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For the first time in my life, I’m with a man who knows how to properly communicate, and it’s amazing. It’s crazy, today I brought up an issue due to anxiety and instead of quickly putting a bandaid over it, we discussed the problem to get to a root cause. Usually, when I talk to a guy and I’m having any type of anxiety, it’s a quick cute message to shut me up. Not with him. He genuinely wants to know why I’m feeling the way I am in a rational sense that really helps me. We were both civil and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:57 PM
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My roommate recently married her LVM. There’s many reasons why he’s a LVM, but one of them that suck with me is that when he was stationed in Japan, he had “zero attraction to Asian women, but fucked them anyways to get off.” He told my roommate, his FIANCÉ at the time, that. And she laughed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:38 PM
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THATS EXACTLY IT! It’s that inconsistency!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:29 PM
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They love to act like they care until they actually have to, don’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:29 PM
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I don’t think he wanted to deal with it. I think it got annoying for him to leave a party whenever I wanted to call/needed to talk to him. Drinking was way more important to him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:25 PM
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When I was ‘dating’ my long distance ex, I went through a period of depression...until he ended things with me. Crazy how big of an effect LVM can have on your mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:17 PM
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Right? And while I do have clinically diagnosed anxiety, I had NEVER felt anything like it outside of those guys I dated! If they’re causing you to feel like that, get tf out. Don’t try and push through it. There’s someone out there who won’t cause it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:19 PM
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My first date with my boyfriend was at a restaurant bar that I really like, he took the bill as soon as the waiter set it down. It was probs around $40, which is kinda a lot considering we’re both college students and he’s in between jobs atm. We went out for breakfast the next morning and he did the exact same thing. Didn’t even give me a chance to offer. He’s paid for every date minus 2 that I wouldn’t let him pay for, though we agreed that now we know each other better we don’t need to go out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:25 PM
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So glad he’s gone now, the whole doing it around my mom too grossed me the fuck out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:53 PM
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Reflecting on an experience I had when I was ‘dating’ an alcoholic military man long distance about a year ago. So, he bought me this vibrator that we could use long distance. It was actually pretty cool. He could control it with his phone. He has this idea for me to use it out in public, and of course, at the time I didn’t really have the balls to say I felt slightly uncomfortable with it. When he said in public, I thought he meant, you know, like a loud public place. No. He wanted me to use it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:50 PM
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This. My gut feelings have always been right. And yet, I was told to still “give them a chance” even when I knew deep down something was up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:32 PM
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My ex used to go through a whole case of natty a night while playing video games, before all going out and drinking with his friends after 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:48 PM
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Yes he does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:43 PM
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For the first time in my life, I’m dating a man who is actually a gentleman. It’s the weirdest feeling in the world. For our first date, he showed up with peanut mms, my favorite candy. He said he couldn’t show up empty handed. I only mentioned they were my favorite candy like once weeks prior. The other night we were talking about sex and stuff (I’m a virgin) and he told me that he’s in no rush, and we have all the time in the world for that kind of stuff. There’s plenty of other wonderful thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:48 PM
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It’s crazy at first I was jealous of it too. Now, I understand she is just trying to create a perfect fantasy out of nightmares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:18 PM
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My roommates fiancé is such a fucking prick. She told me she wasn’t gonna tell him she got her nails done WITH HER OWN MONEY? So he wouldn’t get mad??? But it’s okay that he buys guns every week??? They’ve gotten into huge fights about money. Like, he would let her pay for dinner or wouldn’t pay even though she would fly out to see him (ticket paid by her) or get her thoughtful gifts for holidays. When she brought it up, he said “I wasn’t raised to be a gentleman” and then turned his phone off b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:26 PM
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Oh he had terrible teeth! Luckily, it was long distance (he was stationed in Hawaii) so I didn’t really have to deal with it 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:08 PM
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My ex used to brag about chewing and drinking all the time. Instead of eating breakfast, he’d chew. Then during the day he’d go through a whole pack of beer before going to drink at night with his friends. He was drunk/tipsy 90% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:49 PM
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Whenever anyone’s bio is a list or a mess like that, it’s an automatic no for me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:23 PM
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Oh 100%. He thought he was a saint for buying me dinner and cuddling with me. That’s “every girls dream” apparently 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:23 PM
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Thank you guys so much ❤️ it’s been difficult realizing and processing, but it makes sense to me now why I feel such difficulty towards intimacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:26 PM
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Well Kim can have him lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:04 AM
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T/w I’m coming to terms with how during my first and only two sexual experiences I was assaulted/devalued and it really affects intimacy for me today. 1.) a guy was giving me a massage and just forced his fingers inside of me without asking. It was before I had my first kiss. He knew this. 2.) guy asked me to sit on his dick (we were both naked). I said no. He still tried to force my hips down and said “it’s okay”. Also forced my head down on his dick several times. It’s taken me until now to re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:56 PM
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A little while ago I was insecure about my inexperience with dating and intimacy. The guy who I was dating was extremely toxic and gaslighting. Being a virgin, I told him my expectations for sex and he: 1.) freaked out on my for wanting him to wear a condom 2.) told me that I shouldn’t know what I like 3.) chastised me for not sending nudes after the first date. 4.) told me I’d be begging to be fucked eventually so he doesn’t have to worry about taking this slow thing A whole lot else happened l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:43 PM
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