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How much should you sacrifice? You can't sacrifice something you don't already have.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:50 AM
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And why won't he admit he likes me doing more traditional duties? The entire premise of TRP is more or less that men (but also women) have been conditioned to not want this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 11:26 AM
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Loyal women vs hypergamous women These aren't opposites.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 11:26 PM
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Most I think a better way of putting it would be that they aren't able to get both from the same person. Most women probably end up settling for one or the other instead of both from different sources simultaneously.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 02:29 PM
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who told me he wanted to spend his last dollar making me happy Red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 01:05 AM
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There is nothing wrong with having rational self-interest. You are 100 percent correct that you have been raised to be self-sacrificial, etc., and that is the source of your frame issue. The books NMMNG and WISNIFG from the sidebar are geared towards helping you to correct that. Best of luck man.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:03 PM
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That sounds more like influence. Influence is infringing on another person's will. If you want to get into semantics, then feel free to do so with the closest wall. Your frame is based on what other people want instead of what you want, and that is your downfall. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:49 PM
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Could you go in a little more depth? I think that's really the root of my frame problem in general. You're most likely 100 percent correct in this. Let me give a simple example: An effective leader has to infringe on another person's will. Otherwise, he is not an effective leader because he will not be able to get the person to do anything other than what they were already going to do. Does a girl want to fuck you? Is it because of something you did? Then you just infringed on her will by changi…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:26 PM
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outdated You don't understand how the data works if you're calling it outdated on this. There are plenty of similar other studies. I'm sure you know how to use Google.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 03:30 AM
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I don't want to infringe on the will of another human being, regardless of gender or agenda. Your assumption that you are infringing on someone else's will by having a weak frame is sorely mistaken. The fact that you think you shouldn't ever infringe on another person's will is absolutely foolish and will make you worthless to yourself and to them.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:44 PM
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if that's the case, there's nothing you need to bring to the table You're still stuck in the frame I referenced above. Stop giving a shit about what women want and do what you want instead. Find the Rollo post about the mental point of origin and go from there.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 11:24 PM
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np
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 11:24 PM
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How do you stay happy and strong and not feel worthless when many of your girlfriends are getting rings? What happens to them has nothing to do with your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 06:15 PM
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LDRs suck man.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:50 PM
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The truth doesn't change. Stand up for yourself. The recommended reading on this is "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty," which you'd know if you read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:49 PM
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wat
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:50 PM
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Don't sleep over
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:50 PM
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I'm older than you and my girl just had her 22nd birthday. Her family loves me. Know the difference? She doesn't live 9001 fucking miles away.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:49 PM
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Women mature faster than men in the sense that they peak earlier, but men mature for longer and peak higher.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:48 PM
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BlackDragon has a good post about it you can probably find on the fire-breathing Google machine
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:58 PM
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wat
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:34 AM
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You like what you like, you don't have to justify shit to anyone
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:33 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:30 AM
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faggot
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:30 AM
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Are you that fucking thirsty Actually yeah you probably are, I'd hit it tbh, fuck it
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:29 AM
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You got a shitty prostitute If you like dick, you like dick, no one cares. If you don't, that's cool too
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:28 AM
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Frame is what you're looking for
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:26 AM
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Get you an ugly one instead, they're cheaper and get virgins off just the same
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:26 AM
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Next
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:25 AM
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Who cares Congrats on getting some ass
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:24 AM
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It's not gay if it's a three-way
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:23 AM
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Youtube Look up different ways your pelvis can shift and go from there
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:23 AM
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Why do I give a fuck about her degree
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:22 AM
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Get her a Hitachi wand (a real one, not some knockoff) and have her follow the Dodson method (it's available online). It has some absurdly high success rate of over like 98 percent with women who are medically aorgasmic.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:21 AM
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If you put leftovers in the fridge, write down that they're in there on the whiteboard that's on the fridge. Don't fuck with anything on my desk. Cold hands on me anywhere are fine except my balls.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:18 AM
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Your frame is "how can I be good enough for a woman to love me" and it's weak as all hell
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:17 AM
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How.. exactly.. is TRP different from PUAs..? TRP is a larger toolbox that includes some PUA overlap but that covers a much wider range of topics
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:16 AM
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Type out "you" faggot
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:15 AM
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Men don't shit test If you think they do, then you don't understand what a shit test is
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:14 AM
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You don't
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:14 AM
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why isn't everyone of you doing it? Because everyone isn't a loser
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:13 AM
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"cool"
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:13 AM
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"accidentally" who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:12 AM
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Don't do it dipshit
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:11 AM
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Why do you ask stupid questions?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:11 AM
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Tldr; How can I dread? (Dread game level 4) That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:10 AM
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Is my view of women realistic? No
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:10 AM
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Is it really tough? Do you feel like a scumbag after a while? No. No.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:09 AM
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but really, how did this whole thing even come about? It's just what the data says. There's not much explanation of why the data says that.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:09 AM
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No
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:08 AM
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I have been struggling, for as long as I can remember, with my tendency to take the easiest option in any given situation. Strategically set up your environment so that the easiest option is the one you should be doing.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:07 AM
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Something like 904 percent of women have anxiety problems. At least she's trying to do something about it.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:06 AM
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why the fuck is it such a crime to leave work on time? It's not. You're the only person who gives a shit. I get shit done I actually end up working around 9.5 hours and only get paid for 8. That's because you're a pussy.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:05 AM
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Now this is where I need advice. To be completely honest, I was trying to go for one or maybe even a 2 week soft next. That's generally too long for a first soft next. Around 2-4 days is fine for the first offense, and then extending it afterwards to being longer and longer is generally the approach I see recommended.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:03 AM
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Google the female social matrix and pick the red pill room result
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:00 AM
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Sounds good. You get to decide what you want.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:58 AM
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Make sure you don't confuse dominant and domineering. The former will give her comfort in this scenario, and the latter will alienate her from being able to enjoy it.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:56 AM
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I'm just going to pick out a few things I see and make suggestions: but stop responding when it comes down to choosing a place Choose the place and don't put it on them to do so. I know I can look for some sort of club but besides that no idea how to proceed here. meetup dot com (can't link out, if I'm not mistaken) is basically a big ass list of shit going on in your area. This will come as a result of the previous two goals, but any tips here would be appreciated as well. Don't worry about thi…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:54 AM
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now I truly understand the 80-20 rule, whereby a small portion of the guys get the majority of the attractive women. I just want to add to this particular point that data from several sources and several demographics have found that ~80 percent of men are rated as "below average" by women.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:46 AM
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One non-online alternative might be meetup.com. It's basically a big listing of events and groups based around different interests and groups.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 04:18 AM
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captain This term doesn't mean what you think it means. It's not just a synonym for male significant other. That would be a really, really, really good place to start while you read through the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:46 AM
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Check your PMs.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:25 AM
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The problem is I don't know how to handle it Side Note: "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" was written a few decades ago, but it's perfect for this type of situation because it teaches you simple, easy-to-use ways to handle it. It's also still the top assertiveness training book in the world after all this time, afaik.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:15 AM
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However I find it very difficult going on dates because the guy always says something along the lines of "oh you're dieting, come on eat more" or if we want to do something fun like go to the beach and have a smoothie, I always order a low calorie drink like sparkling water, or iced black coffee. And he'll say something again. I stopped here. This is an issue with assertiveness and feeling judged for things you aren't being judged over. Any advice? How can I be graceful and fun to be around whil…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 12:01 AM
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If you're who I think you are, then stop saying shit like "alpha" and "beta" and other goofy shit around your wife, for fuck's sake. Make a new screen name (because she'll know this one), hide your shit from your wife effectively and stop trying to play red pill fucking rambo all the goddamn time. Good luck saving your marriage. /sincerely
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 01:36 AM
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Clarification: He didn't create "the red pill," he just started the sub.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 09:17 PM
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I think you got your title backwards, but it's a good metaphor.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 01:01 PM
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My girlfriend is making me link you this: http://c-cassandra.tumblr.com/image/133102616335
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 03:53 AM
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What would you say to the GF to get threesomes with the ex wife I wouldn't. The ex-wife is obviously up to some bullshit. If the ex-wife actually wants a threesome so bad, she can set one up with a different girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 12:33 AM
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I also posted because my situation is proof that women really will share a man with other women if the situation is right. I've had two women under the same roof for a great household for years, and I know there are others on here who have as well. Just pointing out that it's more than possible, but it's tough and not the most common scenario.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 11:51 PM
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So, women love to hear "I love you so much!" and similar things...I think about you daily, etc. An expression of comfort. Guys like it too, but since they want respect, can we make a list of simple phrases or brief actions that communicate respect? Guys want to be desired (ie: expression of attraction) more than they want respect.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 04:11 PM
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However, she responded "he chose his job. He chose to have a crazy life when he could have chosen something easier. Don't feel bad for him for his choice." I think she may have mistaken you showing respect for your boyfriend for feeling pity for him. And it also got me thinking, why do men make "hard choices" (jobs that require long hours, cutthroat jobs, high pressure performance jobs), is it simply testosterone or proving their worth? Because it's what we tend to enjoy. We like going out and d…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 04:09 PM
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