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KEANU me-but-better/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:08 PM
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me-but-better/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:52 PM
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Actually the dog being a red flag for him isn’t weird at all. Your dog will defend you if he tries to hit you and will likely hate him from day one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:05 PM
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Not a lawyer but this sounds like a slap suit. They don’t need to have a legal leg to stand on for a slap suit to be effective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:10 PM
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Being told that I couldn’t paint my house pink because what would my future husband think? Keep in mind I was planning on doing this before getting married. Recently, I started looking at buying a house, so the pink house came up again and lets just say I was a lot more outspoken about what I thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:38 AM
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Adding to the self employment point. If you ever need fund vc firms and angel investors will also do background checks and social media checks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:37 PM
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I do believe it was right after they got married. She got pregnant on their honeymoon and I doubt Mr. “I even did the dishes so she would have sex with me” has been particularly supportive. She’s likely a married single mother of several kids plus manchild, and to put the cherry on top, by the time the kids were a little older and a little less work he fucking cheated on her. No wonder she is repulsed by (and doesn’t want to have sex with) the POS cheating sperm donor she was unfortunate enough …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:01 PM
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Even the word spinster is a lie invented by men. A spinster was a women that worked in spinning, one of the few professions available to women at the time. A lot of really good spinsters we’re making enough money that they didn’t need to marry, so they didn’t. Imagine using doctor as an insult to women because female doctors are so well off they don’t need to choose between marriage or starvation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:24 PM
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If that’s the case it’s pretty easy to catch. Liars are bad at keeping track of their lies. Just hint that you want them and wait for him to agree with you again In general lines not hinting at the answer you are looking for is best. Don’t give him the right answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:43 PM
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If they don’t even want to show you they would be good fathers or husbands you already know they won’t be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:37 PM
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If a guy ever ditches me because I brought up something that's crucial for me because "That's too early" I'll assume he his a little boy that mentally still lives at home and has no idea where to go with his future which scares him. This so many times. You can’t say you want a serious relationship and refuse to talk about children. A serious relationship requires you at min to be on the same page on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:36 PM
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Hank is the younger brother. They have very different writing styles. The book is “a remarkably foolish endeavor” but it’s sequel. If you want to read it the first one is called “an absolutely remarkable thing” it’s about how the social internet and the pursuit of fame shapes us and society as a whole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:13 AM
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Power you can’t control isn’t power at all -Hank Green That’s the female main character reflecting on her previous idea that she had “power” because people found her attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:52 PM
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I didn’t watch this version but I watched the original and to clarify the caption her “high standards” were that she wanted a guy that saw her as an equal and was educated (she is a lawyer)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:34 PM
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To answer your question a generation that doesn’t have kids is very bad for society as a whole so the Chinese government has really pushed the idea that women that don’t marry young and have lots of children are worthless so as to coerce all women to make babies (aka future citizens). It has nothing to do with logic even if 100% of women were married there would still be plenty of single man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:30 PM
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I still hate because in the original story she was an even bigger badass that already knew how to fight when she went to war and fucking told her family she was going because she was the one person in her family that could fight. But Disney had to make her weaker than all the guys because there is no way she was better to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:16 PM
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Not me but I was reading a thread yesterday about a OBYN that got asked to describe a day at work because this guy thought it would be sexy? You are not alone. Guys can sexualize anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:07 PM
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So fucking true. My non Christian father force me to spend Christmas with him because it was “his turn” I ask if we were at least going to have Christmas food and he told me he would love to eat it if I make it. WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:04 AM
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He is being abusive and there is no reason you should have to tolerate that. Not sure what country you are in but there are co parenting apps that record all communication for court purposes and you should be using that for all communication going forward. You need to establish a time window when it is acceptable to communicate something like unless our daughter is having an emergency you can only communication via email between 8 am and 6pm in Thursdays. 5 am text messages are never ok. Even if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:09 PM
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sorry i keep bothering you Then stop bothering me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:11 PM
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It’s actually a psychological trick. When you hear someone say how you are going to feel you instinctively try to prove them wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:12 PM
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This is going to be an odd one but no cuddles. I didn’t realize to what degree I cuddle with my ex to the detriment of my mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:04 AM
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I’ve been trying to put this into words for so long. When I met my fuck body I just knew it was going to be great but I had no idea how. I can reproduce that now. Thank you!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:31 AM
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Not OP but I’ve rarely ever been attracted to a guy’s physical appearance. The quickest I’ve ever been attracted to guy was like a month or two and it had nothing to do with looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:00 AM
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She said minimalism is different. Basically if he is intentional about having few possessions that’s fine if he can’t afford or doesn’t care to have basic stuff that’s not ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:45 AM
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Link to the article here: http://www.randalolson.com/2016/05/31/how-long-does-the-average-man-last-in-bed/ For all the people asking that was time from penetration to ejaculation. It seems like this was strictly PIV sex and the couple were doing whatever they normally did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:35 PM
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Maybe we should make a post really clarifying the difference between a pickmesha getting used for FWB and a FDS approved FWB relationship. There seemed to be a lot of women here confused about the two
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:54 PM
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Financially healthy means that he has stable career where he is making enough money to comfortably support chosen his lifestyle. Marriage and kids are expensive so if he wants that he has to be able to realistically afford that What exactly is this 34 year old making 45k a year bringing financially to our life together? For some context I’m 24, making 40k in Dallas without a degree. I rent a very nice apartment in an expensive area, have a nice car etc. I am very frugal even if I do have expensi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:09 PM
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I was coming out of a LTR with someone that didn’t appreciate everything he did for me and decided to explore bdsm as part of doing the things I couldn’t do when we were together. There was a discussion on one of the kinky subreddits about the perception other subreddits had of it and this one was listed in a fairly positive light so I had to check it out. I stayed because this place reminded me of the standards I used to have and slowly dropped through the relationship. I’m never doing that aga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:44 PM
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They turn dating into a game with the goal of finding a HVM. How dare we make the goal of dating finding husband material 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:28 PM
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That’s why I said a very general guideline. Talk to your doctor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:41 AM
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Talk to your doctor but as a very general guideline. Yes you are the most fertile in your 20 but still perfectly capable of having a baby after that. You are just more likely to have a miscarriage. First pregnancies tend to start being considered higher risk at 34
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:57 AM
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Let me take a guess and say that if on paper he has the kid half the time he doesn’t have to pay child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:03 PM
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It’s not that common but if you find one that shares your love lenguaje it’s absolutely worth it. Keep trying 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:31 PM
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How do you mark the difference between those two. I always have a hard time with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:18 PM
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I understand where you are coming from but the dictionary disagrees with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:01 PM
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The dictionary literally list pleasant as a synonym for agreeable. The only reason I made that comment is because I don’t want one of our younger subscribers to see your post and feel like they have the wrong personality. You can be agreeable and still enforce your boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:43 PM
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Directly from Merriam Webster the most common definition is “pleasing to the mind or senses especially as according well with one's tastes or needs” It can be use to describe someone that is ready to consent to something, but at that point the adjective is being used to describe a state not a person. You can think about it this way: She is agreeable means she is pleasant She is agreeable to the plan means she is ok with the plan It didn’t occur to me that you might have been thinking about the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:34 PM
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While I agree with the sentiment you can be agreeable and have a back bone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:54 PM
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You go girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:07 PM
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“Other people told me this subreddit is toxic, but it fits me to a T” conclusion: those people were wrong 🤦‍♀️ Maybe just maybe they were right and you are just toxic too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:10 PM
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Have you considered that maybe you have more to offer as a top than as a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:35 PM
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I love how you said age is an indication of maturity. Some women are really mature and are more comfortable with older men A lot of men are really immature and can only date younger women because no one their own age will give them the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:27 PM
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This needs to be higher on the tread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:17 PM
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Holy fuck yes!!! I’m often considered very traditional and anytime a guy compliments me on that my mind just screams RUN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:06 PM
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But implies an exception. He would be if it wasn’t for that, which in my opinion makes him perfect as a fwb. I feel valued, respected, appreciated etc. No romantic attachment required for any of those. And do you ever pine after his affection? No, I don’t think either of us would feel comfortable doing this if that was the case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:52 PM
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Upvoting for the line: “my pussy is not a charity”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:47 PM
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Good for you for knowing what works and doesn’t work for you. I have a really hard time creating romantic attachment even when I’m intending to so it works for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:53 PM
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Honestly, I’m well aware of how awful this sounds but have you considered a fwb? Mine is basically a HVM but emotionally unavailable. He fulfills my sexual needs, I’ve definitely learned a lot about what I like in bed, and he is doing wonders for my self-esteem. I know that’s not necessarily the most popular thing to have on this sub but it works so well with the rest of FDS. Having someone available to fulfill my needs reinforced the abundance mentality, and it’s much easier to withhold sex whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:19 PM
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Upvoting because the title is great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:46 PM
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You would think that was an easy question to answer. Some men really don’t have anything other than baggage to bring to a relationship. The worse part is they get offended when you make them realize that 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:39 PM
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I’m over it all is closure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 12:08 AM
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That hit so close it hurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:24 PM
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