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megamorphg/r/seduction22/07/14 03:30 PM
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megamorphg/r/seduction19/12/15 03:16 AM
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C: What if they are a great activity partner (for example, my dance partner that i used to date, but we still are friends now and are planning to perform together). People can also be good mirrors unto each other. Especially if the guy is ready to drop them as a friend if they try to use them too much and cultivates other friends. It's not good to burn bridges. My concern though is honestly though that it takes away the person from emotionally bonding and wanting other people in a sense--emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:38 AM

Women should learn to friendzone men earlier. A man courting a woman should do nice things for her and not be led on. But then again I guess someone has to be formal and talk about the elephant in the room whether this is a date or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:37 PM
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Does this mean it is better to be friends w/ women first? (e.g. teammates in an activity)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:36 PM
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Men have to be young pretty and thin AND all those other things. Women just have to not be fat and have men swarming to them like shit on flies, even if they are in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:51 PM

I agree with this somewhat. If you are still interested in her and she is losing interest in you, likely she has an Avoidant attachment style and needs some space. Giving that to her often times is enough to give her the space to breathe and enjoy your presence again. Easier said than done especially when you're an Anxious style like me. So "move on" but not move on to a new girl... just move on and focus on projects and stuff, because she is likely doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:17 PM
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Yeah, "women develop bonds under solid long term marriages"... I think gotta find women who are biblically aligned and will forsake their fleshly programming and actually stick with the convenant and have sex for the sake of the relationship and placate her inner demon... Rather than expect the man to be doing a whole bunch of dark triad alpha male psychotic behaviors to appeal to her fleshly reptilian base programming which is basically what Red Pill is. Which is not to say Red Pill is not usef…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/26 06:39 PM
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Well at least men fall in love more quickly than women. Maybe not deeply. Nowadays though I feel like it's both. Women move on quickly (especially since they have the natural optionality of being pursued by new men, whereas men must actively pursue women) and thus the depth of their previous passion can be easily uprooted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:37 PM
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This is a good point. Also: - Men fall in love more strongly than women and they are willing to be flexible surrounding this and will take on all sorts of misery to put up with a woman. Hence divorces are mostly initiated by women. - Women due to female liberation, etc. are even less desiring of traditional roles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:52 PM
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So it's a good thing if a girl friendzones you after you had sex for a while? I'm friends with the girl I was dating for half a year... and I still go to dance class and church with her (seeing her a couple times a week). I wonder if it is a good thing because I can continue to reflect on her flaws and reflect and observe her flaws and "close the loop"... I even wrote down all the reasons she cannot ever be more than a plate (which she doesn't want to be anyway) (bad diet, PCOS, moody, chaotic p…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/26 03:11 PM
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I've done swing but mostly do salsa and Bachata.. where there can be close sensual contact with chest and butt for a lot of the song. It's a bit of a double standard but I don't like that she may be doing that with someone though I may do the same... But it's because I personally don't feel sexual attraction dancing close to a woman (unless there is a chance I can make her into a girlfriend). So I guess you are right! I have to work on my frame and remember that I have better fitness, finances, …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/26 01:37 AM
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.Definitely like the abundant frame.One of my hobbies is ballroom dancing and so is this girl I have been dating several months... one thing I am trying to figure out is how to not have "dread" myself if she is going out to those things herself. I mean these are just ballroom dance classes and what not so it's not like she's going to a festival solo. And technically any activity can be a cause for dread.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/26 04:57 PM
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Yeah, true, we should not be choosing based on looks. But it is important to have some ambition and not just get a baby machine that doesn't eat or sleep healthy... and nowadays she's gotta be somewhat intelligent and disciplined to be like that. Lately it seems like most men take care of their health better than women who go to shit after child rearing.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/25 04:50 PM
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Treat women as you want to treat yourself... I like that philosophy. Can you give some practical examples?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/25 06:08 PM
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Yeah very important to pay something that feels significant to you... Or at least mindfully magnify it in the mind in a way realizing how much time you are putting into it... I definitely remember the things I paid a little for back when I had so little. Makes me think it may be good to hire a dating coach.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/25 08:27 PM
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This is nice and condensed. Wish there was a community wiki red pill "book" that covers everything, so much gems scattered in different material
/r/TheRedPill24/04/25 04:06 PM
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It's definitely linear overall but within each of those stages there's tons of nesting because each stage has a different mindset and different values. For example: being too charming during the later stages makes you seem like a player; being too "rapportive" in the early stages kills attraction. Anyway nesting allows us to personalize the key overall structure with tips and tricks needed for our idiosyncrasies and a lot of other details and reminders (VKAS, triangulation, escalation ladder, et…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 05:25 PM
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Do you have a heuristics (in nested logic format) for going from approach to sex? Really need to build one of those out, kind of similar to the chart in Daygame Blueprint.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 01:47 PM
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Ah, surprised we didn't have something similar already. Would it be better to call it Game Theory? Similar to Red Pill Theory. And distinguished from a Field Report, which is still game but not theory.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/25 04:32 PM
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Should explain what it is for
/r/TheRedPill31/03/25 03:32 PM
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That's a golden tip as well. Oftentimes we don't do the approach and never know if she would've liked us or not.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/25 01:26 AM
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The athletic and tall played a huge factor e.g. college athletes getting chicks
/r/TheRedPill08/02/25 12:20 AM
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Yeah, I have the same thinking and fears .. and live in a town with lots of single mommas and 20 year olds. I think the trick is to transcend all those evolutionary biology things and comparison things entirely... I heard Models and a few other Taoist type dating books are good for that. On my reading list. Gotta leave behind all the resistance somehow...
/r/TheRedPill26/01/25 01:11 AM
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It might help to not only NOT put them on a pedestal but also consider why men are the superior sex and women the inferior sex, nature's means of reproduction. i.e. imagine them pooping on a toilet, the pains they undergo to look pretty, menstruation, them "hitting the wall", etc. It's not 100% true but it can help bring them to your level, which they ultimately are since you are human.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/25 04:36 PM
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Have some compassion for the mom bro, especially if she be mothering you (cooking, taking care of house). The Superior Man can make himself independent without burning bridges, can just ignore the woman antics.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/25 04:11 AM
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Wish I really respected sleep and hard work when I was 16, gaming away my life energy and sleep and thinking too much about others instead of focusing more on my goals. Took me over 10 years to get it under control..
/r/TheRedPill16/09/24 02:30 PM
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Stinky indian dude here: I disagree about moving out. Coming home to well-cooked meals is great, including to a partner... especially if having a good entry to the bedroom, big house, and privacy. But I guess that might be a big if for some people.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/24 03:47 PM
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The bot is a little too enthusiastic I think. Really cool though, great idea man, this can help with approach anxiety
/r/TheRedPill28/08/24 03:22 AM
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Too late, looks like the video got deleted.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/24 09:39 PM
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Link to the video or book?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/24 11:09 PM
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If you are going on the spiritual path, then best to go with Taoism, especially all the tantric stuff, especially from Mantak Chia will help make sense of the "emptiness" and nihilism and transform it into higher truths and most pragmatically create the proper place for women David Deida style.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/24 02:53 PM

It's moresoover the passion for something in life that gets her wet. And one should be passionate about some things regardless of women anyway... else what is the purpose of life? Can even be passionate about finding the purpose or learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:42 PM

Thank you for finding that referenced study... https://journals.lww.com/epidem/fulltext/2006/03000/paternal_age_and_preterm_birth_in_italy,_1990_to.17.aspx It's good they controlled for the women's ages but overall it's just too complicated. Definitely our environments, diets, and lifestyles play a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:16 PM
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Yes, I found that same study and could not find anywhere where it indicated the mother's age. The principles of degeneration are indisuptable but It's laughable they do not show the mothers's ages when the woman's age matters far more than the male's (fertility massively drops after 30). Would definitely like to see the studies when male is 40 and woman is in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:26 PM
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Any good evidence for the paternal age thing? DNA fragmentation makes sense but it's weird that none of the studies I skimmed indicate the maternal age in the same studies or control for it in any way. Obviously, the latter is far more indicative and since older guys will pick older women (usually), we can assume the abnormalities are more likely due to the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:48 PM
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Can someone do an AI summary on each of these books? Or even their own of the critical takeaways.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/24 11:32 PM
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This is a bad look for red pill. Focus on sexual sublimation and self-growth instead of focusing on animal psychology.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/24 01:36 AM
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Something along the lines of "Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." If actual happiness is your measurement of success (and not how much you can dominate and mainpulate other people), know that serious monks are neurologically tested to have the highest levels of neuronal happiness. Especially because they can reach mystic states of divine ecstasy, all without dependency on external stimuli much less entire human situations. What are you really lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:20 PM
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No because machines can never replace (only augment) sexual energy exchange at etheric levels. I think people are evolving in a direction that they want that sexual kung fu.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:11 AM
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A whole vertical line of ancestors frowning upon our distractedness/hesitation.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 03:39 AM
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Was listening to a red pill podcast and it's not that "women are only attracted to 20% of men", it's more that "women are repulsed by 80% of men"... i.e. they *might* be attracted to that other 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:41 AM
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Free should mean what's unbound by substrates using them, floating around in your blood
/r/TheRedPill23/10/23 07:27 AM
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The tips in the article are all good things everyone should be doing at a bare minimum. What testosterone test do you do? There's 3 of them available at LabCorp: Testosterone, Free Testosterone Total, MS Testosterone Total, Males (Adult), IA
/r/TheRedPill22/10/23 10:01 PM
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Yeah, self-hypnosis is a great thing to learn... endless applications. Helped me get through a lotta blocks including passing classes I had to pass to graduate in college.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 04:47 PM
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On principle, it makes sense for girl to not date other people while they are having sex, even though the guy dates others because... the same reason that a girl with a high body count is not impressive i.e. the barrier for a girl dating others is very low if not non-existent.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 06:08 PM
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She may have just wanted to stop being mean. I agree it gives a small lesson about frame though. Lot to learn from salesmen. Should maybe get a part-time job doing such things hmm
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 02:26 PM
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Too many big words where none is needed... sounds like a HS/college philosophy essay. Agree with the overall concept, disagree with the excessive attachment to the concepts... there are exceptions to every rule.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 11:47 PM
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Dam… so many missed opportunities. I suck at comforting people when they are crying. Get all autistic still.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:03 PM
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well scientific studies show complaining and griefing isn't good for productivity anyway including bragging and wishing... as men, we gotta learn to just act and achieve!
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 03:32 PM
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Nice points... true masculinity is open and adaptively governs ... but not necessarily in a domineering way. Reminds of some of the concepts David Deida describes.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 11:54 PM
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Buying a yacht to get trashy women is not an economical approach. Also heart and soul is not for economics.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/23 12:19 AM
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You're the robot from Wizard of Oz, you may not have those. Lol. But yah briefly, basically think of it as emotional intelligence and spiritual bioenergetics (the feeling you get after a good yoga session).
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 02:18 PM
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You too are stuck within the approval-seeking to the point that you think I am being humble to gain approval. What you see as humble is actually just parsimony and efficiency. True, it's not always there and it's relative... But jeez what a tense inner world you have, mired in desire. Anyway I definitely have shortcomings and there is indeed lots of value to this post, just not about picking up women.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 05:35 AM
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All your vain end-goals including seeking society's approval with your "alpha" behavior, are ultimately worthless and extrinsically dependent. Better to work on your heart and soul directly.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 12:23 AM
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Way too much effort to buy a yacht, rather just be healthy and pursue self-interests and take what I can get.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 08:45 PM
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The sex thing was true for me recently... dated a fat girl who I click with mentally but the sex was... mediocre. Gonna have to use that chemistry line. This whole thing though sounds totally like what women do to men. lol
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 06:54 PM
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What specific things do you see? At this point it feels equalized in terms of crime, pollution, access to good food and water, etc... I'd honestly like to see a full decision matrix with all the dimensions of going to Mexico (including renouncing US citizenship and any property). It's likely variable for every person
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 03:41 PM
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Ah so you do find benefit from your move?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 03:38 PM
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The movement into MGTOW is not always necessarily regression into Anger. Plenty of happy men have transcended the Depression phase into Acceptance and calculated the cost-benefit of foreign latina mammas for them is not as interesting as focusing on one's own health and enjoyment, whatever that may be.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 10:20 PM
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Spiritual cultivation, chi gong, and the Buddhist experiment on spiritual immortality and enlightenment..! There are a lot of higher aims than intercourse and biological replication. If one is already partnered up one can practice tantra but having a family and such was always seen as an obstacle to enlightenment since Buddha himself left his family behind to pursue something higher
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 10:17 PM
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This is the way. Taming of the western shrew is an endless task and finding a trade wife to work on family and life goals is better, without the anxiety of constantly "bettering oneself"
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 04:35 AM
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Yes, was a typo--corrected, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:44 PM
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Which is more pleasure-able for women than it is for men neurologically speaking (women have more receptors and pleasure surrounding orgasm). Unless you are saying that getting pregnant is the evolutionary reciprocation for all that effort... which makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:55 PM
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Tis the state of affairs. The story of the enslaved Emissary does not end there... Gotta go to semen retention subreddit for the more spiritual and taoist biophysical energies angle. Anyway, we should definitely be fearful of marriage with college educated women lol
/r/TheRedPill03/02/23 07:31 PM
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Sexual dynamics has never been the same for men as women in all of history and all species. Key facts to think about: On average, only 30% of men reproduced before modern monogamy became more enforced in order to reduce this natural issue Women are biologically designed for sex with multiple men Attraction often works contrary to what is normally considered "good" and "nice" aka maniuplative
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:00 PM
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Feminist anger just makes man and woman more separate. The state loves feminism because now both man and woman are working and giving taxes while they brainwash the kids to become confused slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:15 AM
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You're kind of right. Reproductive criteria hasn't changed much to suit technological society. Flagrant peacocking is what attracts... but then is that because society is so extrinsic lately? Women are definitely attracted to inner game. Smart men can definitely get women as "Pandora" PUA theory would indicate it is really just personality and logistics... something truly confident intelligence can figure out (not middle-grade intelligence). Doesn't mean we should prioritize inner game above all…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 05:34 PM
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Could also build something similar about women who are genetically predisposed to be nature's breeders, extremely emotional, cursed with menstruation, societally easily programmed. We men have the gift of potential while women are by default the tabula rasa of society. Both have brilliant potential of transcendence though. Genetic replication doesn't mean much AFAIK--it's not like you will be more likely to reincarnate or anything if you have more kids. Nor is nature communistic in that all men …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 02:13 AM
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What's he advertising? Is that his YT?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/22 10:20 PM
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What else will masses take decades to realize was true? #semenretention enlightenment and other spiritual transcendence..
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 05:48 PM
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I'd be curious though I expect the advice to be very basic and not addressing the irreconcilable difference in sexual strategy between males and females.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:39 PM
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contextually speaking "kind" tends to correlate with more active kindness and not necessarily being pushed around... as in "loving-kindness" in Buddhism. Whereas "nice" tends to be correlated with being passive and manipulated by other forces.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:21 PM
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It's not a bad idea. I'm also avoiding drugs for past year. It makes me think of how vegans are so loud about being vegan. It's not about not drinking. Could definitely just get a soda and focus on the actual convo and everything else. Anyway, worth trying
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:50 PM
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Exactly but not before she is attracted
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:48 PM
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Sounds like a fantasy to me. Enjoy it while it lasts!
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:03 PM
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This is a great comparison. I love these kind of inter-disciplinary parallels. #semenretention has similar energetic transmutation parallels with "restraining your investment" But yeah the solution is indeed to conserve commitment tit-for-tat.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/22 03:30 AM
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I mean it's a bit hyperbolistic but it is true... just think about how clear and focused after orgasm everyone is. Everyone just stares into their crystal ball and works on life. Better we just transmute and focus on truly meaningful relationships.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/22 02:20 PM
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Went down the rabbit hole and watched/clicked all the references. Good movies and poetic view on the idea of getting out of one's own head and being authentic.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 10:14 PM
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This reads like a Dr Seuss book for some reason...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 10:50 PM
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yeah typical woman gaslighting herself and other people... the fact that she considers sex not dating put the nail in the coffin of the delusional hypergamous wreck she is
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 11:35 PM
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lmao can't believe I actually read it... felt like an engrossing romance novel.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 11:34 PM
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I don't drink any of those things, especially more than a tiny sip.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:10 PM
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I guess I'm self-conscious. Especially one of the ways to build rapport with someone is cheering someone... who is drinking alcohol... while I'm drinking water. I guess it's an illusion because there have been times in the past I and others have cheered me with completely different things than alcohol. And also that nobody cares that much anyway.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:09 PM
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What would be interesting is a guide on going to the bar alone to meet people and NOT drinking (maybe just eating tacos). Bar food is really unhealthy much less drinking and I'd rather not sacrifice health for socialization.
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:21 PM
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Back in myspace days (and before) most women were naturally feminine enough to do that and men could reciprocate. Now, most are totally brainwashed and have lost feminity in both mind and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:55 PM
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This is definitely true. The sociosexual order has been destroyed in this past century by brainwashing women and giving them way too many incentives... more traditional women exist outside the country... although they may be less "educated" they can take care of the kids and family better and not be spoiled.... at least for a decade (if you keep them out of the metros).
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 02:23 PM
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Wow, sad someone downvoted. They definitely have not taken the government RP. We are being slowly boiled. Are you homesteading as well? They are genociding the main cities and likely all the things about Annunaki and aliens are completely true. Best to get out and grow one's own food but it's so difficult. So hard to grow just a few vegetables in my backyard. My comments/questions: It's getting hard these days to collect rent especially low-income properties. Home ownership seems the way to go..…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/21 03:24 AM
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Sure there may be archetypical elements but for me there are many practical reasons for monogamy instead of starting all over: - teamwork towards many goals of life: businesses, homesteading, etc. - "training" of the relationship on all levels: diet, lifestyle, and preferencws. Especially if you're very unique, you don't want to waste your time re-starting with someone new. It even extends into deeply philosophical and hard to train things like tantric sex. - stable schedule - less financial cos…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/21 04:46 AM
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Human culture is not so easy to manipulate. The deepstate is realizing this now as BLM's dark sides (burn, loot, murder) is evidential even to many blind Trump-haters. It's backfiring. Hopefully women are not so easily manipulated. If they are then, consider me black-pilled. #semenretention
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 10:55 PM
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Ugh and she was ugly, too? This brings up a good point that cannot use HB scale to determine if a marriage would be worthwhile. Whales these days act like HB8 due to thirsty people. Even marrying overseas only saves you for a few years as the woman integrates into hypergamous society. Just curious what was the wife's parents like? Were there any signs that your uncle could have used to expect the divorce?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 03:39 PM
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Maybe part of the plan of the communist social engineers hired by the mega-wealthy depopulationist globalists. All normalcies pushed to the side as unskilled people with mental disorders will be given priority and harsh truths politically incorrect. All done by taking advantage of people's basic compassion towards others and ignorance of what is best...
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 08:35 PM
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Any redpillers here more concerned about our liberties than women at this point?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 02:18 PM
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And yet here we are getting quarantined while they are not. Even if we consider both subreddits as equally toxic, they should be quarantined as well. Double-standards never die.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 02:34 PM
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Dang that's a good excerpt, I didn't read carefully. Makes one understand why women are so crazy... and us men so lazy (because we have the comfort to procrastinate while they do not).
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 01:46 AM
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Somatotypes are not a myth. They are equivalent to ayurvedic doshas. Anyway I eat like a fatass over past years sometimes and always stay the same due to my metabolism even on months of lack of real exercise. Thank for the clarification though... Muscular stress must have some primordially beneficial design including neurotropic.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 05:48 PM
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Is there something unique to lifting? Is it the muscles or just an overall high level of fitness? I'm thinking of doing kung fu and martial arts 2 hours every day--which probably will only tone my sick pack and naturally ectomorphic physique. I personally don't want to be muscle-bound and inflexible in my joints since I value it for yoga and martial arts.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 05:09 PM
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I too feel like religious tenets encapsulate more of the truth than a lot of modern social ideas. Especially in this case regarding respect and how women are not as biologically designed for infatuation, a Jordanson/evolutionary psychology type of idea. The book "what women want" actually explains a lot of things related to this well including: Why women want to loved not respected Why man should not rely so much on all these "abilities, qualities, achievements" to get women
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 04:30 AM
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yeah I agree. Some body language behaviors are covered up by environmental factors e.g. coldness of season, excessive heat causing fanning and moving around, etc. So always consider environment (and neighboring body languages) when interpreting a single instance.
/r/seduction29/11/14 05:47 AM
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Yeah youre completely right actually. Thanks for choosing your words so well. Definitely clapping for you. ;) Being a woman, conversation is probably even more desireable (we men can go a long while without emotions and convos, women literally cant. Its in their biology.). Clap's method is called "assuming rapport" and is great. It also puts the pressure on her to carry the conversation forward because its not you interviewing her anymore just a spontaneous conversation. I reccommend Clap's appr…
/r/seduction03/08/14 12:18 AM
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Exactly. Practice convo skills and gradually master the ability to small talk and talk about things that interest you. You will learn so much itll surprise you and get you out of that predatory pua mindset.
/r/seduction02/08/14 06:18 PM
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I disagree. Its the equivalent of a woman not going gaga over a homeless guy. Obviously dont give off sexual vibes, this aint no night club, but you approached her because of her looks! Just like a girl would approach you for your money/profession. Dont you want to get to know her as a person firat anyway? Try it. Ive done this a hundred times and rarely got a negative response even from girls with bfs and always got a good convo to fill the space. Dont overthink it. Dont think at all. Just go u…
/r/seduction02/08/14 06:16 PM
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Dont be inviting. Thats her job. Smile with your eyes. Even if she is in a bad mood, just go talk to her. Youre on a train wasting your lifetime and arent doing anything anyway... light fun conversation is welcome by anyone. Remember that. Heres the worst that could happen: "hi i thought you seemed like a person id like to know better" "Eww go away" "Nevermind.. you werent"
/r/seduction02/08/14 02:48 PM
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Exactly. I never have approach anxiety when go up to a girl to give something, help, ask a thought-provoking question, etc. Just a little excitement in the beginning.
/r/seduction01/08/14 08:03 PM
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Thanks! Going to get a job next month
/r/seduction30/07/14 12:30 AM
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OP which book by deida do you reccommend the most? I find his things hard to practice without getting sucked into her world and a totally different model from PUA attraction, comfort, seduction... its like its all 3 at the same time..
/r/seduction22/07/14 07:12 PM
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Nice thats pretty acceptable. Being young and horny, I didnt have that self-respect from my last gf (2 years ago) who i would pay for always and never even offered lunch back. The sex was good and thus I was conditioned.
/r/seduction22/07/14 06:14 PM
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Welcome to biopsychic Taoist self-respect
/r/seduction22/07/14 06:11 PM
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Youre right our hyperfeminist society does do that, especially due to media and men who do bad things due to desire.. On the other hand, to see energetic reasons why cock is more valuable to yourself amd woman's health, read Mantak Chias sexual energy stuff. Youll feel more selfprizing of your cock and semen like I do. Anyway i thought of how to overcome it: just say "i believe in equality and dont pay for first dates unless shes poor or something." :) dhv because she knows youre not a gold digg…
/r/seduction22/07/14 05:07 PM
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Yeah I dont but even before I approach a girl or get a date I have this mindset (maybe due to traditional parents and very traditional upbringing) of paying for the date for my dainty woman. Women are always so sweet and lovely I feel something triggered in me of taking care of her... Which comes from our ancient role as provider-lover and her role as mother-lover.. Im thinking outloud here so its not sure but I think this whole complex is based on that traditional role perception, something tha…
/r/seduction22/07/14 04:19 PM
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Haha dam im 25, gonna focus on getting my dream job for rest of year despite being surrounded by sexy college women im soo jealous of you 40yearolds wooing 20yearolds.. gonna be there soon :)
/r/seduction22/07/14 03:43 PM
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I also agree. I had the same surprise breakup happen in my relation of 3 yrs. Women sometimes try to bring up that attraction in themselves by physical contact (in which case you should push-pull). Wanting sex is an indicator of how wet her pussy is for your valuable sperm and how wet her pussy defines how attracted she is to your sperm.
/r/seduction22/07/14 03:38 PM
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I feel like AA is designed in our genes to prevent people with bad intentions from approaching. The Tao of Sexual Dating has something called PPI, the power of positive intention. You basically create that kind of positive intention (grow socially, better at talking to women, seducing) rather than achieving a single outcome and you wont ever fear to be rejected! I like this kind of talk, it gets at the root of who we are as civilization and also is a step beyond PUAs who pummel through that AA.
/r/seduction22/07/14 03:34 PM
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Thanks, I love reading rationale like this, totally killed my AA just reading and made sense of many times in past women seem so hot to be approached. Just one question, what to do about OUR double standard? I love to meet new people and get closer but whats up with that double standard where a guy pays for everything? If a guy approaches, does all the leading conversationally, and takes responsibility for the sexual things that could happen... why is it on a date women are still expected to be …
/r/seduction22/07/14 03:26 PM
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Suggestions please?
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:13 PM
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To OP: try to relax more when you have this issue and just look at her appreciating her beauty and play with yourself imagining all the things you want to do. Dont touch her until youre hard. Do not try too hard, it will backfire. most importantly STOP watching porn, it conditions you. Watch the Ted talk research
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:43 AM
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Posted a cry for help on askseddit: erectile hyperfunction
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:41 AM
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Dude i got an erection from reading a bit after the cab part. Can you teach me how to NOT have an erection? I get them TOO easily when relaxing with a girl.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:07 AM
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Nofap subreddit
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:05 AM
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Yeah youre right. Im speaking from an idealist perspective. With so many hot babes around its difficult to just focus. You know im right though, youre gonna waste countless hours on women, very valuable developmental hours that should be used training your brain to be a human god.
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:22 PM
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Yeah same here. The girl i have oneitis for is into this guy whos classified as homeless. Hes very eloquent though and used to be an actor so he has good body language. Takes her on the cheapest dates ever and shes paying for him...
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:18 PM
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Nice. Ill remember those magic words "not sex".. its true too. Most of the time not looking for sex but just intimacy.
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:34 PM
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Bro your 16, read books and get your life together. Spend all your time to develop yourself and youll thank me when youre 25 and brain is done growing. Im 25 now and im glad i speny my HS years as a nerdy president of many clubs and all my spare time studying spirituality and ate up the subjects in school. I am naturally a curious person and good learner, something a lot of people dont have because all they thought about in their growing ages was useless crap. Face the truth: You wont find any s…
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:25 PM
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You want more than that, you know it... You want a woman to love you.. for you. It just doesnt seem possible these days because women are geared for value (money, humor) and having that value feels difficult. I can say with experience though that depending on love from a woman for positive emotions is the worst dependency and will leave you feeling like shit if you didnt have any other options. Break through and focus on your life before game. If you really want, do game evening but make your li…
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:20 PM
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I think you guys dont know what negging is. Confirm this with the ACTUAL venusian handbook. Negging is not insulting. Negging is just pointing out something HUMAN in her (food stuck in her teeth, hair is fussy)... something that would make her relate to you as a person. It has great effect and I do it with friends too (guys too) all the time.
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:14 PM
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Yeah of course
/r/seduction11/07/14 12:20 AM
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Sex or the bike? Bros bike. What a bro. I need to cull my friends.
/r/seduction11/07/14 12:19 AM
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It may sound "typical" but Ive heard a lot of pua and never heard such good emotionally stabilizing advice given. You dont want to overthink about a girl youre seducing. You want to maintain your inner spontaneity and freshness so focus on your life instead of building up tension in your head by overthinking her. Because there is a high chance she is talking to some other guy or just focused on HER career. Dont turn into the one that loves someone more. Its always a bad position to be. And is al…
/r/seduction10/07/14 11:59 PM
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I do this too and im mindful about it and stop when i do because: 1. It will create feelings for her that she did not do anything to deserve yet! 2. It makes you creepy when you see her next 3. It takes away from seeing her and paying attention to her as she is. It is vital as a seduction artist that you get rid of this habit, it is different from loving a person AS they ARE when you are ACTUALLY with them. A great test: is the fantasy you just had about her something she would like to hear abou…
/r/seduction10/07/14 07:52 PM
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Magic formula: (from a pua book i read) Attraction = have fun (let her see that youre just enjoying yourself with or without her) + distance (physically and YOUR interest wise)
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:58 AM
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This is true. Sunset walks in neighborhood are great. Just make it nonchalant. Evem just show up and say you happen to be outside lets go for a stroll
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:53 AM
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Its also girly. A girl i was dating became my advisor and told me to stop putting smilies. Too girly and soft
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:51 AM
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Vulnerability is attractive... i remember opening up and just seeing my girlfriend want to kiss me grabbing me (before we ever kissed). Be vulnerable about your childhood, your fears, wishes, etc. Just dont talk about things you shouldnt talk about like political views, spiritual views, etc. That would make it seem like youre trying to change her.
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:51 AM
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Keep doing what worked on her. And now.. its ok to be a little jealous and treat her like she is "yours"... the animal inside of her wants to feel like she belongs to you.
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:33 AM
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Wow. A golden answer and you get downvoted. Im sorry my man. I would adjust what he said and say that thats how to THINK not say. Dont say that to your girl, itll kill the romance and make her feel stressed out. Commenter is right though to think like this! Knowing this wouldve saved me 2 years of chump-like pain after my 3 year relationship ended . Girls always come out of breakups alright. Us guys need to remember this advice.
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:28 AM
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Lol thats horrible what compels women to have sex with a man they dont feel attraction for? Id like my current oneitis to do that for me.. from what she told me, it sounds like she was a dead fish in bed too. I think my last gf gave me a lot of sexuals confidence she would always want it. Sex is so fun and easy once you know the G spot I wonder if these dead fish women have insensitive G spots
/r/seduction05/07/14 08:11 PM
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Gotchu. I feel like Im doing the same thing with my oneitis, stroking her ego.. its not as bad though because she is a very informative, intelligent friend who i can discuss things with. How would you get over that girl if you didnt have lame sex with her but she kept you friendzoned? Other than realize that no person is worth wasting time over (powerful advice on its own).
/r/seduction04/07/14 10:59 PM
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Damn. Youre right. You hit the spot on my 2 yr oneitis..
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:49 PM
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How can a lay be that bad? I feel great just hearing her moan and have pleasure with my touch. Maybe thats normal but I love to make love, especially if she is eager for it. Big boost in self-esteem...
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:47 PM
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Whyd you get downvoted? You contributed that true idea that there are predatory women out there. Who wants facts, statistics? Read "The Predatory Female" The excellent thing is that by adopting the body language and behavior of thag kind of high value guy, you can take vengeance on those bitches. Ermm.. ok that was hateful neuroticism. Just adopt the alpha behaviors and be happy.
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:31 PM
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I feel ya bro. Thanks for eloquently expressing the depression inside of me. I hate so much how women are just fun-whores. Whatever happened to partnership and bonding over BENEFICIAL things (which are not ALWAYS fun). I thought i found that type of girl (bookish, pleasant, sophisticated, intelligent listener) but i noticed that she dates and kisses the guys that take her on more mainstream fun things. Its stupid as fuck but women get their panties wet for that shit.
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:29 PM
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My bad, didnt see link button.
/r/seduction20/06/14 10:06 PM
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Explain
/r/seduction20/06/14 09:53 PM
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Id say eff popular culture because I stay as far away from sports, celebrity crap and all that jive. Life is short and every human ought to learn about Buddhist enlightenment (for self-mastery in the afterlife and now) (read "mastering the core teachings") evolutionary biology (read "sperm wars") Selfhypnosis (study igor ledochowskis stuff) Fiction i like: sherlock holmes, piers anthony, douglas adams Fifty shades of grey: to understand how much women rely on fantasyland Malcom gladwell's books …
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:09 AM
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Magic words: im broke atm; ive got a tight budget, etc. Dont develop "poor" mindset
/r/seduction18/06/14 05:06 AM
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Id say fuckit. Get a taste of everything and be deeply interested in YOUR things. I hate to be interested in things merely to "get" a woman.
/r/seduction18/06/14 05:05 AM
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I feel you bro. Im 25, 5'3" The important thing is to realize this: Women once attracted to who you are (your confidence) do not care about any of the details. Theyll rationalize whatever detail in a adoring light. E.g.: hes so cute and short, i love the fuzzy hair on his arms, his cute beer belly, etc. Women once repulsed to who you are (badly presented personality) do not deeply care about the details, theyll pick on everything to rationalize their repulsion. E.g.: hes too short, fat, hairy, u…
/r/seduction18/06/14 05:03 AM
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Do you give indicators of interest about how they look or do you find that it creates a bad frame since you already did choose her from okcupid so it should be clear you like her body and its just about personality?
/r/seduction15/06/14 10:13 PM
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Solution: train yourself to get excited to escalate at her IOI. Also do the NoFap subreddit
/r/seduction15/06/14 09:01 AM
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It really depends on her type. Some respond very well to txt game, others dont like it. Most r in middle. Id say spend your time learning how to escalate and conversate and get her to invest and think of you in sexual ways. (Rather than text her too much) Also when you DO text dont use emoticons and dont be too needy. Your texts should RADIATE confidence and brevity and BE funny. Good Txt game books are out there!
/r/seduction15/06/14 08:54 AM
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Great report. Thank you. Do you ever give IOI with okcupid matches or do you find its better when you just build connection and keep moving forward?
/r/seduction15/06/14 05:30 AM
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Ideally you shouldve escalated before the movie.. and then asked to see a movie too.. and kiss her before the movie starts. Might sound ballsy but look for signals. Its how my last 3 yr relationship started. Theatres are great for escalating just not until you have something already
/r/seduction14/06/14 09:35 PM
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After decide i think u copied it wrong
/r/seduction29/05/12 01:27 AM
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