minklash00 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	HELP ME GET OVER LVM	SEEKING ADVICE	minklash00	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 07:47 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Today marks one year since I blocked my narcissistic, emotionally abusive, alcoholic ex. Here are all the ways my life has improved since: Why do I feel tears of happiness coming? 🥺 I’m so happy for you, beautiful stranger <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 09:04 PM
6	For anyone considering a sex toy Which website did you use? 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 12:50 AM
5	This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death! They’re beautiful! Thank you for sharing! goes straight to Aldo LOL!! ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 07:42 AM
12	This New Year’s resolution is to always show up for myself and be my own soulmate. In love and death! So beautiful! May I ask where you got them? I’m on the hunt for some myself 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 12:49 AM
1	Self-esteem check Reading my mind tonight. Disgusted at myself for even wondering why. Thank you for the reminder 🥺	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 06:58 AM
23	Do NOT blame yourself after getting ghosted after a first or second date! Thank you. Needed this today. 😞💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 05:46 PM
26	What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice? Overly religious - trying to make up for the shitty person they know they truly are When asked what their longest relationship was and the answer is under a year (he was in his 30’s) “Gotta vibe it out in person” - fuck off “Its rare I find someone I like” again- fuck off	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 07:26 AM
33	The audacity of a LVM Ew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 05:47 AM
3	Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions: So my cheeks are super sensitive and I’m scared of using it there but I might do that for 3 min!!!! Have you tried anything my paulas choice?? They’re not as affordable as the ordinary but soooooo worth the $$$	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 05:25 AM
6	Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions: I’ve tried a couple of their products! The azelaic acid was fantastic for the price. I also just tried the BHA mask (have been hesitant because my skin is SUPER sensitive). Looking forward to seeing the results I’ll get from that. What about yourself??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 03:51 PM
7	Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions: So I’ve been really into drying flowers lately! My birthday passed so I’ve slowly been creating book marks from the flowers I dried from the bouquets I received! I’m also really into skincare so I’ll research new ingredients! Also working out or going on a walk. Texting a friend I haven’t talked to in a while (vs texting a fuckboy lol)!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 06:44 AM
13	Thinking about a person you know isn't worth your time? Here are some great distractions: Wow. I love this. Thank you and appreciate you for putting this together!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 05:19 AM
139	Her reaction is so heartwarming! It’s not about the money, it’s the effort to make her feel special Wtf why did I start crying 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 03:56 AM
8	Feeling frisky? Get laid by yourself Queen! A thread on some sex toys that will rock your world, teach you about your body, and give you the confidence (and strength) to abstain from the abundance of low value dick options that will use their eloquent words and tricks to try to access your body. Super discrete. Even a fan can clear out noise.... noise of the toy. Not your noises, careful with this one 🤪😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 10:40 PM
7	How often do you expect to hear from your partner? Exactly!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 08:14 PM
27	How often do you expect to hear from your partner? At first I was going to ask “is he working more”? But that’s not an excuse nor is it relevant, especially if he was all in during your honeymoon phase. Been there, done that. Unfortunately it doesn’t get better - if anything worse (especially if you’ve already done your part by communicating). Sorry pretty lady, start moving on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 07:49 PM
0	Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD? Giiiirl I went through it. This was one of the more “serious” ones I’ve been thru since my last relationship 4 years ago so I was so confused. And to top it off he tried to be like “just because I lost interest in you sexually doesn’t mean we can’t be friends/ don’t be bitter”... riiiiight hahaha I stupidly just deleted his number instead of blocking it so I reallly hope he doesn’t try it. 😂😂 yes! Everyday gets easier and whenever I get “upset” I just remember how much of a LVM he is and I feel …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 06:57 AM
5	Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD? Exactly!!! Like dude why even waste your time. Lame. Oh well, we live and learn. And you’re absolutely right - their loss!!!! I’m sorry you also went through this but I hope you’ve recovered and hope you’re doing okay during these weird quarantine times 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 06:49 AM
4	Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD? Yes girl!!! You’ll be a whole new woman after absorbing everything from here! Also I really STRONGLY recommend reading “why men love bitches”. I’ve read it about 3 times and each time I learn something new. Don’t be too hard on yourself either. Thinking of every man as a lesson is probably the best piece of advice I can give you. I hope you’re doing okay during this quarantine 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 01:33 AM
10	Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD? I was a little bummed but only because of the rejection. He was pretty rude to me when he figured out I blocked him on social media (rookie mistake, forgot to block the # too lol). Which just goes to show how well these LVM can put on a mask. I have stopped dating for now but already know I’m going to be fabulous at it when I get back in the game. I’m proud of myself for not letting his words get to me and leveling up. But same here, if you cancel on me once I’m done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 01:14 AM
18	Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD? Did everything perfectly, in the beginning! Red flags didn’t show up until after sex (some minor things perked my ears but didn’t think anything of it until I really reflected on the situation and saw that many things connected). Consistent communication, planned dates, was super sweet and attentive. Then after sex it was like a switch turned off. Really sad. Luckily I picked up on it and reciprocated the energy BUT only after a conversation. Wish I would have just dropped him a couple weeks soo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 01:00 AM
2	To block or not to block Yessssss beautiful! I’m so happy for you! Each day that passes will also get easier and before you know it, you’re not even going to remember what his name was 😂💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 09:23 PM
52	Thoughts on using Bumble for OLD? Found that dudes on bumble were worse than tinder. Atleast on tinder you get approached with honest intention (of just having sex). Dude I got involved with from bumble pretended to like me for months until we had sex and then slow faded. These are the types of dudes who don’t approach women in real life because they “don’t need to since they get approached” 🤢 Soooooo in my opinion ... stay far away from bumble.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 08:50 PM
4	To block or not to block Do not feel stupid and pathetic. No use in wasting anymore energy on this piece of turd. Ignore your friends and do what is best for you in this situation - in this case, block... no need for any explanation. You’ll feel so much better. You wouldn’t want to risk him reaching out when you’re in a better head space. Trust me!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/20 07:40 PM
9	How many percentage of tinder meetups lead to actual LTR? Tried online dating for 4 years. All that came of it was nothing..... not even when I was in search of a mere consistent FWB 🤦🏽‍♀️ useless.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 05:58 AM
8	Leaving my negative value situationship Did we date the same person?? 🥴you got this girl!! 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/20 05:33 AM
2	I finally dumped him, and I’m feeling sad. How do I stop caring? I know this isn’t much help right now but before all this corona mess, what helped me was dedicating my time to people who I knew would never disrespect me. I started volunteering, making plans with friends atleast twice a week, going to the movies once a week, reading a new book, learning new things (random things), planning for my future business (and reviewing things I learned in school). Keep yourself busy. Block on ALL social media. Delete ALL convos. When you think about him, remind yourse…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/20 09:33 PM
1	Beware of peacocking SIIIS! I wasn’t expecting him to actually pull up in a Rolls Royce but I was shook when he was like oh can you get out first cuz my door doesn’t open.... lmfaooooo if only you knew the rest of the story and his audacity.... I think you’d legit have tears rolling out yours eyes 😂😂😂🥴🥴🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/20 06:08 PM
10	Never be like the third girl THIS. LORD THIS 😩😩 AND do not believe them if they say they “retired” the music business haaaaaaaaaaa	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/20 05:14 AM
6	New to this sub, and going through a little heartbreak. Need help "ending" it. Agree!!! I wouldn’t even wait for a response. He’s going to end up manipulating it into “I tOLd yOu I wAsnT l0okInG for anything serious”. Just say how you feel and block 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/20 12:09 AM
9	Beware of peacocking Totallly had the car thing happen to me! Had pics in front of a random Rolls Royce on the street butttttt turns out his actual car was NOT THAT..... and he had to climb out the passenger seat to get out of his actual car 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/20 12:03 AM
6	getting so tired of guys losing interest so quickly OP please be careful with these men on bumble who claim to want a relationships - sometimes they advertise this because they know this is what we are looking for. Might be hard to get off online dating at first but trust me. Once you get a taste of what it’s like to make plans with friends who don’t flake on you, refocusing all your precious energy being wasted on LVM into something productive (for me it’s been volunteering) and getting in tune with yourself.... there’s absolutely NO going back.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 06:07 PM
21	My most LVM ex texted me So excited and proud of you! We’re in this together 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/20 07:08 PM