mightbefemale Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Online dating site game - Good way to get girl to provide full body picture so as to avoid meeting a fat? Good thing you've got your priorities straight! Good luck with finding that partner who really appreciates you for who you are and doesn't judge your 'short'comings.	/r/seduction	31/01/11 01:23 AM
1	Conquering one-itis. There's nothing wrong with focusing your attentions on three different girls, as long as they're aware they aren't your only flame. I was trying to make the point that if the underlying reason you have three different girls is self control problems, then maybe you should focus on the underlying problem instead of complicating it by adding more to the mix.	/r/seduction	31/01/11 01:05 AM
0	Conquering one-itis. Then shouldn't the solution be self control?	/r/seduction	29/01/11 10:04 PM
2	I'd like to talk to women, but I just feel really ugly. Stop putting yourself down! The more you tell yourself you're unattractive, the more you believe it no matter how true it is. It's a bad habit you keep using as a defense. You can't help yourself if you don't even try, so why are you asking us for input?	/r/seduction	29/01/11 10:04 AM
1	A nice face saver when she refuses to give you her number Pretty sure I would slap you if you said this to me. She doesn't NEED to play along in your game. There's no need to get defensive and attack. Accept your losses and move on. The next approach probably won't have noticed until you make a big deal out of it. Pretty sure caring what image you're projecting is the same as caring what other people think. This just screams justifying abusive behavior/anger management problems/self esteem issues if this is the clear solution you came up with.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 09:56 AM
2	[FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh" Hopefully you don't string her along with the less than girlfriend status for too long. Approval for honesty, at least. On a rhetoric note, being career oriented doesn't make you a MAN. It makes you a person who is career oriented. There are plenty of career oriented women just as there are plenty of career oriented men.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 09:41 AM
1	How do you portray your confidence? Downvote for womanhating. A real pity. I thought the first two paragraphs were good.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 09:09 AM
-1	Online dating site game - Good way to get girl to provide full body picture so as to avoid meeting a fat? A pretty cute and interesting girl on okcupid and I have exchanged a couple entertaining and intriguing message What am I missing here? Shouldn't that be enough? You could be even more careful and ask if she'd be good at making you sandwiches, because you clearly don't care about what's between her ears.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 08:48 AM
1	What Women Have to Say About Guys Caveman don't need cavewoman with self confidence or brains or a nice personality. Caveman beat cavewoman over head and drag back to cave anyway. Then she make caveman sammich. Caveman don't like sammich? Caveman throw it back so cavewoman can properly learn how to make caveman sammich.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 08:40 AM
1	I'd like to talk to women, but I just feel really ugly. I'm the opposite. I'm terrible with public speaking, but decent with approaching one on one. They're different things and you might be exaggerating a bit in the crowd situation. Have a friend who would be honest with you and knows you well tag along sometime and critique you. Have them be honest about your physical looks and your body language when you're trying to talk to women. Maybe you have a pedostache you're too attached to or you slouch and don't use much/too much eye contact when you get…	/r/seduction	29/01/11 08:09 AM
2	How do you deal with girls who text while you're hanging out together? Tell them that if they've got something more important to be doing than spending time with you that you'd be perfectly happy to get up and leave. Then proceed to if they don't apologize profusely. They're being disrespectful. Important calls/texts are fine, but if they say they want to see you, it's rude to focus on someone else.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 08:02 AM
1	[FR] #2 Confidence at an all time low. They start catching on to your tricks if you go down the line one after another using the same opener, too :P	/r/seduction	29/01/11 07:57 AM
4	I'd like to talk to women, but I just feel really ugly. Again, self confidence effecting body language. Take a mental note sometime of how you carry yourself when you're happy and things are going well for you. You finished a big project at school/work. You made an awesome sandwich AND you get to eat it. You stand up straighter and act like you own the place without doing it to the point of exaggeration. You want to recreate that posture and self confidence so you feeling good resonates wherever you are. If you act like you feel comfortable with your…	/r/seduction	29/01/11 07:54 AM
1	I'd like to talk to women, but I just feel really ugly. Don't worry so much about it. You're always your own biggest critic. You're making an effort to clean up, I'm sure you're just fine. Women are just as insecure about their image as you are. Women notice body language before they notice physical features. Approach with sincerity and self confidence and you'll get far more attention.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 07:29 AM
3	I'd like to talk to women, but I just feel really ugly. Don't worry so much about it. You're always your own biggest critic. You're making an effort to clean up, I'm sure you're just fine. Women are just as insecure about their image as you are. Women notice body language before they notice physical featres. Approach with sincerity and self confidence and you'll get far more attention.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 07:29 AM
1	New girl in my life. She says just friends, but every time we hang out it feels like we're dating. We cuddle and I feel so complete when I'm with her. She's still hung up on her ex. What should I do? Something along those lines, actually. Decide if you're comfortable at her place or in a public place and make some conversation so you're comfortable talking to her. You might notice if you're sitting across from her that she's sitting in the same position as you or leaning towards you. When you're both in a good place, tell her you really enjoy her company, she really puts you at ease, something unique you like about her, etc, and tell her you'd like to have a relationship with her. If she doe…	/r/seduction	29/01/11 07:22 AM
1	I'd like to talk to women, but I just feel really ugly. You're your own worst critic. Clean up as best you can and don't worry about the rest. Ladies notice body language over looks. If you approach with honesty and self confidence, you'll be fine. If you look like you're having a good time and want them to be part of this good time, they will respond better. Now go look in the mirror, tell yourself you're beautiful a few times, and get out there. ;)	/r/seduction	29/01/11 07:11 AM
1	Pizza Boy Game ass chaps	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:51 AM
1	How to handle being teased Her approach seems like a good portion of the approaches in r/seduction, yet most of the responses here say she is being immature and/or a bitch. She likes you and is expressing confidence towards you by teasing. Tease her back! :P We're really not that different from you dumb boys. Honest.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:44 AM
1	[FR] Controlling girl. What to do? So when a guy displays confidence he's acting alpha and thus all is well, but when a girl is displaying confidence she's controlling and that bitch should be shunned? Maybe you should get yourself a sex doll that won't talk back. At least you'd be getting laid. (See example above about how 'tiny negs' don't make the other party particularly warm to you thus defeating the purpose)	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:34 AM
1	New girl in my life. She says just friends, but every time we hang out it feels like we're dating. We cuddle and I feel so complete when I'm with her. She's still hung up on her ex. What should I do? Make a move and tell her how you feel or move on. She's currently just using you as a crutch. It's not fair to you even if it feels good right now. It'll get stale pretty soon when nothing changes after you get sick of no reciprocation on her end. If you tell her how you feel now, you'll know if you have a chance or if you're just wasting your time. If she doesn't want a relationship, you won't have been wasting your time on someone who won't reciprocate and can find someone who genuinely wants …	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:27 AM
1	[FR] #2 Confidence at an all time low. Pretty negative starter. It makes you sound cocky. Start with something more upbeat next time and you'll probably get fewer glares. Good start!	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:18 AM
1	What Women Have to Say About Guys Body language, tone, word choice. In that order.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:13 AM
1	What Women Have to Say About Guys It's not how big it is, it's what you do with that head of yours ;) Seriously though, sense of humor is important. If you can't figure out how to make me laugh, chances are I'm going to get bored of you in about five seconds. It means that you're able to catch on to enough of my cues (verbal and physical) to figure out how to make me think you're worth my time.	/r/seduction	29/01/11 06:12 AM
0	Conquering one-itis. The rule of three. Are you telling everyone to be a player? I'm not saying delete all numbers, but don't try dating three girls at once. That's poor taste and can backfire badly. Choose date activities based on what you enjoy, not based on what you think girls enjoy. Shouldn't you be doing this anyway? Also, you learn what girls enjoy when you share planning responsibilities (or even ask if she'd be into rock climbing...).	/r/seduction	29/01/11 05:46 AM
1	Finally got a girl's number from class It's as simple as saying 'well if this time doesn't work for you, when are you free this week. i'd love to take you for coffee/tea/going to the zoo.' Calm down. She's a socially awkward human, too.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 02:49 PM
2	Finally got a girl's number from class She likes you. Chill out. If she can't make it to Starbucks prompt her to pick another time in the next few days that works because you'd like to see her again. If there are lulls in the conversation, see if there are any board games around. Competition is a good flirting mechanism. Good luck!	/r/seduction	27/01/11 08:48 AM
2	[FR] After a long unhealthy relationship I discovered the seduction community, and used some of the techniques I learnt on my first field experience. I was lucky enough to close with my target. Advice and tips are appreciated. Ah. See, being social with others would be the good advice when waiting. Chances are all the other ladies would have already seen you chatting up lady A to think of you as an actual prospect. No worries dude, maybe one of them would make you a sandwich. :)	/r/seduction	27/01/11 08:23 AM
1	If you see this - talk to her (xpost from pics) I would be creeped out if you did this to me. You should probably ask if she wants to get roofied later, too.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 07:10 AM
2	Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips? No. "The talk" is both of yours. If you don't want to be exclusive, tell her that instead of jerking her around for the next few months. If she doesn't want to continue, accept it and move on instead of toying with her.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 07:00 AM
1	[FR] After a long unhealthy relationship I discovered the seduction community, and used some of the techniques I learnt on my first field experience. I was lucky enough to close with my target. Advice and tips are appreciated. What a great idea. You really know how to show a lady a good time. If the girl you are pursuing goes the bathroom, definitely try to score other chicks, broski. If she comes back out seeing you flirting with other girls, she'll definitely feel flattered you decided to spend time with her and not ditch you right then and there. Don't worry though, I'm sure you'll score another piece of meat.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 06:39 AM
4	How do you get into state? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IqhlQfXUk7w	/r/seduction	27/01/11 06:25 AM
1	My favorite way to respond to rescheduling requests (aka advance-warning flaking) If they flake on you once, let it go. They'll probably make it up to you. If they're flaking on you five times in a row without even trying, let them go. They're clearly not interested or worth your effort.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 06:15 AM
1	My favorite way to respond to rescheduling requests (aka advance-warning flaking) It's a bit more obvious than you think. Shut that shit down.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 06:04 AM
1	Girl says she's into another guy Express your feelings if you want, but then move on. You've been friendzoned. Don't be like http://xkcd.com/513/ and deceive her/yourself.	/r/seduction	27/01/11 05:32 AM