first and foremost, 'All is fair in love and war' I've been a long time lurker on here and have been taking in what seemed important, and shrugging off what didnt. I'm normally a very humble and modest person, i feel that these are good traits but they wont win you over with the women. I went out, bought some fashionable, professional cloths, a few watch's, some suits, new pea coat, and some nice dress shoes. Needless to say, its important to just act like you are the best thing that has ever happened to them, with the hot ones even more so. Everything is about confidence, flaunt your personality, slow down your speech, look at their lips frequently, touch whenever reasonably possible, and dance, dance i said!