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mistercheeez-o____O-/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 12:04 AM
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And those are just meh.. Nonchalant you kbow. Griwing a human inside of me, no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:29 AM
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Is there another context in which someone can be litterally inside of you nonchalantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:58 AM
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Exactly. You can take up a relaxed an unconcerned attitude about virtually any human activity, it doesn't change the gravity of that action or it's potential consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:54 PM
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This wlll likely go in circles. What aspects of sexual intercourse are casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 05:43 AM
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Glad we agree. So what will be your pro tip for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:02 PM
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Your angst doesn't invalidate what I stated earlier. What aspects of sexual intercourse can be qualified as "casual"? I'm asking you sincerely. You can uphold whatever attitude you wish about virtually anything in this world, but it doesn't necessarily make your qualifications accurate or useful. Sex is about as casual as surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:00 PM
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There have been heaps of women who have commited sex crimes against minors too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:54 PM
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Sex isn't casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:45 PM
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I am beginning to believe that a reason why parring up is becoming increasingly difficult and postponed is due to a lack of true leisure and idle time in our dayly lives. These are the moments when we ought to be making such connections, these are also the moments when we are more receptive to making them, and yet, they are increasingly rare. True leisure is unscheduled time to relax and frolic. Western cultures have forgotten this crucial human need, and has opted for rushed and showy activitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:56 AM
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Are you wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:13 AM
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We are philosophical beings, and I admire this temptation to "smuggle" it in every once in a while. :) Cheers 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:46 PM
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It's interesting how our culture has successfully made fertility and reproduction into diseases...Somehow this of all fundamental conditions of our existence is reduced to pathology. I don't know where you got this idea that men on PPD somehow think abortion is easy, but heck, I don't spend a lot of time here, so I'll take your word for it. I personally think that abortion is one of the most dfficult things to justify ethically, and, medically speaking, I' ve never heard of any specialists refer…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:32 AM
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That is not true. Science does not struggle with defining the ontogeny (life cycle) of human beings. Any biology or embryology text book will state that the human life cycle begins at fertilization i.e the formation of the zygote. The scientific definition is 100% clear and settled. I believe you meant to say that philosophy has struggled with defining when life begins, and you would be correct in making that statement. This philosophical 'question', however, seems quite futile given the overwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:02 AM
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I'm a man and casual sex without any interest for dating could also feel like rejection to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:18 PM
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I have referenced this study on ppd before. The most important highlight is that it is a defence mechanism that many women may use for self-preservation of social status. To these women it seemed that beauty and social status were inexorably linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:16 PM
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Promiscuous people find it difficult to treat their SO fairly when the prospect of sexual gratification with others is not permitted. To them, the lack of novelty in a relationship feels emotinally draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:23 AM
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A defining aspect of feminist theory is that men and women are in perpetual competition. It was appropriated from socialist theory which holds a notion of class warfare. Feminist theory posites men and women as distinct social classes, and hence in competition. Do you not subscribe to feminist theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 07:50 AM
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You simply can't afford the emotinal indulgence that comes along with resentment, so you find healthy outlets to deal with it. Most men who struggle to keep women interested simply can't afford to give up. We must constantly improve until we are relived of this condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 07:41 AM
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Slay the sewer rats... ( 40yr old version)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 07:36 AM
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I would think that she's not the best at pattern recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 07:17 AM
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I think if a beta can transcend certain barriers than he could be a formidable partner, because what would have increased his appeal would have required some personal development. Introspection, perseverance and progression are things that women want from their SO, I gather.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 07:06 AM
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A man who values his time, his money, his relationships and his sanity will opt for the former. I believe that that is most men. There are heaps of problematic hotties that are repellant to decent men. There is also a Cruela Devile-esk ugliness that sets in when you're convinced that your 9/10 is capable of genocide. Or as Jay Cole would put it; She shaaaalllloooow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:49 AM
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If a man falls within the baseline of her physical requirements, than the following depicts a substrate of attraction for women imo. Social status --> competence --> physiology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:39 AM
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It will take some time. Eventually, as your wounds begin to heal, you will be able to view women more individually, and you will treat them accordingly. Your consciousnes may be finite, and it could be assumed that the greatest portion of your existence will be the record that has been accrued of the life you've once directed. A substantial portion, and perhaps the most important portion of that record, the only portion that could approximate a multidimensional representation of your formerly mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:15 PM
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We are raised to honour you, and you are raised to spite us. Seems fair. Women's requirements for attraction and their requirements to feel valued are inversely linked, and any man who can master this balancing act is a magician. ( Magicians are not to be trusted.) A man's grievances are oft-times met with hostility, so he should avoid futile excercises like "opening up". Best he find a healthy outlet to channel them. Witnessing the girl power groupthink in action is at times hilarious, but oft …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:38 AM
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What's bad is when people fail reach a workable compromise between their instics and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:06 AM
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T'es français?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:14 AM
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Virtue is it's own reward. Many good men could be more aloof, but in a longitudinal way, they know that it would be a bad premise to start a lasting relationship, because women change, and later on they will begin to resent the things that likely kept them interested at first. These men are not Nice Guy tm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:37 PM
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None of this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:06 PM
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Fair enough love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:47 AM
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So this is one of these things where you are paying more attention to the comments that run contrary to your ideas and ignore the ones that don't. You can't unanimously assert that the men on ppd believe x. Anyway, you have a point, but it doesn't exactly create the dichotomy that you are attempting to establish here. There is glaring subjectivity. Then again, that's the intended purpose of cmv. I gather. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:38 AM
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I don't see the point to this.Tthe onus should be what would prevent divorce to begin with. So what type of woman is more likely to file a divorce? Is it a career woman or a housewife?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:28 AM
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Should have married a Stoïc. Aurelius gang gang.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:50 AM
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At 14 years old? Wow :( To answer your question, I envision a pretty normal lad.. probably wearing some combination of shirt and pants. Perhaps with a tuk even though he's inside..if he's feeling adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:41 AM
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I think it's ridiculous that grown people can't hardly handle some dishes. Perhaps, he's been working harder to get ahead at work, and just wants to unwind when he gets home, but if his wife were to tell him what she needs from him, he'd likely do it, avoiding the need for passive aggression and resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:25 AM
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I agree, but the manosphere is an umbrella of many virtual communities that may oft times be at odds. The MRAs, MGTOW and RP may mostly agree on the current state of affairs in terms of relations between the sexes, but their conclusions may differ. The modus operandi for the MRAs is egalitarian, as they believe, such as feminists believe, that the criteria for eligibility have to change, or equalize rather. In virtue of this, what you have described above should not be considerations of eligibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:41 AM
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Modern day universities could be considered a microcosme of a civilization where women outnumber men, and there's continuity with what you have stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 02:42 AM
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Hundo p cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 02:39 AM
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It seems like it may be a bit hasty to judge a dude so profoundly whilst basing these aspergions by what are honsetly quick interactions. It's really not engouh data to caratherize a guy like that and not even know him. At the end of the day, attracton can't be helped so I guess we'll have to roll with the punches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:59 AM
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They are mostly after validation actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 11:50 PM
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*Woman shut eyes* *Gasp! Great dishonor-aru* *Tinder why? PENIS!? ​ *Man is happy. Yes?* *DM give butt-u pic-u. ♥* *Zoom out. Oh no! GAY!?*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:30 PM
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There's Lust, Attraction, and True love. Until women have developed enough to proactively contribute to the process that leeds to true love, they feel more motivated by the former two parameters in the echelon. (and men too, but we're talking about women here.) The best case scenario is a relationship where all three parameters are present. True love is inherently a moral venture. Lust and attraction only truly become ethical when they are expressed in the context of true love (because true love…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:11 AM
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You could extrapolate that the wage gap would be diminished, if women prefered to mate accross and down competence hierarchies, rather than accross and up. ​ ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:05 AM
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She's vapid, and so tremendously vaine that the perceived approval of people that she doesn't know, but thinks are attractive, is important engouh to her that she's willing to act in such a way that she would most likely disapprove of if you were doing the same thing. ​ Red flag? That be a texas 10-4 budz.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 12:27 AM
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Like a cross between Basquiat and A$ap Rocky with some scruff. just over 5,9. For Canucks my body type is above average but not quite athletic, but I also look a bit wider naturally(even if i'm not actually), I'll look like a rugby player in 2019, because I've been getting in shape. (at the begining of the year I could barely fit a size 34, but today i'm comfortably wearing a size 30. ) For Yankies, I'm well above average in terms of not obese. Lightskin. Eyes are slighty almond shaped, and very…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:57 PM
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The trick is in the verbiage. Many of them will label anything that they don't like or couldn't be bothered with from men as entitlement. - A man who expects a woman to have sex with him because he paid for dinner (that's weak but survey says...): Entitlement. - A man asking for an explination as to why a woman stood him up (I've faced this before): Entitlement. It's literaly a way to shut down whatever a opinion a man can have in the context of sex, romance or courtship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:43 PM
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So long as your standards are deeper than just material and cosmetic? ​ - Material because aren't you an **I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-A-N-T** 21st century wamen who don't no man *snap* *snap* *neck swivel* - Cosmetic because you're old now, be realistic. ​ Oft-times what many women call having standards displays a lack of introspection. When it's time to transition to a more stable paradigm, I think we should be with the person who helps us grow in wisdom, amongst other virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:23 PM
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I like the people that I like. I couldn't give a care about their roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 10:28 PM
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The scans did not reveal that they have the same neurology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 10:24 PM
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Transgender people were born with the brain of the opposite sex. They aren't, simply put. If they were, there would be no notable changes in their behaviour whilst they undergo "hormone therapy." So yes we have differences between the sexes and they influence temperament ----> responses to environmental stimuli ----> personality ----> behaviour, but people aren't born with the wrong brain in the wrong body. It is a mental illness. I don't have any ill will towards them as I don't believe that pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:54 PM
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That's not how I meant it..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:15 PM
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The trends are showing that for many, the ages at which we are engaging in sex and courtship have augmented. There is a minority of men who in their teens and 20s who are seeing the majority of the action. To assume that these men are inherently better, or worse is incorrect. For sure we can say that outside of the naturally gifted few, certain men are better at communicating with women in ways that hone and keep their attention at least for some period of time, and in ways that lead to sexual o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 01:03 AM
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Nope. The Midwest was mostly populated and developed by Germans. Edit: and I'll also add that, unlike the Spaniards and the English, the German presence was propagated through settlements as opposed to colonization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 05:20 PM
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That sounds naïve to me. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 01:01 AM
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please explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:45 AM
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I don't know, but I think it's very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:23 AM
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Yeah I'm generalizing, but it's fairly obvious that if women really prioritized the orgasm in mate selection, than more men would feel concerned with providing them. The surest way to get women to orgasm requires a responsive, attentive and giving approach that, although enjoyable to them, reflects personally traits women do not typically find attractive in men. It couldn't hurt for more men to boost their proficiency, but women will not make that a priority in mate selection. At least not usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:10 AM
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Well... it's pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 11:45 PM
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Club dancing is awkward and terrible. And women insist on leading witch creates terrible results. There are sexier styles of dancing, with structures that people could learn and perform well, and that actually facilitate COMMUNICATION, which is the whole point of dancing to be frank. It reflects the piss-poor state of courtship in North-America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 11:38 PM
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I have been friend zoned by women who have expressed explicitly that they have romantic feelings for me. I think women, may actually friend zone the "possibly more" guy. Of course, if I was more impressive and or charismatic, I could have been the "definitely more" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 11:32 PM
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Women select selfish male lovers, because orgasms are not a priority for mate selection to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 11:24 PM
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Does misogyny inflate the perceived number of hypergamous women and the level of perceived hypergamy? I don't think misogyny is necessary to derive that perspective. TBH, hypergamy is one aspect of reproductive strategy. I think it's important for men to be aware of the phenomenon, but realistically. To observe all couples purely through that lens is something that I would liken more to paranoia, but there are some legitimate reasons to at least be aware of it. We have so many impulses, and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 10:18 PM
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Traditional femininity might be incredibly fulfilling for many women and it's not your job as an individual to gain status or success because others expect it from you. Nevertheless, it's hard not to see why femininity might be seen as inferior and undesirable if a woman cares about being taken seriously or achieving something outside the traditional sphere, and blaming feminism as the sole reason for this is beyond ridiculous. I completely disagree with idea that women supporting their families…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 09:26 PM
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I think once many of us millennial's in the West understand that it is almost a thing of the past in our society and now career goals/ambitions are a matter of personal life choices then we can't call sexim out. It's a misconception of the "west". If I refer to what I understand from the term "west", as Judeo-Christian based, English common law democracies, the term manhood or masculinity was synonymous with: accountability/duty, and not indulgence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 08:49 PM
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people beefing and bringing firearms at parties is trashy behaviour. Fuck em, and don't go. Chris rock's bit is resonating right now. I fuckin can't stand goons!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 08:08 PM
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Stop taking things too personally, especially when they're out of context. (generalizing gosh)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:34 PM
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But maybe this is more of a problem with me picking the wrong guys. Most women do not find responsive men to be attractive. So it's likely that the men you are attracted to are not as convenient for you to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 10:29 PM
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Yoooouuuu must find all of my things! >:-[
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:58 PM
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TRP, MGTOW and MRA's aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:53 PM
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Nowadays it feels like a mix of fear of rejection x fear of upsetting her > Lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:20 PM
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How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 08:19 PM
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Well for an out of the blue hook-up being too dominant is probably not the best idea. You should have some level of trust established before crossing a certain threshold dominance though, and you should spend some time on the cool down after, because the intersections of pain/pleasure/orgasm all at once can be difficult for a girl to handle, even if she was after getting it. That being said it can be tricky to pull it off casually, because there is less trust before the act, and less affection (…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 09:09 PM
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I think false allegations are way more prevalent than we once thought. New breakthroughs in forensic investigation will also paint a more accurate picture of the prevalence of false allegations. We will also begin to understand the scope of how much false data has been perpetuated and cited by feminists, and the impact that those myths have had on our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 08:23 PM
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yeah that's what I meant by it. I added some notes, because my wording was a wee off there lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 04:17 PM
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Well I'm talking about situations where there have been some "seeing each other" and or hook-ups. Situations where there has been mutual attraction. But I think I should have been more clear about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 03:42 PM
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Physical aptitude aside, you just described opportunity that men in the upper echelons of I.Q. almost exclusively have, and I.Q is not something that can really be worked on. Most of what women demand from men is difficult to achieve, and more tremendously so for men who haven't the gifts of an above average I.Q and height actually. I assume that women feel guilty about their criteria deep down, and that's why they seek to dismiss this. There's also a difference between immediate and longitudina…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 10:01 PM
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So the top men will have a lot of sex, yes, and most men will be sexually starved, but when relationships go around, it is mostly 1:1. With the assumption held by the women that they have settled for someone below their pecking order.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:20 PM
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no it can't be, but it doesn't have to be overwhelmingly tragic, and it learns you heaps. That may be tremendously positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:08 PM
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Look, I think it's a good thing to be considerate and compassionate, but that being said, you do it because you want to treat people with consideration, not because you believe that it will make you more attractive. No matter your motivation, it undoubtedly won't create attraction from women. Women do not find responsive men to be attractive. In this modern day, women view relationships increasingly as something to pursue for enjoyment, being too responsive diminishes their interest, because it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:04 PM
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I think if you replaced "Online dating" with Tinder, your statement will be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 08:38 PM
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Did you at least make sure to have protective sex? It's one thing to cheat on your gf, but hopefully you didn't put her at risk of contracting your 21st century-independent-woman alpha-she-wolf's (sad-career-woman-hooking-up-with-her-lackeys-whilst-slowly-atrophying-into-a-decaying-ball-of-despair-and-engaging-in-promiscuity-to-try-and-fill-the-gaping-void-in-her-chest's) gonorrhea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:00 AM
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Women are turned off by emasculated men (negative). Men find effeminate men annoying (negative). Women find resourceful women admirable (positive). Men find resourceful women less annoying than non-resourceful women (close enough to positive).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 11:50 PM
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eh bien voilà!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 05:01 PM
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Bullshit adrenaline fag women like comfort and a guy who makes them feel safe and plays Scrabble with them at night. Women. Like. ME. Women seek validation and men. like .me are laughably boring to them, because we do not manufacture arbitrary barriers to shake their self-esteem sufficiently enough for them to confuse that obsessive quest for validation, with genuine desire for the person in body and mind. Very rarely a woman will be responsive to a no bullshit approach, and that's, again, treme…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:58 PM
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RP does not preach stoicism as a way of socializing, but as a way of thinking. In other words, being stoic in the face of danger and hardships does not mean be a mute emotionless robot when talking to people. The push to have men emote candidly (and overact), as many women have license to do, is doomed for devastating results, as boys will be raised to expect emotional support from members of a species that has an incredibly difficult time offering it to them. It's a recipe for unfathomable leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:59 PM
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Men have less or less obvious opportunities, so they think it would be more enjoyable to put up with tons of unwanted attention for the promise of more wanted attention in aggregate, rather than to go through long stretches of being single (unwanted), and receiving very little attention, hence less opportunity to find a person to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:40 PM
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Yeah my friend told me that that's how it goes. Possibly more guys get put on the backburner, because she feels like she's too busy to go steady, but she can have a steady supply of men to hook-up with in the meantime, so it doesn't really matter to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 05:46 PM
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I probably would have told him to stfu and get busy, lol. And hopefully be ready to do it again in a few hours. Pair bonding and feelings came later. Well admittedly I have had a fair share of "straight to business" encounters. It usually works-out this way: I go about things in the way I described, It builds up until the girl literally hops on, and just sticks me inside of her (don't mean to be crass sorry.) So hook-ups are pretty much the norm, there's no surprise there, but the hook-up itself…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 05:00 PM
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That depictions of women being injured may cross a certain threshold from funny to unsettling in the minds of humans, because we may have an evolutionary/cultural aversion to seeing women in pain, just as we have one with inflicting pain on women. Depictions of pain and violence are unsettling, but when the subjects are male it may not be too unsettling to not be funny. (Does that make sense? My wording is awkward sorry)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 11:53 PM
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Well the depiction of physical pain inflicted on women and or children could be more upsetting to the audience, because we are humans and we find women and children in pain more disturbing than men in pain. It's not just for comedic effect. If you watch any violent movie or play any violent video games you'll find that the majority of casualties are male. GTA is one of the only franchises to successfully transgress this taboo, and it has always seen heaps of criticism and calls for censorship du…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 10:54 PM
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It's hard to put into words, and I'm not saying that you're wrong about sexual compatibility being important. So if what I typed didn't make sense, well... I'll try and give it another go. Hopefully you're keen to read it. I guess what I'm trying to say is that our sexual preferences can be very specific, and what may be lacking might also be found in the broader realms of sensuality, and pair-bonding. Or maybe our perspectives are similar in that; in my opinion, if we allow ourselves to be focu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 09:02 PM
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Never heard them compared to Death Grips before but glad you liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 07:04 PM
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To name genres would be too long. I'm into King Krule a lot, It's been an obsession for years, but his second album is still on the come ups and it's been a year, and it was insane live btw. He's really young to be writing so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 06:25 PM
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What I am saying is you establish a base level of criteria (as everyone does, although they are always negotiated), but your substrate may be too linear, where as attraction, especially for women, is less linear than they expect. Overtime, compatibility also contributes to attraction. What may thwart that potential symbiosis of attraction/compatibility could be a lack of exclusivity that is prolonged for a more than reasonable amount of time. It can impede the kind of communication necessary to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 06:09 PM
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I think commitment is more an expression of exploring the possibility of that person being the one and only, and an agreement to see if the speculations are accurate is entertained by both parties to make that endeavour into the primary focus of their romantic exploits. Maybe the term "commitment" is oft-times misunderstood, because expressed how it was in the paragraph above reveals some confusion semantically. You are really establishing mutual exclusivity, and overtime when compatibility and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 04:19 PM
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Women are less open to men that they perceive as heterosexual and single. What makes them feel more familiar, is actually a symptom of you being more open to communicating with them. Same reason why women bond with gay guys btw (If the possibility of the men wanting to pursue you sexually right of the bat seems smaller, you'll feel safer to communicate openly with them. You communicate more with them, more opportunities to bond. It's a conformation bias.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 11:40 PM
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I think if you put off commitment for years on the basis of sexual compatibility, you ultimately create a situation where the potential for sexual compatibility diminishes over that period of time anyway. This sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy to me. And I also think that prioritizing sexual compatibility on it's face over other types of compatibility is looking at the problem up side down, because people get better at making love to you as they get to know you, and verbal communication alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 11:01 PM
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Nope. It's not worth squandering a good thing frankly. And prunes should stick with prunes. Swing low sweet chariots baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:48 PM
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•What's your gender, and do you have female friends? Male. Yes. •How do your friendships with women differ from your friendships with men? Women cook and share their cooking more. They'll even bring you food. Pretty dope. Women have a much cleaner sense of humour. Women talk about themselves more. Women most-often have wine or gin about. That's a good respite from beer and whisky. Women's places are better furnished. Women have put me onto butt-wipes. Eternally grateful for that. When a woman mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 09:23 PM
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I believe that if there is no body language, and or verbal language that expresses a want for such an interaction, the probability of a woman truly enjoying it is pretty near zero. The current state of affairs seem to suggest that escalation alone does not constitute consent between men and women, and that consent can be revoked by the woman after intercourse. Yikes i Bottom line; try to do right by your partners, and pray to god that they aren't crazy. i btw I should say to the lovely ladies ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:38 PM
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Taken men are "safer" because they are less likely to be creepy or sexually predatory meaning a woman can be more open and warm with him. That's a pretty flawed assumption, but carry on nonetheless. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:53 PM
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Rape has many motivations, at times they intersect. I recall thunderf00t did a video about this way back when.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:13 PM
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I think accountability is important. We also know how detrimental a "law of the jungle" mating strategy is for the psychological health of the child. It's a detriment to them towards achieving good standing within the social echelons of the world, which are ruled by cognitive ability, and intellectual labour. There must be a "just milieu" somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:09 PM
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It's the same type of adoration that people will profess for a cult leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:58 PM
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I learned that I need to put even more work to achieve my aspiration of a family and a fulfilling monogamous relationship a wife to be, than I had ever fathomed prior to joining the PPD. I have noticed that people like to disparage incels as if to socially distance themselves from whom they perceive are in the lowest strums of a community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:40 PM
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Well I'm clearly generalizing, but this is fairly common knowledge. For women, a man's presence (even subjectively) is intrinsically linked to his beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:13 PM
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Some women (cough cough not a small minority) confuse the obsessive need for validation with infatuation. Some humans also sexualize things and behaviours that they find abhorrent. It looks like the intensity of the taboo is of great importance to her. I'll bet that if he was very responsive to her, that she would find this intense desire to be fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:09 PM
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It wasn't obvious to you? Women respond to images of men doing physical things in their element, not posing as a beef-cake fairy on a magazine spread.. They also respond to men in uniforms that represent authority and strength (cops, military). They also find images of men in suits more stimulating than nude. Presence is more important than beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:02 PM
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I think for some women, men who are too cut and sleek looking appear effeminate to them. Likewise for men who seem too groomed. I personally believe that for most women, men are attractive by contrast of how their presence makes them "feel" feminine in addition to some physical features that they personally enjoy, but ultimately enjoy increasingly overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:40 PM
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95% of the time. The 5% is if the woman is really insisting that she pays for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:32 PM
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It's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:25 PM
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IME, after a separation that tends to happen, but it can lead t further disappointment as people are oft-times doomed to repeat their past failings. Every time I meet my ex, I can tell that there's still something between us, and I could start something again, but it seems pointless as I can tell that we haven't progressed enough as individuals yet. It would ultimately be unproductive for us to attempt this, so I politely reject her offer to hang-out. (Hanging out with Exes is a huge transgressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:41 PM
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Good! So long as yer not frum tarran'ah! haha Shite budz that sounds like a far piece eh ? lol! Never had the pleasure of visiting rural Alberta but I gather you got some good peoples down there! Cheers man!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:46 PM
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You lost'em when you tried to invoke any notion agency and consequence within the SMP. lol So yer frum Tarran'ah eh baiyo?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:28 PM
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you're great at trolling. I gather that a man who will spend 20 to 60 Gs per year just to keep his wife interested is likely in a pisspoor state in the ol'self esteem department.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:22 PM
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Hate what love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:58 PM
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lol probably eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:55 PM
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Your rebuttal is not relevant. He did not have money to ( ( spend ) ), because his assets and savings were tied to his business. Your argument was that a man should have ( ( disposal ) ) income to spend on you, because of pussy (yikes). Disposable income is not a true measure of wealth nor the potential to generate more wealth. Being able to afford these things means little if you can't afford good growth over a reasonable period of time. If you're an idiot who spends 300 - 500$ an outing to kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:50 PM
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I am having some difficulty understanding your post. Are you implying that abusers, rapists and serial killers are generally incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:34 PM
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Our collective amnesia about agriculture isn't better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:26 PM
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$300-500 per outing Men who are smart enough to afford this, are smart enough not to spend this much on an outing (outside of special occasions.) If he wants to have sex AT ALL, even with a prostitute, he should have disposable income. Jeff Bezos was engaged to his wife at a time when he had no disposable income (they are still happily married), as all of his assets were invested into amazon which was a very modest start-up that he was operating out of their apartment. Your advice is coming from…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:25 PM
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When you say incels, are you referring to people on the incels.me site or involuntarily celibate men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:07 PM
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How involved are you in agriculture?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:55 PM
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It's partially what's going on. They are resentful of a lack of opportunity and the lack of skills that could have been accrued through said opportunity. Skills that would have helped them to get more out of the opportunities that scarcely presented themselves to them prior, and could possibly manifest themselves later in life. I have felt something similar, but rather than anger or lashing out, I have always had a penchant for depression, self-abuse and suicidal tendencies. I am trying to adopt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:37 PM
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He's still releasing music from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:18 PM
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https://www.nyu.edu/about/news-publications/news/2016/june/chivalry-is-not-dead-when-it-comes-to-morality.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:03 PM
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This is really uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:15 PM
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Negative. Men care more about women's welfare over men's, and women care more about women's welfare over men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:14 PM
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I see. Do you respect men who provide these things for you, even if you would never consider them, knowing that they would like to obtain favours from you, and that intent motivates their generosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:07 PM
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We're actually headed towards meat made from stem-cells. It hasn't made it to market yet. So we will be able to consume meat without the need to kill livestock, though we will have to destroy the surplus of live stock that we have in order to transition to this new paradigm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:03 PM
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Well if it's any consolation, agriculture destroys ecosystems contributing to the annihilation of many species of animal and plant life! : ) (purged)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:01 PM
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keep'er goin budz!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:48 PM
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She is very appreciative of the penis in a metaphysical way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:38 PM
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hmmm. I think you didn't because thirsty mfs ultimately put you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:29 PM
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they stick around and do stuff for her. They don't do it for free stuff, but rather for attention, and favours to boost there self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:07 PM
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They can lactate in the absence of women! Please think of the children T.T
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:05 PM
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r/2MAD4MADLADS Dis 1 madz me ladmaladz lad!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:59 PM
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Biggie Celtics Dat Gud gud What am I out of the two? Bro I gather. Public because parking is a bitch anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:56 PM
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Affilia, a peer-reviewed journal of women and social work, formally accepted the trio’s hoax paper, “Our Struggle Is My Struggle: Solidarity Feminism as an Intersectional Reply to Neoliberal and Choice Feminism.” The second portion of the paper is a rewrite of a chapter from “Mein Kampf.” Affilia’s editors declined to comment. lol.. dead Edit: Mr. Boghossian doesn’t have tenure and expects the university will fire or otherwise punish him. Ms. Pluckrose predicts she’ll have a hard time getting ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:07 PM
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Not really. Neither would men be btw. If you get this done at reasonable ages, you have the benefit of creating a healthy multigenerational family structure, and this is possibly the best contribution that you can make for yourself and for your children. I think the more affluent, and intellectually inclined (often goes hand in hand) people in this modern cosmopolitan reality believe that because they do not profess this desire (explicitly), than it must be some kind of bi-product from an unenli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:23 PM
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Add butt to butt You make... buttbutt AKA: the funniest combination of words possible in this earthly existence. (IMHO)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:59 PM
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Unless they're male. oh poo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:43 PM
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I agree with your first statement. It doesn't change the validity of mine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:38 PM
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That's not entirely correct. Tinder exacerbates certain circumstances that we find IRL. It's an environment where many aspects of mate selection are represented at their extremes. It does not mean that the genesis of those circumstances are not found IRL, the question is; to what degree are they? Keep in mind however, if platforms like Tinder rise in popularity, they may indeed become the norms of mate selection. This is why I am not on Tinder. The same women who want to be intimate with me IRL …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:16 PM
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The lack of social outrage was very telling. This was a very popular show, and you cannot pretend like if it were the other way around, that the reactions from the greater audience would've been so tamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:04 PM
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That's not accurate, but I'm sure there are women, who have called themselves and still call themselves feminists throughout the 20th century and onwards that really care about the outcomes of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:46 PM
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It is one reason there is still no reliable test to detect aggressive forms of prostate cancer I knew I was right to be skeptical about these so called "prostate exams". Ain't nothing goin in my butt!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:37 PM
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I..................haven't got a clue what's going on :) confused
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:01 PM
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hahaha... oil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:59 PM
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I'll always support people finding justice when it is due. I believe deep down, most men feel like protecting women and helping them to seek justice are noble imperatives. The #meetoo was unfortunately predicated on radical feminist-separatist memes, and achieved the mainstreaming of these ideas. It was wonky from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:42 PM
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Feminism assumes that matrimony of men and women is by definition a coercive contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:51 PM
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Sexuality and reproduction are intrinsically linked. Lesbianism is a de facto reduction of human sexuality because it can only fulfill the sensual. They will still inject many aspects within the context of this dichotomy (the sexual and the sensual) into their relationships to emulate the aspects of human sexuality that are informed by reproductive impulses. They will do this quite naturally, because no matter the configuration, sexuality is fundamentally informed by reproductive impulses. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 09:07 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 07:26 PM
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[Q4Men] How long does it take the average man (you and your friends) to find a gf? If he dates considerably down, I'd say round 3 months. If not, It could most likely take 6 months to a year (or longer). I'm guessing. [Q4 Men & Women] What's the longest dry spell you have had? Were you unhappy about it? Almost 3 years. Tremendously unhappy, I also didn't go about it just trying to hook up, so it was quite painful dealing with repeat rejections. [Q4 Men & Women] Have you ever ended a dry spell wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 07:03 PM
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Just attention? Or do you mean sexual attention? Because there is a huge difference, but many people do not seem to acknowledge this distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 06:34 PM
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Fervently religious women aside, The biggest motivator for women in the sexual selection of men is scarcity. Women will almost always prioritise their engagement with men whom they perceive are in higher demand, whilst dismissing the potential to pair-bond with men that they profoundly enjoy, because in their view they are easily attainable, and hence less exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 06:23 PM
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I'm well pleased that you pointed this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 10:16 PM
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pre-selection
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 10:00 PM
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5,9. 27. single. If I'm seeing or dating a woman she'll eventually point out my height in a tone that suggests that she's surprised that she was attracted to me begin with, which is funny because they're typically very short and I'm pretty much as tall or short (however you want to call it) as most guys round 'here. I think there's a disconnect with women's perception of their attraction to height (must be 6ft), and their actual attraction to height (they like the difference in height, but not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:49 PM
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That's very much true. Men are their way to vicariously gain some disagreeableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:30 PM
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In Canada, and seen brother. Not sure how it would be better in other parts of the world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:14 PM
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I'm not boring in person, but I could work on my texting. I swear, texting is probably doing the most damage to courtship in modern times. I don't use RP strategy, but I keep my eyes open to what they are saying. I don't follow the RP because, although it could make me more successful in finding a relationship, it would be based on false pretenses and hence not sustainable. The majority of the things that the RP will talk about resonates with what I am experiencing from women. They definitely al…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:12 PM
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Especially these days with Trump and Kavenaugh as examples, I think every decent person should be somewhat feminist. Hard no. I am 0% feminist, because I do not require zealotry to sort out my values. So the difference would be a respectful man who doesn't feel the need to throw men and masculinity under the bus for brownie points. The majority of decent guys, which are the majority of guys round 'here, understand this and barely give it any thought. The feminist men are the one's who struggle w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 09:13 PM
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TBH, there's a point here. I am attractive enough that women will hook up with me, and if we hang out there's tons of chemistry and romance, the conversation always flows, the interaction is always very tactile and sensual, I know what I'm doing in bed, they'll linger for quite some time before having to leave, and kiss me passionately before parting. I usually come out of this feeling well confident, but it seems I'm not attractive enough to inspire most of them to want to keep hanging out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 08:49 PM
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I swear this sub is brutal. It's not like it's new knowledge to me, but being confronted by this reality all the time is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 11:25 PM
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TRPers are alive, for the most part, they have their health, and their mental faculties agree with their senses. They have something to contribute to women, they have something to contribute to the world, as do you btw. This may sound terrible; but please keep in mind that you only get stronger by failing repeatedly. Women may not necessarily vocalize it, but they desperately crave strength. This is your advantage in life. You have had to struggle romantically, but in that you have the potential…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:57 PM
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That last one was stunning. But that still doesn't convince me that you are correct. But since I'm only a 5/10 I better keep my genes for myself! There's already too much shit on dis world. It's a shame that you think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:57 PM
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For women there is a substantial difference between thinking a guy looks good, and feeling that a guy looks good. This represents the difference between them thinking you're cute, and them imagining tracing your features with their hands. Women like reasonable strength. The masculine physique is not naturally in the state of some kind of beef-cake looking thing, some people are built wider than others but testosterone actually keeps you very lean despite. So women liking a fairly lean physique i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:35 PM
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Do you want to be a girlfriend or a mommy? How many adult-babies does it take to break-in a strap-on? Answer: No clue, but the thought alone makes me want to kill myself! x_x
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:29 PM
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And I don’t think he can handle it. Is it really my job to fix him? He's a twat. Don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:26 PM
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their daughters will resemble their father and be strong jawed, muscular, softball playing dykey looking chicks. Good. I'm trying to build an empire here! I'm come after you, Williams!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:22 PM
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Beauty is everything, bro. There's nothing else in life that matters. Your definition of beauty is truncated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:12 PM
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Well if that be the case, than men are shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:30 PM
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You're not discrediting any of my points, you're confirming them. Just imagine the terrible world you would be living in if peoples primary motivations were as vain and exuberant as you just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 09:10 PM
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You assume that it has to do with what society deems to be good. To you this may seem like an enlightened perspective, but IMO It reveals a disconnect from the basic and most fulfilling aspects of life, and it's ludicrous to believe that they are arbitrary or contrived. It's deeply saddening to see this, and it's a perspective that is really popular on reddit. "There is only fulfillment in pleasure" eh? It's doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 08:25 PM
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Ehhh, there is only fulfillment in pleasure. There is only freedom in gorging yourself in drugs, alcohol, fast cars, bar fights, and sex. Pleasure is the reason why we were born(I'm pretty sure my father does foreplay) and all of our lives should be dedicated to the pursuit, and to the chase of 24/7 sensual, sexual, and emotional pleasure. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:42 PM
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They aren't things that are fulfilling at face value. I find many people on Reddit regurgitate opinions that are symptomatic of a culture of instant gratification, that wishes to 'debunk' nearly anything that may sound remotely traditional, and oft-times for the sake of intellectual posturing. The idea that child rearing could be fulfilling is somehow controversial here. If that'd be the case, ask yourself why parents ever exceed the basic requirements for survival whilst providing for their off…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:04 PM
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Integrity is it's own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:39 PM
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Making children, and raising children. It seems like human sexuality is being decoupled from reproduction in the zeitgeist (or on reddit at least). It seems like people are extremely skeptical about how important this is to have a fulfilling life these days, and it's quite alarming to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:13 PM
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shiny happy girls holding hands Infantilising much? Yeah because women want to be barefoot in the kitchen raising 8 kids. Yeah no. The women in the past who could not afford shoes, also did not afford the luxury of staying at home and cooking. They were barefoot in the coal mines along side the child workers, or chaperoned by lords at Workhouses... What's for dinner? well..gruel, gruel and more GRUEL! EDIT: In Victorian society, the SAHM was the icon of middle class life, because it was only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 05:27 PM
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Marriage and children have either a neutral or negative impact on women's overall happiness and health. I loosely recall the study that proposed this, and I think it should be taken with a colossal grain of salt. Like KFC levels of salt. I will say this however; Married women bare the challenge of juggling many household responsibilities and near full-time if not full-time work altogether, and I think that's a doozy. Men can help out more, but women also have intense internal pressures that push…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 04:41 PM
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My siblings and cousins were like that, but I was fascinated with hearing about my ancestors, and their lives ect. I retained many proverbs. In the end, I contrived a set of beliefs apart from my familial education. Just as much as I was the one eagerly listening to my elders, I was oft-times the one eagerly arguing against their discipline and some beliefs that they also professed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 04:16 PM
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I have been in this situation. At the end of the day, when you put her behaviour into perspective, it can really turn you off anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:00 PM
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Women are supposed to be mothers (biologically) well before 40 years of age, 35 is technically pretty late (again... biologically) for a woman to be having her first child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:45 PM
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When you yourself were a kid, did you sit at your parents' knees, eagerly imbibing their wisdom? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 07:29 PM
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I think that people want kids because society tells them the are suppose to. I think it makes very little sense that society is indoctrinating living organism to want to reproduce. I think it's the other way around. We are no more indoctrinated into wanting to have children than we are to favour the use of language to communicate. These things have a genesis at the very core of our being. These things, though not necessarily expressed through people having children, will be expressed implicitly …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 07:24 PM
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I try and be optimistic about the world and people around me, and brutally realistic about my current standings and limitations in hopes to behove myself to become an exemplary individual, capable of leadership, reason and compassion (only where warranted.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 12:00 AM
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You really have no earthly idea why people would want kids, or are you being edgy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 11:54 PM
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Why do people want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 11:05 PM
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Yer FAyerd ! Drain the Swamp! WE er going to make. Amurrica. great. again!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 04:33 PM
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the only people who complain about the former appear to be people upset that one of their outlets for cruelty is becoming less popular or acceptable Is this not what you said? Many people are critical about fat acceptance and it's not an outlet for cruelty. The majority sharing a valid opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:04 PM
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I think a corny dove commercial that is pulling on the heart-strings of obese people to sell more stuff is an insult to their intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:42 PM
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Neither do I expect you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:59 PM
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I'm sure in many other aspects of your lives, you know a great deal about duty and sacrifice. Polyamory expends these things in the pursuit of maximizing the positive feelings associated with the sensual, by abstraction of the less comfortable aspects and risks involved with choosing one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:30 PM
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There is no such thing as true romantic love without duty and sacrifice, in the mind of a monogamist. I have unfortunately been privy to the hubristic skepticism of many poly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:13 PM
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Women typically date men who are slightly older, within their generation, and men date slightly younger women within their generation. As they get older so does the gap between the ages, however slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 05:47 PM
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option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 05:22 PM
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If I'm not officially dating her, then overlap is fine, but normally I will focus on one girl at a time. By the second or third date I'll have already made a decision, and will let go of any other prospects. I went through something like this recently. Whilst grieving due to the 'mind games' of one girl, I stumbled onto another one so there was overlap. Since I only had an intimate encounter once with the latter girl, and haven't yet dated her, I was ok with taking my time with sorting my feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 09:11 PM
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Your gf may be a tad impressionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:54 PM
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That's the feminist narrative in a nutshell. Kudos for regurgitating this ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 08:38 PM
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Yes. It already is mainstream, and it's absolutely terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:26 PM
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(early-mid 20s) I know its still morally wrong for good reason. uh-huh..It's morally wrong to be attracted to women in their mid-twenties.. (TIL)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:52 PM
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I couldn't imagine viewing a woman in her 20s that way at 33. Maybe at like 53. how old do you usually prefer women to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 11:44 PM
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20s girls I've ever connected with are more like little sisters to me and I simply couldn't think of them that way. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:29 PM
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If a young women is into maturity, she will not want you to act younger. Quite obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 11:54 PM
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As a man, you are to be beaten down until you can rise above it. That's you're journey into manhood. You should strengthen yourself to the point where you could be the one capable of dishing out the beating, and then choose not to. I think women come to understand the frustration when they experience it first hand, from how the men in their lives may have been treated in the dating game. Some of the disrespect feels totally uncalled for, but don't let it bring you down into resentment. You have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 11:52 PM
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No it's nothing to be worried about. The only women who can't separate reality from fantasy are too strange and reclusive to be involved with anyway. In addition women never respect orbiters, and they also have a substantially negative view of girls who seem to have many orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:29 PM
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I used to focus solely on women, which yields great results, but women find it more enjoyable when I'm more in the moment and also go after my on sensuality. So both with a slight bias to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:20 PM
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It is in some places and others not. The most monogamous and family oriented cultures tend to be found in far east Asian, and the least of all in sub-Saharan Africa. Unsurprisingly...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:45 PM
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Sure I think so eh? I feel that I sincerely hope you're exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 08:47 PM
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Wouldn't personality play a big role her? I have witnessed what you described, but also the contrary. I find men typically adjust to what they can get, and enthusiastically pursue it, and women are less enthusiastic about that, though they will most likely settle with a dude that matches there not so appealing looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:44 PM
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Are you being hyperbolic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:39 PM
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C'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:33 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty near what you described. I have what girls have referred to as a "Basquiat" appeal. I don't get tons of action but the ladies that I will date are always smoke-shows!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 03:16 PM
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Intense chemistry IRL, obviously keen on me too. BUT flaked every single time we had a date (3 times), and often ignores my text messages. I felt like I should give her an out, and so I explained that I got the hint, that I will honour and respect her decision not to get involved with me, and if she felt like sparing me the embarrassment and that's why she was so enthusiastic in person, than no worries. She responds that she's still very much into me and was when we got acquainted, but flakes an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 03:02 PM
1

I'm not BP, and I'm not interested in having an open relationship. I think there's a deeper connection that comes with monogamy, and I would not like to sacrifice that level intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:51 PM
1

FUCK New York!! I lied.. I'm just brokeside and jealous T.T enjoy your trip!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:29 PM
2

Laaaaaaadiiiiiiiieeeees are confusing as fuuuuuck ♪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:24 PM
1

me neither >:)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 11:12 PM
0

Objectification is a bogus concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:16 PM
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[...]after it failed to introduce her to the match she hoped would be “possibly the man of my dreams, the father of my child”. Burki, 47, a mother of three [...] Christ bud! This made my day haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:14 PM
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Make good steak for people. Eat good steak with people. Instantly the coolest bloke alive. dreaming about steak right now :-9 mmmm!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 11:13 PM
1

There are other incentives to sexual companionship than the simple act of sex. It's very much tied to basic human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 11:09 PM
1

Your hair is impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 08:55 PM
2

I am getting way more attention at 27 than I did at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 05:04 PM
1

lol Gotta give it up fer the geezers out there eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:40 PM
1

equal-opportunity assholes! Haha! That should be their slogan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:37 PM
1

Same. It was a scorcher and he was like doing soccer drills on stage lol! He's a live one eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:19 PM
2

nah it's Quebecois cops trust me, and my white friends get it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:13 PM
2

I'm a young man and I'm out late.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:46 PM
2

I have sketched out women simply because we happen to live around the same area and we happen to have been walking back from the pubs 'round the same time. It really sucks to be profiled in such a way, but I understand their caution. I have had women slam the front door to a building in front of me, because they must have thought I was supposedly following them. Again I get it, but it sucks to be viewed that way. It so frustrating that nowadays I literally pull a fast walk, or jog to get past th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:30 PM
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saw him live a few months ago and it was the best How is so much talent and charisma contained within one man eh!? Christ on a rope! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:23 PM
0

You underestimate the potential for the wrong woman to accuse you of rape or sexual assault, because she was too drunk to consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:58 PM
1

Bad idea these days. Don't forget meetoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:50 PM
1

You know it's hard to narrow it down, but : Otis Gayle - I'll be around. It's one of those Studio One Rocksteady covers from way back. Classically, Yves Montand - Les feuilles mortes . You may know this as Autumn Leaves. Check out the cover by Juliette Greco. Serge Gainsbourg - La chanson de Prévert (following the theme.) Debussy - La fille aux cheveux de lin. Love song? Maybe. Voyeuristic expression of longing or possibly obsession? I'm convinced! We can debate the significance later lol. Of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:06 PM
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Which is odd to me. As a man, I thrive on being tested and exceeding expectations. You think I'm this or not that, well let me squash your prejudices. The only time this would be a problem is if it's made flippin clear and your still doubting it, at that point I'll just assume that you're paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 07:59 PM
1

In one weekend I saw: James Blake Anderson Pak Allan Rayman Arctic Monkeys Jungle Bahamas and Florence the Machine! Totally worth the right-up at work :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:14 PM
1

keep'er goin bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:02 PM
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IMO lesbianism rather than lesbian identity is understood as a new right of passage into womanhood. I think it's idealised as some form enriching experience/ affirmation of independence. It's also pushed in a lot of mainstream media, supposedly for the pleasure of men according to jaded feminists, however women are the ones consuming it so I don't think it's really what's going on here. Women will put women on a pedestal just as much as men will (they will also tear them down in similar ways). T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 11:56 PM
1

You made it this far! I'm 27 dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:30 PM
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I don't think that there's a man alive who wants to believe that women find 80% of the men, at least in the context of fast-paced and stream-lined dating, unattractive. It was a bitter pill to swallow. The one notion that may thankfully be accurate is that women may not view men so radically IRL. Leaving the online dating thing behind is what men need to do in droves, because only then will women begin to be curious enough to want to come in to contact with the masculine (you know.. as opposed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:25 PM
1

at the extremes it could be telling. but it's really not a reliable approximation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 05:16 PM
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damn.. I like your straight up attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 05:01 PM
1

damn.. I like your straight up attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 05:01 PM
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Women only rate the top 20% positively. To suggest that they will only engage with only just the top 20% is incorrect. The real problem is how dating apps are not a satisfactory way for human beings to begin sexual relationships. Women will still engage with those men whom they rated negatively, in some cases they may even message them first, albeit with the assumption that they're dating down whilst they do. That's the crux of the issue here. It's virtually impossible to find 80% of people belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:56 PM
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I'm Canadian buddy, but no worries. I think you haven't killed yourself, because you don't want to. I haven't because I feel that I need to create something of substance in this world. It's hubris probably, why the fuck would I have anything to contribute eh? Anyway if you want to chat sometime hmu. I'm not on here most weekends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:39 PM
1

how old are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:25 PM
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Why not shame thirsty old men and golddiggers altogether? If I was that young dude, and I met a girl who had a sugar daddy, I would have 0 respect for her, and I don't think that's a bad thing. I would also have 0 respect for the men in her life who want a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:42 PM
2

Jordan Peterson talks at length about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:30 PM
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It's a rationale that people can use to mistreat others. In most cases they are mistreating someone that has done nothing wrong to them. Due to my dating history, and if I was so disposed, I could just treat women poorly, and it would be justified? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:16 PM
1

would it really be torture?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 03:59 PM
2

damn I think I plucked the wrong chord haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:14 PM
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We grew up with the men are evil narrative. We have enough of being lumped in with sickos frankly. To pretend like this movement has not partaken in the perpetuation of that narrative is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:52 PM
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Was just thinking about it actually. Don't know how often in a day. Probably to many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:33 PM
2

Get off of Tinder. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:14 PM
1

Tell the truth. You get what you put in. Hold the women that you are dating to that same standard of integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 09:12 PM
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Pokémon Go is dead love. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 08:46 PM
1

Try no drugs for your bday?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 08:45 PM
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yeah It's very satisfying to provide some fancy things to someone with whom you have enjoyed a reciprocal relationship for some time. But as stated earlier, if a dude wants that kind of interaction, he'll need to be selective, and be alright with sacrificing quantity for quality. I like the natural escalation, and whether it becomes something serious or if it's just for a short period of time, I prefer some profound emotional contact. I'm not throwing the men who want casual sex under the bus, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 07:15 PM
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Yeah I prefer to get to know a woman without having to plan some formal date that just ends up feeling formally forced. Women rarely get to experience the beauty of a man if they're too busy making appearances. That's why I like to find a pier and have a glass of wine, people-watch with some take-away. Have a walk somewhere nice etc. Parks are keen; smoke a jay and talk for hours lay on the grass and get close etc. If women want to experience men, and enjoy dating them, they should try to put me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 05:59 PM
1

I call that skittles. Taste the muthafuckin rainbow nwordz.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:20 PM
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So I want to know your thoughts. Would you let your son wear dresses and play princess? I wouldn't encourage it, but it's ultimately his decision. And how do you think it will affect him? Yup, but what will ultimately affect him is if he feels emasculated near puberty, that's when he will take up an alternative sexual persona to cope with not measuring up to masculinity amongst other possible traumas, and will likewise use his superficial recalling of playing with dresses as proof that he was bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 07:06 PM
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If what you're saying is true, than would it not beckon the suggestion that; women may be too inward in their interactions with men, and it would help them to pay more attention to the men that they are dating for who and what they are, rather than the setting, social benefit and other potential externalities that would compel them to bond with a man that is apparently a mere shell for them to imprint their fantasies, and expectations onto? I don't think that's the case anyway. Probably a mix of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 06:51 PM
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I think it's to say that women will negotiate their morals and standards depending on how attractive they find the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 06:45 PM
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Where I'm from they would be potentially marrying up in terms of income. The trades and careers listed pay extremely well here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 06:30 PM
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I took that shit like a man! (see what I did there? )
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 04:02 PM
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I ATE STEAK FOR BREAKFAST AND I'M AFTER EATIN MORE GODAMN STEAK FOR DINNER GODANMIT! I love steak mmm :-9
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:12 PM
2

It was acceptable at the tiiiiime ♪
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:58 PM
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2: Young men of PPD, would you try this? Why or why not? No. Women should also abstain from doing this. I have recently encountered many more young college women than I ever expected that have or have had sugar daddies. I believe that it will be socially accepted in the next decade, and that it will be the final nail in the coffin for healthy heterosexual relationships within the youth of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:50 PM
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It's excessively decadent debauchery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:44 PM
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I think women may oft-times be treating genuinely nice men poorly out of fear of them being NiceGuystm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:39 PM
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Tinder wasn't nearly as groundbreaking as regular online dating or even the Internet (chat rooms, forums, etc.) as a new medium for meeting singles. That's not accurate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 11:55 PM
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If you are referring to "nice-guytm" yes. I've met the lot. Rappers, NHL players, CFL players, Bar Stars, Promotors, Models.. They fuck a lot, and are the biggest virtue signalling, integrity-phobic, lash-out and say verbally abusive men that I have ever met. The misconception is that this behaviour is exclusive to the less attractive men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:01 AM
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5'11 is considered short?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 11:50 PM
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Luckily men aren't judged on their sexual past. I'm sure that if a man is a virgin, inexperienced or incel, women wouldn't hold that against him. [/S?]
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 11:46 PM
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neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 11:27 PM
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integrity I think I've said this often here. That's pretty much where I disagree with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 11:25 PM
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access to resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:54 PM
1

I guess that describes my mindset. Thank you for providing this mirror. Hopefully I will not allow these feelings of persistent failure and rejection to alter my demeanor in ways that betray the initial attraction in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 07:05 PM
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No but the definition is oft times used to dismiss reproach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:07 PM
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Women do most of the housework, and are resentful, because men are become increasingly lazy, and are not contributing to the upkeep of the house and barely involved in the development and learning of the children. Women are expected to cook, clean and entertain the kids for instance, and so they do it. Men are expected to fix the leaky faucet, fix a busted bed frame, re-shingle the roof, discipline the unruly kid who keeps cutting class, but they don't do it. So women will not want to go into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 07:27 PM
1

You would be the straightest gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 07:06 PM
0

Great so can we finally change the dictionary definition of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:06 PM
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Really picture the look of a man, naked, and with a vagina... I don't think you'd be too keen. :S
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 06:02 PM
1

no you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:42 PM
1

I love UK bass and Sound System music. Grime, proper dubstep (not the boregore kind), d'n'b, garage, funky etc... The UK takes dance music seriously lol. I've been into it for years, and it's not well known here in Canada. If I lived in London, I'd go broke from buying Lps bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:32 PM
1

What music do you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 11:23 PM
1

I did not see what you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 11:09 PM
1

Classic stress-cry eh? Every girls go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 11:08 PM
1

So when Civilization collapses, you can be my dealer? I'll pay in racoon hides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 11:05 PM
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Men’s thumbs. My first memory of being turned on by thumbs was watching Matthew McConaughey in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days — they just look manly, and he set the baseline for how thumbs should look in my eyes. I knew my insecurity about my small dainty thumbs was justified....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 10:47 PM
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The assertions above are false, but I completely get where you are coming from. There's a hostile climate of pseudoscience that has been trying to push the idea that women are pretty much all secretly lesbians, and that they don't find men physically attractive etc. It's not true though, and I think the reason why men, such as yourself, are buying into this may be due to the lack of outrage from women about these generalisations. (Whereas if we were to assert that all women were heterosexual reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:59 PM
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just an implied double-standard where they were morally righteous and allowed to entertain the advances of other men while apparently me pursuing other women made me basically Hitler. This cannot be overstated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:40 PM
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I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:29 PM
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Ok so it has a lot to do with being accepted by or being accepting of your friends generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:58 PM
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What if he doesn't like your gay friends for the same reasons why he doesn't like your gal pals, and straight male friends? Are you ok with being with a man who is open about not enjoying the company of your friends in general? Like he's still civil with them, he'll hang, but he finds them annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:33 PM
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That'd be the difference between a house and a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:25 PM
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I am really keen for this bitty. I think she may be interested too. I'm just venting so I don't act too full-on come Saturday cause we're hanging out that evening, and I'm well stoked!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:11 PM
1

That's racist :O
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:36 PM
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I enjoy the way mothers/most women communicate non-verbally with infants so naturally. It's endearing, and really fascinating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:32 PM
1

Resentful is not the correct sentiment. I would say weary. I would appreciate a sliver of interest for the preservation of my dignity whether she want's to keep seeing me or not. I would rather be rejected outright than to be strung along, stood up or flat-out ignored. To avoid confusion, they don't owe me anything. I just find it's telling about their character, and since there's no shortage of women who act this way. I am oft times weary, although I never show it. I also go into all new intera…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:09 PM
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hmmmmm...dunno...what do you think? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 10:17 PM
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I have to. I promised a dolphin named Otto (He's German), that he would have first dibs on my ruptured spleen. Great guy, but trust me, you really don't want to know what dolphins do with ruptured spleens! :S
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:50 PM
1

I think to an extent if you're not very sociable you wouldn't be making many connections overall, but attracting popular dudes as friends, and attracting women as sexual partners are too very different things. If you are courting a lady, and she sees that you are well sought after by other popular people, and cherished or admired by your closer circle of friends, than that could make her see you even more positively though. So I guess I would say that they can be mutually exclusive, but being po…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:47 PM
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Fair enough. I just think it may be something in there that warrants some comment. There's a lot of outrage about persistence from men who would like to date a woman who says no, but not the other way around or when a woman is engaging it to boost her self-esteem (I'm assuming that it's likely why they could do this.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:08 PM
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I gather it's a slightly-less-than-common but a not-quite-uncommon occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:21 PM
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So what you're saying is.. only rich drug-dealing motorcyclist adventurers who have made a society of intrepid slam poets somewhere in the wilderness will get the green light from women !? Jumps of the Golden Gate Bridge Mum! YouShouldHaveNeverPutMeInTapdacingClaaaaaaaa....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:06 PM
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Well if you have strong feelings for her that's the likely outcome. If you don't it really doesn't matter if you found her attractive enough to want sex, and she didn't want to. I have wanted sex from women that I did not want to date, and I've been honest enough to be transparent about what I wanted. So we remained friends as we had no intention of having a relationship. I also have womenfriends that I never developed the interest of being sexual with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:05 PM
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I'm not above taking advice, and when I was involved in online dating, I would look at tips about how to create a good profile. I made my profiles accordingly. I seldom received any replies, and the women who messaged me first were not in good places in life. I later deleted my profile, and a few months later, I began an almost three year relationship with a beautiful woman. I think most men should ditch the online dating, because you may be considered handsome IRL, but women's preferences seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:57 PM
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Which I completely agree with, but why aren't women concerned with the women who say no, but still want the man to pursue them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:36 PM
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I agree about the online dating. Online I'm like a 1 out of 10. In person I'll get some attention from women, sparingly however.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:44 PM
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Many women who will friendzone a guy also want their attention, and when they see the lad's moving on, they will do things to keep him interested and then pull back when he reciprocates. I agree that oft times it is very one sided, but to pretend like there is rarely some overlap is not genuine. Also men who will accept rejection still get lambasted by women who will implicate them with the actions of other men who do not accept rejection. Women will often say that a man is being 'entitled' if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:38 PM
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Women were given a group identity by men when they were demeaned as a whole. How old are you? What country are you living in? Why don't you identify as a survivor of the Shoa?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:56 PM
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So in a sense, women lose what most men never have. Has aging made you feel more empathetic towards the challenges that young men could face in the SMP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:24 PM
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Par for the course. Edit: I would like to add that HR strategies are really to give the brand or business brownie-points within their PR, which in turn can attract certain investors, and customers to use their services or purchase their products. Most people don't seem to grasp why so many businesses shell out tons of cash on bloated HR programs. It's all branding lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:54 PM
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They are the gatekeepers, so they don't understand how it would be like to feel innately responsible for the outcome of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:27 PM
1

I think the stigma associated to male sexual aggression can make men who acquire above average bodies, groom themselves etc., abstain from or lack the playful and flirtatious approach that could help them fair better with women. They do not want to risk offending women, so they act neutral and nice, but fail to intrigue the women that they are pursuing. They can't fathom being labeled players (another stigma), so they put too many eggs in one basket, and thus seem clingy, needy or have no other …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:45 PM
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It's because they are not the initiators of the relationship in most cases. To be fair, it could be hard for us to understand if things were the other way around eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:45 PM
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I tried to explain this to one of my feminist friend. "You want no "wage gap", then convince your gal-pals to marry less successful men."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:38 PM
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They can, they do, and they find those relationships more exciting. Eventually they get exhausted, just as we all get tired of exciting things as we get older, or our priorities shift, and we become curious about more stable lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:28 PM
2

I don't particularly like bi women, but since most of the women that I have been with have identified as such, I don't have problem with it. I don't want to engage in threesomes, so there's no difference to me between a bi woman or a straight one. I think men are more tolerant, because we fundamentally don't care to change the women in our lives. I don't care if she's bi or straight as long as she's monogamous, and feels good and fulfilled in her relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:09 PM
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Apparently the men were at Club Med, and the women were in Auschwitz...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 11:02 PM
1

It definitely has affected me. I have moments where I am attractive to women and they are very impressed with me, but the lack of self-esteem can creep up on me, and it has caused me to botch many opportunities. I adjust my approach to feel less pressure and be my natural self with women. They respond better to that, but every now and again you get that voice in your head that comes back and tries to knock you down. Before my first relationship it was a constant feeling of not being good enough,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:53 PM
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Wed: Great lowbrow humour. Bwue: Sympathetic. Purp: Less entrenched in their views. Blek: Interesting phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:54 PM
2

It's almost like there's a lack of acknowledgement of the potentiality for men to rediscover themselves and develop into a useful/attractive individuals for women and society. Following this train of thought, it seems that for many, if you are a man who falls into the category of the 'undesirables', you are essentially a modern day leper; Doomed and damned. Manhood isn't damned however, although she is correct about the culpability of men in regards to what's lacking. The men of generation X hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 07:45 PM
1

if ur a mc/umc white guy and you really think you're at a disadvantage compared to most women you just truly, genuinely suck at reaping the benefits of your position in this society What benefits societal benefits are they reaping in higher proportions to mc/umc white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:42 PM
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Manchildren are a product of a society that has sought to devalue the traditionally virtuous aspects of manhood. These are men that have emotionally checked out. They lack the pride that once was afforded to men in society. Strengthen your boys today, so that they may have a chance to become men tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:15 PM
2

How is this indicative of growing up with privilege? The lack of intimacy at appropriate stages in life constitutes privilege? Resentful? You bet. Privileged? You'll have to demonstrate in relation to what or whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 06:39 PM
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They do not have the academic, political and cultural support that feminism has. Most of which were not obtained through good works, but through intense social pressure and conditioning. They also co-opted many civil rights movements and condensed those historic events, some engendered by feminists whilst others not, but have contributed nonetheless to the improvement of living standards for women, into examples of feminism, and subsequently tried to indoctrinate us as children with this merging…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:58 PM
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Are they afraid to hurt the mans feelings? This probably contributes, but I don't think it's the main reason. The lack of autonomy and standards makes them lose respect for the men whom they believe should be more independent in life. It makes sense, because although we may not get as cheesed with women for the same reasons as they may with us, we will reserve respect and admiration for the one's who will maintain a good physique over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:59 PM
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We agree Jammerly. This is new for me Jamz. Can I call you Jamz? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:47 PM
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Thanks man. I can't wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:41 PM
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Seeing Radiohead in 2 weeks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:10 PM
1

I don't find myself being less attracted to the attractive women in my vicinity due to ogling models online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:56 PM
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A friend of mine explained that to me when I was 21. He has a valid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:29 PM
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Oh now that's just plain laughable. What a fucking transparent excuse. You're more likely to be kidnapped by aliens. If you say so, abduction, exploitation of the youth in Mexico are so fringe that they are practically make believe. So I'm the one with his head in the sand eh? How about not putting their parents in jail? Do not jail people who have broken the law? Sounds like a very reasonable idea.\s Delusion is a wonderful thing. Tell ya what, the shit that's about to destroy this country will…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:03 PM
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Yes. Next? k. Different crimes same consequences. I got you. Leave the kids with the parents they came with. Simple as that. Simple as eh? How can you be sure that those individuals are in fact their parents, when they are not verifiable. And if they were their parents, you would want the kids to be placed in jail alongside them? These kids can oft times be placed with sponsors that pretend to be relatives, and then they subsequently disappear. Who will be held accountable for that? The border o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 08:01 PM
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So in your conception of the law, crossing a border illegally and failure to renew a visa on time have the same set of consequences? And having the means to defend oneself in the court of law versus not being able to afford legal services do not affect the outcomes of prosecution? But that's exactly what you're doing when you try to distinguish between coming into this country illegally and having an expired visa. That's just excuse-making. Illegal is illegal is illegal. Stop the gymnastics. I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:43 PM
1

So would you say that : "I play Pokémon GO, everyday." is an apt description of your usage of this app?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:16 PM
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It happens due to understandable fatigue. Women can argue you into the ground. At a certain point, these men try to avoid arguments and bickering at all costs, because takes the piss out of them. It's draining so they just comply with orders, and take in the passive aggression, controlling behaviour and blatant double standards. Whose fault is it? Both parties. End of the day though, men do a terrible job at vetting women due to their behaviour. Why is it so common? The 'you go girl' culture is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:09 PM
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do you play everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:59 PM
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Partners plural?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:56 PM
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You have a minority of hours in a day, and a limited pool resources to be able to explore fraction of a percent of these "possibilities/options/opportunities." If your circumstances permitted such an abundance, you would lack the energy to pursue the full extent of a small fraction of those possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:49 PM
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Makes sense to me. I'm doing the male equivalent and part of it is for my own self-satisfaction, but I would be lying if attracting high quality women were not a substantial motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:23 PM
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Québec and Ontario have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:19 PM
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TBH it's rare dating a woman who doesn't have some form of a relationship these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:15 PM
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When soft-skills and academia go out in the way of manufacturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:05 PM
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Illegal is illegal. The rest is gymnastics. Renewing an expired visa, when you have the means, is a completely different animal than trying to smuggle kids into a country. To boil this down to race is strikingly ignorant. Another right wing myth. Ok. So were the drone strikes eh bud? Oh let's not get into a competition about that. You'll be up all night reading if we do. It'd be a piss-poor competition. And I could find you a list of democrat paedos. How would this invalidate my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:51 PM
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No it's not. And we have 50,000 Irish illegals here, why is no one concerned about that? And Trump's own wife had an expired visa when she worked here. The difference is they're white. Just stating facts. You don't see the difference between an expired visa, and no visa? Are the Irish illegals sending their kids at the boarder crossing without their parents? If these Mexicans flew into the country on holiday, than they would see much the same kind of policing as the Irish illegals, different met…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:15 PM
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Well, having a kid isn't that hard. What I'm saying is you would think that they would show a minimum of curiosity about the lives of possibly haft the people they know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 09:18 PM
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You have Nazis running wild, and your president endorses them? I sincerely doubt that that's the case. Neo Nazis aren't a new thing. It's definitely not a pretty process, but the sheer volume of illegal immigrants pouring into the border is astonishing, as it turns out these children swiftly disappear once they're given to their fosters, their supposed "relatives" that live in the country, and now no one knows where they end up. That sounds way more precarious than poor accommodations, but if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 09:10 PM
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I think you're being extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:57 PM
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It's hard to answer. No man wants to feel that way, but would he really be better off not being with her, or on his own due to principle alone? Sadly, I don't think that further isolation from intimacy is the best solution here. I would rather know that I am appreciated for my deeds at this moment, and loved more holistically than just out of passion. If that were the Modus Operandi, than who's to say that the girl that I will form a life will have been the most "fun" or hottest girl that I've e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:44 PM
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You are living in a cultural climate where the mainstream is communicating "values" that the populace cannot reside with. There's a belief that the more radical LGBTQ activists have pushed into academia, pedagogy and the media that tolerance is a form of hidden bigotry. One must now openly "approve" or essentially validate these lifestyles, because to merely accept them is no longer considered appropriate. Best climate for a populist movement btw. Unfortunately for you, this new kind of hegemony…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:21 PM
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It's still so hard to comprehend. I grew up being told that I was underprivileged, because I'm black. It didn't take that long to grasp that life isn't that way. The poorest kids I knew were white or native, and mostly male. It seemed really boneheaded at some point, than my focus was on social class rather than race, but even that wasn't really sensible. Most of the rich people I knew didn't grow up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:57 PM
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Q4All: Is feminism anti-feminine and pro-masculine in practice? Anti-man, and anti-femininity, if it's not in the interest of subverting tradition or extracting resources and influence from the oppressors; Men. I find it difficult to understand this current trend of women only beginning to feel concerned about the circumstances that men face when they are raising boys. I mean Christ: You haven't had male friends, siblings, a father or grandfather ect.? Who and what did you conceive this child wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:20 PM
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Well you shouldn't boil down an entire country to their administration. I understand how that could be a source of frustration though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:01 PM
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Initially sure, but if the name of the game is longevity... Both parties should want to go above and beyond, but I think a lot of women, when they're dating men think there's no reason or need to do these kinds of gestures. Another thing is, many women are not aware of the satisfaction of putting in some effort in initiating romance, and creating that space that inspires reciprocity. If it's too one sided, how do we expect for romance to last?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:59 PM
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I think men really want to have the companionship of a woman to be frank. I don't think friends and trips can replace the feelings of a reciprocal romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:42 PM
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I think people underestimate how their neighbourhoods would look like if it was 1 in 5. I would liken the sight of that to an apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:36 PM
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I'm not saying in any way equally. Just a little more often. I felt proud when I thought of something sweet and romantic that would make my ex happy. I assume that women could feel the same way no? You don't think it may encourage the men to go above and beyond?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:26 PM
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What's my prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:20 PM
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Could it be that our atmosphere feels hostile to them... let's not go this rout man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:13 PM
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lame. I like the states. Great BBQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:54 PM
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Let's!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:24 PM
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My tolerance for weird people has plummeted over the years....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:23 PM
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That rant Stanley did about Christmas sums up how I feel about all of these "inclusive" policies. I’ve been here 18 years and have suffered through some weird thematic Christmases. A Honolulu Christmas, a Pulp Fiction Christmas, a Muslim Christmas, Moroccan Christmas — Mo Rocca Christmas. I don’t want it. Christmas is Christmas is Christmas is Christmas. I don’t want no Kwanza wreath. I don’t need no dreidle in my face. That’s its own thing. And who’s that black Santa for? I don’t care. I know S…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:19 PM
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I pretty much learned English when I was 9, so I have no excuse. I'm fully bilingual. Au fait, l'orthographe est tout aussi nulle en français ma chère! :S
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:09 PM
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Hear that ladies? If you want to ride the bull, you got to pay the toll! My 5 inches of "I thought black guys were supposed to.. I mean WOW how can I possibly fit this inside me 9.9 "aint free! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:00 PM
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Women are not as proactive as men when it comes to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:55 PM
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If you set a certain moral standard, and you use the fact that others may not conform to that standard as license to breach that standard, then how are you in a position to judge their standards as opposed to yours? The reward for living with integrity is that you get to understand your being as an integral person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:52 PM
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The difference between a woman thinking your handsome, and really wanting to get to know you has a lot to do with your influence in your mutual social circle. If you don't share one, she can at least tell that you are sought after within your social circle. Even if you're a man with an interest for a reciprocal monogamous relationship. Especially if you want it to last, you'll have tons of incentive to maximize your social status. You do not have to be a billionaire, but it's in your best intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:28 PM
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Women live by their sexist and gender biased views way more often, and way more vehemently than men do. Therein lies the true difference, but both genders are probably equally "sexist" in terms of views(generalisations) about the other. For instance: I wouldn't mind an all male gym, because women are distracting, and men are more collaborative when they are not competing for the attention of attractive women. You would be surprised how pleasant and helpful douchy-mcgee there is when Stacey isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:14 PM
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Women need to understand that by sometimes putting in more regular effort to create romance, instead of expecting the man to do it 90% of the time, they'll feel way more satisfaction and a deeper connection with their male partners. Assuming he's receptive of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 08:59 PM
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Then, they proceed to NEVER put themselves in that kind of situation that turns them on. Maybe women should take note of this line. proceed to NEVER put themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 08:53 PM
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You're all like my work family! .....maybe I should start talking to some of my coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:26 PM
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If you meet a woman's insecurity with insecurity you validate her insecurity. Be romantic (because you yourself enjoy romance), keep achieving (communicate your ambitions, set a roadmap, achieve the subsequent steps), uphold the standards that you set for yourself and the relationship (by uphold I mean set them, and subsequently exceed them). Live the life that inspires her to follow your leadership in life. Women (and men but especially women) can be introspective and ambivalent (oft-times to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:14 PM
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I don't think that men are cleaning and cooking to get laid. So I think you're right, they help with the household chores, and the childrearing. This makes sense since they both contribute to the household income.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:48 PM
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Good on him then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:48 PM
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Seth Rogan? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:25 PM
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Like I said brutes are needlessly aggressive. I never said that men should never be aggressive. Never said that men shouldn't express their emotions, but assaulting someone or threatening to assault someone because "they [may have(probably hadn't even)] looked at you wrong" is bitch behaviour. Very insecure men do that, and equally insecure women will respond favorably to that. I suppose I could have been more specific, not all aggression is bad, and obviously women can get turned by aggressive …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:55 PM
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I'm probably a 5 SMV, and a 3 RMV out of 10. I don't intend to stay in those echelons though. For SMV, my height brings it down quite a fair bit. I also lack charisma most of the time. For RMV, I am a college dropout, and women care a fair deal about this. I also have many unhealthy habits, and once again women care a great deal about this. I have problems with depression and that also significantly diminishes my ranking. Depression also diminishes my ranking. I could go up substantially in both…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:28 PM
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Women are definitely extremely responsive to this, but it is not a priority for them when it comes to selecting a mate. It may help with maintaining a LTR though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:00 PM
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TRP seems to undermine the societal importance of men raising children with good women (possibly because they don't believe that women can be authentically good). BP seems to undermine the societal value of men altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:56 PM
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The challenges that men face in this diverse category that we call average, are steep, but not hopeless. I am committed to transcend my limitations, but I'll never expect many women to truly understand the work we put in to better ourselves. I used to really hope that I would eventually find one who would understand, but it is not realistic, and I've accepted this. I used to take a very egalitarian view of relationships, but I believe now that this an indulgence that only seems to work when thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:48 PM
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That's why I'm saying rap is so white now! Real n-words are bumpin Schubert ma gee! 👌👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:21 PM
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Kendrick Lamar, Childish Gambino, etc I would not call that socially conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:09 PM
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Q4All: Why do you think women find aggressive men alluring? Because strong, capable and integral, or rather, truly masculine men have let the twats redefine masculinity. Women are attracted to that behaviour by proxy, because masculinity is in short supply. These brutish pricks are just entitled princesses who can't keep there emotions in check. If young women are confusing this blatant lack of self-restraint and mental fortitude with masculinity, then it just goes to show how men have to take a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:46 PM
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We are losing interest in the people we are with, because we are using the initial feelings of courtship to escape the monotony of our modern lives. Women are perhaps the more seasoned escapist of the sexes. Or maybe romance is their most favoured method of escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:58 PM
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Q4All: To what extent are women responsible for keeping traditional forms of masculinity alive? Is it possible to get some elaboration of what traits are considered traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:00 PM
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you win btw. This was an eye-opener. O_O
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:48 PM
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TBH, I'm going through her articles, and Christ it's like torture to read! Will get back to you if/when I find something... if I haven't jumped off my office building before that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 09:26 PM
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I can tell you by experience, they oft-times are the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:56 PM
1

Oookay wat fer bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 10:50 PM
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-How are ya now? -Not so bad. -Good'n'you? -Not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 10:29 PM
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<20. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 10:06 PM
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Given the choice, would you prefer not being asked out enough, or being asked out too often? A woman has never asked me out, so I can't really know what I would prefer. Do you think your gender has inherently helped or hindered your dating life? Hindered. What's the most difficult part of dating as your gender? The methods and the frequency in which we get rejected can be really demoralizing, as such I have taken a break from pursuing for the summer. I'm taking a step back to focus on things tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:26 PM
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fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:39 PM
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I'm well aware, as he is a sexual conservative. It's not a collectivist notion though, it's a puritanical one. Edit: BTW I don't agree with what you said, but I gather it's really daft that someone downvoted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 06:51 PM
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Create a music/ fashion label. Because music has always been a way for me to cope with hard times. ....and I also like looking fresh as fuck. It's definitely tied to the career that I would like to obtain, but totally unrelated to my current line of work. It's not intentional but my wage does allow some liquidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:55 PM
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I think I would rather be a lesbian than a subpar or man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:49 PM
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They mean sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:40 PM
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Women like that are conceded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:16 PM
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except for when it comes to romantic/sexual relationships. In that regard he is a male imperative collectivist through and through, while the 'modern woman' us the true capitalist. He speaks constantly about the importance of the dominance/competence hierarchy and correlates that to sexual selection, women being the ones who 'select' within this reproductive paradigm. He also speaks about how men need to be strengthened in order to compete, and establish competence within the hierarchies. Men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:51 PM
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That's exactly right. The harsh ratings from women towards men is a projection of their own self-esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 08:37 PM
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That's a misinterpretation. The women rate 80% of men poorly, but that does not mean that they will not date them. They'll message those same men that they expressed were undesirable, but well before the first interaction they go into this with the idea that they are dating down. Which is more of a prejudice than fact. And this prejudice is actually a defence mechanism. There's an article that talks about this here. They are harsher towards the men, where in the context in which they do not feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:43 PM
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But what we really lack is assessing outcomes in a longitudinal way. This liberation is a recipe for STIs, unwanted pregnancies and loneliness for these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 09:57 PM
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Anything that can merge physical/emotional and intellectual autonomy, with an emphasis in healthy competition, cooperation and leadership. Ideally a kind of survivalist curriculum, and at a certain age the boys would have a choice of disciplines; intellectual, mechanical, creative, and/or kinesthetic, that they could freely pursue with some guidance and supervision. This is where mastery comes in. (I think it would be a great thing for girls too, although some excursions should be segregated, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 08:16 PM
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It's the contrary. Man who grew up in a female dominated household attract less women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:37 PM
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I think so too. I'm not a RPer, but most of what I agree with from them I already knew. I think some RPers take it a bit too far. I get where they are coming from, but I want to foster more integrity in my behaviour, not less. I would have more success if I put some of those tactics to use, but I've been on the receiving end of similar things from women, and I wouldn't want to do something to anyone else that has caused me some pain. I guess I'll have to figure out the juste milieu.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:28 PM
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1) One part of it is like a mantra really. I think a lot of men do this. It helps us to not freak out when we are disappointed by the behaviours of many a woman in our dating pool. Or I guess it helps bottle it up frankly. Whatever works lol. It reaffirms the "unconventional" behaviours that may garner better responses from women in the hook-up/ dating scene. It's unfortunate, but you can see how seduction sometimes makes people bargain with their manners/ethics. All's fair in love and war appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:19 PM
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That could be arranged. I know a guy... kuh-kuh-kuh-kuh! (屮｀∀´)屮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:52 PM
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If it was the other way around, and the brother was a straight male doing the equivalent, I doubt that it would garner the reactions that you described. It's considered objectionable to tie in a notion of responsibility with the free sexual expression of young women, and LGBT people. Now if the girl is poor, white, from the Biblebelt and is pregnant in her teens, the tune suddenly changes. The term trash or thot gets thrown in like clockwork. So many subreddits have this predictable bias. Buzzwo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:38 PM
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Can I fastened roller-skates to the hooves of said cows?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:35 PM
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I'm not your pal, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 11:42 PM
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Yeah.. it's not easy to have a productive conversation about sex differences as a dude with at least half of the women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 11:42 PM
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I'm not your fwen, guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:49 PM
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black man buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:46 PM
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I'm black and I hate it. It ruins interracial frankly..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:04 PM
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French FTW. Good on ya! I'm trying to teach myself Portuguese this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:02 PM
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are you a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:30 PM
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Well that's all good, but I would make it clear to my friend that a loss of respect from me will be inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 04:23 PM
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That's not what I was talking about. I'm not disagreeing with you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 04:16 PM
1

What about your spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:17 PM
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Are her actions towards you disrespectful or morally wrong? Disrespectful? Absolutely. If it's unprovoked. It's something that plagues our behaviour when we are getting to know a new woman. It makes it difficult to relax and enjoy the moment, because of the looming threat of a disappearing act. Women justify this by saying that they could be assaulted from a disgruntled man who cannot deal with rejection. I don't think that this threat is more common to them than the other way around is for us. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:58 PM
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He should encourage his friend to come clean, and make it clear that he's losing respect for him. I don't think it's his place to tell the girl, because he has no relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:01 PM
1

May I ask why you did not have kids with your ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:55 PM
2

One of the seemingly happiest people that I've had the pleasure of knowing, and looking up to, jumped from a high-rise just over 2 years ago. This occurred after his fiancé left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:07 PM
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Women have a smaller window to have kids, and for the vast majority of them who decided not to, they settle into their 40s with crippling depression due to lack of fulfilment, and this is despite being educated, and successful/ respected in their industry, and/or community etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:48 PM
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Many young women, in this world of plenty, can only appreciate a man's attention if they feel like it is scarce, and the easiest way to achieve this dynamic is to date multiple women. Being that infidelity is rightfully considered unethical, dating is conveniently reduced to "hooking up", and "kicking it." Or like the great late Patrice O'neal said: "I need a boat because I need to catch fish... because you (women) need to smell fish on me...so then you can ACT RIGHT " So the crux of what I'm sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:32 PM
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Q4All: Do we shower women with messages of consumerism and fear of intimacy disgusted as empowerment? It's perhaps something that we could call : The contradiction of feminism. By dismantling traditional values, the cultural territory was redefined through consumerism, because it provided better opportunities than the ones proposed from the feminist academia. Women, to paint this with the broadest of brushes of course, were only as emancipated as the greatest cultural context would allow. Q4All:…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:40 PM
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I am enjoying this thread. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 11:39 PM
1

I had the displeasure of seeing a lady who was polyamorous. When she mentioned it, I told her that I am monogamous, and she treated it like I was less evolved than her and (as I found out later, when I went to visit) her pretentious group of artsy friends. Hedonism is not profound to me. It's fairly common in artistic/hipster circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 10:00 PM
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Welp.This world sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:29 PM
1

Dating apps such as Tinder are like lesser versions of speed dating, which is already a cringe inducing experience. I would rather take the rejections in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:02 PM
0

It's very interesting that you pointed this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:43 PM
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A woman worthy of demanding love, respect, compassion, and kindness. A woman who is worthy of asking a man love her and treat her well. Well anyone who isn't terrible to me deserves the latter three. If I had the opportunity to be with a woman that had the qualities that inspire those feelings and behaviours in me than there would be no need for her to "demand" those things. So I would ideally be with a woman that I find: Beautiful (of course), pragmatic, romantic and tactile(as I am very much l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:37 PM
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He definitely is controversial for TRP as he's a sexual conservative. He also believes that not finding a partner, and progressing towards creating family is a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:46 PM
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This is my melodramatic recanting of a double standard: AHEM! Canada Day years ago, I was just feeling the effects of my edibles that I scored off my cousin. Walking up a busy street post fire-works, I was travelling against the flow of tens of thousands of people to get to a jam in the west end of town. Age of consent by New Order was colouring this introspective "mise en scène" as waves of people would disperse and rejoin “en passant”. I was stoked by this paradoxical feeling of unity despite …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:44 PM
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Without risk, there's little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 05:26 PM
1

yeah possible, but not really likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:55 PM
1

please do not ruin the sanctity of jerky...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:54 PM
1

27
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:49 PM
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You would have been a young mum lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:47 PM
1

Stop masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:45 PM
1

So in your 50s? I know this may seem impolite, but I mean nothing by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:30 PM
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Mackin on this amazing grilled cheeeeeeeeeez with tomatoes and a housemade breakfast sausage pattie. AMAZING!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 10:05 PM
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I think that the women who are interested in dating men who parrot feminist narratives, are women who are more interested in dominating a relationship, than being attracted or enamored by the men that they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 09:21 PM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 09:16 PM
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MGTOW is actually the antithesis of what I was describing. the 80/20 phenomenon is in part due to the fact that we are not showing our worth. Women may seek the attention of the top tier 20% in their view, but we also allowed them to redefine what that is, and they are often disappointed by those decisions. When they finally convince this "upper 20%" dude on Tinder to give them the time of day and commit, they're oft times betrayed by how pampered, whiny, and emotionally indulgent he is. I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 08:48 PM
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We also do a terrible job of leading as we should be able to do. We can't be surprised by the outcomes here. If I were to create a curriculum for boys (and possibly girls), there would be a focus on sport and creativity. Excursions to harness survival and leadership skills. Healthy and arduous competition to nurture our instincts, and strengthen our minds and bodies. Every thing identified above are symptoms of how we were deprived of a healthy education in manhood. We have allowed this conditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 08:21 PM
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Stop indulging her fights. Put your foot down, and go about your plans, but also make plans with her, stick by'em and seduce her whilst out and about. Women need to feel wanted. Even if it's just a small thing once a week, like Thursday night you go for a walk in the market, have a desert and tea(cause your brits lol) etc, treat it as a date though like proper. If she feels more secure in the relationship you can have more free space with less protest. You need to show her the difference between…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 07:44 PM
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Men really should embrace this new reality. This sounds so depressing to me. I don't want to work till death, but I can't fathom a future without building a family. I would rather work for the rest of my life if it means I could have a wife, kids, and a healthy home-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:42 PM
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I think you may need to relax more, whatever happens will happen, regardless of which sex you decide is a better fit for you romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 05:31 PM
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I think it shows that people respond more to pictures, than to the data provided in dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:41 PM
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Avoided most of the bait from girls growing up, so they didn't have an opportunity to bully me anyway. I also never got very active on social media, so I haven't experienced cyber bullying. I have experienced some disheartening behaviours from them such as; taunting, rumors and the like. That does not qualify as bullying to me though. So I would say that the bullying that I faced were from boys growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:15 PM
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I'm not sure I get where you're coming from, but maybe you just need to experiment with dudes? This reminds me of an odd experience I had. I was at the gay club, because half my coworkers were lesbian or lesbianesk, so the vote pretty much always swung in their favour. I was making out with one of them, needless to say, we each had our fair share of bevvys. She went to the lady's room, than this vet gay man approaches me. He starts ranting about how he used be into women, but that they were too …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:04 PM
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If you live in a major government/ college town, than it has had a significant impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 09:16 PM
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I find that the way women will often deal with men, that they may or may not be interested in, really chips away at their emotional well being. To be honest, due to how difficult courtship has potentially been for us, we often get into a relationship in which we feel like the threat of losing it is constant. It's not pleasant to feel like rejection is always right around the corner, and at every stage of your relationship. That you will most likely lose the bond that you sought to nurture. I bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:10 PM
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Male, 27, 4. Nah I don't see why I would lie about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 07:02 PM
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I definitely would, if it was the best option available, and I would enjoy it. I should also clarify that my issue is not with individuals being outside of the norm and focusing on their careers or kids when the majority of people in there "group" seems drawn to the contrary. That's between them and their spouse frankly. My issue is more about the people who are capable of doing either, but they found themselves feeling very much unfulfilled, because we pushed on them a narrative that made them …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:43 PM
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I've heard similar stories from working mothers also. I don't think that women have to necessarily stay at home, but in a circumstance where this is voluntary, and a committed decision from both parties, I believe that there are many advantages. I am deeply moved by your experiences, and you seem incredibly perseverant. A very distinguishable quality, and maybe in some ways it was brewed in tumultuous circumstances, but nonetheless it seems to have embellished your talents. Good luck to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:20 PM
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Careful now.. loose canon eh?/s No worries! I like reading about happy couples. Makes me wanna get me a little sunshine too! Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:40 PM
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not even a temper? :'-( lol! In all seriousness though. Good on the both of yous!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:18 PM
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It's deplorable. a)Do you believe in a situation that would justify such behavior? Hard to think about one where it could be justified. I suppose that in cases of abuse you could understand the reasons behind this behaviour a bit more. b)Have you ever seen it play out irl? Haven't had the displeasure of witnessing that before. I've heard stories. I witnessed a man who was cheating on his girl, I used to serve them both and we had drinks together several times (acquaintances if you will), and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:14 PM
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conveniently an endearing flaw, followed up by another one that displays tenacity, and good gumption.. -_- give me something I can work with here c'mon! I need to validate my last couple years of pornhub, and 2am pizza runs 3x times a week...........Sum1pleaseholdme..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:54 PM
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The problem with the entitlement narrative is that it fails to take into account the deeper psychological factors that contribute to these overt displays of evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:25 PM
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The notion that gender roles were mere contrivances has perpetuated some damage. I think women are taught to underestimate their wiring. Some women really don't want kids, but for most it's not the case. Most young women assume that if they are reluctant to have children, than it must mean that they'll never want any, or they wouldn't be a fully invested parent in their children's lives, but they have neglected to take into account the neurological changes that are likely to happen throughout pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:02 PM
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I got you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:33 PM
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well helloooo! jk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:28 PM
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Can't be helped. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:27 PM
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To be frank I think I would be happy either way, so long as my daughter became sexually active at a reasonable age, and is WAY WAY WAY better at managing risky behaviour than I was. EDIT: In addition, I would feel more at ease if my hypothetical daughter was good at selecting people of good character (obviously despite this people could surprise her, but it's pretty gnarly when you see the types of people that barely pubescent girls are some times willing to hang out with. When my little cuzzo g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:21 PM
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gasp This is heresy! :O
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:16 PM
2

So what happens if your house were to be infested?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:14 PM
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So you have your pizza without cheese? Or do you abstain from pizza altogether? PS. I am offended for obvious reasons. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:10 PM
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No worries. heheh edit: in French what you wrote would be pronounced: "Ceuh leuh veh."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:14 PM
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think this guy and Mr Flat Earther down below would have a lot in Apparently so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:20 PM
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I feel like these types of dudes are bringing down the value of men in general. This may sound terrible, but I'd rather be dead than settle for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:49 PM
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I thought it would be some other romance language. "C'est la vie"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:58 PM
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Lol I'll have to add to my schedule, so I don't forget :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:05 PM
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reading this thread got me like..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:34 PM
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how about you? How often would you do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:26 PM
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Out of like 8. 1 was a serious relationship, and the other was like ONS. Most of my hookups aren't penetrative sex. Virtually every girl that I'll hookup with. I can't begin to describe how much I enjoy doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:24 PM
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sucking on their beard haha I need to draw this some time!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:14 PM
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I've only been with 2 women who did those kinds of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:11 PM
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I know eh? Send them to BC.. poof no more pregs. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:01 PM
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Revisionist history, mostly due to our willful acceptance of the feminist ideology, and it's narrative, has forced our interpretation of our collective history into ideological camps. We wouldn't be having these debates as much if the misconceptions of "privilege" weren't jammed into our skulls from the moment we entered primary. 'Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past.' George Orwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:44 PM
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Relevant for my age too. I really don't like the personas that people indulge on social media TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:32 PM
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"ce le vei?" what language is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:20 PM
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welcome to dating apps.. It only validates my conviction to never use dating apps like tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:11 PM
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One of my gal pals told me that she'll go on Tinder dates to practice for a job interview..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:45 PM
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I think that there's some validity to the Pizza Gate conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:42 PM
1

good vibes have you heard of weed? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:42 PM
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Damn, I don't even know where to begin. I'm pretty much like a broke Kanye West, without the talent or fame. I have been socialized adequately so my lunacy is tamed and not noticed in the early courting phase, but Christ I'm weird! I get into my head all the time. I am easily distracted by everything, which makes me seem inattentive, I fidget like an autistic child who just discovered Adderall (this would drive my ex nuts... understandably).etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:31 PM
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It's how I identify the instance when you been workin this lady. Your workin was good! And all of sudden, she's begging you to get it in. I call that the 'switch'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:15 PM
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You need to be doing it A L M O S T E V E R Y T I M E. Almost every time? AL👏MOST👏EHV👏VE👏RY👏TIME👏. Quickies are the only exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:12 PM
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The 'switch' is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:05 PM
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We either: Just really don't care as much about those things. Would rather avoid a pointless argument. A lot of women will push things to a crazy shouting match to avoid accountability. Have understood that they can't handle the smallest criticism without it questioning their entire existence apparently. They mope or cry and crucify themselves, and it's just not worth causing them the potential anguish. As an aside... Is she tired, hungry, running late, bored or going through something physiolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 09:12 PM
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Yep. Hollyweird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:04 PM
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I don't personally think it's okay to lie to get sex. It's a conscious decision, because it does "sacrifice" many opportunities in the process. Even the women who seek a relationship want a bit of a 'challenge', but I'll make my intentions clear despite their leanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:51 PM
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also had to teach my current boyfriend how to be rough, because he was great at the sensual side of sex but had completely repressed his rough side. That was me in a nutshell, before my ex. I always had that impulse, but I learned to repress it, because of the narratives that made me feel like a potential abuser for having such an impulse. Sex got 1000x better when I snapped out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:42 PM
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Yep, but sadly our love could never be. :'( YOU ARE TERRING ME APART LAURA!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:37 PM
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If the kinks haven't escalated to a level that negatively impacts their sex-life, than who cares what people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:36 PM
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To me the source of frustration comes from women who seek companionship and simultaneously indulge in the most divisive views. It's no way to establish reciprocity with someone that you get along with. It's almost bipolar. You may be right though, I didn't grow up in a context where women have had their thoughts and opinions dismissed for simply being women, their means of expression undermined. I am grateful for not living in that reality. The women in my dating pool haven't either however. Thu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:23 PM
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The contrary happens all the time too, but yes. This is a terrible circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:18 PM
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If you are a man = you raped no mater what. If you are lesbians = whomever didn't shave (or is the least shaven) is the rapist. If you are a man who identifies as a lesbian = She rape you (like in Soviet Russia.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:16 PM
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Blazed and watched this band on pitchfork with my boys. Laura Lee is a goddess. The way she grooves was like a mating call to me. M-mm just ain't right! ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:12 PM
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Il faut un minimum de culture pour bien apprécier Jerry Springer. lol./s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:08 PM
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Au début il était un journaliste, mais peu après il changea d’ondes pour devenir l’animateur d’un « talk-show » dans le style de Gerry Springer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:49 PM
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there's always one xD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:19 PM
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Your crush on Sherlock doesn't count. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:04 PM
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It was a community much like Incels today. It was like Incels, before Incels were ever a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:22 PM
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So men decide to support each other in friendship, and this is somehow a threat to heterosexual relationships? I think this article, is reaching to be frank.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:21 PM
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hard no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:08 PM
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True Forced Loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:04 PM
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That's not how I experienced it, but you may have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 06:17 AM
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Here's a substrate. Body building is a niche. Within that niche there are the message boards. Another niche. Within that niche nested in the former niche, there are the one's who share the opinions that were laid out in the OP. That's your first approximation of how common those opinions of women are shared in the general male public let alone a vast community like bodybuilding ect. So yeah: not indicative of a widespread view that most men share about women. Or even bodybuilders either eh bud? …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:57 PM
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So body builder forums do not represent a niche?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:47 PM
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Not to mention sex is better with experienced women. I agree with everything that you said except for this. This has nothing to do with age, and mostly to do with temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:58 PM
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Sounds like a maturity issue frankly. I think at 50 you should, and most probably know what your prospects are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:49 PM
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Nope. I think there are pretty intuitive ways to gage if attraction is mutual, and arousal can also be seen visually anyway. It feels different too when she's aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:40 PM
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Because it's not indicative of a widespread view that most men share about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:08 PM
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Again not making excuses for the men, but women are the ones who ultimately choose the man. I'm not convinced that any of the values that would help them out in the household are often included within the selection criteria. There are definitely curve balls, and people surprise you. Nurturing men aren't exactly flying off the shelves. There's the helping you out with kids. Resourceful, laborious men are in short supply, because they can be. There's your handy work. Our system rewards sloth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:21 PM
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Not a cop out. Women make bonds easier, and more efficiently than men, usually. This is due to how he have evolved through millennia. A predisposition and a predetermination aren't the same. So I'm not saying that men couldn't possibly do more in those terms. I'm also not excusing lazy men either. It's a piss-poor state, There are many things that men seem little equipped to do these days. But what do you expect from a culture, where we're increasingly decoupled from the tasks that we require to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:53 PM
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But the men didn't jump to catch it, so the construction crumbled Because men are not predisposed as much as women to do these things. There are men who do this well, but in most cases, the majority of women surpass them. We are social creatures, women being the most sociable of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:10 PM
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My assumptions are that, in the recent future, we will learn heaps about what roles hormones play in the psychological and physiological health of men, and also in fertility , and that those very discoveries will be the undoing of male hormonal birth control as a sound method of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:56 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:12 PM
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bar, gym, park, friends base?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:10 PM
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"women destroyed family" Never expressed anything of that sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:09 PM
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Well in the case of male birth control, I do not believe that the benefits outweigh the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:59 PM
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They pose health risks to men. Both psychological and physiological.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:57 PM
1

Badbadnotgood - "In your eyes" featuring Charlotte Day Wilson ♪ d-_-b
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:56 PM
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One great source of lols has always been cringing at the comments in body builder forums. They've been at it since way back, and well before TFL, MGTOW and Incels were a thing. 1: Who exactly ARE all the vile male commenters on women's bodies online? Jaded men with poor social skills. 2: What is their deal? (Are they like 15 years old, or do they have mental issues? Or...) They hate what they can't have I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:52 PM
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men Really, just that. they are male That's all you got eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:48 PM
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Where did you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:40 PM
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I think the male birth control pill is doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:38 PM
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I don't know where you're from, but their is very little praise afforded to good fathers here. I'm not sure to whom you are referring to that would be bashing women for holding up their end, but if you would like to provide an example that'd be keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:35 PM
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Never said feminism caused it. I'm saying it's lined up very well with neo-liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:02 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:54 PM
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no worries brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:46 PM
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If you take up a good interest in women's pleasure, and you survey a lot of the information, and you're willing to fail a little. You'll be really good. If you want me to share some things that I've learned than you can dm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:15 PM
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150k? I'm twisting my dreads into pigtails! Fyna get wined a dined my G! Seriously though, if I'm not tied to any business where I am, or I can work remotely and she doesn't mind me travelling, than I would definitely move with her. If that's not possible, I'd be willing to try a long distance relationship until we can both settle on a place that satisfies both carriers. I can't guarantee whether or not it would be successful, but since we're married I think that warrants an earnest effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:03 PM
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Took me until 24 to actually discover great sex. Felt way different than the ONS or the extremely casual stuff that I had experienced. It felt so different that I kind of felt like I was a virgin, in the sense of previously being ignorant of the sensations that I was meant to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:56 PM
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dress smart, rollup on a Vespa, and kick the piss out of rockers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:43 PM
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so it's not for cool kids cause I'm not on there...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:40 PM
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Oh, I'll make em pay me a bachelor tax!woooooooh! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:34 PM
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Could you also throw in like a 5hundo for moi?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:29 PM
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Or sociopathic frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:25 PM
1

Patrice O'neal had the funniest bit about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:17 PM
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If you get one of those... we're making a mixtape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:10 PM
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My condolences. I couldn't possibly imagine losing my mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:08 PM
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I know eh? It's almost like they took the very opposite meaning of what you were expressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:03 PM
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The rationale isn't that women should take extra precautions, because sexual assault is ubiquitous, but rather that; SHOULD it happen, your assailant will likely be a man, and can easily overpower you. It's incorrect because it assumes that men, usually stand a fighting chance against there assailant, and so they feel confident in taking the unnecessary risk of being alone at night. Everyone should take precautions. I agree with your sentiments though. The cop was an asshole, and that dude could…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:59 PM
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I can agree that there is likely an over-repentation of misandrists among feminists, but I still do not see why someone who is a misandrist would necessarily want to become a feminist in all cases. Because if you hate a group of people, the best way to validate your bigotry is to convince yourself and others, that that group is systematically oppressing your group, and has been through millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:51 PM
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It was a response to men expecting women to still play the doting, traditional housewife while he smoked cigars and ogled barely legal scantily clad teenagers with his buddies. Men broke the social contract first. If you want to enlighten someone on any given subject, it's probably best not to assert a biased view of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:16 PM
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I am aware, but they still constitute psychological needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:10 PM
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It takes about 15 minutes to make chicken breast and salad. The costs are marginal, especially when you take into account that those foods are more filling than cheap starches and carbs. These families spend a lot of money buying terrible shit, because they are ignorant about nutrition. I will give you this though. Certain zones have very few options. Not a grocery store for miles, and it's in a densely populated urban area. The councils need to be put to task to develop those districts, and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:04 PM
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Just don't eat the 4000 calories yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:57 PM
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Yes, assuming it's not a toxic environment. Yes. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:56 PM
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What also promotes mental health, at it's earlier stages is seeing one's parents for more than just a couple of hours a day, and having the support of an extended family. Having a reliable relationship with one's neighbours. So those are such avenues that a basin of SAHMs pretty much provided. They sound like banal things, but I think that they promoted many advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:53 PM
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The vast majority of people, man or woman, work tons, in "careers" that they do not actually care about, to afford shit that they neither really need nor truly want. Many of them are medicated to cope with this lack of fulfilment. The rest may indulge in frivolous things. The costs of decadence have been the family, the community, sustainability. Feminism made the mistake of preaching for the dismantling of all traditional structures, regardless of their use. No matter what the motives apparentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:22 PM
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I'm of the opinion that most careers aren't really fulfilling. If I was able to, I would want more time at home, especially if I were to raise kids. I'm a dude btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:08 PM
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Q4All: Does misandry or a belief of female supremacy disqualify you from the feminist label? Not really. The feminist have to enact the labour of disqualifying those notions within the academia of their orthodoxy. If they truly want to be seen as egalitarians, they'll have to alter the state of academic feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:27 PM
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Ghosting is kind off the hiz-house these days. I've come to respect women who can just be authentic about their intentions instead of sending me a wall of text about how much they want to kick it, and every time I text back it just gets ignored. Even when I give them an out, they still insist: "I'm suuuper busy, trust me if I don't like a guy I'm really straight forward about blah blah". This
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:19 PM
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What makes this "ugly desk" so hard to get rid of?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:36 PM
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You could literally use a similar analogy to describe the contrary though. For instance you keep purchasing shitty overpriced furniture that breaks often, and the delivery guys for this overpriced garbage don't do squat to bring it into your flat, so you literally injure yourself every time you have to move it into your small apartment. Every one around you, who aren't in your immediate circle, try to explain to you that there are models that are more affordable, better built, would provide you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:26 PM
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Does it count if I implied it? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:42 PM
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Have you ever served at a restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:41 PM
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Lol! No worries and thanks for enlightening me. Fandoms are so oddly fascinating!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:38 PM
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But if you like the girl what's wrong with settling down with her ? It's not that I don't like commitment, but I had to learn that if I go into it with that intention. The experience is not as good, because women aren't typically into guys that are too full on. It makes sense anyway. I mean you need some time to figure out if you're really compatible before completely committing. So even if I'm really fond of the girl, or even more smitten than I anticipated, I would proactively slow it down to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:34 PM
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I thought that was called shipping?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:27 PM
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"Men are not entitled to sex from women", is a conflation of some men being insistent and emotionally manipulative to get sex from women (like guilt trips, being anger etc.), and committing sexual misconduct, harassment or worse, with men expressing disappointment with their lack of intimacy with women. It's used to denounce the men that do bad or terrible or worse things to women sexually, but most often used to silence a man expressing disappointment or emotional pain due to their unsuccessful…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:08 PM
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so is slashfic a gay novel or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:01 PM
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He claims not to want to anymore, but I think it's still very frustrating for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:01 PM
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So an average guy is like broken furniture?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:31 PM
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To quote one of my friends who is a virgin in his mid twenties, "Something inside me died a few years ago." :( He's a volcel technically, because I think that he wouldn't grasp the opportunity even if it was there at this point, but he had to go through a lot of anguish to get to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:28 PM
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weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:57 PM
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All about dem angles. WE GON LEARN TODAY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:45 PM
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glad this was insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:31 PM
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I'm going to start calling this sub the Peepee debate, because I have the sense of humour of a 10yr old.heehee!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:26 PM
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That's a good thing. As long as you're honest. You're right though. There's no rush. Who enjoys feeling rushed into a relationship anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:21 PM
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Point taken. The triggering was real for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:20 PM
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That's pretty cool. I think it's a sweet memory, and I'm just reading about it :).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:17 PM
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It's just how it is. Conversations get pretty deep, but we seem to do some arbitrary task whilst having them. I can't claim that quote though, but I don't remember where I've heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:16 PM
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I'm sorry. I was being a prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:11 PM
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Faustian bargain and a half eh? It sounds like a hellish proposal but yeah some people like slave-play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:08 PM
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The preface was a pretty reductive view of American history...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:05 PM
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That's not gratifying for me. I actually want the opportunity to be responsible and accountable for my deeds, and I want a reciprocal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:02 PM
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Women, our power is greater than you think. You NEVER want to commit to a man. Your goal should be getting him to commit and be your willing slave, without him even knowing it. bwahahahahahahaha ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:58 PM
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What do men misunderstand about women the most? Women are less fragile than we think. What do women misunderstand about men the most? Men speak better (more openly) side to side than face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah most don't, it's cool that you acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:49 PM
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I know right!? How dare he confide in you eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:37 PM
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It'll work itself out bud. I fail to exactly what you're talking about. I should play the field a bit more. I get anxious about leading a girl on, but I guess I'm projecting my past experiences onto them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:33 PM
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Girls get turned off when they think the dude is too keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:28 PM
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Well, if she doesn't make you want to be exclusive, you wouldn't be helping any of yous by doing that, but I assume you've had the "talk" eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:24 PM
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If you are both onboard, and you are considered competent, than in most cases it would be the ideal relationship. If you aren't competent, well.. I sure hope she takes the reigns for both of your sakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:21 PM
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Anyone else notice that Elliot Rodgers has almost become an icon? It's messed up eh?..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:16 PM
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Heh. It's not the worst problem to have eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:12 PM
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I think it's more important on paper than in reality. I'm just about 5,10. I like short ladies, and some have been into me too. The affect whilst were getting close is still there; substantial height difference. Online dating is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:02 PM
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The Lil Pump of politics haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:53 PM
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I think it progresses that way, more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:50 PM
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“I tell him it’s hard for me and I tell him I am hurting. I don’t want to tell him to stop- it makes him happy and I don’t want him to just cheat." Why invest so much energy in a man that she feels would cheat on her if she did not allow him to get with other girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:29 PM
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Does he have savings, an alternative source of income, money to invest in his artistic career? Is he really talented, knowledgeable, does he have a network, offers from potential buyers? There's an assumption that there's no money in the arts, or that people who go into it are reckless, but that may not necessarily be the case. It's not necessarily immoral, but it could be a reckless thing to do, and it would be telling of how supportive the lady is to be quite frank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:15 PM
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I think if they are in a safe environment, and their family is accepting. Than they are most definitely happier than betas or incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:49 PM
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Within any orientation, I assume that their are preferences that are more likened to kinks or paraphilia's. For example, a gay man who is into twinks may be into the sex of his partner, and beyond that, he may have an additional interest in the feminization of his male partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:23 PM
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No, but oft times women get resentful if they have to. It's kind of funny how that works out eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 07:29 PM
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The women that I have been the most successful with have been notoriously beautiful. The women within my league are the ones who ghost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 07:24 PM
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Half and half.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:59 PM
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This rule assumes men and women view attraction in the same way, which in my opinion isn’t valid It actually states that men and women view attraction differently. Men's attraction to women is distributed more evenly and forms a Belle curve, women's attraction to men is distributed more radically and forms a Pareto curve. Edit: This man explains it very well. Let me know what you think? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vqRbScCIPU
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:46 PM
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Men express how they are feeling often enough. They also seek help often enough. In general, society doesn't care about how men feel. That's the issue. "Toxic Masculinity" is a cop-out that we are using to justify the lack resources allocated to help men with their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:35 PM
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Well TRP takes it too the extreme. What is accurate though, is that women do not respond well to try-hards. So your first date should be casual and easy going. Conventional dates have too many barriers to get to know a lady, so you're effectively spending more resources for less of a connection. It's counter intuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:01 PM
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I remember being in High School, and one of those stories was on The View. All of the women were laughing except for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:52 PM
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Be clear that you are no longer attracted to him. Use that word. It may sound harsh, but it's authentic, and it will serve him later in life. He needs to understand that the way he was living was a major factor in why your feelings for him waned, and now that you've dealt with this, you can't feel attracted to him anymore. You should leave him immediately after. It will be extremely difficult for him, because he will feel like he was a failure, but hopefully he'll understand that his failures we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:02 PM
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I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 05:51 PM
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I have no qualms with casual sex, but I believe that our culture of excess, of which I am a willing participants, is not without consequences. I think we could be heading towards a future where, although we have increasing material abundance, we may be losing out on aspects of life that are intrinsic to the human psyche, and this translates into a disparity of emotional and or spiritual resources. (If I can borrow the term, I'm an atheist funnily enough lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 11:27 PM
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I know and it's appreciated, but we'll still want to let you go first IncaseThereAreSharksOnTheOtherSide... I mean. It is the gentlemanly think to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:53 PM
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they hate rich men who have more economic power than them They also absolutely hate tall and strong men, they prefer men close to their height with small frames as the last thing they want is a man with more physical power. Wait! You mean Russel Westbrooke, Christiano Ronaldo and Channing Tatum are the uggos, and I'm kingpin? Hello Ladies! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:49 PM
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Well down here, we have this dance regardless of the genders involved. It's called the Canadian Standoff. Also though, I have been raised to pay particular attention to my manners in the presence of women, be they young or old. It's called etiquette. I'm not thinking that they're weak or anything, it's just a courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:43 PM
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I think your view of history is not accurate. I'm also inclined to think that you're not quite familiar with what love in a LTR actually looks like. No disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:37 PM
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You may have a point, many fetishes arise from some sort of anxiety, or trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:22 PM
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Cuckolding has ruined interracial porn for me... welp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:00 PM
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Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:48 PM
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I'm on the fence with that one. Neurologically, I think that's a sound assertion, but in terms of developing a personality that we would call "psychologically tough", I think it's debatable. Edit: It may depend on the circumstances to eh? Like for certain things women would be more resilient than men, and vice versa for other circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:45 PM
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What do you think? I look younger than my age too, but recently my jaw has gotten bigger, so I'm catching up finally. Do I have a better chance of a large age gap relationship because I look a lot younger? Yeah I think so. Where I'm from, 30 year old dudes are dating 20yr olds pretty regularly. At 25 my ex was 19, and her bf now is 30. None of her friends felt it was odd or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:16 PM
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Yep. This one is pretty much like.. you're getting it in (unless you're being a real pick, can't say I haven't been at times heheh). Say something slick, and then the bitty does this thing where she kind of looks down, her face will follow the angle of her eyes slightly, her visage will linger there, but then her eyes shoot up to meet yours. BAM!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:10 PM
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In my view, the world could do with less dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:29 PM
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our society is choosing this Yeah it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:07 PM
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I'm more patient now than I've ever been with women. More easy going too. I find that I am more capable of being less responsive to disrespect (self-pity, shame, depression), and more receptive to reciprocal behaviour from women too (I just direct my attention elsewhere). It's also made me more appreciative of having plutonic friendships with women, not that I hadn't had any prior, but I'm more recognisant. I also care very little to convince people that my opinions are correct, and this makes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:46 PM
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oof -,-
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:28 PM
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Cheers now I know how to treat eggplant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:03 PM
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Made less mess then the mom. Correction. You lived with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:00 PM
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I'm a huge fan, but Patrice isn't Tyrone by any stretch. He was pretty transparent about how much game he had to put on to score outside of his league, and to maintain the power dynamic of between him and his "wife". Patrice was a genius!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:55 PM
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Restaurant work is full of sexual harrassment and drug pushers. I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:41 PM
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Cheers. Thanks for the anecdotes, and the compliments. So you touched up on a notion that seemed pretty interesting in the first one. Labour. Is this in the sense that you were compensating for the lack stimulation, and this would feel sexually or emotionally laborious? As an aside, I'm enjoying this back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:10 PM
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1.Is the cultural narrative of women facing sexual harassment in the workplace representative? I don't think it's representative of every career or industry. Especially at the rates that they are projecting. I wouldn't be surprised if their assertions were true about Hollywood and the pop music industry. 2.Why don't more people talk about women choosing to have affairs with colleagues and bosses? Because it happens a whole lot, it may represent an aspect of female sexuality that can hurt their n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:46 PM
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It's because she has no clout in the mainstream. She hasn't since the 90s, so they're not going to pay her well. It's great that she is talented, but this has more to do with influence, and definitely not of the artistic kind. Oscars have a lot more to do with cinema as a vocation, but even if it is a respected honour, the products that get praised with such an honor are not widely popular. As follows, you may be a celebrated Oscar winning actor or actress, but it's not representative of the inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:30 PM
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Michelle Williams She was a star on Dawson's Creek. She hasn't had a great career.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:21 PM
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the average model is paid pennies. This holds true for the average actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:16 PM
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I was just about to say that too. I'll never get into that situation again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:11 PM
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Your anecdotes from Portugal[..]There is a MASSIVE difference between Latin American cultures and Western ones. Iberian cultures and Latin American cultures are also very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:03 PM
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I think many women have so many suitors that they can easily overlook valuable males whom they would probably want around in a different context.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:30 PM
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Cheers. That's pretty kind of you to say thanks again. Some people, man or woman, find the basics fairly outside of their comfort zones. My intentions are probably not more or less benevolent than buddy's, but my approach may be different. I know a few boys that complain about how prudish ladies can be, and in some cases I assume that this can't be helped you know? People are different. I know some ladies who are anything but tactile, but my estimations are that those are few and far between. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 07:26 AM
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Rule with the carrot, not the stick. Look at you being all concise and shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 11:56 PM
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Jammy darling, are you feeling okay? Any man with an Iota of genuine interest for good sex, and is attentive enough will know what he's doing. The rest has to do with whether or not the woman would be attracted to him at that point. There are Chadly men who are probably great. Other popular men may not be very good at it. Vice versa for the less sought after men out there. It seems like maybe necessity could push men into learning how to please women sexually to compensate for what they're lacki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 11:33 PM
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mood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:53 PM
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I think most women are not bi, but most women have the capacity to engage in homosexual acts with women, and live the lifestyle for some period of time. I honestly would have enjoyed dating a straight woman, but I have only dated women who would identify as bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:24 PM
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Apparently, its an epigenetic occurrence. It occurs in the womb where androgens are produced to regulate the hormones of the mother, that are being influenced by the growing foetus, and those androgens effectively block the masculinization of male foetuses' brain, and exacerbate the masculinization of female foetuses' brain. It's also a stress response apparently, but even that does not guarantee that the child will grow up to be a homosexual. (I'm not sure if I explained it well, I'm not entire…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:03 PM
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If you are the type who works best in isolation, than I think it could be very effective. If you need more social stimulation, you'll likely find it even harder to be motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 08:55 PM
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Of course it matters. It should matter to most of TRPillers out there IMO, because they seem to want to engage with women who are submissive in bed. In my experience women become very submissive after a couple orgasms quite naturally. As an aside I also enjoy giving pleasure, because I love the build up, and the way they move, sound and feel whilst guiding them to an eventual climax etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:33 PM
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Status can still be impressive to me, but It's just not a substantial part of the equation in terms of selecting a woman to be my potential mate. I think men will respond to status, but women will attribute more importance to status than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 05:23 PM
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I think you have a negative view of fathers in general, and you may resent your mother for not being more assertive in the household, maybe also for coddling him and your brothers (if you have any).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 05:18 PM
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The singularity has started lol! I'm with ya there bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:27 PM
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Notice that there is a difference between mothers doing most of the work at home, and mothers not being appreciated for their work. Our civilisation glorifies working mothers. Our civilisation does not glorify working or SAH fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:27 PM
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I think you're mistaken. Father's are not praised for merely being fathers in western society. I think you need to make mental backflips to convince yourself that motherhood isn't placed on a pedestal in the West, especially a full-time working mother. Virtually no one praises average men in our civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:59 PM
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I think it's just the general misogyny in society where men are revered for lesser accomplishments and women are criticized while they do more. And it's hare to find a restaurants that are not booked solid during fathers day eh?/s I think your mother likely sheltered you from the opinions that society, or even your close community likely had of your father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:25 PM
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Because it assumes that all of those things are somehow produced by sexually frustrated men for the purposes of acquiring women. I think it's more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:14 PM
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Dude this doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:10 PM
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In the past, men have fought wars to win women. Not to win women over. Have you ever seen the propaganda that they used to get young men to enlist in WW1 and WW2? It Had pretty much ZERO to do with acquiring women as "objects", and EVERYTHING to do with convincing the men that it was their duty to protect women and children by sacrificing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:10 PM
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the ass was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:53 PM
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I recently told my friend about my suicidal thoughts, and it was pretty much just so he knows that he's not completely alone in feeling this way, and to stress the fact that I know it's a persistent, but most importantly, irrational impulse to have. I wouldn't act on it, because it would be a burden on others frankly. Oh yeah as for the response: We started talking about random stuff soon after, and took a walk DT.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:39 PM
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There are men who could be masculine and loving though. There are very feminine and distant women also, so I do not see where the interest lies in pursuing a more effeminate guy if the purpose is to find a loving man. It would make sense if you were looking for more ambiguous men, because you find their features more attractive. Assuming that you are still filtering out the men who are approaching you, It may just be that you are more receptive or drawn to the men who are not very loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:28 PM
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If I were ready to have kids sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:54 PM
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He’s not going to be the gentle loving type of guy. I don't think the two are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:53 PM
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I have used that concept in a playful way, but since I don't offer sex as a "reward" or a "prize", than this behaviour would feel quite foreign to me. I don't know to which extent women have viewed sex with me in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:50 PM
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not in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:17 PM
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Guys tend to be attracted to women who remind them of their mothers. So I should be attracted to a grade school teacher who can't handle her liquor on the rare occasions that she drinks? Lol I guess it's fine, but I sincerely hope that you don't tell your "Scandinavian Goddesses" this! hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:39 PM
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I like that I am starting to recognize some of you. It's like a username or a flare kind of serves as a face to me. It's odd but kind of enjoyable. Is anyone else gettin this? P.S - cheers for the lot of you haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:22 PM
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Well don't you think that the men have enough agency not to act that way? I will not deny the affect that a beautiful woman has on me, but If I feel like she's using that for selfish reasons, and will not likely reciprocate my interest, than I will not give her what she's looking for. Yeah, but ultra feminine women care, and I'm a dumbass for women who remind me of my mother. I don't think I can unpack this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:07 PM
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but maybe they'd judge a guy more harshly on his personality? I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 07:18 PM
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I'm more disappointed with how men will give them that kind of power frankly. You teach people how to treat you in the end, and there are women who don't care for that kind of attention as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 07:04 PM
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Women are easier on them so I don't think it would feel like such feat to them as it can for many of the dudes out there. I'm sure it feels amazing for them too, but I wouldn't say it would be the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:58 PM
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It's dopamine. They thrive on it, and they want it in increasing amounts. It's the same reason why women are so active on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:14 PM
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Q4All: While these women certainly fall towards the extreme, do you think we as a society have a crisis of personal significance to some extent? I was thinking about this once before, and I boiled it down to this: We are beginning to attribute more significance than necessary to euphoric experiences, and we ascribe to "euphoria" an unwarranted depth of meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 05:39 PM
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I thought in the US the main driving force for circumcision was cultural That's not entirely true. Although that's how the population generally understands it in NA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 11:53 PM
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I'm a fairly agreeable dude, when it comes to women. Much less now than I used to be. This isn't a humble brag, but what contributed to my skills to satisfy women had to do with a young lady who made me feel "okay" with indulging the more dominant sides of my sexuality, which I had repressed because I didn't want to be abhorrent, and the messaging that was surrounding me made me feel that my sexuality was abhorrent. I was already very good at the more sensual side of things, and I enjoy that a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 11:43 PM
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Q4All: Why do you think research shows women are more likely to quit a pursuit in the face of adversity? (Evo psych? Social constructs? etc..) It's much more innate than society would like to deal with IMO. Q4All: Do you consider perseverance a masculine trait? Perseverance is a masculine trait in so far as it is more of a deciding factor in the outcomes of the men of our civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:52 PM
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If I'm really into a woman, I devolve into a petrified/sweaty/rambling buffoon. I try to capitalize on social situations where I can just 'kick it' to meet women. It's less stressful. I often feel like it's my fault, because the quality of a date does depend on my ability to make it entertaining for her, and it's difficult for women to feel attracted to a man who is intimidated by them... understandably. It can be tough, but by owning it, I can work on it. I had to figure out how to feel confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:14 PM
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I think it's the contrary really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:34 PM
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Congrats brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:58 PM
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Infused olive oil, that's the secret weapon. I'd have that, and a mess of ribs on the side, and a cold Duvel... heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:50 PM
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Half an hour till my shift ends, skipped lunch. Tell me more please. I NEED THIS! T.T So was it like sautéed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:32 PM
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I don't even think the ladies at CERN could get into that kind of "pillow talk"!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:56 PM
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If she's still coming round after that than she must really like you. Sweet Jeez bud! You got to give the girl something to work with!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:49 PM
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Bruh...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:44 PM
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Dark Souls 3. I haven't played it yet, but it looks dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:39 PM
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dyou think she may have...."The Gift?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:38 PM
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What do you talk about when you're cuddling? Not trying be to intrusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:29 PM
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Sorry to hear that man. Keep your head up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:25 PM
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This qualifies as torture. It's a pretty lax sentence too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:20 PM
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Thought about it... If you can handle puppies dying all the time by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:00 PM
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I don't think that's a motivating basis to pursue such a demanding/creative career. Try finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:56 PM
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Looks oddly delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:54 PM
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We sent it your way. From Canada with love haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:51 PM
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Six blade knife - Dire Straits and a cold Beaus. Daydreaming about this whilst doing sweet fuck all at work. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:45 PM
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So I should drive up to the states lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:17 PM
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1.What is your pill? None. 2.What is your lifetime PiV sex N count? Four 3.What is your lifetime oral, anal or PiV N count? O = 7, A =1, Piv = 4 4.What is your lifetime casual sex or ONS partner count? Three. I've only been in one serious relationship. 5.In the past 12 months, what is your N count? Two but only one of them escalated to PIV. I'm 27 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:05 PM
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lol good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 07:29 PM
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Cheers! Glad I could provide some insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 07:03 PM
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So have you been meeting potential wives? My Muslim friend told me that her parents arrange meetings for those purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:56 PM
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To be honest, men typically do not get over rejection as well as women do, because we have much longer stretches of involuntary celibacy in between failed relationships than women usually have. Although the pool of women that we are attracted to may be quite vast, in comparison the amount of women who would return our interest is microscopic . We also have to be the most proactive in every step that initiates and allows the relationship to persist. At any one of those progressive steps, we are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:11 PM
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Yeah that's a doozy. Do you want to be Muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 04:33 PM
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That's not true, men are statistically more likely to be victims of violent crimes. People die from muggings, strays, just because they think you looked at them wrong etc. I have some cousins that were my age living in the States, every man in the household has been killed, including the father. So even if you do not give it any thought, you definitely should. I'm trying illustrate that women are more precautious, and that's a good thing, and as men we could learn from them, but it has a lot mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 04:27 PM
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If you’re working 40 hours a week doing from home making $100k and your wife is working 60 hours a week in a office making $50k, do you still expect her to do most of the cooking and cleaning after work? Why or why not? No. I would be around to clean so I would probably do it more. If I'm at home most often, I'm probably cleaning up after myself anyway. No matter how good your salary is, you can't live off of takeaway so the same logic follows for cooking eh? If you’re a nurse making $90k a year…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:59 PM
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Yeah that's my point. That was a sharp move on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:46 PM
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Well I am not the same way IRL. I don't think whether you're turned on or not is relevant to any of us. Especially on reddit eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:39 PM
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Guy 4. I never would have thought of taking a pic of the license plate. I've been threatened before. I booked it, and hid for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:36 PM
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She's dope. Looks like I could learn a thing or two from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:34 PM
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You're really pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:23 PM
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Or maybe they hadn't thought about it because the question wasn't originally structured with those variables? And how do you know which ethnic origins and tax brackets are represented in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:18 PM
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That's actually what anyone RP or BP says, That's what the incels believe. TRP says that women, in their view, will go with a lesser man, but will always resent him, and her behaviour towards him will reflect that implicit resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:07 PM
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Pueller.... Ferris Pueller?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 11:03 PM
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Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 10:56 PM
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I've worked at a bar, and I've seen heaps brother. I've had to get in between some gnarly shit and some tweeked people twice my size. I get it, but just because we take more risks than women, doesn't mean that we are immune to many dangers that could go terribly for us. It also doesn't mean that women can't represent a risk to our safety either. Vice versa of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 10:52 PM
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we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:57 PM
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Women in their thirties, especially if they haven't had kids, would not have wrinkles on their bodies. I've never been with a thirty year old woman who was sagging. I think it's way early for that, but unless they had really big boobs, or a lot of cellulite, or was obese, but if that's the case she probably would have had those wrinkles and sags years before thirty. EDIT: Actually they could have gnarly stretch marks, but that would be more in cases of them having kids or, again, obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:38 PM
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So are you ok with that? You seem pretty bummed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:21 PM
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Keyword = Complain. Keyword = Women. Women complain heaps more than men, so it's only logical that they would complain more about having to listen to their SO's complaints. Could you imagine how they would feel if the men in their lives viewed their feelings as laborious?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:18 PM
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Unfortunately, many women are indoctrinated to lack empathy for men, and those women would be more susceptible to the feminist ideas that dehumanize men. I think many feminists need to acknowledge how their ideology has contributed to this lack of empathy towards men's psychological, and emotional well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:05 PM
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still a male virgin then I'm fucking pathetic What's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 10:43 PM
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Why not meet men in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 10:41 PM
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Outside of rich entrepreneurs or actors, or some sort of celebrity this doesn't happen. It happens a lot in the service industry. Many young, and attractive women hooking up with the vets, because they're holdin'. Heard many an unsavory yarn about this, witnessed it several times, and every now and then a scandal surfaces, but way less frequently than one could expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 10:28 PM
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You don't find your assertion ironic in any way? who’ve bought into patriarchy You mean in the fashion that you've bought into this narrative to justify your possibly sexist/racist views?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 10:23 PM
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I take extra care to NEVER have my latex leopard-print thong peeking out of my low riding jeans whilst sat at the bar with my rear end pushed out so temptingly (hellooo boys! ♥). So thankfully, no one has yet to confuse me for a gay prostitute. BUT should that EVER happen, I would be properly offended. I don't go thong shopping Winners yo! "It's exquisite gay male escort to you thank you very muchly sir! And you sir, definitely could not afford a dip in my succulent boy pussy hmmph!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:58 PM
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Man. I will pass on the death jambalaya, because what you think is a delicious seafood is a swift end for me. Her line was pretty funny. I think the smirk killed it for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:21 PM
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the internalized misogyny Those types of "one of the lads" girls are usually the ones who complain about being treated unfairly the most, and they do not seem to grasp how those grievances betray what they wish to project. When they actually obtain what they apparently wanted, i.e. being treated just like any other dude, they throw fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:13 PM
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It's all about perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:57 PM
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Men judge women more harshly for the quality and quantity of their ex partners then the reverse. I could see that, but I thought you meant social stigma. Also women are more likely to be assaulted during a date then men making dating a bit more dangerous for them. So women are smart enough to apply the precautions that men often ignore. That doesn't mean that you don't have to be careful as a man whilst dating. There many threats to an individual beyond the scope of rape eh? (Which you aren't im…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:33 PM
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I have maybe one male friend who has expressed this as what he wants in life, he also considers himself polygamous. He's been in a committed and monogamous relationship for seven years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:50 PM
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Why shouldn't you be careful in choosing partners? Are saying that men's choices in partners involve less social stigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:17 PM
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Women are in essentially the same position. If men don't give women attention they basically tell her that they do not value their presence. Not feeling enjoyed they will also loose interest in having sex. Maybe I have been deprived of enough intimacy that I can understand a woman's grievances in this respect. As embarrassing is it is to admit, I find myself cherishing the emotional/romantic aspects of my hookups a lot more than the sex. When I like a girl, and I'm able to have that kind of cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:14 PM
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Hard to say. What you have to understand is that they oft times have the option to pursue some semblance of romance with the more attractive men out there, as well as they can with the less impressive specimens such as us. It is not to say that a beautiful woman will not find herself developing feelings for men like you and me, they often do, but it may take time, we must put in comparatively more effort than the former to sustain those feelings. That's a tough one. I doubt it, but women would p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 08:02 PM
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I think that many young women haven't come to terms with what they want from men, and as such, they are finding that their encounters from their contemporaries aren't satisfying, because most young men would not like to scare off the women that they are into, so they in turn have taken a less proactive approach towards that kind of sexual expression. This is probably due to fear of doing something, or acting in a way that they have been informed would constitute violence against women, or disres…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 06:13 PM
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I genuinely like and am friends with every woman I've dated for more than a few weeks. You should be able to point to some that you do not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:22 PM
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I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:16 PM
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Bingo. It's so hard for them to grasp this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:16 PM
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Again, those are just assertions. Group identity does not necessarily determine social class. Keywords:Affect, individuals, different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:04 PM
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I think it makes sense honestly. A promiscuous person may find monogamy too limiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 11:49 PM
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Women have to be more honest about what they want. I'm sure most women want commitment, but not from the men that are offering commitment to them. I believe that women would love to enjoy sex, but many seem to gravitate towards the men who do not care if they get off anyway. It doesn't really matter at the end of the day. I can respect their decisions, but when they turn round and complain about being played, or that their man doesn't care about their pleasure, it begs the question; Are you real…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:30 PM
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Can't wait to get old, sweat weirdly, and creep out the youths one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 09:27 PM
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Simply naming the orthodoxy that you believe in does not establish any authority. All you are doing is backing up your assertions by labeling them "intersectionalism."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 09:20 PM
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It also became a term, embraced by the fetish community, for men who enjoy watching their wife or gf get fucked by another man. More recently the definition has expanded to mean even more things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 08:53 PM
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An infiltration of feminists in every relevant sector of our civilization, with manipulative use, deliberate misinterpretation, and/or blatant fabrication of statistics, coupled with a very low definition understanding of recent history, and a compulsion for our so called "patriarchal" power structures to paradoxically gobble them up; has given credence to a victim narrative that officially likened western women to an oppressed group such as a visible minority, in their view anyway, has created …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 08:38 PM
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What would be different? If I had strong feelings for her, I would express them more openly, but that would probably scare her off, at least at the beginning. Too full-on eh? Would you express things you currently repress? Yeah. Some of that may be TMI lol. Would you react in ways you currently have to prevent yourself from reacting? I'm sorry, but I just don't get what you mean here. What do you think the consequences of doing this would be, and why? Being 100% "myself"? I think it would probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:48 PM
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They want a woman who has a male sex drive. Not a male sex drive, but high.. enough. I would like a woman who enjoys making love to me. Isn't that what women typically want too? A BF who would like to make love to them? male interests. We have friends normally for those purposes. I don't find that particularly attractive, however if a woman enjoys some of those interests it could be fun. I don't care either way. I have a social life eh? a masculine communication style Not attractive. Key word; m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 07:34 PM
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cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 07:05 PM
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I assert that the world is flat. It's called creationism... see how that doesn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 07:01 PM
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I notice it all of the time actually. Average to slightly above average dudes seem to be equivalent to average to slightly below average women in their youth. As you get older it starts to equalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:54 PM
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Women and men are not differing social classes. They are all distributed within whichever social classes we have in the substrate of our civilization. The difference lies in how women and men typically acquire resources, and move up the social ranks. Society, needless to say, reserves a lot more pressure towards men to achieve those ends by their own gumption. They cannot likely marry into a higher social class like women can. If you would like to see that change, than encourage women to date do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:45 PM
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Hopefully GAI will not develop some implicit memory of the sick things that sick fucks will likely be doing to their sex bots, or any other utility bots for that matter. If it will, we'll be screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:18 PM
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Women have certain manners that we identify as feminine. I find them annoying at times, and yet at other times I am transfixed by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:14 PM
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I know this woman. We grew up together. She's extremely driven and ambitious, and successful especially for our age. HEAPS more resourceful than myself lol, well than most, and as such I kind of look up to her. I've also had a crush on her since I was like 4 or five years old, but that's neither here nor there. She has her own business, and she describes all of the work that she's doing as a sacrifice. She had to sacrifice time with friends, family, romantic relationships, and even her mental/ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:09 PM
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Women police each other too much, but it seems to not always be for the right reasons nor for any moral imperative. I would say that they coax many behaviours, and opinions from their gal pals with shaolin master levels of passive aggression, emotional and social threats. It's ridiculous. AND ANOTHER THING. Women!....I just don't understand the compulsion for them to hold each others hands and shit. Like aren't you adults? I haven't held a friends hand since I was like 5years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:54 PM
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TBH, although I could approximate that being born a woman would entail many advantages, I think that the disadvantages that men face can help to build character, and as such I wouldn't trade it. I would like to see more women acknowledging the dishonesty of this victimhood narrative. I've had one of my female friends gloat about all of the extra grants, and scholarship that are available to her because she is a young woman, and she uses this narrative that women were not allowed in universities …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:16 PM
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So I don't believe that this behavior was encouraged in men either. The west had a puritanical culture, and you still see artifacts of those beliefs in the more religious strums of our society today. For example, I grew up in a Baptist church, and it was clear that anyone who participated in those acts, man or woman, were heavily criticized. This is yet another widespread myth. Just because men happened to be prone to those behaviours at rates that were higher than that of women (and we still ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:00 PM
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You may have a point, but in this day and age, many men are encouraged to complain, or as they call it abandoning "manning up", and I think that only serves to making them less resilient, and I gather that an absence of resilience exacerbates the likelihood of depression. I think our civilisation has a bias against men, but that could be a bittersweet circumstance, in the sense that; the lack of opportunities and asylum reserved for men pushes the talented few amongst them to strengthen themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:30 PM
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I think it's a good way to build chemistry, but is has SFA to do with dominance. The whole point of teasing is to get some kind of back and forth goin..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:40 PM
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The worst part is men commenting "how lucky", "I wish that were me", "where was that woman when I was 13?"... What I think about is: Imagine the heaps of crazy this kid is likely initiated to. If there's any type of woman to dish out a face twisting, sleep with one eye open, post-sex cray cray conversation, it's likely the one who is pursuing a 13 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:37 PM
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Mm T H O Y ♥. Seriously though, many of us are so ungrateful here. Including me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:06 PM
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Both sexes complain. That's what living in a luxurious civilization does, it makes people less willing to exert themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:57 PM
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"Don't be that guy" was a consciously damning campaign. It's only affect is to make the men who are responsive to these messages (i.e the men capable of empathy who wouldn't brutalize and or rape women) feel culpable for acts that they wouldn't even conceive of doing. The theory of rape culture presupposes that male sexuality, and all displays of sexuality from men towards women are equivalent to rape. In the west, circumcision garnered tons of support due to a puritanical culture that had an ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:00 PM
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of a gap between a normal man's sexuality and your Harvey Weinsteins of the world. The messaging that young straight men are subjected to about their sexuality is what's creating this perception. Weather it is or is not indicative of the reality of a normal man's sexuality is irrelevant. It's been going on for ages actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:02 PM
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Q4All: Why do you suspect these men feel unable to express their sexuality? Can't speak for all of them, but I think it's not easy for most men out there. It's difficult in the sense that we get the constant messaging that we could be "unknowingly" hurting women, or that our sexuality is somehow dangerous or primitive. So we end up not being very aggressive, or rather enticing or seductive to women, because we fear being labeled a creep (predator), and so we ultimately bore them. It's almost lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:34 PM
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This is upside down, the submissive behaviour in women is a product of their arousal, and arousal, for both sexes but especially for women, is progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:27 PM
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Although I understand the merits of some of those ideas, I think most men and women do without even needing to find TRP community, I have yet to really use them. Needless to say, my encounters are often short lived. Ironically, the behaviours promoted by TRP seem to yield better probabilities for young men and young women to find relationships with each other, because young women seem overwhelmingly attracted to men who project many of those traits. I am aware that my morals, and my idealistic v…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:03 PM
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I always viewed eating disorders as being symptomatic of past traumas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:23 PM
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I'm sorry but I can't figure this post out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:46 PM
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I judge the women who try and get men that aren't interested in them romantically with sex, and then turn round and conveniently use those failed attempts to condemn the men that are actually romantically interested in them with all of that baggage. It's like, he's not getting any intimacy and also he has to deal with your bitterness, and then you play him, and you and your girls rationalize it like all men are bad, when it's abundantly clear that you value the chase more than you do a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:30 PM
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For a woman to get off in the "submissive" way, she would obviously need different things before the act progresses to that. It's likely why so many women think they can't get off from penetration. The prerequisites have not yet been fulfilled. When they are though, it's a completely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:22 PM
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I have a fairly stern expression, so people tell me to smile more all of the time. I'm a lad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:28 PM
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Correction. People run away from: the average looking crazy girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 10:38 PM
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They also have an easier time creating romantic emotional support systems. How anyone could think that this wouldn't have an effect on your emotional well-being is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:17 PM
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Most dudes settle in both categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:59 PM
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I miss seeing my sister dance, but I must say that world has not contributed positively to her self-esteem/image.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:32 PM
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Male, 27, Single, Not sure but probably not blue, straight. 3/10. I'm aware that my life is peaches compared to millions of people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 11:54 PM
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Het man. I love giving and receiving. Especially giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 11:29 PM
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Like why does it matter to anyone if a woman is stuffing her face with large quantities of food? I don't have any ill will towards fat people, but I do not like this "thin privilege" narrative. I think for TRP, and incels it feels like a slap to the face when they see how many fat ladies still have easier access to relationships than them. I personally get some residual embarrassment when one of my mates picks the fattest manliest lady at the binge and proceeds to do borderline XXX shit on the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:42 PM
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So how will the people who do reproduce change the landscape for generations to come? It's hard to tell. It's not like the dynamics between the sexes have completely flipped. What kind of men and what kind of women will reproduce? And what will their relationships look like? A plethora of different kinds of men and women will reproduce, as always. Will we ever reach a collective decision about new social contracts? Many may be attempted, and they will likely fail. Like most attempts at massive s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:26 PM
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Hey Goati! Still feelin bitter eh? Hang in there booboo! ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:19 PM
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Quite the opposite I gather. The last successful date I had was with an avid intersectional feminist. We debated vehemently (although respectfully), and found ourselves getting closer. I gather most male feminists aren't even trusted by their female contemporaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:14 PM
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But bunnies are reincarnated psychopaths. Hedgehogs FTW!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:56 PM
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How exactly would you define "emotionally available?" Can you flesh that out a bit? I mean there are reasonable ways to express interest or love for someone, that can conveniently be labeled "needy", but in another context are completely normal and healthy behaviours, that if they were lacking in a romantic context would actually be a sign of a failed pair-bound. Do you agree that a woman can be genuinely attracted to her husband even if she radically out-earns him? Well congrats to your rents. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:39 PM
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I personally have to disagree with this dichotomy. Physical contact is an essential part of emotional and psychological wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:31 PM
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If by neediness you mean: emotionally available, than "neediness" is fine. If by neediness you mean: extremely codependent and/or controlling, than it is not fine. If by independent you mean: resilient, reliable, pragmatic and/or resourceful, than I don't think any of the sexes would have a problem with that. If by independent you mean: emotionally unavailable, and/or makes no effort to propel the relationship forward, than who exactly would want that kind of engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:19 PM
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How should a man BE, nonverbally? Good posture, relaxed, speak calmly, because your voice gets deeper naturally. Eye contact is extremely important. Be well mannered and don't be afraid to touch her purposefully. Like if you want to draw her attention to something don't point at it, do as she would, she would probably tap your shoulder lightly or something to draw your attention, your arm etc. If you're confused as to what is appropriate as far as physical contact, observe how women talk to each…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 08:59 PM
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when I was in my early 20s the bulk of my sexual encounters were with older ladies. Now that I'm entering my late 20s, younger women in their early and mid 20s show more interest in me. I'm not entirely sure why that flip occurred, but I've witnessed this change, not complaining either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 08:32 PM
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plot twist: The man went home, had a less than enthusiastic wank on pornhub, and made some frozen chicken wings. watchedpursuitofhappinessandcriedhimselftosleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:59 PM
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I will admit that it would feel like a luxury to have feelings for a woman, and date her without constantly thinking about not "fucking it up" all of the time. At the end of the day though, It would be great if we weren't judged so quickly in negative ways, but I try and stay natural when I'm on a date instead of psyching myself out. Not an easy task, but I have had moments of brief success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:30 PM
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nowadays girls are being encouraged to go into STEM! How wild is that? They're also offered tons of grants and subsidies for those ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:57 PM
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To be honest, I think this is a false dichotomy. Career women could very well also be engaging in casual sex. No matter the intention behind there romantic pursuits, they could easily be casual due to a lack of time to engage in LTRs no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:44 PM
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simple as: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:24 PM
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I know eh? I don't think women typically mind doing most of the cleaning. Orderly people tend to like to control these types of things. I think they would understandably hate picking up after man-children though. Most adults do not mind cleaning as long as the other adults they live with aren't slobs, and clean up after themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:58 PM
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I guess that's sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:55 PM
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Germany has a standard something like this for age of consent, where it's not just about the age, but about whether other younger person feels harmed by it. The potential for abuse here is staggering...And the age of consent is 14 in Germany! So this law is far from needed. I think it's heinous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:59 PM
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Quite, but arguing is fun too! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:56 PM
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An adult who seeks a sexual encounter with a child clearly has issues, has little judgement, and if they're willing to enact such a transgression, they are likely to perpetrate others. 24 and 13, it's obviously more messed from the point of view of the adult. I also don't want to know what kind of adult is interested in drinking with a thirteen year old, let alone fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:32 PM
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Why is it OK to want "a man who will fix my car and put himself in discomfort so I don't have to", but it's not OK to want "a woman who will cook and clean for me"? Because our modern culture has taught women to look down on those activities. There are tons of women who enjoy cooking and prefer to do the sorting and cleaning (so that they know where things are). Heck I love to cook for others, and I love it even more when a woman that I'm dating wants to express her care for me by whipping somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:27 PM
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I agree with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:16 PM
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It's a wee bit beyond over the line. It's also a precedent that society does not want to set. A twenty-four year old and a thirteen year old is messed, and the double standard here is very telling of the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:02 PM
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"Yeah, it's a tad naughty, but a tad naughty is okay. People be tryin' to fuck. Not exactly a big deal we can't handle." ? In many circumstances you may have a point, but in many other's these women need to be taken to task. One of the most heinous examples of this would be from the Vagina Monologues, wherein the original monologue The Little Coochie Snorcer that Could, a thirteen year old is made to describe being plied with alcohol, and molested by a twenty-four year old woman as a "good rape"…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 10:42 PM
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Yeah.. I get you and it wasn't a reproach, but I find that women lack the understanding of what can motivate or thwart those types of actions. It sucks to say, but you have to show your guns to get them to back off. It's something that men grow up with more, and in the case of so many of us millennial men; we're taught to fear what's within us that can help us not to be victimized by those outliers , or to protect others that would be privy to those circumstances, because there's a common miscon…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 10:28 PM
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I have noticed that some lesbians seem to operate along different rules. A free pass to do things that others in more liberal circles seem to think is ok to other women or men, that if a straight man did would be heavily shunned, challenged or attacked for doing so. I've witnessed the face of a young lady twist in disgust, reddening with worry as a lesbian that had offered her a backrub, a whole bunch of friends where doing that as a joke like in a line, and proceeded to groping her breasts, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 09:32 PM
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being property of another guy This is something that women project onto men, and I'm tired of this shallow interpretation. Stating that you have a boyfriend, and the man backing off is not because men only respect a 'no' if they judge that you are the 'property' of another man. When you say you have a boyfriend, what you are actually communicating is an external threat. The man will back off to avoid violence with your male partner. It has nothing to do with men having reserved some special resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 09:03 PM
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It's dope that it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 11:27 PM
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Well it's kind of a sweet really. We're child hood lovers. Met when I was about 5 years old I think, and I was hooked ever since. She hasn't left my side since that day in 1996, well that's my first memory of her at least. Despite our SUBSTANTIAL age difference, we've made it work. Every time we crossed paths, I just couldn't keep my hands to myself, almost devouring her every time. No matter where I've been, any city, state, province or country, I could just call, and she will be there for me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 11:21 PM
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Guitar outro...Omg so Heidi and Spence were blah blah. We sit at the club and blah. We sit at Nobu and blah blah blah. Next episode we sit at Starbucks and blah blah blah, OMG can you believe what blah blah. Next Season, sitting at blah with blah doing blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 11:01 PM
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Have you ever scene : 16 Years of Alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 10:31 PM
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I have no clue how what you described became a 6yr LTR, but hey! More power to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 10:29 PM
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If by body positivity you mean, one recognizes that they aren't at the healthiest nor a very attractive weight, but this doesn't necessarily bother them, then I don't see how people would get mad at that. However, when one encounters the body "positivity" that seeks to perpetuate falsehoods like Healthy at any weight, or fat women that demand that men find them attractive, or demand the men that approach them be vastly more attractive than they are, then surely you get where one would call BS ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 09:54 PM
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Isn't that in TRP, ignore what women say and watch their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:38 PM
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Starfishing- The act of two people spreading their butt cheeks apart and touching and/or rubbing each other's assholes together. There's an alternate/parallel dimension where stated above is the acceptable norm for couples to express romantic companionship, and that quote, within that comment, within that post, within that alternate dimension/parallel universe would read: Starfishing- The act of two people spreading their lips apart and touching and/or rubbing each other's faceholes and/or tongu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 10:44 PM
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yolo!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 10:06 PM
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Q4All: What alternative do men have today? Alternative to casual sex? Or pretending to seek a serious relationship in order to obtain casual sex? Q4All: Why do women often feel "used" by sex? Well the sentiment of feeling used by sex, suggests that the person feeling used would have ascribed some value to their sexuality, and the sentiment that it was not adequately honoured or appreciated. On a cultural level men are not taught nor expected to value their sexuality. Definitely not like women. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 09:48 PM
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guys end up with nice women all the Are you in high school? Because I could them being favoured in that environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:18 AM
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SJW mission creep I find those random injections of politics pretty laughable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:17 AM
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I think you need to get out there, and get to know some men as individuals, rather than to categorize them in these little boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 12:14 AM
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Well there are some medical reasons to get a circumcision for men. But obviously the prevalence of circumcision has a lot to do with our civilization's religious roots, and I read something once that argued that it was to discourage masturbation in young boys/men. As for the reduced sexual pleasure, it may be that this was an intended outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:58 PM
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indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:46 PM
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heheheh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:44 PM
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I look down on sugardaddies way more than I look down on sugarbabies. And that'd be the fairest golddigger relationship in my opinion, because both parties already know what the intentions are. Or at least what the motivation is. Any one who pretends to love someone for the purpose of getting access to wealth is a contemptible person to me. Chads are despicable to me when they cheat, or use people for resources. Flake on there word, or are just obnoxious and impolite. I can't hate on someone for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:42 PM
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When my oldest brother was born my mom cried about how ugly he was. LOL this is terrible. I was a cute pudgy baby. And I still be cute and pudgy! :3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:33 PM
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I see what you did there edit: god bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:29 PM
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I think it's women with terrible self-esteem who try and compensate by projecting some holier-than-thou / way-2-effin'-good-4-u attitude. And yes, it's very cringey. Certainly on a dating app. Not saying that women wouldn't have standards, but to rudely put-down people that haven't even messaged you is pretty darn lame, and no dude wants to spend his time with a woman who's a buzz kill. Not very strategic to come off this way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:28 PM
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Say you have a lady in your life who's into you. The best way to turn her off is to try to hard to impress her, or to please her, and to project the idea that you require her to keep the ball rolling in your life. So it's not like it's 100% disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:34 PM
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True but I think if you were able to achieve that, than the result would take precedent. Especially if you exceeded her expectations dramatically. Which realistically would be no small feat. But yeah, generally speaking, women hate having to ask for such things. A good sign would be if she wanted to conform to what you prefer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:18 PM
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It's not a big deal. To be frank, the vagina is better. Something about anal is really arousing, and in my experience the women who are into it get off faster and more frequently. The problem is more like many men seem to have no clue what the feeling of sex with an aroused woman is like. It's kind of tragic really. Anyway.. when a woman has climaxed and/or is about to, her vagina gets extremely warm, and wet, the walls literally feel like they're inflating around your dick, this makes the vagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:01 PM
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Red Pill: It doesn't matter what other people think, so long as I try my hardest and do my best. So long as you understand how to pick your battles. Your credibility is extremely important, and women are especially receptive to this. Being dominant is not useful if the people within your community do not respect you. Blue Pull: It doesn't matter what the outcome is, so long as I feel good about the way I handled everything. So long as you understand that conflict is inevitable, and not having th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 09:31 PM
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In the video "Popular" by Nada Surf, he's the jock with the long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 09:21 PM
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The guy who learns a few chords and learns to sing and bashes out a few simple popular tunes. Truer words have never been spoken lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:14 PM
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I want to make it clear that I believe men ALSO do a lot of unselfish things for their gfs and wives. And I acknowledge that some women are terrible cunts. This is not a 'women good, men bad' post. Agreed. It also depends on temperament. Some men are selfish, some are selfless. Some women are selfish, some are selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:52 PM
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Yeah that's interesting. My generation is pretty much: women in school and men dropping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:27 PM
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Thank you for the insight. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:27 PM
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Stacy Sexpot walked up and said "sup fuckboy, let's go back to my place." You would pick Stacy. I have a short fuse so I may go home with her.... but I'd be tearin her a new one the whole way. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:24 PM
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Our value systems have been degraded. I don't understand why people make these vows, if they lack the mental fortitude to live by them. For the record, it sounds like you did right by the man. He probably couldn't appreciate it, because he was far more resentful about being sick and dependant than he was recognisant of your efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:28 PM
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Logically, if he just stopped pursuing Stacies and looked for women in his own league, he would be loved and adored and not hurt. Why don’t we tell men the same thing? You're assuming that they are looking to date Stacies. Most average men find it difficult to attract an average or below average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:23 PM
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Say hello to polio.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:29 PM
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To be fair.... yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:58 PM
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I like your scatological name haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 12:35 AM
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whatever works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 12:34 AM
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Wouldn't say it was like that, but I've seen that shit too. It's a turn off really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 12:32 AM
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lol Nope, and I have no clue if she was just talking to her friends, and her mum overheard. Or just curiously asked or something. Maybe my race had something to do with this lol. You know like "Is it true that chocolate men are big down there" type of thing. Upper middle class women rarely stray far from the auld meds' cabinet. Maybe an extra sedative played a role in this inquiry. Alas, I shall never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 11:34 PM
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MrButtholePoopy.. Christ! just noticed haha. Quite the wordsmith eh? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 11:14 PM
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I'm not saying they would be ignorant of the crime, I'm saying it's well known he's done it, or even gloats about it. Like in the example that OP provided. If a man was really attractive but was blunt about knowingly fucking a 15 year old girl, would this be a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 10:21 PM
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Yeah man. It seems like it's a trophy for them. I couldn't imagine having a conversation about my ladies peach with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 10:08 PM
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and friend circle attention That's what clued me in on how sex-obsessed women can be. Even my ex's mum knew what I was packing.. Still can't fathom how they got into THAT conversation. :S
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:52 PM
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Women jolt when you hit the cervix. It looks pretty painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:49 PM
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I see. Do you think that's the average opinion when it comes to ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:41 PM
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None of them were stunning male models, most were average guys. I suspect this is how it works for most women, especially since a podcast discussed it. Your priorities are such that you find this more attractive, but in the nebulous world where young women are increasingly relying on SN as a proxy for social interaction, and validation, the way in which they pick which man is interesting, and which man isn't will work along the same lines as they would select which Instagram to follow and which …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 08:21 PM
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It wouldn't turn you off, if he knowingly fucked a 15 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 06:44 PM
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We still have dollar beer nights You from the US? Yeah booz is cheap round yours eh? A pint in Ontario is like 6-9$.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 06:23 PM
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you're gonna earn more money they more you advance your career. Imagine being as free as you are now but with more money! They want something more profound than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 06:09 PM
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I think this may play a role actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 05:52 PM
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She's slept with more people! That's... Or it's because, should his LTR of 10years fail, the probability of him getting another one are relatively low, compared to the average woman, or he'll be single longer, in most cases. It's not like having a very small pool of potential partners could affect someone in any way I guess./s I don't think the average woman would enjoy the dating experiences of the average man very much at all. I don't know why it's so difficult to have a little acknowledgment …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 05:49 PM
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But I think it would matter if they were convicted of statutory eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 05:21 PM
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At best it will stop the assault But isn't this way better than just letting it happen, and regretting it later?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 05:11 PM
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Will take a look. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 12:48 AM
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Unfortunately Kibbe is kind of a lost art, most women won't know about. I hadn't a clue about all of this lol. So it's broken down by face and body type?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 12:36 AM
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I had no clue we could use "gamine" in English. Though in French for a boy it would not have the e at the end. Good idea anyway. Next time I go shopping, I'll have to go with a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 11:54 PM
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I think that's not a good strategy. You should just make sex into a conversation piece when you're getting to know her. So you know what you both have in common well before getting in the bed. It's also a crucial part of flirting too, when you're talking about what you like, stuff you'd want to try. It's a much more interesting conversation to have than the weather, or what's new on Netflix lol. So yeah you're right for being proactive in bed, because people need to be turned on to have sex, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 11:47 PM
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The law is on my side. Silence is not explicit consent. Peoples boundaries are fluid from time to time but most people have enough respect for others not to take advantage of that. I get that, but wouldn't it have made the whole situation simpler to deal with if you had just stuck to your hard 'no' in the first place? Your approach seems really inefficient if the goal is to not have someone do something to you that you do not like, why not you just stop them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 11:32 PM
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They will need a load of problems as well before they begin disavowing the radicals. Let's hope this happens sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:34 PM
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Where are you from? And do you live in NA?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:33 PM
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I think Tom Hardy is beautiful, I don't think much about his bowel movements or swollen ankle either.. You may find examples of this on deviant art/jk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:22 PM
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Say no to drugs. Say nope to dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:14 PM
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Yep. Learning this was particularly frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:59 PM
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•What are your thoughts on "negging" or what many of us refer to as playful banter? If it's done in a playful way, I welcome it. I'll dish it and I'll take it. •Do you find men and women who razz to be "assholes"? And if so what constitutes "asshole" to you? Not necessarily, there's a difference between teasing, and putting someone down. •Do you find that people who are comfortable with one another naturally do this? I usually do this with my friends, it's a way to show your affection. Especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:20 PM
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I've experienced this, the most the girls would do is mouth "sorry", as they would trail behind the brutish young men, but that was High School though. Fast forward years later. Another example; a man sent a homeless dude flying, because the homeless man 'apparently' got too close to his dog, he was attractive and tall, his girl was with him, young, petite easily a nine(she was really something). I went up to challenge the cunt, he obviously justifies his behaviour (homeless man was easily past …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:09 PM
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•They’re too influenced by their girlfriends emotions - i.e codependent. It’s scarily easy to drag them down into your negative emotional space, which doesn’t help either of you. Preach! I have done this so many times, and I should have not been so sensitive to her moods. It frankly just made things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:26 PM
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I used to be this type of a cringe lord. After being good and burnt by some of the behaviour that you pointed out, I finally had enough, and worked on not being like that. I'm not necessarily slanging poon left and right. I still have self-esteem issues, but I don't let them get in the way anymore. If a man can own his shit, there's hope for him yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:24 PM
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Figure out your inner darkness, fester in it, understand it. When you have truly felt what pain you are capable of inflicting on others and onto yourself, chose not to. Women aren't necessarily attracted to assholes, they are attracted to masculinity. Assholes exhibit certain masculine traits, and since they are typically outgoing, and likely to approach, women notice them more. Certainly, the uncertainty that their behaviour may inspire within young women, could make them, in turn, attribute fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 05:29 PM
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EDM raves are terrible. The music is trash, and you don't require an orgiastic display of debauchery, unscrupulous sex and drugs to do exciting or fulfilling things in youth. I've had my fair share of partying, and I envy my friends who spent their time and money on better things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 10:31 PM
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just because they're jealous they never got invited It's also very mainstream, so naturally, countercultures are shifting away from this. If every stickler is doing something, it doesn't feel very rebellious now eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 10:26 PM
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To be honest. The majority of women in the west that would actively push laws that seem or are anti-male, do not believe that they are. They, as most, believe that it's for the greater good. Often, it's when they have boys that they begin to profoundly examine these policies, motions, laws and practices, because they become much more apparent to them. They can see first hand the effects of those kinds of policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 10:21 PM
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women who often come from poverty and their only way out is by getting into a relationship with these men. Assuming that these women are above the tragically low median IQ (83 points), than they have options other than marrying rich. Even if they were nearly intellectually inept, they would probably be competent enough to live a healthy life, no matter how modest, and seemingly valueless such a lifestyle may look to you. This is not a relationship about mutual attraction and values. Rather it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 09:59 PM
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The idea that any traits, that are categorized as masculine (rightfully), can be inherently toxic is baseless. It removes all context from the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 08:26 PM
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You'd have sex, but you would never be able to have a loving/sexual relationship with a woman. She envisions a world where women are all lesbians outside of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:58 PM
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This is very true. A huge % of women aren't "conventionally attractive" and it's a struggle and men don't want to acknowledge. Who sets these conventions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:10 PM
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been on both ends of that.. regrettably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:03 PM
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i would have thought the guy would have at least similar success to his wife but apparently, it was not even close. Everyone knows that men are far less wanted. From boyhood to your deathbed, you work with the cards you are dealt. The majority of men will never know the feeling of being desired in a comparable way that women do. TRP engages that fantasy so that they don't have to come to grips with this reality. Women are less desired as they get older, sure, but they are overall more wanted tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 10:24 PM
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Overreacting to any curve balls she pitches your way, is a sure way to turn her off, no matter how attractive you all. Ladies hate a spaz lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:10 PM
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They need to bond with other young men that are more apt than them socially and physically. The more time they spend with such friends the more they'll feel confident to make the necessary changes in their lives. It's like when you're with that mate who always wants to climb shit. You think you can't but he gives you a hand, all of a sudden, you finish the climb on your own, and you get to share that view of the city. Challenge, fear, a small push, perseverance and reward. They need those kinds …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 12:46 AM
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Seems there's a bit of an unrequited feeling for "Chad" going on. Nah we confuse what we've seen from women's behaviour round more attractive men, and assume, "well if she's acting like this round him, than he must be better".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 12:15 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 09:22 PM
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For example, my friend might feel like his girlfriend laughs more at someone else's jokes, but he doesn't feel jealous because she enjoys his cooking more Acquire relationships like pokémon cards I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 08:38 PM
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The problem that you wish to resolve is asked with an inversed question. Your assumption that men had a group identity that they sought to provide privileges for is entirely incorrect, but understandable given the ideological baggage that has skewed our modern day understanding of history after the industrial revolution, which we would call modern history nowadays. To answer your question you would have to look deeply to really try to immerse yourself in our collective history, and to contextual…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 11:12 PM
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RP or not, many people will try to appear dominant as a way to compensate for their lack of social skills. It can fool people at first, but it betrays itself quickly, as you have pointed out in your addendum above. Men such as myself will instead collapse into a stuttering mess of perspiration and crippling timidity. It's embarrassing, but perhaps not as much as the behaviour described above. Next time I find myself feeling shy whilst on a date, I'll think of the dialogue that you had with this …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 10:32 PM
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I'm a black male. So is the term toxic blackmaleness reasonable? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 09:57 PM
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It's pretty simple. Women are extremely sensual beings, granted. Should they stop associating sex with self value? Probably not, because it's extremely difficult to change the way a person is wired sexually. It's best for them to take ownership of their feelings, and not engage in casual sex if it makes them feel undervalued or ashamed. If it doesn't than go for it. Here's an anecdote; I was offered a threesome, my girl at the time was 19 and beautiful can't begin to describe her, and she also h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 09:09 PM
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fair enough. Thanks for the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:49 PM
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man it’s a rush cruising along at 80 completely Fuckin laugh dude. Must be!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:48 PM
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Yeah figured I should start with something stockier than a dual, but christ! I really want a DRS650 Suzuki or a Honda XR650L (been fantasizing about that one). Good suggestion. You takin'er on the highway yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:05 PM
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triumph bonneville That's dope man. I'll probably get a cruiser first, because they are way cheaper where I am. When I reach the west coast I'll get the dual. How many CCs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:37 PM
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Honda dual sport. Those babies can take a beating. Plus I got a mate who moved to Victoria so we're going to do some touring on the west coast boyo! I'll probably end up buying one in bc. The market it is pretty shite round here. What kind did you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:42 PM
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They need a respite from the shallow hierarchy of High School and bad Colleges.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:49 PM
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Trying to get one this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:46 PM
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It's accurate because Jim is desired by many women throughout the series, and he's always willing to sacrifice to make pam happy. To the point where pam actually starts to become unreasonably demanding of him to put his dream aside (and more resources for their family), to cater to her insecurities. She threatens him with a separation to do this. So he's a nice guy, and had to work really hard for something TRP was able to maintain, albeit terribly, for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:42 PM
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drag'em out, drag'em out, that'll do... Probably a mix of everything you just mentioned. When I see a dude with those physical traits, I can't help but feel that it would be worthwhile. But if I had the choice between being taller and more athletic, and being charismatic and successful. I would chose the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:35 PM
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Women get resentful, because you initiating is an expression of you wanting her. If she initiates all of the time, she will not feel wanted quite obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:31 PM
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In short... be robots...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:27 PM
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I wouldn't say that I would hate a weak woman. I also believe that men tolerate this, but it's probably a source of frustration. A weak woman can prove less united, when things get tough, and to me working as a team is extremely important. She could be inclined to being physically or emotionally unfaithful, because she would feel a lacking in arbitrary and frequent gestures for her validation, or your busy working to better yourself. Say you are trying to raise kids. In my opinion a weak parent …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:03 PM
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It's not deadweight to raise your children. Something that people seem to forget is that children actually need a lot more time with a parent per day, than our modern civilisation permits. Not only should we be in favour of this, we should also live more modestly to permit this type of upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 07:22 PM
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No, women are not sexually attracted to men based on socioeconomic status. Of course they are, but human brains developed for the most part with no concept of currency, so using money as a proxy for SES is incorrect. Infamy, competency and popularity are better indicators of SES.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 07:07 PM
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Moral !== Altruistic. It's not amoral to want to minimize the number of people that you engage sexually with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:38 PM
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That's because most men give women the benefit of the doubt, because categorizing women's sexuality is perceived as somehow oppressive. If a woman is into lesbian porn I automatically would assume that she was at least bisexual, and if I'm in a relationship with her, as I regard her sexuality equally to my own, and I'm monogamous (which I always am)... she doesn't get that drunken make out with her gal pals free pass, because it's B.S. If I were to do the same thing, it wouldn't be permitted, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:09 PM
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men that aren’t married to equally nice women. I really think theres just a shortage of black males overall and some women would rather be a baby mama then do without. Have they ever thought of dating outside of there race?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:06 PM
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interesting idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:58 PM
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They could start families with modest hardworking black men if they wanted too, and yet they chose the deadbeats. It seems honest, hardworking and modest earning men are not attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:54 PM
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Christ! I wish I was that tall b.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:50 PM
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Pretty much the same here. I'm flexible with politics as long as we agree on a few basal principles. Free speech is a big deal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:20 PM
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I see so definitely at least slightly taller eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:12 PM
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I'm not a criminal.. never have been, and I do not hold my mother responsible for any of my actions in life, but her choice to be with my father was made despite the plethora of suitors that she's had. She has told me this herself. She chose him, because her other suitors were boring to her. Simple as. They all have moved on to have families of there own, and guess what? They didn't leave them. To pretend like childhood abandonment is not correlated to a host of psychological, criminological and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:00 PM
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What is your honest view about height? Meaning.. generally speaking, between you and possibly the women that you know (if this has ever been discussed). What is the cut off for how short a man can be to be attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 10:56 PM
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We black men are, on average, less educated so we earn less. We are more likely to be incarcerated, and we have a lower life expectancy etc. And all of this happens because our mothers CHOOSE to pursue relationships with deadbeats and thugs who DEGAF about being in the same city, state or province, country.. fuck it... in many cases same blasted continent to be able to protect there own bastard children. I love my mother, and everything she's done for me, she really went above and beyond to rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 10:18 PM
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In case you haven't noticed, my generation is frail, and hedonistic...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 10:05 PM
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The longer I live in this country, the more appreciation I have for the culture. I see it as a culture where women are respected by men and that strives to maintain an egalitarian society for women. That is something to be commended. Western man here. Glad you noticed. Now can you please explain this to Western women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 08:06 PM
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[...]a young woman might take a feminist course in university, but then her friend gets raped at a frat party, and the liberal university tries to cover it up and pressures her not to go to the police because the frat boy's parents are donors. Source please? I am Canadian, maybe I should have mentioned this earlier. Over here there's no mistaking the ideological bias that our current regime holds. It's radical intersectional feminism in all of it's sexist and racist glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 07:54 PM
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The issue is that the more radical feminists have amassed a lot of institutional power. Or rather, the more radical elements of the ideology are being inculcated into law, and government as they have in academia. What is your definition of feminism? What significance do the terms feminist/feminism hold for you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 06:37 PM
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I don't think it's possible to accidentally rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 05:59 PM
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I'm just saying that it's a strategy that toxic women will use. They'll pretend to be kind, especially to other women, and when they are not 'round, they start working on degrading the other's reputation. There are tons who do this. Even as a man, when I see that, I'll keep my distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 05:48 PM
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Yes I have personally. It's almost bi-polar the way they act. You don't know unless there's some political conversation, or something topical that's mentioned in the media, but when they get heated they're very clear about their ideals and their contempt for all men (if not hatred for us). I find it astonishing how little moderate feminists know about radical feminists. I used to think it was some kind of collusion, but now I'm inclined to believe that they honestly just aren't aware of the hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 05:42 PM
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I wonder if sexual frustration has something to do with this..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 05:07 PM
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I'm a feminist and I don't "know" that. I work with pretty much all feminists[...] I fucking LOVE men too. Are you willing to disavow the schools of thought within feminism that preach the contrary? And also, do you believe that they should remain academic subjects within your ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:52 PM
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Women do lie a lot too to increase their apparent RMV. Many pretend to be much kinder than they truly are, and they are formidably talented in those respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:41 PM
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dunno dunno don't care I believe she is a person Has a bachelor ever been elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:34 PM
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I even invited a female coworker to a BDSM party. If I were Christian, I would take this as evidence that the end-times are near.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:05 PM
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It's only nasty when men do it silly./s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:03 PM
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because real men just do this stuff naturally. They don't, they just arrive at the answers earlier in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:43 PM
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lel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:15 PM
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PMS is not a license to act like Vlad the Impaler. There are women who understand this. Should you be targeted by a woman who does not get this, or the darkness is too strong for her to contain, I suggest that you have a few tools ready to save your skin. 1) Stay away from any reminiscent stories about how you met, things you've done or places you've been together. This will begin as an enjoyable conversation, but will swiftly turn sour as she is reminded of something you may have said or did th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 11:03 PM
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Forget the gym, join a climbing gym. At first you'll look like a dunce, but ask the girls there to teach you some technique. It's a good icebreaker, but you have to be able to take some teasing. You'll get to know them, and they'll notice you more as you get better and better. It'll get you in shape too, and climbers typically like to party, so you'll be invited to many binges, parties etc. Your posture will start correcting itself, which will make you look taller, your center of gravity will lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:38 PM
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The message is more like; be the better version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:23 PM
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Truth is worth more than joy to me. I second that. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:19 PM
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You have a point. My father left us also. Haven't seen him since.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 08:16 PM
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Why doesn't anyone want to receive my nude pictures!? T.T
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:12 PM
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How do women find the ones that aren't like that I can't tell you how they would, but going at it with the angle that you expressed earlier isn't going to help much. If what behoves you to pursue a relationship is game rather than looking for a partner with whom you can share in achieving life-goals, than you will not be inclined to pursue the suitors that aren't like that. The problem many women and men face is that certainty, in courtship, does not give them "butterflies". To be frank, I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:01 PM
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A gynocentric marketplace forces men to not be complete self destructive losers by weeding out the weak. It’s the way nature intended. In the case of our "community", the women have selected these destructive losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 10:00 PM
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I think anyone who has grown into adulthood and lacks a base level of integrity, has real issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:31 PM
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Everyone cheats. The only ones who don't are those who cannot. Or the ones who value reciprocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:19 PM
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Men are very thirsty and easily replaceable. Gee thanks eh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:14 PM
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It's there but you would have to negotiate with your morals if you wanted to indulge. It would involve you pursuing that with the women 'round you that you don't find very attractive, and once you get better options, you would ultimately hurt them... probably lose a good friend in the process. IMO it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:04 PM
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Yep I've experienced this first hand. I briefly dated one who would break down periodically about not being married/ having mothered any children, and then she would come 'round and blame her lack of purpose on the patriarchy. She had many suitors, and yet somehow none of them were good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:44 PM
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Just thought I'd share the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:28 PM
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It has been my observation that men seldom retain much interest in their children once they're no longer sleeping with the children's mother. I can tell you about one of my best mates... Watched is mother die of cancer, and was abandoned by his father. Knocked up his ex at 18, She was 23 at the time, who degenerated into promiscuity and drugs, was committed to an asylum, and abandoned their son as soon as she got her "life back". The son, whom he has solely raised since day one, is a brilliant l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:10 PM
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TMYAATALT The men you are attracted to are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:57 PM
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And yet he was a nationalist. Dyou think he would have turned into a genocidal Tyrant like Hitler?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:15 PM
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I don't understand how being unfaithful makes you an alpha male. There's refusing to commit, and then there's cheating. Two different ball games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 03:40 PM
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well Ghandi was a nationalist. His movement didn't lead to genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 03:06 PM
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Settling for casual sex I agree with this notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 01:00 AM
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Am very dark in the summer I almost turn the purplei-sh color that Sudanese Sounds like a nice tone. I turn into the Great Pumpkin for like 2/3 of the season heheh. By the end though I morph into a nice walnut kind of tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:35 PM
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Q4All: Do men and women learn sex from porn or through their peers or first-hand experience? That would vary per person, but I think trial and error is most efficient. Q4All: Is the male power fantasy represented in porn misogynistic/problematic? I don't think it's just a fantasy. Sex tends to escalate to what you would call dominant/submissive, but in those instances both parties are pushing towards that. If that's what you mean by "male power fantasy", I'm not sure this could really be reduced…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:06 PM
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don't know if that's empirically true, but it's an interesting thought I don't think that may be 100% accurate, but fairly common. I wasn't very unpopular with the ladies, and I took an active interest in learning how to please them sexually. By the same token my kinks are very much compatible with those ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:22 PM
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I have learned many things over the years, but it's not something I'll discuss with many mates in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:11 PM
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I'll give it a go. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:08 PM
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I'm latte colored personally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 10:07 PM
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however does not necessarily support the argument that wanting children is a biological urge. There are too many elements in that question for us to have a definitive answer. So I had to make a few basal assumptions within my attempt. So you have a point, though we can both agree that when pair-bonding does happen, it is expressed biologically. It's a tricky one, but I agree with you. There isn't any causal evidence, that wanting to raise children is entirely genetic or not, nor to what degree, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:29 PM
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They describe average men as "disgusting", and consider basically 7-8/10 men to be the average. Really nothing reasonable. It's because they are insecure about where they stand in the rankings, so they project the ugliness that they feel within themselves. They are also not compelled to get over their insecurities, because their behaviour finds a consensus within their peer groups. If they surrounded themselves with less jaded and more successful women (in terms of relationships), they would get…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 12:57 AM
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I disagree with that notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 12:35 AM
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No one can provide evidence of exactly how cavemen were or weren't as parents. We have however approximated what pre-historic cultures may have looked like by studying the cultures, still living today, that have been isolated from the modern world since the great out of Africa migration. Cultures that were not influenced by any other modern cultures before first contact. Raising kids and not abandoning them seems pretty standard throughout the entire world. Here's something that may be interesti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 12:31 AM
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You need very little money saved to move to France as a NA citizen. Obviously marriage would speed up the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:37 PM
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who understands the plight of the negro we prefer the term "beautiful chocolate individual". JK
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:35 PM
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Nationalism is not something I would easily dismiss...it's how you get a "Hitler." It's a wee bit more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:34 PM
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Where TRP is useful is how it lays out some of the parameters of a problem. Yet it betrays itself by proposing little solutions to overcoming them. TRP tells you what some of the rules of the game are, but how you play the game is entirely up to you. That's what I think anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:18 PM
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Still wrong. They aren't locked into anything, as every woman will ditch her current boyfriend for a better looking one the moment she thinks she has a chance. There are other factors that would affect this type of promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 11:12 PM
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I wouldn't marry a woman that I couldn't be myself with, or would wish to take me away from my goals. To me having children will be an opportunity to teach them any wisdom, and skills that I would have acquired in the pursuit my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:54 PM
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Honestly, every milestone in my past relationship were made possible by me not meeting her on a website or an app. Moments of spontaneity that have taken quasi-spiritual significance in my heart. So I'm leaning towards yes dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:27 PM
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I haven't read that one, so I'll return the question. lol Yes it's a good read, mind you, I've only read the play, so I am not aware of if it holds up when performed. I think you'll find many themes that resonate very well with the arguments on this sub (from all sides).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:18 PM
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There are many possible motives, and for the most part, I think they've been mentioned in the comments. No matter the motives, IMO the most important thing to take into account is how rapists chose their victims. Many people are inclined to believe that there's a causation between how scantily clad a woman may have been dressed, and many have taken offense to that. To me it is simply inaccurate. It has a lot more to do with opportunity. In the cases where the rapist has very little to no connect…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 10:14 PM
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It makes sense, you know? 'Been there, done that' and the such.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 09:42 PM
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Not to mention it seems women show more interest when you appear taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 09:36 PM
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This reminds me of Les mains sales by Sartre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 09:23 PM
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when working I would like to turn it off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 09:17 PM
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You sir have got it down. That's exactly right. People forget that the baby-boomers were primarily from modest working class backgrounds, and people from all strums of life generally had access to fewer luxuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:28 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:09 PM
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Your ideas would sound reasonable if child rearing/ parenting weren't so blatantly cross cultural phenomena. We have constant contact with civilizations that are culturally and genetically "pre-historic", and they engage in child rearing and parenting such as we do. That's your first clue that it is genetically hardwired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:07 PM
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It is not true that men only want one thing, humans can't be reduced to one single impulse, desire or need. That's another lie. I'm not saying that it's not a driving motivation for the lot of us out there, but all the other aspects of an intimate relationship are also enjoyed by the majority of men who pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 05:39 PM
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Q4ALL: Why do you think so many women treat attractive men as the prize and willingly get pumped and dumped? In most cases, I assume that it's with the intention of forming a relationship. Q4M: Would you date an emotionally damaged woman if it is a consequence of her sexual history? Would I? Probably. Should I? Maybe not, or I guess this has more to do with if she is progressively dealing with these issues, or if she instead indulges them, because that would be dangerous to a potential relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:13 PM
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But guys only see the 20 something girls, because those are the only ones anybody wants to fuck. So they're blind to the problems women at an older age have. The older women are notoriously not willing to settle with men that are not of the same/higher education level, and this is regardless of income. Where I'm from, many tradesmen are doing quite well, but the stigma of technical/skills training in lieu of university degrees is a challenge for them in acquiring LTRs, because the women, that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:59 PM
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see that women are rated super low I'm speaking specifically about dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:28 PM
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I would say you should get to know where the pupils stand ideologically, thus proceed with caution accordingly and with the upmost professionalism (granted). Don't allow this #meetoo shyte to create disadvantages to the women in your workplace that show interest and potential. It's unfortunate that this is a thing, but it would be a shame to neglect the development of promising talent within your business, because of what sex your pupils are. You are however right to be cautious given the curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:22 PM
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I think you misunderstood. It's not wrong to date an attractive person, but it's disingenuous to pretend like it's not a priority, and also to not acknowledge that men's looks are rated unreasonably low, at least on dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:23 PM
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I have the same feeling If I'm walking alone at night. I am more alert. I think that's reasonable, but I'm not sure why it's used to illustrate this myth that women are victimized more often than men. I hate the feeling of when a woman thinks I'm following her, because we're heading in the same direction, but I get why they do it, although it kills my whole evening when this happens. W/e when I buy a car, this will no longer be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 12:23 AM
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Sure but still a discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 12:07 AM
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The problem now is courting is seen as harassment. People born today won't be allowed to ask women out without getting metoo'd. 30% of millennial women think asking a girl out for a drink is harassment, and 25% of millennial men agree. if you really think about it, this is pretty messed up. I get what you were saying in your other comment though, but I don't think it's representative of all of the young men who are finding it difficult to court women. Our generation also has a lack of suitable p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 11:58 PM
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Yes, at the end of the day most women can get casual, NSA sex if they wanted it, when they wanted it. They also have an easier time finding LTRs if that's more their speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 11:39 PM
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I appreciate you taking the time to write this post, but it seems to be falling on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 11:02 PM
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Thar ya goh boyo!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 09:04 PM
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Noone ever pushed rap to move on Nah it has, but the mainstream doesn't embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 08:36 PM
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The feminists that claim this type of inequality are not interested in equality of opportunity, they are interested in equality of outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 08:23 PM
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Honestly, by the time you've puked, if there's enough alcohol in your blood to poison you, you're well screwed. Be very cautious, I used to run overnights at the diner. I've seen this often, mostly from college students, unsurprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 08:12 PM
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Well touching releases Oxytocin, so does eye contact. It contributes to attraction. Women produce more of it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:59 PM
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I never said not valued, I said valued differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:56 PM
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Oxytocin is one hell of a drug, especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:42 PM
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If you are not having sex because of personal reasons or you would wish to get to know a man better first, than it could deter some men, but I don't think the one that would stick round would necessarily be a beta. In that case you should be forthcoming with this, to avoid him feeling like you're not interested. If you were withholding sex arbitrarily for game or for any manipulative reason, and a man could sense that..well.. assuming he had any self respect, he would probably not pursue you, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 07:10 PM
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There is increasing parity between the sexes when it comes to cheating, in the west. It's still far too common here in my opinion, but I could imagine it being more common in a country like India. I'm not entirely certain why it's less common here, but I'm assuming that women are valued differently in our culture than in yours. Of all of my mates, only 2 have cheated(to my knowledge), and they get substantially scrutinized for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:40 PM
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This is the type of work that makes average young men feel invisible and/or that society flat out doesn't care about them. It's like only the actions of the more sexually successful men seem to matter or are even noticed to begin with. Well intentioned men who aren't so successful with women, get the blunt of all of the criticisms, and none of the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:18 PM
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before I came to reddit It used to mean a guy who's too nice, and hence uninteresting. Pretty sure it was well pushed as a RomCom/Teen Drama trope in the early 2000s, but now it's being used to describe abusive men who can't take rejection, most often on dating apps and the such like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 05:59 PM
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I would never want to be with a woman who thinks it's okay to be with someone and regularly fuck others. I don't think a woman should be okay with a man who seeks the same from her frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:53 AM
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Well is there a feasible end to violence in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:49 AM
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No. I would rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:46 AM
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Oxymoron. Propaganda. A higher percentage of the young female population in the west is engaging in sexual encounters, and with more partners than the young male population. So I find it hard to believe that this isn't representative of their own agency in any way, since they are mostly the ones doing it. It's difficult as a woman too. Men ask for sex right away and if you express hesitation they are hurt and move on. This could be a view that many women would have, but I think this has more to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:23 AM
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Christ! 190.53 seems like a bargain heheh! Jokes aside, I find women get pressured to be materialistic from within their peer groups, that will look down on their BF for not shelling out the dough on special occasions like Valentine's Day, Xmas, B-days and anniversaries. I always would hear gossip of the other BFs in the group that were too cheap/ not romantic enough. Their gal pals also give you praise for doing it so... I think it's dismissive to just brush this off as if there's no pressure i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:05 PM
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