in the market place. My solution is go on every non creeper online date possible. There must be men who are willing to meet up for coffee without mentioning race or sex. Go on every single one. I did it and met some interesting men. None of them worked out and I met my current boyfriend through work but you gotta p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 11:53 PM
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Every slut was a virgin at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 06:24 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being a hypocrite. As others have said we don't want to date ourselves. The problem is that men who believe that non-virgin women are unworthy of a marriage but sleeps around are purposing creating more non-virgins. To have these men turn around and complain that they can't find a virgin to settle with makes my eyes roll. It's like my father being against Walmart. He thinks it's bad for small business. But every time he needs to buy something he goes to Walmart and su…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 02:26 PM
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If her parents getting heavily involved is a problem then go for an uneducated one from a lower socioeconomic background. Parents put a lot of effort into their educated daughter. They might become more intrusive after the wedding. Since your parents are laid back find a woman from the same background.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 03:18 AM
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Ok so no destructive dating pattern. Why not just see who is available and go with who you are attracted to? Or do you have so many choice that you need to narrow it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 12:31 AM
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Any particular reason why they ended badly? Would there be a possibility that the marriage will end the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 12:09 AM
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Do you have experience dating educated women? If you haven't but feel that TRP instilled some fear in you than I say avoid them. I don't want you to go into a marriage half hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:44 PM
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What does your mother and father think? Usually Asian parents want their son to marry a woman with similar education.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/15 10:26 PM
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Men have always been wayyyy more critical of women's look by picture than in person. A picture just doesn't do a good job showing off all dimensions. That's why models have to be extremely thin and tall. In person they are very alien looking but the camera add 10 pounds to round them up nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 09:06 PM
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I know its a joke but its a bad ass name.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 08:36 PM
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Yeah... Some bitches are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 10:59 AM
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I have. You won't take the answer no. This is not last minute resistance. This is me taking out a frying pan to whack you off of me. If someone wanna cupcake. They are talking about a cupcake. Not a pie, a brownie, pudding or a potato. When someone want something they usually have an exact idea of what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 06:15 AM
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Also, your whole point seems to be TRP will never give these men exactly what they want. No shit Shirley. Nothing will. I want a rotating harem of 16-18 yo virgins, nothing will get me that. But at least TRP gave me the option of slutty college plates. Exactly. No shit! But you are trying to keep this argument alive for no reason. We agreed and you don't seem to like it. I don't why you keep on trying to pick a fight with me but no biggie I'll live.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 06:03 AM
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Also, how do you know what way these men want to live their life? I don't. How do you know what these men don't want? Are you claiming that there are literally zero men with limited SMV who would want a young perfect 10 virgin? That omegas don't want to get together with the most "in demand" women? Be realistic!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:39 AM
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Cool. We agree. Then the following statement must be false. TRP give men options to live the way they wanna live.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:25 AM
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If that is the case why did you say this in our previous discussion? I've changed my stance on TRP effectiveness and now believe not all men can be salvaged and saved. The manlets, perma-virgins, ugly men posting here can't realistically become alpha, let alone marry a women they actually want anyway. Don't be all black and white. Sometimes TRP works and other times it doesn't. The OP claiming that it's some magic pill that give men the ability to live the way they want is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:23 AM
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How do you know TRP didn't give men the option to live the way they wanna live? Because no system is perfect and we still have limitations as human beings. If TRP was so perfect everyone would have taken it by now and live happily ever after. You had the same mentality too in our previous discussion about at best some men can only achieve a BB marriage. Are you serious? Please show example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 05:13 AM
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If you want to live the way you wanna live, you don't ask for other's opinion. You just choose and go along with you decision. And many TRP will call these people TBP and how they are still "plugged in". It's actually very similar to religion within the context of not seeing "the light". Also, adding a few points to your SMV is better than keep doing whatever it was that made you that many points lower than your potential. No shit. Also, how do you know what TRP men want to live the way the wann…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 03:54 AM
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You are all over the place. If that is your attitude about Christianity then you are not really a Christian. You don't want to sacrifice certain things in your life like Jesus did than leave the church and stop wasting their time. TRP don't give men options to live the way they wanna live. For example most men can't and never be able to get with a young perfect 10 virgin. The best TRP can do is add up to two point on his existing SMV. Make a post on TheRedPill about how you want to marry a 35 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 03:34 AM
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The girl will live, should get over it and don't buy into the TRP mentality that she is damaged goods. She shouldn't have given it up out of desperation and that's a good lesson to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 12:37 AM
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I've changed my stance on TRP effectiveness and now believe not all men can be salvaged and saved. The manlets, perma-virgins, ugly men posting here can't realistically become alpha, let alone marry a women they actually want anyway. Fair enough. So gotta teach them to be just Alpha enough to ignore the taboo find them prime pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 06:19 AM
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Do you think those older men in those responses are all paying for pussy? No. Just that one example. Yes, but gold digging 15 year olds are preferable to gold digging 35 year olds. You know what is better than a gold digging woman? A non gold digging woman. I'm trying to educate wealthy beta men into paying for interchangable Prime Pussy rather than a risky BB marriage to a post-waller. Paying for pussy into marriage is BB regardless of the age of the woman. Why not teach them how to be an Alpha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 05:48 AM
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There's other responses in that thread too of happy age gaps. Yes there is and you picked that horrible example. Good job. Gold digging is gold digging whether the woman is 15 or 35 years old. The older man is a beta paying for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 05:22 AM
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She doesn't have emotional problems. She openly admits that she is a gold digger. Yeah that's so much better. Oh course she will still get shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 04:55 AM
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If a guy was acting like that I wouldn't think he likes me in a traditional manner either. She said he straight up ignores her when they are alone but than random tried to kiss her suddenly. He is fucking with her and sending mixed signals. This shit is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 01:35 PM
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Noah is beta as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 06:59 AM
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I can't compare to my imaginary 10 to 20 years older self. It's easy to avoid tingles when I have the internet for entertainment. Porn is nice too when I'm in a certain mood. I'm sure that the wide availability of porn had an effect on the male population to go out to find women IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 04:11 AM
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More entertainment. Nintendo, play station, cell phones, reddit, etc We are less likely to go out to socialize IRL to develop boners and tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 03:29 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 12:55 PM
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My boyfriend is hot in his straight legged jeans and a v neck sweatshirt. Yum yum...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 04:53 AM
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I know you think it's silly but what would you expect from an upper middle class 18 year old girl? She is not a part of the most maturest demographic. If you think that people should get away with looking like crap then fine. Its not hard to dress nice. If you want to be the top 20% you gotta look like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 04:32 AM
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I really hate it when TRP use this study to claim women find 80% of men below average even though their messaging patterns states otherwise. Don't listen to what women say! Watch what they do! TRP 101 people!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 04:05 AM
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It was the third time meeting him. Not enough to time to really get to know him to truly like him. Just a random crush. Initial impressions can make or break a guy. When a girl have a lot of decent options then at times you have to disqualify a man over superficial stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:51 AM
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That was the most extreme example I seen of. Here is a more realistic one. I had a really pretty young thin, blonde, blue eyed college friend. She had a crush on a classmate. We all met up for bowling. This guy came in with sweatpants and she lost all attraction toward him. Other guys within the group wore sweatpants too. Even though he was within normal standard and dress casually for a college student, he lost all chances with her. It sucked because he didn't even know that she had a crush on …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:39 PM
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I once had a man asked me out and he was wearing a shirt that was extremely wrinkled. He never put it away properly after doing the laundry. I told him that next time he asks a girl out he should put on clothes that are not wrinkled. He told me that women should like him for who he is and shouldn't care about his shirt. A year ago he hired a hooker to sleep with him because he kept getting rejected. It's not as common sense as you think between men ages 18 to 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:17 PM
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I have met many betas and omegas that had difficulty dating who were fat and couldn't dress themselves. When someone complains that they are not getting results naturally you will start wondering whether they have the basics down. TRP goes over these basics as well because it's a huge problem. Sorry you got lumped into the fatties. If it doesn't pertain to you than ignore it. Think of it like AWALT. It's just generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:57 PM
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The OP stated using dread. If the girl is just merely a FWB then there would be no need for dread since she isn't interested in a relationship. The friendzone isn't a man who is just friends with a girl. It's a man who wants a relationship or sex who is just friends with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:11 PM
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Do women in the fuckzone mean that they want a relationship? Or is it as the same as friends with benefits or fuck buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:04 PM
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Her original thread acknowledged that getting laid is easy for a somewhat attractive woman. She wanted to know what the difference between beautiful and merely fuckable. The thread went out of focus and her personal self esteem issues became the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:18 PM
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Its funny. Light skinned women are considered more attractive is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:44 PM
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Manson is not red pill at all. He doesn't believe in many of the core beliefs of red pill like AWALT and dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:08 AM
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21! Dating comes with a lot of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:04 AM
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This is why I think TRP only works for men who are already in a relationship or already able get a date. It's deeper inner game to get them further with women. PUA actually actually give you the practical step by step instructions on how to find and engage with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 11:00 AM
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I looked up the average height for men in the states. It's 5'10. You're right he is a 5. Im personally ok with 5'8 since I'm 5'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 09:25 PM
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Sergey is a 6. Mostly because he is 5'8. Chris is a 9. He is a 6'3 pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 09:20 PM
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LMAO! A 3 at the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 08:58 PM
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I looked him up on Google for his face. He is a good looking guy. He could do some lifting to get some meat in his arms but he has height and a good body frame. He is at least an 8 in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:50 PM
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She has a super round face. Its cute but since its outside of normal ranges that its a slight turn off to some men. Flat chest. Not very good hip to waist ratio. She is hot. Men would not turn her down IRL. She just isn't that hot compared to other internet pictures of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:06 AM
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The older generation is a big part of the problem as well. There are huge pressures in many Asian countries for women to marry up. When a daughter leaves the main household to her husband's, her husband has to be financially well off enough to take care of her. Anything less will create family drama. She has to be just as successful or qualified as he is. She has to impress the husband's family as well to prove that she is not a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:36 AM
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My hobby is mostly listening to podcasts. I use to do some competition video editing. I noticed many women love to read. Something that most men can't get into hence book clubs are mostly women. Men's hobbies are either sports, video games or working on cars. They are not that interesting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:07 AM
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You can find all types of stories online. It's one of the great things about internet. If I'm going through something that my friends and family never been through than I can go online to find someone who been there to gain validation and find advice. As for the lack of sex. It's not something people want to talk about IRL. It's an awkward topic and I don't think someone like my dad would want to talk about how I can bone my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:22 AM
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This reminds me of the MDIT thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:12 AM
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I have no solution. I never been in that position and don't know anyone who has...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 11:02 PM
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Hence why I said Dead bedroom is still an issue of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 05:16 PM
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To each of their own. I just think that claiming that these women aren't pretty enough for the screen all together is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:31 PM
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My boyfriend thought the blonde chick who played the live action Cinderella wasn't hot enough. I thought he was being ridiculous. So spoiled by Hollywood perfection in any other movies. As for other people telling you that you are bragging. They get mad when women don't acknowledge that they are being hit on. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. No wonder women don't acknowledge it! Plenty of TRP come here bragging about how better looking the women that they date are now when after …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:23 PM
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Men drive drunk more than women. Though women are getting arrested more for it than previous years. By law both genders aren't suppose to have sex or drive when drunk. The law is just bias against men when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:50 AM
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To Jesus AHALT. Everyone sins. He is the red pill for all humanity. He took a lot of shit from people. He just knew that he was right and kept going.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:08 AM
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It sounds more like women who tell men this want to come across modest, not a hoe by having no opportunities to be one or signaling the man to ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 08:56 AM
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Thanks for reading through for me! I had a feeling that the OP was having conformation bias. Dead bedroom is still an issue of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/15 08:40 AM
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I'm a cheating hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 04:10 AM
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The first story sounded like the woman was confused by the logic than being stun by being proven wrong. I was confused too. Women create child equals men create society? Surely the current society won't exist without 50% of it's members. Women can't create a child without a sperm but once the initial process is over it's pretty much only the woman that matters to bring the child to term. Lawyers make bullshit arguments all the time to win. It's their job is to fight it from every possible angle …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 11:10 PM
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They have restng bitch face. Most men won't approach until there is a clear signal that she wants to be approached. Women just being looked at is not considered attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 10:41 PM
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You want her to like you for you. I say open up your past and see what happens. If she is disgusted then dump her. You have plenty of other options. Abundance mentality is a way for you to not get stuck to a women who doesnt treat you well. I know breaking frame is usually not a good advise but I think you should take this opportunity to explore the potential dark sides of dating to figure out where your boundaries should be at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 01:30 PM
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There is no "agenda". Its simply disagreeing that the women of interest are the ones purposely lying and stringing men along. If men are being lied to then it's by other people in society who is not Bob about how to get the job. Like parents and worthless schools who wants tution money for their worthless degrees. Or John who is another company owner gave Jim bad advice who wasn't willing to hire Jim himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 11:44 AM
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The "chase your dream" shtick was given to everyone. So were "we are all special" and "be yourself and everything will turn out amazing."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 02:30 AM
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This analogy is terrible. Women don't act like Bob and promise Jim outright sex or relationship in the future. No matter how much Jim wanted to believe it and lied to himself about it, Bob had no intention of hiring him. The analogy should be Bob needed help at his company. Jim volunteered to work for Bob for free hoping to turn it into an employment. Frank is already employed and Jim is doing most of the physical work that Jim thinks is relevant. Frank is just sitting at his computer all day lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 10:02 PM
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I don't see why TRP is having trouble accepting that TBP have a problem with the actual application or misapplication of TRP. When TRP shit on feminism its about what feminism actually do. Not what feminism supposedly stand for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 11:20 AM
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Ok. The OP seem to have had a different experience then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 01:38 AM
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There is no other place like college. You could just move to a college town. Check the female to male ratio in every city.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 01:02 AM
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Redbubble seem to allow Men's Rights shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/15 12:32 AM
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People are able to love more than one person. If an ex is affecting your relationship than you are not in love the current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 07:35 PM
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A more prestigious and expensive school for an English degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 12:11 PM
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No she didn't. She applied for the college. She got contacted by the school about the scholarship. It was offered to her at a meeting with her and my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 04:05 AM
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Nope. TRP is too broad and ambiguous enough to avoid getting banned. There hasn't been any famous doxing incident like the /r/menrights have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 02:07 AM
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Depends on the state I guess and also this happened over 10 years ago. Idk how often it happens now. Were any of your friends female? The scholarship was specially for females.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:22 PM
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My older sister was offered a free ride to an university STEM program because she got a perfect score on the math section on her SAT. The university struggled to find an applicant to give the scholarship to and she was the only one who qualified. She turned it down because she just wasn't interested in becoming an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:01 PM
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You're claiming that men who started behind the curve who needed TRP will some how end up ahead of everyone else? Most successful people have successful pasts. The rags to riches stories are cool but still rare. That's why it sells books. A naturally attractive TBP will do better than a struggling TRP playing catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:42 AM
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Why does the two examples you shown prove that they want TRP men? One wants money and the other wants a tall man. TRP is not wealthy nor tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/15 10:36 AM
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MRA don't care about getting their dicks sucked. Strawman. Edit: Get their dicks sucked without a rape accusation or their sperm spat out to be used to create a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 09:41 PM
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I was told that I was being "too picky" because I was single for two month and went out on dates with three different men. None of them worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 08:26 PM
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MRA, PUA, TRP, MGTOW and RooshV followers all have similar beliefs that overlap each other. Most are just different reactions to the beliefs. MGTOW gives up, PUA takes advantage of it through outer game, MRA want to change it through the legal system, RooshV is just a famous PUA brand, and TRP is taking advantage of it through inner game and breakdown their beliefs in abstract ways. Their beliefs are the same hence why TBP lump them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 08:17 PM
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I don't think past lovers affect her ability to bond with her current lover. I think she can't bond all and a high n count is a side effect of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 10:14 PM
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Yes, her getting annoyed is a possibility. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 06:50 PM
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For most women only when she opened up about something similar. It creates an emotional connection and it's hard to reject the man after establishing it. Child molestation. It would be weird to randomly think of it when having sex with him. A past boyfriend told me about his weight struggle and the pressure he was under taking care of his younger brothers. I thought him stepping up to the plate to take care his family was attractive. My current boyfriend's ex-fiance cheated on and dumped him. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 03:36 AM
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This study shows that men prefer a woman who has been dumped than her being the dumper. It's a small study but it matches with what I have seen in real life. Men don't want a women who makes the decision to jump from one relationship to another. Comes across flaky and disloyal. How did Greg get into the relationship with her? Did he know about Chad before? If so why did he ask her out? A good rule is never get into details about exs. Nothing good comes out of it. There is nothing the woman can d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:54 AM
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Will do. I make it a rule to offer to get a second plate for them. This case was just an exception for the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/15 11:33 AM
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Mmmmm never thought of that. I would think that he would assume it was ok since I got a second plate. There were plenty left for another five or six plates. It would have been pretty rude for me to expect to eat more than my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:53 PM
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First, RP knowledge is not mutually exclusive with happiness or marriage. My father taught me RP-like principles when I was young. I understand. You are the first person I have seen that doesn't follow the heartbroken or virgin beta that takes red pill to improve his love life narrative. Were you ever surprised by your wife when you started dating her or was your dad wrong in any particular teachings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:46 PM
1

And TRP says that women are immature... -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:29 PM
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Why are you Red Pill if you found happiness in your love life early on? What information were you looking up to come across the manopshere?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:21 PM
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I have a test. It's a compatibility one for long term food preference. I hate cooking for people. Many are too picky and I think it's a waste of time and effort to cater to them. I want a man with a similar palate. Within the first week of dating my boyfriend, I made him my mother's pasta recipe. I prepared two smalls plates that were not enough to fill up the stomach. I finished mine and went back into the kitchen for seconds. I didn't offer to bring him another plate. I waited to see if he wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:05 PM
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Media shows what people want. Not tell them what they want. It's a business.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:09 AM
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I had a crush on two Indian guys in college. Two were dating Indian women and I was unaware of the small package stereotype. I had one date with an Indian after college. He was vegetarian with little social life and low confidence. He was tall but smelled weird. Date did not go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 12:59 AM
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MDIT does not mean men are hypocrites for calling out women's bad behavior. There is men's bad behavior; and there is women's bad behavior. Two different things, two different standards. You do not get to deflect the conversation from women's iniquities by saying that men engage in similar iniquities. So you're claiming that both genders are doing two different things but agree with MDIT which means the very opposite. You just don't care that MDIT because of the different arbitrary standards bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 10:53 PM
2

You're first and second sentence contradicts each other. Lose out on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 01:12 PM
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That is just terrible. I believe that it should be relative to the age difference between both parties. 5 years to be exact. This will cover the majority of the age difference in high school. So theoretically a 14 year old freshman can have sex with an 19 year old senior without trouble. Only up the age of 22 can have sex with a 17 year old. Free for all older parties at 18. Girls are so sexualized at a young age nowadays and with the internet they can seek attention easily. I consider them to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 07:49 AM
2

Do what people in your country do. Hire a private investigator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:26 PM
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Did she also do something like a turnaround? Lose weight for example? No, she actually gained more weight. They kept on going out to fancy restaurants. Went in a little bit of credit card debt at the same time. She is on a diet and a budgeting the finances now. They should be out of debt sometime next year. Her goal is to lose 70 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 10:12 PM
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I have a promiscuous friend who just got married. Her N is in the 20's. She treats her husband like a king. She sends him care packages full of really romantic letters and homemade cookies every time he deploys. Fell for him very hard and really fast. She relocated to his city after only knowing him for a month. She is obese and slept around to feel attractive. She got really hurt by an ex boyfriend who dumped her for gaining 20 pounds in their relationship. She gained more weight after that bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 09:53 PM
1

A week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 09:02 PM
1

I'm wondering what country as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 03:37 PM
2

Nope. Never had an one night stand. I always needed time to build attraction up for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 03:32 PM
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Because shaming is a social consequence. And no stating facts are not. I already went over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:58 PM
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If I tell you that you are going to drown if you keep your head under water too long than am I part of the repercussion? No. I can't control what other people do. As an individual, I don't have that power. Why are you interrupting it as a piss poor jab? It's not a jab at all. Stop believing that everything is an attack. Yeah duh sluts will still get fucked. Them not being relationship material is the shaming part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:41 PM
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There is a difference between warning about the repercussions and being a part of it. Either way men should be honest and say that they don't want a slut because they want to feel special. Nothing to do with ability to get sex of either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:15 PM
1

BP understands the difference but why is something being easy equals bad? Its easy for you to pee standing up than women. Should you be shamed for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 06:37 PM
0

I'm not really the anti fat shaming type so no. Men just don't get boners and have sex with women they find unattractive. If they claim they do than they are very insecure with their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:58 PM
1

Ok... Men sleep with women that they are attracted to so I'm sure that's not a problem. Use some common sense dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:09 PM
8

Please show examples of these threats. Taking either pills shouldn't be based on which ever you get less threats from. Why not just go no pill and go away? No one will threaten you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 05:31 AM
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I don't care. I never had a man who naturally knew how to work my body. Experienced and inexperienced feels the same to me. I just tell the man what I like and everything is peachy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 04:38 AM
2

I disagree that women ride the CC when there are more men. I think the opposite. http://m.livescience.com/10103-shortage-single-ladies-drives-men-commit.html When there are more men than females, women's first marriage age goes down. Men are more likely to commit. Women sense competition when there are too many females and are willing to have sex faster to get the advantage. When men have many women willing to have sex they're less willing to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 10:45 PM
3

Don't take advice from bitter people. Most advice don't take the listener's situation into consideration. The advice given is really for the giver's younger self. Projection is hard to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 08:44 PM
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I'm surprised by how many men marry women who don't give BJs. If a man feels that he is confident enough to leave her after finding out she did that stuff regularly with other men than why didn't he just found himself a woman who he was sexually compatible with to begin with. Did he think that he was going to open her mind more? Was he just ignorant on how important it was until it was too late?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:30 AM
1

I don't consider him a PUA. He is about the inner game but his advice is very abstract. Probably buying his product will give you more practical advice on how to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:51 AM
2

From experience, usually body wins as long as the face is not a complete mess. I think 1/3 of men are into face and the rest are into the body more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:28 AM
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Great comment! TBP don't have a need to be here since society validates their opinion. Why debate if you already won?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 12:10 AM
1

No on social anxiety. I'm comfortable around people. I just sometimes don't keep up with what's going on. IDK whether it me not caring enough to pay attention since most people are boring or I seriously can't pick up social cues. I tested ISFP/INFP/INTP. My results change based on my mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 09:53 PM
1

Sounds like an joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 09:19 PM
1

I'm happy the hear that you are not swimming in cheetos and snickers. Idk how bad you conditions are and whether it's something that you will get over after forced social interactions. I might have Aspergers as well. I have a hard time reading people and take their words too literally. I need to concentrate a lot when I'm in a group interaction to know what is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 07:27 PM
1

Have you ever thought about changing your diet? To paleo or vegan? What's your exercise regimen? Big pharma sells all type of drugs to try to cure every little thing. Sometimes taking good care of your body through diet and exercise is the solution. I know you have insomnia but what other stuff do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 07:15 PM
2

The first guy was more a racist. Mansplaining is real. It's annoying but I hope you kept your composure. It's a small issue that really don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 07:07 PM
1

Telling you to overdose on a certain medicine. That will knock you out. I can make up a bunch of stuff to "help" you but that's not the right thing to do. Expecting women to make up stuff to show how they care is stupid. They could google answers but if you are posting on fb than I'll assume that you have already done that. Sure its sexist but its not negative enough to offend anyone. Its in marriage counseling books.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:23 PM
2

This thread is a good example of RP gone crazy. Men like fixing problems. Of course they will give you more answers than women. Women don't want to give bad ill informed advice. That's fucking dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:03 PM
3

Nothing specific. Children, career, where she wants to eat, less work to entertain them because they have hobbies that they developed over time, etc Older women are relatively less ambiguous than their young counterpart. They can still be ambiguous in many areas in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 06:52 PM
4

Lower divorce rate. Less ambiguity in the relationship since she knows what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 11:23 AM
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Most of the advice are weird. It's Glamour so I guess they were going for "quirky". If my boyfriend watched sports and I started spitting out stats to him, he is gonna think I'm being fake. Sports in general is a male space. He doesn't need me there. I would feel like a dumb-ass doing half of these things. Mostly because it won't work. I think women are more offended by that and confusing it with being subservient. The only advice I see here that works are 4, 6, 8, 10 and 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 10:55 AM
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You failed at the KISS method. Keep it simple stupid. When a romantic gesture is so over the top its becomes more about showing off your skills than making the girl happy. If the girl were doing similar cheesy things than reciprocate but I'm guessing she wasn't in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 10:08 AM
4

I know that virgin brides have a lower divorce rate but I haven't seen no evidence that they have less dead bedrooms. Any reports on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 05:52 AM
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If a woman says something that confirms TRP then it gets put into the evidence pile and shoved into TBP faces. If a woman says something that goes against TRP than it gets put into the trash pile. You can't trust what women say! Look at their actions! They are hamstering. BAHHHHHHH!!! Such a typical affair...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:49 AM
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We are hamsters because our life experiences are telling us something different than yours? Get over yourself. Its not like we are claiming that dead bedroom is caused by men and blaming them for it. We know dead bedroom happens even with Chad. Women get fucking bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:37 AM
1

Read the erotic novels again. How many are about a woman who has been married to a man for 5 or 10 years? None. Its always a man she just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 04:28 AM
2

My friends hubby refused to go to counseling. Claimed the wife's unhappiness is her problem and not his. He is not fighting for her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/15 01:04 AM
4

We need to find the women who did marry their "best sex ever" and see how their marital quality is to come to a more solid conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 08:17 PM
3

AF guys are just men who knew when to leave the relationship before the sex waned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 07:11 PM
2

My bad. I meant lose interest in sex with her partner regardless whether he is an alpha or beta. To most women sex is a chore over time with the same person. Even if she married Chad she is going to learn some unattractive things about him that will affect what happens in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 07:10 PM
3

How does one know if a woman ever had an AF? Most women lose interest in sex over time regardless of ever having an AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 07:02 PM
1

Bluepiller by virtue of not being a redpiller as well. Accuser for me. She put herself in the position for disappointment. I don't blame her logic on why it would have worked. She was ignorant and needed to learn. It's a good experience to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:44 PM
3

This has happened to one of my friends. She got married to her first man at 19. Now getting divorced at 22. Thankfully they have no children. Challenging him is the only option for any potential change. Men who care will do a lot for their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:30 PM
1

The whole "everything is subjective" argument doesn't help anyone. Changing a light bulb isn't a hobby but interior design is. Having unique knowledge and experience in things helps you stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:25 PM
1

And that's bullshit too. Shouldn't treat either gender like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 06:12 PM
1

Building dominance is easier. Prestige takes a long time to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 03:43 AM
1

If you are not tall, good looking, naturally funny, have interesting hobbies and a healthy social group than I can see why they may need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 11:04 PM
4

Yes but most men will date any hot compatible woman regardless of her N. Hot with personality > N count. No. It's a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 11:00 PM
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Women want to get the best that they can and jump from alpha to alpha. Settle when they find someone that they want to keep which is normally a beta that they needed to develop long term attraction for. Usually takes time to find someone like that. To expect a 20 year old with 50 options to choose correctly the first time is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 09:03 PM
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Women want to be in a relationship with someone they find attractive? No shit! Anyone can get into a relationship with someone below them. Asking women to lower their standards so men don't have to rise to the challenge is lazy. Also young men don't want to settle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 08:55 PM
3

It needs to be more noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:57 PM
-1

Sure they can. I'm stating there are costs and benefits to every type of attitude toward relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:40 PM
-4

Yup. There are pros and cons to each attitudes. Hence the trade off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:34 PM
0

Good for you experiencing it. Don't know why you think your experience is different from TBP. You did a good job describing ideal love in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:27 PM
1

Exactly. Hence why they will not be able to experience it. It's one of the costs of going TRP. Not moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:24 PM
3

To put it simply "The nice part about being a pessimist is that you are constantly being either proven right or pleasantly surprised." ~ George F. Will Except there is no pleasant surprise for TRP! Constantly prepping themselves to find out their women are not loyal will prevent them from opening their hearts up to fully experience love. Love is amazing and painful. Some people are willing to take the risk. Others not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 01:15 PM
1

Provider role? Him and his friends were already going to the club. Nothing in the story indicates that he drove her there just for her. You think the bitch acting that way should have no repercussion? Pssshhh no wonder women run a muck according to TRP. He responded correctly. Very alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 07:00 AM
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I'm assuming that he did this before he was married. Why else would she use this story as an example then? Also women shit test men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 06:30 AM
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isn't "overly invested" in you (e.g. he doesn't stay by your side the whole time at a party) This is not remotely what abundance mentality is nor does the situation even warrant abundance mentality. lol do non-RPers misunderstand all of this stuff? Her husband wasn't overly interested enough to give her a ride back. How is this not abundance mentality? Its similar to your party example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 06:17 AM
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But most of them don't seem to have a lot of experience as women in LTRs with men. And they don't seem to have a lot of experience with relating to men, having sex with men, or living with men. Many women here mention their boyfriends and husbands as examples. Is there a poll of their dating lives that I missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 06:09 AM
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I wouldn't be able to tell the difference but usually you can tell if other women are interested. That's hard to fake. I knew men who would interrupt every women's action as flirtation and then brag about it. Clearly this is abundance mentality done wrong. It has to be so subtle that it only register to the woman subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 05:02 AM
1

She is? The number one poster. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/15 03:59 AM
1

The problem I have with the blue pill is the fundemental meaning of the name. The red pill is based on the movie "The Matrix". The red pill represents reality and the blue represents a fantasy. The blue pill is something that red pillers label others who have not "awaken". Labeling yourself blue pill is admitting that your beliefs aren't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 11:35 PM
9

Most women are politically liberal. It's a common reason given by RP when they don't want women to have voting rights. I never seen anyone here claim they are lesbians, militant feminists or that they are from another country. Yes to all others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 09:19 PM
2

lol. agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 05:19 AM
4

why do they have such a hard time accepting the fact that some women dont want to be feminist? Why do people have a hard time accepting that Rachel Dolezal don't want to be white? If you believe in the definition an ideology then you have that ideology. A=B=C, hence A=C. Many sane feminists are frustrated by the bad publicity that their ideology has gotten. They want the public to go back to believing the original intended definition of it. Which is impossible and they should give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:24 PM
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It's fine. We do have a more consistent environment which does make things more predictable but I still see many differences between genders from different parts of the western world. TRP has to still tweak their game between a high social class east coast gal who is a 6 vs a low social class west coast gal who is a 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 01:17 AM
2

Am I saying that you are doing something wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:55 AM
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Sure. My comment doesn't disagree with that. But given certain environments, what is considered attractive can be different. Men in poor environments with little access to food, find plus size women more attractive. http://healthland.time.com/2012/08/09/why-stressed-out-men-prefer-heavier-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:23 AM
9

Why shouldn't TRP point out women's strengths? So men will be prepared to face them. Shouldn't more knowledge only help achieve the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:10 AM
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Biology isn't the only thing that influence us. We have the environment as well. Wolves in captivity act very differently than wild ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:01 AM
2

I'm not selling anything. It pisses me off that men thinks they are doing some good by sticking by some woman that they don't have feelings for anymore. This type of "kindness" is patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 10:48 PM
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From second article. In a dating pool where poor women are more likely to be surrounded by men with low and falling fortunes, more women have ditched a union for good economic reasons: It could be a financial drain. In The Truly Disadvantaged, William Julius Wilson, argued that "high rates of unemployment and incarceration meant that the local dating pool was populated by unmarriageable men--and the result was that women chose to live independently." I can see why women are delaying marriage unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 09:45 PM
2

Men and women love differently. Men project their way of love on to women and think women are incapable of it. And, if you stop making her feel happy, she will break up with you. When a woman doesn't make you feel happy than why still date her? That's the one difference about men and women I see when it comes to love. Men make it look like a job to date and love someone. They see it as a responsibility. They owe it to a woman by sticking by her even if she is a bitch. It takes forever for some m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 09:18 PM
1

Settling is simply forcing yourself to choose someone for reasons outside of attraction and connection. Wanting children, financial stability, avoid being alone and making your friends/family stop worry or judge you is all settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 05:17 PM
2

He doesn't have the same "OMG slut" thing beta men have
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:38 PM
2

Sigh... Betas are bitter toward sluts? My definition of betas is that they put women on pedestals and think women can do no wrong. I get so confused by beta/alpha definitions on this sub reddit. People interrupt in so many different ways that contradicts each other. In every other thread there is another new definition. As for the man choosing a girl. If SFVR is his plan in the beginning than he needs to be careful with his heart. I'm sure Kanye didn't have such a plan in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:35 PM
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I think SFVR is very hard to achieve. If a man is successful at having many slutty flings it's gonna be hard to stop. They won't know when to and start focusing on finding a young virgin. Many will stop wanting the married life. Why would they if they have options? Also there is a good chance that some of them will catch feelings for a slut or two. When you are getting intimate and spending time with someone it's natural. Logic and emotions will collide. Emotions will win some battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 04:05 PM
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So this thread reminds me of this thread guys tending to date down 2-3 years means that college age dudes frequently date high school girls. I have known many, many 21-22 year old dudes whose hot younger girlfriends left them once they moved for college at 18. Everyone dated within the same league in my high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 02:23 PM
1

BTW do you have a podcast on youtube under a similar name?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:36 PM
2

Oh good. I like to avoid being quoted in new threads. Too much context taken out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:35 PM
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That's right there in the OP - the scenario is basically that after sleeping around and "exploring her sexuality", she decides to take a few steps back and cuts down on the blowjobs etc. I forgot what the OP stated. My original comment didn't really had anything to do with that part of the topic. I mistakenly believed it was your opinion about sluts. I actually wanted to make a post about the differences regarding BP and RP, the different null hypothesises they rely on and the consequences of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:28 PM
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Why would she be boring in bed? She just made herself less available until she got a commitment. Also a slut doesn't automatically means she is good. Plenty of women can rack up N's by being a dead fish. It's one of the most fundamental differences between men and women in the market place. All women have to do is just be there and they can get laid. Her improvement based on the present. The future is unknown. The future is unknown for everyone and about everything. Nothing is guaranteed... Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 01:03 PM
1

more of a minimal standard. Exactly. She was a slut. She was in the negative and building herself back up. Wouldn't you rather go from a 2 SMV to a 5 SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:41 PM
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It's not a chastity card. She isn't a virgin. She just decided to make herself less available. If men still decide to pursue her then they see value in her. They are responsible for their choices. Stop adding in that she is a liar or going to lie. That's a whole different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:28 PM
1

He will bail if he feels like a loser. No one would work for something that makes them feel like that. I wouldn't buy Oreos for 50 bucks a box if production stops but someone will. suddenly make the commodity "sex not on tap" as valuable as that from a woman who never produced "sex on tap" in the first place. It's not as valuable as the later but it's still valuable enough to get a buyer. This is pussy we are talking about. Men love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:14 PM
1

Oh ok. People put more value to things that are scarce. Even if a woman have slept with 50 men in the past, a man who works for it will still see it as a victory. It's like Oreo cookies. It's something everyone have had before but if production stops, prices on Ebay will go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 12:00 PM
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It's not negative. Men don't trust women's change because women can revert back to being fat and bitchy once the ring is on. consists of being more boring and generous in bed? I can see being more generous in bed a good way to rise your SMV... How does being more boring does? Do you mean by being less "sassy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:51 AM
3

The good old selfish gene.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:39 AM
1

They have different values. Since you are fully able to spend time with non virgin women, you really don't see why a man can't be attracted to them more than in a sexual level? You never enjoyed their company outside the bedroom? Why isn't that enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 11:37 AM
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TRP don't believe women can change for the better. They don't believe the women have honest intentions of becoming a better person. If they do change its to gain some advantage in the dating market. Which is exactly what TRP does... -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 10:55 AM
2

So you have witnessed a variety of men with different preferences. Why is this confusing? Do you think men should emulate women and have one preference all together?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 10:35 AM
2

So most men prefer a virgin. If that is what you think then why did you start this thread asking the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 10:10 AM
5

Why are you taking my comment as an attack on your preference? I was wondering why you have a hard time understanding male preference but understand female preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 09:05 AM
2

So you understand that women don't care if you're not a virgin but you don't understand why it doesn't work the other way around? Why are women different in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 08:18 AM
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Green is always greener on the other side. There are a lot of bitter men who got turned down when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 10:06 PM
1

Poor guy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 08:42 PM
1

Is he getting better? Is he trying different things when asking women out? I always thought building confidence up is the first step toward game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 08:36 PM
3

If you're currently nervous about any skill, increasing exposure and doing it will help allay those fears. No surprise that this applies to asking people out as well. This will probably yield the biggest improvement in confidence if you take it to an extreme. I interpreted this as game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 08:22 PM
2

This is why I believe most RP aren't as high in the SMV charts as some claim to be. Real change is hard and takes a lot of discipline. TRP has a ton of great advice. But I think most men give up on TRP once they hit their relationship goal only to come back to it when they get divorced 10 years later. It's like weight loss. Anyone can lose weight but most will fail or gain the weight back after achieving the goal. Some people don't have the natural body type to look good even if they are thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 07:15 PM
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It's mostly due to height. Most Indians and Asians are way under 6 foot. Small penis size stereotype doesn't help either. Out of the Asians, Korean men seem to be the best at due to having more built and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 06:24 PM
2

And they are fine with those women. I thought TRP wasn't fine with Fran Formerly Promiscuous or Rebecca ReformedSlut and look down upon men who are actually fine with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 05:24 PM
1

The golden rule is stupid. You want to be treated the way you want to be versus how other people were treated in the past. My boyfriend never bought flowers for other women. Just me. Makes me feel great! Just like a man who got a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 10:14 AM
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Ideally I should have the strength to avoid the butterflies. But butterflies are wonderful. Realistically I'll indulge in it, try to convince him I'm the best, fail, heartbroken and avoid him. That would be a first though. I never had tingles for a promiscuous man. They mostly come across scummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 10:06 AM
1

1) For sex, I'll try house parties at college campus. I'll try to use PUA. Touch and neg. I hate bars and clubs. 2) Same at house parties. If the girl have a nice personality after the sex than sure maybe turn it into a relationship. Pretty much the standard hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 12:02 AM
6

It truly amazes me that some men can't believe that women are taking character into consideration when attraction happens. It goes against TRP's belief in self improvement because that means a man will not over come his initial SMV based on looks. Stop being a fake TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 03:41 PM
0

Or gamble and potentially get a partner more attractive than you. I wish the study would have specified which gender got the better deal in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 03:17 PM
1

Hos and 18 years olds are a more narrow set of people. Women are half of the population. It's way too big to ALT them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 11:45 PM
6

I had a friend who was very superficial in college. He only wanted perfection in a woman, perfect 10's. He hated red necks who were into trucks, redheads and big beak noses. He moved to a small town for a job and he pickings got slim. He ended up marrying a woman who were into trucks, have red hair and have a big beak nose. She is only considered a 6 due to being thin. Very butterface. All of his male friends made jokes behind his back about how he would have made fun of her if he saw her on cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 11:26 PM
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I find it annoying when it happens here. I understand why some people develop that attitude. I met people of both genders whose actions contradict their words. But it's hard to accuse people of secretly believing in something through the internet when you can't see their actions IRL. Even IRL you are only seeing a small portion of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 07:44 PM
1

Well narcissism mostly can't be helped if you truly are a 9.5 TRP doesn't automatically equal attractive. Just because you just started lifting doesn't mean you will gain the muscles immediately. TRP takes discipline and many will take at least an year to break bad habits. Picking out the right clothes take time, experience and money. Building confidence takes time. If a blooper was a 4 and you were a 7 before TRP then you would have had no problems pulling her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 06:43 PM
2

I hate her answer too. She should have said something like "When people get comfortable with each other over time they become more open and things slip out without much thought. Do your best to look past it and tell your wife that you don't want to know anything else. It's not classy."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 03:55 PM
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And that's wrong. Some people are opportunist who will do something only if they know they can get away with it. Some people don't care if they go to jail. Rapists are still people with a variety of motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 03:45 PM
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Lol. I highly doubt a TRP men can have any women he wants. He may have became more attractive and jumped 2 SMV point forward. But a man who jumped from a 4 to a 6 still can't get an 8 girl. The only thing this post proves is that there is a high level of narcissism with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 03:10 PM
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You can sit me down and tell me that speeding is wrong on the roads. I would do it if it wasn't for speeding tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 02:52 PM
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No, she shouldn't lie. When asked I don't think she should act ashamed of it either. It's better to be dumped early for it than 10 years of marriage later. Also most men don't want to know and will not ask. They are visual creatures and the idea of their women sleeping with another man make them uncomfortable. Read this Dear Prudence Letter Our marriage is strong. However, during a recent conversation about our respective college years (we did not meet until she was 25 and working on her MBA), s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 02:48 PM
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When I was younger, I use to find men who play hard to get attractive. Once I had them, I stopped caring. It was dumb. I don't find it attractive anymore but many women still do. This is why I think TRP in that aspect works on many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 02:33 PM
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No you're naive. If you allow humans to get away with a crime and the victims of that crime to get over it by riding a bike then over time they will not understand why it's wrong. If it's so wrong why wouldn't there be consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 02:27 PM
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Or that he shouldn't have had such malicious intentions. Or that he shouldn't have been so hungry for sex. How is he suppose to learn if he isn't punished? Should all crime be unpunished?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/15 04:32 AM
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I thought about making the same exact thread. I been restraining myself to comment due to the flairs. I don't know who TRP wants an answer from when they post a question to TBP. It's not like TBP is clearly defined. Many TRP believe that TBP is simply anything other than TRP. Some has a more rigid standard like must identify as a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 11:45 AM
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Taking advantage? I thought that they were struggling to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 10:58 PM
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The only time a man ever specifically stated that he should get sex is when I dated him for two weeks. As CursedLemon stated friend zone is more about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 08:08 PM
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This blogger is annoyed by it too These days, when a young kid is dumped by his girlfriend and makes the same internet search that I did back in 1996, he’s not greeted with “seduction techniques” to help him improve his love-life so much as he’s inundated with a massive wave of political diatribes condemning everything from feminism to multiculturalism to socialism and everything in between. Instead of being taught how to address his individual problem, he’s recruited into a swirling morass of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 06:23 PM
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She claimed that grooming someone from a young age to be the perfect wife (apparently a RP idea becuz amoral ???) is why pedophiles go for children. Nah. Pedophiles find children sexually attractive. I never heard of them trying to marry or start a relationship with their older victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 02:20 AM
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PRE PUBESCENT CHILDREN I guess the OP's capitalization didn't work on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 01:29 AM
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A male coworker of mine recently got into a car wreck. He was speeding. A cop was right there when the accident happen. The cop didn't give him a ticket and helped him off the road. Personally, it can't get more blatant than this. This is not blatant. It's a trade off to focus on something that is perceived to have more importance. It's either rapists get held responsible for their actions or drug users for their kick. I rather have rapists in jail when proven guilty. There are unintended conseq…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 11:23 PM
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Have you read his manifesto?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:31 AM
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Says the man who strawmans every TBP argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:29 AM
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I would ask him why he is not trying different things if material things and status symbols are not attracting women. He would tell me that women are suppose to find him and his money attractive, and it's their fault. -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/15 12:28 AM
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Let's be real. Slut shaming will still be going on if STD didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 02:33 AM
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High level dread and clear communication is the same thing. It shouldn't even be considered dread because the woman is not dreading that her man will leave her. She knows that her man will leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 09:04 PM
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it's shameful to be a slut wanting marriage If two people want to marry each other, why can't they without feeling shameful regardless whether the woman is a slut or not? If a slut want marriage and she doesn't get it why is that shameful? It's it life that you can't always get what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 11:18 PM
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I do agree that women are treated differently in society and often times get no opportunities to develop certain maturity or responsibilities. My example is paying for dinner. I grew with a father who is a feminist. He taught me that if I asked a man to dinner I should pay for him. Years later, I asked a boyfriend out to dinner. He paid for me the last dinner we had so I paid for this one. He told his coworkers that it was strange for him and then his coworkers who were both male and females tol…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 06:07 PM
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Strawmans are a natural part of debating. It's a shortcut because people are lazy. Both TRP and TBP do it. Some people are intellectually dishonest. Call them trolls and leave them alone. That's what I did with this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 02:41 AM
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I point out a guy I think is sexy to my female friends, he's not someone they find attractive in the slightest, and vice versa. I know women who married men that they did not find attractive in the beginning. A charming personality can make many women change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 03:02 AM
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Why the heck would the cardiologist propose if she was going to grad school? Did she not tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 02:53 AM
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Economic reasons. Cooking and cleaning full time is not very hard anymore due to technology. Birth control made having babies a choice not a byproduct of natural human urges. Women didn't accept gender roles. It was part of life that they didn't have a choice over to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:10 PM
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You should read this article. http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/11/30/beauty-discrimination-during-a-job-search/?_r=0 “Our results show that beauty distorts the hiring process,” the researchers concluded. “Suitably qualified attractive women and plain men and women may be eliminated early on from the selection process.” For the job market I would prefer to be an unattractive male. Women in general get married, have kids and quit trying to move up the corporate ladder. Employers know this and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 09:31 PM
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Oh ok. So most TRP go for average women and the TRP that complains about lack of early 20's virgin brides are the minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:48 PM
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I never heard of a logical fallacy called charge of superficiality. I googled it but couldn't find anything on it. What does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 04:37 PM
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I had the impression TRP try to focus on dating above average women. That average women are fat and TRP is needed to game the thin attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:28 AM
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do you think white guys who mainly date Asian women are creepy/weird/fetishists? Nope. I'm half Asian. The creepiness comes from men pointing out that I'm Asian and that in it of itself makes me sexy and "exotic". Being treated like a novelty is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:20 AM
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Shouldn't Blue Pill be more concerned with those people then men who want to get laid? Fallacy of relative privation. I was concerned by the fat shaming subs. I don't care about fat people's feelings. I was disgusted that there were people who wanted to look at such pictures. Ewww...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 03:01 AM
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I agree with both points. But Cis said the following We don't say to women: "You must marry young." TRP isn't for women. Yeah they will talk about how women should act but they have their own self interest in mind. Not ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 02:52 AM
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This is true. If his personality is compatible then attraction continues or if not then it ends. Most of the time people aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 09:40 PM
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Lots of young women are like this! They haven't had enough social experience to figure it out yet. I thought it was crazy at first when men told me that when a man talks to you 9 times out of 10 he finds you attractive. Since women value diverse friendships more than men, they project their value system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 03:07 AM
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I definitely agree it was bad PUA. He should have been more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 11:27 PM
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You have a bit left before the wall. Things change then. Good old moving the goalposts. Since she did not continue riding the CC to the wall like you were hoping for, you decided that her marriage will fail due to something else. Deep down you want people to fail and that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 04:53 PM
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Nothing. I thought it was strange and it wasn't clicking that he was trying to pick me up in the moment. An hour later he asked me to come to his room and I said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 08:04 PM
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Just friends. I'm sure that capt-next-a-hoe isn't asking questions on the first date. Only after establishing a certain comfort level first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 12:05 AM
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Random people don't ask for that kind of information, and if you did, it would likely identify you as a creeper. It's a pretty big social violation. I disagree. I been in conversation with groups of women about their sex lives. Women love to talk. If a man makes a woman comfortable enough, she can reveal a lot about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 11:50 PM
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"He wears a mask, and his face grows to fit it." - George Orwell Humans are creatures of habit. If they keep doing something over and over again, they will start doing them naturally. Only up to a point though, I do think that we all have genetic innate traits that can't be changed. For example, I think some people can't happy with what they have no matter what it is. A woman who is married to a billionaire mega sports star alpha may have an affair with the pool boy. The pool boy is different an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 09:26 PM
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He is non apologetic for his views on politics or religion. Older and not married. Lots of red pill stuff is done within relationships or with plates. I don't think I can spot one immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:49 PM
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Seriously? The context was provided in the OP where the question was asked. I'm done here. Please troll someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:33 PM
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are you going to find out where he's coming from or just dump him? I answered this question already. Read again. you seem stuck on the fantasy of naturally smooth men wanting to build a life with you. You seem to be picking and choosing what you have read to build your own fantasy about how I work IRL. Read my original post again. Especially this part. I do believe that many people figure out their unique personalities by doing scripted social exercises. The more confidence they gain, the more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:22 PM
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No. Wondering where he started out from. Why the fuck would I take my precious time understanding him when I'm planning to dump his fake ass? I'm guessing that's something you might do since you brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 08:13 PM
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There is not enough footage to judge. It's a teaser to advertise his product on how he did it. To be honest he came across just friendly and gay. My IRL PUA moment was when a guy whipped out his ex-wife pictures and told me how hotter she was than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 03:21 PM
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In the thread, I was imagining myself in a car ride with my "guide following" SO who was playing a type of music that was specifically stated to use in the guide. I'm in my passenger seat thinking "Wow! I don't even know what type of music he listens to when I'm not around. I'm fucking a TOTAL STRANGER! I don't know anything about him." These women are perfectly capable to separating TRP and the impossibly extensive fictional guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 02:29 AM
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What you're doing is complaining that the sausage you got wasn't processed right the first time; and that all the sawdust was taken out and replaced with sausage. You're complaining that you got "newer" sausage which isn't "real" and "natural". You are good at taking things out of context and twisting them to help your argument. Sausages have artificial fillers and preservatives. No one is 100% themselves all the time. But sausages still have meat in them. Sawdust is sawdust. No meat. Just junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 08:05 PM
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BTW how is this RP truth? I never heard of it and it's not in the side bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 07:48 PM
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It's a bit like sausage making. No it's not. Sausage is sausage. If I bought a package of sausage, I opened it and there is only sawdust inside then I'll get mad. Remember the context of the post where you got your quotes. The guide defined his ENTIRE personality. One comment claimed that such a guide is impossible to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 07:46 PM
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It seemed pretty ambiguous to me actual,ly The original quote of the post was. On the guide, however, you find that his entire personality, his witticism, his romantic gestures, and all the things that made you fall for him were based on/inspired by this guide The key word is entire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 07:34 PM
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Yes. Instead of feeling like I found a high quality leather couch, I got a IKEA built your self table stand. I would be impressed by his acting skills. I had a few men use PUA on me and I knew what they were doing. Now whenever he do anything the guide will be in the back of my mind. I would talk to him about it and what his motivation was. I do believe that many people figure out their unique personalities by doing scripted social exercises. The more confidence they gain, the more they move awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 03:14 PM
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Well guess we have to agree to disagree. I can't believe that you have never met a woman who could not gain the romantic interest from men that she was sleeping with. Yes the right guy will have women approaching him. He is a part of the outliar where the general social rules goes out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:47 AM
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I'm confused too. I don't know how you are getting any of that from my post. So women have no options No. They only have options that are given to them. they don't date If they accept an offer. have celibates lives If they have no offers. only sleep with handsome men So these men offered sexually. because the men who approach them aren't of high quality ??? Look it's simple. Generally women don't approach, generally men do the approaching. There are outliers like women who initiate but I talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:22 AM
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In order to approach, men has to select who to approach. Without men stepping up to the plate, women have zero choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:04 AM
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Rejection or in the women's case being overlooked is sad for everyone. It's a normal emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:01 AM
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It's sad when that happens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 03:59 AM
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These women love drama or imagine themselves in a movie where they feel like they can help these men with their snowflake power. Some people just don't care for the comfortable boring life and purpose fuck themselves for the thrill of it. I have a male coworker who has a thing for damaged and heartbroken women. He always tries to win them over and guide them away from their destructive behavior or ex. He wonders why it never works out for him all the time. Heck he took interest in me once when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 08:53 PM
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I watched women do that. Some fail and some succeed. It's sad for the some who do that and can't get the romantic attention from the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 08:31 PM
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I choose the money. It's not like I'm dating an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 08:28 PM
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I don't understand. How can women select but men initiate? Since men initiate then men are the ones who are selecting. Women choose to reject or accept the offer but in the end the men are more in control. Women can't control who asks them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 08:25 PM
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Child's best interest so yes. Yes. Yes. Child care is expensive. Him staying home probably saved enough money to buy the assets. F*ck no. He can develop skills. No. He needs a job to maintain a minimal standard of living. N/A
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 04:14 AM
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TRP actually regards 4-7 partners as a carousel that makes a woman incapable of bonding. That's always been my impression of TRP. Hence why they want virgin brides. TRP seems to disproportionately encounter the very few women with over 20 partners. Yes but they keep bringing these women up for impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 04:06 AM
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I'm going to try to have my advice be more practical than others. Hygiene is common sense and men who don't take care of themselves shouldn't procreate. Learn how to dance. Specifically two step. Being able to lead by two stepping and spin women around at country clubs is sexy. Watching you dance with other women coughsocial proofcough and dancing with you is fun. It forces us to look at your face and talk. Talking to you after grinding with our backs on you at the club is kinda awkward. Learn h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 01:03 AM
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So RP tactics are useful on a variety of women if you calibrate them? The word calibrate doesn't clearly explain how to implement these tactics. A good example for gaming women through text messages is Chateau Heartiste. This man does a very good job giving examples and explaining theories through them. Very practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 12:08 PM
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The first one was snarky but it doesn't state anything against lady like behavior or being submissive. The RPW woman wasn't happy with what she was seeing. Doesn't TRP like emotionally vulnerable women? How else does are they suppose to pair bond? The only one I see that matches your claim is probably this one A) No way in hell a red pill relationship = happy/loving (from my understanding). That can be taken as being against submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 12:03 AM
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If it's that easy to see then post it. The comments I see is them disagreeing with how judgmental she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:39 PM
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see nothing but disgust for any woman who is into the lady like, feminine, submissive lifestyle. I read all the comments. I don't see any of that. Can you point them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:29 PM
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That fact that you are worried about it makes me wonder if there are other things wrong in the relationship. Do you think this is something that TRP put into your head or would you have been questioning your compatibility with her without it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:22 PM
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That she is horny? Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:17 PM
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Yup. Women are competitive. https://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/10/21/rule-3-date-lots-of-women-always/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 05:05 PM
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When she was 33 she got into an accident and broke her foot and gained a bunch of weight and began to lose friends and attention from the opposite sex. After her foot healed she lost the weight and regained the attention but she realized how fickle people were and began to evaluate her life. She probably realized how fickle she was as well and decided to settle down because she was close to losing all the privileges that comes with being extremely attractive. If this didn't happen she may have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 04:53 PM
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No. Only one. The others were nice but I wasn't interested in a 2nd date. They all thanked for the polite straightforward rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 02:13 PM
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Ok. Honestly if a man was divorced twice then I expect the woman to ask questions to find out. There is no need to reveal such details early on. Cheating is common. It's not surprising. Not ok. There is no need to reveal it until things become serious like monogamy, marriage or moving in together. I believe everyone who paid for their crime should have a second chance but this type of crime can affect the woman in the future with employment and living arrangement due to background checks. Not ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 04:01 AM
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3 out of the 4 online dates I had end with "Thank you for your prompt honesty, M'lady". The 4th was a crybaby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 03:46 AM
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Online dating and IRL dating are two different things. Online dating have a lot more misses than hits due to the nature of not really knowing who they are going on a first date with. IRL dating are people who already know each other from school, friends and work. There is already a foundation of attraction which boosts the rate of success. Women are too chicken shit to tell men that they are not interested. Men are too but they are more than willing to stick around for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 08:37 PM
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you often see BP say dread game is "abuse" Hence why I call bullshit on the OP for misrepresenting TBP argument. Who the hell is claim that lifting is manipulative and abusive? No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 02:56 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 06:23 AM
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I already know what all of this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 05:19 AM
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These are only abusive things because it suits your argument. And what argument is that? There is a logical extreme to almost any of this where it does become abuse Exactly. When you look at any TBP thread argument these are the things that they have a problem with when TRP take at an extreme level. There is an expectation that you'll grow out of college era hedonism. Tell that to yourself. Another strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 05:16 AM
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It's going to be tough to find such women since many are acting the same way in the dating market as you are. Nothing is wrong with your preference but what are you trying to get out of this thread? Are you trying to find someone who is not sleeping with anyone currently and are you open to women who had FWBs in the past but not right now? How are you finding out about the current FWB of modern women? I can understand not wanting to deal with someone who had sex the night before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 02:19 AM
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Did you purposely leave out dread game, last minute resistance, AWALT, responsible teenager theory, and plate spinning? Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 12:20 AM
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If so would we be here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:28 PM
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Everyone comes from all different backgrounds. Do you expect people to consistently evaluate the social, family, cultural and economic background of every potential date to see what expectations they may have from you? Do you think that is possible? My boyfriend is from the mid-west and most women in his town are single mothers. He asked me whether I had children before asking me out. Single mothers are rare where I came from and I was shocked to see so many when I moved. Pre-existing misconcept…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 04:05 AM
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Ok. A child doesn't matter in a casual fling. Ok. If not indicated clearly yes or no on the site than I would ask. I live in an area where single mother and fathers are everywhere. Ok. Some people don't want to know. I have met several who make it a rule not to ask. Ok. See above answer. Ok. See above answer. Ok. See above answer. Ok. See above answer. Ok. See above answer. Ok. See above answer. Ok. See above answer. Weird that the hippo would stay with him when he doesn't tell her or the baby t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:29 AM
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Feminists should stop gaslighting these crazies and let us get them some help. You are misusing the term gaslighting. Gaslighting is when you treat a sane person as if they are crazy and try to convince them that they are. You can't gaslight crazy people, they are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:07 AM
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Ohhhhh it's a woman! When I was reading this initially thinking it was a dude, it sounded odd. Attracting women by being the opposite of her boyfriend? A man who focus on taken women instead of single ones? It makes more sense that this is a woman. Men love variety when it comes to sex hence cheated with her. This woman wanted a taken man due to social proofing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 02:46 AM
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Men and women think differently and there are going to be misunderstandings of why they do the things they do. I want to represent the women's side of things. My response to Both pills, why aren't male virgins (younger than 24 y.o.) as desirable as female ones? thread is a good example of why I'm here. The OP was projecting the amount of thought put into a partners sexual past that men do on to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 02:11 AM
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So true. The reason behind why sluts sleep around definitely determine their attitude about themselves. I been on both sides of the coin. I slept with a man after a terrible break up with someone I was engaged to. I regretted that and felt like a worthless slut for trying to find a replacement fiance. I became a FWB with another man because he was attractive and fun. I didn't regret that one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 10:04 PM
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I know it's an appealing premise to believe that all TRPers are somehow ugly or socially retarded and that every TRPer found TRP after searching the depths of internet for something to help them get laid. I can see why you would want to believe that. But it's just not true. If that's not the case than what is it? Why would one need to go TRP when their love and sex life is doing fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 09:32 PM
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TBP is great for the lucky ones. The naturals who are able to get and keep interest from women relatively easy. They believe in "be yourself" advice because it worked for them. They don't need to do half of the things that TRP have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 12:45 PM
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Virgin males are not unattractive. Unattractive men tend to be virgins. Correlation not causation. There was a tall extremely good looking man at my college. He was a charming devote Christian and women went crazy over him. He graduated and married at 26 with another virgin Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 12:38 PM
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So why not try to be more honest with the young men about it instead of sugarcoating it? I can see them fighting back. Children and teenagers fight back against anything that doesn't sound right to them. Rejection is an important part of learning. Why do TRP feel the need to change the learning process?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:52 AM
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Why wouldn't it? I cook and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 09:34 PM
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You mean friends? Why have a partner without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 05:36 PM
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The legal term "charge" is not just for criminal offense. Yes it's a civil matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:53 AM
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When I was in college there was this really short ugly guy who was socially awkward. He had a dating profile and as a joke a group of guys pretended to be a hot girl and exchanged nude pictures with him. They printed a picture of his naked body on hundreds of printer paper and spread it all over the dorms. Through the hallway, taped of people doors, everywhere.... I felt so bad for him. He took a semester off because of it. I feel bad for the women with their full name, address, facebook link on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:38 AM
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My boyfriend doing the laundry...... Win for me!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:17 PM
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I think men want to feel special and win over a woman who didn't give it up to every other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:11 PM
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my hypothetical obviously presupposed correctness for the sake of argument. Your hypothetical isn't based on the correctness and isn't a common enough occurrence in reality hence it's useless. Single and women who turned to adoption are. No I have not been with such a girl but I know men are generally more scared about getting a girl pregnant than not getting her pregnant. If men want children to be an option and actual have a real fear of not having them then men would also check their sperm co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:05 PM
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No it's not because most women don't have fertility problems. Most men don't go get their women checked out by doctors before marriage. It's not something that men and women worry about until it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:47 PM
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Also it's uncommon for women to find out by doctors that they are infertile until they are married and started trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:39 PM
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You need to be more mature and not call people names just because they disagree with you. Judging by other peoples responses, they have the same opinion as me. My scenario is more conclusive about whether a woman is fertile vs yours. Doctors guesses are exactly what they are. Guesses. Plenty of women found themselves pregnant when they were told that they can not. Who wins for most men that aren't old as shit themselves? It's very rare for a man to be dating a 40 plus woman who he considers very…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:36 PM
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If a man has a choice between two equally attractive 18 year olds but one is a mother who gave up her child for adoption and the other is not. The mother would technically have fertility points for proving it. Most men will choose the non-mother. Fertility is not a issue for men because men want to marry attractive women. Attractive women tend to be young. Nature has already done the job without men having to think about it. You'd be shocked how many women have fucked their reproductive system t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:01 PM
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3) fertile Why does TRP keep bringing up fertility? I understand that there is a correlation between how attractive a woman is and how fertile she is but fertility isn't a conscious thing that the modern man judge women for. If fertility is attractive then single mothers would be considered ideal because she proved that she is capable of having children. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 09:30 PM
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IDK ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:43 AM
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Blue Pill doesn't want you to get laid. True. TBP don't care. TRP tactics are either common sense attraction triggers or bat shit crazy terrible behavior that you should never do to get a woman in bed. TBP has a problem with the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 12:07 AM
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when she is told she has turned down at least 20 good commitment minded men Can you elaborate on what you mean by "commitment minded men"? A man can't claim that they were commitment minded when a woman reject him initially. They haven't dated! What information does he have at this early in the game to want to marry her? Men ask women out for either two things ~ easy sex or get to know her more to see if he will want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 05:31 AM
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I don't really know why "thedeti" or any other TRP men think they have a good idea what a typical American woman go through. They are basing on observation and guesses. Men seem to only pay attention when they or another man approach a woman. Do they ever pay attention when women don't get approached? There will be time later for” marriage and children. Is it just me but am I the only one who believe that young women want relationships? Want to date to find a man for marriage? That women maybe m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 09:38 PM
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For me, no. For other women in general, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 11:30 AM
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TRP men doesn't automatically mean they have a sense of humor or not be clingy or whatever that is considered attractive. They strive for it. It's their goal. Do they achieve it? Some will. Some don't. It's not easy to become attractive when you're not naturally one to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 02:50 AM
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Just PIV and anal. BJs are still slutty but they should be calculated differently. A "B" count maybe for TRP sticklers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 10:39 PM
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Most people call women sluts because they have something against them and it's not always about sexual activities. Claiming that slut-shaming is used as a correctional tool for public health is an utter lie. If a woman get slut shamed and stops sleeping around due to it, will the shaming stop? Nope. Shamers will continue because they are not attacking her actions. They are attacking her for their own satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 02:43 AM
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So i'm sorry, but if you're going to choose an unhealthy lifestyle that puts you and others at the risk of STDs and other issues, then you're GOING to be criticized for it. How do other people get STDs from these sluts?.... Oh yeah! By sleeping with her! Other people are innocent. It's not their fault! I saw my ex the other day (she's a major slut) Bet you're not taking responsibilities for the STDs that you opened yourself up to. started shaming the other girl I've been seeing for sleeping with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 02:20 AM
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The few women who go for 1 and 2 tend to be younger and still haven't gained control over their sexual desires and how to act "properly". Since TRP prefer younger women, it makes sense to strive to be 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 12:04 PM
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Most men are attracted to BMI of 18 to 22. This is enough fat to carry a child to term. More fat doesn't equal more health benefits at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:44 PM
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Good point. The labels beta and alpha is pretty childish as well. There are TRPs out there who claim women are feminists or being brainwashed by feminism without the women actually calling themselves that. Being "yourself" is blue pill advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:20 PM
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This is already happening. 27 is the current age when women get married on average. Most women find a man in their mid 20's and marry them in their late 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:20 PM
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Commit suicide as soon as I turn 25 if I'm not married with a child yet. There is nothing else I can offer to world. I could become a spinster but I would just be a reminder of how the men who have sex with me can't get someone younger and probably resent me... The above would be true if I only take in the most negative portrayal of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 10:11 PM
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LMAO this is hilarious! Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 11:51 AM
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I would like to be an unattractive female. I'll put on make up and be thin. Men are thirsty and if you catch them at the right time, you can marry well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 02:17 AM
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Nope. Sluts wanting to get married is not hypocritical. Marriage standards are set by the two people and the government who are involved in it. No one else. If a man wants to marry a slut then he will, your standards for marriage shouldn't be pushed on to them. No women should not feel entitled to it. Just like an old geezer is not entitled to a virgin 18 year old. The 33 year old woman who labels a man who she wants to marry as weak or intimated by her is not wanting to admit that she is unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 10:12 PM
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The "non-attractive=creepy" idea is true. There are limits though. I had one really hot guy try to get my phone number by telling me that he was a vampire and that I looked like his cousin's dead best friend. He was also dropping some hints that he had money. EXTREMELY CREEPY!!! His pretty baby blue eyes couldn't save him from it. Women who are uncomfortable with other people having sexual desire for them probably have some form of fear of rape, being harassed or uncomfortable with sex. That's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 09:56 PM
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For him to think that any woman he chooses to have sex with or to date, is fortunate to be with him, Typically the woman is the prize. She is the one being asked out. She is the one choosing to date or have sex with you. As a man you are presenting yourself as an option to her. This is generally how modern dating works. TRP teaches the "you are the prize" mentality to help you avoid putting a woman on a pedestal but you are still doing the initial chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/15 09:42 PM
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1) Being comfortable with who you are and where your limitations are. Don't go out of your way to seek validation from others. 2) Confidence requires one to be honest with themselves. Women don't want to be lied to and need to know that how a man is portraying himself is real. 3) Time and enough emotional intelligence to recognize when they are doing something for themselves or for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 08:03 PM
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where the alpha male concept was derived from I don't think that TRP is basing their definition on wolf behavior. Is he good with money? TRP flip flops when it comes to having money as a beta trait or an alpha trait. Money is always listed as something that rises a man's SMV as he gets older and yet when he marries a women it is considered a beta trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 05:17 PM
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I love Mark. When I read his stuff, I don't think TRP. Even though Models is a recommended book by the TRP community but it lacks the "true nature of women" message that TRP is centered around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 04:45 PM
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It's not a book. I love http://markmanson.net/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 12:27 PM
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Whenever any TRP posts about how they are unfairly represented as women hater I will link to this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 12:23 PM
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Sounds like the parents of these women are planting seeds in their heads to date you now that you are successful. Any single women within the social group that doesn't flirt with you right now and that you didn't pursue when you were younger? Maybe chat them up? I would hate to end up with someone who rejected me when I was younger. It doesn't matter how much that person or I have changed. The memories are still there to haunt you. Being 24 with two short lived relationships doesn't sounds like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:53 PM
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This guy is 24 years old. The women flirting with him are probably around the same age. Their SMV hasn't been squandered yet at early 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 12:41 PM
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Higher rate of narcissism in men than women. College degree holders have a lower divorce rate. Bigger the age gap, higher the divorce rate. Sex ratio affect marriage age. When there are more men than women, women get married at an earlier age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 03:51 AM
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So is a beta bux marriage (faking love/sexual generosity beforehand to secure his assets in marriage) an example of the woman lacking integrity? Yes it is but is it common? Who knows. A beta bux marriage is hard to prove unless you can read women's minds or find her secret reddit/blog posts about how she uses her hubby. It's clearly deception in this example. So men will prefer her to wear the make up but call it deception? You can't have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 09:02 AM
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TRP doesn't advocate cheating either. Dread gaming is not cheating. I didn't mean for you to interrupt that statement to be for TRP. I was pointing out that the TBP disagree with cheating women as a clear example of lacking of integrity. This is not deception, just a matter of taste, right? Good example. There are lots of men who would prefer having her wear make up than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 08:39 AM
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TRP/TBP disagrees with what is considered lacking integrity. Clearly cheating is bad in TBP eyes. Women wanting to get married at an older age is a very practical thing to do within TBP. The TRP stories about women purposely seeking out a beta that they rejected 10 years ago and pretending to love them now is ridiculous. Yeah doing that is terrible but I don't know many older brides who have actual done that. Usually desperate older women marry someone that they just met and dated for a short pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 08:12 AM
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This made me wonder if there are BPers who harbor anger/frustration that a low value person is passing off for a high value person and getting success (i.e. non-natural alphas convincingly behaving alpha). Yup. Sounds right. Integrity is a characteristic that is valued in TBP. TRP thinks it's fine to play dirty because the women they have dated played dirty as well. Even though I would really hate it if a man treated me in such a way due to past experiences that didn't involve me, I can easily j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 06:45 AM
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Nope. They can't. This is why I liked the book "For Women Only" by Shaunti Feldhahn. She explains to women that sex is a must for making a man feel loved and wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 06:09 AM
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TRP want vulnerable and uneducated women. So is it that surprising that TBP would translate that to insecure and dumb? You should read the troll posts from TRP about how no smart women exist and that women should never feel secure about themselves due to their inferiority. What you are seeing is TBP who are reacting to extreme TRP. It doesn't seem that you fall into that category. Keep doing what you are doing if it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 06:07 AM
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Holy crap! Thank you for this graph! So many arguments and misunderstanding as happened because people mix up potential SMV with actual SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 07:08 PM
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Hence the name "red pill" since so few man "wake up".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 06:54 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 06:54 PM
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Nope. It's a mute point. They just won't kick these women out of bed or refuse to date them because of their education.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 06:35 PM
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RP types are the minority of the dating pool and have different standards. Women do have it easier because if they don't met RP standards then they will just get asked out by BP men. The RP search for an unicorn is a daunting task.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 03:51 PM
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The golden rule is dumb. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 02:08 PM
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I second ProtoPill. Great analogy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 09:16 PM
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I don't know what my standards are. If I like a guy then I like him. If I don't then I don't. I don't see a trend of any particular characteristic or two within my ex-boyfriends. So my dating approach is holistic. All I really need is the tingles which doesn't happen often and thankfully doesn't get turned on by "bad boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 09:14 PM
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The courts are screwing everyone around. I had a buddy in jail who was found innocent and released. He lost his job and he was given a fine by the jail since he stayed there for a couple of months. Pissed me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 11:22 PM
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Yup. Double standard. If it was a women, all her girlfriends would tell her to leave the man. The man's friends would tell him to stop being sensitive and "man up".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 04:49 PM
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Agreed. It's not "abuse". This type of overreaction is an insult to people who truly have been abused. The only way to stop women from doing this is for men to stand up for themselves. Many women don't know that what they say and do hurt men. We are not mind readers. Fucking tell us and stop putting us on a pedestal! If a man speaks up and the woman doesn't care for his feelings than he should either leave the relationship or stop doing the shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 03:45 PM
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So yeah, you will indeed have women who compete for the same men (for example women in their 30s and women in their 20s for men in their 30s), just like you have men competing for the same women (for example men in their 30s and men in their 20s for women in their 20s). http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-case-for-an-older-woman/ My conclusion is based on OkCupid's women's age and messaging preferences, and anecdotal observation that women at almost all ages prefer men within the age range of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 01:57 PM
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He maybe "better" but he still isn't considered to have high SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 05:26 AM
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Are older women really competing against younger women for the same men? Most women prefer dating men who are older than themselves and not really going after similar aged men who prefer younger women. Male SMV is a lot more complicated. Career and social status can only go so far if you are 5'5. Effort doesn't guarantee an increase in SMV like aging does with lowering women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 05:12 AM
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That's bullshit based on junk statistics where they test men with no schooling because they were in gangs there whole lives versus women with an education. Because no women have ever been raised in a low socioeconomic background. It's all been men!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 09:39 PM
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Goes to show that if a woman is hot, men will line up to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 11:51 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 02:41 AM
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Since there are plenty of threads that you disagree with, why not just engage in those threads and state your reasons why they are wrong? Threads complaining about other threads is a waste of space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 02:34 AM
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Because younger women are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 11:36 AM
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She sounds more like an Alpha widow. She had the perfect 80% Alpha/20% Beta combo going on with her boyfriend and he decided that it wasn't for him. She wants the old him back. She can't move on from him even when she gets the Alpha sex from another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 07:03 PM
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I guess we will have disagree to then. The "buck" part of BB is lacking here. I don't even think the boyfriend is really that into her in the first place to care about her getting her BDSM on the side. He was offered the "fuck" part of AF and he refused. One day, if she gets lucky, she'll find a man with both... And leave these two incomplete men behind.] Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 05:44 PM
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I still disagree. This is not a simple AF/BB story. This women is struggling to let go of her boyfriend. If he was truly "beta" than she would have no problems getting out of the relationship to do the sick things she wants done to her. The boyfriend has her wrapped around in his finger. Both men do. They both seem to have equal power over her. The dual mating scenario as exit_sandman stated is a more appropriate label for this. The story is more complicated to be a standard polarized AF/BB stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 05:14 PM
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I understand what you are trying to get at but you gotta explain it if you are going to make a thread about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 04:38 PM
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I don't know how this has anything to do with being alpha/beta. The woman is clearly into a certain type of sex. Her boyfriend was giving to her and he stopped. She talked about it with him and nothing has changed. Now she has urges to get it outside the relationship. This was nothing to do with AWALT. It's all people are like that. If a man was in her position, he would feel the same. Lots of men are in her position of not getting the sex they use to get in the initial part of the relationship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 05:14 AM
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they actively seek him out and usually manipulate him to stay around I knew women who did use men by flirting but also did it in their gal friendships too. I met many women who became friends with me just to use me for something else. dangling the prospect of sex in front of him I don't know any women who blatantly suggest sex with a friend. Did Justin get to touch and kiss this women which implies sex is possible? I need more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 11:19 PM
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Most established 35 year old men are either already married, divorced and in debt from the divorce, or a bachelor for life. Go for the guy who is 25 to 28 who is a hard worker with a promising career. Gotta focus on the age group with the most still single unmarried men with good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 10:42 PM
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He is with me. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 10:33 PM
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No. She can believe it. Her definition of TRP is probably different from mine. I just haven't seen any outrage from a sizable population of women claiming that they have been tricked by society about the realities of the dating market. There are women out there who are attracted to TRP men but it doesn't make the women one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 01:08 AM
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Because being covered in feces to gratify some man poop fetish is totally what society considers feminine. Nothing else will come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 11:22 PM
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They don't really exist. TRP is for men. There isn't enough women finding out that their SMP was a lie by society and being upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 10:54 PM
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Wearing dresses, being motherly, cry when hurt, attracted to bright colors and shiny things, prude, soft spoken and grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 10:46 PM
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You don't want kids but you want to legally rape a bunch of women? Biology always finds a way to make you subconsciously want something that you consciously deny wanting. No matter how much you fight it in the end YOU LOVEEEEE WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 01:05 AM
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The difference between your point and mine is that I see what women offer as valuable. Without them doing their part as much as men, humans would have died out a long time ago from making every stupid risky decisions. Women aren't holding men back. Men are holding themselves back and blame women for whatever stupid ass decisions they made in their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 12:35 AM
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Historically, there have only been two uses for women. One, for the sexual pleasure and emotional support of the male. Two, for raising children. Yup. Those are important work. Women are intellectually middle-of-the road, as seen by IQ studies. Hence why the dumbest and smartest people in the world are men. Men tend to be the outliers. Women need moderate intelligence to take care of children. Are women more ambitious and reliable than men? You gotta be reliable to make sure children don't die u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 12:08 AM
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The man gets a new girlfriend and able to hang out with the other girl as friends without sexual frustration. The girl is a part of the social group that he is in and he doesn't want to lose his other friends. The girl gets fat and he isn't attracted to her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:00 PM
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BTW I suggest going to asktrp for these kinds of questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 12:57 AM
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Have the woman you guys claim to decide. Use abundance mentality. There are enough for both of you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 12:49 AM
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True. But plate spinning TRP don't tend to be Christians. If they claim to be than they are obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 10:58 PM
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There are lots of maybes here. Most Christians don't make it as a virgin down the alter. It's really hard to stay a virgin when you are a less than perfect sinful human.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 10:55 PM
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Maybe. The girl may have been able to wait til marriage due to a low sex drive. I don't know how many TRP actually married a virgin and shared such a disappointing result. It doesn't really fit the ideal TRP narrative. Unfortunately even non virgin wives lose interest in sex over time. It's a common complaint many husbands have in 10+ year marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 10:50 PM
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Most TRPer want to teach a virgin how to please them. I'm sure they will not be expecting an amazing performance right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 10:38 PM
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Rape injuries could also be reduced if women were taught to be more gentle during rape lol that's funny...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 09:01 PM
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Rape = Hugging too hard? Hugs don't get people pregnant, spread STDs, and have the potential to cause internal vaginal bleeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 08:56 PM
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There is no damage in rape, other than wasted time and a woman's feeeeeeeeeelz. Sorry, but just because something makes you feel bad, doesn't mean it should be illegal. I know a woman who can't have children because she was raped by her uncle when she was 7 years old. It messed up her internal organs. Also there are AIDS and other nasty STDs. Rape causes physical harm. I really don't think many TRP will like your post because this will be used against them by TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 08:47 PM
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Emma the Emo has a good post on it. https://emmatheemo.wordpress.com/2013/02/11/the-manosphere-is-not-as-shallow-as-you-think-or-girls-dont-stress-out-about-your-looks/ In a nutshell she says a woman should be pleasant and take care of herself in the looks department.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 08:11 PM
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The link you posted is social science not biology or anything about brain chemicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:47 AM
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HOLY CRAP IT'S A STRAWMAN!!!!!!! You need to take reading comprehension and science class again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:31 AM
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RELTIH88 your references has nothing to do with brain chemicals. IT'S OFF TOPIC!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:22 AM
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Oh calm down. There is no need to call names. Fishers work is not social science. Her work is biology because she measures the chemicals that the brain produces. So women are attracted to wealthy men. That doesn't disprove any of Fishers work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:15 AM
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You disagreed with me and told me that my scientific reference was cherry picked to back up my belief. I just asked you to provide another reference that shows the opposite. There is no logically fallacy of burden of proof working here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:01 AM
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What's my ideology? Do you have any scientific references that proves the theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 02:49 AM
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http://www.ted.com/talks/helen_fisher_studies_the_brain_in_love?language=en Helen Fisher has done a ton of research on it. Basically there is three different types of love. It's lust, romantic love and long term bond. Her research is the reason why I don't believe in the TRP theory that women slowly lose their ability to bond with men with each and every new sex partner. The brain doesn't just stop producing chemicals like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 01:50 AM
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This right here. Mens definition of slut is subjective and varies. It can be based on the number count, the context of whether it happened in relationships or ONS, the way she dress, the way she acts, who she hangs out with, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:33 PM
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The economic marketplace can only be self regulating if there is perfect information which is impossible. Feminism made sex more equally spread out to everyone. Women were encouraged to be chaste till marriage. Men passed around a few prostitutes with each other to get sex til and after marriage. With feminism men and women are able to experience each other more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 10:45 PM
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That Red Pill post was interesting. Not wanting to drive 20-30 minutes to see someone is pretty hurtful and it's stupid to tell that person who you want to continue to have sex with. It's not an actual relationship. Any normal guy would be fine about driving within that time frame to see a woman that he actually likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 09:57 PM
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No! You're better than that! Dig deep and find that personal power! You don't need me!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 10:06 PM
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Having charisma and being able to lead people will produce validation Lol ok whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 08:52 PM
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Then what the hell are you talking about? Charisma and leadership skills are part of personal power This is the essence of the I don't give a fuck attitude and is not the same as posturing that you don't give a fuck and receiving some validation for it. This all leads to personal power Charisma and leadership is about validation! You need validation by others in order to have charisma and be able to lead people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 08:29 PM
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No, that's not personal power. That's charisma and leadership skills. Does personal power just disappear the moment a person is by themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 07:57 PM
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You're measuring "personal power" based on arbitrary things that you value in another person. Just because a person choose to do things or have attributes that you disagree with doesn't mean that they lack "personal power". The tramp choose to indulge in short term pleasure and figured out that it didn't make her happy in the long run. Making mistakes has nothing to do with the measure of power that she had over her decisions. She still made them. The same as if she decided not to have sex. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 07:38 PM
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Yes. Self-pity filled tramp choose to be that way and the other man the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 06:50 PM
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No. The same amount. Why plainly wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 06:29 PM
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Yes I do. Those who don't believe it are just making up excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 06:04 PM
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It's not more powerful. Everyone has an equal amount of personal power. If one wants validation than one will do whatever to get it. If one doesn't than he will use his limited energy to do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 05:51 PM
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Thanks for the explanation! You have good reason to choose the women that you do. I'm glad that there wasn't any underlying hate within your response. One of the things I can't stand most about TRP is many have automatic disrespect for women that they won't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 03:47 PM
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< I doubt it's the same for women now what with all the glut of approaching/in thirties women with degrees/education complaining that the equivalent men are not there There are also thirty something women who have no problems getting married. You never hear from them. When you read and talk to these complaining old single hags you notice that they tend to have unattractive personalities. They probably weren't able to marry because they were most likely unattractive when they were young so well. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 03:16 PM
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He didn't marry because it wasn't a viable/sensible option, the girls on the other hand recognize it as one of their few options where additional education is not available. Hence why just become young women want to get married doesn't mean it will automatically happen. The willingness of women is not the only decisive point of the marriage equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 02:56 PM
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A low "entry barrier" for males wishing to have sex with her At the same time she may have a high entry barrier for relationships. Many people don't view relationships as only about sex. Most understand that you must give up sexually diversity in order to gain the intimacy from a relationship. A low propensity for overruling feelings with rational decision making In an age of condoms and birth control to protect oneself from pregnancy and STDs there are no rational explanations to stay chaste. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 02:42 PM
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I guess we will agree to disagree on which one is causing what. It's quite possible that both genders are telling each other it's not the right time because people usually date within their educational level. I read somewhere that men get married later the more education they pursue. High school degree only men get married the youngest and graduates get married the oldest. I'm confident that it's the same for women. My boyfriend had several women wanting to marry him after he graduated high scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 01:36 PM
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< I don't find sluts attractive like women don't like short guys. It's the same thing. That makes so much more sense than most TRP stuff I have read.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 05:16 AM
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I disagree. There are many young men who avoid relationships like the plague. I met tons of them in college who were very vocal about it. Most men propose and want to get married when they are financially stable. Not because the girl in front of them is young and hot. Sleep with? Sure. Marry? No. Most men who get to the point of becoming stable usually meet their future wife through their social group who are most likely their age or a couple of years younger. Hence why the average marriage age …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 04:57 AM
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I disagree. There are many young men who avoid relationships like the plague. I met tons of them in college who were very vocal about it. Most men propose and want to get married when they are financially stable. Not because the girl in front of them is young and hot. Sleep with? Sure. Marry? No. Most men who get to the point of becoming stable usually meet their future wife through their social group who are most likely their age or a couple of years younger. Hence why the average marriage age …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 04:57 AM
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I'm having a hard time understanding why a woman with a high N count automatically equals a cheater. Sex can be had outside of relationships without cheating. I'm all for avoiding women who are known cheaters, lack impulse control and crave consistent validation. Automatically assuming these things in high N women is unfair. Don't date them if you are uncomfortable or your gut is telling you no but don't accuse them of being disloyal when you don't have any evidences to verify it. A bank men wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 04:29 AM
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The decision comes from the moment a man is proposing to her. Why are you ruling out the man in your equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 12:40 AM
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Do all men propose to young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 12:27 AM
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So all young men are ready to settle at anytime? Do men never break up with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 12:27 AM
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Was she not ready to settle before? Why does having a sex life mean "finding herself"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 12:22 AM
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If she was a bad girlfriend to all of her exs then don't date her. If she has a high N but been a good loyal girlfriend to the few men that she was in a relationship with then that N doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 12:14 AM
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Sounds like both genders are loyal to their individual self. Men will do whatever to keep women happy knowing that they are hurting other men. Men like to compete against other men and put each other down to be top dog. Women will demand more than other women to see who could get more resources or higher status out of men. Women like to compete against other women and put each other down to be top dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/15 11:29 PM
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Because love is not controllable. It's a chemical activity in your brain that sends out feel good signals when you spend time with another person. If a man cannot love a promiscuous woman then why is TRP full of stories about how one became TRP because they feel in "love" with a promiscuous woman and got their heart broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 07:16 PM
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Why should we encourage women to be proud of lack of self control? Why do you equate with being fat with lack of self control? Weight gain doesn't happen overnight after a gorge fest where they couldn't stop themselves. Having one or two extra bites of food everyday over the years causes the body to slowly gain weight. Most people don't notice the extra 5 pounds they gain every year. I believe in fat acceptance movement because obese people being too ashamed to go outside isn't going to make the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 10:10 PM
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TRP pretty much don't believe there are enough outliers out there to consider their existence within their worldview. If an outlier appears infront of them, their own hamster will come up with reasons to deny the outlier is really an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:16 AM
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Rpiller and radical feminists are the minority. I don't think they represent the overall social climate. I think the gender relations are doing fine in general. Child support and divorce rape should be less expensive. The race relation seem to be more of an issue nowadays than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 08:57 PM
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I agree. Encouraging people to settle is a bad idea. Forcing oneself to show affection toward another is terribly uncomfortable. But most people without outside pressure will naturally settle for something more attainable over time. Peoples taste change depending on what is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 03:44 PM
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sexual/mating attraction doesn't often conform to our intellectual rationalizations. I disagree. Attraction is flexible. Most people who are unable to attract the type that they want will settle down with the next best available type. Nature placed a strong urge to reproduce within all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:18 AM
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Eh so be it. Most people aren't considered to be attractive by a large chuck of the population anyway. Most of us have quirks and should concentrate on our own niche dating market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:05 AM
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If a woman can expect me to be manly, isn't it only fair that I expect her to be feminine? No. Just because a woman suddenly become more feminine it doesn't mean that she can still expect you to be masculine. What if you don't care to be masculine or it doesn't come naturally to you? TBP believe people are individuals and they should not be bounded by stereotypical expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 02:32 AM
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Ya'll act like you're so much higher and mightier than the women we sleep with, and thats very immature. And TRP act like TBP date and marry used up ugly old sluts who got off the CC. Both mindsets are immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 04:29 AM
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TRP take the "must have" list that women make too seriously. Majority of women will throw those lists away the moment they start getting the tingles. All of my married gal friends talked about how they never imagined themselves marrying the types of men that they did. The sex partner count for women is very important for men. Out of the eight boyfriends I had in my life, only one asked me for my number. If it was that important I would think the question would have been asked by more of them. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/15 06:23 AM
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Ok. You're making up crap now and just plain picking a fight over them. This is why TRP have a bad reputation.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:38 PM
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Ummm... you sound very angry. Yeah I felt like a side chick with the first guy. I don't think that makes me lazy. The second one took awhile to get to know. He had a lot of good traits besides the self absorbed part to continue with the dates. I couldn't get over the long distance idea.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:10 PM
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I'm not anymore. I'm in a relationship with someone I met later on after a couple more dates with other men.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:52 PM
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"This is comparing you to the standard of a whore who rides the CC. What's your goal here?" I don't think he was comparing me to the CC standard. He knows that I'm relationship oriented. I indicated that the goal was LTR in the original post. No sex involved.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:48 PM
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The Tumblr lists and TRPs criticism over them are one of the reasons why I am asking this question. Women with these lists are viewed as being too picky that even if they go on a massive amount of dates they will not find such men. If by luck they do then chances are he will not like her back. Same with the 80-20 rule. Women want the top 20 and only a few will be able to land a LTR with such men. I'm surprised that the TRP community doesn't seem to have a set number for dating prospects since hy…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:40 PM
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I do think the number matters. If one finds themself going on hundreds of first dates and find that no one is good enough should they just keep going or reevaluate their standards?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:39 PM
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But there is a line between realistic and unrealistic right? If a 30 year old woman has been on dates with 300 different men in her life and didn't find the desire to have a LTR with any of them than there must be a problem with her standards. Many TRP men have a limit of how many men a women should sleep with before finding a LTR. So I thought maybe you guys have a limit for dates also.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:34 PM
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Ok. What do you think on average how many men a women should go through dating to find a man at her level?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:12 PM
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I wanted the male POV.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:04 PM
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