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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | The high value women of FDSReported for involuntary pornography. Get banned Rick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 5 | All the girls I’ve ever dated I end up losing interest within a couple weeks and it’s starting to scare me. SOS!It's the porn effect. | /r/askFDS | 30/04/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | A common thread between black women married to HVMOkay, I created a new thread here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f9brjd/a_common_thread_between_black_women_married_to_hvm/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A common thread between black women married to HVMThere are a lot of black women who lurk here too. There was a recent post about a black woman who wanted to get surgery so she wasn't "the ugly black girl" anymore. I think women like that need to hear this. How would you prefer for me to word my post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:09 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I also have a deep fear of sounding like a Karen. Don't! Karen is a lie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:57 AM |
| 4 | How did you figure out your career path?Okay then conversion rates are playing a role here too. 1 USD = 1.33 CAD which means you make $21.80 USD per hour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 4 | I don't need a relationship to be happywhen you’re searching for love, you are just manifesting lovelessness That's definitely what it feels like. It was scary to step away from it for a second. Took some time to adjust but eventually I started to feel at peace with this new existence :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:51 AM |
| 6 | I had a really great first date and wanted to share!Awesome, we'll be here to support you in any outcome :) It's all about learning and forums like this help us learn from each other easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:36 AM |
| 0 | FDS in the MilitaryOkay. Let us know how it works out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:33 AM |
| 7 | I stumbled my way into dating a HVM on accident and I am so proud to have him.I think people are just more critical here in general and for good reason of course! But clearly we don't have the full picture so it can be hard to judge. If you're up to snuff with most of what's written in the wiki and handbook and you feel good with him (not in the addict way but in the secure relationship way) then you're all good :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Stop Calling Men "HVM" after two or three datesSomeone should award this post. I don't have coins myself tho :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Money concernsYou sound like a troll. Better luck next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 62 | The ‘cool girl’ breakdown- a phaseThis was unexpectedly educational. I think I grew up during the PEAK of "cool-girl" (2000s) and I may have been influenced by this unwritten misogyny towards the "girly girl" (including my own inner girly-girl). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsIt's more like the top 5% of black women (regardless of what features or skin tone they have) are attractive to many men while the top 20% of all other races are attractive. Of course we can be attractive but the standard for us is WAY higher. In addition, many men (regardless of how physically attractive they think we are) don't see us as full humans. We are stereotyped all the time and this makes it harder for people to truly SEE and appreciate us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 15 | After the depressing thread on HVM in cities - A general discussion on where to find good HVM.Once got an angry PM from a male feminist academic because I agreed that men should not call themselves feminists but rather allies. He flaunted his academic background as justification that my opinion is invalid and I should shut up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 21 | I need your help. I know the answer but i need to hear it.Sounds like he wants to open up the relationship for obvious reasons. LDRs are hard. I don't think starting off a relationship LDR and non-monogamous would work out well long term if you want a marriage and kids and all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!I agree, there are male-apologists of every creed but this woman's talking about having sex with men. A lesbian wouldn't be talking about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:05 AM |
| 28 | Can We Talk About Lesbian Pickmeishas who are always outraged on behalf of men and have “advice” for straight women that’s always about settling for less? They are NOT your friends.She's not a lesbian. Her profile says she's bisexual. It's fairly common for people in the LGB+ community to misuse the word gay. I used to do it too (as a bisexual person). The new LGB movement is working towards putting an end to that though. Let's leave the word "gay" to the homosexual men it belongs to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:57 AM |
| 8 | Pornsickness is becoming more common among males.I think the idea she was trying to get across is that being in a "monogamous" relationship with a partner who is constantly using porn is similar to being in a non-monogamous relationship. They're literally orgasming to the image of another woman. Check out r/PornFreeRelationships to learn more about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 49 | FDS Rules for Black GirlsI hear the UK is where it's at. I'm in Canada. I think we're struggling with the same issues America is struggling with. Dating from black majority countries can also be good (they're already used to black women) but be careful that they're not just using you for a visa or take on too many bad habits from their cultures (e.g. many African cultures are very patriarchal). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:25 AM |
| 12 | Should it make a comeback?Boop: FDS Handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:50 AM |
| 12 | Men only stay interested in emotionally unavailable womenI'm starting to think most people don't want "real" when looking for love. Most people are just looking for fantasy and being emotionally distant is part of that fantasy. I don't blame them. Reality is boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Where is all this discrepancy in how "bad" men are as a class coming from?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Where is all this discrepancy in how "bad" men are as a class coming from?In what context do you mean by "bad men"? Mostly, in regards to how well they treat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I realized I'm a low value woman and I'm feeling a bit downSo many regrets. I get what you mean! I recommend re-reading the comments in this post. A lot of great advice has been given here. Here's a section of one I found particularly helpful: Do a little research online on making lifestyle changes, the psychology of that process, and make each day’s goals your primary focus. Panning out and looking at everything that needs to change can be overwhelming. But broken down to everyday tasks, you can totally get it done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:29 PM |
| 50 | Am I the only one thinking about turning gay?Women are not a fantastical escape from men. Lesbian and bisexual women come with a lot of their own issues too especially due to the trauma of growing up in a homophobic, misogynist, and sexist world. I'd assume that on average, women would be less of a burden than men but to assume you're escaping the pain of love by dating women is a mistake. Given that, I recommend posting to r/truebisexuals for more insight on exploring your sexuality safely and respectfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSForce attractive women (sometimes several) into marriage with ugly scrotes in exchange for financial security. I can see this happening but do you have any references? Has this been discussed in feminist academia or is it just a general speculation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:05 AM |
| 6 | Great first date with possible HVM...what's next?"The Tenants" (for those who weren't aware): Female Dating Strategy Handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:30 AM |
| 10 | FDS as applied to F/F relationships; what works, what doesn'tMm hm, I noticed I get more matches when I don't list my sexuality, bisexual, on my dating profiles. A lot of lesbians aren't interested in dating bisexual women. Hell, even some bisexual women don't want to date bisexuals because they think they're the exception and most bisexuals aren't actually interested in women or otherwise find the "purity" of lesbians more appealing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 0 | FDS as applied to F/F relationships; what works, what doesn'tCan't always tell just how deep it runs from looks alone though. However, I can agree there is a correlation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:53 AM |
| 13 | Cringing at LVM OLD profiles may be giving me wrinkles “they messaged you” 🤢Sunscreen is important also because sun damage (even mild damage) speeds aging. Exercising tends to improve the look of skin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Literally ewI've hardly spent time here but the gist I got was: A low value man makes you feel low value A high value man makes you feel high value Money won't stop a man from treating you like you're worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:15 AM |
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