mellowmaiellis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Talking bad about my ex's fiancé		mellowmaiellis	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/16 05:44 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do you wish her happy birthday? No	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 05:55 PM
1	Where to move after divorce Working on moving back to NYC after living in Vermont for the last 22 years. 22 years and 2 divorces 😬 Excited to start fresh back where I belong.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/24 10:55 PM
3	How does 50-50 work? Have done 50-50 tha past 10 years. Initially it was hard but eventually you just accept it and it is what it is. Honestly now that my kids are bigger it’s kind of nice; helps that I get along well with my ex.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:26 PM
3	Why are you guys seriously dating shortly after divorce? I did this. Getting divorced now 10 years later 🙃	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/24 07:25 PM
1	We are getting Divorced (wall of text inbound) Hey man. All I can say is learn from your mistakes and try not to make them in your next relationship. I know its hard not to lash out in anger, but trust me in a year from now if you play it cool and dont fly off the handle, you'll look back and be proud that you were able to move on like an adult. Good luck man. My favorite uncle was in the air force, so Ive always had a soft spot for you guys. it gets better. hold your head up bud.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/18 04:30 AM
2	Pure hatred... that happened to me. girlfriend resented all the time i gave to my kids when I had them. Shes not my girlfriend anymore ;-)	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/18 08:58 PM
2	Pure hatred... yes it goes away. Same thing happened to me (5 years ago this august, left me on my birthday!) I got through it, it fucking sucked and I thought I was going to die. We have 50/50 (my kids mean everything to me) and my ex and I get along great now. I think back to when we were married and shudder. Time man, everything takes time (sorry i know thats not what you want to hear)	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/18 08:54 PM
1	Wife Leaving Friday Its just temporary relief (like booze, weed, etc...) and just prolongs the pain. As hard as it sounds try to keep your pecker dry ;-)	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/18 06:03 PM
2	Asking for advice with children Good luck man, I hope it works out. You sound like a great Dad.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/18 02:44 PM
5	How do you deal with less time with kids? 50/50 Dad checking in (from Vermont too!) It gets better. Will still hurt when they're not around but it makes the time you do have with them that much more special. Treat yourself, make yourself a priority and try to stay sober. Im 4 years out. Its still hard, but not as hard as it was. Good Luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/17 08:45 PM