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| 1 | Coworker [34, M] taken - should I [23,F]close the case?Your life isn’t a romance novel. Stop trying to win over the taken man. He’s not perfect and the only reason you want him so bad is because he is taken. Once he is single you will lose a fair amount of interest. Just leave him alone and find single guys you thot. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 12:58 PM |
| 4 | How do I become the guy women chase after?Here’s the deal. You were LIED to by society and even the seduction community and now you have the proof. Society says if you earn heaps of money and are good looking you will be attractive to women. Seduction community constantly harps about being high value .. well look where that got you? You have no abundance of pussy, and you’re broke 6/10 friend does. Money can get you pussy but it will mostly be goldiggers and women who use you as a provider. And muscles can only get you in the front door… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Need a quick come back for ‘I had a crush on you back then haha’“That’s cute ..” would be my reply. Granted I don’t fuck super hot women. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:55 AM |
| 19 | First Cold Approach!Why’d you run? You can walk off. It’s not like you were shoplifting. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Girls Are Willing to Cheat?Yes girls cheat. Not all, but a fair amount do. When they want good sex, and their partner isn’t providing them with good sex, they will either dump their partner or cheat. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | I feel needy when pursuing womenLet’s have a dialogue. Tell me how does taking iniative project neediness? | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Don’t let me quit.Dates are easy to get . If you’re struggling to get them you definitely need to reflect on what you’re doing. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Advice: is it possible to balance a fulltime 9-5, clubbing AND earky morning workouts?You don’t have to order anything in a bar. You can get water if you need something to hold. And if you are too afraid of appearing different you can get a non alcoholic drink which appears as alcohol. Like a coke with ice can look like a jack and coke. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:35 AM |
| 6 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.Damn man. I re-read the post just to make sure. And thanks for wasting my time. There’s not much in there about getting the girls that really interest you apart from some words about incompatibility and MAYBE the fishing analogy which may not even be interpreted as that and wasn’t even what most of the post is about. There wasn’t anything on quality vs quantity. Maybe that’s how you imagined it in your head but if you read it closely there’s nothing on that. The post was mostly about sex and how… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | I am sick of being ignoredBasically what I mean is having strong boundaries and enforcing them, knowing what you want and honestly expressing it, being willing to walk if people are disrespecting you, quitting all people pleasing behaviours (like trying to make people comfortable and laughing at your jokes), solid eye contact, straight posture. If you’re interested in this stuff check out No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover .. fascinating book and has practical exercises will help you develop a manly, confident, asserti… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 11:21 AM |
| 2 | I am sick of being ignoredYeah you can be chubby, confident and asssertive and still get laid. But chubby AND nice/pleasing/friendly/funny? Fuck no. You’ll be friendzoned again and again. Having a lean muscular body just makes you more sexually appealing though and women will be more likely to put you in the fuckbuddy zone. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 03:53 AM |
| 28 | "It's kinda like fishing..." - a conversation with my 20m brother and his friends.I agree with one part of your post. Focus on turning women on rather than on getting sex is key. I disagree with most of this post however .. First, 1 lay in 10 approaches is insanely good. That is seriously good numbers. Your brother’s friends don’t need your advice they just need to approach 10 a day, and they’ll be fucking a new girl daily. Secondly, not every girl will fuck you no matter what you do, or what you learn about her. That’s a fact. Rejection is part of the game. And seduction isn… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Advice: is it possible to balance a fulltime 9-5, clubbing AND earky morning workouts?Yeah it’s possible, just ditch the clubs and stick to local bars to minimise transport time. Workout 5am - 6am Morning stuff 6 - 8am Go to work / approach any attractive girls on the way to work 8am - 9am 9am - 5pm work 5pm - 6pm go home / approach any attractive girls on the way home 6pm - 6.30pm get ready / shower etc. 6.30pm - 8.30pm go out to local bars and approach and seduce girls on the way and at the bars. (Don’t drink on weeknights) 8.30pm - 9pm go home / approach any attractive girls o… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 03:27 AM |
| 7 | I am sick of being ignoredFat, friendly, funny guys make good platonic friends or entertainers. Lean, muscular, confident and assertive guys make good lovers or fuckbuddies. Stop being the first guy, be the second guy. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 03:13 AM |
| 14 | Men not having sex at an all time high. What happened in 2008?It’s not that women became choosier. Women have always fucked men they want to fuck. Women don’t sit down with a pen and paper and write down what they want in a fuckbuddy. They fuck men that turn them on, and they keep fucking men who are good in bed simple as that. When women are online yes, they are choosier because they only have looks to go off but in real life they just fuck whatever turns them on. A man with a lot of confidence and balls even if he has average looks can turn women on and … | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of attempting to get numbers even if you might not get results?You don’t understand women bro. You’re doing the wrong things and then generalising women as the specific women that you’re attracting. Firstly, don’t date girls. Fuck them. Secondly, don’t ask for numbers. Give your number out. Third, attempt to seduce and sleep with girls honestly and verbally telling you’re attraction and intentions of them the minute you meet them. You’ll get rejected fast, but you’ll also get sex fast without any need for dates or other bullshit. If you’re very seductive gi… | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Making 9/10s laugh and being high valueBe a comedian or clown. You’ll make many women laugh 🙄 Making women laugh is not high value for sex. There’s nothing about women laughing that makes them wet and horny for sex. Making women laugh is high value if you want to be a platonic friend or entertainer. If Rsdtyler is saying laughing = high value. That lie would make sense for his own selfish desires. He would be recruiting men to make the women laugh while he fucks them. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Rolling into the club stag. Advice?That’s your call. I don’t drink before going out because I know I’ll just get drunk and sloppy and my natural confidence won’t get any better if I’m relying on alcohol as a crutch. So I may have one or two drinks at the bar to not appear as a sober guy hitting on drunk girls (if I’m drinking too then there’s less chance of false date rape accusations) and I can vibe with girls who are drinking but I keep it limited. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Rolling into the club stag. Advice?Up to you. You can stand alone too though, don’t always have to be talking. I stand by myself occasionally and introvert myself as well. Sometimes if I’m in a bar with a dancefloor I’ll just dance by myself, or look at the tv, or relax into my body and be mindful of the whole atmosphere and listen to the music rather than force myself to be talking. Again no one notices or cares. Sounds like you’re scared of being judged by others and I think going alone would definitely benefit you in learning … | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Rolling into the club stag. Advice?Yeah I’ve been out most nights alone. I’ve found it better than going with an incompetent wing so I prefer it. I’ve had bad night and great nights alone. I’ve only been asked one or two times “oh why are you by yourself?” ... usually I think the people who ask this want to go out alone themselves and are seeing how you respond because they are projecting their fear and subconsciously want a source of inspiration but they will put on an act of being concerned or pitying you. Reality is you being … | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Didn't kiss on the first "real" date, what should I do?That’s your projection. Your welcome to feel that way but that’s yours. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I made it this far, but i don't know where to go from hereIf she won’t fuck you after you were straightforward and needs to “take it slow” by getting free attention, meals, chats, and dates with you she is wasting your time to get her own benefits and yes is manipulating you .. end of. Find another girl. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Rookie looking for a wingman for gameNo I’ve said that before and then they think I’m playing hard to get, so they get more girls and we have a massive orgy of like 8 or 9 girls and just me as the only guy. Dick gets tired after a while. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:31 PM |
| – | Didn't kiss on the first "real" date, what should I do?A redpilled honest motherfucker. You guys can’t handle the truth and need to go on your manipulative dates to creep your way into pussy. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl talks about wanting to reject a guy who asked her outYeah this place is full of analytical idiots. The biggest cockblock guys have isn’t some fat chick or some douchebag ... it’s themselves! Their worst way of cockblocking themselves is by overthinking. And thinking about what women are thinking about is the worst kind of overthinking you can do. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:23 PM |
| -5 | if a girl that ignored you all of a sudden started textingInviting her over for a movie and drinks with the intention of sex is manipulative. Why not just be upfront about it? | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Rookie looking for a wingman for gameWhat about groups of 4? I’ve found if I approach 4 girls they tend to want to have an orgy with me when I really just wanted one girl. It gets annoying after a while when I just want to fuck one girl but I have to fuck 4 at the same time. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Low self esteem“Don’t care what they think” But he does care. His question is how not to care? | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Low self esteemAssume that all women who don’t move from you when you approach them want to fuck you. It’s delusional but so is your thoughts now. Better to be positively delusional than negatively delusional. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Take a dance class.“God damn some of these girls are hot as fuck, and 100% down to fuck. I've been asked out numerous times by numerous chicks, and all you have to do is show up and dance” This is bullshit. It’s just another place to meet women. They don’t hop on your dick. I did salsa none of these grand claims happened to me. You’ve gotta be sexy or be seductive or both, and then you can go to salsa or bowling or anywhere and girls will respond well. Salsa alone will not get the average guy laid unless he is sex… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Why women give bad dating advice to men (written portion included)Didn’t watch the whole video but read the summary. Good points. You look too thin though bro and like a hippy, you need to pump some iron and get a haircut. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Salvageable situation?This scenario isn’t that bad. If a hot guy with options said this, she’d answer quickly and he wouldn’t beat himself up for being blunt. BUT the fact you wrote like that and posted this on reddit is a symptom of a larger problem. You’re too emotionally invested in her. You have her on a mountain and she has you on a bench. That’s the real problem. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:21 AM |
| 1 | A thought on the women with a 'boyfriend'.Yes you’re learning something key here. Women have three major needs which they use men to meet. financial emotional sexual A woman can have a boyfriend/husband and use that man for financial and/or emotional but the man often is not confident or dominant enough in bed to please her. Because he is so emotionally attached he doesn’t treat her like a whore in the bedroom even though she craves that. A random single seductive man is more likely to do that. That’s why women often cheat. They get the… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:15 AM |
| 2 | When does approaching ever workMarried women love males hitting on them, it makes them feel desired and like they still got it. Dude attention is like crack for women. So even if she doesn’t want to fuck a random guy she will enjoy the fact he approaches and hits on her. But there are also married women who will cheat on their husbands too if they meet a really sexy or seductive man and their husband isn’t meeting all their sexual needs. And also there are single girls who will fuck a sexy or seductive man if he approaches he… | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:08 AM |
| 3 | I made it this far, but i don't know where to go from here“got rejected on second. No big deal, i told her we'd still be friends” Then what the hell are you doing on a seduction sub trying to learn how to progress this? You’re friends that’s it. If you want more with her too bad, she doesn’t see you as fuckbuddy material and lying about your intentions isn’t going to get her to change her mind. She adores your cuddles and wants to “take t slow” because in her mind you are a friend. She’s not sexually attracted to you. She may kiss you a bit but you’ll … | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 09:03 AM |
| 0 | How do you hit on girls when other people are sitting right next to them?Say “hey” and smile to the whole group. Then say, “can I talk with you a min in private?” To the girl. If she has some attraction for you she will come along and tell her friends she’ll be fine. If she isn’t into you she won’t come and you can take that as a rejection. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Ways to Develop and Meet People this Summer?Damn people still say sarging? Thought we evolved past those corny pua terms. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I Try Again for a Date or Not?No. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 08:46 AM |
| – | Didn't kiss on the first "real" date, what should I do?This is such loser advice. Firstly, alphas don’t even date they just invite girls over and fuck. Secondly, if an alpha ever did date, he’d FUCK or get a Blowjob on the first date (not just kiss) otherwise if the girl made it difficult he’d just move on to another girl. Thirdly, an Alpha would never ever wait to just do a mere kiss past the first date. That’s just cowardly and pathetic. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | how to stop being a puss?Just talk to her first. Don’t put pressure on yourself to ask her out coz that will just make you anxious. Just focus on talking to her and enjoying that. Then when you’re already in convo you will naturally ask her out if you’re attracted to her. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | text game leading up to first real date?Text game doesn’t exist. It’s about how attractive you are as a man. I mean some game exists like don’t just be autistic over text but as long as you’re normal and you attracted her in person you can say almost anything and still meet up. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys do any affirmations before you go out and do nightgame?“I am a pussy” | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Is a more 'serious' approach needed when talking to Girls at College?Great. So go ahead and fail. You learn the best from your failures. Take some risks and talk to some girls. You’re analaysing before you’ve done anything. Analyse after. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 07:04 AM |
| 5 | Is a more 'serious' approach needed when talking to Girls at College?Don’t change your whole natural persona for chicks. Only change specific behaviours which are turning women off. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 06:53 AM |
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