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| 134 | ‘I broke up with her, she’s moved on with her life, now I want her back’- NEGATIVE VALUE MALE | MALE DEPRAVITY | merigoround1996 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 122 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with her | MALE DEPRAVITY | merigoround1996 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:11 AM |
| 120 | To the woman who recently went on a date with a man and shared her reddit with him: | DUMP HIS ASS | merigoround1996 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 6 | I want to have as much confidence as this NVM 😩😂 | SCROTES MAD | merigoround1996 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Is there such thing as a right person, wrong time? | SEEKING ADVICE | merigoround1996 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 05:35 PM |
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| 1 | QueenRead what you wrote one more time and then come back. In what way is the man making himself a victim? He’s clearly had conversations with his partner about not wanting children, and she’s pulling a fast one in him. This is bullshit behavior on the woman’s part and absolutely NOT queen behavior or anything that we should be promoting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Mother throws herself in front of Pastor who raped TWO of her daughters to keep him from being arrested. Unchecked PickMeism and Unquestioned Male Power creates societal sickness.This isn in the states. There’s not a lot of CPSs going on in Africa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend of three years still refuses to give me his passcode to his phone. Is this a red flag?I wholeheartedly agree with you! I don’t understand this whole push for the dudes passwords, I’m also BIG on privacy and would never give my partner my passwords for my phone or anything else. It doesn’t mean I’m cheating or hiding something, but conversations I’m having with friends and family are expected to just be between myself and them, not privy to anyone else’s eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 5 | How Can I Phrase my Job Quit to Prospective EmployersIf a company cares that much about your past, they might not be the best anyways. You want a company that wants to focus on your future with them. Same principle applies to men :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 45 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐Men really don’t know when to call it a day 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 9 | How Can I Phrase my Job Quit to Prospective EmployersI haven’t worked nearly as long as you, but last time I quite a job because of how they were treating me, I let the recruiter know it was time for me to find something new and that I felt like I wasn’t learning anything anymore and there’s nothing worse than feeling stagnant at work. In all honestly, most companies don’t really care why you left as long as there was no scandal. Stick to your story about wanting something new, it’s still believable even in a pandemic thanks to the toll it’s takin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 184 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐What I’m reading is: I have a porn addiction and want to make sleeping which someone young enough to be my daughter a reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Nah girl VENT. I’m just giving you my 2 cents since I’ve been there with roommates and let me tell you hurt hurt roommates is NOT a fun thing to deal with! Hopefully they’ll see and hear how you conduct yourself and be interested in leveling up themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜You’re a woman OP, even other woman think you don’t know what you’re doing thanks to generations of self inflicted misogyny. Deflect and remember that the only advice you need to listen to is your own common sense and what you actively seek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I wouldn’t talk to them about how you feel towards them or making any sweeping remarks similar to what you posted here. i.e. ‘I thought people would be more mature at this age, I would never have casual sex or ask a dude out’ etc etc. These types of comments can honestly destroy your relationship with them, even if it’s just a civil one. If they ask you about YOUR dating life by all means feel free to talk to them about it, but don’t interject how you feel OP. You’re in a really weird position s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:59 AM |
| 62 | "If you're old enough to assert your power, you're old enough for a man to attempt to take your power away."Question: why do we cover the men’s social media handles? Why do they get to hide behind anonymity? Fuck it, let us see who these SOBs are, they literally do NOT deserve the safety of us hiding them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 13 | Sorry!!!! (Not) guy was so damn thirsty.YoU WeRe ClEaRlY LeAdInG hIm On Op- every entitled man child ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryEw the pickme is showing..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:45 PM |
| 30 | Dee Devlin - the ultimate pick me?She was enjoying the lavish lifestyle he was giving her. Some people are disillusioned by the money a LVM offers them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | A pickmeisha in her natural habitat. This just ain’t it...Self hate combined with a pickme, what a tragic mix :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 22 | A pickmeisha in her natural habitat. This just ain’t it...What does she think is gonna happen meow? Some dude is gonna progress his buying love for her. She drops the hint that she isn’t into livery, so she’ll be cheap to please, she thinks other women over over confident, highlighting her own low self esteem and mentions being raised by a white mom as if that’s the only way to be quite and reserved( this part makes me kind of angry, IDK sounds like it has racial undertones, like it’s completely unnecessary to mention her mom is white) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 17 | I have no words lolI’m not trying to income shame but whole fuck on what planet is 50k high income for a 38 year old?! Like genuinely if this is in the states that below the poverty line for a LOT of cities. The fact that he doesn’t even want to contribute makes me so sad for her like wtf is up with him?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 25 | I Need HelpSee a therapist to unpack all of this shit OP. This sub is great but they aren’t professionals either. You spent 12 years of your life with this man, 1 year isn’t going to erase it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:32 AM |
| 11 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.HV does NOT mean you have to look a certain way OP. Everything you mentioned in your post screams to me that you are a HVW. You chose to be a single mom for the safety of your children, that is HV. You don’t have a relationship with your partners because of who they are as people( toxic and clearly detrimental to your children) that is HV. You are making the right decisions for your well-being by being on medication for your depression instead of blaming it on the world, that is HV. Please under… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 5 | I think I am dating a NARCISSIST ... am I? Here are my red flagsIf you have to ask if he’s bad, odds are HES BAD. Trust your gut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Please share some personal, real examples of HVM treatment and behaviours ❤️There are men out there like this! Only reason I found this one is through FDS to be completely honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Hey Queens, I'd appreciate any advice on how to maintain these levels (athough, I wouldn't move in before marriage). Stay safe ❤️Oh I totally agree that it’s too much time energy, but I think it changes the perspective a tad bit when you realize it’s emotional energy and not time :) I think if you’re looking at a relationship with a man, you have to consider other places that your emotional energy is also going. So no one person really gets 100% of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Please share some personal, real examples of HVM treatment and behaviours ❤️Cooked me a fantastic dinner full of things I had offhandedly mentioned I enjoyed in the past, got 3 of my favorite wines, had a warm shower ready for me (long day at work and the gym) and gave me the BEST massage after dinner. All completely unprompted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:40 PM |
| 4 | How to handle this situation?100% agree. New guy is already lying to you 4 months in OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:28 PM |
| 8 | Hey Queens, I'd appreciate any advice on how to maintain these levels (athough, I wouldn't move in before marriage). Stay safe ❤️Pretty sure this is emotional and not time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 7 | Don't marry the first freakin' guy who gives you attention. NSFW due to strong opinion.While I agree on the level up concept you mention, FDS has never been about berating women for doing what they have to in order to improve their own lives ESPECIALLY when you’re only source of their perceived unhappiness is what you’re seeing on social media. Don’t feed your own narrative down their throats. And it 100% is a LUXERY. Just because you haven’t experienced this mindset as a luxury does not invalidated the countless women who know it as such. Don’t look down on a woman who did what s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 19 | Don't marry the first freakin' guy who gives you attention. NSFW due to strong opinion.Okay so the first two sound like they are marrying based on their desire to fix their financial circumstances, I don’t think anyone can judge that. And to be honest the women are also benefiting financially which is what they probably were after form they jump. I agree that you should marry a man who worships the ground you walk on but there are a lot of women who don’t have that luxury thanks to family/cultural obligations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 52 | Daisy Coleman, a sexual assault victim advocate and subject of the Netflix documentary Audrie & Daisy, has taken her own life, according to her mother.💔What’s even more infuriating is they keep saying allegedly in the article. Like what do we need to do to prove we’ve been raped?!!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:11 AM |
| 38 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Hinge. Trash men are everywhere and on every app, but I have found some really awesome guys on there in the past | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 12 | DeadBedrooms Man Marries, Has Kids With A Woman He Is Not Remotely Attracted To.Some have the balls to ask if it’s something SHE can change and then say: iM nOt BlAmInG hEr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 14 | How do I deal with not being sexually compatible with most men?There are people who feel the same. You have to find someone whose values regarding the importance of sex match yours exactly. No one is saying it’ll be easy, but it’s not impossible or out of the question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 21 | The age gap on this relationship is 47 years!It’s not. It’s a tick tick trend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Thomas had never seen such bullshit beforeOkay I totally agree with everything you said but I also realllllllly didn’t Liem aparna on Indian match maker. There was something about her that rubbed me the wrong way. She didn’t settle and knew her worth so I’ll give her that, but my GOD was she annoying af!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Part 2: For sh*ts and giggles, what's your HVM zodiac sign?I just looked at it! I don’t see the negative traits mainly associated with cancers in this man, and It’s been over a year. But you never know!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 12 | Part 2: For sh*ts and giggles, what's your HVM zodiac sign?Cancer. Overall a wonderful man and very in tune with his emotions. Generous with his time, laughter and money. Overall a very mature individual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Your work is so beautiful! How long have you been doing these?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 10 | Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories.Okay to your first point. You can be Muslim conservative from Egypt and write that way. In fact a vast majority of Muslims are conservative.... and English is taught all over Egypt so it’s not that far fetched to assume that he can speak and write English well. He’s a monster either way but I would like to shut down the narrative that you can’t be from another country and be absolutely fluent in English. It can be very insensitive and makes you look ignorant af Source: ex Muslim from North Afric… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:36 PM |
| 16 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Paid half for dates. Begged an ex to actually give me attention when he didn’t have a job or priorities to take him away from me in the first place. Try to please an ex’s parents by saying what they wanted to hear (spoiler alert, they hated me). Giving me the benefit of the doubt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 7 | How to explain that he should pay?You don’t tell them. It’s assumed they will pay. Don’t take your card out or even act like you’re interested in paying OP. If you don’t get a second date, good riddance to a cheapskate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 20 | Staying friends with exs - what's the point?Your relationship has ran it’s course and it impedes your ability to move on if that person is a constant in your life. Why is there such an obsession with ‘doing right’ by an ex and staying amicable? You owe then no more of your time, and that includes thinking of them in a friendly manner. The proper thing to do is nope the fuck out and treat them like you would a stranger; with absolute indifference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:40 AM |
| 3 | What is the right gesture of sympathy in early stages of dating?I would actually say send them to him! I think it would be too much to send hem to the funeral but you sound like the kind of person who is doing this just because you’re a kind and generous individual:) no way you’ll regret bringing some light into the world OP!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:33 AM |
| 86 | Every time you feel like a regretful idiot for keeping NV/LV mates and friends in your life for too long, remember that Beyoncé is still married to Jay-Z‘wE dOnT kNoW wHaT gOeS oN bEhInD cLoSeD dOoRs’ -every scrote and pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 10 | Sicko of the day award goes to Randy (: Why cant you be 10x younger???That’s honestly so obnoxious. If you set your parameters, that should be a clear indication to the algorithm that you’re NOT interested in these weirdos! Best of luck avoiding these creeps OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 9 | Sicko of the day award goes to Randy (: Why cant you be 10x younger???Ew I thought they made that a non premium option a while back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 23 | Sicko of the day award goes to Randy (: Why cant you be 10x younger???Change your age settings. It’ll at least help you limit the age of the creeps reaching out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 23 | The bar is set so low... comment saying a girl is ungrateful because she was annoyed her bf got her a gift that she had to taxi to pick up. She should be grateful because her bf could be even more inconsiderate and abusive? Really?How dare she have standards and expect better from her partner!?!/s It’s sad when other women act like the bare minimum is acceptable and that we as women should be GRATEFUL for shit like this in the first place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | I love men who are 5’7” who neg on dating apps! I’m physically way out of his league and this is his approach.My question is why they think this is attractive to us? You think that being rude to my appearance/career/interests is going to magically make my panties wet for you??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:18 PM |
| 11 | Be extremely careful who you have children with! I can’t believe she’s still asking for advice on how to fix the relationshipHe’s leaving his gf, and biologically unborn child because his ex is threatening to take away the daughter he raised but didnt father? I am in no way trying to minimize how impactful children you raise can become your own, but this just sounds like a cop out on his behalf...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:08 PM |
| 5 | ‘I broke up with her, she’s moved on with her life, now I want her back’- NEGATIVE VALUE MALEDon’t be like that. What did the streets ever do to deserve trash like him?!?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 9 | ‘I broke up with her, she’s moved on with her life, now I want her back’- NEGATIVE VALUE MALEIt was deleted. And I don’t think you can link, AITA have a ban against FDS linking a lot of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 46 | ‘I broke up with her, she’s moved on with her life, now I want her back’- NEGATIVE VALUE MALELiterally all are calling him out for being a creep and telling him to get professional help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 44 | How do you get rid of any negative feelings for the "girl he told you to not worry about"?She doesn’t deserve your respect OP, just your indifference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Kissing Booth 2: Pickmeisha Elle runs after NVM Noah 🤦♀️I actually think they’re ALL too good for her. And Noah seems to be making the most effort to stay together. Let’s not forget that Elle cheats on Noah by kissing Marco?? That makes her unworthy of any sympathy in my books | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 10 | Ultimate pickmeisha behaviour covered up by a 'prank' video where she tricks her bf of 14 years (!!) into going down on one knee. SMH.I think the saddest part is the comments where other pickmeishas are saying they’ll have to do this soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 6 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.Yeah it’s empowering when they’re within a 5 mile radius.... /s Jesus the pickmeisha can be felt from here for this girl!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:47 PM |
| 25 | Are my expectations actually too highWhat you’re expecting is what YOURE expecting. Your standards are hurting absolutely no one OP (other than LVM/NVM) keep your expectations where they are and let them grow if anything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 43 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.In what world is 200 miles near?!? She’s also clearly desperate if she thinks inviting someone that far away is a good idea 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 30 | Here we go again @MensHealthMag Why should you stop promoting strangulation? It causes serious harm, including "cardiac arrest, stroke, miscarriage, incontinence, speech disorders, seizures, paralysis, and other forms of long-term brain injury."I remember last year how many cases of women being killed while having sex due to strangulation and the guys saying the women asked them to do it. I’ve told my closest friends, sisters and roommate that if I EVER die from strangulation and a dude says I asked for it (during sex) to call bullshit and KNOW I hate that shit. The fact that women have to take extra precautions like this is ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:50 AM |
| 28 | If sex work is work then would liberal feminists be supportive of sex workers, Johns, and Pimps coming to local high school job fairs to recruit? 🤔I too was under that impression as well as the lovely but misguided idea that legalizing sex work somehow makes it safer. It doesn’t, it just makes the participants ballsier in their total disdain and disregard for women and they feel that because they are paying they can do anything ESPECIALLY since its legal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:43 AM |
| 10 | A perfect example of a LVM and his self-centred thought process 😑‘Get over it so a nice guy like me can come into your life’. Haven’t eaten anything today so I just dry heaved at the audacity this boy had. On what planet is HARASSMENT nice guy behavior??? Like the fact that this bitch went around trying to find a way to contact you is just blehhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 22 | The hell with this idea that I need to freeze my eggs-there’s always adoption!I don’t want kids nor do I like the concept that women have to fulfill this ‘motherly’ figure in someone’s life to feel fulfilled/be women. It’s a patriarchal idea meant to confine women into a box! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:12 AM |
| 14 | How to respond when PickMe’s say you are “slut shaming” when you point out that showing your ass on the Internet is thirsty and embarrassing ?I feel like there’s a difference between being a guide to reaping yourself and just straight up being a judgmental bitch. If someone can’t understand that difference OP, that’s on them. It also really depends on how you’re presenting this idea to them as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:09 AM |
| 7 | LV Dad? Please help me, I can't take this anymore, I need to move outMove out. But don’t tell them you’re moving out till a day or two before. They’ll try and guilt trip you but you’ll have a lease and the keys. Manipulation is REAL, but the freedom is even more real! The emotional and physical abuse you’ve endured isn’t okay, regardless of the future. Let’s not let the fact that he’s from the Middle East/Europe be an excuse for his horrible behavior towards you and your mother (North African, so similar ish cultures) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:21 AM |
| 7 | For the love of GOD why is he taking soooo long... or am I impatient?This is very pickme thinking/behavior. You shouldn’t be giving your number out till after you’ve gone on a date. You can’t ‘really like him’ when you’ve been talking to him for less than a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | During initial dating phase, when should you expect some emotional labor from men?It’s clear you expect it after 3 dates so it might not be a good match, I personally don’t expect it until I would be to reciprocate the same. Emotional dumping isn’t fun for anyone and tbh I don’t think ANYONE you’ve only seen 3x should be obligated to handle that. I really don’t see any red flags in his handling of the situation since you guys don’t know each other so he has no real way of knowing what you need for that situation. That’s just my input | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:48 PM |
| 20 | Broken up during the pandemic in a foreign country with no money or friends... Ladies, never put yourself in this situationWhat the fuck OP. The fact that you’ve gone through all this, I’m at a loss for words... your human trash can of a ex is the bottom of the barrel in terms of human decency. I am so sorry you’ve gone through all this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | During initial dating phase, when should you expect some emotional labor from men?I wouldn’t expect too much emotional labor this early in OP. That’s a HUGE ask, and I think it’s best to be realistic in a situation like this. The dude doesn’t really know you, so just put yourself in their shoes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:56 PM |
| 3 | During initial dating phase, when should you expect some emotional labor from men?I think it would be really helpful to know how long they’ve been seeing each other. The actual number that couple dates can be sooooo different to different people. I consider 3 a couple. I agree that his response was not a bad one or a red flag of a LVM. It could just be too early to know anything about the guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:30 AM |
| 5 | During initial dating phase, when should you expect some emotional labor from men?How long have you been dating this guy? I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Is this a red flag of a LVM?His reaction is shitty, but I DO think that you should cancel your plans of possibly seeing him or going out ALL. if you think you may have covid, you shouldn’t be postponing plans for a day out, that makes absolutely no sense?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 8 | How direct should we be when talking about sex while vetting/dating?Tbh if he even bothers asking that question I would question if he’s a HVM. No one worth your time would even ask a question like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 88 | I think my husband is cheating on meClosure doesn’t exist OP, not with a cheating bastard like him. The closure will come when you divorce his ass and feel the weight slide off your shoulders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 40 | How direct should we be when talking about sex while vetting/dating?Body count is a patriarchal idea. You should never bring it up because men attach your value to how many people you’ve slept with OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herI’m happy she at LEAST broke it off with this monster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:33 AM |
| 8 | She ended up buying her own ring.Eh read some of her post history, she sounds pretty shitty herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 11 | What, too many standards?I got a comment removed for spelling out asshole. Apparently they don’t condone ‘verbal abuse’ 🤦🏻♀️🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | visiting my PhD advisor in a different country vs long distanceTbh, this doesn’t really sound like an issue with your BF. From what you’ve commented he sounds like he’s a HVM and would stay with you regardless of what your choice is. It sounds more like you don’t want to be isolated and that’s a totally valid concern. I guess I would suggest making the decision based on what’s going to be if it you the most on the long run. If you have a history of mental health issues popping up, I would be weary of doing the whole 5 months SOLY for the fact that it’s a lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:29 PM |
| 71 | Lol. Incel played himselfI feel like if they were close enough friends to hang out during a pandemic, they probably were showing each other their matches. No coincidence that she invited him over in my humble opinion, if this is a real post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:05 AM |
| 83 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herEven the streets don’t want him..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 29 | Man child throws fit when GF doesn’t want him to move in with herI’m hoping she gives an update! She only posted this 15 hours ago so we will have to wait and see! But like come ON how much of a child do you have to be to drag your Karen of a mom into the situation?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 13 | Ok dude, but what do you have to offer...?He OBVIOUSLY has his years of experience to offer/s. But seriously what is up with dudes just swiping right? Like do you not give a shit about what you’re swiping right on??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 46 | Re-kindling an old flame?I’m not sure you can reset the clock? I think once you’ve had casual sex, he’s expecting it will happen again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 58 | BLACK PILL FOR WOMEN VIA PPD-THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING "ALL MEN LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN WHO..."My brain hurts from trying to follow the mental gymnastics that these dipshits are trying to play at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:19 AM |
| 5 | No shade to single parents, but the way this is worded is a huge red flag 🚩I agree with how you understood it. I think sometimes we think WAY too negatively about people motives....., | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 9 | If they want to impress you they will 👏THANK YOU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:32 AM |
| 13 | If they want to impress you they will 👏Ugh THANK YOU!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:32 AM |
| 29 | If they want to impress you they will 👏Queen energy also requires you to not be condescending regarding OTHERS issues🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:04 AM |
| 18 | Please tell me how this is misandry? Having standards?How dare you have standards/s. The only reason he got butthurt what becuase he related to all the things you said. Not your fault he’s a LVM/NVN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:48 AM |
| 18 | How old is everyone and does that impact strategy?24 and still trying to figure it out honestly! I think in the long run I would rather be single than settle for a partner who doesn’t meet the FDS criteria. Less of a headache | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:46 AM |
| 28 | If they want to impress you they will 👏This is capitalism. YOU try living pay check to paycheck with absolutely no financial support from others and then tell us how hard it is to get out of the poverty cycle. This isn’t about being content with the misery you’re in, it’s about being realist to the fact that capitalism isn’t meant for everyone to succeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:35 AM |
| 49 | If they want to impress you they will 👏And pray tell, how do you fix this? Are you one of those people who says ‘if you’re poor, get a job?’ A lot of people can’t AFFORD to go into debt to even further their education. Check the privilege you have to ‘not be okay’ with the idea of living from paycheck to paycheck because that mindset in and of itself is a luxury for MANY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | HVM Brother just dropped $6,000 on a ring, men on bumble on the other hand?Yeah the religion actually allows that. If that doesn’t tell you how misogynistic organized monotheistic religions are, idk what will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | The HVW who stopped a NVM's drunk racist tiradeI like it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | The HVW who stopped a NVM's drunk racist tiradeI read NVM as a no value male but I like Negative value male a lot better!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:18 AM |
| 24 | HVM Brother just dropped $6,000 on a ring, men on bumble on the other hand?Tbh not surprising at ALL that the Muslim tinder is like that... Muslim men are repugnant and the most CLOSETED sexist, misogynistic, hyper sexual pigs in the world. They’ll fuck a bag I’d they have the opportunity. Source: ex Muslim female | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 33 | "Feminist" supporting sex workOne of the MANY reason why this sub is so needed. Thank you very much for sharing this with me and the rest of those who come to this post. I also appreciate that you didn’t attack me for being wrong/misinformed:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:44 AM |
| 13 | "Feminist" supporting sex workI think the main reason why a lot of people would like to see the legalization of sex work is the fact that it reduces the price of sex and in theory would reduce sex trafficking. I’m not a fan of the hyper sexualization of women in our society, but it think it’s important I point this little bit of information out. New Zealand offers workers rights and benefits to its prostitutes. I think it’s stupid that you got banned for having a different opinion, but I did want to share this :) Edit: I agr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:27 AM |
| 57 | Spotted: on bumble.He looks like he was neutered.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 22 | Is being ignored in social settings something to accept?Pretty rude. But you’re also using her so what the issue? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:01 AM |
| 21 | Friend Bringing Fiancé on K-1 VisaIs she’s had a problem in the past with you voicing your concern, I don’t think there’s a way to fix this. This seems like a situation where she’ll have to learn from her own mistake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 41 | It’s almost as if they try to take the least flattering photo possible 🥴Not to be an even bigger ass to strangers but my GOD👀. Do they not own mirrors?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:38 AM |
| 92 | A couple of reminders not to date older guysIt physically pains me to see these kinds of posts that you tagged because it just solidifies how men really aint shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:27 AM |
| 0 | How would you interpret this behaviour?I did. Just cuz he didn’t mention you as a legitimate romantic partner doesn’t mean he wasn’t talking shut about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:42 PM |
| 19 | But why, Pickmiesha?🤦🏾♀️Ok. Didnt really understand why she felt the need for a dns test | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 5 | How would you interpret this behaviour?Not trying to be rude but you’re an idiot if you think he wasn’t gossiping about you if he was spilling secrets about his friends to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 19 | But why, Pickmiesha?🤦🏾♀️Can we have context? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 21 | Fooled some butt ugly online dudes once by sending them pictures of another unattractive woman when they asked for a photo.Seems like a bitch move to send them a photo of a woman YOUVE deemed unattractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 0 | FDS & Life Journey vs Destination‘You need to apologize to me if you ever want to speak to me again’ Lmao how comical of him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:39 PM |
| 2 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Why doctors? Is it the god complex or long hours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Why put her up through college if you’re not ready to provide for the whole family in the future?I couldn’t agree with you more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Jobs that can be green flags?What are examples of jobs that are red flags? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:15 AM |
| 28 | To the woman who recently went on a date with a man and shared her reddit with him:Sorry if this is against the rules, but they wouldn’t let me cross post and I was hoping that whoever this woman was that went on this date ( don’t know how many of you I are sharing your reddit profile in the first date) will see this and dump his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 49 | Women: Birth Control Causes me agonizing ongoing pain both physically and mentally. Men: BUT HWAT ABOUT MUH PENIS?!! CONDOMS SUCK. YOU HAVE TO MEET US HALFWAY!!😡😡🤦♀️ (Scrotes mad about my last post)Men who bitch about women not wanting to fuck up their health on HBC are you there either people who kick puppies. Vile and disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 39 | Found this lying BOY of a Boyfriend on Bumble Dating App. I wish I could find his girlfriend and introduce her to this sub right here - FDS !Confused why he would parade this around? Does he think someone’s going to be enticed to ride his communal dick?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:11 AM |
| 11 | I’m taking a 90 break from alcohol, and now I don’t feel comfortable going out on first dates.I’ve dated when I was abstaining from alcohol and honestly it can be just as much fun! They don’t have to include alcohol. Some of the most bf un dates I’ve had have been without a drop of alcohol. If they dude acts weird about you not drinking, then he’s trash anywasy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 12:21 AM |
| 29 | Did I f*ck up in the first date? (just looking for support)Don’t give too much personal information out on the first few dates OP! They don’t need to know EVERYTHING right off the bat. And when it comes to health issues, it’s definitely personal and very sensitive. They have to work for you as you are, and that includes that kind of information | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:44 PM |
| 24 | Ladies, would you ever give an ex a chance again?You know how they say don’t double dip at a party? Consider going back to an ex as double dipping at a party, it’s a faux pas. You guys didn’t even end on a good note | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Today's savage of the day: This OP who discovered the typical male response for FWB situations and situations where women initiate. She learned something and is choosing to keep her head up. Kudos to growth & progressWhat a bad ass! Took things into your own hands! I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 01:46 AM |
| 11 | ugh this is so sad. Sure i get moving on from somone who wants no commitment and then and living your best life, but to be grateful for the crumbs they threw ? lmaoThe poster is absolutely pathetic. It actually hurts that she things this is ADVICE. By all means let her fuck yo her life but to encourage other women to be happy with a spineless punk who won’t commit is just WILD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 01:35 AM |
| 18 | This is a HOT MESS. Ladies, NEVER give low-value moids the time of day, and NEVER reveal your sexual past. She's getting a shitty deal and is setting up the dynamic to be treated like shit and then dumped. He isn't even speaking of her highly, despite her kissing his ass to the fullest.That’s on her dumbass though. She’s clearly got low self esteem if she’s willing to put up with this type of shit treatment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 11:02 PM |
| 11 | I get called a bitch in r/bumble for suggesting that stating that the OP’s “I’d be a dog biscuit because bitches are all over me” might not be a great opener, you know with calling women bitches.And men like that wonder why women don’t give them the time of day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 12:32 AM |
| 13 | [not mine] but great executionHe also sound pissed that she’s up even though his dumb ass is texting her at 3am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 10:07 PM |
| 18 | I get called a bitch in r/bumble for suggesting that stating that the OP’s “I’d be a dog biscuit because bitches are all over me” might not be a great opener, you know with calling women bitches.LOVE how all the people who downvoted you are telling you to calm down since this was a dudes response to the opener. GUARANTEE that they would be trying to stake a woman if she said anything mildly similar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 10:03 PM |
| 27 | Today's Savage of the day: This woman who was on tinder 2 weeks after a break up. Moving on done RIGHTThe kicker is that this dumbass found her on tinder BECAUSE he was on tinder right after the break up as well. 🤦🏻♀️ you cant make this shot up id you tried | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on the probationary stage of dating?In those 2 weeks you’ve probably had 2 dates, seems a bit excessive to cut someone out because they are playing the field after only knowing you such a short period of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Don’t accept last minute datesAlways require 3-5 business days notice for a date, even for dudes I’m getting more serious with. It conditions them to KNOW that my time is valuable and to not think I’m at their beck and call | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | "I cheated on my wife and she checked out of the marriage and is cheating on me." Today's Savage of the day is this OP's wifeIt said he went after her friends I guess in a malicious way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 03:04 AM |
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