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I love the part where Maria says to Max, "I can't ask him to be less than he is." when Max wanted her to convince Georg to concede and work with the Nazis. It shows her strength and how much she supports her husband. That's the kind of woman I strive to be every day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/26 05:15 AM
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Watching The Sound of Music definitely makes me feel nurturing and I recommend it. The dancing scene melts me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/26 06:54 PM
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Ykw, I'm happy for you. You and your spouse have what works for the both of you and everything gets taken care of according to how you both show up. Personally, I would love what you both have, so, thank you for posting.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 12:57 AM
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I'm not religious anymore, but I wanted to tell you I like your answer a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 05:53 AM
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Congratulations. I admit I'm a little envious, but, if anything, I'm truly happy that you have someone that you trust who takes care of you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 02:17 AM
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Congratulations! What a way to start the year.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 06:19 PM
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Yes to the "no conspiracy" take. The men that we are looking for in this sub are that straightforward. Mixed signals are either to be clarified or follow your instinct, even if your instinct says to end it. The longer you stay with a mixed signal man, the longer it will take for you to find someone who won't confuse you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 12:02 AM
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Follow your instincts. That discomfort doesn't get better.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 09:54 PM
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A man secure in his masculinity doesn't belittle you, make you feel less than, or feel like you're constantly having to prove yourself. He revels in your femininity, is kind, appreciates what you do, who you are, recognizes that you're a complete person, yet still protects you and supports your goals to better yourself. Some are quietly confident, and some are talkative and charismatic, but they have an underlying vibe of kindness. Their masculinity comes from knowing themselves, what their stre…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 06:12 AM
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This sub has helped me so much. You will be missed!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 10:24 PM
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I know how you feel. I read Fascinating Womanhood to break the weird dynamics my boyfriend and I were struggling with. The appreciating one's partner thing really resonated with me. When I took stock of the things that my boyfriend goes through, he lives in a constantly criticized state from others, and me. When I started to be a "soft place to land", he started to trust me more. I think that those books are misunderstood. It's not about being a doormat or whatever people tend to think. Those bo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 10:23 PM
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Great advice. I have anxiety and people-pleasing tendency in the past. I've learned since then to speak up and it does take practice. I'm bubbly and submissive and my boyfriend is a little like the OOP's. After all work we've done on our relationship, I can attest that it can work without sacrificing my needs! I've come across that beach scenario irl! Last week, even! If he wants to do something, his mind is made up. I used to take it as an insult that I can't sway him to do what I want instead …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 07:13 PM
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I apologize, I didn't realize how i was putting the message across. I meant to say, yes, it's important to have physical attraction to the person you want to date. That's the main thing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 11:09 AM
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Best to date someone you're attracted to and respect. Whether or not the person is ugly is irrelevant because looks are subjective. Sure, it may take more than one date, but even during that first date, if your instincts tell you that you don't like the guy, follow that instinct.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 09:41 AM
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I love how you put this, thank you. My SO and I did the same and I kept waiting for some sort of aftermath, but it's been years and there isn't any. We're happy, committed, and aware. Glad to find out that not having an aftermath is a thing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 06:30 AM
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Thank you. I'm a cautionary tale, unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 07:06 PM
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This is true. It happened to me this weekend after I had major surgery under 2 weeks ago. Luckily, I still had my own apartment and my job is waiting when I'm healed. He and I were 4 years together, trying for a baby, and then in 12 hours, after we had an argument, he started making things a living hell, to the point where he didn't feed me for 18 hours. While I do acknowledge my part in the argument and how I contributed to this, if I had moved in with him, I would have been screwed. Don't act …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 05:00 AM
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This is beautiful. I have been drunk in a club before and the women are always soooo nice. I didn't have to worry about anything, I went with good people, but I also remember the kind and helpful women who looked out for me and didn't even know me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:00 AM
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Same here. If any person says they're "poly" or "enm", I block and delete and don't even entertain them. I deleted that damn app too and feel better focusing on me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:56 AM
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This movie is on my rotation for me night and that part is such a breath of fresh air. The first time I saw it, it hurt, ngl. But now that I'm older and have had a few relationships under my belt, holy hell, an honest talk like that is so welcomed. We all can benefit from all lessons, yes, and as much as it can hurt, it leaves no room for interpretation and helps me, in particular, move on quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:34 PM
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I date both. When I'm with a woman, I'm the partner I want a male partner to be. Considerate, loving, giving, generous, I'm hella high value. I broke up with my last gf because we wanted different things. So, I know how I should be treated lol...but how often do I get me-level male partners? Like...never. It's okay though. I like my alone time rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:49 AM
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Lol yup tell me about it. My heart is in shreds, but goddamn do I still dream of a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:44 AM
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This is where I am too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:02 AM
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I used to date a guy in my pick-me days. I brought up love language and before taking the quiz, he zeroed in on physical touch. He was LVM masquerading as HVM and of course this was waaaaay before I found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:03 PM
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Ah, you're right. We forget about good manners being bare minimum. Thanks for the reminder. I have good manners, they should too. People bristle at the term "good breeding" but it's not about snobbery. When I hear "good breeding", I think about politeness and good social skills, as that's what I've seen in people. Of course there are awful people of good breeding, but I don't care for those, so they don't stick in my mind the way the good ones do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:52 PM
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Lol I can walk by myself. I'm short and they rarely match my step and I end up slowing down to see how long until they notice. So disrespectful. I don't want to get to know anyone during this pandemic, anyway. If I can't properly vet them, I don't want them. I don't care if they want to talk on the phone or zoom or dinner, whatever. We're in a pandemic, I'm not interested. I don't do long-distance, I don't do virtual. I need touch, I need to see faces, I need to see microexpressions. Call me hig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:38 PM
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Serve with divorce papers! 😂👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:38 PM
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Haha hashtag yesallmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:11 AM
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LA to San Diego when you've never met? Oh no, bb. Gas in Cali is expensive, and that's like, a 3hr drive. For what? You're worth so much more than gas money. Far better things to do in 3 hrs than be in a car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:10 AM
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This! This is what happened to me and this is what polyamory did to me! This morning I woke up and started to think about what I'm putting myself through. I thought I was BPD but yesterday, I encountered actual BPD people. Let me tell you, reading about it and diagnosing myself and then reading it and interacting with someone who actually has it, formally diagnosed with it, is completely different. They are very hard to deal with. I woke up this morning thinking, shit, I don't have that. I don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:10 PM
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My guy was nowhere near 27.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:38 PM
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Each day, I come to FDS and the LVM on my current just gets highlighted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:37 PM
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> Meanwhile the male keyboard warrior who complains about inequality in divorce proceedings has prob done Jack shit to address it in the real world > Because they know they’d have to stand up to another man. This is spot on. Other men don't threaten them, other men scare them. They are spineless and it's really too bad. They could be HVM, but they're bogged down with misogyny and spinelessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:35 PM
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Same here, but it's very liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:51 AM
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If he is HVM, he will keep dating you and appreciate you, you won't have to make him chase you. I’ve seen this and have always wondered why I don't have a man like that, but they're out there. I was just a pickme. I'm learning though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:44 AM
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I live for this shit. I've had a hard day at work and my day won't end for a while, but this gave me fuel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:17 PM
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I thought you said let him put it on his own genitals and I was agreeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:44 AM
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No-name thrift shop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:33 AM
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I did the same. I didn't care how much someone made. I dated them because "potential". I was the sole provider for a while and your words resonates. It's not even that I'm wealthy, it's that I'd like someone who isn't broke and who loves me enough to show me that I'm worth treating. Yeah, I can take myself to a restaurant and not cheap out on a tip. Yeah, I can (and do) buy myself my favorite flowers (more than one bouquet thankyouverymuch) and place them all over my apartment (that I live in, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:30 AM
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A ring found on the floor! I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:24 AM
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Even though now pink is everywhere, I still would love a rose quartz ring. I'm not a big diamond fan, but if it's heirloom, that's lovely. I lean traditional. Sapphires or rubies, I'd love those too. Just not heart shaped. I'm girly enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:22 AM
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This is true. I was like this. I feel so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:16 AM
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Fuck that noise. In my first marriage, I did all the work, bought BOTH our rings because I'm an #independentwoman, and then I wonder why I was never romanced. No, hell no. I want both a pretty ring and grand romantic gestures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:14 AM
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I can't imagine being in a relationship where there's an undercurrent of hatred like that, let alone a marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:11 AM
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Amen! This date is a literal chore. I already do chores at home, why would I want a chore outside the home too? As a date! They've just met. I doubt the talk they had was intimate. A first date shouldn't be distracting. This is just all levels of wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:11 AM
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I love that it's FDS they think about when women want them to go above bare minimum. A lot of the posts on FDS are to the point. When LVM see that, they're so used to pickmes being the only women they can pull that they automatically think something is wrong with us. They just can't begin to understand that we're different, that their opinions aren't something we haven't heard before, and no, we're not backing down from this. Here's the crowning touch, they don't know what we look like. Anyone t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:49 AM
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Wow. I just did a mental checklist and you are spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:31 AM
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Lmao @ panhandling in her bio!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:07 AM
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This is exactly what I needed to hear! I'm gathering up strength. I'll get there. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:17 AM
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Wow, it feels really affirming to know I wasn't the only one. My ex husband was this way. I didn't realize it until I read your post. He did some good things, but, he wasn't consistent. He blames me for the death of our marriage, which to me shows his lack of awareness. He is HVM in so many ways, but, the ways that he's not is big enough to make a difference. I wish him no harm and wish him the best. Despite everything, I learned a lot and what not to accept in the future. Hell, I don't have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:39 AM
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This reminds me I haven't had lamb in a long time. You're right, I can make it for myself now! Do you have a favorite recipe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:24 AM
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My gosh. I know exactly how you feel. It's really weird to see this typed as someone else. I'm really soft, y'know? I know that I want someone who appreciates, cherishes, loves, and protects me. I'll be so loyal and loving, but what the hell, it's seen as a weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:36 AM
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Ya, I just need one. Not into more than that...anymore (long story, but I saw the light)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:51 AM
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