Books like "Sperm Wars" make it very evident that women by nature are promiscuous beings when sexualized. Evolution designed her to to take in lots of loads and select the best offspring. It's not her fault.

No man on the other hand, would prefer a woman who has been touched by more men than less, all other things being the same.

On the 3rd hand: the counter-intuitive thing is, calling a woman out on her nature is extremely defamatory and treating like she is promiscuous also does not work well in seduction.

I have found that, no matter how actually promiscuous the person, she responds more to a man treating her with a personal, monogamous love. No woman likes to be treated as disposable. She would rather be treated as if she was only your lover. It doesn't matter how many men are treating her like she is a monogamous princess--she will respond positively to all of them--keeping the other relationships under wraps or outright denying them.

Books like David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" demonstrate the philosophy and practice with this sexual abundance and promiscuity: be absolutely present and bathing in the feminine radiance.

What other peaceful, Buddhist-like philosophies and practices align better with the promiscuous nature of most women?

I ask this because even if a woman is not promiscuous when you first meet her... Once you make her sexualized, once you break the cold ice covering her vagina, it appears that she will go into a long-term promiscous heat and be ready to collect sperm through the year. Despite this scary risk of losing her, she will be wanting investment, presents, dates, courtship, etc.. Thus, we need to learn how to detach, accept, and possibly deal with it... anyone who read the two books, can you please share your knowledge and wisdom? Thank you for your thoughts.