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I have actually talked to people about this and questioned this about myself. I guess in the end, its important to myself as a person: I believe its important to entertain notions that clash with my world view no matter how ludicrous it seems. Of like importance is rejecting notions that are stupid/generalizations that are stupid masquerading as something sensible. Also like some_pill says, its important to provide a counter-narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 04:25 AM
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Yes, naturally- that is the right of any moderator or administrator. I don't see what is really debate-worthy about this viewpoint, much as I find the content of the subs distasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 04:26 AM
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To remind me that this world is sometimes a horrible place. Also because free drama (yes, that makes me a horrible person, I know).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 05:22 AM
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Agnostic Theism, like quite a few people on the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 09:24 AM
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I'm here to toy with ideas in my head. Which may include both, one or none at any given point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 05:00 PM
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Well, the RP guy has a metaphorical red warning sign so I could identify it and ignore him. Whining can be quite insidious in terms of harm and is something that I dislike because it is masked. If I'm going to deal with horrible people, I prefer someone who has the guts to express his awfulness outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 02:15 AM
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A) An unintentionally creepy, unfit, possibly fedora-sporting, "nice" guy who spends half his time pedestalizing women and the other half being bitter at them? Or B) A fit, disciplined redpill man focused on self improvement, who also happens to be sexist, anti feminist, and unapologetically self centered. Both choices suck, but given a choice b please, if said person is at least honest about his shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 06:58 AM
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Hm. It would be interesting to be a male and like some people, I'd probably oscillate between the genders. Blue Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 05:52 PM
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Erm...dump her ASAP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 03:26 AM
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I have no problem with Red Pill Women (RPW hereafter) in themselves, insofar as there is a recognition that a traditional relationship are merely one way of having a relationship and may not be the best way for everyone. I recognise and support the right of RPW to have a traditional relationship. I only have a problem when people start asserting that a traditional relationship is the best thing for everyone (or that I naturally want kids, or a husband). And the way that RPW talk to the others in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:09 AM
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What is the bear bare minimum you look for in a woman in an ltr? Intelligence, independence, similar hobbies and good character. What makes a woman exceed your expectations immensely in an ltr? All of the above plus being low maintenance. What in your mind in the "perfect woman" for an ltr? My perfect woman would be an asexual female who is all of the above, which is very unlikely How much do looks matter? Not very high on my list of priorities, but it would be nice to have. What hobbies and int…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 07:04 AM
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Yes, naturally. If I know someone who was a "player" type, I will go out of my way to warn any friend that he's most likely not suitable in terms of a long term relationship. Financial investment would also be a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 06:41 PM
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I'm going to state that your view sounds to me like Moore's Utopia in many ways. In your idea of pigeonholing people in gender roles, individuals must necessarily give up some sense of individuality to an ideal, in this case gender roles (which I think is a construct that doesn't even exist). I am not saying that we shouldn't hold people to certain behavioral standards, but that such standards should be universal and not a double standard for any sex. And compulsory military service has shattere…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 03:47 PM
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The expectation of people to act a certain way based on their gender. No, do not expect me to act stereotypically girly because I am a girl. Likewise, do not expect someone to act stereotypically masculine because they are a guy. People should be whatever they want to be. I guess this goes for both genders but this is an issue I would love to see resolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 02:22 PM
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Then...why are you even identifying as purple? Just say you're a red piller and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:52 PM
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3 Because doing something just means that TRP is actually worthy of action. The self-help part (which is reasonable) will actually assist some and the hating on women part, well...I leave it to the extremists to dig a deeper hole for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:37 AM
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I'm not saying the act itself doesn't create a bond (I hardly think anyone would debate that). I am talking about their decision to go ahead with the act, given there was no dairy products save ice cream and the fact that at that point in time, we had pretty much spent 5 months creating good memories. To me, that was an unnecessary risk given the (to me) less than proportionate payoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 08:53 PM
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The sad thing was we raided the entire fridge annnnd we didn't get any milk. The closest thing we had was ice cream and they ate the entire tub. So water became the (bad) alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 07:32 PM
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Sometimes. But I say both genders can act irrationally. Example: A few guy friends of mine decided it was a fantastic idea to eat a very spicy chilli in the name of creating memories. Well, even though they predicted it would be crazy drinking of water for the next 30 minutes and discomfort throughout the night and the next day, they still did it anyway to create an emotional bond of some sort. To me, that's irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 06:28 PM
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Not recent writers but: Eliza Haywood was one of the pioneers of amatory fiction, the precursor to the modern romance novel. Although one might call it "low" fiction (think something along the lines of Twilight or FSOG today), given that the genre is still hugely popular today, I think that it should be fair to say that she was an innovator in her own way. Aphra Behn, besides being a very successful playwright in her own time, also pioneered the idea that women could write for a living. Before t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 03:44 PM
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You're not the only one, I call confused. @_@
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 03:18 AM
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Thank you. That somehow made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 12:27 AM
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Firstly, much as I like to think I'm special, that's simply not the case most of the time. Now that's out of the way, I think the best way to explain this is that I am non-binary. My experience is that I identify as female but my likes/dislikes in partners are actually closer to what most people would identify as traditionally masculine. And I don't think this is particularly unique, at least in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 05:29 PM
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I am a bisexual lady. Yes, that would very much bother me actually because it indicates that our values are not similar, which is generally a poor start to any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 07:44 PM
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I don't know anything about life or death, so with the limited information I have I will just have to do the best job of life and death as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 03:41 AM
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It sounds like you need psychiatric help so please go get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 12:00 PM
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I loved Alanna from the Song of the Lioness series. Also, I am warming up to the unknown narrator from Duras's The Lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 01:01 AM
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I don't think it is for me, but to each his or her own. If it makes someone happy to be submissive then get at it. It only becomes a little problematic when you start relying excessively on someone or you surrender personal autonomy to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 12:52 AM
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Wanting isn't the same thing as liking something, although the two are often conflated. So the idea of someone liking sex as a bare minimum is to remove asexuals from the group?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 01:38 PM
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At the current moment, a day in which we are both free of school obligations so that we can relax and hang out with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 12:33 PM
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I don't know about everyone else. However, I do know this is true of me- which is why I tend to screen my friends and romantic partners on these "deal-breakers" as almost unknown variables. If my reaction differ between the hypothetical scenario and the real scenario, I will generally err on the side of the rational by reminding myself that its kinder to reject people earlier rather than later. Edited for me misreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 09:29 AM
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How does someone know they like sex if they have not tried it out? Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 06:20 AM
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Don't be an idiot. Goes for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 11:38 PM
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Honestly, it depends on what you're looking for. I'm sure that if what you're looking for is housework done, or less complaints (since they can't exactly complain, since you support them) or "not running away" (they don't have a support system), then it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 07:00 AM
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This implies that there is some Truth that RP has and since I don't believe that, we have nothing to say since we'll be talking at cross points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 08:13 AM
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I am blue pill in the definition that I am not red pill. Given that TBP does not enforce any sort of ideal, I am comfortable with being associated with the group. My main gripes with TRP is the advocation of hate for women in general. How women are either whores or uptight bitches (with no space in between! Think the Angel in the house vs the whore binary) and that either way, a woman cannot win. And they advocate this under the guise of a male space. Also, the forcing of the male into some sort…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 09:52 AM
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I have met a few unpleasant men but by and large people are polite. However, one should note that my social circle is limited ,mainly female and I do tend to avoid people I know are unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 04:07 PM
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Apparently its to give the people who are not red pill, you know, a voice (Which apparently includes but is not limited to parodies).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 07:00 AM
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There's only one suitable response: ............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 04:06 AM
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I don't think people are intentionally cruel in general. Friends have asked me about how to let someone down gently and guys who have rejected me have not been cruel either. I suppose its just because being rejected is not a particularly good sensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 02:27 AM
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As a highly intelligent woman who is both logical and intellectual, I can say that men are inferior in both logical and intellectual pursuits. /s And if I meant it, then this statement would have said more about my ego than any hypothetical man I claimed to be above. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 06:20 AM
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Its ugly, she's an ass (if she were cheating) but one person isn't a large enough sample size. Also, selective editing is quite possible or both of them are just seeking attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:28 AM
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I see the extreme TRPers as amusing/silly. For the people who only use it for self improvement (and disregard the whole part about the objectification of females), I say carry on. That said, yes, I do think it is dangerous because it encourages potential emotional abuse through objectification. I don't personally care for the moment, but if any one of my friends started this whole TRP thing, I would have to travel to knock some sense into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/14 06:48 AM
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Erm, alright. And...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 08:24 AM
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Hmm. To look at the world differently with each day which includes being open to new information, values and attitudes and make decisions on where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 12:36 AM
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21, dated but I've never slept with anyone because they happened to live far far awayyyy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 09:56 AM
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To OP: I guess you can AMA if you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 07:38 PM
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Its like why some Red Pillers are saying that wearing makeup is manipulation: its not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 10:18 PM
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There's only one thing to say: What the **** is happening here? No logic whatwhosever, and when its (presumeably) consensual then is there even a need to judge anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/14 09:46 AM
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This is in terms of sexual attraction. Your intelligence won't get me hot for you. It won't make me want to fuck you. Women's intelligence can be an asset in the business world, but in the real world their sexual value is what drives men crazy for them. Men went to war over Helen of Troy, and I can assure you it wasnt cause of her intelligence. Well, see, there's nothing more sexy to me than an intelligent person. I know most people are visual people (females as well) but... that model simply do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 09:29 AM
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Well, you do need to know that I was talking from the viewpoint of my 15 year old self who tended to extremes. Nonetheless, I still stand by what my 15 year old self thinks. RP ideology states that a woman's "major asset and unique selling point is their sexual beauty and fertility", and anything in the way of brains is secondary to that. As someone who prizes intelligence above pretty much almost anything else (including sex), trying to fit myself into the standard mould of being sexually beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/14 10:02 AM
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In my experiences, none of my close friends have had that number of sexual partners. Of course, this might be because I made most of these friends at a school where academic excellence is highly prized (thus no time for dating, pretty much)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 08:58 PM
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Let's see... I would have to accept that my main role in life is to look beautiful, take care of the house and children and to expect my husband to provide, to never question and never perform better than him. Try to be a little more feminine and fail miserably (I have been told that I am emotionless/do not care about how I look enough/am argumentative). Try to dumb myself down and probably fail miserably as well. (Sorry, I do like questioning everything). Try to get a boyfriend/potential husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 03:20 PM
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Erm, okay. So what kind of response are we supposed to formulate from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 09:30 AM
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I am an INTP/J, since my preference for P is very weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 10:35 PM
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Applied psychology is the solving of human problems through a psychological framework, yes. However, I have always seen any framework as a theoretical approximation rather than a true understanding of any sort. Its like asking why someone likes the color blue as opposed to say, red. But of course, this is my humble opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 05:50 PM
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As someone who likes systems a lot as a framework to provide answers, I have determined that things like feelings are not something that can exist inside a rational framework since, by nature, they are irrational. To rationalize them is to fail to grasp them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 05:27 PM
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To answer... If you have children, didn't you want to stay home to care for them? You will never get that time missed back if given the choice why would you not do it? (Not all rpw stay home but I noticed comments in bp like its a punishment) No children, and I don't plan of having any. I can't speak for everyone, but I cannot stand being around kids for too long. So if I did have to be a SAH parent, I'll probably have to drug myself. But I do realise some people love being parents, and if that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 01:57 PM
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I love a good debate and I wanted to try and understand how people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/14 01:28 PM
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Sadly, nope. I can understand where they're coming from but I do not agree with their views and do not therefore change my opinions. But it has made me understand more about my own views and where I am coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 09:05 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I am an English Literature major with a science background, minoring in psychology and hoping to pursue a graduate degree in psychology or social work (Still deciding if i want to go into psychology or medical social work). Psychology is definitely not a soft field- you need a good bckground in statistics and neurobiology and this is in a BA. English Literature is an "arts" field, but then I don't think this is inherently a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 09:01 AM
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Because its sad that humans have to resort to this to be in a relationship (and that people actually believe that others do it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:05 AM
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Nope, because that is one thing I am not. I would get angry, but not ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 09:49 PM
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To a certain extent, yes, the biological and societal factors do control what makes a person who he or she is. However, due to the fact that each level of complexity involves different properties that can only be explained away by a new law, I feel like that would be an oversimplification at the level we are talking about (the human being). Unless you can take into consideration all the laws at every level (which science has not yet managed to do)... Also, people have the ability to go against t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 09:05 PM
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I apologize- I did not realize you were trying to add on to my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 09:01 PM
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I gave my definition, and nowhere have I stated that only men objectify women. People objectify other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 04:36 PM
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Please elaborate. I am curious about your point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 03:26 PM
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When someone treats another person as an object. This includes ignoring the fact that others have physical autonomy, emotions, functional minds of their own and the fact they have agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/14 08:41 AM
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Hmm, let's see. First, I want to get the emotions out of the way (since they tend to interfere with analytical reasoning), so what I tend to do is to allow any/all emotional outbursts first. When I'm finished with that, then the analysis and solving of the problem may start. Analyse it, find out how to get rid of it, then solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 08:12 AM
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I don't believe in the different purposes thing, but for the sake of debate yes. It is the particulars that are debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 09:48 AM
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Chinese can be quite difficult to learn since you have to remember words seperately, so it can get complicated very quickly. Russian would definitely be interesting, in mu opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 11:25 PM
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Why not? You can love two people at the same time, and love is love :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 11:09 PM
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I am an Alpaca. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HndDkSE738w
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 12:47 AM
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Calling this out as Ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 12:14 AM
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Let's use the example of my ex, since the current guy I am dating is not my boyfriend yet (for RL reasons). I just woke up, so please forgive me if I have failed to address all the points you wanted me to. Though you seem to be harping on some of my points more than others. Also, I do not like being called baby even by my partners, so I would ask you to refrain from that. Intelligence seems to be a real winner here. You'd think more betas would be swimming in pussy if this were true for all wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 08:48 AM
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I'm curious at what will happen (if anything at all will happen). Intelligence- In terms of IQ (I guess if we're looking at it that way), I prefer someone on the same level as myself, although some deviation both ways work as long as we can still communicate on the same wavelength and get each other. EQ wise, preferably higher than myself since my EQ is not very high. Stability, both emotional and financial- this is self explanatory. I have no problems with supporting my partner but he needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/14 04:21 PM
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50 Shades was incredibly awful, and anyone who actually likes that stuff should try finding real literature OR actual books which are representitive of BDSM. Also, I don't see what amusing about TRPs/ people who lack self awareness with no empathy whatwhosever shows anything about me, except that I find people who lack self awareness with no empathy whatwhosever hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 09:54 PM
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