| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | What is the correct way of expressing yourself as a confident person? | mfreud | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:46 PM | |
| 4 | Being "Social" vs. "Seductive" | mfreud | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 05:49 AM | |
| 2 | This study on erasing fears is totally useless from a practical point-of-view. But I thought some people here would find it interesting. | mfreud | /r/seduction | 28/07/12 05:10 AM |
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| 6 | "Can I kiss you? How about here? You ok with this?" When reality feels like satire.Why is 2+2 = 4? How do you really know? In fact, what is reality? Can you say with certainty that an objective reality exists? If you can't, how do you know anything? And if you don't know anything, how can you be sure that everything is not just a global conspiracy of the illuminati who have imposed the patriarchy on us? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I don't feel like girls can be attracted to meDude... I feel like I could've written this post myself. I spent a year going out very intensely. Always had the problem of not getting far passed the opener. I can also relate to your Tinder situation even though I actually think of myself as pretty damn good looking (and humble ;) ). I don't even have any trouble with escalating and during my intense year I actually pulled girls from clubs (twice), so I've experienced that. Still, girls aren't regularly attracted me the way they are to some of… | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Being "Social" vs. "Seductive"Well.. the whole point of my question is that yes, I can keep going through as many girls as necessary to eventually get laid, but that's not where I want to improve. I want to actively make her invested and interested... It's not important if she's not DTF right away. It's important that she's sufficiently attracted that she won't forget me and will be eager to see me again. That's the kind of emotional investment I can't get. | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Being "Social" vs. "Seductive"I know being social is a component. But for example, having seen Julien from RSD in action, he has an effect where, even if a girl isn't attracted to him right away, she is curious and so invested. I can't get that, but I also can't see what makes the difference because he seems so nonchalant. | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 05:10 AM |
| 5 | The best opener I've ever heardYour opinion is what I like to call "wrong". If you wanna get serious about pick up first shed all your preconceived notions of what is "douchey". Try "douchey" for a while, as an experiment. If you don't find the boundaries for yourself, you're always in your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 09:03 AM |
| 5 | A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game]Did I click on r/WTF? | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 07:13 AM |
| 0 | I am the prize.Please become a writer ;) Very rarely do I read something on the internet that gives me the urge to print out, post on my wall, and read every day. This did that. It's pure, pure awesome. Nicely done. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on building a social circle? Noob here.Join your local pick up community too. I don't really relate much with people who are nose deep in pickup but there are some amazing people in the community sometimes. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Any advice on building a social circle? Noob here.I've moved several times to new cities and easily made friends in all of them. The way it tends to happen is that I literally go out every night (you don't have to obviously) for the first 2-3 months I'm in a city and hit up events in whatever I might be even remotely interested in. After about the 2-3 month time, I've usually found a routine and the "fresh start" thing is dying off. Then I focus on just a few things to do during the week that are my top priority or where I've met the coolest pe… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 09:45 AM |
| 2 | (FR) New Year weekend, solo. Mother fucking LORDed like hell!I think how you do groups really depends on the person. (like pretty much everything else in this game) With OP's technique I always fall into the trap of casually conversing with the whole group and not being able to isolate. I found it easier to do what RSD guys recommend: go straight for your target, high intent, chat a bit, THEN start talking to everyone. OR if fatty tries to cockblock you, then befriend her right away, but always show intent first. That avoids the particular trap I was fall… | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 11:36 PM |
| 1 | (FR) New Year weekend, solo. Mother fucking LORDed like hell!Question: What kinda meetup groups have you joined that are good for pu? Most of the groups I'm in that are just social get togethers are, frankly, not made up of very cool or attractive people. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 11:34 PM |
| 21 | 1 year in. 14 things I wish I knew.!= Everyone on /r/seduc...err... Reddit... knows what this means | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 05:13 AM |
| 2 | I'm a highschool graduate trying to reinvent himself for college. Do I need /r/seduction now, or should I wait?Also read books by Nathaniel Branden on self esteem. I recommend "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem". The important thing to realize is that you're talking about changing habits. You can't do too much at once. If you're reading How to Win Friends and Influence People, finish it, then take some time to consciously cultivate those habits. Then move on to the next thing, which could be seduction. | /r/seduction | 09/06/12 07:58 AM |
| 5 | This is why we need seddit (x-post about AFC on bus)IT'S "HAVE"... NOT "OF". "I would have switched the two"... "it would have been..."!!! | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 11:44 AM |
| 3 | How Seddit changed my life, and landed me my perfect 10.The plural of "woman" is "women". Oh... and congratulations ;) | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 09:40 AM |
| 1 | What is the best universal opener?More like "HEY!" | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 07:37 AM |
| 2 | am I just fooling myself?Your friend is right. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Any Ottawa Sedditors?Not sure. Try it. I think some people are posting there. Just try to message them and meet up. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Any Ottawa Sedditors?I lived in Kanata when i first started going out regularly. In short, I feel sorry for you. Join the lair, and use it to meet people. NEVER, EVER participate in the online posts/discussions/circlejerks. Particular people on that forum that you should take seriously/try to meet: Slip, Ilium. I haven't been there for years though, so there are probably heaps of other cool people. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Do it all, and win.Great post! In addition to the 7 habits, I would also recommend The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem ... He talks about these very concepts in detail and about how your overall self-esteem is made up six elements including self-responsibility. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Getting into state. Two kinds of approaches.I know this is old, but I just wanted to thank you for this post. It's a great, fresh perspective that I had never considered before and makes a ton of sense. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Some one teach me how to not give a fuck.The guy at StopGivingAFuck had little PDF booklet that I read at some point and thought was very good (very badly written tho). Can't find any references to it at the moment tho. Furthermore, I've come to the conclusion that how much I give a fuck is inversely proportional to my self esteem. Ideas, such as those presented by PlutonianGlimpse will help you take the first steps, field experience will take it from there. But one book that I saw recently recommended on Brad Branson's (RSD) blog was … | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Gaming men, to get further in life, who does it?When I started reading community material, this was the first place I saw noticeable difference. A year later, it's amazing what it's got me. I went to a entrepreneurial networking session a while back (ironically, the event was in a club I often go to but during day time). I got 3 customer leads for a business that I'm only thinking about starting. At school, in any group project, I don't even have to try, people automatically pick me as the leader. (this has happened twice in two semesters now… | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 06:27 AM |
| 3 | A Little Opener That I Conjured Up At The Weekend.That's not the point. You're thinking about it wrong. First of all, the "i think I know you" opener (if you can call it that) is the oldest trick in the book - so you're not saying anything new here. Second of all, this post implies you're thinking that it matters what you open with. You think you need an "excuse" to have a conversation with her. That's the main problem. | /r/seduction | 01/06/11 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Are you studying seduction to get chicks, or to be a better man?Be a better man. But going purely for pussy can be successful too. I've seen many a guy who just bangs chick after chick, TuckerMax-esque, and yet has improved nothing else in his life (and some of them are hard-core routines guys with hours of that crap memorized and rehearsed over and over). But hey... it works for them, who are we to say it's wrong? | /r/seduction | 19/05/11 02:28 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Crashed and Burned Seddit.Re. your second set, I've tried that or its variations... and it never works for me. If a girl's trying to get through and you block her way or if she asks you for directions on the street and you say: "I'll tell you IF blah blah"... that's just douchey. Never withhold a favor in return for her agreeing to spend time with you... unless that's her job. Re. your last set, STARE CONTEST :) | /r/seduction | 21/04/11 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Tip on getting into stateI like that except for the "in my head" part... that won't do no good. | /r/seduction | 31/12/10 04:30 AM |
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