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29M here, IMO, save the hand-holding for a later stage in the dating course or relationship-type things. In todays age I think that is considered fairly intimate. Touching and sustaining a level of the physical attraction is necessary, but that feels a little to far for me. Things more like hand on the small of the back, brief hand touching, the leg touching is fine. But the purpose is to express you're interested in a sexual/physical level but not oversell it. I wouldn't worry about it. You're …
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:17 PM
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Every military chick I had ever dated/picked up on got around a bit more so than the average civilian chicks I have had in my life. I dont even blame them, they have high levels of temptation constantly, being the minority sex at the work place, where every single dude is basically in his sexual prime and hemorrhaging testosterone. The thirst is so crazy and these women have all the power to pick and choose who they want, the competition is insane. Yeah, you're risking alot, if any drama is caus…
/r/seduction15/06/21 07:41 AM
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Hes not over thinking anything, there are serious reprecussions for dating or pursuing the wrong person in the military. It's a totally different scenario than civilian life.
/r/seduction15/06/21 07:32 AM
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Was in the army too, a long time ago. 2011. IMO it's best if you dont pursue a woman in you're own company, as the possible levels of drama are insane, and even fraternization issues could arise later. To be even more Frank, this is a generalization and obviously wont apply 100% of the time, but man... females in the military are pretty damn promiscuous, and I think there is a good chance you're going to end up getting hurt here long term, unless this is just strictly a hook-up situation. Find a…
/r/seduction15/06/21 07:20 AM
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if this wasn't any truer. Do what you want to do. Whether you have company or not is irrelevant. There is no reason what-so-ever why a person cant enjoy their leisure's solo or accompanied. On the note of game, yeah... when you go out solo, you should be going out for another reason than trying to pick-up. Go to play pool, darts, karaoke, bowling, reading (alone), etc. You have to be there for a reason, not just to get laid, as another user said, its obvious if you go there with that intention. …
/r/seduction11/12/19 11:28 AM
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i mean i only started getting back into this a few months ago. I have approached maybe 30 total? 3 lead to one-night-stands. got a few numbers after that but the very vast majority would shrug me off.
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:45 AM
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Appreciate your $.02.. Maybe i'm on a lucky streak, and i just started recently but at the very max i would say i have approached 30 women? maybe. 3 of them lead to one-night-stands the same day, then got maybe another 6-8 numbers. So i guess im shooting pretty good at the moment. lets also take into consideration these woman range from like a 5-8 scale out of ten (personal attraction). Im not out here aiming at 3's or 9/10's lol
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:41 AM
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Ill keep this in mind, im not a noob at this at all. I guess i just think about it this way to have an easier way to shrug off rejection, which i guess im beyond that part of it all, rejection is part of the game IMO. Youre right though here, im going to try to go in even more confident and see if it helps. Im probably closing at a rate of 25% right now ending in sex. Of that 25, only half of it leads to sex in the same night, the other half numbers, or contacts where sex is still an option.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:46 AM
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I go into every approach expecting to get shot down or for it to fail. I actually when I'm out with my friends say to them before I go for an approach "alright you ready to laugh? watch me blow it right now". I have had quite a few successes though, so maybe that's what keeps me going. Having an understanding that attraction is so complicated, and you aren't going to be able to charm and seduce everyone, I guess unless you're a model or something.
/r/seduction20/11/19 11:05 PM
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Saturday night I had a Latina woman insist on me choking her. I obliged, but she kept begging for a firmer grip until I felt like I was going to kill her. This is also all the while I'm raw inside her while on her period. Pretty crazy one for me.
/r/seduction19/11/19 01:16 AM
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27 Man. 28 in feb.
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:12 AM
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Definitely a fine line. I will only continue with it if they welcome it. If they look uncomfortable dont. And obviously dont go too far in more intimate places. The small of the back is a tricky one.
/r/seduction17/10/19 09:36 PM
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I am white, but look Hispanic. She thought I was Mexican she said. So maybe a half cheat.
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:41 PM
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After we locked eyes for like a 3rd time. I smiled widely. Held the stare, and walked straight up to where she was sitting and then just asked her name. I shook her hand, then made any conversation I could. I think just like where she was from, what she does, her interests, places she traveled, w/ compliments in between. I felt like it wasnt more about what I said, but the way I said it. I constantly tried to be light hearted and touched her arm, hand, or waist at anything even remotely humorous…
/r/seduction17/10/19 05:01 PM
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I agree with this. I feel like there is less social pressure, you appear independent flying solo, gives off a vibe like you live your life however the fuck you want, and don't need company at all times. Plus less intimidation with having to mix groups or anything like that.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:48 PM
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She appeared to have had maybe a drink. I had like 3 total because after I was going to stop at 2 beers, the group ordered me a fireball lol. But I was 2 deep when I went for it. I can hold my alcohol very well even when drunk I'm not sloppy.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:42 PM
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My friends dad is 60. Been single for atleast a decade. He takes care of himself, hes in better shape than me and I'm 27. He keeps his place really clean and lives alone. I asked him over a whiskey if he had a girlfriend or if he wants one, he was so taken a back. He said "no way, I just want to fuck around here and there". Lol a true mgtow.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 03:31 AM
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I found out my ex of 3 years was cheating on me 15 minutes after we watched this movie together last month. We even laughed together about how the hippy girl was a slut in it during the drive scene with Brad Pitt. Maybe it was a sign. I need to be Brad Pitt.
/r/MGTOW29/08/19 08:58 PM
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I agree. I'm cutting down right now. Going to ease my way out of it instead of just stopping Cold Turkey, I think that would be too much stress on top of this heartbreak at the moment.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 05:45 AM
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Yeah. But its halted now. Have to start working again.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 04:16 AM
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Thanks for the wise words. Only direction from here is up I suppose.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 04:16 AM
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Thanks for the kick in the ass. Yeah I'm an alcoholic of sorts. Not extreme but since the military I generally have drinks daily (not getting drunk) but buzzed to a degree. I wasnt working just living off the GI Bill, and going to school for business finance which I'm not even entirely sure is my dream anymore. Yeah the difference I guess with the friends thing was that she always wanted to get with me, but I was in different relationships or just not interested. The more I look back on it, I pr…
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 04:13 AM
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Hit the nail on the head, with that last part.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 03:28 AM
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Mostly laziness. My income off of the GI Bill was sufficient to pay for our home, Bill's, and leisure. I did try to work 2 years ago at a job starting 30/hr. Unfortunately trying to balance school, my mental health, and other stuff was way too much all at once. Wasn't sleeping at all for like a week and it put me into a place to have leave it.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 03:26 AM
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Yeah I have been told that. I feel like when I actually look into it though, it feels very anarchist or extreme. I don't know lol.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 03:21 AM
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I would be lieing if I told you being cuddled by a woman during a nap after some sex isn't one of the best feelings on the planet. Unfortunately it's so good, that when the bitch inevitably screws you over, the lower low is stronger than that higher high. You never know what will happen, but If you live for yourself as a man, and do everything for yourself only, a woman will never have power over you. Its not that we don't enjoy women, it's that they should be an ornament in your life, and not t…
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 02:54 AM
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Yeah I always liked that one. I think my heart died a long time ago honestly. My ability to express empathy is very poor unless it's an absolute catastrophe in some ones life. I always felt like everyone whines way to much over trivial shit.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 02:47 AM
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Yeah we been in no contact for 5 days now. Nothing good was coming from continuing to converse. I'm at about 3 drinks a day right now. I have been drinking daily though for years now. My goal would be to get it down to 1 drink or less. Was thinking about signing up for the gym as a first step but I'm like kind of skinny fat (5'8" 157lbs) so I think I might take some photos and post them on /r/bulkorcut to see what they recommend.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 02:39 AM
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Fiscally conservative, Socially Liberal here. I think alot of the men here were screwed by a woman in some way, and can kind of rightfully blame society, and this modern landscape of values on women's behavior today. Alot of us were probably raised to believe that women are of nurture, kindness, and the staple to hold together a home. Now that those values aren't relevant anymore in reality, it has opened the doors for rampant betrayal, deceit, and manipulation from them.
/r/MGTOW28/08/19 02:35 AM
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Attempt to call her I'm the evening not text.
/r/seduction27/11/17 06:37 AM
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I think she doesn't want to keep giving herself to me without me committing to a relationship but it's only been a couple weeks of dating.
/r/seduction21/04/16 05:33 PM
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50% is still alot of women in the big scheme of things. If a woman doesn't like you over something you can't change , then fuck em'.
/r/seduction26/01/16 08:03 AM
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Only go for the shorter ones, or wear cloths that boost height, boots, tighter fitting clothes. Don't make your height a big deal and most women wont.
/r/seduction26/01/16 07:44 AM
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Lol I don't mean to sound unbecoming but honestly a woman could literally just say 'come to my house the doors unlocked I'll be in bed naked.' The majority of men would take you up on that offer. All you would have to do is type one sentence lol.
/r/seduction05/09/15 04:26 AM
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Lmao this isn't news to anyone, dating apps are just full of thirsty dudes. I think for a woman to stay humble and not let it get to her head would be a whole new story.. kind of ridiculous that any woman can make a profile on there and get laid instantly with literally 0 effort.
/r/seduction04/09/15 04:20 PM
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Shit tests, trys to provoke jelousy, or if she's trying to play the game harder then I am. I don't have the emotional patience nor stability to ensue a prolonged chase of a woman. Gotta be honest with myself I guess.
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:40 AM
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Lol, I took 2 separate women to burlesque shows on a first date. We had fun and they complimented the date idea. Got laid both times and ended up seeing each for a few months after.
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:09 PM
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Good stuff, the game stuff though is unattractive. I think the spontaneity thing is the most important, as far as constantly playing this little game of push and pull and giving subtle hints will only fly for a little bit. I find that women appreciate a strong man who can make decisions about what he wants more desirable than some boy who is fickle as all hell.
/r/seduction31/12/14 02:38 PM
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Ive only had a couple one night stands, and frankly it was more me that wasnt into them. Seduction and game isnt about just getting laid in the shortest ammount of time. Its about excercising your body language and brain to become a more personable, and overall attractive person. I firmly believe the goal is to form relationships and build a broader social circle. In my experience I have less respect for the women I can bang within 5 hours, they as well for me. Women like the thrill of the chase…
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:51 PM
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Tinder, friend of mine has had them lined up so he got it friday, saturday, and sunday... all solid 4s or 5s. Its really to easy.. he enjoys it but its not my forte, Ide prefere sex with feelings. That sounds real feminine coming from a dude. Have fun, make sure to wear a rubber with those random online chicks.
/r/seduction16/10/14 03:58 AM
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Why is this deleted I would like answers
/r/seduction06/09/14 04:02 PM
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This. 100% agree
/r/seduction04/09/14 11:49 AM
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Its a difficult task for an alcoholic. Do you recommend me anywhere to read up on 'day game'?
/r/seduction29/08/14 09:34 PM
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I doubt that anyone ever said 'the buffet food was amazing'.
/r/seduction29/07/14 08:45 AM
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I notice this being in the military all the time. I however strongly believe that it does actually come down to the level of intelligence and confidence. Especially when everyone is competing to establish the highest position of authority. By-standers will not listen to the loudest retard, but rather the person who uses their words the best.
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:01 PM
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weird username.
/r/seduction21/04/14 11:19 AM
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well i guess what really works for me doesnt for others
/r/seduction21/04/14 10:57 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:01 AM
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