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metlhead98/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:15 PM
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I was a bit nervous to be honest but just about everyone here was quite lovely! Oh of course! I don't really see that happening, but I figured it would be best to figure out my position on it just in case I find myself in that situation.
/r/askFDS15/08/20 11:21 PM
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Well thank you for commenting and sharing your opinion! My reasoning for poly/open relationship or dating an asexual woman is because I don't have a very high sex drive. I am aware that asexual women can still want sex and the way they go about it is different. I personally don't see too much of a problem with the open relationship as long as it is managed properly (I realize it's not as simple as that but as a moral/ethical issue I don't really see it as being one). I can understand why you die…
/r/askFDS15/08/20 10:34 PM
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Well I have r/FDS to thank for helping me see the light, and all of you as well. Thank you for your help!
/r/askFDS08/04/20 07:36 PM
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Yeah that seems to be a popular opinion, which I'm thankful for. Hopefully I meet others with an opinion similar to yours. Thank you for your help!
/r/askFDS07/04/20 08:34 PM
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Oh yeah I've cut that out of my life that stuff is terrible. It's true what you say, but unfortunately I think that is only one part of a bigger problem. I think it is very important to do away with professional porn and even "amateur" porn (of course exceptions would exist but what those exceptions would be I don't know). If it were to end there, however, it would be terrible. Hopefully this energy used to try and do away with porn can also be used to get rid of the male dominance and phallic c…
/r/askFDS07/04/20 08:22 PM
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I've already learned to "deal" with it so that stretching stuff won't be necessary. Thanks though.
/r/askFDS24/03/20 04:50 PM
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Thank you thank you for all you wrote! I will be sure to read those books and take your advice to heart. I know I appeared insecure, and maybe I was, but I am not worried anymore about my size. I've read through everyone's comments and everyone has helped me acknowledge and understand that my concern was nothing to be worried about and silly even. I am sorry my response is so short, but I feel that I would be repeating myself and I don't want to give you the same response I have given to others.…
/r/askFDS24/03/20 03:07 AM
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I know I sound like a typical guy with my question and I'm sorry, but I guess I never really understood how hard it is for women to find a partner that treats them right. I also never realized how amazing it feels for women when they are treated right by their partner. I was just so wrapped up in the belief that even if I did treat my partner right in every other aspect of the relationship this specific aspect would be the end of it. I was concerned about disappointing my partner due to my size,…
/r/askFDS19/03/20 02:00 AM
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Thank you for sharing some of your story with me. It's a relief to read that you're no longer involved with that man, but it's very upsetting that he left you scarred. It's good that you managed to find someone who treats you right. I've never heard that joke a loud before, but I know it exists and it's a terrible thing to say like you mentioned. Porn has ruined a lot of men's perception about sex (clearly). What you said about being "loose" reminded me that that is one of the most common miscon…
/r/askFDS17/03/20 01:59 AM
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A lot of what you wrote is true. I'll definitely work on myself and try being a "good" person. Others seem to consider me a "good" person so I must be doing something right, and I really don't consider myself to be a bad person either so that's good too. I don't know, but the point is I'll try being a "good" person and keep treating everyone with decency and helping them how ever I can. I'll keep in mind what you said about white and black. Thanks!
/r/askFDS16/03/20 06:09 PM
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I hope you were able to talk some sense into him. He has no idea know how many guys would kill to be his size.The thing with guys is that nothing is ever enough. They always have to be the best, the biggest, the strongest, the smartest, etc. Otherwise they're second best and second best is worthless. At least that's how I've grown up and that's how I've seen guys live their lives. Oh I have no doubt you women can relate. I think the key difference though is that the whole idea behind the penis i…
/r/askFDS16/03/20 07:41 AM
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I know what you said should encourage me, and it does, but Goddamn is what you said so disappointing. It just disappoints me that finding a guy that treats women like a human, which is the bare fucking minimum, is so hard that women are willing to make compromises to their preferences. You should all be getting your preferences without worrying about whether or not you'll be treated like a human. Anyway, yeah I'm working on being a "good" fella too. Although I'll never admit to being a "good" fe…
/r/askFDS16/03/20 05:22 AM
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Yeah, my worry is that I'll get involved with someone who likes bigger. Hopefully that doesn't happen though, but who knows. It's just a lot of trial and error like someone said on here. I don't like it, but that's the way it has to be for now. Thanks for your help!
/r/askFDS16/03/20 04:27 AM
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Yeah size does matter but I found it to be a sliding scale which is a good thing. I've just seen it referred to as the "main course" so that made me a bit nervous. The obsession with PIV just goes to show how warped sex is from men's point of view. I'll be sure to give that clit the attention it deserves. Right, so I have to be caring and give give give. It's amazing how simple this stuff sounds in theory, but when put in practice, Goddamn, some men make it so much harder than it is! Oh God, I c…
/r/askFDS15/03/20 04:35 PM
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Thank you so much for this! I really hope we can stop with the body shaming/insults in the future because that stuff really messes with everyone's head but I understand that that's a problem that started with men and has to be ended by them. I'm glad I got the clarification that those comments mean more than what's on the surface so that's good. Hopefully I'll be good enough to satisfy her 100% of the time! All jokes aside though it would feel great to be able to make her feel that way and see h…
/r/askFDS15/03/20 06:15 AM
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God, I hope you're right about that. Ugh, I sound so stupid and privileged being worried about one small little thing. Meanwhile, all of you have to worry about your well being and lives with every guy you date. I just have to worry about getting rejected or possibly getting laughed at. I kind of feel ashamed for even asking something like this when all of you women have actual serious things to be worried about. I don't know why it just clicked with me at this moment but I'm glad it did. Thank …
/r/askFDS14/03/20 10:33 PM
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Oh my God I would be so upset if she even brought that up! It'd make me feel like I did something to her to make her think something like that! That's so fucked up when you put it that way! Now I have this scenario playing in my head and I'm trying to comfort an imaginary person in my head. Great! Seriously though thank you so much for this perspective!!
/r/askFDS14/03/20 10:17 PM
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Maybe so. I'm sorry, I just keep looking at it from a male's perspective since that's how I've grown up and it's something I'm trying to unlearn and view it from a different perspective then the way I was shown.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 08:49 PM
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Ooooo I got "The fact you're listening to women for dating advice, means you're gonna be in for a rough time". Heheh thank you all for giving me a rough time then I guess.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 08:05 PM
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Yeah, why put up with that bullshit. I wouldn't say I have a shitty attitude about my size because I'm not spiteful or have some sort of internalized hatred. The worst I get is that I won't believe my partner if she says I'm good enough or just fine because I feel like she would just be saying that to not hurt me. If that's the case however, I'd like for her and I to have a heartfelt conversation about my size outside the bedroom so we can both move on and put that behind us. Thank you for your …
/r/askFDS14/03/20 07:55 PM
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There's just so much emphasis and conversation around that one part of the body and it can be a bit much sometimes. I suppose looking back it does seem like I was being harsh toward asexuals and using them as an "out" I guess. I just thought I would be less likely to disappoint asexual people once things got more intimate. Even without the irrational fear of my size I would still be open to dating asexuals. Well, I suppose it wouldn't hurt to share. Unfortunately, I'm not stocky that's for sure.…
/r/askFDS14/03/20 07:43 PM
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Yeah I've recognized that all women have their own little details of what they like from what I've read, which is interesting. I've also acknowledged that chemistry is super duper important (more so than I thought). I won't be like those guys, I'll read up/watch stuff to help get a better understanding of what to do, but of course I'll listen to my partner and do whatever she likes/is okay with because everyone is different.That, and I'll make damn sure she climaxes just how she likes it before …
/r/askFDS13/03/20 07:43 PM
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Interesting...
/r/askFDS13/03/20 06:41 PM
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No wonder you're freaking the Hell out.
/r/askFDS13/03/20 05:50 PM
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If you're a satire account you're pretty damn good at what you do. If not though...
/r/askFDS13/03/20 05:48 PM
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Yeah porn is really not a good thing. I've likened porn in our modern age to smoking in the 60's. Just like smoking in the 60's nobody really gave it a 2nd thought, so many people did it, everyone talked about the health benefits (while hiding/ignoring the negative parts), it was "cool" to partake in it, it was addicting, it made men feel like a "man", etc. Porn should be treated like a damn drug. I really hope your close relatives can manage to stop watching that stuff before it's too late. I'l…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 05:44 PM
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Ugh I guess you're right. I can see now why there's so many posts about being burnt out from dating or just giving up altogether. I wish there was a better way to go about doing this, but oh well. Thanks for your help!
/r/askFDS13/03/20 05:33 PM
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Will do! 07
/r/askFDS13/03/20 04:28 AM
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Thanks for the welcome. I was pretty worried that I'd get downvoted to oblivion or get a bunch of unhelpful "don't worry about it" kind of comments because of my question. I'm glad that that wasn't the case and that you have all been very helpful and polite to me. Yeah those co-ed subs kinda suck really bad and wouldn't have helped at all with my concern. It seems more like an echo chamber with a few women being tolerated so that they may validate guys. I really wish there was a male equivalent …
/r/askFDS13/03/20 04:25 AM
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Of course everyone can have their standards that's not a problem. I can see why my comments about those comments can be interpreted they way you interpreted (wow). The thing with me is that I feel like my partner would be settling for me, which sucks because I don't want someone to settle for me I want them to be with their ideal man. I guess it's just some weird perfectionist problem I have that I have to work through. Dick is abundant and LV for the most part! Thank you so much for your help a…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 01:05 AM
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Yeah I'm beginning to understand that while size matters behavior matters more than that, which makes sense. I just really don't want to disappoint my partner is all and it felt like I would because I based it too much around size. I'm glad there are others out there who aren't transfixed on size like many guys seem to be. Thanks for your help!
/r/askFDS13/03/20 12:23 AM
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I'll remember that! I also think size matters to an extent as well and I wanted to see if i fell under the "don't worry" category which I do now. I'll be sure to put her needs/pleasure first like you said. Thanks!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 11:59 PM
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I had no intention of giving the impression that all women are size queens sorry about that. There's just so much emphasis on the penis when it comes to this topic and I just wanted to see what the opinions of some of you were. I really wish sex from a the perspective of women was more mainstream instead of the usual bullshit that concentrates completely on the penis. Thank you for your help!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 11:52 PM
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Got it! I just have to be someone's "goldicock". I appreciate you not trying to give me another complex heheh. Honestly I have been content with what I have for a while now, but I didn't know if what I had would make others happy. Well now I know, thanks to you and everyone else here, that I shouldn't worry so much about it!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 09:16 PM
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Thank you for your comment. That was quite touching :) I really hope so because that would suck for both of us if that were the case. I wish the guys with a small penis directed that hate, frustration, and anger toward themselves and their toxic culture instead of women. Thanks for clearing up the anti small penis comments I think I need that heheh.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 09:06 PM
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Average is somewhere between 5 - 5.6 I think. Oh I completely understand the desiring aspect of the act and how great the anticipation/build up feels. Thank you for you help!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 08:43 PM
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I have no issues with standards nor do I want to change the standards of others. I suppose my worry is fitting someone else's standards. I just wish I could filter out those who's standards I don't meet so I don't waste their time. I wish you luck wading through all that garbage out there 07 Thank you for your help!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 08:36 PM
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I know I sound silly but that's part of the reason why I asked this question here. I figured this would be the best place to ask since you all seem to be no nonsense and give pretty good advice that people like me can use to better ourselves. I guess I just couldn't stand disappointing someone I care about. Especially if that person waited at least 90 days before seeing me naked only to be disappointed after getting to know each other for quite a while. I suppose I'm too focused about being the …
/r/askFDS12/03/20 08:31 PM
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Heheh yeah I've read about all the jackhammering going on out there! I've read up on girth and although I'm slightly above average with girth, I'd still consider myself average overall. I'll definitely keep in mind what you said about technique and of course put her needs first (especially after seeing how badly women are screwed over with sex)! Thank you so much for your help!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:54 PM
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Most of what you said seems like it's spot on. I guess I shouldn't worry about it too much and just get out of my own head. Thanks for your help!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:47 PM
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You do bring up good points and I was hoping someone here would say behavior is important as well. It's just disheartening to me to see a lot of comments and posts talking about how size matters and how bigger is better with me just being average. It just makes me feel like I'm not enough, which I know is stupid because only my partner can decide that. Thank you for your help!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:43 PM
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