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0	Most approach anxiety is just fear of looking cringe Anyone have any tips or experience with getting past apporach apathy? I first got into gamestuff like 15 years ago and then my anxiety level was like 9/10 but I would still approach anyway. Now my approach anxiety is like 3/10, just a mild nevrousnes and when I do it its not a big deal at all. But I am lacking that drive, so when I go out alone I have a hard time pushing myself to approach, even though rationally this is a very important journey for me I don't connect with it in that more innate…	/r/seduction	30/04/25 11:38 PM
2	Do you pay on the first date? I generally treat girls how I treat everyone regarding this. I put people into one of 4 categories. Even if you don't know very much about them you probably have an idea of where they fall in stis spectrum No disposable income (unemployed/studend) Some disposable income (steady but lower paying job) High disposable income (High paying job) Rich If I'm above the other person in this money hierarchy I generally offer to pay whether its a friend or date or family. If I'm below I'd assume we split.	/r/seduction	08/01/25 11:05 PM
1	Physical appearance advice I don't know if you have this option with your work boots maybe not, but I struggeld with smelly feet in my early years and then I learned that shoes which are leather on the inside basically completely remove this issue, so since then I've only bought shoes that are leather on the inside and it has been fine.	/r/seduction	21/11/24 09:36 AM
6	W2: Going out solo & sober tonight I'm going out sober and alone tonight figured (and have for the last several nights), and yeah for me this is 100% sober xd I'll just write a bit about whats going on with me to get it off my chest: Just to give a brief lifestory, up until I was like 19 was on track to be incel. Found Pickup and became relatively confident with women. Had some activity and saw some success. I never pushed cold approach very hard though more like happenstance or lukewarm appraoches through just a lot of travellin…	/r/seduction	16/11/24 12:01 PM

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