OP gets gaslit for an appropriate response to a gendered slur

lvrcalii · 2022-03-18T21:57:38+00:00

Ooof. The last comments pic is such a great example of ingrained misogyny. "I know older ladies who handle these situations with grace and empathy", is exactly the attitude that advises sympathy for rapists and gets women killed. GTFO idiots.

JulyParade · 2022-03-18T22:06:46+00:00

The number of people saying she owes his dad an apology is disturbing too. It was his dad's job to say something as a parent! His job as a parent didn't end when the kid turned 18 - the mother's certainly didn't! He should be apologizing to all the women for his son's behavior.

azulalalala · 2022-03-18T18:45:42+00:00

Why would OP need to "explain" that refering to women as "sluts" is wrong to a grown ass man lmao 😂 He is not a child! She roasted him rightfully so he can leave and rethink his life at least

_cnz_ · 2022-03-18T19:35:51+00:00

I think that OP had a great response. The best way to fight misogyny especially amongst men is to induce shame.

shelballama · 2022-03-18T17:44:30+00:00

She should've asked why he's such a "useless sl*t" then.

I can't imagine he's stupid enough to NOT see the irony. He must understand he is exactly what he just described.

And John should feel bad, he helped raise that little shit.

GoldandGlowing · 2022-03-18T18:35:34+00:00

Sooooooooo many pick-mes in those comments.

“If he’s a misogynist bring that up not his uselessness!1!1”

¿Porque no los dos?

IgetUsernameScraps · 2022-03-18T18:04:42+00:00

Oh yeah, because calling misogynists “a misogynist” really shows them. He would’ve definitely gone home to rethink his hatred of women if she had gone that route. 🙄

It’s so patronizing. Who cares? Yes, deep down he is an “awful irredeemable woman-hater.” Misogynists never change so kick them where it hurts. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m loving some of the comments clapping back.

ArugulaIsAwesome · 2022-03-18T19:37:42+00:00

Gotta love how they’re policing her method of calling him out on his bullshit.

I love it when I voice my opinion and then am told I am doing it wrong.

Sure, let’s go ahead and divert the attention to her incompetencies instead of his. 🙄

Reminds me of the time I told a woman quite frankly that it was embarrassing her two 30 something sons still lived with her and the only comments that ever happened afterwards were jokes about how “drunk” I was.

Sorry sweetie, my comments had nothing to do with being intoxicated, I’d still have said it sober. 🤷🏻‍♀️

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-03-18T22:44:08+00:00

Misogyny is the most widespread and the most tolerated form of bigotry and hatred on the planet.

heroic_nincompoop · 2022-03-18T18:43:01+00:00

"Misogyny is so ingrained it doesn't have an impact"

Your ignorance does not negate the impact of misogyny, Bartholomew. Thanks for announcing you don't give a shit about femicide, though.

Lizard301 · 2022-03-18T19:50:34+00:00

A. Degree. In. Computer. Science.

I am learning CS on my own on breaks at work and evenings/weekends. This dude is just.... I don't have words.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-03-19T12:32:54+00:00

Like a woman hater would listen to anything a woman said. She did right to roast him. Shaming him might give him the kick in the ass to get his shit together.

His poor mum is going to be in the retirement home before she gets away from this loser, otherwise.

FluffandRainclouds · 2022-03-19T18:49:18+00:00

Goodness, you know it's forbidden to call out unemployed/underemployed able-bodied men (who also happen to be misogynists)! Who does OP think she is, the queen of England? According to the PC police, she should have (checks notes) only criticized the use of "slut." But it's ok for any k]nkster or p[]rnsite to say!

/all the /s

idestroythingsfora- · 2022-03-20T21:53:47+00:00

Best defense is a good attack and all. Loser is in his thirties, why are they acting like he doesn't understand why "slut" is an offensive thing to call women :/

Title	OP gets gaslit for an appropriate response to a gendered slur
Author	mediocre_summer
Upvotes	535
Comments	28
Date	March 18, 2022 4:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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