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Why do you care what she wants? What do you want? Hopefully to fuck and nothing else. So just fuck her and stop overthinking it.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:56 AM
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Laugh at her bullshit. Fuck her. Don't get feelings. How is this different to any other trp situation?
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:55 AM
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Haha. Tell me you're joking? If you're serious, stop wasting time on Reddit and hit the gym so you don't need Photoshop.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 07:53 AM
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Best resource I've found is sub Reddit called marriedredpill. Good luck.
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:13 AM
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Fuck an abundance mindset. You need to do the work. Study their products, competition products, previous advertising, prepare responses to objections. Do the work and then mindset will come. As religious folk say, "trust God to move mountains, but bring a fucking shovel".
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:32 AM
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Dude, this hurts to read.. I feel you, I do. Unlike others here, I don't think she is fucking some one else. It's just the spark is gone. Now, will it come back - probably not. Based on probability of every one else who has experienced the same thing - no, this is it. So based on that info, the choice is yours. For the record, I'm in a similar boat. 8 months in and the effort to get sex is too high now. My lease with this chick ends in 3 to 4 months, probably when covid bullshit ends. So I'm jus…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:14 AM
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Just do what you want. It's your playground.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:34 AM
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Hi. 35m in Australia. Divorced after 7 years - 12 months ago. In a new relationship. Bought the audio book and I am ready to do the work. DM if you want to tackle it together. Good luck.
/r/askMRP30/04/20 12:20 PM
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Depends what you want. Attachment style is not individual, rather it is a function of the dynamic between 2 people i.e you can be avoidant with one girl and insecure with another. From a purely manipulative point of view, I think most effective strategy (assuming you can even control attachment style) is avoidant when dating / vetting until you promote to LTR and then a couple months into it, switch to secure, so she feels like she 'won' the prize. Make sense?
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:05 AM
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Yes, sex with bf often increases when they're fucking around - not always, but it can. Explanation is unclear, but my guess is that new relationship energy i.e. hormones are flowing hard again, so it bleeds over into LTR. Shame your mates bluepill - but be there for him if / when he needs it. We were all him at some point right.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:00 AM
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You might be right. But compassion only cost me time and I had some to spare. Dude has a huge mountain in front of him.
/r/askMRP04/03/20 12:37 PM
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No advice. Just wanted to say I feel for you man. People here want to say you played it wrong by mate guarding or getting upset. Fuck that. Theory doesn't prepare you for the realness of seeing that shit face to face. I think the only WRONG way to play it is acting incongruent with your values - which you did not do. So chin up, take some time to process this shit and focus on self-care for a bit. Unless you're a sociopath or the Buddha himself, that shit would sting, so take some time to get ri…
/r/askMRP04/03/20 11:49 AM
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Bro. This hurt to read. I won't go ape mode on you, but you know what you have to do. Dust yourself off, define your goals, lift weights and get on with life. You ain't dead yet - so get busy living!
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:51 AM
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Yes - you're fucking up. Fix your life and drop the porn.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:41 AM
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Sick response. OP - if reading this hurts, it's cause it's true. Take your L, own the mistakes and clarify what you need from life.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:47 AM
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Holy shit. You've nailed it. Fuck, why can't I see my own bullshit. Self deception is real. Thanks for calling me out. I'm a faggot and definitely in the right place (MRP).
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 09:20 PM
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This is what I've also been told today in my first OYS. Easy to be overwhelmed, so start with the 3 basics. Makes sense.
/r/askMRP05/02/20 08:20 PM
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Yes, I am fucked up. I'm not afraid of being alone as such, rather, being an ex addict, I'm constantly seeking external means of improving / regulating my mood. So I was happy single after seperation, but didn't feel like 'a man' without a woman on my arm. I'm using sex / validation as a replacement for drugs and alcohol i.e. something external to feel a rush or feel better. Got it - lift, read, stfu. Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 09:12 AM
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OYS #1 35M, 6", 78kgs. Seperated 12 months. Divorce papers submitted next week. 6 months into dating new 27f. Son of dead alcoholic father and manipulative mother. 10 months sober / clean myself after decades of using. Been lifting for those 10 months, but havent taken it seriously enough. Can see abs and pecs, but need to increase weights. Current bench is like 80kg. Read sidebar, IFGWISN, NMMNG, Rollo's first year in order to improve relationship with new girl. Reading and applying are two dif…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 06:02 AM
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I really like your reply. Hardly anyone else said they were sorry about this dudes situation. We can be men and still feel compassion for a fellow man whose life is circling the drain.
/r/askMRP31/01/20 10:11 PM
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Third date is invitation to your place to cook dinner together. You guys are fucking that night or your pursuing other women. Simple.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:44 AM
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Perhaps you are confusing cause and effect i.e. they are flaky because they have so many friends i.e. options, and not the other way around.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:09 AM
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I disagree with the other dudes here. If she is a 7 month ltr - don't go full beta, but show some tenderness. Tell her you enjoy being a strong man, but that she is enough for you. She needs some comfort and security from you like she used to get from her dad.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:30 PM
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Nah - I get same thing. Sometimes reading too much trp makes it worse. I suggest taking a trp break - it's not like you will forget core principles. Try meditation for a bit.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:28 AM
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Don't reply. Texts don't get them wet. if you asked her out and she shut it down already and then she messaged you that - sounds like she's gearing up to put you in friendzone?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 08:24 PM
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As others have said - if you in detox, you have no time for women. I am a hardcore alcoholic who just hit 9 months without a drink or drug. Only started talking to / dating women a couple months ago. If you're serious about staying clean and healthy, I recommend you don't even look at women for 6 to 12 months. Your brain and body have a lot of re-wiring to do.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 09:17 PM
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Awesome. Thanks mate.
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:44 PM
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I get mirroring, but what do you mean by labelling?
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:10 AM
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Dude - let me tell you something. Based on your comments here - you are one funny mother fucker. You've made me laugh and improved my mood. I'm a dude, but I'd hang with you. That humor is sure to attract people to you. Go forth brother!!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 11:46 PM
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Cause it brings tears to my eyes haha
/r/seduction12/12/19 11:35 PM
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Yeah, but it passes. Had my marriage end this year. One month I was a bit down. By month 2 I was in the gym regularly, smashing work, building back social life. These days got a gf 10 years younger and back on top. Now the hardest part is keeping it. Don't sweat it - accept it and get back up asap. Don't bitch out now.
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:42 PM
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Fair enough. Letting someone in is tough, but my life is good enough that I won't be upset if it goes south. Appreciate it.
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:28 AM
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Thanks man. Great post and even though I didnt give a lot of specifics, your answer was perfect. Appreciate it.
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:27 AM
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I understand player vibe. Can do it naturally. 3 months in with a girl I would date exclusively. She pushes for bf vibe. You mention they want both. My player vibe has nearly had her walk a couple times already - getting jealous etc. Can you elaborate as to how soon to give some bf vibe and how much bf vibe to give i.e. 50/50? I've been giving some bf vibe and she calls me on it - saying I'm "very push / pull". I feel like if I give 0 bf vibe, she'll walk. But she is high value, so I am ok to go…
/r/seduction12/12/19 06:59 AM
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I don't know about that. I'm 35 and focused on my goals so I don't have time to be cold approaching women. Rather, since about 20, I tried to seduce 90% of the women I interact with - hot or not. Over 15 years, that experience has been enough to get me what I want / need from dating and women.
/r/seduction11/12/19 12:39 AM
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Yes, of course. This is a given. Stay on your purpose and that is naturally masculine energy i.e. achievement, conquering, competition, providing... Feminine energy is about connection, emotions, inclusion etc. So stay on track and achieve your goals and they will be drawn in.
/r/seduction10/12/19 09:11 AM
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I have taken the love language quiz with girlfriends and found it extremely useful. But that is in a relationship. I can't really see it's application in seduction i.e. before you fuck.
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:20 AM
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What is nnn?
/r/seduction22/11/19 01:23 AM
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Have you been together physically?
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:30 AM
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35m, newly divorced, dating again. Decent looks, muscular, PhD. My advice - make a list of all the must have qualities you are looking for and the absolute deal breakers. Write that shit down, so it becomes concrete. Use the list going forward. You will pull women. It ain't that hard. The challenge is knowing when to drop them or back off. I am seeing a great women 8 years younger and that ass has me hypnotized. But is she right for settling down? That's what the list is for.. it's a protective …
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:16 PM
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Every girl has a bit of slut in her.
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:19 PM
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This seems to contradict 99% of what I know about being a stone cold pimp. I think you looking for the relationships sub-reddit champ.
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:04 PM
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No one's asking you to be a step dad. In fact, she is telling you the opposite i.e. fuck, but no emotions.. Fuck her, but makes sure you are seeing other women at the same time or you will catch feeling and end up a stepdad and regretting it.
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:03 PM
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Progress, not perfection...
/r/seduction12/11/19 07:42 PM
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So you exchanged numbers sat, she flaked on date the next day - am I correct? If so, game plan is to text around Thurs, not before and try to mkae a date.. rather than specifying a day / time, you suggest a place you want to go and ask her when she is free. Keep texts short - they are for arranging dates. Make statements instead of asking questions I.e. don't ask how her day is going or any chit chat type shit... E.g. "Hey, hope you are having a productive week. I want to check out that new taco…
/r/seduction12/11/19 09:36 AM
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Try to change date venue.. movies are hard to work with as no chance for conversation. I would prefer a walk in the park and ice cream over a movie.. then you can talk, make eye contact, initiate small touches etc... All of which lead to the kiss. When going for the kiss, when the moment is right, make confident eye contact, then after eyes lock, look at her lips and back to her eyes. If she looked at your lips, then it's a green light brother.
/r/seduction12/11/19 09:28 AM
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Great work on a couple fronts: Diagnosing an area for improvement (fyi, your assessment sounds conceptually solid / compelling to me) and also in devising a plan to address it. Now the final hurdle: the behaviour. Do make sure you keep that diary. 30 days is the goal. Then please report back with your experience, to share with others. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/11/19 09:25 AM
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I think your spot on Darrell. When I am feeling my strongest and that bullet proof confidence is flowing, I am happy being a bit vulnerable - because at that point I wouldn't be upset if she walked.. because when I am strong, I know my worth doesn't come from outside me (women, cars, job) but comes from inside or in my case,y relationship with God* Note: God to me is probably different to what you think. So don't get hung up on that part.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:45 AM
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A bit late to the party here, but I actually see it a bit differently. When a girl doesn't show interest in me, I see it as a challenge and try to win her over... Not to fuck necessarily, but just to see if I can and often I can. Change your goal from getting her to want to fuck to just getting her to like you or smile at you. Take the pressure off yourself and just enjoy the challenge - regardless of outcome. You will surprise yourself.
/r/seduction07/11/19 07:37 AM
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That was me. When I met my ex wife, I was a stone cold pimp. Had a rotation of women. Settled down, got married, got lazy. Lost my mojo, stopped gym etc. 5 years later she's walking out the door. In the 6 months since she left, I have been smashing the gym, haircut, nice clothes etc and I'm back on top and women chase me... Learn from me men... I'll never make that mistake again. Even if you get serious with one women, you got to keep dating her...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:24 AM
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Good for you mate. P.s. your username needs work.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:27 PM
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Not at all. I think it's good you didn't ask to come up. Shows you get that much pussy that don't need to rush it. Don't overthink it mate. Biology takes care of attraction, just go ask her out and seal the deal.
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:24 PM
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The dating transaction is as follows: men trade their non-sexual attention for a womans sexual attention. Based on what you describe, you are giving her your non-sexual attention for free. That is why she does it. Free attention.
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:03 AM
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Just buy any second hand textbook on social psychology. Will help you beyond game i.e. work, other personal relationships etc. More to life than banging women.
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:36 PM
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What works for me is: (1) lifting heavy weights. I figure people are looking at me now, but it's either dudes wishing they were strong or women checking me out and (2) meditation to get out of your head and into your body. You want your brain busy taking in external signals as opposed to running thought loops of useless shit. More interaction with outside world, less internal world. In a way, self consciousness is a form of self centredness. Life ain't about you.... Sorry if that sounds harsh.
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:35 PM
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Thanks. Needed to read this. My game is strong, but needed this reminder at precisely this moment. This life requires continued effort. Even when you get a rotation of women going, we need to keep coming back to get this refresher... Appreciate it.
/r/seduction14/10/19 10:32 PM
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Another student of AMS? That homie right me everything I need to know.
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:32 PM
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Sounds like it could be clinical. I suggest a frank and open discussion with your doctor.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:23 PM
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Nah, man I would leave it. You won't get the response you want with the message in your comment. Thousands of single, available women, so why chase this low interest woman?
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:20 PM
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Just do you mate. I take mysterious to mean that you don't over share. You open up, but slower than she does.
/r/seduction14/10/19 12:17 PM
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Had exact same thing. I just moved on. Now seeing another, nicer girl from work. Now the first call chasing me and available all of a sudden. But I'm not interested anymore. In conclusion, keep it moving homie.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:37 AM
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Hahaha. That is fucking hilarious. I can just imagine she rejects him, so he gets Beth out of the wardrobe, goes down on this doll all sensual and shit and then just hammers it raw dog while his wife looks on horified... I am crying laughing.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:32 AM
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Bro - stop over thinking this shit. Would a man with plenty of options and 5 gf's right now be thinking like this? No. Just text her any old shot and get back to pursuing other women.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:59 AM
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Noticed exact same thing and it's often when I am superior to her bf i.e. he looks weaker physically. Something is going on here. Good observation.
/r/seduction12/10/19 02:57 AM
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OP, this dude is spot on. I don't think you her. You don't know her well enough. Go hang out with her, with zero intent of having her. Aim to make friends with everyone there and have a good time. First things first OP i.e. a full, fun life with options.
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:56 PM
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Bro.. you're are good man for this post, teaching this feller. OP this dude knows his shit.
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:14 PM
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I agree with you as well man, I think we at similar place re: women. I would say (a) if her interest is low, she will make it harder work, but (b) you can still fuck them in the end, so just personal choice regarding effort / reward. If you already got 3-4 girls on the go, then yeah, I would pass on those lower interest / hard work girls. Just do you homie.
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:11 PM
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Some women just won't initiate until you've been fucking their brains out for months. Some will initiate the first date. I think you should pursue and arrange second dates, but do it the professional way i.e a week later. You can get these women hooked and chasing you, but takes more than 1 date man, so don't stress. If woman hooked after first date, probably red flag.
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:47 PM
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One potential explanation is that the texting between (a) setting date and (b) and day due for the fucking somehow lowered her attraction. I hate texting man. Shit is a minefield. Just set firm date / time / location and then avoid texting.
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:40 PM
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Respond or don't.. either way, you're next move is clear i.e. move on
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:37 PM
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Guessing you young... Enjoy yourself player. Don't over think it. Call her in a couple days and do it again.
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:35 PM
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Dude - the girl is right. I think you're crazy haha. I don't want random hoes in my apartment. First date is coffee / walk in park, second date is a bit more - art gallery or meal and invite back to my place if going well. Third date is same and we fucking on date three or there is no date four. Exception is if close to fucking or shes smoking, then date four is come to my place and we cook dinner together i.e. spending no money, little effort. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:34 PM
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Considered "pathetic" by who? By her? You don't know her, so who gives a shit. By us? Hell nah son.. Get at it..
/r/seduction02/10/19 02:35 AM
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I feel you bro. I hate it too, but I came to realise that I can't control the rules. My only choice is to play to win or fail... so I do what is suggested and play to win. It gets easier.
/r/seduction30/09/19 12:05 PM
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Rich_god is right. I find it's not so much what you say, but the silences and eye contact that build the tension...
/r/seduction30/09/19 11:51 AM
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I'd give it another 2 weeks and give it one more try.. but don't be upset if it's a no and silence as response. Don't spend those 2 weeks thinking about her either. Live your life, enjoy yourself, but in good faith, reach out one final time in a couple weeks.
/r/seduction30/09/19 11:49 AM
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Sorry "hand"? I don't understand
/r/seduction27/09/19 08:04 AM
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I can only say what works for me.. all I know is what I do and banged a new chick last night while this guy's asking for advice on how to hold hands haha. Whatever cunt. You do you...
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:07 AM
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Ok man. Shame you feel that way. best of luck.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:53 AM
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Bro. You're attitude is fucked. Please - work on you. Know your wort. You trying to sell a product (yourself) and you can't sell something you don't believe in. Hit the gym, make more cash, look after you, make a list of your strengts and accomplishments etc
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:46 AM
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Don't worry about holding hands too much It ain't 100% your job. Don't forget, you intervieing this girl as well. Two way street. She has to impress you to right?
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:43 AM
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Like I said . Her proximity when you walking next to each other, her hand brushing against yours when walking etc. Man's job is to create mood and stay masculine .girls will signal when to make your move. Girls are very good at this shit. If they like you, you'll know what to do..
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:42 AM
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Don't force it.. just enjoy the date. If when walking together, she keeps bumping into you, or hands keep swiping each other, then go for it. She'll let you know via body language and proximity if she wants it. Know what does it mean? Nothing.much. we ain't in middle school bro. But the way you do it could signal that you got bals and that's a good thing.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:38 AM
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100% it does.. and not a little bit, a lot.. you feel better, girls notice, their attention gets other girls interested (social proof) and shit snow balls. Will take 6 months lifting to get reactions, but you owe it to yourself to look after your body. Women genetically programmed to reproduce with healthy looking dudes.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:35 AM
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Don't text everyday. The deal is men give non sexual attention for woman's sexual attention. You texting her is free attention and makes you look weak. High value men don't have time to be texting all day. That's what her girlfriends are for. Text to arrange date and move on. Good luck.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:09 AM
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Don't go dude.. wtf. Tell her "sorry, can't make it..let me know when you're schedule is free to hang out one on one". And them keep stepping. You think a high value man with options would put up with that shit? If you go, you are signalling that you a bottom bitch
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:07 AM
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Bro - I'll tell you the absolute truth. It's gonna be scary, but here it is. You have to leave this woman. Not because you want to, but you have to leave in order to keep her. If you don't leave, she will leave you soon. You gotta walk and know it is 50/50 that she comes back. And you have to be ok with those odds. Shits test in a relationship means she lost respect and if you don't leave, you are signalling that you don't deserve respect. So in summary, someone is going to be leaving someone ei…
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:03 AM
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Exactly this..no contact until date Don't confirm date Iis happening. Assume it is until she says otherwise..if you set up date correctly, then nothing to confirm as date, time and spot is already known. But yeah, pullback to demonstrate you high value and she should be chasing you.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:59 AM
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Ok, good points man. I would go for it... Don't die wondering homie. You're worth more than that... Good luck.
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:09 PM
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Unlikely to be shit test if you've been friends for years and haven't fucked. She doesn't need to shit test you as she already knows your sexual market value. Way to get clearer sign - get her by herself, relaxed and go in for the kiss.. simple
/r/seduction26/09/19 09:37 PM
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Bail out dude. You got to walk away now. Sorry to tell you, but you have less than 2% chance to bang this girl. If you walk away, it improves to 3%. Move on. Plenty other women out there..
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:14 AM
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Good idea man. Fucking sick of porn as well. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:02 AM
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You can come back. Do the work - stop doing the worry. Get your ass to the gym and lift hard. Get a haircut. Change the songs on your playlist. Join a 12 step group, cause staying clean is still #1
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:33 AM
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Once per week. Got a rotation of women, so down to zero. Never more than once per week. But I'm 35. If you 21, maybe twice is fine.
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:05 AM
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