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Same i just give up
/r/MensRights18/05/21 12:36 AM
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You're right
/r/MensRights18/05/21 12:29 AM
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Men wanna be tools? Goodbye
/r/MensRights18/05/21 12:25 AM
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Dude come on I'm trying to represent men!
/r/MensRights18/05/21 12:17 AM
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I'm just tired of them
/r/MensRights18/05/21 12:15 AM
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It is so hard. Women have very little ability to see their true nature.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 12:14 AM
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You're jealous cuz your relationship probably sucks (or you don't have one)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/21 01:10 AM
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I feel the rules aren't strict here at all compared to other subs.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 07:30 AM
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Good question! Tell me about yourself
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 09:13 PM
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My husband and I have very conservative marriage ideals and a wonderful marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 06:02 PM
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I agree. I think redpillmen focus way too much on sex.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 06:01 PM
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When I started seeing my own problems I improved myself. Then I found a man who truly valued me! So many women buy into this modern propaganda that men are evil. It simply isn't true. There are bad men, yes, but most women won't give good men a chance.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 06:01 PM
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Good point!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 04:01 PM
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I agree with you about feminism today. I feel like women are spending more time talking about pockets in their dresses and pants than real issues!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 04:01 PM
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Good point! I struggle with being polite on Reddit lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 07:51 AM
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Agreed! Another thing I noticed is the women are really nice to each other here. Very rare!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 06:10 AM
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Great post!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 05:53 AM
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Great comment! Sums up what I wanted to say but didn't really have enough energy!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 05:52 AM
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Exactly. It is always that the man is toxic. Yet no woman wants to reflect on her own toxicity?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 05:51 AM
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Good point. But still. I really do feel a different vibe here even when women do complain.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 04:07 AM
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A few years but been friends much longer
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/21 04:02 AM
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Thank you! ♡♡♡
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 04:29 PM
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My husband and I are everything to each other. The problem is people only treat them as the best friend. My husband is my best friend but also my lover, the father of my child, etc. I have girl best friends, too. You can have more than one best friend. I think it is important not to get caught up on labels.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 03:17 PM
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I really don't feel like people see right through if, though, especially men. A lot of women claim to be natural or not wearing much makeup, and they have TONS on, and men buy it. Then when men see what women really look like naturally, they do not even give them a second glance because their views are so warped. I'm not anti makeup, but I do find this extremely frustrating.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 01:24 PM
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I back up this post. At my thinnest, I was 5'2" and 140 lbs which is overweight on BMI. I was actually thin. I looked great! I ran 50 miles a week. I really truly was in shape. Now.... That doesn't mean this is true of every woman. I was like 90 lbs in high school and shocked and freaked out and thought I was fat when I was 140. I really truly was not. I think now I realize we have to take into account a lot of other factors. BMI can help to some extent. Im not dismissing it entirely. But I do t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 10:05 PM
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Stop Chasing Chads
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/20 03:01 PM
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Good! So you maybe can work on skincare, teeth, hair, etc. It is the little things! At least the hard part is out of the way. Your wardrobe really does matter and make a difference. Do not have to spend too much. Make sure your clothes are flattering. I found even adding a nightly skincare routine has done wonders for my skin! Sometimes I just feel so tired/lazy, and I force myself to do it! As for hobbies, I wouldn't worry about showing off a little or being too dominant in that way.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 03:02 AM
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I really appreciate this, it felt good to read, thank you. Use this time to get in the best shape of your life. Seriously - just this can have serious affect on your suitors. Start tomorrow. You do not have to be a gym rat. Walk daily, make a weight loss goal (even if it is just a few pounds), and do a strength training routine a few times a week. This is where I would start with adding a routine every 10 - 15 days. Start with your yoga, add on a skincare routine, etc. etc. Routines are really g…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 02:43 AM
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I really do not think it is impossible for you. I really do not. I think men would appreciate your reflective personality and intelligence. I made A LOT of mistakes in my past, but honesty got me where I am today - happily married. What I would say is this - start small. Keep doing what you're doing in "nun" mode, so to speak, and begin slowly putting yourself out there. 1) How is your weight/appearance? 2) What daily routines can you start now? 3) What is good about you? It sounds like you have…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 02:19 AM
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Yes! It makes our marriage stronger. We also discuss flaws in the red pill theory because it isn't perfect. But it definitely helps keep our relationship strong.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 03:19 AM
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Thanks man!! I want to make a post about it but it feels too redpilled even for this sub hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 10:20 PM
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I definitely will!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 04:04 PM
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I definitely have my flaws but I did show him this comment! : ) : ) : )
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 02:17 AM
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Haha thanks! Unfortunately I wasn't the best wife to my ex, but we had some really deep issues and never should have gotten married. He was an alcoholic and I just was not doing my best for him. It was one of those relationships we just could not fix. I will always care for him and I always tell him that I am sorry. I have a lot of regret. With my current marriage, I vowed to learn from my mistakes. I realized what Reddit (and the world) was telling me was ridiculous. I try really hard for my hu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 11:10 PM
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Exactly! I think my husband appreciates me trying. I watch cooking videos and am trying to get better!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 11:04 PM
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I got married in my 20s and divorced. I'm now happily married and very much in love. Here are some harsh truths: 1) Nobody wants their partner to get fat. You do NOT have to be perfect, but you do need to try. What many women are not getting today is that men really appreciate effort and they find beauty in that. It sucks because women do hold on to weight as they get older. I have PCOS, and I have had to really work on myself. Of course, there are circumstances that may get in the way (birth, s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/20 10:01 PM
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Welcome
/r/RedPillWives30/10/20 10:50 PM
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Redpill values generally (not always) lean on the conservative the side. Reddit has a strong liberal bias.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/20 10:10 PM
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Sadly I agree here - I think the redpill is true. And that means it sucks for women as we age. Men never cared about anything more than our looks anyway
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 01:19 AM
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I can tell this post is not very well-liked, so thank you for the comment!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 04:04 AM
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Yes true! I was definitely not super strict or anything! In fact, I have not even been super strict at all. Just balanced.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 03:11 AM
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At about 20 weeks I had not gained much weight yet and the nurse said that was perfectly fine! The baby was super tiny even at that point. Now I need to be careful here because I know there are women who are super careful, but their body does what it wants. But on the pregnancy subs, I see a constant embrace of just giving into every single craving, emotion, etc. On a spiritual level, I think we are supposed to master some level of self control!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 01:24 AM
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Yup! I have developed a beauty regimen even while pregnant and I can see the difference. It now makes me realize this is a lifetime commitment, and I cannot slack!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 12:15 AM
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Oh wow. Im way off. How embarrassing! I still stand by my comment
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:06 AM
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Oh lol sorry! What is it about?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/20 11:29 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 07:43 PM
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I am eating very healthy while pregnant, and my husband is very healthy. But, sometimes, you just need to enjoy something unhealthy. When things become too restrictive, they take the joy out of life. Could you all plan a bad meal once a week or something? That is what my husband and I do, and it seems to not overall impact our health.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 05:42 PM
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Seems to be a contradiction and irony here: 1) against "attachment" to material possessions but cannot buy you material things...and steals. Come on now. He needs therapy and help before you decide to keep this relationship long term
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 11:14 PM
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I guess I am getting confused. I was initially talking about crib training not breast feeding. But I do know women who go way past recommendations to breast feed.
/r/RedPillWives10/09/20 12:46 AM
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I completely agree with this. I feel also it interferes more with the marriage. I think people forget they are still married when they have a baby!! Edit: I give birth in January, so I think for sure no longer than 6 months in our room.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/20 07:12 PM
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Thanks what about letting baby sleep in their own room/crib? My understanding is a bassinet is about 6 months and then you slowly introduce them to the crib?
/r/RedPillWives06/09/20 06:22 PM
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Awesome! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders ♡
/r/RedPillWives06/09/20 04:04 AM
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It is something I'm seeing a lot with students. Either no love and affection or an absurd excess of it. There needs to be a balance. Edit: and just to clarify I do not think too much love is bad, but more coddling and helicopter parenting that result from an obsessive or overattachment.
/r/RedPillWives06/09/20 01:49 AM
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My comment may come off as rude, but please hear me out. I am a teacher and I feel like a major problem in our society is very unhealthy boundaries with children. While it is important to love and protect our children, we need to learn to say no and set boundaries, even if it is hard. It is time for you to set some boundaries with your baby. Most recommendations say 6 months...you are way beyond that. The baby also needs to learn independence. This isn't just about you. It is part of growing up.…
/r/RedPillWives05/09/20 11:56 PM
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So I'm not saying you hit 30 and lose all your energy and ability to make children. But there is study after study on fertility and age: https://www.acog.org/en/Clinical/Clinical%20Guidance/Committee%20Opinion/Articles/2014/03/Female%20Age-Related%20Fertility%20Decline These are not "always changing." They are pretty steady. Sorry you're in denial about aging and its effects? Edit: is this real? Am I really fighting about this? Do you realize how young people used to be when they married and had…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 03:23 AM
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Anecdotal evidence like that does not disprove scientific studies...
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 12:47 AM
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I'd like to know!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 08:01 PM
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Studies show the optimal time to have babies is definitely before 30. Increase in miscarriages and other things seem to increase after 30. I had two losses, for example. This is not to say you turn 30 and things are hopeless. I waited until 31 because I wanted to be with the right person and a good place in my life. I take care of myself more than I ever have. I am very fit for 21 weeks. But I just think there is a difference. A small one, but it is there. Every woman is different, of course. An…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 06:29 PM
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If you think aging isn't real, I got news for you. I take care of myself. I eat right. Healthy. But there is definitely a difference between 20s and 30s. This is a red pill sub, right?
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 05:53 PM
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Who cares what people think? Seriously. Do what you think is right in your life. I am 31 having my first. I definitely think it would have been easier in my 20s. Here is what people do not get - you simply have more energy in your 20s. I am more established now but my energy is down. Obviously though, do not rush into anything either. But do not worry what these people say.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 12:47 PM
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Sex positivity as in all sex and all sexual acts are inherently good and healthy. This one really messed me up. I think sex is neutral now. There are some negative aspects of sex (sleeping with strangers, sick or degrading fetishes, abuse or control, porn) and there are positive aspects to sex (love, fertility, connection, etc).
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 04:30 AM
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/r/loveafterporn (they are all liberal anti red pill but a good place to vent) /r/pornfree - show him this /r/antipornography - porn has done some serious damage on society
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 01:41 PM
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I'm not naked all of the time, but I pick and choose times to be cute and seductive. Like changing in front of him. I think all of the time ruins the mystery.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 01:02 AM
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My goal is to be as makeup free as possible. I'm starting to embrace my natural beauty, and I sincerely think my husband likes it more (though he does not mind makeup). So I've been working on looking good without it!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 06:30 PM
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K
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 04:20 PM
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Thanks for this! Somebody just said I was "batshit crazy" but taking out all the Christian elements like people cannot deny that family structure/gender roles have been/are being destroyed. Some find it to be a good thing. They find family and gender roles antiquated and unnecessary. Personally, I did not see the issues until I reflected on my terrible family life, as well as twisted gender roles.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 04:15 PM
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Sounds fake
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 04:12 PM
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I did reply to the other comment of one of my theories : )
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 07:17 AM
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I was blinded by what society told me I should want and should be.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 09:38 PM
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Replied : )
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 09:20 PM
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So from a Christian perspective. Note, I was not always Christian, and second, even if you are not Christian you can see these things happening. The family unit is being broken down. That is plain to see. More divorces. More single parents. Good or bad? You decide. Personally, I believe any child struggles without a strong family unit. In a Christian sense, I definitely believe a strong household is of the utmost importance. Society has moved further and further away from any sense of God. More …
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 09:20 PM
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Congrats to you too! January! : )
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 07:19 PM
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Well they are mostly spiritual. Still interested?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 07:18 PM
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I used to be one of those woman. The truth was I went after all the wrong men. There are great men out there but most of us are chasing the wrong thing? Why? I have theories but maybe another time. The sad part is that I'm pregnant. Not sure if girl or boy yet but imagine me raising a boy with this mindset?!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 06:27 PM
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He is a great guy! ♡
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 06:13 PM
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My husband said he did not like carrots. I cut them up super small and put them in a salad. He did not notice and I told him when he was done. We both laughed. With that being said, I think lying should really be avoided, even about small things.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 04:36 AM
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Wow, amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:26 PM
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No. You are not.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:26 PM
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But family life is best. There was a time when it really was. That concept has been destroyed and one reason why people are so miserable now. Edit: kind of lame I was banned. Reddit is really getting bad with the censorship.
/r/MGTOW28/07/20 02:36 PM
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I was definitely an anti-redpill woman years ago. When I shifted to the redpill woman philosophy (and honestly I just became Christian, but much of...not all...of it complements), my life got sooo much better. I learned from my past mistakes, and I met an amazing man (even at 30...the dreaded wall). I am happier than I have ever been.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 05:21 PM
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I'm Christian so I think people are missing the spiritual collapse that is happening.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 06:52 PM
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Well perhaps in this almost apocalyptic world. But there used to be a time is was not always like this.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 06:39 PM
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All my girl friends are in their 30s and like have no real...lives. They get Starbucks every day, take stupid classes, and tell me how depressed and empty they feel all the time. Yet when I bring up having kids, they act if I'm insane. Good post btw!
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 06:16 PM
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I'd say it makes you way more selfless BUT then the problem lies in how people are raising their children today
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 06:14 PM
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Another thing I feel has led to the emptiness is women not wanting babies.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 05:37 AM
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Thank you for the deeper post. Not to complain, but many of the posts here seem superficial. I definitely think men and women love in different ways and value different things. I think that is why gender roles are important - to create balance. However, the problem lies when women do not try to understand men and men do not try to understand women. The red pill is important because it gives us that truth. I do feel more love and valued from attention my husband gives me vs. he seems more loved a…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 10:01 PM
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I think it is about 30 but honestly I think staying in shape and taking care of yourself make a HUGE difference.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 06:06 PM
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Yeah you are right. It does make you feel lonely and weird though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 05:01 AM
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Luckily I am very happily married to a man who appreciate my views! : )
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:27 AM
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Very true
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/20 01:11 AM
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I think you cannot win in high school!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 06:52 PM
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Thank you! Feel nauseous all the time!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 06:28 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 06:14 AM
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Have a healthy pregnancy! 9 weeks pregnant after 2 losses. Eating well and exercising. Trying to gain a healthy amount of weight. Advice if anybody wants to give! Edit: sad somebody downvoted me for this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 02:20 AM
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Oh that kind of sucks I thought this was a married sub for both men and women who understood the redpill view?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 05:59 AM
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Are women allowed to comment here? I just made a post in redpillwomen how every women seems to be a crazy SJW now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 05:38 AM
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I 100% agree.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 05:20 PM
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I completely understand : ( Hang in there
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 05:20 PM
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Oh wow! Thanks for this. I really really feel for you! How did you end up a conservative there???
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 05:19 PM
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Eh I'm talking about something much deeper here in regards to the term SJW. I'm not talking about people protesting. I am talking about 3rd to 4th wave feminists and extremists.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 12:06 AM
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Exactly what my husband said
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 10:12 PM
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Exactly. This is exactly how I feel! I am tired of constantly censoring in fear of offending someone.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 08:47 PM
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Thank you : )
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 08:18 PM
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Haha good!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 08:18 PM
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I feel you! I am a huge leader in my workplace. It is if I have two identities. Once things start opening up again, I'm going to really find a church I click with.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 06:21 PM
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I definitely will! I am feeling the same way!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 06:20 PM
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I'm working on that, which is why I posted here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:37 PM
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I will definitely keep looking. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:28 PM
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I think maybe it is because I am pregnant right now too, so I am feeling more alone than ever.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:27 PM
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I also used to be super liberal. Maybe this is my karma ? : )
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:23 PM
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I wish I could be more vocal in real life but does not seem worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:22 PM
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That might be true. Sometimes it feels like the other problem is I am not that into pop culture.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:22 PM
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I plan on it for sure
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:21 PM
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Perhaps I should have said SJW. That may have been more accurate. I do not think all liberal feminists are bad. It just seems like every women is a liberal feminist now.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:20 PM
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I do like this sub! Thanks for your comment!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:20 PM
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Can we be friends : )
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:19 PM
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I am glad I am not the only one who saw this. Dumb question - are you pregnant right now too?
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 05:19 PM
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Thanks. I am definitely making an effort.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 01:23 PM
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I just chose that as it was something going on right now. And as for extreme...I mean perhaps people would see that. I'm pretty deeply Christian, which is extreme today. I honestly never really talk about my views anywhere except Reddit. So my social media is pretty clean. I'm try to be polite when I talk to others. I censor myself often, and I am careful with preaching. In fact, most people assume I'm a liberal feminist simply because I keep my views and politics mostly to myself. As for no fri…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 01:21 PM
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Thanks I might just do that!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 01:17 PM
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I like it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:42 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:41 PM
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Ahh, glad I am not alone! Though I do not want anyone to feel alone either : (
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:33 PM
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I definitely get what you mean. To be clear I am not anti-feminism. I'd say on a very basic level I'm a feminist (1st 2nd wave?)
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:33 PM
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I think where I live is extremely liberal. I'm trying to find a good church...
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:22 PM
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That is a good point! I think it is quality not quantity. I think in some ways I have stopped censoring myself and a few still love me : ) I think there is just a level of loneliness I'll always fight a little. Thanks for the advice. And yeah, I'm not sure what that girl's motives were...like how hard is it to call someone sometimes and care? She was essentially saying she wanted the relationship completely on her terms.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:15 PM
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Yeah and I have no issue if people's views differ. It is more that I find with the "vocal" ones that it shuts down conversation almost immediately. Like if I said..."not sure I agree with the current looting going on..." Well, I'm done. I'm labeled racist. And that is that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:01 PM
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I think you should focus on the not having friends you can tell your true feelings too. How did you get to a point where you just have these empty friendships? A lot of them are friends that I've had since grade school. When I was a teen my dad moved my whole family across the country to a very different culture. I never quite fit in here and it was difficult to make friends. So I kind of cling to my other friends. I mean on some level we can talk, but the boundary seems to be anything deeper or…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 12:00 PM
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/r/loveafterporn may be helpful...at least to vent. Could he go over to /r/pornfree? In my opinion, porn destroys relationships. He first needs to admit he has a problem. Does he?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 06:24 AM
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I think blonde hair can age some women. I have naturally blonde hair and I feel liked the dyed blonde just looks...idk. If you have dyed blonde hair I'm not saying you look bad. But I find a lot of people dye their hair blonde and expect it to do wonders?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 08:04 PM
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I used to have this disorder. Skinpick.org helped me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 03:45 AM
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Celebrities are fake in every way.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 03:37 AM
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I know there are horror stories but MOST would never make fun of someone for trying to improve themselves. The majority of Americans are obese. I really think start with a daily walk and just put yourself out there. Make sure you take a safe path. I walk all the time and people mostly leave me alone. Once in a while I get honked at but oh well.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 06:28 PM
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I did this too. And it was wrong. I married the wrong person. And I ended up leaving him and hurting him. It is better to leave now than later. If nothing else, DO NOT MARRY HIM unless you have 100% no doubts!!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 04:32 AM
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We all have our boundaries and expectations. To me, if you have fair reason and explain why and he agrees....then he is violating them. It depends how much you love this guy and what you feel you can handle. I'm not saying break-up, but I am saying that you need to have a really clear serious convo. Do not shame him. But you need to have your voice heard, and you need to see how he handles this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 07:28 AM
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Is he a redpillman? I honestly believe redpill in general is pretty anti-porn for many reasons. And what he is viewing is a form of porn. I think also men see a women's perspective. There are some subreddits that are anti-porn that show how women feel...thousands. It is not just about "jealousy." It is about respect! Look, this isn't about him never finding another women attractive again. It is about...do you want to deal with the constant comparisons for the rest of your life? Being with a man …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 07:22 AM
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I found my husband at 30. I think it is never too late BUT what many people are missing is that you need to look at your flaws and your problems. You need to be authentic. I'd say start making sure you are REALLY taking care of yourself. Do you have any hobbies or interests that make you authentically you? Also, attractiveness is important but many people dismiss that when you really love them, you start to enjoy their flaws. So what if a guy has a bald spot or a slight beer gut? Women are alway…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 07:00 AM
1

Being honest with yourself is good and the first step! Also, maybe this will open your mind and help you stop chasing after "alphas."
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 12:17 AM
7

Even when I wear pajamas I make sure I look cute for him. I wear a lot of things with cleavage at home, and he seems to like that : )
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 09:17 PM
0

This is too redpilled for this place.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 10:37 AM
3

My husband says it is hot when I do my photography : )
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 05:27 PM
11

I am a woman and this post is dumb. Stop being a slut.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/03/20 05:10 AM
1

Love it
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 10:50 PM
2

He delivered flowers to my work and wrote a list of 100 reasons he loves me. Yes, it met my standards.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 06:11 PM
2

Eh sorry you all expect nothing Edit: to clarify, just because we have been "redpilled" does not mean we should not have any standards. I have really high standards but I view relationships entirely differently now. Sorry if I came off as condescending previously.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 07:30 AM
5

Ew. A redpillman would give his wife something. I'll enjoy my downvotes while he watches porn. : )
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 12:44 AM
2

Aww thanks man! The reason I post here is I feel utterly alone in my views. It is like women are so programmed, and they just refuse to think that maybe everything they are told by the media is not correct.
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 09:06 PM
8

The glorification of abortion, especially on Reddit, is sickening. Somehow "they" convinced women that freedom = murder of the innocent. I lost 2 babies this year. They were tiny. They were not just a "clump of cells."
/r/MGTOW01/01/20 04:34 AM
5

Even I'm tired of women. I told my husband I read these subs so I'm not like these women. He thinks it is funny. Edit: I was thinking, "Do I hate women?" The answer is no, but I cannot relate to the modern instagram woman who is so vapid and disgusting anymore.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 02:16 AM
3

As a woman, the reason women mostly wear leggings now because they are way fatter and leggings can hide a lot more.
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 12:56 AM
7

It is hard for men. I definitely get it. Plus I get why people watch porn. It is no mystery. So for him to do that in our relationship makes me respect him a lot. Most men cannot even fathom it!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 03:57 PM
7

Well I want to be clear this is anecdotal. I felt like with my ex our sex was purely lustful. I feel like it took way more to get him off. I feel it warped his views (and mine) of what sex was. With my husband, I feel like he waits for me. When he gets horny, he doesnt automatically start jacking off and watching porn. It requires a little self discipline, but that is very attractive to me! It makes our sex life more fun because we experiment more in bed and explore fantasies more. With porn, th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 03:19 PM
4

Yes!! It actually sounds terrifying!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 03:16 PM
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Great post. Many males are now suffering ED in their teens!! I am so thankful I found a man who chooses not to watch porn in our relationship (unless we are having fun together). It makes a world of difference in our sex life. It makes me feel more beautiful and more motivated to continue to be beautiful for him. People can do whatever they want, but I see how different it is being with a man who watches porn and one who does not. It is amazingly different.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 03:37 AM
3

: )
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 06:27 PM
1

Did she say he was fat?
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 04:14 PM
12

I personally think I need a hair cut right now but my husband says he loves how it is, so I will trust him (he likes long and natural).
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 06:18 PM
6

This seems like something deeper inside of you psychologically. You were drinking for a reason. Nobody drinks nightly without a reason. Trust me, I personally know this. I hate saying therapy because it sounds so overdone, but you both may need couple's counseling.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:00 PM
23

I feel you are being a little unrealistic. Buying a house and having kids are very expensive and huge steps. Instead of complaining, create an action plan together. I do not think he should go back to school though.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 03:44 AM
2

Men are allowed to have preferences. It is gross. They are allowed to be grossed out by slutty behavior. If I was a man, I would be.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 08:16 PM
10

I apologize in advanced if my tone is harsh. Are you sure you've been redpilled? The wall is fast approaching. Get over yourself. Guys are already probably grossed out by the amount of men you have slept with...so you are lucky you found one who is not. However, I will caution that I ended up being with a man I wasn't in love with for nearly all of my 20s. I loved him, but I just was not in love with him. I should have broken off the relationship long ago, but I stayed due to fear. I really regr…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 01:27 PM
1

Oh sorry. Still kind of stupid to smile in the photo.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 11:21 PM
1

Because I read this sub
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 11:21 PM
3

Why is he smiling in the photo?
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 10:05 PM
1

This is why men hate women.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 03:29 AM
1

Haha why am I the winner?!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 04:07 AM
0

My husband is definitely this : )
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:19 AM
10

On Reddit! Haha seriously!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 04:59 AM
16

I disagree you did anything wrong. My husband and I have an open phone relationship. My exes and I did not...and guess what ended up happening?
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 05:23 AM
1

I will just go on my alt account and pose as a male. Jk : )
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 06:13 PM
1

Hmm ok
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 05:05 PM
1

Women cannot post here? Being genuinely serious.
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 05:05 PM
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I am a woman and can barely stand working with women. For me, it is the gossip. No matter what you do, they talk shit about you. Before all of you downvote men, I think I was always brought up to be more like a man in work environments.
/r/MGTOW27/08/19 05:01 AM
17

It is weird but kids can just tell when you are nervous or uncomfortable. Try to start here...
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 07:50 PM
1

I definitely am. He sees all my posts and helps me! ♡
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/19 01:18 AM
2

Of course I want approval of men! At least I understand my nature.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/19 12:22 AM
1

My man said I could be here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/19 12:19 AM
0

Because?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/19 04:27 AM
2

I'm a unicorn jk Edit: in all seriousness, I read the rules and I didn't see anything wrong with women commenting. Many of us use this sub as motivation to be better people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/19 04:25 AM
15

Woman here. This is so infuriating. Hell, I do not care if the date is at McDonald's. Anything can be fun if you have a true connection. My husband actually did have a date at McDonald's because we do not eat fast food very often!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/19 05:27 AM
1

Yes...but I am getting downvoted. Redpillwomen have difficulties with redpills?
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 08:26 PM
1

Yeah you have a good point.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 03:30 PM
1

Still she is disgusting and the show is gross. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 03:30 PM
3

I find it really hard to believe any woman who is not overweight is ugly enough for plastic surgery. I think we have been really programmed. With that being said, I do get it in some instances (like a really bad nose).
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 03:30 PM
0

https://youtu.be/wSaJRhTAF5A
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 03:29 PM
7

I honestly do not think we should be idolizing or looking to most celebrities. Sex positive/liberalism is very strong in Hollywood. I am subscribed to a few woman on YouTube who I'd consider to be redpilled.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 03:49 AM
15

She sleeps with like 3,000 men. That whole show is anti-redpill
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 03:47 AM
1

I am not anti-plastic surgery. I get it. Just seems almost contradictory the redpill... Cannot seem to explain why at the moment. Maybe it feels deceptive? Edit: aren't there a million other things she can do before that? Personality still counts... I think...
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 07:47 AM
7

Would a red pill man really like his girl to have plastic surgery?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 04:00 AM
1

It has been tough! Thanks for your reply though!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 03:32 AM
10

They love abortion on that sub. They glorify it as though it is a heroic action to get an abortion.
/r/MGTOW21/07/19 12:57 AM
1

Thanks for your reply!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/19 01:34 AM
1

100% agree
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/19 01:34 AM
4

Also I was just trying to kind of see her perspective so she may be more willing to hear why it even matters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 11:50 AM
6

It is also possible her side of the story is exaggerated. We would never know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 11:40 AM
19

Read all before you downvote. To start with, let's just say that the lady was out of line. Like to go with your argument - yeah, she was unprofessional. Also, it is nice you did not push for disciplinary action when you called. Shaming should not be part of a doctor's visit. But.......... But seriously, take the advice. Despite what society tells you, you will regret being overly promiscuous. All of my friends have regretted it greatly. Society treats sex as meaningless, but the truth is there i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/19 05:37 AM
2

Nice post!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 01:58 PM
3

I had an ectopic pregnancy in April and it is absolutely devastating. I do not have much to say, but I feel you...
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 04:37 AM
15

Are women allowed to comment here? I think it is honestly societal programming. My views have changed sooo much, and I can see how brainwashed I truly was. When I got out of a long term relationship a while back, every one (every woman) was encouraging me to sleep around, go to bars, and be a slut. I did NOT want that. I am so thankful I chose love and happiness. Now that I am happily with a guy, my girl friends HATE it. They make rude and resentful remarks all of the time. Anyway, this sub is e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/19 07:19 AM
6

Read more of the posts. I would not say this sub is anti-feminism at all. Anti-SJWism, yes. But there are different waves of feminism besides the ridiculous movement taking place today.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 04:38 AM
1

Yes...this scares me. Well, guess it is time to give up! Lol jk : )
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/19 09:05 AM
1

Yeah he is cheating on you. Move along.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/19 10:22 AM
8

Well...time to start maybe doing more with that?
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 11:23 AM
3

Great advice! I have had to learn to better take constructive criticism as a female. It is hard especially because I have a history of abuse and trauma. I am working on it!
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 04:01 AM
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The only thing missing... It sounds like you are kind of dull (just from this post...I am sure you are not actually!) But if I were a guy, it just feels like there would not be much to talk about with you. Please know I am not saying this in a rude way, but to me, everything else seems great! Where do you go to meet men? Pick up a hobby and maybe you would find someone that way.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 01:12 AM
22

In the workplace, I disregard most redpill advice. In fact, I feel like I have to emphasize qualities of a man. It works. At home, I am entirely different person. Though my guy says he is attracted to both elements of me (And I am very successful)
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 11:07 PM
2

Just stop messaging him and see if he messages you out of nowhere. Then you will know.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 05:20 AM
1

Yes! None of this ideology can work if we are not healthy mentally to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 01:03 PM
8

Everything in moderation, even what you learn here. While the redpill stuff is founded in truth, it is important none of us become extremists. For example, I am Christian. In the Bible, there are times when even Jesus himself breaks the rules. Sometimes I read this subreddit, and it seems a little like a cult. I do really like it overall, but I feel like it is important that people take what they learn here and tweak it to fit their lives. It sounds like your relationship needs something much de…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 03:04 AM
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