mejor_o_nada Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Actually, AWALT.	Rant/Venting	mejor_o_nada	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 06:55 PM

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-1	FR: How could she think that this would work? I agree. Good story, but I think it'd be wise to back off from using this type of language. Regardless of why OP chose to write like this, I think it's going to harm the sub more than it will help it. I'm cringing at the trend that this could start in TRP. So this post is well-written, but because this one is successful in conveying a message, it'll inspire others to emulate the style. And I refuse to believe that it'll inspire better writers to start posting. I know we shouldn't care about what…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/14 01:21 PM
8	LTR wants to go to the club with me? Go to the club. Drink, but not a lot. You can look at and talk to other women, but because you're asking these questions, I don't even expect that to be an issue. I'm not being a jerk, I just don't see you being a social butterfly around your girl. If it does come up though, just friendly conversation where you're the interesting one. Don't put the emphasis on the other girl, let the other girl put the emphasis on you. Your LTR partner will see this as a positive. If a guy hits on her, just be c…	/r/askTRP	11/06/14 04:55 PM
15	How to implement "me time"? It sounds like your wife is controlling, which is why you're probably here in the first place. You should know that in order to change, it'll be painful, it'll feel weird, and it will be difficult. But you should also know that it works. You've come here to ask advice from TRP, and you're having a hard time digesting it. That's normal. It's because you've been trained to think one way you're entire life, that it's uncomfortable. That feeling will pass. Addressing the angry wife who denies sex, j…	/r/askTRP	11/06/14 04:03 PM
3	Why does dread game work? Keep the girls guessing. Never confirm anything you've done with another girl. If one asks what you feel about the other, give a non-committal bullshit answer. "She's cool," works fine. Dread game works with misinformation. You want her to believe that at any moment you could get with Emily, not that you get with Emily all the time. Even if you do get with Emily all the time, its more powerful when Kate completes the story in her own head. Also, if you're interested in Kate, go for it. Sounds li…	/r/askTRP	21/03/14 08:55 PM
1	Listen to this situation You already got it for this chick, so just run with it. Plates are gonna catch feelings for you. You're gonna catch feelings for plates. But remember, she's the one that told you it should remain casual so ya'll could fuck other people. This makes her a slutty girl. Maybe she's not a terrible, fucks-every-guy kinda girl, but a slutty one nonetheless. This makes for a very bad LTR. She developed feelings for you the same way you got feelings for her. By sleeping with each other. The best thing yo…	/r/askTRP	21/03/14 08:46 PM
2	anyone with experience in this one? desperately in love with my wife but dont want to bang her. OP, DO NOT tell her you're not attracted to her anymore. If you want to remain in the marriage, don't allude to the fact that you don't find her attractive. Especially if she's a decent wife. She still wants to have sex with you, so it's not like you're in a dead bedroom situation and she's just being cunty. DO go to the doctor. Get your testosterone levels checked out and do it ASAP.	/r/askTRP	21/03/14 08:26 PM
23	I know Kung-Fu...Report and request for further guidance. I'm not a lawyer, but if a divorce does happen, then a document condoning extra-marital affairs is gonna look bad. It's gonna look even worse on you because you're the guy. And you have kids. All she'll have to say to her lawyer is 'he made me sign a document so he could see other women, and i signed it to keep the marriage peaceful.' Keep bettering yourself. Keep being a good father. Do not let her drag you down with her. While you're improving, she's hating herself. But instead of doing someth…	/r/TheRedPill	20/03/14 03:16 PM
1	I need to vent. It's not about how considerate she was being by giving him reasonable notice. It's about the inconsiderate behavior she displayed by allowing one of her friends to dictate if he should be there or not. If she respected OP the way she respects her female friend, she'd have told her friend to deal with it.	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/14 01:59 PM
6	What did I do wrong here? Cool, you're attractive, congratulations. Think about this: is it more attractive to ask? or to take? Also, she doesn't care who pays. Briffault's Law on the side bar. Read up on it. Just because you paid, doesn't mean you're owed anything. Just because she paid doesn't mean she wants anything. Even if you were legitimately owed something, it wouldn't matter to her. She got what she wanted from you which was your time. The only thing you can do is ignore the shit out of her. Which you should hav…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 08:08 PM
14	What did I do wrong here? oh god. There's a lot of places you fucked up. Stop asking "do you want to make out?" Jesus, just fucking do it. If she rejects, move on. Asking is like....a Dyson hand dryer to that pussy of hers. Gets it dry real quick. The term drinking buddies translates to time ho in this case. She wants a dude that'll hang around her and give her a good time, then she'll go fuck the dude she really wants to. Doesn't matter if you stayed the night at her place, within 24 hours of you leaving she had another…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 07:50 PM
2	I constantly crave my Girlfriends attention, and it's getting worse and worse. What am I doing wrong/what can I do? If she gives you shit for leaving to the gym without her, you gotta ignore it. Just keep on pressing forward. The only way to dig yourself out of this situation is to focus on you. Eventually, she'll go with you, or she'll just quit giving you shit about going without her. Either way is ok with you. You're improving yourself while she stagnates. You'll have the upper hand. I'm fairly against buying drinks for girls I'm not fucking. But to each their own. I'd say only buy drinks for girls you alr…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 01:53 PM
2	I constantly crave my Girlfriends attention, and it's getting worse and worse. What am I doing wrong/what can I do? Yeah, you're needy. And you know what? We've all been there once in our lives. Don't sweat it. You can fix this. I'm not sure if ya'll live together or not, but if you do, ignore the ever living fuck out of her. If you cook, only cook for yourself. If you have to run somewhere, tell her you're "going out" and don't say shit else, just walk out and drive. Seriously, go out and do something you want to do without her. Most of us RP guys have figured out that if you let them, women will drag you do…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/14 01:24 PM
5	Any tips on appearing more dominant when you're short? Got a friend who is 5'5". Dude has a personality that can pull ass like a sonuvabitch. I'm not sure how short is too short, but as long as you're not a dwarf, I think you can just work on frame and being the baddest mother fucker you know you can be. There's little things you can do like improving your wardrobe to compliment your height rather than draw attention to it. Google is your friend here. I'm sure there's plenty of threads on the male fashion advice subreddit as well. Also, lift. I know…	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/14 04:47 PM
7	Logic + no fear = No sexual desire? I've taken Piracetam for a while and I'll tell you it definitely helps mental stimulation. It provides a low level motivation and focus. It's not the Limitless drug. I never felt a decreased sexual drive on it but I'll agree with what he said about zero fucks. He attributes it to logic kicking in, I attribute it to the motivation and focus aspect. You just feel a little clearer. IT WILL NOT MAKE YOU SMARTER. The most noticeable aspect, beyond the slight increase in focus, was that it improved my…	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/14 03:54 PM
2	A super beta orbiter my wife works with. ...	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 07:08 PM
37	Buddy just found out that he was raising someone else's daughter for ten years. i feel like i'm taking crazy pills. it hurts even more that when he finally got a paternity test, it had to be court ordered. get a test. everytime.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 05:29 PM
8	Evil bitch or a shit test? How the red pill changes a story. That's beyond shit test. Shit test makes it seem like they give you a chance to prove yourself. This was outright damnation. He couldn't hold his head up after this unless he told her to fuck herself, which he did not do. He just left it at that. Sounds like she read that as a command, which from a guy with enough value in her eyes would have been acceptable. But this guy is not high value, so she destroyed him. Straight bitch. No shit test about it. She didn't even follow up after his (very shi…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 04:59 PM
5	Best approach? A hot friend is coming to town on vacation and wants to hang out. You're new. Congrats. 1.) she's not a "plate" until you're actively spinning her. but i like that you're trying to incorporate the jargon. 2.) she invited you to stay with them, which means you're 1 of 2 things to her. a potential mate, or you're a harmless dude in her eyes. either way, when you're there, escalate tastefully. this is a must. 3.) DO NOT FOCUS ON HER! she's invited you to a cabin with her girlfriends. as in multiple bitches will be in the house. assuming you're the only male, this…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 04:02 PM
2	For experienced guys who get laid constantly. Do you get scared of potential pregnancy? And what do you do if she says shes pregnant? The only thing you can do now is sit back, have a drink, a cigarette, and chill. The timeline doesn't make sense and you stated earlier that you've only known her a week. Sounds like she's just looking to get locked down.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 03:53 PM
3	How do I play this one out? leave it or pursue with different game? Here's where I think some guys fuck up. We, as people, really want to glamorize our existence. You think because you ignored her for a few months that she's all sexually charged and ready to go? I'm not fucking buying it. She just needs validation now. Maybe one of her other orbiters broke off and moved on. Maybe she just separated from her man. But one things for sure, she did not scroll through her phone and go "oh yeah, I want to fuck this guy now." Keep texting her if you want, but you're ju…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 03:43 PM
4	For experienced guys who get laid constantly. Do you get scared of potential pregnancy? And what do you do if she says shes pregnant? somethings not right. even with your update, the time line still doesn't seem to match up. I feel like she's trying to lock you down with some other guy's kid. If you believe the paper is authenticate, then you need to get a paternity test. DO NOT VISIT THE DOCTOR WITH HER. DO NOT IMPLY THE CHILD IS YOURS. Especially if you're not willing to be with this woman forever. It sounds dickish to be that harsh, but there is horror stories about the lengths people will go to fulfill their own needs. And…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/14 03:12 PM
35	For experienced guys who get laid constantly. Do you get scared of potential pregnancy? And what do you do if she says shes pregnant? This dude knows what's up. Save the texts. Avoid contact. Like he said, you're not in a relationship, she's probably fucking other guys. Never allude to the fact that it's yours until there's a god damn paternity test that says its 99.9% match. She's fucking with you. It's really really really hard to get pregnant right before and right after a period. The 14 day mark after period is the strong point. So, it's unlikely, if she is pregnant, it is yours. Unless you're holding out facts on us.	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/14 04:54 PM
2	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up It seems you were serious, so I'll entertain this just a little. And it's a slow day at work, so thank you for this conversation. I'm serious about that. 1.) I shouldn't have to point out the fact that this guy having a wife and a mistress is incomparable to Snowden uncovering mass surveillance. It's funny how belittling this situation is to the NSA situation. 2.) If you hate the NSA spying on people and reading their emails and listening to their phone calls and all the nefarious shit you think…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 09:08 PM
2	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up hahahaha dude, i don't know if you're trying or not, but this genuinely made me laugh.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 08:37 PM
3	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up the cutest, actually ;) I'm not defending the cheater because I despise cheaters as well. But I am defending the guy's right to privacy and to live his life with as many wives/girlfriends as he sees fit for himself. If the flower guy didn't like it, then he should have kept that shit to himself. It's the equivalent of speaking out on a lifestyle you don't agree with. It doesn't matter if you don't agree, just don't fucking live that life style, right? Can't being the best version of yourself, li…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 07:10 PM
4	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up I understand that according to your own personal morals he was in the right. Normally, I couldn't give a shit what anyone's moral obligations are. But now it's MY moral obligation to let you know that interjecting yourself into a situation, like the flower guy did, is wrong. If you don't know anything about the situation, and you don't even know any of the people in the situation, then you intervene trying to protect one of the other people then say you're operating on some higher virtue guideli…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 06:06 PM
3	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up oh, god damn it. This is frustrating. No one is denying the fact that cheating is wrong. In fact, you're the one that keeps saying it is wrong, regardless of the fact that nobody said it was right in the first place. The original argument was not if cheating was morally acceptable on any level. The original argument was if the flower guy had any right to inform the wife about the mistress. With that being said: I'm done.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 04:59 PM
5	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up If you want to have a discussion, then at least argue properly. I said cheating is wrong and is not condoned under TRP. There's no hypocrisy in what I said. Is the guy a shit bag? Probably. I'm not going to defend him on that count. I will, however, say that it's not the flower guy's place to play Jerry Springer. As far as your example goes, you're comparing apples to bananas. A rogue flower guy isn't the same as the friend who was trying to help the guy out. One has intimate knowledge of the si…	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 02:35 PM
8	When you spin plates, just be aware that white knights will do their damnedest to fuck things up I don't think this would be the "ethical thing to do." Cheating may be wrong, and it's certainly not condoned, but it's also nobody's fucking business other than the guy, his wife, and his mistress. The flower guy should probably just be a a flower guy instead of the relationship authority he thought he was.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/14 01:40 PM
2	Actually, AWALT. I told /u/2comment up there that I like where his head is at. I like where your heads at more.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 11:43 PM
8	Actually, AWALT. Alright, I get where you're coming from. Different from what I did, how would you suggest handling it?	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 11:40 PM
-4	Actually, AWALT. I can't agree with you. I think a lot of it is in tone. Not what you say, as much as how you say it. The same way you would talk down to a child. I think you could get away with that advice to someone less versed, but I've run this course long enough to know what you said above is targeted at a different type of person. I wouldn't talk to a plate like I did, but an LTR has to be handled differently.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 09:52 PM
6	Actually, AWALT. I lead, but I got lax. And I have a tendency to to expect the same level of treatment I give her. It's a hard lesson to learn, but believe me, I won't to fuck that up again.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 09:24 PM
14	Actually, AWALT. Thanks. You're illimitable, man.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 09:12 PM
21	Actually, AWALT. I fucked up. I know I fucked up by listing the stuff I do. I know I shouldn't have, but it gets so goddamn grating when you can just feel the under-appreciation. It grinds at you. And you slip up once because of it, they'll counter with more bullshit. It's tiring.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 09:04 PM
6	Actually, AWALT. I understand that sentiment, but it opens up another problem. I've been faithful in my LTR. If I were to take another woman out, in a "plate" type situation, it'd be rewarding the new girl for little/no work on her part, other than she was open. I'm pretty opposed to that.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 08:55 PM
8	Actually, AWALT. ah, entiendo. I think I have just the thing.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 08:42 PM
8	Actually, AWALT. I like where your head's at.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 07:48 PM
15	Actually, AWALT. Fuck that, AWALT. You can't slip at all. That's my fault. Dinner's been cancelled.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 07:07 PM
3	How much does height really matter? This shit right here.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/14 02:49 PM
1	Woman admits cheating to boyfriend, boyfriend "overreacts," white knight redditors provide sympathy I think I understand where you're coming from. If I'm ever angry at someone, I break my own shit. Just like grandpa would. Show 'em who's boss. Now, is it like a nice plaque I can hang on my wall, something I can show off?	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/14 01:55 PM
29	Woman admits cheating to boyfriend, boyfriend "overreacts," white knight redditors provide sympathy Don't do it. Messaging him in hopes that he'll stop from doing something he wants to do is a way to wash yourself of guilt. He's going to smoke regardless. If he didn't want to smoke, he wouldn't have ran back to it so quickly. He'll smoke twice as much just to rub that shit in your face.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/14 06:43 PM
33	Woman admits cheating to boyfriend, boyfriend "overreacts," white knight redditors provide sympathy Don't misconstrue what I said. I didn't say he was wrong. He wasn't. He just handled it poorly. The best thing he could have done was tell you to get the fuck out and then vent to himself/his buddies by drinking himself stupid. Then never look back.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/14 05:06 PM
34	Woman admits cheating to boyfriend, boyfriend "overreacts," white knight redditors provide sympathy I'm not gonna kick you while you're down, but I'm not comforting you either. You seem to know what you did and where you went wrong. I think it's a common misconception that TRP makes all women the "villian." You'll notice that the top comment is that the guy handled the situation very poorly. Shit, most women wouldn't have said anything and would be content with what they did. At least you told the guy. The best thing you can do is not contact him again. Take my word for it, he'll get drunk, he…	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/14 04:55 PM
12	Hubby chooses "female-led" marriage and now she's preggers with another man's kid Fake or not, this kind of shit makes me sick to my stomach. How can a guy be so chill about it? I get it, I understand they had an agreement. To each their own I guess. But I can't even begin to understand where this thought process comes from. Its right up there with allowing your wife/fiance's ex-boyfriend to move in with you. How was that even remotely acceptable? The lack of men sticking up for themselves against this type of behavior is soul-crushing.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/14 04:42 PM
6	Don't be blinded by beauty, some girls are just c***s hahaha Say what you will about me, but I find it weird that we want our girls to dress feminine/sexy/appropriate, but then some dudes expect to be able to wear whatever the fuck they want to a date? Up to and including a Star Wars jumper? And then guise it as "frame." Dear god, man. My shitty nerdy clothes are relegated to the rear of my closet to be wore when I'm alone or with friends. Look good for your girls. Hypocritical shit pisses me off more than some hamster shit. But good on you.	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/14 04:38 PM
1	An awakening. I can see the sun rising. I'm not an asshole, and I'm not trying to sound like one. But a good place to start is to stop pandering. You may not be, but that's what it comes off as. It's perceived as weak. And people (men and women) can smell that shit.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/14 07:30 PM
1	I want to cause intense drama between two chicks, for entertainment It seems like you have an inflated sense of your own importance to these girls. Remember, if they think you're playing games, there's a guy there that will fuck them. If all the sudden you're being cold to both of them, they'll know something's up. You claim you don't care about them and you're "over them." So what's the end game of pitting them against each other? You're using the tactics that they would use against you with another guy. Don't ignore them, but don't make them the center of your…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 01:42 PM
2	What does she want ? There's a good article on rational male that has the best advice on this subject. "The medium is the message." How she interacts with you is much more important than what she's saying. If she's pulling this "mixed signals" and hot/cold bullshit, it means she's half-and-half about you. She doesn't mind being around you, but doesn't feel anything sexual with you. If she wanted you, she'd do anything to be near you. Sorry, dude. Next her.	/r/askTRP	21/01/14 02:59 PM
5	A date asked me if I was gay. I've also been told I act too metrosexual. Insight/Advice? I've seen many people that I would consider metrosexual pull ass before. It's all about your frame. You say you have flamboyant hand gestures, so use that to your benefit. The most expressive story tellers use their hand and we can't help but be drawn into their story with them. It shows enthusiasm. Don't over do them, but use them to help. Also, maybe you shouldn't talk about fashion so much. That's a line that you probably shouldn't cross. The way you dress speaks for itself, and it says your …	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/14 09:20 PM
3	Girl's fiance tells her he still wants to have casual sex with other women. Angry comments. Well this dude fucked up from the get-go. She's asking this question as if he's never brought this up before, so I'm going to assume this is a new situation and they've never spoke about it before this. He should have been much more forthcoming in the early stages of a relationship if he expected her to be cool with this idea. If this is genuinely a new concept to her, his game better be in tip-fucking-top shape to make this transition to keep a fiance and bed other girls. Strong frame, and don'…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/14 09:07 PM
13	30yo guy posts in r/AskMen saying how he sees TRP confirmed all around him, but still isn't "that bitter" to accept it He'll see this thread then ignore it, but if he doesn't: Moving won't solve your problem, dude. Changing cities only to find out the women there won't date you either will be a pretty crappy slap in the face. Embrace your semi-successful lifestyle, find a worthwhile hobby, improve yourself, and put bitches to the side. It's clear that this nice guy routine isn't working for you. The red pill may be "bitter" at first, but it won't take long to get used to it. Once the initial film of anger/disapp…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/14 03:18 PM
2	Some serious redpill up in this thread. "I don't understand, why did my wife suddenly stop wanting sex after we married?" Think of it this way: If we follow the theory that men are the gatekeepers to commitment/relationships and women are the gatekeepers to sex, then she's successfully used sex to enter into a relationship. Women hope to grab a man up and lock him down. He's in the cell block now. His ass "belongs" to her. What she doesn't know is she was the architect of her own demise. Locking up a man kills everything he has, because he's devoted himself to her and her needs. This does two things: 1.)She has wha…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 02:57 PM
1	List of Inspirational Men Steve McQueen was a bad ass and in some respects still remains a pinnacle of achievement for men everywhere. I can't deify the guy though. He had a history of being abusive towards his wives. Not many reasons to raise a fist to a girl. Can't argue with his movies though. Dude knew how to dress, act, and drive. Live by the good stuff he stood for and discard the rest.	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 02:35 PM
3	Thoughts on sexual objectification in the media. I agree that men are objectified in the media just like women are. I don't think anyone will argue that women aren't objectified, it's just not negative objectification the way hardcore feminists would argue it is. I don't think men are objectified in the same format as women are. Where we see sexy, hot-as-fuck females on commercials, we don't really have an equivalent for males. Male objectification takes place in movies. Creating superheroes and alpha (which, in most cases are actually really …	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 02:23 PM
8	This is a reminder to never let your happiness rely on a woman. This whole goddamn thread is painful to read, all of them are men and still people won't accept TRP I completely agree. I had a FWB that didn't end horribly, but it didn't end on a positive note either. She wanted more than I could offer, so we parted ways abruptly. No fights, no yelling, no texts. Just stopped talking for a few weeks. She was cool as shit and I didn't mind having her in my life, I just couldn't give her the relationship she wanted. I gave her a few weeks then tried contacting her to see how she's been, etc. Nothing. Didn't answer. So I thought, "eh, oh well" and left it at th…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 02:00 PM
3	White knighting as a sexual strategy Someone (I don't remember who, sorry) said in the comments of another thread that White Knighting is justified only by the intentions of the white knight. If he's doing it to supplicate, then I believe that no, it's not a good strategy and will almost never work as a sexual strategy. Girls can smell bullshit. If a girl says or does something that she knows in the back of their mind is a huge shit test, then a white knight comes along to defend that shit test, she may be grateful for the defense,…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 01:16 PM
25	This is a reminder to never let your happiness rely on a woman. This whole goddamn thread is painful to read, all of them are men and still people won't accept TRP The human mind is exceptionally good at rationalizing bad habits. It's just as good at romanticizing terrible situations. My very first LTR lasted just over a year and holy shit, that was too long. If I look back, it's very easy to remember the good stuff like the sex but hard to remember the emotional torture she tried to push on me. My mind, still to this day, pushes the horrible shit to the back. It's been over 8 years since that relationship ended, but it's really easy to remember what was g…	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/14 01:04 PM
14	Has TRP changed your goals in life? TRP didn't change my goals. TRP helped pull everything into focus. You see the blurs in your peripheral vision, the things that aren't quite right but you know they're there. You take the Red Pill and it makes everything clearer. The goals were in my peripheral vision. They're there, but they're not focused. TRP gives me that push to chase the dream. In fact, I use the advice about improving myself far more than I use any advice on picking up women. Now, women become attached to me through my ow…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 08:18 PM