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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well.		mistressiris	/r/seduction	07/12/14 12:43 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-4	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? You have not entirely wrong. Boys want sex men want relationships. Maybe I don't want to be treated like a sex object and more like a relationship partner so that doesn't exactly mean easier when as a woman it is not easy to be treated like someone is attempting to control you via all the manipulation time text that you propagate.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 06:44 PM
-7	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? You are correct! Judging by the number of downvotes that my comments always get they are a bunch of posturing cowards. I came to see about picking up girls since I date them. These boys should get pets 1st cuz human interaction seems a bit beyond their ability.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 06:41 PM
-8	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? Thank you. Of course these boys are NOT after quality; they cat deal with a woman who is secure enough to not be threated by someone else's prerogative. Frankly it points to her inability to rely on her own confidence. Giant red flag for a peice of work that's looking for a babysitter.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 06:29 PM
-2	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? Why start with immature when they are stupid jealous?! If I were a man, id much rather skip the bullshit and only date girls with the maturity to BE with someone. I'm 29	/r/seduction	26/07/15 06:27 PM
-11	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? Well then good luck trying to have a significant experience in which you learn how to interact with a woman of true value. If you care about what's healthy and good for both parties, communication is the foundation for anything being a success.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 04:51 PM
-4	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? Why would you think sarcasm? Defend your accusation, sir.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 04:40 PM
-12	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? "Method you have to use to get there" Deception and vague deflection is a toxic and manipulative tactic. You all must want the most insecure women if you think that's the only way	/r/seduction	26/07/15 04:15 PM
-12	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? Um....you must be mistaken, MEN are the ones who think like this. Nice attempt at projection. No woman is going to lose interest simply because of something SHE did. You are rejected for any number of reasons, but get over yourself!	/r/seduction	26/07/15 04:11 PM
-1	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? So your advice is. 1. Lie 2. Be defensive when she sees your lack of complete truth. 3. Blame her for asking because your poor little ego would be oh so crushed if she rejected you and you dont know how to deal	/r/seduction	26/07/15 04:05 PM
-22	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? This advice is bullshit! You know whats sexy? CLEAR COMMUNICATION. I would NEVER want to sleep with, let alote date or be in a relationship with a male who thinks any of this is acceptable, and neither would any other intelligent, secure female.	/r/seduction	26/07/15 04:02 PM
-13	Is it bad to tell your first date that you're dating other women? As a woman, I HATE THIS SHIT...its 2015, boy, and we dont "need to feel plausible deniability" because we choose to sleep with whoever we want just like a man does. Perpetuating this "she doesnt want to be seen as/think of herself as a slut" bullshit is only hurting your chances of actually having a mature, functional, healthy relationship. Enough with the men projecting THEIR assumptions onto women, then judging them for an opinion which they have yet to reveal; the double standard is NOT follo…	/r/seduction	26/07/15 03:59 PM
1	A few things I've learned from Tinder. the real step is know who you are. that's why people find this difficult when heard as dating advice. it's scary to look at yourself and not be certain that you are even secure with what you find. That is what you truly need to do. get rid of your insecurities and know your flaws, accept that you will get rejected for things you cannot control, and bare who you really are in a way that elevates you in your profile	/r/seduction	19/07/15 07:02 AM
-11	A few things I've learned from Tinder. omg she rejected you so you must think of her as not worth your time and further degrade her by saying ONLY to make her feel good?! you dont even know why she isn't meeting your expectations (nice"game" with the text. i just assume you're busy because you have a life; this isnt 1995 and we're waiting by the phone for it to ring).. you and her are not a good match and that is neither of your faults. you young guys need to stop being so afraid of rejection and quit it with the Projection as well.	/r/seduction	19/07/15 06:55 AM
-4	Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your Chances establishing it first is fine, but why not ask? i thought your article was about not having a fear of rejection, that's why i liked it so much. it just seems rude to me "here, my phone, you put in number" the end goal is always sex, isn't that why the men are here on this sub...? face reality, it's the goal to get laid for the minds of most young 20-somethings (which seems to be about the majority of what i read from this sub).	/r/seduction	19/05/15 12:06 PM
-2	Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your Chances legit post. i would say texting is always better because calling can be interruptive and you don't know her schedule or preferences; text her to see if and when she would like to talk on the phone. I am nearly 30, had a cell phone for a decade, and still only want to be on the phone with a guy if he can actually hold a conversation about topics that we are both interested in, rather than just a question and answer session.	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:40 AM
-1	Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your Chances it never hurts to spread the suicide hotline. don't shame anyone who needs it	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:36 AM
-3	Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your Chances first off, expecting her to why, exactly? assuming your own 'success' is rather cocky and off-putting. If you shoved your phone in my hand i would ask you why with an annoyed face, and rather confused at your inability to ask the simple question "what is your phone number, i'd like to call or text so we can go on a date" if you dont have the confidence in your own self to ask me out, why would i want to go out with you??? IT IS pathetic!!!! i disagreed with this, how passive-aggressive can you g…	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:32 AM
2	Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your Chances i'm nearly 30 and the part of the article that i liked the most was the analysis of WHY the behaviors happen and what type of message it sends. I will not immediately think you're boring if you ask how my day was, but i dated a girl for a few months who would do it to me (send a text every day even just to say how are you or have a good day) and i couldn't stand the smothered effect. women are so often put in a position of "i should" which turns into "well i have to in order to be ok enough to b…	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:21 AM
3	Why Texting Her Is Ruining Your Chances am woman and do agree. i WISH that THIS was 90% of the stuff i see here in seddit becuase so many of the guys haven't figured out the whole "fear of rejection leads to emotionally manipulative and coercive behavior which women have already had enough of from society" thing	/r/seduction	19/05/15 10:14 AM
1	How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable) great so what narrative, but sometimes i wish more men were clearer with words and don't subscribe to the "how you say it" line	/r/seduction	01/05/15 09:41 AM
1	How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable) what if i'm totally attracted to the quiet stoic guy? deep thoughts look is rather seductive in its intriguing challenge, the "don't fuck with this guy" different face makes me think "what makes him act like he's on a different level?" and probably gaze at you or pay attention if you talked to me.	/r/seduction	01/05/15 09:40 AM
1	How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interested I'm saying thanks for stating the obvious. I DO read stuff in this sub and yes it does indeed sound like that. Specifically the sidebar. Its just evopsychobabble that perpetuates miscommunication and lack of understanding or progress with the goals of each side to sucessfully engage in a sex-positive emcounter, devoid of fear and shame. Think on a level deeper than the physical need and desire to manipulate in order to acquire it, and you might find the true internal psyche is only reinforcing t…	/r/seduction	01/05/15 07:57 AM
0	How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interested Thank you! The vast majority of this subreddit seems convinced that you can just make a woman give you sex as if its a fucking give and take game or something. Sex is available for both and it is not something to be taken from or forced upon anyone. I get so extremely irritated when men act as if women don't have their own choices to decide that they actually want sex and that women do not deserve to be mistreated because of that. It's a different story of the blame and shame game when a woman w…	/r/seduction	29/04/15 10:14 PM
-2	How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interested You guys are so dumb. If she doesn't want it then nothing you do will make her want it. Stop trying to convince women when they have already made up their mind. That's just being obnoxious and puts you more in the category of creeper and less likely to get any positive reaction when you continue to escalate your obnoxious qualities such as thinking that she wants you to do all of the leadership and planning. How about you consider the idea of her having a clue about her own self and respecting t…	/r/seduction	29/04/15 09:45 PM
-11	How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interested how about asking her if she's can see herself being more physical with you, and then DON'T JUDGE HER for her answer. you men must be aware of your own BS double standards that i have seen in this very thread about women. So maybe if you try treating her like a sexually autonomous member of society (she can make her OWN decisions and NOT BE MANIPULATED/BULLIED for those choices: she is NOT a slut if she picks another guy or many other guys over you) by respecting her reaction, you will fare bette…	/r/seduction	29/04/15 08:48 PM
-2	How to make sure a girl knows you're sexually interested polarizing carries a bad connotation with it (politics, anyone? its the definition of not getting anything done). being super handsy will creep her out if you don't say anything.	/r/seduction	29/04/15 08:28 PM
0	Some things I have learned in seduction. Edit! Not Better. Bitter	/r/seduction	20/03/15 10:49 PM
2	Some things I have learned in seduction. The reason that number 6 does not work, the idea that you should be giving her things, is because it sets up the expectation for resentment if she does not reciprocate your feelings by your display of giving her things and doing things for her. This makes her think that you believe she is not capable or does not want to do the things and also that you expect something sexual or romantic and return for your efforts. You may then become resentful and better and treat other women badly because of a…	/r/seduction	20/03/15 10:47 PM
2	Some things I have learned in seduction. I would agree with you that of course you can take her home, everything depends upon if she is interested in the same idea. Whatever you do should not be viewed as "making her" her, it does not have to be about power as so many men on this subreddit and others seem to think is the only way, but rather if the both of you have the same idea about each others' physical attraction and expression of such feelings. Knowing that another woman wants you is very ego inflating and the best thing when she …	/r/seduction	20/03/15 10:43 PM
2	Some things I have learned in seduction. It's great to see that men can realize we have the same options available when it comes to understanding body language and the psychology of human interaction with other humans to whom they are attracted.	/r/seduction	20/03/15 10:40 PM
4	Some things I have learned in seduction. how about befriending the curvy nerd girl (i happen to find this type attractive and a comfortable challenge to approach becauase i am interested in what else they are into and i find curves sexy)? friends can give you confidence by saying they see the inside of you already, and they already know how attractive you are, so adding all the health benefits of any fitness activity only adds to your esteem which makes you more attractive. i love seeing a girl exercising with confidence no matter body…	/r/seduction	19/03/15 08:48 AM
-2	Some things I have learned in seduction. the is obvious signal that you just want to think about my mouth on your penis because you're thinking with your penis. DUH. we see your game, and i'm genuinely asking, does this make you feel any less able as a player of the sport? I already know your strategy - but if it is good strategy I will respect the effort and reward it. Interesting fact though, this EXACT same advice is given to women and told that it will make a man "come hither"	/r/seduction	19/03/15 08:36 AM
-2	Some things I have learned in seduction. the expectations is making yourself a better you, for you. I do not want to date a guy who is so insecure that he blames ME for not achieving HIS expectation of a benefit, because why would I feed his ego to become a guy who then thinks he's the best at "playing the game" because I rewarded him for it and he received the "Benefit" of my attention. Rewarding a behavior only encourages it, so it only ever makes me respect someone who acts for the sake of the action, because being nice feels good, …	/r/seduction	19/03/15 08:32 AM
1	Some things I have learned in seduction. THIS. i made a huge comment above, but from a female who does NOT have anything but a facebook and now-defunct Livejournal, I would much rather you show me the picture you took in person, or text it to me, beucase you choosing to send it to me signifies your thought about caring for my reaction to it, and therefore value what causes the reaction. "associate happy and thoughtful feelings with me, then she will be attracted to me" it translates. yay, you thought of me and remembered i like the thi…	/r/seduction	19/03/15 08:17 AM
1	Some things I have learned in seduction. I use facebook as an address book, my profile page as a quick glance to see what my interests are, (media categories, politics/personal values/etc.), and a place to keep photos online. I occasionally do status updates and post notes, but I DO NOT CARE if you're not an Active user on social media. For reference and to get an idea if we have anything in common activity-wise, and for future topics, I do like being able to check out a facebook page because it contains all of these interests and expr…	/r/seduction	19/03/15 07:58 AM
0	Some things I have learned in seduction. everything you added was true, this was my favorite part of a really standout post for this sub. I WISH there were more posts like theses, just honest life observations about being a decent balanced, SECURE or well practiced at faking it enough guy. (all the ones about playing games and being deceptive miss the point of THIS, since if you are all concerned about status and ability to be better than others, you're not actually helping yourself - like the yankees analogy sorta) slight aside, but i…	/r/seduction	19/03/15 07:37 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. Basic hygiene (ie: having a clean, tidy dwelling) is something every human being should already be doing for themselves. " Unfortunately, in me and my male roommate (who sleeps with men)'s experience, this is not the case. Granted, we are around 30, and most of the reddit population hovers in the early 20's, especially for this sub. But sadly, either men have gotten lazier, which does not seem likely given how much effort they put into the emotionally manipulative pursuit of getting laid, or the…	/r/seduction	11/12/14 03:20 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. I love places like Marshall's and Burlington coat factory, plus outlets. Great for home and sensory intriguing items	/r/seduction	08/12/14 11:31 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. Lol, my example was to show both for a retailer not high end price wise, and also sales can be amazing and that's why girls love them. Impress her with how much money you saved. Men tend to think of what they earn as their monetary worth. Consider the value of your purchase compared to the amazing sale price, and you are still worth the same but pocket the difference so you're with more. For anyone who cares about that, no judgment.	/r/seduction	08/12/14 11:29 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. See u\gensyms comment thread	/r/seduction	08/12/14 11:23 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. I apologize, on mobile and didn't realize the horrible grammar. Week fix if I can. Still new to reddit	/r/seduction	08/12/14 11:21 AM
0	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. I'm genuinely perplexed, because I have provided insight into what sort of women find valuable/deal breaking. Ive had multiple comments on here say thanks, and my expectations are quite reasonable. Would you say a girl is worth your investment of time and effort to sleep with if her place smells bad, is messy beyond excuse, or she had complete control of all the ambience, without regard for if you may have alternative suggestions?	/r/seduction	08/12/14 11:18 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. Thank you for saying so, some don't seem to agree but I thought it would be a nice visit to the community and show how a specific part of what you guys call game is your own space and what it coveys to whoever enters it.	/r/seduction	08/12/14 11:12 AM
1	How to increase your chances of the girl being at least you're one night stand, from a woman who appreciates them. These things can be enhanced if/when you want to start dating or have an exclusive relationship as well. Well, if cleaning your room involves changing and/or adding smells and textures for sensual enjoyment, then by all means, yes. Make sure it is always, if not most of the time, cleaned. Most males, at whose places i have declined to have sex, don't seem to acknowledge this common courtesy and aforethought. Some of them are even into their late twenties, which is my age, (and I've only been experienced about a decade), but did the going to college living in multiple states/room types and on both c…	/r/seduction	07/12/14 02:48 AM
2	How to know when it's ok to grab an ass? you're completely right, but attempting to convince this guy and this community, hence the negative points on your comments. I am a very appreciative girl with a nice ass. of course Seddit would downvote the obvious treatment females deserve...(as seen on comments like these) the burying of them by downvotes illustrates why these men cannot seem to have any success with understanding women; they don't respect us.	/r/seduction	27/07/14 01:28 AM
3	How to know when it's ok to grab an ass? THIS. should be the top comment. it completely answers the question. Female here, and also would upvote the other girl who commented in bold to the top.	/r/seduction	27/07/14 01:14 AM
1	[FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hour the basics at least, and more if you really are interested in those things. but don't have the whole store in your drawer without being comfortable with how to use it or when/with whom. women appreciate the effort but not if it just looks like you're trying to impress her with all of your experience only to be underwhelmed. Talk about what you like before getting there if it's heading that direction; i'd advise against trying out a bunch of new things at once. If it is the first time you're slee…	/r/seduction	10/06/14 05:48 AM
2	[FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hour truth. i want mine and i would rather not waste time if i know you're down and i'm attracted to you. also, i might add, it's always a great surprise when a guy has things on hand at all times, at least in the room ready to grab when needed. psych yourself up beforehand by getting prepared and that knowledge might subconsciously improve your portrayal of confidence.	/r/seduction	03/06/14 07:40 PM
0	[FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hour this is biology and can be proven with science, not my feild of expertise, but this is the reddit...there is a reason why. now to find the ones who took care of thier bodies and minds before reaching that age means an even better experience :-)	/r/seduction	03/06/14 07:36 PM
1	[FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hour THANK YOU. truth, the chick i'm fucking is over 40 and it's amazing :-D	/r/seduction	03/06/14 07:34 PM
0	[FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hour THIS. I am female, and some of my friends in their late 30s are widows, who don't always get the most attention (due to that social stigma thing), but the young military guys love to go home with them. from a real perspective, we're the ones going out to get you, so don't act like it is your "plan" working every time. I live near cougar town, SoCal...see it and know it.	/r/seduction	03/06/14 07:33 PM
1	[FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hour well, boys, congratulations, I actually valued the "more of a comment than an open" approach because IMAGINE THAT, an actual conversation point for extracting some philosophical tidbit about who you are...and something other than your appearance to be a deciding factor. HINT (grinding on the loud as fuck floor at the club = creepy as fuck!!! no matter how insanely physically attracted to you I might have been. eww, I did NOT give you permission to touch me). now for the above comment: this sound…	/r/seduction	03/06/14 07:27 PM
1	What I think about value the above is a reply to the ideals of the entire "pickup artist" mentality; I actually agree with the above poster's remarks, ESPECIALLY the second line which states "the system can be faked;" my credo is to "BE REAL" so the entire act is unnecessary. Wasting your time on the non-ideal and attempting to circumvent Biology? No thanks. BTW, I am bisexual and have successfully flirted with, dated, and gotten laid with quality women. Don't waste your lifetime on a multitude of people who are not goi…	/r/seduction	14/05/14 08:48 PM
1	What I think about value If you are doing any of these things and not permanently improving and enriching your life, anything you do is just a pathetic excuse for interacting with women. Manipulation that I can see through makes me 1. laugh at you because you actually thought i'd fall for it; I am worth WAY more than a defensive position or the false dichotomy of my apparently "correct" responses according to social cues. When I see these attempts in action it also 2. saddens me that these poor creatures are so insecure…	/r/seduction	14/05/14 08:42 PM