A few years back I spent about 6-7 months gaming intensely - going out almost every single day and approaching A LOT.

I got really good at approaching. I even got laid.

The problem is that my strategy the whole time was playing the numbers game. I became bold and did A LOT of sets... so much that eventually I'd get laid. But I feel I never became "seductive". Things I did in set became unplanned routines and I never did anything new.

I'm at a point now that I can't invest anywhere near that amount of time into game but I wanna get back into it. I need efficiency. I'm going back to the basics, and trying to figure out what I did wrong the first time around. I want to focus on being "seductive" - not just an approach machine.

What are the most fundamental things I should focus on?