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| 66 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? | Discussion | mightymorphinnyla | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:44 PM |
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| 0 | Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornierLol. Okay. That’s fine😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:51 AM |
| 0 | Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornierOkay. That’s interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 28 | Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornierIs Reddit and a 2010 blog now used as creditable sources? 😂 One of those Reddit threads is from 2015. The other is 6 months old, but it’s still just a Reddit thread. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:48 PM |
| 36 | Women want to make all of these ridiculous rules, be insanely selective and play well above their league but then refuse to acknowledge that the ONLY thing affording them this luxury is that men are significantly hornierWho is refusing to acknowledge that? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?I support sex workers. I also support men protecting themselves. It’s possible to do both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 09:48 AM |
| 50 | Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks.Exclude whoever you want from your dating pool. No one cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Men desire virginity because women lie about body countThat’s fine as long as you’re not interested in kiddos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:28 AM |
| 3 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Do what you want. If you find a woman willing to agree to that, then you’ll have your happily ever after. No one will care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Just to clarify, men willfully choose to marry someone more poor than them knowing that there’s a 50% chance that they’ll divorce, 90% chance that the wife will initiate it, and then become so surprised when she walks away with their assets because… they know that money is the foundation of women’s love? That’s very interesting. If I were so sure that one gender’s foundation for love was money and they were more than willing to scam me out of my money/assets with sham marriages-I’d protect mysel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s really quite sad. 🙁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy does it seem like black males and females dislike each other? It just feels like black men and women take every opportunity to shit on each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:25 PM |
| 5 | What factors determine a woman's attractiveness?RedditsOlderBrah speaking the truth! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Clarification on the sexual double standardI’ve never heard anyone explain it that way. Glad I scrolled down far enough to read your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Clarification on the sexual double standardThis question is posed to no end. Every time I see it I think “Who cares?” Screw feminist and misogynist. Live your life. Choose the person that brings you peace. Have your preference as long it’s not for kids or non-consensual. I will add that is pretty vexatious to also hear the people who want a low body count also complain to no end that they’re so lonely because they can’t find someone (of legal age) who meets that standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Women definitely lie. Humans lie. There is a numerous amount of women who take men for all they are worth. There are a numerous amount of humans willing to take advantage of the elderly, the sick, the broken, the poor, etc. I just don’t understand why with all this information at hand- the numerous cases of highly publicized divorce proceedings where a women who would have no money now has 50% of the man’s worth because of divorce-why on Earth aren’t more men asking for prenuptial agreements? I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Why do these men tend to marry women who have considerably less resources? This is a genuine question. Why do rich men do this so often? I hardly ever see rich women do this. I’m not rich, but I would never marry someone who made considerably less than me. (Mostly because I’ve been in poverty and have no desire to return to it.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Knowing this, why do men still enter into marriage without an ironclad prenuptial agreement? Not trolling-I am just legitimately confused by this phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?I realize you’re generalizing all women. But I would implore you to read my comment history. Or not-it is easier to just call all women “men-haters”. My brother is an Incel with an earnest income. He often goes on vacation and purchases services from sex-workers. (Disclaimer: I also support sex workers.) He doesn’t let women use sex and the promise of sex talk him into a legally binding financial agreement (marriage) with no prenuptial agreement. He said it makes no financial sense. I agree with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Tell me you have a confirmation bias and compulsion to play the victim without saying it. You haven’t answered a single question. You haven’t provided any resources for your claims. Most of the time when I ask men of PPD a question they answer with full sentences, resources/statistics, and what seems like genuine personal examples. Which often makes me think “Okay. This is may be more than just perception.” You’re responses remind me of the responses from ultra feminist. You’re the other side of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Do you have any articles or statistics that prove your statement that pre-nuptials are worthless in court? Also, why wouldn’t men lobby for change to divorce law? Or lobby to be given 100% child custody? Also, if everything you’re saying is true then why on Earth are a large portion of men choosing to get married? Is it impossible for them to learn from the mistakes of others? Do men not warn other men of the terrors of entering into a relationship with women? Why not leave dating all together? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:27 AM |
| 2 | 99% of heterosexual females want their boyfriend to be taller, and a good dealer heavier than them.Just to clarify, It’s unattractive that your girlfriend weighs more than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 03:30 AM |
| 24 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?Seems to me that a lot of the time the men have already divorced the woman with their actions. The just filed the paperwork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Why are most divorces initiated by women?I hear this complaint from men very often. I know men hear this from other men often as well. I always wonder “why don’t more men use prenuptials”? That has always boggled my mind. It’s not all that hard to complete. Its less of a headache than divorce proceedings without the prenup. I asked a coworker who was complaining about this the other day. He just told me “that’s a good question”. I want him to expound, but he just said “he’d have to do some deep reflecting”. But he never did expound. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Why is Reddit so hell-bent on convincing men that body count doesn’t matter?Yeah, maybe. I don’t know. Or care. Body count means nothing to me. I can only speak from my point of view and what goes on in my social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is Reddit so hell-bent on convincing men that body count doesn’t matter?Probably deeply engrained gender, social, religious norms and tradition. I absolutely do not care if someone views me as a slut or whore. I don’t follow those traditional norms. Plus, all of my loved ones love me no matter what. It works both ways for my family. Because I have an older brother who had a fairly low body count. We always supported him. Not going fast him out or make him feel like less of a man for it. He makes a good amount of money so he often vacations to places where sex work i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is Reddit so hell-bent on convincing men that body count doesn’t matter?BLUF: Men can want a woman with a low body count. That’s fine. It’s just a little annoying when they belabor about how they’re alone because they can’t find a femoid who meets their standard. The rest of this is just things I think we should keep in mind when it comes to high body count (males/females). I see a lot of post addressing low body count so I’m not going to focus on that. But it’s kind of long so feel free to skip. In the US, the average age of first having sexual intercourse was 16.8… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you open FWB relationships?Yeah, I could see that being the case for some people. I think there’s a rush in that. I’m a pretty boring person though. Chaos just gives me no rush only anxiety. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you open FWB relationships?The long term relationship I’m in now started as a FWB. I don’t have the highest libido and I have a career that I’m heavily focused on. The libido mismatch in previous relationships seemed to always be an issue. (I can’t have sex every night or most nights. I just find that far too mentally and physically exhausting. The most I can do is a couple times a week.) Also, I have a career that pays well, but generally speaking men find it emasculating to be with a woman who earns a higher income. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I just think to myself “what if my son, brother, or good friend faced this issue?” Maybe becoming an incel is inevitable for a portion of the population. I’m curious as to what I could my social group and I do to prevent our male loved ones from becoming the type of incel who advocates for violence against women or the type of incel who wants to unalive himself? How can my social circle and I prevent a male loved one from tying the vast majority of his self worth to sexual conquest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I understand what you mean. I’m definitely not conventionally attractive. Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend settled for me due to the disparity in the dating market. Clearly, he would’ve preferred an ultra hot woman more fair skin and long straight hair since that’s the western standard of beauty. And probably still longs for that. We do share similar hobbies and I feel like I’m kind. I feel like we’re soulmates. But after seeing these comments, realistically, I’m probably just the human equiva… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I will keep that in mind. Thanks so much for your input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Okay. I’ve not had anyone mention that part of social media before. That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Hello. Sorry in advance for the long post. I made a post about this yesterday. I don’t believe people are entitled to a relationship, but I do believe we as a society can at least try to address the many if not all of the issues males are struggling with. I don’t know anyone who identifies as an incel IRL. But I see a lot of men expressing anguish online. It makes me think “what if this were my son, brother, or good friend?” When I frame it that way, in a more empathetic light, it breaks my hear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Thank you for your comment. I don’t think anyone should be forced into a relationship. I just wonder if I were to raise sons that become Incels, what can my social circle and I do to prevent them from becoming a hateful or suicidal Incels? Maybe becoming an incel would be inevitable, but in your opinion is there a way to better way address it than what we’re doing now? Can I better prepare my future sons for potential dating woes by explaining the inherent biases in dating? What resources could … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I see what you’re saying. I would say that IMO the “vehement denial” may be more of an unconscious bias than the insidious form of gaslighting I see some men attribute it to. So if this is just the way dating is now or always has been, what do you think can be done to prevent the anguish the unchosen men feel? Basically, do you think there’s anyway to raise males in a way that their self-worth isn’t tied to the amount of sex or girlfriends they have? It’s just disheartening to think that my brot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:54 AM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Thank you for sharing your opinion. When you say “women have insanely easy lives” and “women can live without ever suffering”, are you just referring to the suffering from loneliness? Or from your viewpoint is pretty much everything in life easier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Right on. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?So criminalizing adultery for civilians will decrease extramarital affair because they have less time away from their families? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I don’t think society needs to fix it. Society really takes too long to address anything. I facilitated this conversation because I want to know what I and my social group can do if our kids or loved ones find themselves as an incel. No one wants their brother, son, friend devolving into a misogynistic extremist or choosing to unalive themselves. So I wanted to viewpoints from the community to find different ways I/we could address the issues and maybe prevent a male from even going down either … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Hello. What if we made it smaller scale? What if I just wanted to prevent a loved one from becoming the type of incel that is suicidal or has misogynistic extremist views? What could I do to address their issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Hey, you answered them all. Thanks. Are these issues you think society needs to address as a whole? Or does that seem unnecessary to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I can understand how one would view the rise of dating apps as an issue. But Is there anything inherently bad about women going to college, working, and embracing body positivity? What were the lies men were told? To be fair the rate of violent domestic violence against women was significantly higher 30 years ago. ( https://bjs.ojp.gov/content/pub/pdf/ipv9310.pdf) Maybe being told men were bad helped. But are you saying men overcorrected? This is definitely a tangent, but what is so wrong about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?If that’s the case, then why? Is there an underlying reason for this in your opinion? Do those few men provide resources? Fulfill a social/gender/religious norm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?That is a viewpoint i hadn’t thought of. Thank you for sharing your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?When I go to the grocery store, church, work, park, mall, etc. I often people watch. I see a very diverse variety of parents with their kids. I definitely do not see a bunch of average women with men that are a 10/10. It’s just a bunch of average people. So that tells me that a good portion of people (women) are willing to settle so they be in a relationship. But is there something wrong with having standards? Doesn’t everyone want the best in life? I assume that even you have standards? You’d p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Why do you think men aren’t allowed to view themselves as desirable? What’s stopping them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:47 AM |
| 0 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?That was my initial conclusion, but I still wanted to see how others weighed in on it. Thank you for sharing your view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I appreciate your candid response. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Military service members have the same rate of adultery/extramarital affairs as civilians. This is despite the fact that adultery/extramarital affairs are punishable by UCMJ in the military. Knowing this, would you still recommend criminalizing adultery? Do you believe that criminalization would lower the rate of extramarital affairs? Or would it be like sex work-where people just find a different or more hidden way to do it? Also, adultery was criminalized, what would be the punishment? https:/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Hello. What if I made it smaller scale then. Hypothetically, if in the future I had sons and these sons grew up to encounter many difficulties in dating. Let’s say they identify as incels. What do you think my social group and I could do to prevent them from becoming the type of incel who has misogynist views and promotes violent extremist views? Or to prevent him from becoming an incel who wants to unalive himself? How could my social and I help him to not equate a sexless life or lack of datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menIf you’re not asexual, then you’ll want to have some sort of sexual attraction to the person you’re entering a relationship with. I always thought that was a given when discussing dating so I don’t ever give that as a disclaimer. Secondly, have you considered that these rules of attractiveness in women (and men) may be full of unconscious biases? Internalized stereotypes and prejudices? It’s something people bring up all the time when we discuss workplace issues. It’s also discussed when it come… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?Every time I see a question or comment like this I just wonder if these people ever people watch IRL. If all you look at is celebrity couples, instagram/ YouTube/or any other social media famous couple then you’d think that only hot people get to date. But if you go outside to a grocery store, church, zoo, park, basically any place you see a family-you’d see a wide variety of couples. I’ve seen so many types of couples. Some of which were quite astounding to see. Plenty of men in relationships a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.I took race, ethnicity, height, weight, mental health, masculine/feminine traits, hobbies, fitness into account. Clearly severe deformities, severe behavioral health issues, and absolute/relative poverty changes the dynamics of dating far more difficult. Please help me understand what “things” I’m not taking into account. I’d genuinely like to know. Not being sarcastic. Telling every stranger who doesn’t say “men have it more challenging” that they only associate with attractive people, makes it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Why ask for an opinion if you’re just going to tell anyone who has an opinion different than yours that they’re wrong? Just make a statement. “It’s challenging for men to date. You’ll never change my opinion.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Again, these are my coworkers. I don’t prefer to hang around them. I need money so I work. I don’t want to hate my work so I go out of my way to be kind and social with my coworkers. They’re definitely attractive to whoever they’re in a relationship with. None of them have any severe deformities or anything. They all have great personalities though. I guess if no severe deformity and a good personality equals “attractive” then they’re all attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Hello, I used to think it was hard for men to date based on the comments online. But all of my male coworkers make it seem like it’s not all that much harder for men to date IRL. That’s kind of how I view it now. I’m 32, a female, and I work in Human Resources. There’s a 50/50 split when it comes to the gender of my coworkers. The men I work with have varying degrees of age, fitness, “feminine” traits, “masculine” traits, height, race, ethnicity, work ethic, hobbies, goals, etc. They all seem to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 06:55 PM |
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