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4

Completely agree this put me off as well and I agreed a lot more with Lilith on this having my own personal experiences where I had to downplay my emotions as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 09:48 AM
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I can't even imagine that wow just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:09 PM
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I do this all the time and it feels great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:04 AM
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This is brilliant 👏 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 10:10 AM
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I'm going out to lunch with a group of women in my city! (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 10:05 AM
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He sent me a message that was meant for her in a language I don't speak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:34 PM
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I found it after I called a creepy guy porn sick and I googled the term after I used it to see where I had heard it/ to see if it’s a valid thing when I started second guessing myself and I found fds in the search results
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:01 PM
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I usually say because I want to be and haven’t found anyone that I am interested in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:41 PM
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I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:54 PM
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Men these days are so emasculated and weak their grandparents would be embarrassed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:35 PM
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I hope she dumped him and insulted him back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:59 AM
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This is creepy and horrifying the way they so casually talk about these things like robots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:15 PM
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I finally learned to listen to my instincts and value them. It’s crazy how much we are taught to silence ourselves. Also without a NVMs judgement I can feel free to try new things without criticism. The last guy I was involved with was a photographer and he was mean to me when I decided to buy a camera ahead of a big trip and now I discovered a new hobby that I just love. Another ex of mine controlled how I dressed so I have really enjoyed learning about makeup and fashion since being single as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:34 AM
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🖐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:23 AM
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What does SA‘d mean 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:27 AM
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What a weirdo. Men are unhinged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:58 AM
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Yeah idk he was a short white guy and was probably super insecure and wanted to 'flex' on women because he hates himself idk people like that must be so miserable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:17 AM
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Probably.. He was short too lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:36 AM
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Sigh. It is really rare these days but I have seen it. I have a friend who was about to be a single mom no less and now she is with a HVM who has been there since day 1 and loves her and the baby and just bought her a car. I have hope. I hate most of the guys that live in my current city though, total truck having, semi literate douchebags most of them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:35 AM
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That line stuck with me too. Im gonna bring it up the next time someone calls me weird lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:13 AM
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I have cut male "friends" off for this without a second thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:08 AM
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Men... if you dont look like this shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:21 PM
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Men... if you dont look like this shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:20 PM
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Men... if you dont look like this shut up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:20 PM
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100% this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:03 PM
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Yes. All of this yes and me too. This past year I have cut off so many people and it feels great. People get mad as hell when they can no longer walk all over you. Queen shit I love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:48 PM
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It is so sad what has happened to sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:01 AM
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I do the best I can, unfortunately I still live with my mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:52 PM
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Oh I was. They told me I was the match on camera at my birthday dinner...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:48 PM
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This is like me and my brother, I had surgery to save his life and he goes out of his way to treat me like shit and he is 10 years older
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:42 AM
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Aww this warms my heart. I am recovering from major surgery too and my cat who usually never sleeps with me has not left my side. They are such angels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:26 AM
13

Definitely time to leave a scathing public review. That is just not right and so insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:02 AM
7

Thousands but I try to focus on what I can change today or else I would just be so angry all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:40 PM
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True for me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:33 PM
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This happened to me the other day too. Some scrote on a bike kept trying to talk to me and he was yelling and i couldnt really understand him so i started backing away because he was scaring me, then he called me a snob and a bitch and flipped me off all the way down the trail. I sure triggered this guy by literally just standing there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:50 AM
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I am sad to hear this but I understand. Thank you for all of your work we appreciate you here. I really hope you will continue your contributions to the podcast because I love you on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:41 PM
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I do not support OLD it is degrading to me to create a profile that is supposed to get people to like me, I will not waste my time on such things. I have made profiles a few times and never met anyone off it because all of the guys are disrespectful and dont even read the bios they just comment on looks. It is like a menu of women to them and I think it is a huge waste of time. Imo HVW do not go on OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:47 PM
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Exact same here. I am planning to move abroad as soon as possible and once I am there I think I will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:56 AM
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This needs a TW I am going to lose my breakfast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:40 PM
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That is my spot too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:56 PM
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I stopped my art for awhile due to criticism from my gross ex fwb whatever he was. I am finally starting again and it feels good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:40 PM
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I have never had healthy sex and I will never have porn sex again. It is so refreshing to find likeminded women. It is better for me to never have sex again than to let another "man" who does not respect me touch me again. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:39 PM
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I put my passions in mine too and every message was just about my looks 🗣BOOORING deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:43 PM
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I saw some of the hottest men I have ever seen in Bari
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:16 AM
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This is how my parents were. My dad handed his checks straight to my mom, they were a true team. Never happens anymore and this is why I will remain single forever. Men these days give less than ever and expect more than ever. If I am paying for myself on a date, what are you even here for? Men my age are Worthless and a complete waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:09 PM
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In the US this is pretty normal. I ask people where they are from because I find it interesting and like to learn about people and cultures. It could be different with men though, but I do not think that question is inherently bad. Where someone is from is like a huge part of them and a conversation starter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:06 PM
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They are not worth the trouble at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:18 PM
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Nice 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:23 PM
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I relate to this too. I blocked and deleted my toxic friends last year (4 total!) And I have become much more selective with who I allow in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:18 AM
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Taller than me but not too tall Green eyes, light skin, dark thick hair Uncircumcised and the foreskin naturally covers 3/4 of the head, long and thick penis Average build def not a dad bod Not skinny or fat and toned Some hair on the body but not too much Edit no facial hair and big nose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:49 AM
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Except most older men actually look like 👹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:09 AM
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I read Thus Spoke Zarathustra for a class and yep it was very sexist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:00 AM
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Men are disgusting, my own brother said the same thing to me when I joked about becoming a stripper at the age of 16... why is he looking at me like that 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:38 PM
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Trauma bonds are hard to break, we are here for you and I know that you can do it. Your future is brighter without a soul sucker in it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:13 PM
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I live for these podcasts. I like them because I feel validated and I love how smart and well researched the women who discuss the topics are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:00 AM
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FDS made me not want to ever online date again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:47 AM
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Oh yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:25 PM
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😍🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:20 PM
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It is so gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:54 PM
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I am prepared to spend the rest of my days living my best life traveling the world as a cat lady. I have no desire to even be around men at this point. They are a disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:34 PM
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That last line. Same here I cannot seem to make myself attracted to men at all anymore, their behavior is so unattractive. I wonder what this will mean for my future I am only in my early 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:03 PM
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Why are you still with him? Is he HV in other ways? I do not mean to be nosy, but me mindful of your own time and desires
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:58 PM
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Ladies always carry some type of protection. Not trying to victim blame at all but they deserve to feel pain right back, I wish they all got maced directly in the eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:10 PM
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I respect rats way more, they are smarter and more interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:06 PM
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It is really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:40 AM
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The last guy I was with said he and his mom "do not have that kind of relationship" when I asked what he was doing for her. Lets just say our relationship ended that may!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:43 PM
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Too many to count. Any creepy unsolicited message is an auto block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:37 PM
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Me too you are not alone. I had to turn it off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:36 AM
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Same my brothers are both abusive and my mother always finds a way to blame me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:33 AM
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Same it bothers me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:03 PM
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For me they just look more attractive, dicks are supposed to move and circumcised dicks do not move. It is what is natural
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:07 AM
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Selfish! Why yes I am. Now get out of my way 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:36 PM
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I prefer uncircumcised too 🚫✂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:35 AM
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I live for these episodes. Can't wait to listen tomorrow on my walk 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:01 AM
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I think posters are the best idea too. FDS could upload one onto the website or someone could post it here and women all over could spread it. I want to do this at my university
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:45 AM
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I thought I was the only one. I never see any men I find attractive but I definitely crave and fantasize about men. Its disappointing but I also love how undistracted I have become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:11 AM
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This happened to me, he posted really horrible almost naked pictures of me on all my owl social media and told the whole town I was the crazy abusive one. The people closest to me who matter saw through the bullshit and only losers and shitty people like him that he was aroumd entertained him. It has been years now and if people remember it is not talked about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:17 AM
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Same exact thing happened to me whenever I tried to leave and he dumped all his issues on me and I would support him because I had it bad for him and then ONE time I opened up to him and he said in I quote "im not your fucking therapist" and called me weak minded 🙄 I blew up on him and things ended that day Edit to add that I was mostly just shocked by the comment because I had only ever been so nice to him I was just taken aback..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:48 PM
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Unfortunately women who are doctors do this too. I have spent good money going to multiple doctors and no one will do it because I am in my 20s and have no kids. I have had negative reactions to every birth control I have tried and have already had 2 abortions from pregnancies that happened on bc and they still wont do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:56 PM
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I completely agree and nothing will ever change my mind. I have been single for the first time in my adult life for the past year and I have never had so much PEACE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:19 AM
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Yeah and all the asshattery and self denial that I put up with pre FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:01 AM
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Same. I am never insecure until men are involved. Wonder why smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:53 PM
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Gross losers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:36 PM
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I thought it was me for too long too and stupid people, shitty men and pickmes making me believe it was did not help. This community helps me stay sane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:46 PM
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Same, seriously you are not alone. It is not our fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:15 PM
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Same lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:37 PM
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Porn is horrible. I used to be a heavy user in my pickme days and even back then there were some videos that didnt sit right with me that may have been real 😔 I think my use was to cope with the widespread use of porn because I have hated it deep down for a long time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:59 PM
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There is also one about child brides in the US that is equally as gut wrenching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:49 AM
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Same here, you are not alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:17 AM
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Even those of us who have read the handbook in full could benefit from this and from forming more discourse around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:16 AM
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I relate so much with that too. My ex brought out the worst in me and the police were even involved on occasion and when I confessed to the cop what was going on I am lucky I got a good one because he taught me what gaslighting and reactive abuse was I was only 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:58 PM
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I forgive my past self and you should too. You can't know what you have not yet learned, especially in this society. It is not our fault but we know better now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:46 PM
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Yeah for real. Inequality and sexism are the top reasons I wont have kids. They can die mad about it 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:09 PM
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I had some scrote tell me the other day that "poor hispanics" are banking on the social security from my kids when he overheard me talking about not having them, trying to guilt me or something. Like OK scrote not my problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:44 PM
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Same here. This sub helped me a lot and I haven't dated in years. I also found it at 23 and it helped me to dump toxic friends and I take way less shit than I used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:15 AM
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This didn't happen so much it unhappened things that had
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:21 AM
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He needs to lose 30 pounds and knows it yet still has all these demands. Men arent worth the trouble lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:18 PM
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I have had mine grown out for the past year and I love how it looks and feels so much more. It adds pizazz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:15 PM
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Omg I could have written this SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:31 PM
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These people should not be in security positions WTF that is horrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:17 AM
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I feel so bad for her because it is not her fault. The media and culture we all grow up in is to blame I didnt realize the truth until I was 23 myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:32 PM
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If they listen to any male 'artists' who hurt women without seeing a problem because its 'just art' like chris brown or xxx tentacion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:38 PM
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This disgusted me too! We really are not people to them, sometimes I just get so angry about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:05 PM
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I got pfizer and my cycle continued exactly as expected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:42 AM
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It has helped me tremendously in all areas of my life, I don't take any bullshit anymore and dumped all my bad friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:33 PM
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I agree with this completely. Women and men are not on the same playing field at all and even the worst women bring much more to the table than mediocre LVM who mainly take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:20 AM
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This used to be me. I stayed for four years and one day in my mind a switch just flipped and I didnt want anything to do with him anymore. I wish I could tell you how to get the switch to flip but I don't even know myself. At some point I was just so DONE with all of the mistreatment and I just never looked back. Having something to look forward to helps and so does finding a hobby that you love to throw yourself into. Lately I have been dabbling in wildlife photography and rollerskating and tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:12 AM
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My NVM brother does this just to bother me when he visits my house. I cant wait to move out so I can never speak to him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:27 PM
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As someone who was getting over a kink relationship when I found this sub, this one was hard to listen to and came at the right time. Thank you so much for creating this podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:03 PM
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Same for one of mine, I wish this were true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:25 PM
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I love the podcast so much I am so glad it is here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:03 AM
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I have had one admit it to me and say he was 'sooo selfish' and apologize after the 1.5 year situationship ended and he saw how his actions and lies hurt me but only once. This same man lacked empathy though and blamed me for my trauma so also not really. Most of the other men in my life absolutely not. It is really sad that I think of that one guy who apologized as the best I have had yet. Im doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:53 PM
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I have a similar story. I have had 3 relationships, one of which was extremely abusive and the other 2 were emotionally abusive and I stayed too long but I believe i was doing the best I could with what I knew at the time. One thing that helps me forgive myself is knowing that I am not alone and reminding myself that it was not my fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:25 AM
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Yess! Listening now! I am so grateful that I found this community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:01 AM
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