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| 37 | How do you handle the "I'm a virgin" talk with guys?Thank you so much for this comment! It made me feel a lot better ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 62 | How do you handle the "I'm a virgin" talk with guys?No, I'm not waiting for marriage. I thought I was asexual and aromantic for a long time but recently had some time during the pandemic to do some soul searching and realized I do have romantic needs that I've been suppressing my whole life. So I'm just dating for the first time now. I found FDS, learned about rotational dating and am working hard to not get too invested emotionally so I can date and find my best possible match before becoming exclusive. I've told 2 guys so far that I have little… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:24 PM |
| 43 | News article: 4 men arrested for "r*ping" a lizardTHANK YOU. There was literally a post a while ago that said FDS is not a landfill for male depravity. This isn't helpful at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 13 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Thanks, sis! Will do 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 06:59 AM |
| 42 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.You're hitting the nail on the head, queen. He was 100% a country boy (but I couldn't tell from the profile - it only came out when we talked). He even sent me a country music video saying he wanted to learn how to dance to it. He said he loved the woman in the video and how feminine and beautiful she was - she was a small, twiggy blonde in a long, flowing cottagecore dress. I was thinking, "Damn, if you expect me to look like that, prepare to be disappointed." I appreciate you breaking down eac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 29 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Hey girl. I used FastPeopleSearch dot com. I just typed in his phone number and got a lot of info. There are a few others, but that site is one of the most comprehensive I found. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 06:53 AM |
| 42 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Absolutely! I completely credit FDS for being the reason why I unmatched him. I've had pickme friends in the past encouraging me to overlook shady, perverted behavior. Coming onto this forum and being told it's okay - no, good for you - to put my feelings first has been life-changing. I'll do even better next time instead of explaining and blocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 14 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.That's great advice! Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 26 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.They really are transparent! It's so hard to be a romantic because creeps prey upon our desires to find someone. Thanks, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 05:00 AM |
| 38 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Thank you! I was so disturbed I couldn't even think straight. I'm downloading Text Now now (haha) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 63 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Thank you so much for the recommendation! I've never heard of that app before, but I'll absolutely check it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 03:22 AM |
| 179 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.You're absolutely right. The FDS stance is that you block without explaining, but I was so overwhelmed I forgot that. I'm still new to dating so it's hard for me to remove emotion from the moment and act properly when it comes to things like this. If something like this happens again, I won't explain myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 03:21 AM |
| 302 | FDS Spared Me A Proverbial GrenadeJesus Christ! That's so, so scary. This is why LVM hate FDS: It helps you guard yourself against predators. And all men benefit from violent men. So anything that protects women from male violence triggers rage. Good for you on staying safe, sis. I pray his victims recover from their terrible trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 02:49 AM |
| 23 | You Cannot Save Those Who Love To Drown, And Honestly, It's Not Worth ItGreat lessons, but please use more paragraph breaks. This was really hard on the eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 04:33 PM |
| 14 | People continue to dismiss discrimination against black women. I don’t get how no one’s seeing this for what it really is.Okay but I don't get why this situation is leading to people shitting on white women. Two black celebrities got into a fight. Why are so many people on social media talking about white women? Like, am I missing something? What do white chicks have to do with Will Smith punching Chris Rock? And please don't downvote me because I'm genuinely asking. I saw the punch, looked it up on Twitter and found a bunch of people on black Twitter complaining about where women. Like ... if two plus two is four … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:28 AM |
| 40 | What do y'all make of this? Useful advice? Anything you'd do differently? 🤔I agree that it seemed to excuse male behavior too much! I couldn't pick out a sentence or anything specific, but I was like, "Is it just me or is this seriously minimizing the amount of work women do while excusing males??" I'm so glad it wasn't just me 😅 Sometimes it's hard to put these feelings into words so I always appreciate coming here and clearing my head with others' perspectives 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 02:07 AM |
| 30 | “If Kim Kardashian cannot escape this, then what chance do normal women have?” - Trevor Noah Breaks Down The Uneasiness Surrounding Kanye West's BehaviorHe made jokes about her concert trauma and has minimized her feeling and accomplishments multiple times. Just bad behavior, and this was when he was her fiancé. I'm proud of her for not marrying him, because he was disrespectful of her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 126 | OP gets gaslit for an appropriate response to a gendered slur"Misogyny is so ingrained it doesn't have an impact" Your ignorance does not negate the impact of misogyny, Bartholomew. Thanks for announcing you don't give a shit about femicide, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 06:43 PM |
| 9 | Whilst we are on the topic of being competitive with men.. A man is trying his hardest to get me fired at work.This is so damn inspiring 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 05:23 AM |
| 299 | Trigger warning for exes of porn addictsYeah, I get a creepy vibe like he thinks this is something to brag about. Note how he didn't stop porn out of respect for the partner - only because it is no longer useful to him. That means he's still looked at it while in the relationship. I bet if the relationship ever sours, he'll go right back to porn and taunt his partner with this if they ever get into an argument: "I used to like you so much I couldn't even enjoy porn ... but now that you've done x, y or z I don't feel that way anymore."… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Meme?Haha I love this YouTube channel. They and Marry Alice have the most ridiculous compilations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:52 AM |
| 10 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menOh, damn. That was it? Just plain faced honesty and they fall apart at the seams ... that's so pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 04:00 AM |
| 12 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menPlease share your wisdom. I've never made a man cry before in my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 16 | I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant.That's so obnoxious. Are there any female only rooms in Clubhouse? I was thinking of downloading the app to make new friends but I don't want to do it if I have to talk to random jerks like that 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 33 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menGirl how did you make him start crying?? Share the story please 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 12:20 AM |
| 41 | Signs that your female "friend" might intend to traffic youWait what?? A pimp with a heart? That sounds too good to be true. What happened? If it's okay to ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 76 | Have you ever dated a guy who was waaaaaay too close to his ex girlfriend? 🤨Omg, oh no 😶 Thank goodness you guys were broken up by the time she got pregnant...that's terrible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 05:23 AM |
| 99 | This lady is PickMe Hall of Shame personified 🤡 She "outsourced sex" with her boyfriend to another woman🤡 She said it didn't go as planned 🤡 No shit, SherlockBasically, she stopped feeling attracted to her man, so she invited a friend to have sex with him instead. Then she moved her friend in and they started having sex in the house. This made her want to sleep with him again, but he refused so now she wants help. Here's the transcript! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:53 PM |
| 85 | This lady is PickMe Hall of Shame personified 🤡 She "outsourced sex" with her boyfriend to another woman🤡 She said it didn't go as planned 🤡 No shit, SherlockThis lady was lost the minute she gave a pornographer a chance 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 35 | I'm scream-laughing at this and thought you might enjoy it too...This lady is hilarious! She has so much charisma. And she's right ... I don't know why guys shoot themselves in the foot like this. It's an epidemic of calculated stupidity that doesn't even give them the results they want 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsNooooo! Don't tell me a man seriously said that to you? 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:53 AM |
| 2 | As a Black woman I am (sadly) familiar with fetishization in the dating pool. Black women and other WOC, PLEASE be advised that LV potential suitors will not see you as fully human, just as someone who ticks a specific box.I'm willing to bet this was written by an Asian woman satirizing non Asian dudes who fetishize her. The last sentence tipped me off because hentai watchers always jokingly call themselves "men of culture." (Looking at you, The Anime Man, a.k.a. a YouTuber who only has one joke and beats it into the ground like a dead horse.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 68 | The Lennie DefenseYep, according to the director from "Promising Young Women" it takes three full minutes to strangle a grown woman. Three full minutes of looking into a dying woman's eyes. Any sexual defense argument doesn't cut it. If a man is turned on by death to the point where he takes someone else's life...electric chair! ⚡️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 160 | BDSM is falsely advertised as a way to heal traumaI've heard it said before that BDSM is mental illness. I've seen women admit they're into being beaten ("impact play"), suffocated ("breath play"), burned, electrocuted, cut and way worse. How is that good for you? How is that appealing to a healthy person who loved themselves and wants a happy, peaceful life? But then people will say, "Mind your business! We're all consenting adults!" ... Are you? Because I've seen adult women on Twitter, Instagram and TikTok normalize this to their audience of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:49 AM |
| 34 | Pickme “cool girl” mother is addicted to smoking till this day because of NVMThis is so sad, but yeah, I've heard of this. I had a friend who dated a pothead who was a notorious loser. (Maybe that's an oxymoron, lol.) We all warned her not to do it, but he had a reputation for being good in bed so she assured us it didn't mean anything; she just wanted a FWB situation. Tell me why she's calling him her boyfriend a few weeks later. Not only that, but she starts to ask US if we want to hang out and smoke with her. Like...they broke up and she still needs a smoke every day.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:16 AM |
| 6 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsThanks so much!🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsThanks!! I hope to come up with more helpful strategy posts in the future 🥰 (Hopefully I won't have to deal with any more whacky behavior from guys to inspire them, but you never know in the dating world 💀) And ooh, herobait is something I haven't heard of before, but that makes a ton of sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:15 AM |
| 51 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsYes, absolutely! I wanted to add a bit about how socialization plays up this dynamic, but the post was too long, haha. The whole bumbling man/hyper competent woman duo is played out across so many shows and movies. The trope sunk its claws into our collective conscious. Some guys see that dynamic and think it's feasible. LVM think they can be a lovable dope with nothing to offer and somehow land a Boss Babe Lean In Yaasss Queen CEO Superstar. 👸🏽 And, of course, tons of girls grow up seeing that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:08 PM |
| 55 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsI'm sorry but if a guy says he "has so much love to give" I just think of shelter dogs 💀 I used to work for a shelter writing the dogs' descriptions for potential owners to read and we'd write stuff like that to pull on people's heartstrings: "He's a little naughty, but he has a big heart!" Or "This little guy has bitten in the past, but he has a lot of love to give!" So a man saying that about himself just makes me think of a scruffy mutt who needs a loving home 🐕 (But chances are, despite his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:05 PM |
| 43 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsWHAT! Girl, I have seen some shocking things on guys' dating profiles - including furry costumes - but I've never seen anything like that 😭 He needs to be on BetterHelp or something, not a dating app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 31 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsThank you! And yeah, I want to help save as many women from a breakingmoms future as possible🙅🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:54 PM |
| 23 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsThanks! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:54 PM |
| 131 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsI basically him he wasn't handsome enough to have that attitude 🤭 I said, "You need to have a LOT to offer for a woman to be willing to put in that much work." He got all huffy and said, "What? I DO have a lot to offer!" I didn't want to be mean, so I just said, "Really?" And looked him up and down, making my meaning clear. I forget what he said, but he shook his head and skulked away 😂 I felt kinda bad about it afterwards, but he needed the reality check | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 108 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsYep! I once even had a guy say, "You remind me of my mom." He meant it as a compliment, but it made my skin crawl 😵💫 I almost added it to the post but I was like "Hopefully that was just one weird dude...surely other guys aren't saying stuff like this!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:06 PM |
| 26 | Men inherently know to protect women from other men.Wait, so the same guys who pressured you into anal and blow jobs are now talking about protecting you? Or is this a group of different guys? Because if some of the guys who used to be coercive are now trying to pretend like they're protectors it might just be predators changing tactics 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 124 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.WHO RAISES THESE MEN? WHO TEACHES THEM THEY CAN ACT THIS WAY? Jesus Christ. Imagine looking at yourself in the mirror after sending this grotesquely disgusting message, portraying himself as worthless scum with nothing to offer while disrespecting you with those vulgar sexual come-ons 🤢 He think he so bad, like...it's more than embarrassing, more than revolting, it's straight-up delusional insanity. And what's with the long ass sentence? He think he James Joyce writing Ulysses? Boy, sit your mus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 12 | Delusional, visibly ageing NVM creates a website and ads to find a girlfriend...I'm sorry, but anyone who uses the word sapiosexual is someone I can't take seriously 🤭 It's too dang pretentious, I just can't | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:09 PM |
| 12 | red flag: "I can't cook"Oh, thank you! 🥰 Maybe I'll even make a post on it. It seems like there are a lot of ways guys try to turn our nurturing instinct against us 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 437 | red flag: "I can't cook"You know what that is? Mama baiting. He's doing a broken bird routine, "Look at me, I'm a bumbling widdle man who can't take care of himself🥺 Won't a strong, independent woman take me on and be my mommy?"in vain hopes some pickme with motherly instincts swoops in to let him suckle at her teats for all of time. Good on you for not falling for it 💪 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:09 AM |
| 114 | Title is along the lines of "she doesn't have a sense of humor." Nah bro you're just being a creepWhat is it with LVM and being weird about dog moms? I once read some brain dead take from a dating coach that said women with big dogs only do it so they can have masculine energy in their lives. AS IF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:31 AM |
| 109 | Roast-A-Scrote 🔥male narcissist edition 😝Yeah, the lack of introspection is a huge red flag for me. Then again, I spend a lot of time examining my flaws in my efforts to improve myself, and sometimes that can get me down a little bit. Sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I walk through each and every day blissfully unaware of all of my shortcomings. I feel like life would be a bit easier without those mental expectations I put on myself. Going back to her point: Not only are people who never self-reflect boring, but they're al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:52 AM |
| 7 | If any of you have made an account on ThePinkPill.co I highly suggest you reconsider itDang it, I just started lurking on that site. I am so hungry for female-only spaces, and to find out that penises penetrate every woman space I find is so damn frustrating 👹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 164 | “What we not finna do is waste our damn time!” YES 👏🏻I love this! So often I think about social media's impact on society as a whole ... and while a lot of ills can be tied to these apps, I can't help but feel good when I see videos like this. For all the bad TikTok does, it lets women from all walks of life connect to one another and share valuable wisdom in a snap. 💫 Seriously, this is the kind of stuff young girls can seriously benefit from. Throughout history, men have tried to squash different efforts women make to connect with one another an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:46 AM |
| 250 | Taylor Swift has managed to flip the 'nah I' m special, he will treat me different cos the last one was not good enough' pickme trope ( 🙄🤮🤮) onto men, bet they all thought they would not get a song calling them out on BS.This title was written in such a confusing way I've re-read it four times and still have no clue what on God's Green Earth you're talking about or referring to 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 07:47 PM |
| 469 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”This is totally fake. He's describing a common porn scenario: girlfriend's friend is inexplicably horny and touches him ... plus his girlfriend is coming soon, so there's the ~risk element.~ 😒 This is just a stupid fantasy written by a porn-addicted pervert with cheating and exhibition fetishes. The only "girlfriend" This loser has is a crusty-ass sock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:56 AM |
| 85 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & Thanksgiving"I’m a 30-year-old grown woman with a graduate degree, a great job, I pay all of my own bills, I take care of myself. Any father would be pleased to have me as a daughter-in-law." That's the most important part. Don't forget this. The fact that you're around people who make you need to remind yourself is worrisome to me. You're a catch, and your boyfriend and his family aren't treating you like one. It sounds like the family automatically slotted you into the "black sheep" role, and your boyfrie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:27 AM |
| 34 | Christmas is around the corner 🎄 Here's some queen shit to get you in the holiday spirit! 🎅 | A.K.A. How one woman on TikTok dealt with a LVM who tried to dump her before ChristmasAbsolutely! May we all go into 2022 with her inspiring, take no shit energy 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:02 AM |
| 104 | Wah! Women have high expectations! Wah! Women won’t date me!Woman: I only date men with good hygiene. Men: WAAAAAAA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 119 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.I absolutely agree. Big Tech companies want to get their customers as young as possible -- just look at what Facebook (sorry, ~Meta~) has been trying to do. They've been trying to get Instagram for Kids off the ground for a long-ass time, because they know they have a better chance of turning someone who started young into a lifelong customer. Big Porn is the same way. If you weasel your twisted sexual ways into a young person's brain, you rewire their mind. You train them to be addicted to your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 118 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…Yep, I was pleasantly surprised by his viewpoints until I heard that as well. Throughout history, men have abused women. At this point, any woman who actively gives men the benefit of the doubt is putting herself in harm's way. Should we have to be suspicious? No. Is being suspicious of men as a sex class reasonable, given their history of oppressing us, as well as the ever-increasing misogyny thanks to the internet? Absolutely. It's not psychological trouble -- it's based on evidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 10 | Tropes I’m tired ofOh my gosh, I know exactly what you're talking about... Surviving COVID-19 With the Lumberjack or something like that. The video review by Caleb Joseph was so freaking funny, I want to link it here because it made me laugh so hard I nearly peed myself. (I'm on mobile, so sorry for the funky formatting) https://youtu.be/IDxUk7Ei9M4 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:41 PM |
| 7 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.🥺🥺Please be nice, he works hard 🥺🥺 Girl, niceness is what got us into this mess. No one shames him into cleaning up so he wallows in his own filth and develops the AUDACITY to bring a woman into his filthy, disgusting, nasty bacteria biodome of a home. Someone should have bullied him into cleanings long time ago. 🗣 BRING BACK SHAME 2022 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 62 | Realizing the “cool girls” you used to be friends with were just total pickme’sI completely relate to this! I have so much trouble making friends with men. The way they're so ... dismissive of other people's feelings is just so disturbing to me. I only have one male friend I still talk to out of all the guys I befriended over the years. I remember one guy friend once lectured me for an hour - a whole HOUR - and at the end of it I pointed at the clock and went, "You do realize you just spoke for a while hour, right? You realize most people let the other person speak, right?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:15 AM |
| 15 | Red flags and alarm bells are sounding when I saw this. What in the pickmeverse is this?!Awww, sis... 😕 I feel so bad for her, I want to give her a hug. This just goes to show the damage all of that toxic positive "I let him do anything! I'm so trusting! I'm a cool girl who TRUSTS him!😜(aka has no boundaries)" mentality does to someone...I feel like I can see the pain in her eyes. Stuff like this makes me want to get a TikTok account so I can send DMs saying "Check out FDS 👀 " but i sooooo don't want that app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 10 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreThis is 100% true. We advocate avoidance; the Manosphere advocates for violent action. The fact that this is downvoted makes me suspect there are male trolls infiltrating the sub. I thought only FDS members could downvote? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 9 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.A bunch of Sam Tarlys desperate to find a home for the fat pink mast nobody wants 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:17 PM |
| 22 | #JustHVMThings: A bridesmaid couldn't come to the wedding thanks to Covid restrictions. So the groom paid for her to appear at the wedding via hologram! 💕 | Source: "A Hologram Delivered the Toast" from The New York Times 🥂If you're interested, here's another article with a video of the event! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:34 AM |
| 11 | How do I deal with my extremely high libido?You watched porn with your brother? Girl, you picked a very apt username 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:56 PM |
| 100 | In shock. A post about a woman finding violent fantasies on her bfs accountsIs that how they caught him? If so, good on that wife for turning him in! I've heard about wives being too frightened too turn in their husbands, so it's admirable she took the initiative. I hope she's doing well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 12 | Man creates Chatbot AI of dead girlfriend (link in post) - What do y'all think of tis? Is it high-value to be so in love with your girlfriend you'd immortalize her after death? Or is it more on the creepy side? I'd love to get an FDS perspective on this 🤔I actually know very little about creepy pastas, but I'm going to say this is probably unrelated. The man in this article created an AI program with an expiration date so he could simulate conversations with his dead partner to ease himself through grief. He says on Twitter his therapist said it's a healthy coping mechanism. But while reading the article a few red flags rose up on my end. For one, he dated a woman afterwards who said living in his deceased partner's shadow was torture. That made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 169 | Living rent free in his head: A guy I criticized YEARS ago turned his life around because of a comment I made."Afterwards he told me about his girlfriend and even showed me pics of her. Then he claimed that I’d really get along with her because we’re similar. I don’t trust men and found that a little suspicious - feel free to translate this for me." This might be the cynic in me, but I get the impression he was putting out some romantic feelers. By saying you're similar to his girlfriend, he's making it clear you're the type of woman he's attracted to. By inviting you over, he may want you to be a perma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 170 | Wife and mother is "starting to feel taken advantage of" by "exceptionally smart" husbandThis really reminds me of that Tyler Perry movie "Acrimony" (Please don't come for me, I only watched it cause of Kennie JD 💀) The man in the movie slowly drains her $300,000 inheritance, and the movie painstakingly keeps track of every single dollar lost to him. Men like this are worse than leeches, worse than vampires. They'll suck your soul dry and not feel a single drop of guilt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:00 AM |
| 48 | You don't need to have an actual mate in order for men to mate guard youThat bit about bisexuality being used as a weapon against you was chilling. Sometimes I wish I could speak openly about my feelings, but then I remember how disgustingly disrespectful people are of bi women and I hop back into the closet. I've seen too many women lose their perceived humanity (for lack of a better word) when they come out as bi. People expect them to be 24/7 sex dolls with zero boundaries. I remember I tip toed out of the closet ONCE in high school -- didn't even say anything co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Reminder to all my queens ❤Yep, personally I find it to be a little insidious. You're thirst posting, putting on a ton of makeup and trying to look as attractive as possible while you make legitimate points. Why do you need to do that? Why make weird faces and use dramatic angles? Do they think their point won't be seen as worthy of being listened to if they don't doll up and make an O face as she does at the end of the video? Idk, the overly performative nature screams low value to me. It gives me the heebie jeebies, tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 1242 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”I hope the woman who received this message sent it to the girlfriend. No woman deserves to have her love described as "worm-like." 🪱 😡 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 08:27 PM |
| 173 | Absolutely vile and disgusting that this is being sold as 'normal' and 'empowering' by a mainstream news publicationThat part gave me chills. Imagine doing that with your CHILD and thinking it's okay. Imagine corrupting your relationship with your daughter and twisting it into a filthy, incestuous fantasy for men to think about as they jerk their skinny, cheesy, STD-ridden dicks that poke out from beneath their bulging bellies like turtle heads. That poor daughter deserves WAY better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 7 | LVM who love being "one of the girls"Girl, that is the HIGHEST praise 🙏 Thank you- I would love to be part of the handbook. That's like my gospel 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:56 AM |
| 29 | If Carrie Bradshaw posted on FDSGirl, thank you for saying it 🧍♀️ I felt super put off by the way her appearance contradicted her message but I was worried someone would think me misogynistic if I pointed it out 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:20 AM |
| 127 | Proper posture is sexy!This is SO true. The weird thing is that lower vibration people will be put off by it. I once had this hateful coworker who resented the fact that she had to train me, a newbie. One day, she frowns at me and says, "You sit so properly. I hope you realize it's more important to do the reports correctly than to sit properly." I gave her a very confused look and said, "I don't think it's more important to sit properly than to go the reports correctly. Why would you say that?" She backtracked and as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:31 AM |
| 45 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Girl, it's so effing embarrassing 💀 They'll literally describe themselves in porn categories to impress the guys. "I'm a big titty goth gf" or "I like anime so I'll cosplay as characters for you" embarrassing pickme ass shit 😫 I watch these videos and wish I were their friends so I could shake them and yell "GET SOME RESPECT, girl! You're literally bending over backwards for a loser who watches hentai!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Scrotes be mad at the truth when faced with it.Honestly, fucking yourself with a dildo is far superior to fucking a guy like this. He's clearly got some anger issues, so you know he'd be shit in bed. Plus, at least you know the dildo isn't dirty 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 52 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???OH MY GOD, this reminds me of those intensely cringy videos male YouTubers make when they ask their female fans to impress them over Discord or apply to be their girlfriends. Like CDawgVA calling up girls grilling them on their suitability as girlfriends. I know it's a joke but still... ewwww 🤢 and In all these types of videos, the female fans jump through hoops trying to impress the guys, who just clown on them for views. So em-bar-AZ-ing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 16 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeGirl, THANK YOU 🥺 I love Cher so much, I literally have the pink version of her iconic yellow outfit 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 56 | LVM who love being "one of the girls"Haha, "Vaguely nice and sweet but ultimately unhelpful" -- thats a great description for the way I am with my guy friends. I often reject their attempts to use me for labor with encouraging phrases. For example, the same guy friend asked me for help planning a date with a girl he liked, and I said, "Believe in yourself!" He texted back, "Nooo I need your help, I've never planned a date before 🥺" So I texted back with, "I have faith that you can take care of this yourself. You're super talented b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 166 | When the reality that you are a pickme hits you 😤Better late than never girl 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 121 | LVM who love being "one of the girls"YUP. And watch out also for the way they try to dig your talents for their own uses. One of my friends and I were talking about tattoos of our favorite cartoons. He turned our bond into an opportunity for free labor. He knows I love drawing and designing and he deadass texted me, "Do you have any designs you can give me for a tattoo?" He wanted something 100% original and thought I'd give it to him 😒 I told him, "I have an idea." He said "What?" I told him "Follow your heart." A nice way of sayi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 424 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeGirl, AS IF the older men trynna hit even look that good 😭 These dudes look like they actually take care of themselves. All the ancients in my inbox look like Claude Frollo or the damn Goblin King from the Hobbit 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 37 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.Alright, that's enough FDS for this week. Bye, sisters 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:41 AM |
| 84 | Scrote ShitHaha, I just watched Tara Mooney's video on heterofatalism that mentioned this tweet, so it was so funny seeing this right after the video ended. Absolutely ridiculous how guys think this way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 14 | His moves were like lightning ⚡ This is just another reason why we ONLY want HVM: Not only are they good dads, but they're physically strong enough to keep our precious babies safe 💪 🥰Not that I'm saying the guy in the video is necessarily a HVM, but this is absolutely a high-value move. Nothing hotter than a man taking care of his kids 😍 Remember, ladies: Don't let the incels shame you for wanting a strong, athletic man. Could a super out-of-shape, self-absorbed, inattentive dude have been able to save the toddler this quickly? I think not! 🙅♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:18 AM |
| 10 | He chooses actions that most women consider not just cheating but also traumatizing. She not only is forced to accept it and pretend it doesn’t affect her, SHE plays therapist to HIM. For FREE. The bar for men really is in hell.This pissed me off so much I automatically down voted it before remembering which subreddit I'm on 😂 But honestly, she needs to break up. LTRs are a total joke, sorry not sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 12:32 AM |
| 18 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”Girl, this comment was so perfectly put. "Pickmeisha exorcist" is a well-deserved title 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:41 PM |
| 76 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.Proof that shacking up with a disgusting LVM will make your life worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 7 | This is so cute 🥰 He put in so much effort into his proposal and he's so emotive. 🤵♂️👰♂️ If a man isn't THIS excited to get married, I don't want him! 🙅 | From "last day as a boyfriend" by AJ RafaelOh my gosh, this is so incredibly cute!! Thanks so much for sharing this - it makes me so hopeful I'll find a wonderful love like this 🥺💛 The fact that he worked with your sister is so incredibly touching too. It's like they were siblings before it ever became "official" through marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:36 AM |
| 13 | This is so cute 🥰 He put in so much effort into his proposal and he's so emotive. 🤵♂️👰♂️ If a man isn't THIS excited to get married, I don't want him! 🙅 | From "last day as a boyfriend" by AJ RafaelOoh, what memories? I'd love to hear a cute proposal story if you have one to share 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:23 AM |
| 17 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Oh my god, we literally just want to date kind men who treat us well. How can they look in the mirror when they're so hateful of people wanting happy lives? Shaking my head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 155 | HVW in Action: MacKenzie Scott Gives Away Another $2.74 Billion Even as Her Wealth GrowsAbsolutely! I remember when they divorced all these butt hurt scumbag dudes were trying to say she didn't deserve it. In reality, it's a blessing she got half. It's the only way the billions Bezos racked up would ever be distributed back to charity in a positive way. We all know how greedy Jeff is. We needed MacKenzie to take what she was due -- she's actually humanitarian enough to make these moves for the good of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 5 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.This is amazing advice! I'm going to look into that ❤️🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 21 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.EXACTLY! Thanks for saying this. I used to haaaaaate dating and insist on paying for myself, to the point where the guy I was with would obviously wonder why I was insisting. It's because I saw it as a preemptive defense strategy. I don't think I owe a guy anything -- and I don't think women owe guys anything! But if I'm on a date with a guy I don't know, he might be the type of scumbag who will try to manipulate me by saying, "I bought you a $2 bag of chips! Blow me!" By preemptively deciding t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:41 PM |
| 12 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesOhhhh, okay! Thanks for clarifying. I was wondering, "Am I setting off red flags in other people when I drive them? 😱" so that's a relief, haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 127 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesThis is such an important topic! I have a question about "If he makes a mistake on the road, he apologizes🚩" Can you explain why that's a red flag? Sometimes when I'm driving, I'll mutter a little "Sorry!" to myself if I feel like I made a mistake. One time, I accidentally cut someone off (they sped up while I was merging lanes and wound up getting scarily close to me) and said "Sorry!" when they pulled up next to me afterwards. The driver gave me a dirty look but by apologizing I de-escalated t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:40 AM |
| 11 | “Build with him”I had the same thought! I must have misinterpreted the recent mod posts since I thought it meant we'd see more content that encourages us to date. Stuff like this makes me never, ever want to date and kills my desire 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 45 | From Bo Burnham's poetry bookEvery man I know won't shut up about how profound his special is and how they cried even after 3 times of watching it and I staunchly refuse to give it my time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:26 AM |
| 31 | I Like How She Handled This 😂Yesss, thank you for making that post! It's such an important reminder for us all!💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:46 AM |
| 213 | I Like How She Handled This 😂It took her a while to get there, but I'm so proud of her 💕 These stories of women leaving in the middle of crappy sex make me cackle in delight. I never even knew that was a possibility and it's like my whole world has shifted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:00 AM |
| 205 | That's why.I can't wait until I'm older. Ever since I was a little girl I heard older women say, "You become invisible when you're older. Men stop staring at you and hitting on you. It's like a light switches in their brains and they stop seeing you that way." I always looked at them like, "Promise?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:59 AM |
| 43 | I came across this on Tumblr and had to share it. THIS is what love looks like, day to day. ❤️ - Text is from "Your Faithful Servant" by S. Bear Bergman)I hear so often about the terrible ways some of y'all have been treated by guys out here. Reading through the comments and learning about some of the cruel, apathetic, careless guys you have been with makes my heart hurt. When I saw this, I thought it was such a sweet example of the type of love we're all looking for. A HVM partner who truly cares about you and wants to make sure you're comfortable -- not because they're excited over a new relationship, but because of selfless, longterm devotion… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:56 AM |
| 46 | I came across this on Tumblr and had to share it. THIS is what love looks like, day to day. ❤️ - Text is from "Your Faithful Servant" by S. Bear Bergman)For any of my sisters here who have trouble reading the small text, I tried to do my best to type out an accessible version of this post: A user named smallyetbeautiful writes, "Honestly, it's actually the small, mundane boring things that someone does for you out of love which means so much rather than grand gestures and proclamations." Another user named pastcorridor responds with a screenshot that reads, Your Faithful Servant Let me take that for you. No, kiddo, you don’t have to carry anythi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:46 AM |
| 12 | I have to spend my time on mandatory training for Uber which says “Uber is not a dating app” when I know it’s creepy ass male drivers who are the problemNot driving the steering wheel with their belly 😂😂 thanks - now I can't get that mental image out of my head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 41 | Oh, honey... 😣Exactly! Also, on an unrelated note, your username is hilarious and I love it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 153 | Oh, honey... 😣I don't know! I had a friend who got bitterly angry when I bought her family a fruit basket as thanks for letting me sleep over when I had a problem in my house. She said, "Wow, you really like showing off, don't you?" after I handed it over. Like, she refused to touch it out of anger and I wound up handing it to her mom, who was actually happy with it. But my friend was so mad, I felt bad for wasting the $70. Like...I thought we were really close and she gave me gifts all the time...it was so b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:30 AM |
| 92 | DAE have the hardest time genuinely connecting with men? 👥🧔🏽⚡️Wow, I completely relate to the feeling of not being good enough for female friends. Whenever I've met amazing women and they liked me, it's felt like a dream: "She deems me worthy of spending time with? Oh my gosh, don't mess this up!!" I'm so glad I'm not alone. I always felt so embarrassed by that 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 02:30 AM |
| 63 | This is why single women live longerMy 🤮 worst 🤮 nightmare | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 02:29 AM |
| 67 | Marriage Benefits Men!You know what this makes me wonder? How happy are two dudes in a relationship? Does one of them tend to get pushed into the "supporter" role or are they more egalitarian? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 01:37 AM |
| 73 | Stumbled upon this in my archives. The apology my ex sent to my best friend. They have never met or spoken, yet my ex was raging against said best friend and even made me stop talking to him for months. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩I'm petty but if I were your friend I would have responded with a one word text: *precedes No but seriously, I hope you and your friend are close again! It always stinks when an SO makes their partner push out old friends out of fear of them being "a threat." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:46 PM |
| 182 | If you ever needed another reason to hate Vice - FDS principles apply to WLW dating too; treating women the way men treat us just isn’t it.Back when I was a delusional dummy, I seriously thought I could avoid toxic masculinity by dating women. Then I asked a friend who dates women about it and she pulled the wool off my eyes. She's dated women who treated her exactly the same way male players do: using her for sex, physically intimidating her, being extremely dismissive of her emotions, etc. Just goes to show there's no easy solution whatsoever. Vet everyone you come across 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 162 | I have to spend my time on mandatory training for Uber which says “Uber is not a dating app” when I know it’s creepy ass male drivers who are the problemBeing a female Uber driver suuuucks. Nothing worse than driving a car full of men who are bigger and stronger than you and drunk as a gang of skunks. Then they're loud and annoying and bellowing in your ears while you're trying to follow directions. But one of the worse drives was when I picked up a couple and the man sat in front with me (when clearly his girlfriend wanted him in the back with her). The asshole kept flirting with me to make her jealous and instead of telling him off, she got in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:58 PM |
| 147 | On a popular sub not even an incel sub, i used to enjoy that sub but good lord it's a circle jerk of misogyny. But men have great senses of humor right. As long as no one jokes about them.How can you love someone if you ignore their cries? How can you train your brain to cut off its natural human instinct to help another human in distress? It's so upsetting to see things like this. Every once in a while I get a little sad that I don't have someone to love. Then I remember that someone else's seemingly loving relationship may mask this level of depravity and apathy behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 6 | DON'T PICK ME - Rap song written by a former pickme (me)This is great. If you have a TikTok account, you could probably reach a lot of people if you made a rap video! (Then again, that app comes with a whole host of privacy threats so maybe not 😕) I wish there was a safe platform where we could share our art without getting slammed by creepy randos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 3 | The Ramsey crew calls bullshit on a man who saying "let's just split the check" in his marriageYesssss we love to see men holding other men accountable! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 190 | I really hope there aren’t women nodding in agreement to this.Judging by the use of "greatful," I'm guessing it's a joke. One of those "tweet like a pickme" joke tweets floating around. Then again, maybe I'm just too optimistic 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 5 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseWhat? Religious leaders having women's backs? This is such a pleasant surprise for me. This story has me smiling so much 💖🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:16 AM |
| 16 | Do you think tradcon men secretly lust after the "whores" according to the Madonna-Whore dichotomy despite their trad values?Wow, so beautifully written. I completely agree. What especially sucks about this is that some of us really internalize that dichotomy, too -- like I would love to wear shorts, miniskirts and little dresses but I've been chided by males for being inappropriate. This comment just made me realize there's always an invisible male sitting on my shoulder when I dress, whispering things like "Will this make men look at you?" It's so fucked up and wrong. I wonder if there's even any way to stop this wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:11 AM |
| 95 | So true. 😍 👑Y'all I have NEVER been on a date with a man who made me feel special. They've always put me in the offense, interviewing me about my qualifications, making me feel like I need to justify my presence at the dinner table. Meanwhile I try so hard to be accommodating and make sure they have fun. It's why I don't date anymore 🤣 it's just not fun - they make it incredibly stressful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 6 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Did you save a backup of any of your posts? Or upload them onto the official FDS website? You've generated a ton of really high-quality content that's made a world of difference for me, at least, and I'd hate to have your voice shut down permanently. Are you still posting on the official site? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:29 AM |
| 8 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineThis was such a wonderful episode! I felt so validated, and it was so nice to hear the data and stories from Gail about helping young girls. I'm really excited to hear the talk at the conference she mentioned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 90 | ❗ I read this and I had to share it: "As a woman, I have been taught that to be liked is to be good....Women who don’t take shit are unlikable." | from "On Likability" by Lacy Johnson. Can any of you relate?This quote from the article especially stuck out to me: "I agreed to doing things I didn’t really want to do that night because I had been taught somewhere along the way that it was a blessing to be liked by a man, that I should be flattered by the attention: from the grown men who called to me on the street while I was walking home, from the one who kept calling even after I asked him to leave me alone, from the drum major who wanted me to suck his dick in the backseat of his car. I learned, so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 126 | A picture is worth a thousand words...Exactly! I feel like most girls go through a sort of misogynistic phase during their teenage development. It's a reaction to the way your body's changes are hyper sexualized. There was this wonderful post recently about how declaring yourself as "not like other girls" is a girl's resistance to the cultural idea that all women are just walking sex objects with no humanity to offer. An NLOG phrase is problematic, yes, but girls rebel against femininity because we live in a patriarchal society, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 16 | A picture is worth a thousand words...Thank you so much! I'm imagining you crossing the boundaries of time and space just to flip him off 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:11 AM |
| 32 | A picture is worth a thousand words...Girl, I'm so sorry you went through that 🥺 That paints such a sad image in my mind that I completely relate to. Like, we were way too young for that amount of self-hatred. I remember looking down at my chest and wishing I could be flat as a Ken doll. I'm so, so happy you've learned to love that part of yourself, no matter what ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 60 | A picture is worth a thousand words...I'm so sorry you were groped as a preteen! That's absolutely horrible. I can SO relate to the feeling of wanting armor. It's sad how that desire for protection starts so early. Also, that imagery of wanting to be a porcupine is so powerful. If you're an artist, creating that in a painting or a drawing sounds like it could be cathartic...I keep imagining a woman in spiky armor with men's eyes impaled on the spikes. Like a punishment for staring at a child and sexualizing her. (Since we certainly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 97 | Thank you.I completely agree! Finding this sub was a magical experience at first. I was like, "Oh my god, I'm not alone?? Hell yeah!" It's so affirming and validating! I'm glad you feel the same way 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 70 | He belongs to the 🗑️ Don't cry don't make him understand don't explain 🤾♀️✌️👑That's ridiculous! It sounds like he's so helpless he's trying to offshore the InCrEdIbLy DiFfIcUlT job of ~seeing things from your partner's perspective and trying to make her life easier~ onto you. It's like LVM have so little respect for emotional intelligence they immediately outsource it to any woman around them. "Hey, I've been with her for years and I can't figure out why she's unhappy. Will you, a virtual outsider, offer me your magical woman powers and tell me what's wrong?" FOH bro -- … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 16 | Walked out on my Toxic FamilyGood for you!! Sometimes walking away is the best thing you can do. My heart hurts for you because I've been in a similar situation. Your head is swimming and your whole body feels light and dizzy like you're in another world. It's disorienting at first, but follow your mind-- it's telling you "I will not put up with this!" You got this, sis - I'm proud of you!💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:35 AM |
| 22 | Yep, if the shoe doesn't fit, don't wear it.Exactly!! I felt so seen when Kurtis Connor flat out said this, too-- I was like, "Oh my gosh! Men are capable of getting it!!" Like, it's so true. It's not an expression of hatred - it's an expression of exhaustion and frustration with injustice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:33 AM |
| 24 | Saw this on my Instagram feed and I’m completely wrecked for this woman. This man had a “report card” for his wife that he eventually murdered. TW: Domestic Violence, Religious AbuseThanks for taking the effort to write this out! I was hurting my eyes trying to understand it so I appreciate this accessible write up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 61 | I feel like if you want to deal with men you have to keep standards high and your person scarceI LOVE how the picture shows a man's response at the end but cuts off before we can see it 🤣 his words just aren't worth including | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:21 AM |
| 319 | A picture is worth a thousand words...This is incredible! It takes me back to my puberty. I used to dream about taking a kitchen knife and just butchering those parts off. I wanted so badly to escape my femininity-- not because I hated being a woman, but because I hated how being a woman affected the way I was perceived. Growing up, I was hyper aware of the fact that they were the reason why I'm dismissed by adults, told I'll be bad at math and told I'm doomed to be a bad driver, and so many more insults. (Fun fact: my actual DRIVIN… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:19 AM |
| 45 | Any man who dismisses your physical discomfort is trash.I'm so, so glad you upgraded and found someone who actually has a soul (because your ex acted so cruelly I just can't believe you could have a soul and dismiss your supposed loved one who's bleeding so profusely!) I hope you guys have a long and prosperous relationship 💖💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:15 AM |
| 253 | He belongs to the 🗑️ Don't cry don't make him understand don't explain 🤾♀️✌️👑Honestly, FDS has opened my eyes so much I've gotten to the point where every time a man complains about his wife being dissatisfied, I immediately give him the side eye. I've noticed a lot of guys talk about their unhappy wives like they suddenly became unhappy...for no reason...like it happened in a vacuum. 😕 Excuse me, sir, clearly there's a reason. If you cared about her, you'd put in the effort to try and make her happier. Like...obviously you took her for granted and stopped trying. I just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴It took me WAY too long to understand the emoticon in the top right corner 🤣That's nasty but so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 8 | Buzzfeed posts “toxic” GenZ girl responses to boys but Comments support GenZ queens 💅🏽What? I expect this type of boundary shaming from Vice and the Verge. Now even Buzzfeed is calling women toxic for wanting basic decency? SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 72 | women actually doing empowering things for/with other women - That's what we need to fight for. Actual empowerment (putting women in government, etc).Wow, that meme is so perfect. And like they said in the podcast, these privileged women will furiously shut down any discussion of sex trafficking victims because it hurts their bottom line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 92 | Be careful with men who watch anime. Pay attention to lifestyles.It's just dazzling to see the self-delusions female anime fans put themselves through. Ignoring the blatant panty shots of underage characters, writing off shameless objectification of all female characters as "just how it is in Japanese culture," all so they can coexist with perverts as they watch anime makes me cringe. 😭 I used to be an anime fan and having guy friends in that sphere is so uncomfortable because they're all just bursting with disturbing sexual desires and kinks they slip into c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:50 PM |
| 14 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️Girl you're a triple Leo? You must have some POWERFUL energy 🦁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 81 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️Girl this is so true 😭 I swear to God all the women on there are either: Pregnant, which leads me to believe they dropped their friends for their man and now are bored and want someone to talk to "Just got out of a relationship," which also indicates they prioritized the guy over their friends and are now paying for it "Super shy but I open up when you get to know me 🥺" which in my experience means I'm carrying the whole conversation for WEEKS "I'm not on here, so add me on snap to talk!" - Oh, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Come on FDS ladies who watch garbage tv, roast him to a crisp.Ohh, thank you! I've heard of that show but I haven't seen it. It sounds terrible--I'm going to add it to my watch list 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 9 | Come on FDS ladies who watch garbage tv, roast him to a crisp.Can we get some context plz 🧍♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I tried to highlight the worst parts, but it's all so bad... 😬Haha, I should have written it as "she"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:48 AM |
| 21 | I blocked a man without a second thought.That's awesome! I have so much respect for women who pursue PhDs. I looked into it and decided not to, since the amount of labor y'all put in is astronomical! The fact some guy would be so self-centered he'd think your lifelong goal is just a side note in his own life is ridiculous. It's like he thinks your life doesn't matter, and this incredible accomplishment exists solely to add color to his life ("My wife has a PhD! Isn't that impressive?") Thank goodness you stopped talking to him! I can't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 74 | STOP normalizing polyamory while we still live in a patriarchy. Tired of these “wax poetical” think pieces about the obvious.😴🤮I read this article and the kicker is that their relationship didn't even last. The other two girlfriends he had didn't like her and called her "manipulative" just because she wanted monogamy. 🥴 I understand relationships are supposed to help us learn and grow, but if someone's causing you so much intense turmoil, you gotta ask yourself if it's even worth fighting for... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 11 | HAHA!!! 🤡Her skin is too clear and her neck is too thin for her to simp so badly over a single dude 🧍♀️ And by simp I mean a sucker idolizing mediocre penis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | And then they say FDS is toxic. :)This is so hard. And unnecessarily complex. It would be so much easier to just fall in love with one person and take each day as it truly is. Instead these creeps strip the love from relationships and turn them into little businesses where they can squeeze as much profit--in this case sex--as possible. I understand on an intellectual level why they do it, but emotionally I don't get it. Why are they so allergic to love? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:07 AM |
| 10 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himOoh, can you hit me with the link? I'm trying to find good new podcasts to listen to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 72 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himAww, seeing Catherine Parr smile so widely makes me happy -- but also sad when you think of her life. After Henry died, she married the love of her life -- only to immediately discover he was a no-good scrote who hit on her underage stepdaughter Elizabeth, impregnated her at a too-old, dangerous age (by their standards at the time, at least) and even inadvertently killed her, since she died from complications from childbirth. She should have lived on for so much longer as a happy, wealthy widow.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:55 AM |
| 23 | I’m feeling so jaded after getting out of my last relationship and finding this sub. Can I hear about the HVM in your lives? I need to know they’re still out there.I used to have a wonderful boss who played the acoustic guitar in his office. He was super intimidating when you first met him -- tattoos covering every inch of his body from the throat down. I remember being interviewed, looking down at his ink-covered knuckles and getting nervous. He wound up to be one of the best bosses I ever had. Super empathetic and validating when we had issues. When I was getting sexually harassed by a coworker--who happened to be friends with my boss--I was sick with fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 16 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!Oh, I have some more ideas! -- Brittany Venti, an anti-porn YouTube streamer--although she's a bit of a troll so I'm not sure how cooperative she'd be--but she's called out Belle Delphine and is great at articulating her arguments. She could give some perspective on bullying female content creators face, such as being told "you're jealous" when calling out toxic liberal feminists, etc. She talks a bit about high value and low value men, so she seems to have some FDS ideals. -- Mina Irfan from th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:23 PM |
| 16 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!I don't know much about her views on feminism, but I like Brene Brown. Her work on shame has been life-changing for me. Might be interesting to do an episode on how we as women are shamed and coerced into performing sex acts/accepting love that doesn't serve us. Maybe she could give some societal perspective on that? 🤷♀️ Edit Jean Kilbourne would be another great person to reach out to! She does a lot of speeches and research on how ads destroy the way we see women. Really eye-opening stuff! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 33 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡I have nothing to add, but I just want to say I absolutely love your comment. It is SO true and it's something I've struggled to put to words. I've had something similar happen to me, and when I told him it made me uncomfortable, he had this attitude of, "It's a compliment! Why can't you take the compliment? You must hate yourself if you don't accept me saying nice things about you." It just puts you in this defensive brain fog sometimes, but this comment just snapped me out of it. Thank you for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Scientific evidence: Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with herThese posts are absolutely bomb. I don’t think there’s ever been another subreddit that’s given me so much incredible information—like, not just anecdotes and new perspectives, but also well thought out and researched pieces like this one. Thank you so much—it’s invaluable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.Ooh, thank you!!💖💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:07 AM |
| 23 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.Do you have a link to that reading, sis? That piqued my interest 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:17 AM |
| 42 | Ya’ll, please tell me I did not just read what I read? After seeing that I went and made a donation to FDS. It was the only way I could calm down. Is this a thing?!?!?!?!Low value men give one another more benefit of the doubt than they will ever give women. They will bend over backwards so far they’ll break their spines justifying another man’s evil...but they won’t take a woman’s problems seriously whatsoever. We don’t deserve an iota of sympathy, they think. It’s so disgusting 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:21 PM |
| 31 | People who say "redpillers and pickup artists are only a tiny percentage of the population, most men aren't like that"I’m so happy you made that last post, as well as this one. Just like you said, men who claim it isn’t a big problem clearly have zero empathy for the women who are victimized by toxic red pill manipulation strategies. It’s so frustrating, because you see them crop up everywhere. I had to recently stop watching one of my favorite commentary YouTubers, Berleezy, because he spewed some redpill talking points. It’s so funny — I should have expected it, since he’s always been subtly misogynistic and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 82 | Found on a dating app sub— “how freakin cool would it be if men just farted on me all of the time? 😍😍😍”My parents have been married for over 30 years and if my dad ever passed gas in my mom’s presence, she’d tear him a new one. That is so disgusting and disrespectful. People who brag about doing it in front of their partners make me 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:43 PM |
| 107 | Bite it off! 🤣Men: I miss the good old days when men could do whatever they wanted and women knew their place! What the old days were actually like: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 85 | Funny NVM Example in an SNL Skit - Made me think of this sub lolI absolutely love this skit! You might think it sounds a little outlandish at first...but I have met guys like this. 🤢 I worked with this dude who would yap about how awesome certain female politicians were all day long...yet he still sexually harassed me. I couldn’t help but wonder, “How the hell can you compartmentalize yourself this way? Is it subconscious? Or are you fully aware you’re lying?” He seemed to think he was a genuinely good person, yet he constantly asked me disgusting, prodding … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 77 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENThis is absolutely terrifying. I hope she divorces him as soon as possible. This shit makes me sick to my stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 27 | I have been laughing about this all day. Went to his page and its full of cringey content like this. He talks about going 5050 with women as well. Also, he seems to be very short. Someone please give this broke hobbit some sense 😂😂😂I just want you to know this comment made me laugh so hard I cried. I can not get over how hilarious the ladies on this sub are 🤣🤣 I’m typing this with blurry eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:07 AM |
| 92 | Ethan Klein: when men like this are considered good husbandsOh my gosh, I logged in just to comment on this—Ethan is SUCH a nasty scrote, it’s ridiculous. Yes, he praises and respects his wife — just as all husbands should. Fans fall all over themselves to praise his and Hila’s relationship...but is it really anything worth looking up to? I mean, he’s ALWAYS talking about women in a pornified way. He’s married to a beautiful CEO yet he still looks at that shit. He said they can only have cowgirl sex because he’s so out of shape. Not only does he drool ov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:21 PM |
| – | Why are some men so obsessed to keep women's standards as low as possible?Sorry, what does MM mean? I’m guessing from context clues it means “mostly males,” but I’m not sure Edit: I’m an idiot, I see it means Megan Markle, I’m going to bed 🛌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:20 AM |
| 32 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.Oh, I absolutely did! And after I sent in the tip, I blocked him and the rest of his side of the family after I warned them to keep him away from kids. “Hits dogs do holler” is a great phrase I’ve never heard before — I’m totally adding that to my vocabulary. It’s so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:15 AM |
| – | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.This is such an important post. I’m flabbergasted by the fact that there are people who find this to be a controversial view. I didn’t even know it was until I talked to a cousin I hadn’t seen in a few years. Somehow this topic came up, and he started getting really defensive, saying things like, “We shouldn’t ostracize people for their biology. They can’t help their cravings.” That’s word for word what he said. I could not believe it. He tried to act like men who are attracted to children are v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:51 AM |
| – | Hi Ladies - r/FemaleDatingStrategy is currently PRIVATE in protest of recent actions from Reddit Admins.I’m so glad it’s back up! I browse this subreddit everyday because it brings me so much comfort and affirmation (knowing I’m not the only one who feels upset by male manipulation and pandering), but I rarely contribute because I’m not actively dating. I was so surprised when I saw it was private earlier — thank goodness it’s accessible again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | This made me laugh. A man sells his "do nothing" services and people pat him on the back for it. He says, "When someone is trying to do something, I think the best thing to do is to help lower the bar for them." I don't think a woman would receive the same accolades for this. What do you think?Thank you! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:45 AM |
| 12 | Promising Young Woman is out on streaming servicesI'm shocked that people didn't like it! The ending felt so triumphant. I mean, I guess I can understand why, but in my opinion, things ended on a good note, in just the right, satisfying, twisted way. I'm so thankful to the ladies of FDS for recommending this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:43 AM |
| 58 | Promising Young Woman is out on streaming servicesJust finished this movie. What can I say but, "Brava"? It was worth every penny of the $20 price. It's the kind of movie I've wanted to watch all my life, but couldn't find: a movie about rape that DOESN'T have a gratuitous rape scene that's filmed to appeal to perverted male viewers. A movie that touches upon every layer of failure within the system. A revenge film WITHOUT a blood-thirsty, evil hero. I bet a lot of people who watch this movie will hate the protagonist, but I loved her. Just a n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:41 AM |
| 409 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.It's bizarre how many men have no qualms about outing themselves as manipulators. That's what you're doing when you proudly declare that you're attracted to girls with low self-esteem. It just seems like manipulation is portrayed as this horrible trait on women: Oh, she manipulated him! That witch, that harpy! It's like she cast a spell on him that made him do terrible things! ...yet manipulation is an attractive trait in men. Just look at pick-up artists, how widespread that culture is. It's al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 14 | This made me laugh. A man sells his "do nothing" services and people pat him on the back for it. He says, "When someone is trying to do something, I think the best thing to do is to help lower the bar for them." I don't think a woman would receive the same accolades for this. What do you think?It’s likely a cultural thing... cultures like Japan where community is everything, having someone just being there and showing up for motivational support is a big deal. The increasing isolation of Japan’s culture due to westernization and also covid really conflicts with that community oriented culture, and I think what he’s making bank on is filling that gap. That's a great point! I hadn't taken that into consideration. I think you conveyed your thoughts accurately because I see what you mean.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Scrote is proud of his Oedipus complex.Ah, I've met so many men like this. Maybe not with the Oedipal complex, but men who expect you to perform like a dancing monkey to entertain them. I once "hung out" with a guy who was surly the whole time: he didn't bring up topics, he didn't laugh at my jokes. The only time he seemed happy was when I tried to impress him by talking about something I read in the news that day. Then he started to test my knowledge of it. Like he thought he was trying to trick me or prove me stupid. Luckily, I kne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:24 PM |
| 10 | Woman explains how men ruined My Little Pony for children (mostly girls) by making it hypersexual and catered towards a masculine aestheticI love Jenny Nicholson. A lot of her videos are so silly and whimsical, but they're just so long I rarely watch them. Like, her most recent video on "Vampire Diaries" is the same length as a blockbuster. Well over two hours. I don't have time for that. But I do appreciate the way she gives deep dives into topics like this. The way "My Little Pony" was invaded by grown men perfectly illustrates the reason I don't date men who like anime. I thought the recent post about dating anime fans was inter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 6 | This made me laugh. A man sells his "do nothing" services and people pat him on the back for it. He says, "When someone is trying to do something, I think the best thing to do is to help lower the bar for them." I don't think a woman would receive the same accolades for this. What do you think?I don't think sharing an article counts as bashing. To clarify, I'm not trying to put him down. I just chuckled at the article because I think the idea of a person selling themselves as doing nothing is funny. To be fair, I should have left a comment clarifying that I don't look down on him at all. I just don't think I've ever heard of a woman coming up with a similar idea. I have a few friends who sell services online. They all feel the need to come up with something special to offer. Like, the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 16 | This article blew my mind. "America and the world would collapse in 20 seconds if women were showing up for each other instead of being exploited for every form of labor.” - From "Feminism Has Failed Women" by Kim BrooksHere, Queen, you dropped this 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:55 PM |
| 70 | This article blew my mind. "America and the world would collapse in 20 seconds if women were showing up for each other instead of being exploited for every form of labor.” - From "Feminism Has Failed Women" by Kim BrooksYou're very welcome! I totally get your frustration. My mom is pretty similar...she says that if I expect men to truly do as much of the housework as I do, then I'm going to be alone forever. I've long since learned not to argue with her...articles like this help to remind me that I'm so much better off staying single than working like a mule for a man who won't even appreciate me🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 10 | This article blew my mind. "America and the world would collapse in 20 seconds if women were showing up for each other instead of being exploited for every form of labor.” - From "Feminism Has Failed Women" by Kim BrooksYeah, actually I'm not subscribed but I was able to read it. Are you getting blocked by a pop-up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 25 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Haha, it's so funny you mention fanfiction because that's exactly what he was talking at me about! He was lecturing me on outlining and planning stories, and as an example, he used this self-insert fanfiction he wanted to write. Of course, he was the hero in this story and he had a romantic relationship with an anthropomorphic spider. You just can't make this shit up...😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 134 | This article blew my mind. "America and the world would collapse in 20 seconds if women were showing up for each other instead of being exploited for every form of labor.” - From "Feminism Has Failed Women" by Kim BrooksThis is the part I found most fascinating: Isolating women from larger social communities has historically been a surefire way to disempower them, and Covid-19 has imposed one of the longest periods in modern history of prolonged, social isolation. This is a necessary evil during a pandemic, but all the same, it’s proving to be a perfect social experiment in what happens to women, both single mothers and mothers living in traditional two-parent households, when the drawbridges are raised. The fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:29 PM |
| 51 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?I once had a dude mansplain writing fiction to me. I asked how much he's written; he sputtered and I found out he hasn't written anything. Meanwhile I've written 700k words in fiction. But no, sir, although you are unproductive, you are God and I will bow down to you. As if! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 26 | A man's opinion always matters. A woman's opinion only matters when she's right. (From What I Don’t Tell My Students About “The Husband Stitch,” a book by Carmen Maria Machado)And, of course, here's the original short story, which is just mind-blowing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:35 PM |
| 40 | A man's opinion always matters. A woman's opinion only matters when she's right. (From What I Don’t Tell My Students About “The Husband Stitch,” a book by Carmen Maria Machado)I just realized this title might be confusing. So, last night I read the incredible short story "The Husband Stitch" by Carmen Maria Machado. Today I hungrily searched for analyses of it, and I found this awesome article by Jane Dykema, called What I Don’t Tell My Students About “The Husband Stitch". This part of the article, in which Dykema shares her personal experience of smelling gas, getting it taken care of (because her husband didn't believe her) and then hearing a casually sexist comment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:33 PM |
| 128 | This touched my soul. I'm hoping you ladies love it, too: "Ask Polly: Why Don’t the Men I Date Ever Truly Love Me?"Here's the best part: Fuck wondering if you’re lovable. Fuck asking someone else, “Am I there yet?” Fuck listening for the answer. Fuck waiting, alone, for a verdict that never comes. Don’t grow up to be one of those women with a perpetual question mark etched into her brow: Am I good? Am I lovable? Am I enough? You are here. Sit down. Feel your potential in this moment. You have accepted too little for too long. That is changing today. Breathe in. Draw a picture of yourself. Tape it to the wall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 22 | What an amazing story!Haha, honestly, I’d be honored if a pack of lions adopted me! 🦁 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:54 AM |
| 16 | The day I coddle a grown man is the day I die. - I'm not my mother and I'm not his mother, period.This makes me so sad... if you loved your mother, wouldn’t you want her to leave? Isn’t it appealing to break the cycle of abuse? Or do you just want to be a cog? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 24 | R/LadyBoners has NO taste 🤢 what’s with the crusty old white men??I’m convinced it’s just a bunch of men upvoting what they hope women are into... because I rarely find anyone I’m attracted to on on that sub... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:46 AM |
| 39 | What an amazing story!I wonder if you can symbolically adopt a lion from the WWF? Don’t mind me, just checking... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 19 | Don't Argue, Lecture, or Roast - Just Ghost!!Oh my goodness... how is your game so bad that you think asking a woman to do your chores for you is flirting...? I’d feel bad for these men if it weren’t so damn EASY to be decent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Ain't that the truth💁♀️This is so 👏 true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | 🌻 Wednesday Warmth🌻 This is me @ all of you lovely ladies when you put your foot down and cut off low-value people who mistreat you!Of course, queen! 👑 You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 18 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.Giiirl, how are you so talented? Those colors: POPPING. The decorations: AMAZING! I love it 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 285 | Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /sWoman: Has faced religious discrimination and had to leave her country because of it. Flourishes anyway and dedicates herself to her craft, refusing to compromise her values or bend to pressure Random Redditor: Hur hur my willie approves! Better let everyone on the internet know about it 🤪🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 44 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Oh my god, that post title makes my heart break. Are you doing better, OP? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:02 PM |
| 14 | Oh my sweet brainwashed summer child… Communication is not a vaccine against catching feelings from someone who wants to roleplay being a boyfriend without the commitment.“Communication is not a vaccine against catching feelings from someone who wants to roleplay being a boyfriend without the commitment.” WELL 👏 PUT👏 We need this on posters everywhere. I see so many girls getting played and falling for these mind games. Don’t do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:28 AM |
| 43 | LVM/NVM thinks gift cards are an acceptable gift for GF. Thread is full of neckbeards defending him/telling her to cOmMunIcAte her needs to him.I can’t believe that last person: “I think it’s unfair to compare what he did in his previous relationship so what he’s doing now.” Meanwhile, men do this ALL THE TIME. Oh, your ex pressured you into anal and you hated it? Well if HE got to do it then I should do it too! Oh, you slept with your ex after two dates but I have to wait?! Just this week there was a post on here about a guy whose girlfriend was sexually abused. Did he care? NOPE. He fixated on the sexual acts she was made to participa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:23 AM |
| 98 | Which of you saved this girl?Bless people like that cashier 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:17 AM |
| – | How to raise a hvm....I wonder why the person who made this post didn't tell us what their son said next...14-year-old boys are notorious for their love of female slurs... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:16 AM |
| – | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!Part of me just wants to walk away from the marriage at this point. Girl, it should be ALL of you that wants to leave. Why even frame it as "I'm not meeting his needs"? HE'S NOT MEETING YOUR NEED OF BASIC DECENCY. It's so frustrating to see people swallow disrespect wholeheartedly. You don't need to listen to Reddit; you need to listen to your gut. Leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:45 AM |
| 20 | Weird vetting tip: Do not let him take you on a date to a chain restaurantThis post grabbed me, a person whose favorite restaurant is Cheesecake Factory, by the throat I probably deserve it though. I need to support more local businesses 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:35 AM |
| 6 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Woman: I've been through trauma Man: Yeah, but what about me? Every time. Without fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:32 AM |
| 5 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I am so glad I'm not the only one who's had those thoughts. I always raise an eyebrow at posts like these, but I feel a bit guilty for doing so. I'm like, "Am I just being a Negative Nancy?" But I feel like this uncritical optimism can really kick you in the long run. So glad I'm not the only one who feels this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 10 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩I—I just cannot comprehend the colossal audacity of this man. You are wasting public resources. That's fraudulent disrespect! These resources are supposed to be for people who can't afford them. I bet the woman was rightfully disturbed by his eagerness to take food from people who actually need it. Of course, he can't face the reality that he's a leech on society, so he spins the story so she's "bougie." 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.Oh my goodness. This is giving me flashbacks to a post I saw on a dogfree subreddit earlier today. This lady was talking about how her husband decided to divorce her because she wanted him to get rid of the pitbull. Of course, the dog had bitten her family members when they came over. Did I mention she was pregnant? Yep — he chose a dog over his wife and unborn child. You can't make this 💩 up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:26 AM |
| – | "MGTOW: “There are no real differences between a 16-year-old girl and a 30-year-old woman"...And they continue to say we're just like these pedos/predators.This is absolute B.S. Also, women likely hunted mammoths just as much as men. That's right: We, too, were hunter-gatherers — though men like to pretend they're the only hunters. Isn't that funny? Our prehistoric counterparts also hunted animals, but we don't use that as an excuse for being predators in the modern era. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | I'll just be single then lolMen: Woman should ask us out more! Women: Whenever we do, they devalue us. Men don’t see you as valuable if you make the first move. Men: Sounds like you’re a selfish woman who sees men as PAWNS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Law enforcement declines to charge women for killing a man that was attacking their daughter/sister.This is incredible! I’ve always heard that when women fear their ex is going to kill them, the police will say, “We can’t do anything until he hurts you.” Then the ex kills the woman. And it seems like whenever a woman defends herself against an attack, she’s immediately thrown into prison and labeled a monster. This article was so uplifting for me, just knowing these women banded together to say, “No. No more. You are not going to steal our family member’s life because of your poisonous entitle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:34 PM |
| 33 | And I will not be stopped!!Imagine what an incredible world it would be if people focused more on uplifting teenage girls and less on demonizing them! You see it everywhere - YouTubers insulting young girls, kids in girls virulently hating anything geared towards young girls, male authors and male script writers in Hollywood writing all teenagers as phone-obsessed, vapid simpletons... it's infuriating. It's so rare to see a well-written portrayal of a teenage girl in movies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 3 | What do you ladies think of this: Guy I’ve gone on 4 dates with wants to go away for a weekend. We haven’t been intimate and I’m sure this is his way of guiding things in that direction.This is wonderful advice. I wish more girls heard similar messages!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:28 PM |
| 20 | Pick me logic through the roofDr. Phil is absolute trash 🤮 I have yet to find a show host I actually like. And don’t get me STARTED on Steve Harvey 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:44 AM |
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