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| 2 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?My man loves going down on me because giving me pleasure is the only thing that gets him hard that much. And hence I love to do the same to him. It’s all out of affection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Girl this is not it.I used to be that way. I gifted my situationship ex 25 gifts for his 22nd/ 23rd birthday (Glad I don’t even remember how old he was). Extra gifts for extra love I wrote. I put my blood, sweat and tears in that project. He shouted at me for doing so much for him. Hall of shame story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 7 | Love shouldn’t be hardPeople are incapable of change. Especially if he’s 25 or older. Their frontal lobe is evolved. It’s hard for even you to change if you’re 25 or older but daily conscious decisions can change anyone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.Oh I’ve dated both the types. This one guy faked having anxiety just to make me take care of him (and take shit from him). Boundaries are definitely the only solution here. Consciously asking yourself if this is the person I’d wanna spend the rest of my life with and other important questions like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.That’s a wonderful idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | About a month ago I posted about a first date where the guy insisted that I pay for myself. This weekend I went on one of the most extravagantly lovely dates I've ever had with another manKeep us updated woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 11 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.At one point of time we no longer want someone who isn’t at a stage in life when they want something serious. And we don’t even want a person who is incapable of realising our worth. If we want them, it means we don’t love ourselves enough. Consciously choose to not do this and you’ll get there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 14 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.Not to forget you should use all the passion and energy you can spend to improve yourself, be better everyday and still love your present version. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:58 AM |
| 22 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.I’m happy to help girl! The best way to learn is to teach, we’re all progressing in our own, never ending journey towards self love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:57 AM |
| 22 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.Remind yourself that all the thoughts you have aren’t your reality. You’re in charge of your brain. Change the sad story you keep telling yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 70 | Some insights you need to BELIEVE in before getting back into the dating zone.I’d also suggest to be more of a listener. Don’t tell him everything about you. Let him wonder. Let him ask the questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:03 AM |
| 8 | Ain't that the truth.Holyshit, this is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 11 | A big step towards assertivenessI'm proud of you girl. Every step counts. Plus, he'll be back, be ready to mess with his mind. Play all the dark games, if you're into that and leave him wanting for more. Ruin him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:27 PM |
| -1 | Where’s the lieI don't think Helen is a HVW, she's more like a workaholic masculine person. Jake is a LVM for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:58 AM |
| 20 | You're the prizeI used to do that too. There is no perfect man, there's a perfect, an idea of perfection. It's all in our heads. We want to impress them but they should be impressing us. We're the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach men without creeping them out or making them uncomfortableDon't approach a guy, it's a very masculine thing to do. What you can do is become more approachable. Don't use earphones in public, always dress well and look your best. Also, try having small talk with people around you, then he'll find you non threatening to talk to. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 15 | Make them work, make them wait.And invest in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 14 | Ladies, a guy asking you about kinks before he barely knows you and being turned on by physical violence towards you is a red flag burning in a five-alarm fire. RUN, don't walk, AWAY!I agree with what you say but in this show, Archer it's the girl, Cheryl who gets aroused by that. She's a twisted character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:44 PM |
| 9 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.And because the women of their age see through all the shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:41 PM |
| -6 | She's the bestYeah, a lot of men are sexist in that sense but I have noticed a good person wouldn't care about the gender at all. Rick and Morty guys are just trying to be cleverly funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:43 PM |
| 4 | She's the bestI didn't understand what you're trying to say but I know for a fact that Rick and Morty is far from sexist. If we want gender equality or equity, we need to make sure we appreciate them for their good work too. I absolutely hate LVM but I believe in HVM and that we women create both of these categories. We decide how a person treats us. Irrespective of their gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 35 | She's the bestI'd agree with them and call it one of the best tv shows ever because of it's intelligent humor. How they'd make fun of Jerry, a LVM. (If we have to mention something FDS related here) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareWait really? Do you even know him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:15 AM |
| 28 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareI absolutely hate Peterson | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:14 AM |
| 14 | Words of wisdom.Word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.Im glad we can appreciate our differences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:23 AM |
| 6 | Don't. Just stop. You're better than that.It's not hard when you love yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.It's totally your call. I wouldn't stop looking at Picasso's paintings because of his crimes. I like to separate the art from the artist. Almost everyone is a hypocrite in one way or another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 10:57 PM |
| 18 | DON'T.Hahaha anyday better. Although both of them suck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:07 PM |
| 11 | UrghPlus intellectual inferior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 14 | Every other LVM.Cringe worthy, really. I hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 13 | Every other LVM.Me too. I knew something was wrong with this guy, even as a kid. Turns out I was right. I remember this episode when he was giving away free hugs, only for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:43 PM |
| 25 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.Try to not take them so seriously and work hard to get out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 37 | The people around you directly influence your state of mind. Dump his ass if he makes you feel inferior.Definitely. Even family in some cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 8 | Any rules about your Instagram account as a HVW?Even though I asked the question myself, I think I'd give one advice too i.e. don't post very often. People will think you don't have a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:25 AM |
| 56 | Ladies, don’t be that girl.I don't even care anymore. If he calls me at 2 am, I'd be like: yes leaving in 5, keep your door open; then I'd go to bed and turn off my phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:46 PM |
| -13 | If you have the time to listen to Taylor Swift's "The Man". This girl got it right. Don't get tired to hustle for yourself! Even if we have to fight tooth and nail for recognition, we do it sis!Idk, I'd rather listen to something deeper than somebody talk about their ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | At least for now, friendship is the most important thing to meWe need to have bad experiences in order to realise what we won't tolerate in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | His lives with his parents and has for years.When you lower your standards, you make them believe they can do better than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:26 PM |
| 36 | Absolutely worthless 🤷♀️Been there, done that, got nothing. Doing the opposite works though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:24 PM |
| 6 | 49 Red Flags You Are Dating A Low Value ManThe 2nd one is absolutely true. I used to ignore it before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:18 PM |
| -11 | If you have the time to listen to Taylor Swift's "The Man". This girl got it right. Don't get tired to hustle for yourself! Even if we have to fight tooth and nail for recognition, we do it sis!This song is nice but I don't think its a good idea to write a song about your ex, especially if you're so famous. It'd give them power to know how much they hurt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 5 | "I pay for you, I own you"You should be proud of yourself for coming out so strong. You know what you deserve now. Don't let your past affect your present. Keep loving yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Yes of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Glad you left. Phew. Dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I'm super proud of you. That works for everyone, I've realised. People in general take you for granted if you don't have a life. Or if it seems like you don't have a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Yeah, fuck him. Actually, no matter how amazing a woman is, if she's too available, any guy will take her for granted. Stop that and they would go crazy without you. They should be into you more than you are into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Take it slow. Start with holding their hands and getting comfortable with that. Go to the second base when you're alright. Then proceed with time. I completely understand, it must be hard. Everytime I meet a new guy, if he holds my hand, I shiver. So I can understand where you're coming from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Well, I think you can like the movie and still find it depressing. As long as he doesn't relate to the character, it's alright. I focused on Joaquin Phoenix's acting. And because I love comics in general it was great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Of course it is. If you're working on yourself it's something to be proud of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Are there any other red flags that make you ask this question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Depends on when he slept the night before I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit is changing my lifeNobody can love you until you love yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 55 | Protect your most valuable resource: your time!I'm glad someone finally said it! I have a brother and honestly, this is how he functions. He doesn't care about women. Any high value person should want to have a great career and personality before even thinking about the opposite gender because we want a good quality of life. We are young and now is the time to do our best to succeed. Daydreams feel great, don't they? But is wasting that much time worth it? Think about your goals and dreams, if that's marrying a rich dude, it's perfectly fine… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:13 PM |
| 15 | I just dropped himThose were clear signs of cheating. Better kicking his ass now than later. The more time you'd have spent with him, the worse it would've gotten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:52 PM |
| 14 | Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:17 AM |
| 43 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherMen think that women compare themselves with eachother. We need to prove them wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 68 | What a wild time to be alive :)I love to see assholes suffer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 20 | Nobody hates LVM more them HVM... NOBODY'Couldnt afford' haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Any movies you'd like to suggest to level up or learn some set of dating skills?Examples? I like Audrey Hepburn's though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 41 | Please alert your fellow woman!Yeah but most chicks are blind in love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)How do I join Darktriadwomen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Good that you broke up now than later. You don't want someone who is likely to do something like this. His loss, really. Anyway, he's too messed up on his mind. Good that you didn't waste anymore time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)Yes, the best lessons we learn are mostly the painful ones. Everytime you have that sinking feeling, remember to be proud of yourself because a kind woman like you doesn't deserve this and life is too short to put up with some silly guy's shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:13 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)It's alright. Take your time. Don't think of yourself as anybody lesser than a queen. Have an amazing trip! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:25 AM |
| 14 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?My mistake. But trust me when I say this, thanks a million. I feel free now that it's over. I should've listened to your experience in the first place. I'd totally abide by the FDS rules and philosophies from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?I already am embarrassed to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?Omg I'm so sorry. I'm honestly not insulting you. I don't speak to him anymore. I avoid him. I agree with you, learnt it the tough way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?I'm done for good and with women like you, I think I'd not make such silly mistakes again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?Thank you. I learnt my lesson the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?Thank you! With the support and lessons from the wisest and the smartest women, I think I would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 11 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?I told him we're done altogether, just friends is fine. I don't think I can be alright because I started keeping a score about the other people we'd hook up with. I think I'm better off in a committed relationship with a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:02 PM |
| 19 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?I agree with that too, hence I cut off all my ties with him before I started liking him for real. He's a great guy and everything but I deserve to be treated like a frickin queen, nothing less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Freinds with benefits is over!I'm glad I'm out of my last one. In the end I told this guy that the sex wasn't even good, totally shattering his false ego and confidence. Loved it. Now I'm not giving two shits about the guy who thinks he got a free score, the hottest chick in college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 01:47 PM |
| 2 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.I'm sorry. I am a newbie. I think I'd learn. Thank you everyone though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.After this I still have a chance to do that I guess. But thank you, really. For all the advice and time. I appreciate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:32 AM |
| -5 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.Well, that's alright. I agree with you but I'm not afraid of any consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:29 AM |
| -3 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.I completely understand this but I still want to give it to him. Is that too bad? I don't really have any expectations but I do want to at least try to hurt him instead of not experiencing this my way at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 0 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.I don't really want this to work. I want to end things myself because he told me the last time we met that if you change your mind and want the same things as me, do come around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:20 AM |
| -7 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.The only reason I'm doing this is to experience this situation my way. At least I'd get the idea of ending it myself. And fact that he'll be around because we are a part of a friend group is why I'm focusing on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:19 AM |
| -1 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.The only reason I want to give him that note is to make him believe that I wasn't even interested and it was just for sex and on top of it, that wasn't good either. How do I survive in our friend circle when he's almost always around? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:17 AM |
| -14 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.Yes, he's definitely a LVM. I'm gonna give him this letter and his clothes. That'd give him a reality check and he'd know I'm not somebody to mess with. Best thing is, they way I wrote it, he can't complain to any of our friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:14 AM |
| -16 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.That's right. But this is a letter, so I think I can be deadly here. I'm not latching onto any expectations here but I do want to shatter all the confidence he got by being with a 'score' like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:09 AM |
| -13 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.But he is a part of my group and I wanted to show him that I'm in the driver's seat and I will determine when this is over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 12 | Cutting Men Off: An Underrated StrategyI think you shouldn't get physical with them till you are sure that you love to have you around and sex isn't so important. Make them invest time on you. And be clear about what you want from them, hints don't work with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:02 PM |
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