how can I stop feeling self conscious ? Why does someone feel self conscious

pimpapprentice · 2019-10-14T21:02:37+00:00

My key is realizing nobody gives a fuck about me. Until I make an approach, I’m just some rando. Works wonders.

Kylemoa1 · 2019-10-14T21:45:59+00:00

Just keep doing it. That's the only way to get through all that self-conscious static and self-doubt. Just keep speaking in the loud and comfortable tone and it will eventually stick.

TheHalfMonty · 2019-10-14T21:35:28+00:00

I don't know if it will help you because I'm naturally a show-off, but if I feel nervous in those situations I imagine invisible camera crews are recording me for a documentary. And I naturally 'act up' for the cameras.

minorstyle · 2019-10-14T21:47:30+00:00

Feeling self-conscious is natural. We are social beings who are programmed through years of evolution to care about how we are perceived by fellow beings. The only way to get over it is with practice. You've got to practice, even if you feel uncomfortable. Eventually, you'll get used to it and feel less and less uncomfortable. This is of course, assuming you aren't speaking absurdly loud in a very unnatural unusual way, which probably isn't a good idea to begin with.

testzxcvb · 2019-10-14T22:35:24+00:00

What works for me is: (1) lifting heavy weights. I figure people are looking at me now, but it's either dudes wishing they were strong or women checking me out and (2) meditation to get out of your head and into your body. You want your brain busy taking in external signals as opposed to running thought loops of useless shit. More interaction with outside world, less internal world.

In a way, self consciousness is a form of self centredness. Life ain't about you.... Sorry if that sounds harsh.

Title	how can I stop feeling self conscious ? Why does someone feel self conscious
Author	Fattybomba123
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	October 14, 2019 8:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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