Dear Sedditors,

I've been reading a lot of posts by you guys, and I am very happy I did. I've changed a lot in many ways (for the better) and one (of the first) thing(s) I have learned is not to focus on getting this 'one girl'.

But, there is a girl which I know for a while, and I would like to see how far I can get with her. I used to be pretty beta, and that's what I'm working on now of course. When we were in class together, I felt she was attracted to me, but I messed up by not taking it further than holding eye contact, small kino (more kino from her, like punch on the shoulder after I made a joke about her) and other stuff (AA?).

Now, I haven't talked to her for a while (couple of months) and I want to see how far I can get with my higher confidence and less pussyness (if you know what I mean).

Though I am not quite sure how I should try since; * She almost never goes out; * We're on different schools; * I don't have her number anymore (I got a new phone); * We haven't spoken for months.

She works at a bar/restaurant as a waitress (maybe also barkeeper), but I haven't been there once. How should I handle this?

PS: I do have her on FB.