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It's funny, but I was just thinking about this very topic today. The successes I've had with group/social circle game, it went down exactly like you said. I interacted with everyone else but her. When you finally do give her brief attention, she'll value your time more and make the most of it. Shit tests are almost non-existent at that point.
/r/seduction13/07/12 07:08 PM
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What..."rapist" :) said. Eye contact with everyone. I'm a huge fan of starting with "eye contact" for bettering your social skills. Baby steps. Eye contact was my first step to getting on track socially. It's AMAZING how powerful eye contact can be. Scary, in fact. I find that women that are interested in me will briefly hold eye contact, then glance away to the side. Shyer women will glance away sooner, blushing. More assertive women will hold eye contact longer but also eventually submit by gl…
/r/seduction10/07/12 07:51 PM
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You got a little downvoted, but you bring up a good point. When the breakdance guy agreed to go two hours out of his way for the girl, he was already doomed. He was letting HER lead. Going into a situation on HER terms. I've found that when I'm invited by a girl into a situation of her choosing, I'm usually the "jealousy bait" for some other dude.
/r/seduction22/05/12 11:17 PM
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In these cases I usually eject out so i'm not left standing there looking like a chump. Usually if you ask open ended questions to people in a group, I can keep the conversation going though.
/r/seduction22/05/12 10:36 PM
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If done right, yes. To be a good wing, boost your buddy up. Mentioning an ex-girlfriend in casual conversation with other girls will demonstrate his higher value by showing he's preselected. Keep it positive. Examples- Bad wingman: "Ya, my buddy recently got dumped and needs some cheering up" Good wingman: "...and so there we were stuck in this horrible situation, everyone was panicking. I was freaking out, his ex-gf was freaking out, but there my buddy was. Calm, like a rock. He totally bailed …
/r/seduction16/02/12 08:01 AM
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Hate to pile on the "Fake" bandwagon, but hot women on OKC don't really need to initiate. I'd approach this situation with a healthy degree of skepticism.
/r/seduction02/02/12 01:23 AM
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He probably knows better. At least he's swinging the bat. I think the most I managed to muster on my first cold approach was a little bit of drool out of the corner of my mouth.
/r/seduction27/01/12 11:28 PM
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Neil would totally redeem himself if we opened the box and it was... (NSFWish)
/r/seduction27/01/12 11:24 PM
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It's funny, because just last week I was noticing the striking similarity between pickup and poker. You can do everything right. Play good solid smart poker, taking into account your odds of winning, pot odds, play position, body language/poker face. In spite of all that, you'll still sometimes get that "bad beat". The important thing is to keep your wits about you. In poker, when you get rocked by a bad beat, or another player antagonizes you, it sometimes causes you to play angry, or reactiona…
/r/seduction26/01/12 06:15 AM
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Wasn't explicitly stated, but this HB8 is also in the Air Force? I used to live near an Air Force base and would encounter some horrific AMOG situations. Had a few close calls that almost escalated to physical violence because of the crummy male:female sausage fest ratio. I'm sure you've encountered the same. If you have any other stories along those lines to share, I'd like to hear them.
/r/seduction18/01/12 12:42 AM
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Although they might not believe it, women live in a universe of sexual abundance that the average man can only dream of. That should be rephrased to "women of BEAUTY live in a universe of sexual abundance" Less attractive women can have just as frustrating a life as their AFC male counterparts.
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:30 PM
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I was thinking Jeremy Piven's character Ari Gold. He made that show.
/r/seduction15/01/12 12:21 PM
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Also, notice movies and shows that feature unapologetic powerful alpha males in them are the movies that become legendary. We're talking the honey badger "takes what he wants" type guys. -Original Star Wars (Hans Solo and Vader) -HBO's Entourage -Original Sean Connery James Bond (newer Bonds have gotten all politically correct beta with little staying power). -Clint Eastwood
/r/seduction14/01/12 09:25 PM
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Man, I want to go back and slay the dragon from my youth. She's married and lives 3,000 miles away now though.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:11 AM
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Love your FR's. Don't get too caught up in the reddit karma. Upvotes are dependent on a lot of factors that go beyond being a solid field report. -Controversy. Love it or hate it, controversial topics generate more traffic and thus more upvotes. -Time of day you post. Posting early in the a.m. (U.S.A.) during a weekday will result in more eyeballs seeing your post and thus more upvotes. -Getting responses by the seddit "heavy hitters". If the mods or other highly respected sedditors participate …
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:01 AM
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Periodically run compliance tests to see where along you're at. For example, ask her place her hand on yours to check out a ring she's wearing. Have her take a picture of you with another girl/group. Sit back or lean back (if standing) and see if she moves into you to continue the conversation. That sort of thing. If she's not complying, or she responds reluctantly, you haven't demonstrated enough value to her. Could have been too needy, ignored her friends, etc. Hard to pinpoint your hangup in …
/r/seduction14/01/12 01:45 AM
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How was your kino progressing?
/r/seduction14/01/12 12:44 AM
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WTF, they banged both your girls? That story's nuts. I guess on a positive note, you found a couple of chicks who are extremely generous and giving of their love to men everywhere.
/r/seduction14/01/12 12:24 AM
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Been in your shoes, feel your pain... friends from my pre-PUA days cockblocking me. When you're learning PU, what you're doing is changing your lifestyle, you're changing your behaviors....you're changing your social STATUS. Your old friends are used to viewing you a certain way. Locking you into a certain spot on your social circle's pecking order. We as humans are social creatures; we like to establish hierarchies within our groups. So what happens when a member of a group tries to move out an…
/r/seduction13/01/12 11:57 PM
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Upvote Edgar. OP is stuck in his head, but really the only fix is to keep pressing on and become more comfortable in his interactions. Don't sweat this one. We've all had situations where we've been blown completely out of the sky. It's starts to spiral out and every thing you do to try to recover or correct the situation just makes it worse and worse and worse. Like flailing around in quicksand. One thing you can do when you get completely smoked is immediately switch venues and start fresh at …
/r/seduction13/01/12 10:49 PM
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Greeny whole-food organic women. Check for pit hair. If there's grass up north, there's jungle glory down south.
/r/seduction13/01/12 01:51 AM
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Girls will go out of the way to try and get your attention to prove a point to other girls You're describing "preselection". Those women are going beyond just trying to prove a point. You've demonstrating that you're the high value guy. The prize. They're competing for you. Be interested to hear some examples on how you deal with those situations where you're in a position to pick and choose.
/r/seduction13/01/12 12:48 AM
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A drink or two can usually be a positive, at least for me. Alcohol releases endorphins which puts you in a relaxed state. Endorphins give you a positive outlook on yourself as well as others and your surroundings. You become more chill and less threatened by your environment. However, after a couple drinks or shots, your frontal lobe (logical part of your brain) starts to go to hell. Game starts to suffer after 2-3 drinks for me (I'm 190lbs). Here are some alternate endorphine "hits" I give my b…
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:26 PM
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and twice had some of the milfs in my class saying they would fuck me if they were 15 years younger. This is code for "I'm willing to fuck you if you just ask"
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:54 PM
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Are we talking about outright "taking the girl away" here? Or are we talking getting some nook nook on the side? An experienced pickup artist could easily get together with a married woman of 10 years. On the other hand, taking a girl away is much more difficult and complicated. Especially when she's married. There may be kids involved, the fallout and judgment from her extended family and peers, legal complications and considerations, etc. She's not going to put herself through that in most cas…
/r/seduction12/01/12 08:51 AM
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Damn dude, you put into words everything I've observed in my life regarding relationships and cheating. I'm bookmarking this permalink.
/r/seduction12/01/12 08:38 AM
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Follow fraggle's advice. All these girls you mention have access to outside social circles which more often than not contain beautiful girls. Give them your number. Be friendly. Next thing you know, you'll be getting invited to parties and events unlocking a whole other world for you. It's part of the adventure.
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:37 AM
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I've developed an empathy for women and their bitch shields in similar fashion. I'm a smoker and have established an auto reject response to the endless stream of cigarette moochers out there. I'm usually a pretty generous person, but when I get mooched by total strangers several times an evening, it gets old fast. I'll usually take a socially graceful way out. "I actually bummed this cigarette from someone else" "I left my pack in my car" "Sorry, it's my last one". Sometimes if I'm in a really …
/r/seduction04/01/12 10:25 PM
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Day game has been off my menu a while now for lack of tangible progress. It's probably worth giving it another visit.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:53 AM
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I'm feelin the negative energy from you. But I was in the same place as you a few years back. I just wanted to be asexual I was so frustrated and fed up with it. The fact that you're poking around seddit tells me you're looking to get this part of your life whipped in order. You're in the right place.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:23 AM
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I realize there would have to be a transition. I've gotten numbers, and invited them to parties, but they were all flakes.
/r/seduction02/01/12 06:29 AM
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Is it safe to assume you're just starting out learning pickup since you're even asking this question? They do like to be hit on, but it often may not seem that way on the surface. Realize that beautiful women get hit on constantly. Whether it be from Alphas overtly, or from AFC's finding every dumb reason in the world to interact and orbit around her, it's a never ending train in her daily life. Does that mean she doesn't like men or want to be hit on? No. The women that didn't desire men were w…
/r/seduction02/01/12 06:16 AM
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I have to honest. I've never gotten laid from a day-game cold meet with a true stranger. It's always been though either bars/clubs or through my social circles (parties, work, school, activities, etc). I've always wanted to be able to get with that sweet little thing working behind the espresso stand, the hotty shopping in the makeup aisle of the supermarket, etc. It's proven very difficult for me to hook a girl in for long enough to get her attracted enough to progress things. Guess my game isn…
/r/seduction02/01/12 05:14 AM
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Go read some Richard Dawkins books. He pretty much answers a lot of the questions you have with scientific evidence to back.
/r/seduction02/01/12 04:48 AM
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Be more specific as to what about the answer isn't filled? BTW, I was doing some google searching and ran across THIS article on men vs women in society. Kinda long, but it's a damn good read and well worth the time.
/r/seduction01/01/12 11:08 PM
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Bingo. And continuing the evolutionary frame, it goes beyond just protection. An organized tribe/clan was able to hunt and gather food more effectively than a loner or smaller group.
/r/seduction01/01/12 08:49 PM
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Were you on a day trip or something? No hotel? Also, did you ask her logistics? Where those friends her roommates? You could have offered to kick the party back to her place. Heck, from the picture you painted of her it sounds like she might have even been DTF in the bathroom. Good luck.
/r/seduction29/12/11 09:25 AM
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says her best feature is her eyes, I say it's her ass. Good laugh on that one. Man you got tons of things going right. Life sure is good when you're preselected (in your case the HB9's) and other women approach you, isn't it? I think your problem here is that you're further ahead in the pickup than you think you were. Lots of girls don't want to escalate too sexually in a public place. In my own experience, as well as others on seddit, if you escalate to kissing a girl in a public place during y…
/r/seduction28/12/11 11:09 PM
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Have any stewardess stories to share?
/r/seduction28/12/11 10:07 PM
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-Garbage in. Garbage out. Stay off of the emo sites like foreveralone. -Hit the gym and hit it hard. What pushed me over the edge to discovering pickup was that I had a HUGE crush on the most beautiful girl who's ever given me flirty attention. We used to do all kinds of stuff together. She liked me too, but I failed to move fast enough and got friendzoned. I then watched as a douchbag coworker (who already had a GF) moved in and started banging her. He took her out of my life and it ripped my h…
/r/seduction28/12/11 06:11 PM
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Used to live near an Air Force base. We used to have a joke around the bars near the base Q:"How do you know if a guy's a pilot?" A:"He tells you" I wouldn't bring it up in conversation unless it comes up naturally in the flow of your conversation, like if girl mentions a flight she just took. If you bring up any topics of your achievements and it doesn't flow with the current conversation, it looks try-hard imo. This includes job status, income, possessions like property, cars, etc. I think it …
/r/seduction28/12/11 05:15 PM
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Find out if she has an older sister! Also, I wanted to point out that you were "shit tested". I realize there were jailbait type issues in this particular case, but mentally prepare yourself for being shit tested about age again in future encounters with women. I'm in my 30's and see this all the time from the 20-something girls. I used to come back with witty counters, and that can work out fine if done from a strong frame. Nowadays I just ignore a woman's age related comments, switch conversat…
/r/seduction25/12/11 06:44 AM
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4chan. Where the men are men, the women are men, and the kids are cops.
/r/seduction22/11/11 01:12 AM
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When I first learned PU and was experimenting around, I started running game on college girls, teenage girls, 30-somethings, married women, 50+ women, foreign women, black women, asian women... ...just to test the very thing you're asking. Conclusion: I've found no difference. The laws of female->male attraction appear to operate consistently across the board.
/r/seduction21/11/11 10:06 PM
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The general gist of diminoten's message is correct actually. Breaking down the basics of pickup, by dating, you're offering too much of your value before you've built attraction to her. You'll have a much better success rate with this girl by building value. Do you have other girls in your life that you can bring around this girl? (preselection). Are you the leader of your group of friends? (leader of men). Also read up on kino if you're not familiar with it. Kino will be critical from keeping y…
/r/seduction15/09/11 10:25 PM
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Well however this works out for you, it's certain that your buddy's GF is a no-go for a wing.
/r/seduction15/09/11 07:14 PM
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I have a story but I don't know if it's applicable to your situation or not. I also have a buddy who has a HB gf. He left town for work one week (sounds bad I know). His HB gf called me up and said she wanted to wing for me (figured she was bored). We head out to the bars, and since she's a HB and we were having fun together, my preselection was through the roof. I had girls opening ME. I end up heavily flirting and kino'ing a new HB7 I met. I was massively in state and was picking new HB7 up, t…
/r/seduction15/09/11 01:04 AM
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