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My thoughts exactly 😉
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 09:59 PM
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No current :-) (tho I can understand how my wording might’ve given that impression!) I’m on an extended nun mode bc I don’t want to date during the pandemic and my country is still mostly in lockdown
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 11:11 PM
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Before my last relationship I wasn’t RP, so it was after I met him
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 06:56 PM
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I did, yeah! They saw me in my crazy and very cringe-worthy pre-RP days, so they’ve seen the whole metamorphosis
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 04:31 AM
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I’ve been semi-open with my friends about my perspective the longer I’ve been RP-ed, so many of them let me talk about how/what has changed. I think they kind of dismiss it as being old fashioned but they just let me do my thing lol For me its never giving unsolicited advice and always phrasing things like “personally I would do __” or “with my partner, we do __.” Then people don’t take it as personally and if it resonates they’ll let you know But number one is that if people see you having succ…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 01:52 AM
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Lead by example because in my experience most young women don’t want your advice. Me and nearly all my friends are women in our mid-20s. While I’ve been increasingly practicing RPW, my friends are still wondering why men won’t commit to them and are growing increasingly bitter and confused. They are lost but anytime I try to give them advice they get very affronted and claim that I’m being “old school” and “backwards.” I wish I could help them, but in the meantime I’m just putting on my own oxyg…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 04:58 PM
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I don’t think this is something most men are going to complain about (especially because lots of men prefer smaller mouths rather than some kind of freakish Kylie Jenner or Julia Roberts look), as long as you make up for it with enthusiasm and technique. Use you hands, lots of spit, and give lots of attention with your tongue. And when in doubt- research!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 03:44 PM
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I do shop from them, but only for very specific items as much of there stuff is quite revealing, and often too trendy (I prefer to buy things that’ll last more than one season). As someone with a small waist and wider hips it can be really hard to find jeans that aren’t too loose or too tight in one of those areas. Their items tend to be tailored towards women with those proportions, plus they’re fairly affordable. I’ve also bought some basics (sweaters, tank tops) from them before, as well as s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:41 PM
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Totally obsessed with perfume despite not currently having the budget for it. I’ve consistently used Daisy by Marc Jacobs and tons of guys have complimented me on it, Chance or Mademoiselle by Chanel are also amazing. For some a little less girly the Jo Malone ones are really good too
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 04:34 AM
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Keeping your feet polished! For lack of a better word haha I used to get pedicures semi-regularly, but since quarantine they’ve all been closed! So it’s even more important to be using a pumice stone or a scrubber of some kind to keep them soft. I also think that even an at-home pedicure with a cute colour makes a huge difference. The feet look more delicate and taken care of, plus it super important to be getting out any gunk that’s under the nails
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 03:27 PM
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Seconded! I can’t ever go back to manual, my teeth feel soooo much cleaner
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 03:23 PM
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Thank you for this! I’ve felt really discouraged as of late about being 24 and recently single again, but this is super encouraging as a way to approach dating in your mid to late 20s. I do feel like the lessons of my early 20s were hard won, and I’m feeling that sometime soon I’ll be ready to start dating again in a way that is mature, intentional, and meaningful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 03:01 PM
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I’ve lost 10 lbs since quarantine started (yay) but I really wanna speed things up and lose another 5 in the next month! This will bring me back down to 129 lbs. I started learning how to play ukulele this month after finding an old one in my basement and I want to learn how to play another 3 songs all the way through.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 04:50 PM
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Luckily he’s already in really good shape and he dresses quite well for a young guy so he’s starting off from a good spot
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/20 04:09 AM
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In their case, not for a while. They’ve been in different cities since January (he’s on co-op for school). Originally he should’ve been back by April, but because of COVID and wouldn’t be able to come back until at the earliest July because he’s staying with our father about 15 hours away. So it would be 6+ of no in-person contact.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 09:31 PM
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She did. From what he’s said, she felt it was unfair to neglect him because of work. And since she can’t quit the job, guess she’s quitting him
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 04:37 PM
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Just out of interest- what makes you think I broke up with him? And yes, I do acknowledge that’s most likely the truth. I can’t say right now that I’ll be happy to see him be with someone else, but in the long run he’s a great person who really deserves to be happy, regardless of if that’s with me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 01:35 AM
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Thanks for your insight! You're definitely right that there is a whole lot of nothing to say, but after months of bated breath I felt like sharing it's conclusion, I guess. You're take on padding the story and my current confusion has given me something to think about too, so once again thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 09:39 PM
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Thank you so much, and I think what you said about that feeling of frustrated is really insightful. Best of luck with your partner also!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 09:07 PM
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I agree completely, and quite honestly I think the shocks of the back and forth made me act in way I’m not proud of. As I sometimes have a hard time id-ing hamstering in myself- do you have insights on where you see it reflected most in here?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 06:47 PM
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xoxobenji Agreed. While my feelings are the same, I don't really feel like talking to him right now so that's not going to be a problem. I'm just gonna go back to quarantine routine and spend a bit more time video calling friends to distract myself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 05:46 PM
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Yup! It is the same thing. Under wiki/sidebar, scroll down to link entitled “Everything you need to know about RPW”, you’ll find the article “”Overcoming addiction to attention”
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 09:03 PM
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No apology needed! The sidebar gives a great primer to RPW, and might help a lot with what you’re feeling right now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 04:22 AM
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Read the sidebar. There’s a section on social media
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/20 04:16 AM
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Lol, seriously. It would be bad enough if we lived down the street from each other, but showing up in another city on his doorstep. That would freak me out
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 05:53 PM
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No and no. I guess I’m just worried he won’t take my call, being rp-ed and all, they always just say to ignore calls and messages from exes
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 12:55 PM
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Yeah, I kept it vague because otherwise I’m gonna write a novella for y’all about my whole relationship. But to answer some points: -the other reason in my mind, which came up around the same time because of my birthday being around that, is that because of cultural/family differences he doesn’t really get why I place so much importance on celebrating them and it ends up hurting my feelings a lot. I have regrets about my behaviour around that now though. But no, I don’t think there was issues wi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 06:22 PM
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I’m not sure exactly. I guess up until the point I can still honestly say I respect myself. I won’t be with someone whose version of submission means eliminating or diminishing me as my own person
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 12:58 AM
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Do you have any suggestions as to how to do this effectively? I don’t wanna come across as pressuring or needy
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 12:42 AM
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I appreciate hearing a guy’s perspective on this too, so thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 10:51 PM
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This is my major concern also. Part of that is hurtful because it makes me think that he really doesn’t know me as I am now if he thinks that, and secondly, he doesn’t know how much I care about him. I couldn’t even imagine being with anyone else right now, like I’m still at the point where if someone asks me if I have a boyfriend I say “yes” just by reflex..
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 09:26 PM
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Sorry to hear it. Know from experience it sucks
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 09:24 PM
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Thanks for your honest reply! Yeah, if I do reach out, I guess it’s just a risk I have to take
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 09:24 PM
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Yeah, you gotta try and get used to, but more importantly ENJOY, making eye contact. Trust me when I say, no guy will think you look weird during oral if you’re enjoying it. The big-eyed look turns the majority of guys on! Not the other way around What men want during sex is intimacy and vulnerability. Eye contact = intimacy, it shows you’re connecting, you’re open while you’re pleasing him. A certain amount of closed eyes is fine, because it looks like you’re really into what’s happening, but a…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 10:10 PM
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Too true. While I’m not very involved in my faith, I think those influences similar to what Jung describes are still very much part of my upbringing and current outlook. I eschew chemical options (probably because I don’t need any) for exercise, good diet, social activity, and volunteering.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 09:57 PM
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I’m not currently very active in my faith, although this is something I am considering changing. But also, Reformist Judaism (that’s me and my family) is not much better in terms of leftist leanings.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 09:48 PM
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Thanks for the advice! :) I’m glad that this did cross my mind before he moved away. I feel that our communication in certain areas did have to improve for this to go as smoothly as it has thus far
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 05:32 AM
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Thanks for that, I definitely agree! While the time apart is hard, it’s giving a great opportunity to spend quality time with friends before I move ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/19 04:43 PM
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Yeah, I agree that if you’re doing a job where it’s not practical, it’s not a particularly good investment. Maybe just a nice treat once in a while instead of all the time! :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 12:33 AM
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I haven’t found that it’s screwed my nails up all that much as long as I don’t peel it off, that’s what does the major damage. More so doing acrylic is what caused my nails to be paper thin. You should also try to use a cuticle oil and moisturizer your hands to combat them drying out if you’re worried about it too. I work in a job where I use my hands a lot, and I do sometimes pick at my nails. I find that the cost of it dissuades me from picking/biting and I try to be better about taking care o…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 08:14 PM
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My mother was always a huge proponent of having your nails done. Both because it’s a small bit of luxury you get every couple of weeks, and because to her, no professional woman should have un-manicured nails. I found a local salon I go to every 2.5-3 weeks, always do shellac so it holds up well and stays shiny. I like getting something clean that goes with everything- often French manicure or a neutral colour. You’ll notice that getting your nails done makes your overall appearance more refined…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 01:58 PM
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-Myself was a typo, should have said himself like you said -As I mentioned to someone else, me staying there 5 nights a week isn’t a me overstepping thing. Since we’ve been together it’s him who asks me over that many times, I’m not inviting myself over -and thanks! I like your approach.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 03:35 PM
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I never thought of it like that but you’re right I think. He hasn’t had a place of his own (ie, without roommates) for about 2 years now...
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 01:10 AM
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Thank you for the advice! Though in terms of being there 5 nights a week, it’s at his invitation
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 11:42 PM
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Agreed. I don’t think it’s very likely that we’d move in together, it was more an example. We’ve both expressed that until we’re further down the road, we’ll live apart
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 02:26 PM
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Early twenties, mid twenties for him. Put briefly, I want to and plan to have kids one day. I have siblings so I know I’ll want more than one While I think marriage is something I would want in the future, I’m not very rigid on what that has to look like (ie, I don’t particularly care about spending a ton of money on a wedding). For me, it’s more a symbol of commitment
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 04:40 AM
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I didn’t want kids at 15 either. And part of that is because, well, you’re still a kid yourself. It’s hard to imagine enjoying the elements of parenthood that seem in your teens to be drawbacks. But over time, negatives increasingly look like positives to a lot of people. Some people never change their mind though. That’s why as you get older, wanting/not wanting kids can be a dealbreaker
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 07:32 PM
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Thanks for the heads up! I figured bc several posts from ig “meme” accounts also had usernames uncensored it would be fine. Might just repost tho
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 03:11 PM
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Brussel sprouts would definitely work just as well (more in season so they might be cheaper too...) If you do go with them, my personal suggestion would be keep the Julia Child recipe for it, but consider finishing them off with grated Parmesan (which you can buy to save time), they nicely balance out that kind of bitterness people sometimes dislike in the sprouts :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:48 AM
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This is just me, but I’d add a pop of colour to that menu. Something that’s easy to do quickly and doesn’t require much cooking/can be planned ahead. This will really stand out to your guests, and a well done veg brings meal together and impresses with simplicity! My go-to for that is green beans I follow from my grandma’s old Julia Child copy. You can blanch the beans ahead of time (the day before), then on the day of its about a minute of pan fry and they’re done. The recipe is called haricot …
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 12:54 AM
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But if I just decline, doesn’t that skirt around the ultimate issue? I feel like if I don’t express myself and draw a line in the sand this will only come up again at some other point...
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 08:44 PM
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