minorstyle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Can you non-physically seduce a woman? If so, how? It's quite difficult, but I actually know a woman who fell in love with a guy over the phone (the other line in a sales type job). Her words, not mine. It's very rare though, and I wouldn't really recommend it as a strategy.	/r/seduction	17/10/19 11:48 PM
3	How to deal with overthinking I see. In your case, I think 'overthinking' is being used as a defense mechanism against fear of rejection. Your overthinking is causing you to NOT act, which delays, but pretty much guarantees an eventual rejection. Work on your fear of rejection (which is natural by the way), as I think that is the underlying issue here.	/r/seduction	17/10/19 11:46 PM
3	Benefits of daygame outside of meeting women? Honestly, I would go as far as saying that "other than women" is the main benefit of day game! Day game, in my opinion and personal experience, is significantly less effective than night game or online game for "getting" women. However, it's great for getting more comfortable with social interactions, being quick on your feet (thought and conversation wise), making friends, and just having a better time while out and about running errands!	/r/seduction	17/10/19 10:30 PM
1	How to deal with overthinking Do you have some examples? I get that you are overthinking, and it is probably putting a mental strain on you, but how is it actually manifesting in your game? What actions do you take because you overthink? That could really in giving you some good advice.	/r/seduction	17/10/19 10:25 PM
6	Went for kiss close, got rejected hard, feel weird Kind of weird of her to go out with you on two dates and then have that reaction. Why even bother with the second date. However, you're right, you should have made the move on the first date when she was over at your place.	/r/seduction	17/10/19 10:22 PM
2	When she takes tons of time to respond to a text, but apologizes for it, is that a good sign? Unfortunately, usually not. The apology doesn't really add much value, typically. It's really hard to tell though without some background.	/r/seduction	17/10/19 05:58 PM
4	Apps texting - be sexual or not? Generally it's best not to be too sexually forward in text/chat, or at least let them initiate that. Here's the crux of the reason: If a girl is going to respond favorably to "Hey wanna fuck", then she's also going to respond favorably to pretty much any reasonable approach. However, many girls will respond to countless approaches but NOT respond well to "Hey wanna fuck". SO .. why risk it? The only benefit of this approach is pre-selection .. if she responds favorably, the odds of getting laid …	/r/seduction	16/10/19 04:35 PM
2	how can I stop feeling self conscious ? Why does someone feel self conscious Feeling self-conscious is natural. We are social beings who are programmed through years of evolution to care about how we are perceived by fellow beings. The only way to get over it is with practice. You've got to practice, even if you feel uncomfortable. Eventually, you'll get used to it and feel less and less uncomfortable. This is of course, assuming you aren't speaking absurdly loud in a very unnatural unusual way, which probably isn't a good idea to begin with.	/r/seduction	14/10/19 09:47 PM
1	Date took a complete 180, need advice Hours later, our mutual friend told me that he talked with her and she said she thought we were just ‘hanging as friends.’ --- this is sadly, a very bad sign. Is there a chance you can turn things around? Maybe. Is it worth the effort? Probably not. There was clearly a major miscommunication somewhere here, but the second she drops the 'friends' word, it's best to focus your efforts elsewhere. Not what you want to hear, but what you need to hear.	/r/seduction	14/10/19 09:45 PM
1	I'm going climbing with a girl, how do I make a move? Like you said, hard situation to read, but there's a decent chance that you can take this relationship further than climbing given the background. I'd say your odds are decent. I actually know someone who has been dating a former climbing partner for years now! Ok, so I am operating under the assumption that you do enjoy her as a climbing partner and want to do as little as possible to sabotage the current situation you are in. So my advice is taking that into consideration. Given that, I think …	/r/seduction	11/10/19 09:06 PM