mistaharsh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Officially Divorced It's tricky because with women cheating the question many ask is "what was it that the husband failed to provide emotionally?" If a man cheats no one poses the question "what did the wife fail to do physically or otherwise?" it's almost an absurd question to ask. While I do feel marriages can recover from infidelity it does require the cheater to take full accountability which women have trouble doing in any circumstance and they also don't like to be made to feel guilty either.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 07:13 PM
2	Officially Divorced I Agree 100%	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 05:12 PM
1	Just got taken to the cleaners last week... but its over :) I understand I'm in Ontario Canada. As long as you aren't an addict or not gainfully employed you can get 50/50 easily as longer as you can make the time. It greatly reduced my CS to $100 a month and I get to be actively involved with my kids. It does help that I hooked her up with a good paying job well before we had issues but sometimes I wonder would she want to end it if she wasn't earning as much as she does.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 05:11 PM
2	Officially Divorced I hear you. She took you for granted. OR she realized she no longer has control over you. It's at this point that Narcissist lose all their power. I wish you well.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 05:02 PM
2	Officially Divorced Yeah it happened to me but it was her former co worker. When your woman leaves a job after a year and the only friendship she keeps is a guy it won't end well. Fast forward a year She left the house and in a month was sleeping with him. Then she comes back. If course I didn't know at the time and only found out when she was texting him that our efforts in counseling was a lost cause. After That I tried to split amicably through mediation which she declined and then served me with legal documents…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 11:12 AM
2	Officially Divorced She sounds like a Narcissist. In either event you're moving in the right direction with the right frame of mind.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/21 10:43 AM
3	Officially Divorced Cheating is different for women. It's not physical like how it is for most guys. It's emotional, and once that feeling is gone what is a woman worth to a man if she is emotionally unavailable? She's not a provider or protector. She's useless to you at that point and will start plotting the end game.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/21 10:40 AM
1	Just got taken to the cleaners last week... but its over :) How did you end up paying so much child support with 50/50 time? The disparities in income must be massive.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/21 10:22 AM