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MALE DEPRAVITYmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:18 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:45 PM
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RANTmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:19 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:45 PM
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DISCUSSIONmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:31 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:45 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:47 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:03 AM
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How-To High Valuemediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:41 AM
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#JustLVMThingsmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:17 PM
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RANTmediocre_summer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:45 AM
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This is quite ableist in my opinion. Both my partner and I have problems with our food touching or weird textures in our food. It’s not an lv trait to not like your food touching, many neurodivergent people have this issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 09:27 PM
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ratio
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:45 AM
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In what world is 80,000 enough to support a family with kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:23 PM
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To be semantic, western culture is culture from European countries and areas colonized by Europe. Eastern culture refers to practices from countries in Asia, which India is a part of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:01 PM
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I agree that we do want people to learn about our cultures and appreciate them, but appreciation and learning can be done without whitewashing culture. The melting point of cultures and ideas is a great concept in theory, but it fails to recognize that when you erase past experience from the equation, it assumes that colonization and mistreatment didn’t happen. It can be difficult to think through but many cultures had their practices mocked and culture stolen from them, so it comes off as insen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:30 AM
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I totally get where you’re coming from! However, I do think it’s important to make the distinction that astrology did not have any western origins. The earliest records of it are from the Babylonian empire, which was located in present day Iraq, and the different interpretations of astrology/spirituality come from middle eastern, Asian, and African cultures. Western astrology is inspired from that, which is perfectly fine, however it’s disrespectful to the original cultures’ when their tradition…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:22 AM
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Honestly, it’s a cultural appropriation when white people practice Vedic astrology because it’s not a part of their culture. I used to get mocked for my spiritual beliefs just a few years ago, and now all of a sudden, it’s popular to practice Vedic astrology and use items of importance from Indian culture as a trend. It’s a bit ironic how the attitude towards Indian culture has changed from making fun of it to thinking it’s “cool”, but attitudes towards Indian people have remained racist. I pers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:50 AM
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Being a housewife is great but being a housewife with no kids is where it’s at. If you’re a housewife with kids you’re most likely doing unpaid labor but if you’re a housewife without kids, it’s more likely your partner likes having you at home and spoiling you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:49 AM
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Bras are really uncomfortable and I never realized this until I stopped wearing them. I started wearing my bfs "compression tank tops" and then when I wore a bra one day, it gave me the worst sensory issues. I almost never wear one now unless I'm wearing a dress or top that requires it. I never wear a bra at home anymore and wear tank tops everywhere else and honestly I'm in a much better mood most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:45 PM
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They’re just jealous their asscrack is discrete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:18 AM
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Are you implying we don’t? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:33 AM
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I would like to add considering carrying a knife. I always carry one on me when I’m going outside and it helped me when I was approached by a man in a parking lot. I was able to open it easier than my pepper spray and the man backed off immediately. I would recommend one that flips open with your finger as opposed to one you would open with two hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:32 PM
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Yes I agree. It’s very different to not like influencers because they aren’t fully truthful vs not liking them because you think that women influencers are living the easy life because they make money from posting pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:28 PM
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I don’t like a lot of beauty influencers because they use filters and lie about products. It’s damaging to young girls’ self esteem when they see an influencer saying that this and this product made their skin clear and made their pores disappear when it’s face tune and filters. I’ve had a hard time with my body image and as a young girl it was really damaging to see influencers with perfect bodies saying that they achieved that with working out and healthy diets when it was either photoshop or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:41 PM
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I’ve never been pregnant but I weightlift and I’ve had days after a hard day where all I do the next day is eat. I’m pretty sure pregnancy is like that but every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:58 PM
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Good 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:11 PM
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Yes, I find this really weird because I don’t understand why she can’t do the research herself when it appears she is knowledgeable about skincare? When I met my partner they weren’t super knowledgeable about skincare and had asked me some questions about what products I use, so I don’t really have a problem with her building a skincare routine for him, but I feel like it’s more of her not wanting his germs to break her out than him wanting skincare advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:52 PM
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I like “my dictator boyfriend” and “suitor armor” on webtoon. The first one is a gay romance story and the second one is straight romance. I used to read a lot of trash fanfics in my pickme days too so I can relate lol. I really like the second webtoon because the main character’s love interest doesn’t pursue her in an abusive way and respects her boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:35 PM
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He doesn’t find you attractive right now but wants to keep you around in case someone better doesn’t come along so he’s pretending that y’all are friends and will later make a move when he’s desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:58 PM
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If men would like beautiful women they should be able to afford the upkeep and items necessary for beauty 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:55 PM
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Both me and my partner have adhd so it works out pretty well for us. Our symptoms don’t irritate each other because we both have similar organizational and coping mechanisms. I’ve lived with neurotypical people before and honestly it’s a lot better to be with a neurodivergent person when you’re neurodivergent yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:25 AM
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I shit you not this is a man posing as a woman to try to make fds look like we’re predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:54 PM
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He should break up with her instead of causing her pain like this. It’s selfish of him to want the parts of her personality that make him like her but then also not like her personality when it doesn’t benefit him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:44 PM
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A lot of short men seem to have an attitude lol. They’re argumentative, get in fights, are always obsessed about their height, try to make you not wear heels so they feel secure about their height. I blame the patriarchy for enforcing the narrative that shortness equals feminine because it hurts both short men and tall women but I also refuse to be with a man shorter than 6 ft for this reason lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:16 PM
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Men who say stuff like this are insecure about themselves. Why would a man who is secure in his accomplishments and self worth need to tear someone down to feel better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:15 PM
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Yes I got a poly gel kit and an e drill from amazon so I do nails with forms. I started out by doing press on nails and sticking them in with gorilla glue but they would wear down easily and acrylics were 60 dollars for three weeks of wear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:11 AM
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I feel you :( My mom wouldn’t let me do any feminine things and I would feel like a boy. I wasn’t allowed to wear makeup, use perfume or nice smelling lotions and stuff, wear clothes that made me look feminine, and for the longest time I wasn’t allowed to shave or wax my body hair. It hurts because I genuinely love fashion and makeup and I felt a lot of gender dysphoria from not being allowed to take part in those traditionally feminine activities. I learned a lot of how to be a woman from tikto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:12 AM
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I hope you’re feeling better soon, and it’s so great that you have someone to help you!! I suffered a traumatic experience and I mentioned to my bf over the phone that every day was feeling like a chore and I just didn’t want to get out of bed. He drove 12 hrs over the weekend to give me a surprise visit and help me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:35 PM
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I met him on discord and we connected because of shared hobbies. He turned out to be an amazing guy and we’ve been together for about two years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:41 AM
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Yeah that man would be dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:33 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:37 AM
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I've found that journaling is really helpful with unpacking both good and bad emotions. I've learned a lot from just lurking on FDS lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:37 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:36 AM
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I never wanted to assume that my mother could be jealous of me because it feels like a low accusation but when I read through the comments, it feels like it might be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:36 AM
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Thank you :) I feel a lot happier when I'm not around my family, I feel a lot more confident in my worth. Reading through FDS opening my eyes to her behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:31 AM
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I am in the process of cutting off my family, but I'm just so angry about all the things my mom did to me. I can't help but wonder how my life would have turned out if it hadn't been for her and that's what angers me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:27 AM
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Yes, I agree that parents can make mistakes. But a mistake would be accidentally stepping on your kids foot or hitting them on accident because you didn't see them, not screaming at them because they don't want to eat their dinner. You don't yell at adults when they don't want to eat their food, you don't yell at pets when they don't listen, you don't yell at your partner if they are in a bad mood, and yelling and hitting is unacceptable in most situations until it comes to children. I think I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:54 PM
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It isn't about being bad or good. It's just that child abuse is pretty common and normalized in mom culture. I find that a lot of the behavior that is showcased on that subreddit normalizes mothers being abusive to their children. Would you yell at an adult for not wanting to eat something or wanting independence? Then why is it ok to do the same to a kid then. Children act out because they are small and they don't have power in the parent-child relationship. Treating kids with respect and treat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:09 PM
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Children will ruin a good relationship imo. I don’t want to have kids mainly because I’m very happy with my boyfriend right now and kids are sticky and need attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:07 PM
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What I mean to say is that he has the option to not have children not affect his health so he is impartial to having children. For me, childbirth means damaging my body and having to get a bunch of surgeries after childbirth to make my body like it was before. He understands that childbirth is more damaging to me so he doesn't care if I want kids or not because his contribution towards kids is financial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:31 PM
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Ouch, and the clitoris has the most nerve endings that must have been hell for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:10 PM
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Breaking mom is actually a subreddit where moms talk about their motherhood struggles. I don't think TikTok is necessarily trash, it's just the younger generations' way of communication and I've learned a lot of stuff from TikTok that I was not taught in sex ed in school. I get where you are coming from and I'm sure that you're a good parent but there are A LOT of terrible parents, as can be evidenced by the mental health issues in the new generation on adults. It doesn't tear down moms to call …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:07 PM
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Yeah, I think that a lot of child abuse happens because of the nuclear family. Parents get stressed out and they don't have anyone to help them. Obviously that doesn't excuse hitting your kid but as we've all seen from the Standford prison experiment, people in positions of power take their frustrations out on people that they can control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:26 PM
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I’ve done some teaching before with kids and I enjoyed it becasue I spent a limited amount of time with the kids haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:45 AM
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Awe thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:45 AM
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For me, it was my family being terrible at being a good family. I'd rather focus on healing myself than bring a kid into the world while I'm already stressed out from childhood trauma. I'm sure that's what happened with me and I don't want it to happen to another kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:55 AM
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There was a time where I wanted kids really bad but after going for higher education I realized that I was just being brainwashed into wanting to be a mother by the traditional wife stuff. I like their aspect of being a stay at home wife and having traditionally feminine hobbies and I have to say that the book helped me have an extremely feminine influence in my life because my mom made every attempt to defeminize me, but they also heavily talked about women not going to college and not needing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:54 AM
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