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Damn. Good points on experiences. I'd go F for hiker (moralistic vegan) and T for banker (logic). I'm an ENTP as well.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:54 PM
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Sure, makes sense. I'm using a shotgun approach, throwing everything that could be possible. Pan for gold, toss the rest. I'm male; perhaps I'm taking a male approach. Happy to contribute.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:48 PM
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I would also like to know their Myers-Briggs types. I could help you choose based upon cognitive stack compatibility. Hiking - Sensing (Se) - external experiences Super left wing? (Fi) - internal emotions/morality Mellow? Introvert - (first function introverted) Go with the flow? Probably P personality type. Perhaps the young bull is ISFP. Banker? Most bankers are ISTJ's. Careful Meticulous Organized Decisive Responsible Focused on tradition/rules Do you want a dreamer or a decider? Based on you…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:31 PM
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You probably choose emotionally. That's fine. I choose logically. Here's some logical things to consider: Build a life vs Given a life. Partner vs Companion. Love vs Adoration. Meaning vs Money. Joy vs Comfort. Friendship vs Confidant. Loyalty vs Dependence. Sharing vs Servicing. Dreams vs Reality. Earn vs Have. Deserve vs Receive. 1 is young. Flight risk. 7 year itch. 2 is old. He's done with dating. Super socially left: * Moralistic * Fatalistic * Passionate * Stubborn * Independent * Frustrat…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:26 PM
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Do you want to build a life, or be given a life.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 02:16 PM
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It's reasonable to identify an issue, address it, and then move on. That's healthy. At the end of the day, you're the only one that can make the call as to if it's working for you or not. The abuse must cross your personal internal metric. Everyone has a different line. People who say "drop that deadbeat, he abused you!" are not seeing the color of the situation, and are unwittingly offering shitty overly simplistic advice. Yes, abuse is bad. But relationships are about give/take/forgive/address…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 08:39 AM
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Projecting can be a form of abuse, put someone on the defensive to keep them weak/doubting, as a way to gain power and get away with shady shit. (called: whataboutism and ad hominem) ( cause them to think they are on thin ice, so they don't challenge him ) ( cause them to think they are low value, others wont want them, they are dirty cheater ) ( cause them to think they are unworthy ) ( cause them work harder to "make it up to him" (serve him) ) ( "I knew it all along" when you do something wro…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 09:38 PM
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I don’t have sex with them, mostly because the “relationship” fizzles out way before that point lol. Perhaps it's not that they are emotionally unavailable but instead that you fail to generate enough attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 12:52 AM
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You're prioritizing his perception of you "I want him to know that I pay attention" Unfortunately, you're maintaining his perception of you, but disregarding his experience of you. Essentially you're ALSO saying: "your statement was unnecessary, again" - you're giving a negative response to his bid for attention. Every time he says something, you should respond with a "move towards" response to his bid and show genuine appreciation. Every time. "I don't like onions on my sandwiches" -> "Great, I…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 04:50 PM
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Case-by-case intuition
/r/seduction19/02/17 04:44 PM
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I have this mentality too. I'm just as much of a catch as they could be (notice, they have to earn the "are")
/r/seduction12/10/16 05:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/ Move on.
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:45 PM
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Just bought the book at http://www.audible.com/pd/Classics/Meditations-Audiobook/B004IBRMZS/ref=a_search_c4_1_2_srTtl?qid=1428529446&sr=1-2
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 09:59 PM
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Well, that's an oversimplification. I told her a number of stories, I KINO'd, I changed bars, I escalated, I offered her to come to my place for weed and then escalated into sex. I removed the minutia for the benefit of pacing. Perhaps you're right. Perhaps she was YES all along. It didn't feel that way to me, hence why I'm proud of it. But you're right about 1 thing, we really connected. It was actually a great connection that I'm fond of.
/r/seduction22/01/15 07:10 PM
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Once you get to the point where she's making the yes/no decision, the seduction has already taken place. If she's not seduced (enough) yet, she says no and she goes home.
/r/seduction21/01/15 09:17 PM
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Roger
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:37 AM
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Wow. Declaring me a woman. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:15 AM
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Wow. You must make good conclusions in other areas of your life as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 12:32 AM
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You're right. I edited it. And you're right that it included those things. There are 2 possible takeaways that you could have from realizing I edited my post: This OP is secretly wanting to humblebrag and he's just trying to hide it better by editing his post. This OP is actually wanting to talk about real things and is editing out noise that gets in the way of the real things. In the first case, you interpret a negative motive. In the second case, you interpret an altruistic motive. Both are po…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 12:30 AM
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I've tried in many other comments to clarify. I'm withdrawing from this discussion.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:35 PM
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Here are optional discussion points: Why do the men in /r/seduction feel the need to defend low value jobs instead of pushing themselves to be better? (A low value job mostly defined by lack of passion and/or low income). Why do most men in society seem to "not have their shit together" in their lives? What are ways that men can display their SMV in 5 minutes (because bars are distracting)
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:20 PM
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I've come on TRP very sparingly, and I always thought it was about male empowerment. Me as well. I advocate for that aspect of it when challenged. Perhaps my faith has been misplaced. It's one thing to wingman her because you're trying to earn points to fuck her. It's another thing to wingman her because you're trying to help your friend get laid. Right. And none of the comments seem to either A) understand the difference of B) inquire about my motives to make a fair/logical conclusion. Instead,…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:13 PM
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So the point of this post is not to have any real discussion. It is just you saying "Hey I went out the other night, and all other men are losers." The point of this post is that both her and I interpreted men's value to be low.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:01 PM
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I'm disappointed by the lack of good discussion in this subreddit. A discussion that is intended to center on the lack of high value men has devolved into sexist comments about her sexual promiscuity and thus value. It's as if they refuse to accept that men are low SMV and instead assume that the men are in fact high SMV and can smell her low SMV a mile away (and thus are disinterested) It's as if her failure to find a great man is because she sucks, instead of there being a lack of great men. I…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:56 PM
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You are an idiot. Thanks. this is an example of you being a beta orbiter I'm disappointed that you interpreted the story this way. This chick is probably not even that hot, if you aren't making your entire evening and life situation up, which I suspect The discussion is on low SMV of men in bars. Your negative judgments on the SMV of the woman are more telling of your lens than of the actual story.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:53 PM
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Fucking randoms from a bar monthly makes her the town bike. Also vastly increases her chances of carrying an STD which contributes to her being of lower value. Just a thought. Value is a perception. The men at the bar could not perceive this. It's evident to you (because I told you). It's unrelated to our evening.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:46 PM
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You have a "Hot" girl who is only capable of going to a bar and finding raw sex. She has been unable of finding any meaningful deep attraction when she goes out. In order to find deep attraction she requires and enlists help for her to find it rather than actively being able to pursue the goal herself. She can't even introduce herself to people. . only capable of I didn't say that. finding raw sex I didn't say that. enlists help I offered. She can't even introduce herself to people. I didn't say…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:34 PM
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Yes, that was a sore spot. Yes my rant is done. You didn't ask me about which type of sales. You took an assumption and ran with it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:30 PM
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weasel words like "sexual appetite" + the vast amount of replies and defense you muster for that supposedly just a friend girl. You are either fabulously gay, have oneitis or are female. Off-base and judgmental. Notch count. Number. Different dicks she had in her. Yes that has a severe effect on her SMV. It is so important that women will constantly lie about it. It's a number that wasn't discussed publicly. The men in the bar had no ability to read this number.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:29 PM
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No wonder a slut which has one night stands once a month can't land someone of value. No men would know this about her. This data point that you see (because I told you) which gives you this conclusion is hidden from others. So therefore your conclusion (anyone can see she's a slut) is blatantly false. A high value woman wouldn't need throwaway fucks. That's like saying "A great programmer doesn't need pillows." It's completely nonsensical and comparing two unrelated things. A woman's SMV isn't …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:40 PM
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What suggests that she's the town bicycle? Also, what would make it "so obvious that anyone could see"?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:36 PM
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A number of reasons. The night we went out together for pickup, I scored 100% on my approaches. I approached 2 women that night. (Because I was focusing on helping my female friend, mostly). I got 1 number (with a date scheduled for today) and I fucked the other girl that night. So for me, it's better to have an attractive female wingwoman than it is to fuck her. It's better to use a fish as bait to acquire 100 fishes, than it is to eat that 1 fish 1 time.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:34 PM
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A woman's SMV is front-loaded and largely visual. Also, I find it strange that a person on the internet would argue that a person whom he has never met is low or high value. I know her and I'm establishing (for sake of this discussion) that she is high value. You're welcome to question my value statements, but arguing that she's low value is an argument that will never be settled and adds no value to this discussion. Suggestion: Put on your "devil's advocate" hat and pretend she's high value for…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:31 PM
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But sometimes you might encounter someone that surprises you. Never say never, right?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:29 PM
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That's a fair point. It's also something that I've not necessarily encountered before. I don't think it's a black/white issue. I'm a high value man and I was at that bar. So it does exist. I agree that the percentage of people there that are high value is low, but non-zero.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:29 PM
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Your bias lens is flaring up again. You're off-base. I can't convince you of this. Only an all-knowing 3rd party (such as {insert God of your choice}) would know the truth.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:25 PM
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cooks for a bar, students, barista, between jobs, sales
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:20 PM
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She was looking for a high value man for various purposes. I offered my help search because I believed it to be very easy to acquire. I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:17 PM
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his observations and suggestions are nevertheless genuine I appreciate that you've received what I was intending to share
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:14 PM
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I appreciate and agree with your perspective. I think it's ironic that the seduction community is willing to dedicate themselves to learning routines/gimmicks (ie: changing themselves), but when a post declares "Be a high value man, for real this time" people run to defend who they are as people and decry changing.
/r/seduction08/01/15 07:14 PM
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That was the intention of the post :)
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:56 PM
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A good point
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:56 PM
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I suggest giving indicators of interest. They include: Asking for number/facebook Asking to move to another bar together Touching Laughing etc. etc.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:55 PM
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Suggestions?
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:57 AM
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Haha. I love this. Both your response (which misses completely what I was suggesting) and your link. I'll be adding this new tidbit to my repertoire. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:51 AM
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That's true and will most likely happen. My goal of this post was to help teach new people.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:50 AM
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I agree with this. Same goes for gorgeous women.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:42 AM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin%27s_law
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:41 AM
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Doesn't have to.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:32 AM
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I've never been called out so hardcore in my life. I acknowledge my mistake.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:28 AM
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You're very perceptive.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:24 AM
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I didn't say everyone did I? subreddit seems overrun with these kind of posts recently
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:08 AM
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Great message that I love and agree with.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:00 AM
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That's one possible explanation of many.
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:53 AM
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But actually that's a great thing. It's not that you're in your parents house. It's WHY. The subtext I intended to communicate that they were in their basement because they had no other option (ie: no drive in life).
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:50 AM
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How. Helpful. :)
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:16 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfWlot6h_JM If you have some concrete suggestions to make the post better, let me know!
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:04 AM
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So #1 then. In the future, I'm always open to suggestions on how to make my posts better. Send me a PM and we'll fix any issues you see. I'd rather help others win than be right.
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:01 AM
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Why does all this matter? Your friend has a lot of expectations for a one night stand. A woman's attraction to a man is 80% based on his life choices. I learned that from /r/TheRedPill without looking beyond the surface It's logistically impossible to learn enough of a person to really know for sure. We had employ practical ways to determine a man's SMV (Sexual Market Value). Yes, shallow, coarse, and imperfect. However, it works. With that said. Can I be blunt? I'm going to be blunt. Please don…
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:57 PM
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I added a disclaimer to the post to help clarify that. Good catch!
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:49 PM
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If everyone seems like an asshole, maybe you're the asshole :/
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:47 PM
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Which is more important to you? Being right that I'm an asshole with a hidden agenda Getting quality content in this sub that people can learn from I edited my post to remove the areas that would give you the impression that I'm a braggart. You seem dejected by that. I'm honestly surprised. I was hoping you'd be happy that we have an opportunity to learn together.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:46 PM
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Awesome! NOTE: I'm sad to see that you deleted your post. Other guys are in the same boat as you but only lurk.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:42 PM
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Just because you don't understand, doesn't mean it makes no sense. Her goal is to be laid by men she finds attractive. SMV (sexual market value) Men are attracted to a woman's SMV. (80% of a woman's SMV is her body/face) Women are attracted to a man's SMV. (80% of a man's SMV are his life choices) /r/TheRedPill knows what's up.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:41 PM
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Being laid by men she finds attractive. SMV (sexual market value) Men are attracted to a woman's SMV. (80% of a woman's SMV is her body/face) Women are attracted to a man's SMV. (80% of a man's SMV are his life choices) /r/TheRedPill knows what's up.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:39 PM
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Interpretation: You and the other guy share the same lens. /u/IpickupGrandmothers is self-aware enough to understand perspective and lensing. Declaring him right is akin to ignoring/discounting other perspectives. You might appreciate reading the book "Fierce Conversations" as it talks about this.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:35 PM
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Seattle. I agree with about 20% of /r/TheRedPill - but it's a critical 20%.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:33 PM
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I'm glad we could come to a conclusion of our discussion. I edited out the "about me" part of my post because I agreed with you. I agreed that it gave the wrong impression that I was trying to brag. My genuine intention is to help people and if a section in my post was interfering, I gladly removed it. I haven't really edited any comments. I did a few times initially to add more, but never to change the spirit of the response. Have a great day :)
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:19 PM
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Thanks for the tips; here's my upvote
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:15 PM
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You interjected the word 'bottom' of the mountain. That's very telling of your perception. There is no bottom. Just levels. Some are higher. Some lower. I'm not at the top. You're not at the bottom. Frankly, you might be much higher than me - and that's ok. If you are, please PM me; I'm ready to learn from you. (I'm ignoring the implication that my time isn't valuable.)
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:14 PM
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I didn't want her to know our secrets
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:11 PM
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I love this response. Have my upvote.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:11 PM
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We did the approaching
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:11 PM
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So you're saying they perceived that she was out of their league?
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:11 PM
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That's awesome man! Sounds like a blast :)
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:10 PM
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I rolled my eyes at the wall of text and decided not to invest in a response. Your messages have too negative/aggressive of a tone and any thoughtful response I provide will be met with reframing and derision.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:09 PM
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It's not a logical thing (which are the best hobbies). It's an emotional thing (I LOVE archery, music, drawing, etc). It's why you do things more-so than what you do.
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:04 PM
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It's definitely a lot of fun. I love it. That night we did both, but the ones that were the best were us going up together. It was very fluid and natural. I make a comment on the situation. It was karaoke that night so I would usually comment on the singer or song currently running. We'd joke about it and I'd introduce her relatively quickly. 90% of the time the introduction causes a fluid transition into their conversation "what do you do, blah blah" and then I'd talk to another guy in their gr…
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:48 PM
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Where would you recommend she look for quality people? I'm interested to learn too because I also struggle with the same thing. I'm definitely willing to accept that it's my choice of venue.
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:37 PM
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This subreddit is about improving yourself. (Technically improving your ability to seduce women). The first step in improving yourself is to remove the emotion behind "who you are." Stopping seeing yourself as a singular identity and instead seeing yourself as a fluid work in progress. In order to climb the mountain, you need to be able to look at others higher on the mountain than you and aspire to be them. To embody their behaviors. To learn from them. You could yell at me for presenting mysel…
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:33 PM
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Seattle
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:16 PM
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Holds beer as shield to protect chest. Apologetic for existing. Difficult to hear. Doesn't speak unless spoken to. Doesn't reach out to neighbor groups. Stays within group of people already familiar with. Lacks ability to introduce self to others, but once introduced seems to do well.
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:16 PM
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Pump your brakes, microbrews/craft beers are the best thing to drink. Didn't say they liked drinking beer. I said 'content' drinking beer. My intention was to express that they are content with their lives hitting the bars every night and having no other hobbies/passions/careers to speak of. It's the eternal partier.
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:09 PM
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Nobody had the balls? Maybe she was unclear with her intentions. Our goal was to filter out unconfident men. If she made her intentions clear (fuck me now), it wouldn't be a test of confidence. We want a man who's willing to take on the risk of rejection. We want a man who leads. Maybe she was plain fucking annoying to some people Perhaps. It didn't seem that way to me. I can't stand people that listen to shitty music and watch shitty movies That comes across very trite and angry. It's also a st…
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:01 PM
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An internet startup. Need to keep anonymous.
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:46 PM
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Her cutoff was pretty simplistic: "No shorter than I am." Her height was somewhere around 5'5"
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:46 PM
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Well. Kind of. The risk is that you might become ego centric. I was instead saying to be strong and not weak. Don't be a victim
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:59 PM
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I try to find other's interest but I can never tell if their "interest" is genuine or a half-assed response This comes with age and life experience. We fail. We adapt. We approach.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:46 PM
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Idk maybe I'm just running into bad conversations or people that can't carry a conversation. You are not a victim in this life. You are a hero.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:46 PM
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Since there is little that can be done to "fix" that True. But you also can't fix ugly. I'm editing my post to include "too ugly" too. Men are lucky. 80% of our value is in our life choices. Women are not lucky. 80% of their value is in their birth/appearance. If you're offended because a woman won't approach you because you're short. Imagine how she feels if men won't approach her because she's ugly. It sucks. I know. But it's the reality we live in.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:43 PM
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true, but nonetheless one of her requirements that restricted our time together
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:42 PM
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I took some adderall to help focus on work, so please forgive both my lack of work ethic and my massive response. I'm passionate about helping people and you've asked some great questions. I have a degree in Electrical Engineering that I've never used. I instead worked like a dog from 18-30 on startups. I currently own 2 startups. I'm the definition of computer nerd that doesn't live an exciting life beyond work. But yet, those restraints don't hold me back. I don't sit in that box. Expand on th…
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:40 PM
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Go do something with your life and have some balls. I agree. We need to pin that at the top of this subreddit. When I started pickup, I always thought it was some trick to get women into you. Now I realize that there's no trick. Mark Manson was right all along... It took me trying to find a man (as opposed to a man-child) for my female friend to realize this.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:07 PM
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I try to get a woman they want to be friends or I'm rejected I've been rejected 1000x more times than accepted. I've come to realize that it's not a rejection of me as a person. It could be that you two are just not compatible. I learned the hard lesson that some women will NEVER fit with me (no matter how hot they are and how much I want to sex them). It could be because they don't know you yet. They have no way to really know you.
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:11 PM
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It works within an appropriate context. You have to raise your value by connecting with her friends or having friends of value with you. Also, I let my initial impressions be very strong (leader of men: buying shots for group) (wealth: clothing+shots) (preselected by women: having a hot wingwoman) (confidence: seamlessly connected into group) Then, you are completely unapologetic about your intent. Just be factual about your interest.
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:09 PM
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"There are so many amazing women out there who are well suited to relationships. Club girls, party girls, and girls-night-out girls are great - just, not as your partner." As a man in my 30's who has high SMV, this hit home for me. I finally cracked the code on attraction and constantly am approached by women (online and off). I wasn't able to put my finger on why I'm dissatisfied with the women that I meet until reading this. The interactions I have with them, while fun, seem insincere. It's al…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:56 PM
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I've had this problem too. With girls I've already had sex with, I can get erect at the smell of their skin/hair. But during the first time, I can get a little soft (if not completely limp). It becomes a cycle because you're afraid of doing it, so you do it. I find that this happens when I think about things with my brain rather than my body. If I focus my mental energy completely on the woman, things tend to just naturally work out. If I THINK about getting an erection (or think about the situa…
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:19 PM
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I'm a software engineer and I know many female coders. So there's that.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:25 PM
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its blatantly obvious to anyone over monkey level intelligence that she baited him into saying everything. Perhaps this is more true of a statement than you realize. It's my opinion that a maybe a monkey would say this. If you think you have the whole story, you most definitely do not. (Another way: The more you think you know reveals how little you know) This gentlemen is why you never lose frame. She didn't force him to say anything, he although baited, did so of his free will. Never lose fram…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:07 PM
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Well said
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 08:11 PM
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I'm glad to hear that you shut out information that disagrees with your worldview. With that attitude, your worldview is very safe.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 05:43 PM
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Thanks for citing that. I read something about this recently. It's very interesting. I heard on NPR news (sorry for lack of citation) that over the last 80 years, students were tracked through their education. Across the board, women tend to do better than men. The gap of grades grows over time. They attributed this to the way that boys approach the world. Boys do better at tests (short bursts of attention/effort) whereas women do better at actually learning the material. The conclusion of the s…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 05:40 PM
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I don't think the goal is (or should be) the same pay. Income should be an accurate measure of value. Feminists claim (maybe correctly or incorrectly, who really knows) that income is not an accurate measure of value. Instead, they claim that women have more (or at least equal) value and are unfairly paid less just because they are a woman. Feminists believe that men and women are of equal skill and the pay gap is due to sexism. TRP believe that the pay gap is due to a skill/experience gap and t…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 05:33 PM
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The article that you cite links off to a contradictory page: http://www.aei-ideas.org/2013/12/gender-wage-gap-in-obamas-white-house-female-staffers-earn-less-than-87-cents-on-the-dollar-compared-to-men/ Here's an article that debunks the debunk: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/21/wage-gap-myth-reasons-to-believe-its-real_n_3478606.html With so much confusing, contradictory data out there, which side do we end up on? I find that people end up believing what they already believed and are jus…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:45 PM
-2

There is no wage gap. Long live the wage gap? The article you link, links to an article that seems contradictory So because there is data that contracts you, should I call you a "person who drinks the Bullshit kool-aid spewed by morons and not worth responding to?"
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:40 PM
-7

Be wary of group think. It's human instinct to label people and eject them from the group. People conform so as to not be ejected from the group (and thus die).
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:07 PM
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It's bluepill to suggest that labels are a weak way to describe a person? So it's "macho" and "red pill" to boil people down to 1 word label and bucket/categorize/generalize them? That's like saying Obama is just black. That's like saying she's just a hippie/feminist/nerd/etc. That's like saying because she's upset about the stats suggesting wage gaps, she's not worth dating. I date her because I love our banter. We're both committed to personal growth. My confidence is not shaken by her ambitio…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:00 PM
-2

Better for whom? Society is coming closer to a gender neutral balance. The pay gap is closing and awareness is increasing. For example, gays are accepted in society (in general) instead of rejected. Things have not improved for family-minded males. This has not been my experience. Sure, girls that are "Tens" are having a ton of fun being the center of attention, though for every one of them there are many other women who would prefer to find something long term. If you're having a hard time find…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:43 PM
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Because she's more than a label
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:23 PM
-1

No one said that, nor did OP imply it. You're right. He didn't imply it. He outright stated it. The words "confirming her whorish tendencies by banging every dude in sight" Without any additional information about her personality. Based solely on the fact that she had sex and he didn't. He called her a whore. A whore is a negative and gender specific statement. Negative statements based primarily on gender are sexist. This is called slut shaming. Maybe a more "fair" statement would be: "He opene…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:12 PM
3

This is the behavior that rats show when overcrowding: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_B._Calhoun After a point, the female rats started fighting and the male rats went their own way. They gave up mating and spent all their time preening themselves. When male rats see "infinite competition" they stop competing. After day 600, the social breakdown continued and the population declined toward extinction. During this period females ceased to reproduce. Their male counterparts withdrew completely,…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:23 PM
3

http://www.goodreads.com/shelf/show/100-books-to-read-before-you-die
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:21 PM
1

I think you've got a bad apple. My girlfriend LOVES taking care of me. There are many women like the one you've experienced, but not all are the same. Also, I'm not sure you showed weakness. Being sick isn't a weakness of character.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:54 PM
1

I don't feel the need to qualify myself to you
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 12:02 AM
1

Because that's what I said.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:51 PM
1

I agree with all you've said.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 07:27 PM
-1

I view myself as an Alpha male and pro-man, but let me try to share an opposing view. What if it's true that historically men have given women a bad wrap in psychological/biological science? If that's the case, then what these women are trying to do will help bring truth to the science. It would in effect clear up the bad science and help us understand our world a little better. With that said, I've not read the article, nor read the science. The truth is in the details. I feel like I have to pi…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 07:26 PM
1

Hate to say this, but your reply seems very sexist. You're making blanket statements about each gender that are not really defensible, provable, etc. Maybe I'm off base here, but I'm getting the read that you hate women. Sure, some women are borderline crazy. But not all. TRP is pro-men, not necessarily anti-women. Essentially you've stated that wise men want to abort, but the selfish woman wants attention and instant gratification. This just doesn't jibe with my worldview. Sure it happens, but …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:34 PM
-1

Look at the equation a different way. I pulled 30k out of my house equity at a cost of $200/mo over 30 years. I made the decision that Bitcoins will likely go up over the next 30 years, probably either a bubble (humans are prone to bubble/sheep mentality) or long term value (it actually becomes a currency). If it doesn't, then I just have to pay an extra 200/mo on my house, no big deal. But I'm pretty sure 30 years is enough time for something positive or negative to happen. If I lose the money,…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:12 PM
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The message was: "Leverage debt to become free." The message was not: "We can all get rich following my path. Everyone buy Bitcoins!!!" I've not launched the ATM's yet. I'm basing that information on what the Vancouver ATM does. If bafflingly stupid == rich. I'll gladly shoulder that label.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:05 PM
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With that said, we'll have to disagree. I've been called stupid when I bought an investment property ("The renter might destroy the house!"). I've been called stupid when I day traded Litecoins/Bitcoins ("When the government comes in and shuts it down, you'll lose everything") I've been called stupid when I loaned my money out on www.prosper.com ("An unsecured loan means that they can walk away with your money without going to jail!!") I've been called stupid when I started a business with frien…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:03 PM
0

The dollar bill has lost a significant amount of value over the last 30 years. I heard on NPR news today that a house worth 30k in 1970 is now worth 300k, but that's only a .7% increase in value when inflation is accounted for. TLDR: Houses don't go up in value. The dollar loses buying power due to quantum easing. EDIT: My numbers are pretty random and made up. I don't remember the exact numbers because I was driving. Please be gentle on the specifics.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:46 PM
0

True. No doubt. Goes without saying. After you have your emergency fund (3-6mo), saving is a losing proposition. We have a fiat-debt-based currency. At 3 - 6% inflation, saving cash is pretty expensive. Investing (having your cash make cash, hopefully at least 3-6% return) is better for a long term strategy.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:44 PM
1

I took a gamble in starting a company with friends 5 years ago, and it worked out. We have 30 people now. I'm just a dirty, dirty gambler TLDR: While pussies call "no fair, just gambler", I'm laughing all the way to the bank.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:41 PM
-1

If Mtgox went down. I didn't "get fucked by them". I chose to put my money there, so I bear the responsibility. The bubble didn't happen to me. I was present for 3 bubbles and traded during the bubbles. I am responsible for my decisions. Nothing happens to me, I make things happen. If I lost the money, it wasn't because of the bubble, it was because of decisions that I made myself. NOTE: I didn't lose the money. I'm talking about the strategy of thinking of a Man vs a boy.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:38 PM
-1

Ok sure. Call it what you will. I gamble every day by getting out of bed that I won't be hit by a meteor. I gamble every day that there won't be a biological terrorist attack in Seattle. I gamble that gas will be available at the gas station and that water will come out of the pipes. Some things are outside of your control, and that's ok. We all guess at the future (with varying levels of information) and try to make the best decision we can. Even so. Calling out Bitcoins misses the entire messa…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:36 PM
3

I disagree heartily. I'm concerned that your point of view is not something I'll be able to change, as 'perception of money' is a deeply engrained emotion for most people. Be careful about demonizing things you can't have (If I can't do/have it, it must not be worth having!). This is called Cognitive Dissonance Money is freedom. Let me give you an example to illustrate this. As I become more successful, I have more free time. Is this true for you? I scrimped and saved for $20k and bought a crapp…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:38 PM
3

It's easier to be awesome at your job and get a 10% raise than it is to scrimp and save for that 10%. Don't live within your means, expand them.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:32 PM
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Correction: Every dollar unwasted is a point added to your status. I spent 10k on a rental property and now don't have to pay my mortgage. Spend wisely. Saving is usually unwise.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:26 PM
1

You can't be everything to everyone all the time. You have to choose to be "nice" or to be "fun" without really knowing what the girl is into. If she's not into "nice" right now, then you lose (and vice-versa). This is just another example of an article that's complaining about JBY. Should ugly girls do a posting whining about how men only want to fuck them when they are drunk? It's the same thing. Women only go for nice guys when they are drunk past the wall.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 12:37 AM
-1

Let me take a moment to break from tradition. I lurk quite a bit. (Imma break the 4th wall and say: downvotes inc!) I think that this article (and this forum) is a little whiny. Good guys aren't finding success with women and they are looking for someone to blame. It's easy to settle into the mindset that the problem is external. The fox and the grapes comes to mind Example: Guy takes girl on date and blathers about his job (women like men with jobs, right?). She's utterly bored. No 2nd date. Th…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 12:33 AM
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If we knew each other offline, I'd hand you a towel to soak up your tears. I might snicker at you though. First of all, there is a social movement right now where people are "hooking up" rather than "dating monogamously." This in and of itself shows that your perception of reality doesn't jibe. Look it up, it's well documented. So you're saying all the women are "taken" but really it's more likely that they either 1) Just say that to you to get your creepy ass away from them. or 2) You ASSUME th…
/r/seduction04/04/14 04:49 PM
5

Hang out with her in a public setting. Ask her to hang out, but make sure it's public. Otherwise she'll think it's just another hookup.
/r/seduction23/03/14 04:31 PM
2

My posting was excessively snarky/cocky. Let me try to tone it down a bit. I'm not sure who created this system. I've "made it my own" and can only speak to how I understand it; not to how it was originally intended. The purpose of the HB system is to help you succeed with women in the short term. For which it was designed, it fills that role well. You need to know "how to woman feels about herself" when you approach her. My understanding is that the HB system is only for approaching women. It's…
/r/seduction17/03/14 04:49 PM
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No no no.. This is NOT the point of the system. HB is not "what YOU want out of her"... It's about "how SHE values herself". A HB10 will hate being approached and be extremely bitchy. The goal of the system is to tell you how to approach her. HB10 require indirect cocky funny whereas HB6 can be direct. The goal is to "figure her out" so you can manipulate her. Stop being a little bitch and complaining that "saying that the USA is richer than Africa makes Africans feel bad". Knowledge is an impor…
/r/seduction15/03/14 12:26 AM
2

You're luck to be a man. In the female dating scene, the initial value that they provide is external (What they look like. What they are wearing). That's why they spend a lot of time on their appearance. On one hand, it's easy for them. They have value by just existing, and that value is easy to see from afar. On the other, imagine how crappy it would be to be ugly. You can't change that. Your value is established by biology and you have to compensate for it the rest of your life. Beautiful wome…
/r/seduction03/03/14 06:45 PM
2

I struggle with this too sometimes. I'm 30 years old, recently divorced. I'm a computer nerd and spent the last 10 years of my life working on building my life (startups, investing, married, etc). I've never really dated and have very little exposure to common things like games, travel, books, etc. I defer my gratification and so even though I have tons of money, live in a moderate/low house in a poor neighborhood and drive a cheap car. I can't dress myself nor cook. Totally helpless. Imagine my…
/r/seduction03/03/14 06:39 PM
3

Imagine how lame it would be to have guys hang around you all the time hoping to win you over so they could get sex. Would feel really exhausting and you'd start doubting people's intentions whenever they did something nice. Just enjoy them as people and ignore their breasts.
/r/seduction11/02/14 08:25 PM
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Do you feel this pain when you approach guys? No. Why not? Because you are there to have fun and don't care what happens because of it. We all are scared of approaching women because we're attached to the outcome. We want something from them and are trying to perform to "win" an outcome. (AKA: You get laid). My recommendation is to focus on enjoying the conversation instead of worrying about an outcome. Just have fun. Be playful. Expect nothing. Practice that a few times and it gets a lot easier…
/r/seduction11/02/14 08:18 PM
1

Or, perhaps, take the advice. Break up your post into paragraphs so my eye doesn't freak out over a wall of text. Add a bold TLDR; section at the bottom to summarize it. Then, you'll be on your way to effectively communicating your thoughts online.
/r/seduction18/10/13 07:23 PM
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Too long. Didn't read.
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:40 AM
1

I had a similar situation. She did have feelings for me but didn't want to act on them for numerous reasons. I ignored her complaints and scheduled some awesome events. I bought 2 tickets for http://www.seattlereddressparty.org/ and we had the time of our life. I kino'd. We danced. I moved in for the kiss mid-night and she dodged. By the evening we were making out. She doesn't know I bought the tickets specifically to go with her. She thinks it was spur of the moment plans. She knows I'm dating …
/r/seduction02/08/13 12:03 AM
1

Thanks for the recommendation. I just bought it from Amazon.
/r/seduction01/08/13 09:58 PM
1

I removed it. I wasn't sure the appropriate action.
/r/seduction26/07/13 05:03 PM
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