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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:13 PM
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Discussionmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:23 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:23 PM
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CMVmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:11 AM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:27 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:23 PM
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Discussionmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:00 AM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:10 AM
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Discussionmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 12:43 AM
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Discussionmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:44 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:30 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:58 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:13 PM
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Purge week!missing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:22 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:18 PM
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missing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:50 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:28 PM
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Question For Womenmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:13 PM
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Purge week!missing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:11 PM
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missing_voice/r/ExRedPill05/02/21 10:36 PM
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missing_voice/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 05:19 PM
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Tradwivesmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:14 PM
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Q4ALLmissing_voice/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:18 AM
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Because feminism is supposed to give women choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:18 PM
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There's a big difference between being unemployed and being a homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:17 PM
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It's not from the family pov. When a woman stays home she gets to take care of the house without neglecting her family. The man gets to get to a nice home without bringing there his stress from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:16 PM
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And these lobbyists very often are supported by feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:15 PM
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But feminists rarely assume that it's the woman's true choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:14 PM
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How is supply and demand to blame for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:13 PM
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Isn't having work-life balance ore important?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:52 PM
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Feminism might have played a role in offering women more options, but it has very little to do with the fact that being a homemaker is less valuable than having a career. Feminism tells women they need to have careers. Feminist driven policies make it easier for women to have careers than man to support homemakers. This wasn't always the case. Homemaking was valuable and something for women to aspire to? but it's not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:52 PM
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Nothing to add. You sound like a great woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:48 PM
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Interesting. Would you be willing to take the risks associated with divorce if your men took the homemaker role.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:47 PM
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If feminism is so open to homemakers, why does it seem that every major policy is geared towards more job opportunities for women and options for daycare?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:45 PM
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Sorry, but red pill women , if they are sincere in their intentions are the best. They're not combative and are more likely to follow their natural role.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:28 PM
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I really miss reading the weekly threads. Now I have hard time finding posts that were posted a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:00 PM
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They would, but they will never be happy with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:59 PM
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What a shocker!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:59 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:19 PM
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I understand now, thanks. You're on a great path. Keep that way and don't distract yourself from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:19 PM
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A lot of women in here would say it's unwise to offer the man wife benefits, the benefits being sex and chores, without marriage. Do you agree with this regardless of whether you think your friends' relationship status is your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:17 PM
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What makes you abstain from marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:07 PM
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You are already doing all the wife stuff for him. What would wife stuff mean in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:06 PM
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Would you automatically assume that the woman wants to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:58 PM
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What would wife/husband benefits mean in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:54 PM
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Why would you wait for her to ask you for advice? Wouldn't you assume that she probably wants marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:52 PM
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Do you think that moving in makes men less motivated to put a ring on a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:50 PM
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She’s knows he’s not head over heels for her. Do you think this is always the case or that there are other reasons why couples don'tv marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:50 PM
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I never want to marry, but this is my take from observing friends. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:47 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:23 PM
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You guys gotta stop paying attention to these women. Nothing good comes from TwoX.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:55 PM
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Women don't really want a career at the expense of their family, they just think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:54 PM
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After looking for years, I finally found a nice lady who seems to be interested in family life more than anything. She's studying elementary education, but would like to focus on her children once they're born. She likes me a lot and is incredibly respectful. She doesn't drink and it doesn't seem she's had much experience with men. I want to wife the hell out of her. She's not the prettiest girl I've dated, but I don't care. After such a long time of dating I finally found someone who shares my …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:52 PM
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I did it because I enjoy sex. And I would never want to wait for commitment before having sex because part of my decision on if I want to commit is the quality of my sex life with a person! I wouldn’t sign a lease without seeing an apartment, either. What if the guy gets sex, but then doesn't want to be around you anymore? How would you react?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:11 PM
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No. I had casual sex because I wanted sex. I have sex because I want it. Not because I think it's a step to commitment. I get committed as a step to commitment. I have sex because I want to fuck. Do you think that it would be problematic that a man that commits to you discovers you've slept with other men in a casual set up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:08 PM
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Not all women want to have casual sex though, and not all men can get it. It makes sense for these guys to expect it and to lie about it, don't you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:06 PM
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I meet people, hang out with people and sleep with people. If we enjoy each other's company, we both stick, if not, we move on, so there's no specific point at which sex happens other than my our comfort. What if the man you like and sleeping with doesn't want to commit? Also, if a man is misogynist, wouldn't you be giving him exactly what he wants by sleeping with him? Finally, the idea that that there's a massive push of casual sex on women is just today's version of satanic panic. What about …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:05 PM
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I completely agree.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:51 PM
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It's not victim blaming, is responsibility. If I know that a place is dangerous, I should not go to it with my golden chain.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:50 PM
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What's up with rich kids?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:49 PM
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How exactly?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:49 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. It's up to them to make the choice.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:49 PM
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Women aren't completely honest about their sexual behaviors, so stats on median partners aren't very reliable. If women know that most people disapprove of casual sex, why do they engage in it? Yes, companies care about their profit, but people behind the companies have ideological beliefs that they might promote with shows like Sex/Life. This kind of content makes women who have no interest in casual sex think that casual sex is ok with most people. Although the Middle East might have it's prob…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 06:31 PM
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Yes. They breastfeed, which is free. They live with parents, who I presume are renting or own a home. Schools are free, at least in the Western world. It's a matter of adjusting your priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:36 AM
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You don't need to have much money to raise one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:35 AM
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...and then regret it. Children don't need a mansion to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:34 AM
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Having children is not the norm. Is biology telling us to keep the human species alive. Women who leave it for later regret it when they can't get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:32 AM
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The thing is, most people will never have a great job. Does it mean they should never have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:31 AM
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> Never had the desire to pass on my lineage. Nothing special about my DNA. Your DNA doesn't need to be special, it's still a contribution to society. Moreover, your DNA might indeed boost qualities in your children you didn't know you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:51 PM
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What if you change your mind later and can't have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:49 PM
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I've never been to jail and I've never done drugs cause most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:48 PM
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What would happen if your husband changed his mind but you didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:47 PM
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Like, how is it different for animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:45 PM
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So you don't think that feminist lifestyle in other people can influence the way people live?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:44 PM
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I don't have a maternal bone in my body for children. Now animals are a different story. How are animals different in terms of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:43 PM
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Most children aren't retarded and don't go to jail if you raise them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:42 PM
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And also everyone who understands science. Evo-psych implied that our behaviors are genetically hardwired and that they are adaptations to the environment, all these without evidence. So what is our behavior if not an adaptation? I'm afraid you're the one who doesn't understand anything. And there are many genetic studies that prove that behaviors have a genetic basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:25 PM
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But women are the gatekeepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:17 PM
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For example, they admit to be more promiscuous, but blame women for being easy when sex happens. This is just how nature works. Men are hardwired for promiscuity. Women should know this. Many evopsych claims are unfalsifiable and conflicting, but people still love them because they give an excuse to otherwise irresponsible behavior. This is what sjw say because they're afraid that some people might have a natural disadvantage at some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:15 PM
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Why not? Children are the foundation of the society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:12 PM
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A reward because men see it that way, or it's a reward because it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:12 PM
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Yes it is. Women are ultimately happy in long term relationships so abstaining from sex does them good in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:30 AM
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Women do it because they think that's what a man wants. Women aren't programed to have sex without investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:28 AM
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There's no such thing as toxic masculinity. There's just masculinity. Feminists deem everything toxic when they can't compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:24 AM
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Abstaining from sex filters men who only want sex, but doesn't generally lure men who want a relationship. It does, it signalizes to the man that you're worth keeping. All men have the madonna whore complex to a degree. Women just need to accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:23 AM
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They only enjoy sex in relationships, not in the early stages of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:20 AM
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But don't you think that abstaining from sex would have prevented a woman's smv from plummeting from having an unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:19 AM
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I agree. I'd take the woman who makes me wait more seriously. It means that she has self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:17 AM
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Marriage is also a form of commitment. It indicates partners are serious about their relationship. Married couples are seen in a different light compared to those that are cohabitating and women with a ring are generally more respected than those who live with their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:36 PM
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Commitment? Marriage is the ultimate symbol of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:28 PM
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What if he decides to never marry, would you be ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:27 PM
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Who says all women are happy staying at home and raising kids? Read the Paradox of Declining Female Happiness. Women were happier back then. How would you like it if you were told that you could only pursue one profession and one profession only just because of what is in your pants? I'd be happy to provide for my wife. Also everyone returning to a "traditional" family just isn't economically feasible anymore. Because women flooded the market.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 01:33 AM
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Roles that require very little skill and can be performed by anybody aren't worth much. So raising the future generation requires no skill? Pregnancy is a physical reality that CAN push women to be more cautious, but this isn't itself proof that women are hardwired to be less promiscuous. Reproduction and survival are our biological imperative, and evolution is a series of mechanisms to ensure this. You don't understand evolution. I simply think you've been with far too many men and can't accept…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 01:11 AM
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You give feminism way to much credit. Just like the red pill, feminism became popular because it gave a voice and structure to people who were unsatisfied with the state of affairs. No, feminism is based on the idea that women should become independent from the burdens of the house. That housework is worthless and that the only way to achieve success in life is by having a career away from home. There were plenty of feminists that wanted to make the role of the homemaker illegal. Traditional val…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 12:22 AM
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Came to say I agree, but that would also mean that women should accept that men are less picky and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:41 PM
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Totally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:29 PM
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Terrorist loving slut strikes again. What's next, pedophiles? See? This is why the world is fucked. Women prefer to masturbate to some terrorists than normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:08 PM
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Traditional families are as far from gay as they come.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:59 PM
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She talks about providership non-stop and tells women to offer sex no matter what. How is that not prostitution? That's not prostitution. Prostitutes only care about money and exchange sex. Tradwives like her actually want to raise a family and offer sex to keep their husbands happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:58 PM
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Will you say this in a few years when you look back and realize you left nothing behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:56 PM
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No, but it constantly tells women how important is sitting in a cubicle 10 hours a day and hpw terrible children are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:56 PM
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Will you say the same when you grow older and realize that you didn't leave anything behind you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:55 PM
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Yes. I'mserious. I've always admired the trad lifestyle. I grew up in one. If my mother was busy working me and my siblings wouldn't have it as good. Thanks God we had a strong father figure and a nurturing mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:54 PM
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Thanks, I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:53 PM
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We should care because we would have a bunch of ass-eating high n-count sluts who ask for dick pics like you if we didn't. Rich of you calling anybody a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:32 PM
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Feminism is stopping them by brainwashing them. They bought into the whole muh independent woman who needs no man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:29 PM
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Men lose purpose when they don't provide. Do you think playing video games and smoking pot the whole day is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:28 PM
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Christianity is the source of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:27 PM
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Listen retard. First off, I'm not a whore, whores fuck for money, I fuck for fun. Not that I expect you to know the difference, you mentally challenged little twat. Whatever. Second, I'm not obsessed with terrorists any more than I'm obsessed with ghosts, cake, mountains or PPD. You constantly talk about masturbating to Atta. Third, shut the fuck up and send some dick picks if it's still early in your time zone. I don't send dick pics to sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:50 PM
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Fuck off, I'm American.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:49 PM
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That's until she gives you an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:48 PM
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Nobody wants to eat a sluts booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:47 PM
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But did you check her history? Bitch is obsessed with Mohamed Atta and 9/11
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:47 PM
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Look at her posting history, she's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:25 PM
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So what would you consider self-respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 10:14 PM
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If a man needs to be made wait for sex, that's a massive red flag. But what if the woman doing it out of self-respect as to avoid getting in the fuckzone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 10:03 PM
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Thanks. Yes. That's what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:53 AM
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With the other two I did hook up, but put an end to it shortly afterwards so we went back to being just friends. Was there any jealousy from these friends when you started dating the other one? Did the guy you declined stoped being your friend? Have you ever had a guy get close to you as a friend just to hook up with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:38 AM
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There have been crushes at various points in the past, in both directions. I'm no longer friends with any of the male friends I crushed on but the friendships didn't end because of the crush, just the passage of time really. Did this affect you or them in any way? is there a reason why it didn't work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:34 AM
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I usually am slightly attracted to my friends, sure. However the majority of them are married or in committed relationships. Or gay. How does this affect you or them (if they know you're interested)?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:32 AM
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Someone of the opposite gender you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:32 AM
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As crazy as it sounds, not many women can find a man who can support them. Men who look for a tradwife look for qualities such as nurturance, femininity and anything else that makes for a good mother. Not many women have the motherly characteristics that make men want to invest in them. I also disagree on the replaceability of tradwife. A good tradwife isn't simply a caretaker, she's the one who makes home a livable place and provides her man the energy to bring the bacon everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:50 AM
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Do you consider the NSA guys more sexually attractive? Was there any level of comfort with relationship guys that the other ones didn't provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 02:35 AM
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Are you saying that you have a preference for beta men or the men that wanted a relationship with you were beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 02:33 AM
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First of all, not having your own income puts you into a vulnerable position, you become totally financially dependent on your partner. While he's working and making his career, you're sitting at home and losing your qualifications as a specialist. If something goes badly, you won't be able to start having your own income fast enough. That's why vetting is so important. Nothing bad should happen if you choose wisely. Also, I'm not advocating for women to sit and wait for prince charming. A woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:47 AM
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A good man will make sure his wife has what she needs and more which is why it's important that women vet their men properly. Being a SAHM isn't that easy, but it is rewarding as it allows them be there when the child is giving the first steps. When women work they give up that very important part of their life to a corporate manager, why should any woman want that? what about living your life to the fullest along the people you love the most? Being a SAHM is anything but menial. As I said, it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:43 AM
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Just because I think it's better to marry before 30 doesn't mean that I advocate early marriage. 25 or 26 is fine. 28 is fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:33 AM
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