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mobsta/r/seduction12/04/11 09:47 PM
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Thank you! I will let you know how it goes :)
/r/seduction25/06/14 01:11 PM
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There are some really good responses in this thread, good luck man! I'm actually only here to compliment you on your awareness of the situation. That's pretty important haha. But also pretty unique for someone of your age; being honest to yourself (but also accepting and willing to change the consequences) will definitely help you improve to become a better person!
/r/seduction20/06/14 12:34 AM
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Hey man, I know it's been a couple of days since your reply, but could you maybe send me some of your resources as well? Your first reply at OP really got me thinking and you talking about doing exercises sounds like something that might work for me too.
/r/seduction20/06/14 12:29 AM
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Yes, exactly what I was thinking :)
/r/seduction20/06/14 12:09 AM
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Well said. I think this is the best advice you're gonna get here /u/arghhhhhhhhhhhhh
/r/seduction19/06/14 11:44 PM
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Don't you think talking about it will actually make it less of a taboo?
/r/seduction19/06/14 11:42 PM
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Thumbs up to you!
/r/seduction07/10/13 10:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure there are guys in college who've read what you said which may have sparked something. That counts for something, doesn't it :)
/r/seduction07/10/13 10:42 PM
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Also, will you continue the simple questions thread in /r/seduction or would it be more consistent to move it to /r/askseddit? (Posted by the guy you replied to) I think what he is referring to are these threads.
/r/seduction02/09/13 10:46 PM
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Maybe I can write up something to address that issue, and make it a sticky post Yeah this sounds good. Haven't read the article you linked to yet, but after reading the replies you got I'll assume it's good stuff. However, many visitors on /r/seduction and /r/askseddit are also teenagers I think (16 - 18 would not be uncommon) and probably/maybe won't read such articles. I think it would be a good idea to make a sticky with advice/content that is also targeted for people in that category. Especi…
/r/seduction02/09/13 10:43 PM
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Sounds familiar lol.
/r/seduction14/07/13 02:24 PM
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A while ago (in a different context, but I feel it works here as well) someone said to look at her as you would when she's undressing in front of you, which makes sense with what the OP's saying.
/r/seduction07/07/13 11:10 PM
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Thanks for sharing brother!
/r/seduction19/06/13 10:48 PM
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Yup, TL, DR; Too Long, Didn't Read.
/r/seduction27/12/12 11:24 PM
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I actually like this one more than the agree and amplify in this situation.
/r/seduction26/12/12 01:47 PM
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Wow thanks for that name dude, like drummer_86 said, you've definitely opened a new door.
/r/seduction26/12/12 01:21 AM
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Thanks for posting.
/r/seduction12/09/12 02:59 PM
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His point was that there really isn't a way to make something out of this situation without either looking like you're supplicating to the girls or being a dick to them. Neither one puts you at an advantage. Actually, as I was reading this I realized it's true. Thanks for taking the effort to still reply :)
/r/seduction10/09/12 04:02 PM
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I understand that, but that's why I was asking for an example on how to make something out of this situation, instead of walking by and doing nothing.
/r/seduction10/09/12 02:40 PM
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Thanks, yeah that was the word I wasn't completely sure about.
/r/seduction09/09/12 10:44 PM
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Yeah, English isn't my first language so my use of words might be a bit off haha. Still answered my question though, thanks.
/r/seduction09/09/12 10:21 PM
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I agree. How would you handle this particular situation?
/r/seduction09/09/12 10:11 PM
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Smiling and looking happy is important, for me personally, if a girl looks pissy or stern I won't approach her because she seems cold. Yes, so true! To me it makes a girl not only attractive when she smiles and looks happy, but more so unattractive when she looks/vibes the opposite (looking pissed or angry). Many people, guys and girls, somehow have their busy/pissy/etc. face on, without probably even realizing, even though they may feel happy. It was a change when I started paying attention to …
/r/seduction05/09/12 10:06 PM
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My personal favourite: "Hey.." Seems to work every time!
/r/seduction05/09/12 09:22 PM
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Okay that explains things.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:50 PM
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You do realize that enjoying sex doesn't make someone a slut or manwhore, but simply human? Because I'm not sure if you're jokingly calling her/you that or seriously think it's slutty.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:40 PM
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Agreed and applauded you throughout the thread until you said she wasn't a slut because she didn't have sex with you, which implies she would have been a slut if she did in your eyes. Seriously? If that made her a slut, then what do you call yourself?
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:29 PM
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If they're female I flirt, it doesn't matter if I want to take her home or not. I flirt. Why? Because it has to become second nature. Flirting should feel like breathing. There should be no effort involved. Some of my friends still don't seem to get this (yet) and are still waiting for the perfect girl to come by (which means falling in love at first sight....). I'd really like for them to actually read this subreddit...
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:40 PM
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You sweat a lot while you sleep, so flipping it around avoids getting one side completely nasty, instead getting it less nasty, less quick. Your mattress will wear out faster Try flipping it around its axis and feet to head. Once in a while, in the morning, I get the linens off of my pillow and mattress and put it next to an open window, just like you would with sheets, but without hanging them outside.
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:49 PM
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Hahaha, I'm also a fan of analogies. Though I'm realizing more and more they are getting redundant if you just try and answer those questions in the field.
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:17 PM
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I'm probably going to say no, to be perfectly honest. Care to elaborate? (Genuinely interested)
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:14 PM
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Very well put, thanks a lot for writing this down.
/r/seduction19/08/12 01:38 PM
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I think you mean sarcastic. Oh the irony.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:28 PM
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It definitely will! Just try not to set deadlines and expectations, set goals instead. Don't stop to check if you noticed any changes in your behavior, you will notice you do things differently while you are improving yourself. At least, that's my experience. I've changed a lot myself since I visited here for the first time, but I'm still trying to improve. Remember you have the right to be happy.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:10 PM
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Dude, good on you for making this step. It shows you are willing to change. It will definitely take some work, but that's also the fun part of it!
/r/seduction26/06/12 10:45 PM
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Awesome indeed.
/r/seduction19/06/12 12:02 AM
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Stuff like this really belongs in /r/askseddit in my opinion. But anyway, I don't have much to add to what xpictoc114, but make sure you hop to something else afterwards; go somewhere to eat or drink or bounce to your/her house to get a good shower and whatnot.
/r/seduction03/06/12 10:11 PM
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Maybe an explanation/motivation would be in place? I see what you want to do, but like user99299 said; I don't see what this really has to do with /r/seduction.
/r/seduction03/06/12 09:54 PM
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You need to thank yourself the most.
/r/seduction03/06/12 01:32 PM
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Dude you look good.
/r/seduction30/05/12 11:31 PM
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Thanks a lot man. If I enjoy it I will definitely give it to my friends!
/r/seduction28/05/12 11:19 PM
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Really? Could you expand on that?
/r/seduction28/05/12 10:45 PM
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Haha, you're very welcome! I'm glad that it did something for you, too bad some of my friends probably listen to it, think "Okay, yeah, sounds logical.." and then fall back into their old mindset again. It's such a beautiful thought..
/r/seduction28/05/12 07:22 PM
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You're very welcome. I understand, and it's not necessarily a mod's job do do stuff like this. We're a community, and we're here to help each other out.
/r/seduction24/05/12 01:08 PM
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Instead of downvoting, you could also try improving the situation.
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:31 PM
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[CONDENSED INNER GAME GUIDE] 1.Make your game congruent to who you genuinely are 2.Listen to a Pump-Up Playlist to get in state before going out 3.Have mindset that you are the prize and don’t need validation from others. 4.Fake it ‘til you make it 5.No matter what happens, it is NO BIG DEAL 6.Pretend that you are chosen by everyone, and in position of choosing 7.Don’t develop an ego: be confident without being arrogant. 8.Focus on being internally happy before trying to get laid 9.De-stress you…
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:29 PM
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[CONDENSED ALPHA GUIDE] Inner-characteristics 1.Leader of men 2.Decisive, assertive, but notcontrolling 3.Firm in his values and identity: self-assured as to who he really is 4.Confident 5.Does not take anything personally 6.Lack of outcome dependence: justenjoys the process 7.Fully engaged in the present moment 8.Unstressed and carefree: walksthrough the world with ease 9.Non-judgmental 10.Interesting 11.Risk-taker 12.Ambitious 13.Non-reactive and non-reactionseeking 14.Has mindset that he is t…
/r/seduction23/05/12 10:28 PM
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Thanks a lot for posting! I loved this part especially: ...INSTEAD RECOGNIZE MOST FEARS ARE NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. Write down all your fears, then cross out the ones that are irrational or unlikely to happen. Then eliminate any that have to do with things that are out of your control. Finally, cross out any events that may happen in the future. What's left? Do you really have anything to worry about in this exact moment? No, not much, if anything. Acknowledge that it's all in your mind and let i…
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:35 PM
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Very well put. Any chance you can post the complete email?
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:01 PM
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Haha I might actually try that one, plus the one OP responded with. I'm quite curious how it will turn out.
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:34 PM
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So true. I'm wondering what would be a good opener referring to her grumpy face..
/r/seduction06/03/12 06:13 PM
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The best answer I could have gotten Thanks :)
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:28 AM
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Would it still work/work better if you said "You're a great friend, you know that?" and put your arm around her waist to kind of pull her against your side, like in a one armed hug?
/r/seduction26/02/12 10:53 PM
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Not a movie, but a series, White Collar. The main character is really the definition of alpha imo.
/r/seduction10/02/12 06:52 PM
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You should install Adblock Plus
/r/seduction10/02/12 03:05 PM
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Amazing! Thanks a ton for posting this..
/r/seduction08/02/12 07:46 PM
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Me too
/r/seduction27/01/12 11:59 PM
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I don't think this guys advice is the best way to show you are in control. IloveaMILF has the most solid/alpha advice IMO. Don't come across as upset or insulted because of the guys behavior and start calling him names; you're better than that.
/r/seduction02/01/12 12:28 AM
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Haha, I see. Sadly, that's the way many men think too, but then because of AA or other 'reasons'. I'll approach you the next time I see you!
/r/seduction19/11/11 02:06 AM
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And I seriously mean it, and not at all in a bad way! You should do what you like and what you want, don't let society's idea (how women should wait for a man to show up to seduce them, even though she wants to fuck as well) hold you back. It's aged, but still ingrained in todays society; be the one to change that :) I hope I've explained myself without coming of too much as a douche, English is not my native language.
/r/seduction18/11/11 10:39 PM
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"We want to fuck, so you have to find us!" Don't you think that sounds a bit backwards? You want to fuck, what's holding you back?
/r/seduction18/11/11 09:01 PM
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Dude that's awesome to read, and a great start in enhancing your (social) life! I've been here for some months and I'm noticing more and more how I'm changing (positively) on so many levels. Things that would have made me feel bad, like failed approaches or w/e, now make me smile and see it as an opportunity to improve myself for the next approach. I'm looking forward to your next FR!
/r/seduction15/11/11 12:01 AM
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Here's an other article on it. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-11223473
/r/seduction11/11/11 01:40 AM
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I do agree with you that we shouldn't be seeking out chemicals as solutions for better game, but I do want to try it out to see what kind of effect it has on me, and hopefully help me a bit with focusing on school as well.
/r/seduction06/11/11 01:00 PM
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Will do.
/r/seduction05/11/11 11:48 PM
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Also posted in the original post at /r/mansformation: I'd like to try this, but I need a recommendation from my doctor to get it (they don't sell it in stores here, also not online). Is it in this case still legal to buy it from Amazon.com?
/r/seduction05/11/11 10:17 PM
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There even is a complete subreddit relevant for high school seduction /r/highseddit
/r/seduction05/11/11 06:46 PM
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Haha, I like it.
/r/seduction29/10/11 12:14 PM
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"I don't know..." Edit: Hmm downvote means someone misunderstood me. Let me rephrase that: What if she says "I don't know..."? What would your response be?
/r/seduction28/10/11 10:42 PM
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Thanks for sharing that post onto here.
/r/seduction25/10/11 11:13 PM
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Story from Reddit. FTFY
/r/seduction25/10/11 03:30 PM
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Screw them. You're the one making out with a girl (on the dancefloor). But making out in the girls bathroom is sweet as well, so it doesn't really matter haha
/r/seduction24/10/11 12:46 AM
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I don't always read FR's this long, but you have some great writing skills which made me read the whole thing. I can see myself in a situation like this, and this FR was sort of a confidence boost to act and be agressive with physical escalation in these situations.
/r/seduction23/10/11 08:30 PM
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"my friends and I are going to do <<insert fun activity>> after the show..." What if the only activity you are going to do after the show is going home? What is a fun and 'cool' (you get what I mean) way to get her going home with you? If she would come with you after the show to some after party, does that mean she would go home with you as well/instead? I hope I explained myself clear enough haha
/r/seduction16/10/11 07:37 PM
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Same here. You'll make this guys day!
/r/seduction11/10/11 04:51 PM
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People here seem to misunderstand you.
/r/seduction19/09/11 03:23 PM
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You get used to it, and after a while, your frown has changed into a happy face : )
/r/seduction23/07/11 06:30 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction01/07/11 05:10 PM
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"You like girls too? I guess we have something in common!"
/r/seduction01/07/11 05:03 PM
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nice, thanks for your POV and explanation.
/r/seduction09/05/11 12:36 PM
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"I think you need a few lessons," Nice, I'll remember that. What is something similar to say, but when the girl is not dancing at all?
/r/seduction08/05/11 06:30 PM
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Making them the subject, breaking down defense, sounds like a good technique! Something to remember
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:58 PM
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No, seriously, it was a question, I was wondering if you could answer it haha
/r/seduction02/05/11 04:17 PM
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Well, I guess he just thought outside of the book!
/r/seduction01/05/11 04:54 PM
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But what could she possible be telling about her outfit? And why would she?
/r/seduction01/05/11 03:48 PM
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Like a boss!
/r/seduction01/05/11 01:19 PM
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I'm so sorry, FIXED!
/r/seduction30/04/11 10:45 PM
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Thanks. That last thing you said in your response to RobotGymnast hit the nail on the head.
/r/seduction30/04/11 10:34 PM
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If you use that line; "I wanted to talk to the hottest girl in the place tonight. I'm ____." What would be a strong follow up? Would a simple: "Are you enjoying yourself?" do? And if so, what should you talk about next? Assuming you are in a club/bar. I know this isn't r/askseddit (discovered its existence recently), but it's no use create a new post directing here about it.
/r/seduction30/04/11 10:10 PM
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Thank you. Excellent and convincing explanation.
/r/seduction27/04/11 08:50 PM
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Nice job!
/r/seduction27/04/11 08:45 PM
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Sounds like a good idea! So how are we going to do this? Before this thread fades into negligence.
/r/seduction20/04/11 09:46 PM
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I think I can pull that off. I will try at least. Thanks for all the advice, I'll post an FR when I can
/r/seduction13/04/11 02:13 PM
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It's no problem haha. I was hoping I explained myself clear enough with the English skills I have, but reading it again now I can see you can interpret it as one-itis. But I should first get her number, before I can text or call her. Should I ask for her number at her work, or trough FB? I think I'll manage from there on : )
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:21 AM
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I think you misunderstood me. I was just asking what the best way to approach this girl was, to make the strongest entrance. I'm not in love with her, I do not want her to be the only one, I simply want to see how far I can get, but with the best start I can do; and I want you to advice me with that. Where I live, there is only 1 bar that people of my age visit. Once a week. There are not so much other spots to gain experience (when going out), other than that spot (that's not where she works). …
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:07 AM
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What if she doesn't want to close her eyes? (for whatever reason).
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:00 PM
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Dude, thanks for that site. I recently bought my first suit, I just had to, I love that style!
/r/seduction07/04/11 10:34 PM
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You could have grabbed both of them and taken them outside, I think that's what absolutebeginners was trying to say. Anyway, that was a great FR, you probably learned a lot of it! (I know I would have).
/r/seduction01/04/11 08:11 PM
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You did great, of course you could have done some stuff different, but you opened a lot of sets, so that's well done. About remembering names, I've heard repeating the name of the person you just met helps you remember it (better), like: Girl: Hi, I'm Rachel! You: Hi Rachel, nice to meet you. instead of: Hi, nice to meet you. And using the girls' name is also a plus I think.
/r/seduction01/04/11 05:53 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction31/03/11 10:11 AM
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Thanks for clearing that up for me!
/r/seduction30/03/11 07:56 PM
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You did great! I do have a question for anyone who can tell me what to do in these situations: A different bouncer talks to the girls behind me and lets them cut in line in front of me. She estimated and said, "I hope they don't ditch you". Some dude was standing to my right. He asked me if I could watch his drink for a second. And props for going solo to the bar, I think you did great!
/r/seduction30/03/11 11:22 AM
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tl;dr FTFY
/r/seduction30/03/11 11:10 AM
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He dances great, I can see that. But in all seriousness, if you dance like that in a club, will even a single girl still think you're not gay? Will they feel attracted to you, or think you're gay?
/r/seduction30/03/11 11:02 AM
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Ooh, you mean that meme... ʘ‿ʘ
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:56 PM
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Awesome idea! I'll go and visit the Party Shop for something similar. I just looked it up on Ebay, and that badge will cost me 8 euros (11 dollar), so I'll save that option for if I can't find anything fun
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:52 PM
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Approach with confidence, get shot down. Never a miscommunication. Sorry, just had to make this meme once.
/r/seduction29/03/11 08:42 PM
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Great! Thanks for the idea! Will definitely do this the next time in a bar/club/wherever I want.
/r/seduction29/03/11 08:38 PM
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Nice, nice, great advice! (it rhymes).
/r/seduction29/03/11 08:00 PM
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Yes! Do it! If you can, do it!
/r/seduction29/03/11 07:50 PM
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Glad I read trough all of your FR! Great one too.
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:25 PM
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Great! Saved
/r/seduction28/03/11 03:32 PM
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Hmm.. Sounds familiar (sadly). But next time, I (and you must too!) will take steps myself next time, and wont be sitting making just EC! Just do it!
/r/seduction28/03/11 03:18 PM
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Great advice! Lol, blaming your friends for stuff works!
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:57 PM
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I've been wondering, what is so special about FB Chat? There's something like MSN (okay, Windows Live), why would you use Facebook?
/r/seduction25/03/11 05:59 PM
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Shit, after I read OPs post, I recognized a lot of how I talked to a girl I liked a while ago, and I thought OP did quite well. But the comments suprised me! Now I see what I did wrong there, so I learned a lot from this as well. Thanks to OP and commenters : )
/r/seduction24/03/11 07:22 PM
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@OP Great FR man, congrats! But I was wondering the same as this DiggAdmin. PS: Digg Admin, really?
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:33 PM
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Sorry for off topic, but do you know where he got that shirt? I'm a big fan of Burn Notice myself, and that shirt is simply awesome on it's own!
/r/seduction18/03/11 06:21 PM
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Make sure you don't do this in an arrogant way, but in a boss-way. If you know what I mean. Look serious, but act in a funny way (but not childish).
/r/seduction17/03/11 09:18 PM
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I don't know why you were downvoted. Thanks for the tip : )
/r/seduction17/03/11 09:09 PM
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Wearing Nike's or not-fapping?
/r/seduction16/03/11 06:30 PM
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As for bars, you should take my words with a grain of salt since I don't frequent bars. If it were me though, I'd probably comment about something they're wearing or just talk with the bartender and include your target in it. Great advice! Thanks again.
/r/seduction16/03/11 12:24 AM
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Subtle but major difference. Thanks again.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:28 PM
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Thanks for the last one. So that works, being so forthright? She doesn't think you're a creep? Also, what could I say in a bar? There aren't always situations you can comment on, and when I don't know her yet, I can't start talking/asking about how her day at school was.
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:20 PM
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I see. But what is the difference between playing hard to get and making her prove herself to you?
/r/seduction15/03/11 11:15 PM
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Thanks a lot : )
/r/seduction15/03/11 10:51 PM
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My problem is that I don't know what to say when I stand in front of her. I'm confident enough to walk over to her, but then what? I'll say "Hi!" she says "Hi!", and what should I say next?
/r/seduction15/03/11 10:45 PM
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Yup, great advice. I suggest Neal Caffrey (Matthew Bomer) in White Collar. He looks handsome, great example of how to be alplha + gentleman, has a positive vibe.. Well, just watch an episode and judge for yourself!
/r/seduction15/03/11 10:38 PM
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Sometimes I don't manage to keep her looking at me for 5 seconds. Is that some kind of 'hard-to-get' stuff? (Or she's not interested of course). Also, sometimes I look away after 2 seconds, to play 'hard-to-get' myself, so when I notice she looks back after a while, I know she's interested. Now we're talking about eye contact; when you are talking with a girl, who is standing close, and she switches looking at my right eye, left eye, right eye, left eye, very quickly, what does that mean?
/r/seduction15/03/11 10:25 PM
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Thanks for this! Great video. (And audio).
/r/seduction10/03/11 12:08 AM
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You know White Collar? I look at the main character a lot and see if I can learn from him. Since I've been on Seddit I recognize a lot of Alpha stuff he does, so I can use that myself too.
/r/seduction02/03/11 12:03 AM
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New or troll? PUA = Pick Up Artist. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist http://seddit.wikidot.com/ http://www.practicalpickup.com/ Also: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/ ;)
/r/seduction01/03/11 10:39 PM
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Great advice! Thanks
/r/seduction28/02/11 11:57 PM
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Well done, really enjoyed reading your FR, can't wait for that next one!
/r/seduction28/02/11 10:04 PM
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I can't scroll down?
/r/seduction28/02/11 09:39 PM
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Thanks a lot. Made a lot of stuff clear for me. Especially this...: Strength/alpha-ness is more rare and thus more valuable provided you can also be gentle when it's called for. ...is some pretty good info!
/r/seduction21/02/11 10:43 PM
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Question: If not leaning in to her makes her leaning in to you, wouldn't she find that annoying and ungentle? If not, is her leaning in to you (in general) a positive thing?
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:53 PM
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Nice one.
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:23 PM
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About the HB, thanks, thought it was Hot Body myself, but Hot Babe makes more sense. also, small note, you might need to put a space in your post between where you're quoting me, and where you're giving your own input. I was confused at first, thinking "when did i say this???" Thanks : )
/r/seduction11/02/11 09:03 PM
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Thanks for this, first I thought it sounded a bit like a cliché, but then I 'got' what you were saying, I guess something in me wanted to deny the fact that this is it. Sometimes, girls will get offended, or simply decide I'm an asshole who they don't like... however, the girls that don't do this LOVE IT, and those are the girls I'm into. This. I've "hated" guys like this, but I knew on the inside that it was because of jealousy. I now know I have to pick a side (make sure everyone likes you/or …
/r/seduction10/02/11 09:56 PM
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gg
/r/seduction10/02/11 09:37 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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