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acartoontiger/r/seduction13/04/11 08:07 PM
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Booooooooo! Didn't watch, products for self esteem are scams and pathetic. Booooooo!
/r/seduction23/11/17 09:02 PM
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Hey I have been looking for a few good upper back exercises for the same reason, could you give me a few recommendations?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:12 AM
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For my curiosity, how did you expand a social circle of interesting high value men. In my experience such men are often solitary or already in relationships/tight social circles. My profession is heavily saturated with women (veterinarian) so I meet very few men in the course of my days. I would really like a group of good guys to play poker with, as a break from the estrogen toxicity that consumes my professional life. I'm just ranting, how did your improvement open doors and which doors did it…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:38 AM
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This is all well and good and congrats on the vagina, but can't we keep obvious reminiscing/humblebrag posts in the seduction subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:42 PM
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Ha unfortunately I'm not that instagram guy, I'm a dog/cat vet, although they make us learn all major species in school and test us on it to pass the boards. One of the major reasons vet school is hard is because you have to learn everything about dog/cat/horse/cow/sheep/chicken/ferret/etc, the lesser species not in as much detail, but still. Anyway yeah get a dog, they are cool. I could go on for days about dog care and stuff but most things are pretty obvious. Get him his shots, feed him decen…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:06 PM
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Don't bang any drunk sluts and then drop them in a way that pisses them off.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 11:20 PM
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Hey I can contribute here. I'm a doctor (veterinary) recently graduated. Im 27. In school I experienced kinda the same thing that the law school guy above me did, the women are all super type-A and used to getting their own way and are very driven. That lead to lots of drama and cat fights and bullshit. I didn't keep up with my development as well as I should have because I was busy, partly because of school and partly because I met my current LTR girlfriend 4 months into school, (together 4 yea…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:31 PM
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GLO has earned the right to offer shirts bc he provides original content and helped build the community. His ability to do this on his posts has been discussed before and approved by the mods.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 12:16 PM
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Swamp donkeys, new favorite descriptor. *I know this adds nothing to the topic, but i literally laughed out loud. Nice
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 02:37 AM
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Wow nice work. Nice job adding quality content for the community. You deserve some credit and/or money for the great effort
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:49 PM
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googled a new word to expand vocabulary... not a word :(
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 01:34 PM
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Yes. Being a redhead is generally negative. Sorry. Dye it, or overcome it with other awesome traits.
/r/seduction10/01/16 09:20 PM
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"There are no women on the internet". That post is one of the most redpill condensed pieces of wisdom that I have seen. It helped to open my eyes and get me on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:30 PM
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The reverse pile driver
/r/seduction03/12/15 08:06 PM
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Hey thanks man. It was hard as fuck but yeah I'm proud I got through it. Now just gotta wait for results, the sick bastards dont release scores until January. Hope your November goals went well.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:52 PM
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Wish I could give out delta points. You probably dont need any more though.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 01:02 AM
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I get GLO's point. If its just some tinder bitch then no, it shouldnt bother you. But if its an LTR and she blows her shit up during the last hour of your evening before you want to relax and sleep, it can definitely ruin your mood. Its fucking taxing
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 12:59 AM
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Damn you really crashed and burned that initial exchange, but seems like she wants to see you anyway. Yeah meet up with her. Fuck the shit out of her. Never call her again. It'll be satisfying to regain some of the balls you sacrificed during your relationship.
/r/seduction11/11/15 12:35 AM
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Good luck to you. Right now is a pretty crucial point in my life, and I already have the minimal alcohol and the 5x/wk workouts, the last things to cut were porn, the last of the alcohol, and any unhealthy food. Also, I know 30mins/day is nothing when talking about studying for boards, but I work like 12 hours a day in the hospital which in many ways is more than studying. But I really want to make that promise to myself that every day when I'm home from work I will still hit those notes so I ca…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 01:54 PM
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I'm in. I give up alcohol, porn, and food from restaurants/businesses. Proactive activity is 30mins daily studying for my medical board exam that is nov 30th. Good luck everyone
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:20 PM
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They probably just wanted the validation of having a thirsty dude flirt with them and ask them out. Then they were over it and doing the same thing with thirsty dude #3763846
/r/seduction25/10/15 11:17 PM
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"Keep telling yourself that"
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 04:51 PM
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Yohimbine is primarily an alpha-2 adrenergic receptor antagonist, hence the sympathomimetic effects. I havent done any reading on any potential phosphodiesterase inhibition.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:12 AM
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Thats because you arent a self-aggrandizing douchebag
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 12:16 AM
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Yeah add that to millions of revenue in reality shows and media appearances. I think it was a publicity and business decision
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 07:41 PM
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Can you buy phenibut in the U.S.? I haven't found it on any domestic sites, maybe I am looking in the wrong area. Also can you expand on its effects? I don't have issues with social fluidity so I am curious about the other effects
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:59 PM
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yes it is a thing, causes hypercalcemia
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:42 PM
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German Shepherds are cool dogs, but I wouldn't recommend them as first time pets. They have an ungodly amount of health problem predispositions. So the chances of them dying young or costing you a shit ton of money are high. I prefer wolf dogs like huskies and malamutes.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:23 PM
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This is a good point, I'm glad you said it
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 02:30 PM
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You put the penis in the vagina
/r/seduction20/03/15 02:42 PM
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The one with the facial hair I assume. So you hypothesize that that guy (a 5) would likely hook up with that slutty blonde in the front (the arguable winner) or the lead? Those dynamics are interesting
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 02:12 PM
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Yes I love teaching and skiing. Most of the year I am veterinary medical student. I will be a doctor in 1 year.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 12:13 PM
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If your prime focus is hitting on 18-30 year olds? A snowboard Skiing is awesome too though, just more young women snowboard, by a wide margin.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:28 PM
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Well most of the girls I teach are either less than 14 or more than 30, and I'm 25 so I dont really mess with that while I'm teaching. Most of the hot party girls are snowboarders, but all the instructors (snowboard included) are like family. So even if for some reason I can't pull on the slopes when I'm free riding, there are always parties at the bar after work or at one of the instructors houses full of girls that just want to have a drink and a fuck after a long day on the mountain. I miss i…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 01:54 PM
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Ski instructor here... You're right. Its awesome
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:49 PM
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I got banned too for commenting. They really dont want to hear any negative discourse
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:45 PM
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Oh my god im reading this in a surgery lecture and I just came so close to laughing out loud even though my professor is standing 5 feet from me. Dangerous
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:33 PM
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AWALT. She thinks it does no harm. Until next month when she is full of 9 inches of some confident aggressive man from work. Poor husband. maybe getting divorced will bring him to change himself... and not get married again.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 08:31 PM
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"No good men after 30". Common misinterpretation of the real issue. There are few (or none) good Women after they turn 30, and thus all the good men fuck those low value women's younger sisters/coworkers. Justice is sweet
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 08:09 PM
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It means she is interested, unless she is just a horrible vile girl who is utterly using you. So unless you have been majorly and painfully friendzoned for a long time, it means that she is interested. My advice depends on the part of her body that you are massaging, but in general, focus on large muscle groups and provide deep pressure. Often times the harder you are massaging the better it feels, just gauge her response (or ask) part way through if you are pressing too hard. Also, remember tha…
/r/seduction07/08/14 07:01 PM
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"Not often enough..." smile seductively. Close
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:21 PM
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Anyone surprised? ... Anyone?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:58 PM
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I believe in demonstrating chivalry... once they have earned it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:55 PM
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The chain ending with the shooting reference pisses me off. No one cares what RP is actually about.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 07:05 PM
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Good post. I am getting close to where you are. I just turned 25, and am in the final stages of getting my career off the ground (veterinarian), and I currently have a gf who exhibits the above described "princess syndrome". I am having a crisis of conscience as to whether I should aim to live relatively in tune with how you do, or if I should aim to pursue relationship life. I do want children of my own, but the gf (who admittedly has some good qualities and is a 9 IMO) exhibits many stereotypi…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 06:56 PM
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Why so bitter? This is a success story, and OP is in the right.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 12:08 PM
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Holy shit. One girl I lived with threatened to lie to the cops about me beating her in order to have me thrown out of our apartment (joint lease) at 4am. The next day she was telling me how grateful I should be that she didn't do it. Bitches
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:54 PM
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Gay bars...
/r/seduction30/05/14 10:41 PM
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The best cure for jealousy is suicide, followed closely by homicide. Or is it the other way around? Or you could move on and find a new girl....
/r/seduction02/05/14 06:41 AM
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Is english your first language?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:52 PM
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Disclaimer: Program does not build Ripped toes.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:53 PM
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Or he is 18 or less and has been with less than 4 women.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 12:49 AM
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I thought that the ad was hinting at "boyfriend". And the "associate" was a needy girlfriend. I was actually surprised.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:26 PM
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Yes I agree. Best to pay homage to Brodin and lift your life depends on it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:09 AM
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Hah. Yeah I guess some girls will do anything for some cock and some validation. I'm amused by the good cop, bad cop routine
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:23 PM
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Can we think of a phrase besides swallowing...
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:42 AM
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I think that most guys do it because they want to know that they are awesome enough to win someone's affections (vagina). It makes people feel good to be charming enough to take someone home and do something intimate. I personally love the feeling of being so charming that girls can't keep their pants on.
/r/seduction18/03/14 10:18 PM
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That would be awesome
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 10:15 PM
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Dude you are on a support subreddit for MEN trying to change their lives. Knock off the Big Bang Theory shit, no one cares. You really should stop watching that show, for your own sanity and progress.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 06:45 AM
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I like you. This is manipulative but it is solid. I can speak from experience in saying that if you do not create the drama in your own relationship, your woman will create it for you. On her terms. Sounds like an interesting angle to create strategic drama.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:01 PM
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Thats very insightful. Solid explanation
/r/seduction15/02/14 08:53 PM
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Damn i was too late to the thread. Well played
/r/seduction11/02/14 04:18 PM
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Great job so far... the next step should be obvious. Ask her out. Sit together in class, have fun, chat, etc. Make sure you look good and ask her out while you guys walk back home together. Coffee, dinner, lazer-tag, a picnic, whatever. Decide based on how you feel about the interaction. Good luck! p.s. look her in the eye and smile when you are asking her out.
/r/seduction12/09/13 03:02 PM
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"I'm a failure... :( "
/r/seduction15/04/13 11:12 PM
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I don't know why you were downvoted, this is an honest question. I believe it is all about leading a life that you are proud of. Find something to be passionate about and dive in, take good care of yourself and work on your body/style/wit/hair/social skills/whatever until you find yourself attractive. I think it is important to ask yourself the question "Would I hook up with me?" I know that sounds weird, but are you cool/attractive/interesting enough that a girl would want you? If the answer is…
/r/seduction26/02/13 08:55 PM
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Become a man who has good reason to love himself. Women will love you too.
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:02 PM
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I guess it depends on how quickly you are hoping to reach your goals. For me personally I think that sex is a good development for the 3rd date, if not sooner. Some guys might be satisfied with a kiss, or a romantic dinner, or whatever. It depends on the guy's goals and the type of girl.
/r/seduction18/02/13 01:30 AM
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Put in as much effort as you think the girl deserves. I personally think that if no significant developments happen after 3 "dates" with a new girl then you should probably choose a different one. But it really depends how much time you are willing to spend pining for someone and not on the market for others.
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:20 PM
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The same way you make friends with guys, although perhaps you should do it sans the gushing about video games and sports.
/r/seduction15/02/13 05:01 PM
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Its slightly more indicative that you are looking for a relationship than if you were to go out on a different day.
/r/seduction11/02/13 11:38 PM
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Forget about the other guy. He doesn't exist. Next time you two are talking you should ask her out. Don't call it a date, don't ask her to dinner, just suggest something fun where you two can be alone and have a good time. If she is actually appearing in hallways to hug you, chat with you, stare at you; then she is interested enough that one fun night and a well timed kiss will settle this situation for good.
/r/seduction03/02/13 12:11 AM
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I discovered long ago that the primary goal here is not to get women to like you, but to become the man that you have always wanted to be. The women follow.
/r/seduction31/01/13 08:22 PM
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I understand the point of your post, but it is grossly overshadowed by the fact that you think the brain is a muscle. Anyway I just stopped by to upvote because your title made me laugh.
/r/seduction23/01/13 10:06 PM
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Its SUPER EFFECTIVE !!!
/r/seduction15/11/12 02:11 PM
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Summer nights is a terrible song to sing duet. I tried it once and I couldn't get the pitch right for the male lead. If you had a better song you could have knocked it out of the park. I love karaoke, don't give up on it after one bad experience.
/r/seduction11/11/12 08:57 PM
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Just give her your fucking number. If you really want to sound like a clever cock, tell her "Oh you can't tell? I'm a 10".
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:02 PM
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I was drunk and I don't remember posting it. Yes its just a small piece of philosophy, but some people obviously need to hear it. Some of the new guys here still haven't even gotten over their AA. Don't be a dick.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:19 PM
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First of all, your focus should NOT be on getting phone numbers. In my opinion, getting numbers ain't shit. If you are looking to improve the way you relate to girls in groups, THAT should be your focal point, not the potential follow-up of getting a number. If you practice entering a random group and getting close/friendly/seducey with your target, that is the most important thing. If the connection gets built, and the attraction develops... then you will find a lot of your logistical problems …
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:01 PM
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There are two different levels of using a woman as a wing. Indirect All she really has to do is hang around and be friendly with you. It is classic social proof and it immediately circumvents any resistance that other girls would put up. The fact that the wing is smiling, laughing at your jokes, playing games with you, etc. Is often the only "winging" that is really required because it establishes you as a high value commodity. Direct This is more complex. The girl who is winging for you actuall…
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:00 PM
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Also, since I remember that you are a veteran of this place from when I used to post FRs here. Are the members here getting more timid? I can't remember people complaining about girls being flirts back in the day.
/r/seduction25/09/12 08:14 PM
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Thanks buddy, maybe I was wrong about rapists.
/r/seduction25/09/12 08:11 PM
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You need to learn to be articulate. I don't know what you were doing while you were writing this but... it is very important to be able to formulate ideas clearly. This may help you be more forward and smooth when it counts. I have to ask something because you mentioned that people think you are uninteresting. Are you revealing things about yourself in conversation that are interesting? Just knowing you are cool is not always enough. Find ways to demonstrate it. On the topic of kino. There are t…
/r/seduction25/09/12 08:10 PM
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You bang them.
/r/seduction25/09/12 07:55 PM
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I disagree, I think it makes you seem like a prick.
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:47 PM
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fuck you, I wanted genuine advice.
/r/seduction16/09/12 03:25 AM
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practice. find a few good recipes and use them as baselines for experience. you should strive to learn to cook without any recipes, but they are a good starting place. my favorite is shrimp scampi. learn it, love it, seduce with it.
/r/seduction13/09/12 07:23 PM
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I love animals too! I am a veterinary student. Loving your dog is a strengthening quality not a weakening one, just don't go overboard. I love doing things outside (swimming/hiking/biking/etc), these things tend to come up in conversation a lot and they are strong because they show outside/athletic interests and often open up ideas for dates. I also love puzzles/riddles. If you choose the right ones they can be incorporated into pickup games. This can also be done horribly wrong if you aren't ca…
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:29 PM
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Good job breaking out of your comfort zone and chatting with her. You are right on with a few of the positive aspects you mentioned. Notably the fact that sometimes all you need to do is smile and say hi. I do have one piece of advice. Its too late now, but you made a mistake by telling her immediately that you knew where she worked and which part of the floor her office is on. She did not know you and the fact that you knew her details already indicates that you have been checking her out and k…
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:33 PM
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You could just go to less raucous clubs. I think that it wold look kinda funny to see a guy trying to open a set with earplugs blocking out voices
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:26 PM
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This approach is devious but extremely effective. It really depends how you execute it on whether or not you come off as an asshole. Often times a girl who is not sure how she feels about you only maintains that mentality as long as she views you as stagnant and available. Its like you are a pair of shoes on sale. She will look and think and try to decide if the shoes will look good on her, but if she sees another girl eyeing them or trying them on, she will suddenly decide whether she wants the…
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:10 PM
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She just needs to be coaxed into it. If you are already making out then the only missing piece is to get her turned on enough to want to escalate, and to have a proper venue for sex. I personally think that if you are making out with a girl correctly, the only steps between that and sex are time and a bed. Grab her ass, kiss her neck, guide her body. Women are reactionary and if you take charge she will just be that much more turned on when you actually round 3rd base/get hard/penetrate/etc. Be …
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:56 AM
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1.) be attractive 2.) don't be unattractive 3.) tell her to get drunk and kiss you 4.) profit
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:29 PM
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i think you are fine looking, you should just work on your social charisma. Make friends with a few girls and get in the habit of going out and doing fun things with them. Learn to make them smile/laugh. Being friends with a few cool girls is priceless.
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:25 PM
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Shrimp Scampi is amazing. I have gotten so many compliments. It takes a while to do correctly, but it is a fun process, you can make a flambe, and it tastes orgasmic. Great with wine.
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:16 PM
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well my advice stays the same. also, are you decent looking? how are you in social situations? can you make a girl laugh and smile by just talking to her? Those are the things you need to work on and the validation and attraction will fall into line after that, I promise.
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:13 PM
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Nobody knows or cares if you are a virgin. If you pay for an escort to lose your virginity you may as well just be jerking off for free. I understand that it can be frustrating to see other's success when you don't really know what it feels like, but paying for sex is not only depressing but it will also cheat you out of the feeling of real success when you have finally earned it. It sounds like you are more interested in earning a girl's attraction than in just getting laid. Also I can tell you…
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:01 PM
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Actually there is a guide, its called the DiCarlo escalation ladder and I believe it is in the sidebar. I have never read it because kino is not one of my weak points, but I hear a lot of good things about it from other Sedditors.
/r/seduction30/08/12 10:08 PM
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You are wondering how much misery you need in order to be forced into action? It kinda sounds like you are there already. I got depressed just reading that post. You definitely need a change. My advice... is to approach and flirt with girls you are not attracted to. This sounds strange, but I think that it will help you for a few reasons. First, it will get you out of your house and into social situations. Second, it will hone your game and give you some practice at seduction while you are not i…
/r/seduction29/08/12 02:22 PM
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Are you interested in other people? You say that opening is easy... say hi and ask them how they are doing. After that, just try to get to know them, demonstrate the fact that you have a personality and they will do the same. Most people like getting to know others as long as they are not threatened. What do they want to do with their lives, what makes them excited, do they like playing bar games? Whatever... people are interesting, just get them to open up and go from there.
/r/seduction23/08/12 02:08 AM
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Hey, I agree completely. My job depends on me not only approaching every person I see on the street for 8 hours, but building and exploiting rapport enough to get them to donate money. I was already good at approaching when I took the job, but I have already gotten so much better. People light up if you light up first and share it with them. The point is... I am basically a panhandler for charity, and its awesome. If you can get someone's credit card card information on the street, suddenly girl…
/r/seduction23/06/12 01:17 AM
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You may want to read the comment I wrote to OP. Sexual experience does not matter at all until you are actually having sex. The first step is being confident in you social ability to talk to people, and that should not be dependent on how often you get laid. Ideally, you are awesome all the time and you can talk to women and make them laugh/smile whether you are a porn star or a virgin.
/r/seduction19/05/12 07:56 PM
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It doesn't matter that you are inexperienced at sex. What matters is how you feel socializing with women. Can you sit down with a woman and chat with her comfortably? Thats all you need to get started (many guys here are still struggling with the talking part). Not to be a pessimist, but you probably will not get laid on your first approach unless you are incredibly suave. So, just go out and have a good time and socialize. 90% of picking up women is just being cool and wanting to talk to them. …
/r/seduction19/05/12 07:51 PM
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There are girls out there who are higher value than me!??
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:32 PM
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I know I am a little late to this thread, but I have a perfect one that I use. I am actually a pretty good singer, but my greatest success was Twist & Shout by the Beatles. I am 21, it was in a bar with a group of girls, and they ate it like catnip. They weren't even the classic rock types and I could still see in their eyes that it worked. They even said "Wow you actually know how to sing". Other people in the bar even got up and danced. That being said, its a pretty easy song to sing. I even s…
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:52 PM
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I have three competing for first place. Two are emotional and one is physical. Once after sex a girl told me... "You touch me like I am so beautiful, its perfect." Another time I was playing pool with a girl on my team and she said "You are always so happy and optimistic about everything, I love it." And once a cute girl at a party told me that I looked like I should be a model. Its was awesome. I like this topic, now I am in a good mood. Upvotes for all!!!
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:11 AM
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Top of my head options: Lie, pick a real job thats plausible but untrue and use the resulting conversations to your advantage Tell her that you travel so much you bounce between jobs and industries. Travel is always a good way to change a subject. "Why, are you worried it's too cool compared to whatever you do?" "What a boring question" Those are actually pretty good. "Oh i have a rule where I don't talk about work until the third date, i think it helps people get to know each other better." "Th…
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:29 PM
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If you open a set and it doesn't feel like it is going anywhere don't be sad. They are total strangers and so are you, when you approach them you have nowhere to go but up. If you get blown off and never see them again have you lost anything? Having people pass judgment on you is only meaningful if they know you. I think that gaining the practice is probably more valuable than anything else. Keep your head up.
/r/seduction09/10/11 11:48 PM
1

Try it and see the difference
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:47 PM
1

Hey Tofu... where in America?
/r/seduction15/05/11 10:59 PM
7

I am happy for you brother, great work.
/r/seduction15/05/11 02:31 AM
2

My perspective is that most of us would be happy to do it (I already give most of this information in my field reports). I just have no idea how to go about creating a survey. Go ahead and make one, tell the admins, and get the word out.
/r/seduction11/05/11 07:05 PM
1

Field Report I almost tripped over a mixed set in the dark and I slept with the girl 3 hours later. Flawless Victory.
/r/seduction11/05/11 12:34 AM
2

Are you trying to sell product or are you trying to pick up women? Either way you already nailed the answer. Physically step in their way and stop them. Look into their eyes and smile while you deliver your pitch and it will be about more than just the phone. I know that this sounds contrived but you must kino if you really want to stop them in their tracks. Approach with an extremely confident mindset... she wants to fuck you already but first you are going to sell her a phone. Also, approach a…
/r/seduction10/05/11 06:07 AM
3

Gross oversimplification. I hope that you actually know better than this.
/r/seduction10/05/11 05:16 AM
2

Well you probably don't need to worry about getting friendzoned because she wants to use you as her rebound. If you are okay with that, then do it (not when she is hammered). Do not tease her about the fact that she is using you as a rebound, think about what she would say in response. Don't worry about conversation, she will have plenty to say. Just ensure that you have a few topics other than her ex or you will be bored as sin. You are her shoulder to cry on and probably her sex to rely on for…
/r/seduction09/05/11 11:43 PM
12

We prefer to think of ourselves as magnificent bastards... and you are welcome. Go get em'
/r/seduction09/05/11 04:33 AM
1

Hah! Only if they haven't been listening to us. Or maybe you just wear awesome shirts. Have you ever gotten "That shirt would look better on my floor ;)"?
/r/seduction06/05/11 07:20 AM
1

Same here, I am beginning to think that relatively few Sedditors read this subreddit because they can't get laid.
/r/seduction06/05/11 06:16 AM
1

Oh hi female, thanks for the support on the post. However I must ask, what are you doing in this subreddit? By the way I know lots of things about lots of things... how you doin?
/r/seduction06/05/11 05:56 AM
2

It was a cafe, and I was tutoring for a local community college (west coast). Why?
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:39 AM
1

An alleyway narrowly trumps my most impressive spots... very nice work. I wish I had a lair in my part of the world, it sounds like a good time. Cheers
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:56 AM
2

Its strange that you and I posted at nearly the same time so I saw your title on the new posts page under mine. I just wrote a Field Report about academics and how they worked in my favor. Don't ignore the academics!! If they portray you in good light and can move the interaction forward then they are a Good Thing! It sounds as if your commonality was enough to give you DHV and a reason to continue the conversation at their table. Throwaway is right though, you must use the academics to move the…
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:48 AM
2

I don't have a nice car, actually its kinda comically the opposite. However I would use a "Hey lets get out of here and go for a ride" as an easy segway whenever you want to bounce a location. And if she is the type to get turned on by a nice car, the next location may be your bed.
/r/seduction05/05/11 02:25 AM
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Strange question. 7 for the quality... 9 for the fact that it all went so beautifully given the precarious nature of the situation.
/r/seduction05/05/11 02:19 AM
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I appreciate your concern, but I didn't fabricate everything based on lies. I just honestly wanted to break for a night from playing the neurophysiology/veterinary card. Usually I am quite honest and rely on my charm. However, this was a lot of fun and it was an interesting social experiment.
/r/seduction05/05/11 01:35 AM
0

I love futurama
/r/seduction05/05/11 01:29 AM
2

Whenever I feel myself starting to get sick I just stop being sick and be awesome instead... true story.
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:08 PM
0

Well perhaps I will do a thread in r/AMA, but I would want to cross post it in r/relationships because those are the people who would be interested. You're a mod, would that get my post banned?
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:48 PM
1

Thanks for the kindness, I have just been defensive lately because I've been getting a lot of hate. I would be happy to an AMA but i don't think anyone would want to hear it. In Seddit I would sound like a bragger, and in your subreddit the monogamists would hate me. Let me know if I am incorrect, I actually would find it interesting as well.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:32 PM
1

Ah yes the relationships Mod. You know, I did enjoy it and so did she. I did this as a personal challenge and I really was happy with the results. It was like a social experiment and the goal was fun and sex. I already have a 5 year GF who loves me so I wasn't worried about creating a LTR with this girl. Also... who says that it wasn't me that she was sleeping with. Allow me a quote; You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the…
/r/seduction04/05/11 07:32 PM
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Totally a bitter woman. Everyone lies, I just took it over the top for fun. I can also tell that you have no sense of humor if you think I would ever drug a woman. Also, you don't know me... what is your problem and what are you doing here if you hate the idea of a fun pickup?
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:34 AM
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You must be a woman. Why the hate? I did this for fun and as a challenge. She certainly enjoyed it, and I am not just some creep that can't get laid with the truth. I made friends at the bar before she arrived and they were good enough to introduce her to. This was FUN! Its not like I roofied her and injected her with smallpox. Anyway, you obviously don't view this as a game and as such I am confused as to why you are here being judgmental. Women deserve to be played with (sure thats a double en…
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:12 AM
1

She was smart (environmental sciences), but if I may say so... I am a really good liar. She had no reason not to believe me, and we had a great night. A classic win-win situation.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:44 AM
1

Hah it was her drink that was 4$ I have a job so it isn't a big deal. I am willing to pay a decent sum for a sweet double scotch on a good night.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:40 AM
5

Wow that was painful. What do you mean you "settled" with HB7.5? You danced with her and she left and nothing? What are you doing taking "smart drugs" in high school? Jesus Tapdancing Christ, you sound like you took everything you learned from Seddit and became the dancing monkey. You should never need a wingman. Yes you could have easily outperformed that other guy, you seemed to do well at first. You made several rookie mistakes like confusing names but it happens to the best of us (usually on…
/r/seduction04/05/11 06:27 AM
1

Hah thanks for the support. I have established that the truth works, and this FR was just for fun to see if I could make everything up on the spot. Its like taking any real admirable qualities that I have any discarding the edge that they give me. LOL @ animal euthanizer... I think you are looking for veterinarian, nobody's profession is strictly euthanasia. I am a bit of a compulsive liar and I like the rush of having someone hook while you just riff on abstractions. It also gave me an excuse t…
/r/seduction04/05/11 06:05 AM
2

It always depends what you said. Most things are salvageable if you do one of three things. 1.) Ignore it and move forward like a boss that never says anything wrong. 2.) Make a joke about it and move the conversation to a new topic. 3.) Apologize if what you said was truly horrible. It takes a man to admit mistakes. I like your use of the term blunder, are you a chess player?
/r/seduction04/05/11 04:05 AM
1

I HATE that I can't mix alcohol and trees. In fact, I can't really run good game under the influence of trees at all anymore. The other night I was with friends ready to go out and have fun, but I took 2 hits and became a ridiculous introvert. I am under the suspicion that I have reached a point where I don't enjoy the feeling of being high anymore, its a little disconcerting. Anyway you are right, herb is the enemy of good game.
/r/seduction03/05/11 11:04 PM
2

read the side bar and the terms list. indicators of interest/disinterest
/r/seduction03/05/11 11:02 PM
1

If she says she 100% doesn't know you... "Thats good, I want to get to know you from the beginning"
/r/seduction03/05/11 10:57 PM
13

Ummm I actually Am awesome, I don't just believe in it. Thanks for your concern.
/r/seduction03/05/11 10:53 PM
1

Thats pretty manipulative. Interesting...
/r/seduction02/05/11 02:20 AM
1

Pray tell, what is your definition of a "Boyfriend Destroyer"?
/r/seduction02/05/11 02:02 AM
1

clever
/r/seduction30/04/11 12:02 AM
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First of all no girl would ever say that unless she was a ridiculous bitch AND you pissed her off first. However it could be good to know how to rebound from something similar. "Whoa it sounds like something is bothering you... would you rather dance it off?" "Ay calmate, did you you know that being a buzzkill causes cancer?" "I can tell you are just being protective, but I am one of the good ones. Let me show you." "Hi [obstacle], I'm sorry I haven't gotten a chance to get to know you yet. Let …
/r/seduction29/04/11 10:08 PM
7

The only real "format" for field reports is to begin the title with [FR] in my opinion. I think that you are worrying about something unimportant and you made a mistake. The fact that initially you only had one girls attention is GOOD! It partially means that you didn't intimidate or alarm the group and they were fine with your presence. You absolutely should NOT have ejected. Honestly the most likely continuation if you actually had the girl's attention is that she talks to you for a while and …
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:15 PM
2

There is always opportunity to kino!! Also, you are right that studying is a shaky pretense. Its low risk low reward, but hey it worked so far. Meet her to study like you said but don't let the second interaction be studying, ask her to do something that isn't related to class. Good work and keep it up.
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:07 PM
1

Are you sure about that? Women don't like being asked their age normally.
/r/seduction29/04/11 08:39 PM
1

DAMN! Part of me thought all the mods here were between 21 and 35. Congratulations! What I meant is that I don't really think women care about age so long as you act accordingly. Surely a 60 year old guy that acts cool can and will pick up young women, but his answer to the question of age may have a different tone than mine (21). Hah, again nice going.
/r/seduction29/04/11 08:38 PM
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Tell the truth and leave it at that. Unless you are 60 trying to pick up 21 year olds, why would it be an issue? Or... say that you are 175 but you found the fountain of youth in an exotic jungle adventure many years ago, and it now rests in your bedroom ;)
/r/seduction29/04/11 07:30 PM
1

Jesus, she sounds like an attention hungry skank. I don't demean girls for having lots of sex but I will demean for a girl acting like this one did. She was so desperate for sexual attention that she just shows her tits at parties all the time? Given her behavior you probably do have an infinite number of future chances with her, but do you really want them? I shudder to think of how this girl acts when not surrounded by drunken AFCs to feed her attention.
/r/seduction28/04/11 08:42 PM
1

Wait... your problem is that there are too many beautiful women and that its too easy to get them drinking and playing a game with you? Beach game is SO MUCH EASIER than bar game because girls don't have defenses up, they are there to play in the sun and are easily persuaded to do things like swim and play frisbee. Also, it opens the opportunity for hilarious lines if you are into that sort of thing. "Hey you look like you are too hot, come jump in the water with me" "Can I sensually rub lotion …
/r/seduction28/04/11 08:14 PM
4

That one chode that already commented is right. You must learn to express yourself when you write. The fact that you are worried about her "gaming you" and reducing you to omega (I think you mean epsilon, but its a literary reference) means that you are too far in your head. If she is interested enough to play games with you, she is interested enough to fuck you if you are able to project fun and confidence with a little logistical intelligence. You are experiencing a textbook case of "paralysis…
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:58 PM
0

HAHAHA welcome to being a guy!!!! I understand completely what you mean and this is what women have done to men forever. The fact that you are here means you must recognize this delicious irony. Approach him anyway and risk painful rejection if you ever want anything out of it. Kinda sucks getting a taste of women's own medicine doesn't it? Welcome to the club :) PS: this guy obviously has no idea how women work either, if you do speak with him he will probably be awkward and strange, and you ma…
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:51 PM
1

Thoughts about her saying or you using it as a line? When she says it, it means you are winning... keep it up. If you want to use it in the seduction process, use it only when you are trying to establish romance, thats what it does.
/r/seduction26/04/11 03:39 AM
1

People outside the US love practicing their English with a native speaker. Use some crude but adorable German to tell a girl you are an American and want to talk to her, she will likely be excited to bust the conversation back into English. Also, now you are in the position to be a kind/teasing/funny mentor and you can easily swing that into attraction. Go get em'
/r/seduction26/04/11 01:50 AM
1

You obviously understand the concept of "pinging" (never heard it called that before). I know that we don't have to use your examples but I personally don't think you should either. Maybe they fit your personality type but they are thinly veiled windbag status bumps from yourself. I think you can do better.
/r/seduction26/04/11 01:47 AM
1

Depends on the type of girls you are interested in. I used to smoke trees (stopped because I didn't like what it did to my game), but now the girls I spend time with generally don't smoke either and would find it a DLV to care about such a holiday. If your girlfriends are all the ent type, I can see it as a nice and easy ping.
/r/seduction26/04/11 01:45 AM
3

I'm more interested in what you guys would have said (not done) such that you could take things further with one of the girls The first 4 commenters fail. Things to SAY in order to separate a 2 set and escalate with one. "Hey HBobstacle, that guy across the dancefloor is checking you out, are you gonna dance with him or should I?" "Wow HBtarget, you dance like a champion but I need some air, come outside with me." If you have been fake-ignoring Hbtarget, "Alright I feel bad for paying less atten…
/r/seduction24/04/11 11:24 PM
3

Good job, it really feels good to demonstrate a success for a friend. I am glad that you found the workshop worth it. I have never and will never pay for a workshop because I prefer to learn on my own and from experience, but I like seeing people post reviews saying that the instructors are great guys. I hope that you will continue to help your friends if they want the help. I do this rather frequently and it is rewarding. This FR is the first time I ever tried to help a friend and it worked out…
/r/seduction24/04/11 11:06 PM
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Thanks for the input :) You are obviously one of the people who bothered to understand our goals rather than judge immediately. Unfortunately we already know these things and it is the rest of Reddit that doesn't want to give us a chance. We generally assume that women do not come to Seddit (although occasionally we receive nice posts from girls), and this is one reason that we use our terminology so openly. I personally don't find it offensive at all (maybe because I understand the aims). I thi…
/r/seduction24/04/11 10:58 PM
4

You saying I can haz girl by acting stupid
/r/seduction19/04/11 10:21 PM
1

Don't think like that!!! Many in this thread are using "mean" as a synonym for "not an unsuccessful chump". In reality, being mean doesn't get women, being attractive does. Its the people that are too pathetically nice or too unabashedly mean who do not fend up appearing attractive. Just work on being intelligently in the middle.
/r/seduction19/04/11 07:11 PM
11

Naked ones... Nailed It!!
/r/seduction18/04/11 10:40 AM
2

BTM makes a good point but I think kissing is easily less than 50% about the mouth. People that are good kissers know how to hold a body and turn someone on before lips touch. Once you are actually kinda embraced, then you can worry about moving your lips and tongue with hers. Watch a movie... any movie, you should be able to pick up on how to do both parts. And don't be one of those guys that puts in too much jaw/tongue effort, friends of mine that are female have told me that those guys are th…
/r/seduction18/04/11 10:25 AM
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I vote text (I'm 21 too). Girls our age respond to texts in a much more casual way than they do to calls. I can't stand dealing with a girls foolishness or indecisiveness while we are on the phone together. Sending texts encourages concision and it puts much less pressure on her to respond immediately and have novel ideas (unfortunately many girls have cripplingly bad phone conversation skills). I do nothing the day after I get the number, then text the next day. It gives them time to wonder if …
/r/seduction18/04/11 06:48 AM
5

Concerts and house shows! Indie girls love house shows!!
/r/seduction17/04/11 10:58 PM
1

Ha, well to be honest. I would go in for a kiss the first time, if she backs it up be fine with it, maybe she just doesn't want it right then. Try again later when you two are in a less public place. If she shuts you down be disappointed, maybe say something, "Alright we can save that for later". Try the third time when you two are alone, if she does it again say something like "fuck you bitch! you look fat in those pants anyway!!"
/r/seduction15/04/11 11:28 PM
1

Until she maces you in the face, you made it sound like you don't care about the outcome (good mindset)
/r/seduction15/04/11 11:21 PM
5

You misunderstood me, I thought the flower thing was well played and it worked for you, good job. I understand your motivation behind saying that you want to put her mind on you and off him, but it should just be the subtext, not the actual statement. "Hey come out and play pool with me tomorrow night... cheering girls up is my specialty." "The other night was fun, I know we can do even better tomorrow, I know a great place to play pool." The gym is cool, if she ever asks and you have nothing to…
/r/seduction15/04/11 11:15 PM
1

Lol my name is Felix, but I'm glad it made you laugh.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:56 PM
3

Its worth pursuing, its always worth pursuing. You could have done better during the date but hey, couldn't we all do better all the time? You pulled a tough break by having all her friends at the bar and having tons of distractions. Actually if you are uncomfortable with having her staring and listening to you ALL the time, maybe it worked in your favor. I won't give you any flak for the flower, she said it all, it was nice. I also found it amusing when you used the term "conversation fodder"..…
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:53 PM
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Kumar's idea is cool but personally wouldn't open while sitting packed in by my guy friends. She walked by and gave you the eyes, so I would see where she went. Get up quickly and approach her, if you can stop her before she gets where she is going do that, it will make you seem eager and confident enough to take the leap. I would then use one of my favorite loud bar lines. "You CANNOT just give me a sexy look like that and not say hi, whats your name?" Then once you have her attention you can p…
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:38 PM
2

Anyone who can quote the Buddha like a boss when talking about seduction wins an upvote from me.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:32 PM
1

These guys are right, your best option is spend a long night having fun and escalating and halfway through touch her in a sensual way and kiss her. It will probably work, and if it doesn't try again later, you did say you were ready to put it all on the table. Just don't forget the kino.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:10 PM
5

Thanks for the compliment I appreciate it. "It was great seeing you, but I have a Navy Seal class I need to teach in the morning so I can't go out with you tonight, how about tomorrow?" "You are a fun girl, promise you won't forget about me when I'm away in China saving the pandas?" "I want to keep having this lovely conversation but at night I undergo a horrible transformation into a pickup artist, I can't have you see me like that." ( I would never really say this but I lol'd when it crossed m…
/r/seduction15/04/11 09:58 PM
1

Sounds like you are terrible in bed. Lol just kidding. Screw them, you already won, if they want more they will come and get it, pressing the issue while they are being bitches will do you no service.
/r/seduction15/04/11 09:11 PM
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no you are right, you should absolutely never send her more texts or more frequent texts than she sends you. Waiting a few days is almost always a good idea, it conveys non-desperation. Try to make a point to use less words than she does. Her: "Hey what are you doing?" You: "Playing music, you?" It kinda conveys that your words are slightly more valuable than hers, its a very strange and manipulative tactic but it doesn't hurt to keep in mind. I would just be super relaxed about it, if she gave …
/r/seduction15/04/11 09:02 PM
1

When I wrote these I thought he already had. I am a verbose guy, and initially when I am just getting to know a girl I don't use texts at all. I wrote this because anybody can write "hey I'm going out come with me". I thought he was looking for something a little more complicated. I like to be a little mysterious sometimes too, and I'v been told that the girls liked that. This is actually a little outside my field, I don't pull random numbers and then set up dates by text, I'm embarrassed to say…
/r/seduction15/04/11 08:53 PM
1

We know... This community isn't for people looking to master the universe by reading and acting like This Guy in public. It is overwhelmingly advocated here to spend most if not all your time in the field so that you become attractive rather than pretending and "playing games". I appreciate your concern, but we all teach ourselves... this place just makes it a little easier and gives people support.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:33 PM
2

Oh if you just pulled numbers (I assume short sets, quick success and an exit), then your approach should be different than what I described above. "Hey its bleedsread5 from the [wherever] the other day, I have a new place I want to try for coffee this afternoon. Come with me and I promise to be a gentleman and make it worth your while." IDK, I actually rarely pull numbers anymore because I like the thrill of the cold approach and seeing how far I can take it all at once. I think that if you mad…
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:14 PM
2

I understand your timidness but you are forgetting a cardinal rule of dating. Guys are not as complex as women, if you have a nice night (doing ANYTHING) and then kiss him and go from there you have almost zero chance of not getting what you want. I hate to say it, but a casual sex buddy is often what men prefer anyway. Just take the plunge and get what you want. AFter you sleep together just let him do his own thing and chances are he will not make anything more serious than you make it. If he …
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:10 PM
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Hi! I pride myself on my text game and I have been doing it well for years with positive feedback from the girls. You want to know how to ask her to lunch after a first date? Or are you just looking for general text rules? Whatever I can do both. Lunch "Hey HB, lunch the other day was fun and I want to take you out tonight/[some night] and have an adventure, I'v got this cool place to show you." (That's the direct and simple approach) "I had this great date the other night with a [HBs name] and …
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:01 PM
0

If I have to explain it to you, you aren't ready. Just kidding, its a name I made up for a hot sex position because I don't know if 3way positions have names.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:38 PM
1

Well that is a strange question given the subjective nature of attractiveness. I think that I am very attractive and I hope that everyone else feels that way about themselves too. I am 5'11" and I weigh about 150 pounds (yes I'm kinda skinny) and I don't lift weights or anything but I ski all the time in the winter and I swim and play soccer every day in the summer so I am in pretty good shape. I will just say that I find myself attractive enough to be comfortable and confident while naked in a …
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:37 PM
2

Run the tape in your head of the last time you made a successful seduction pull. Music is effective as always, but choose carefully. You don't want to be amped on 50cent when you are going to the opera. I usually shower, then listen to something happy and upbeat like THIS while I get dressed (I am not the hip/hop type). Let yourself feel the energy and move a little while you are getting ready. By the time you walk out the door you are energetic and you have put time into looking and feeling goo…
/r/seduction15/04/11 11:05 AM
1

May I ask why a (hopefully) female is asking Seddit about style advice? We aim to get girls into less clothing, not the other way around.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:52 AM
0

I NEVER ask, and neither should you. If for some god-forsaken reason you actually WANT a number, it is much better to engineer a situation in which she offers it to you.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:48 AM
1

I vote ANNOYANCE!! I am still struggling with the fact that many of my friends are chumps when it comes to the game. I have gotten my girl out and she has brought friends that I pin on my AFCs but they just fucking blow it and I have to entertain instead of have private conversation with my target. It sucks, and I have lost more than one opportunity because now the girl always brings her friends and I never get to easily sequester her from them. The chumps only get in the way most of the time, i…
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:44 AM
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Yes its a very textbook canned opener if you do it right. I personally have never tried it because I prefer something with a little more hutzpah, but any canned opener list will include several variations of this. I find it interesting that it happened to you by accident. Actually, I wouldn't change it at all, having a legitimate belief that it was your friend was what made it land.
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:33 AM
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Well, good job for opening the girl; it is a step in the right direction. I do have a few problems with your technique though. You opened by telling her that you have been watching her every day and know where she sits all the time, its a little strange Don't give girls the impression that you are unenthusiastic about what you do, having to "drag yourself to class" is not a very positive or alpha frame If you really wanted to work on that girl specifically you shouldn't have waited until the end…
/r/seduction15/04/11 10:23 AM
2

Thats horrible. Sure its just blood but it sounds like an unpleasant surprise. Nice FR anyway, I never think about the "You're in my way" line but I have read a few successful FRs that use it. Also interesting idea to throw her around, kino obviously isn't always gentle. 7 drinks in 2 hours!? I'm surprised she was awake. Nice gaming
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:07 AM
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Hahaha blown out by a Jersey Shore type...ouch. Luckily those types are generally considered foolish and the enemy so I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you are opening hot girls (even just for the time) with more success than I think it is very safe to assume that the guy was just a total cock. Have fun tomorrow night.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:01 AM
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I like exploring too. Telling her that you wandered off is cool because it gives her the impression that you are always doing something (which is true). Sitting and waiting is an unattractive activity.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:27 AM
1

Here you go
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:21 AM
2

Next time my friend, I was feeling a little tired so I kept it light.
/r/seduction15/04/11 06:18 AM
1

You know I am tempted to agree with you, it is unfortunate but I think that they really don't want to break their prisons. I prefer the conversation of people in Seddit anyway, they are happier and more driven souls. FA may stay that way if they desperately want to. PS; I also love that graphic&quote of the arena, it is my desktop background
/r/seduction15/04/11 05:51 AM
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The Steam Shower None of us are prepared so nakedness is the rule of law. It only fits about 6 people (tightly). I initially offer to sit it out and let 6 girls go (I had a feeling that they wouldn't have me sit out). I was right, Julie insists and I find myself naked in a steam shower with Julie, HB8s, and 2 HB7 high school friends. This took BALLS. I don't care how awesome it sounds, it was also nerve-racking. It was also awesome. We are all talking, laughing, trying to get the steam and the w…
/r/seduction15/04/11 05:38 AM
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Smart man
/r/seduction15/04/11 03:16 AM
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Ha you are the guy whose post I read to get background on that community before I posted. You have some very depressing defeatist attitudes about social interaction.
/r/seduction14/04/11 10:53 PM
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I tried to extend a few ideas... I am in the process of receiving a lot of denial and disagreement from them.
/r/seduction14/04/11 10:51 PM
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Link? What are you talking about?
/r/seduction14/04/11 10:12 PM
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I would be happy to show you and any other Tahoe Sedditors. I have been looking for you people to go out and wingman with and I hadn't found a single one until I posted this. Where do you live?
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:39 PM
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Anyone who is interested, I posted something on the board of that sad subreddit and it will probably accrue a large amount of hate very quickly. HERE is a link to the post. I think it will be interesting to hear what those guys have to say. Edit: I lol'd when I saw that you can't downvote anything on that subreddit. Defense mechanism much?
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:38 PM
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lol you asked for a critique, critique means pointing out mistakes, "Please Critique the shit out of it" I'm actually very nice. The drinking bacon fat thing was disgusting, why? I am a white guy so I don't do much race comedy, but you played the asian card kinda hard. I get that you did those picture things as negs, it just isnt really my style. To each his own I guess. I think that you did a little too much bragging about your physique/cock. IMO it could have been much more subtle, but at the …
/r/seduction14/04/11 08:02 PM
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does that guy look like he has a wife to you?
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:41 PM
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Holy crap. You can always tell a virgin when he is afraid to touch a girl. Especially a stripper, lol.
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:26 PM
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Yes, it ended in a 3some. Maybe I should write a FR
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:20 PM
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Good question, if she just pulls back without saying anything then smile and back it up a little bit. People underestimate the power of smiling. If you want to say something to recover quickly and change the dynamic I would go with something along the lines of: "Ah lets think about that later, come with me I want to show you [next topic of conversation]"
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:59 PM
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Your question is the entire point of this subreddit. Read almost any submission (including the sidebar articles) and they will answer your questions.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:52 PM
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Hey its no problem. An IOI is an indicator of interest, like her smiling and giggling, or playing with her hair, or laughing at a bad joke. They are important to be able to pick up on. You may benefit from reading the sidebar articles and the terms list. Welcome to Seddit.
/r/seduction14/04/11 04:44 PM
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I always knew babar was smart
/r/seduction14/04/11 09:02 AM
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Fail. You made a disgusting joke, reinforced stereotypes, told her she looked fat in her photo, tried to justify your physical appearance, and pressed too hard for a nude picture of HB6? When she declined you begged, and then ejected after she finally shut you down (ejecting was a good idea... you blew it). Also... AIM conversations!? GTFO of here with that.
/r/seduction14/04/11 08:12 AM
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Having no fun--->apply alcohol---->hit on women---->get laid---> YAY!
/r/seduction14/04/11 07:59 AM
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I understand where you are coming from, this one seemed like she did the hard work for me. Honestly though, you are hating on the wrong guy. Read This FR. When I broke that set, her initial quote was "You really want to start like THAT? Can't you just come up and be honest that you want to talk to us?" Challenge Accepted It turns out that even though the HB7 from this summer FR wanted me first, I actually AM awesome. I understand your skepticism, but don't knock a fellow brother for landing a ni…
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:56 AM
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Hey buddy :) thanks for the comment! By the way, sniping at another man's success reeks of a desperate defense mechanism and you can go fuck yourself :) If all I did was "be attractive" I will take that as a compliment. You want a more challenging piece? Read This FR and suck my cock before you cry yourself to sleep. Yay!!
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:38 AM
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What? I don't understand if you are insulting me or if you are just an idiot. Explain?
/r/seduction14/04/11 06:32 AM
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lol what?
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:52 PM
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I already kinda have, when I say we talk sometimes I mean like twice a month. However, we do see each other every few months and the sex is amazing. My biggest problem with one night stands is that the best sex IMO comes from knowing someone really well and knowing how to get each other off the best way possible. I have effectively reduced the relationship to zero effort so I see no harm allowing it to live. I don't even really think about her when she isn't around. But I appreciate your advice,…
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:43 PM
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No you shouldn't tell her. You don't have a scarlet V tattooed on your chest, at the worst she will just think you are inexperienced. Don't be nervous man, sex isn't that difficult. Its the getting her to want to have sex with you that is the challenge... so why did you reject her? And yes, if she tried to get you back to her place for sex and you said no then you rejected her. Also, if being nervous keeps you from trying... you have larger problems than being inexperienced in the bedroom.
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:14 PM
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It was just a summer internship, I am done now. There were no problems. I see the appeal too, sweet sexy appeal.
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:11 PM
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I want to give you this advice early. Don't read that shit. All those companies that want to profit off AFCs all give the same generic advice. You will absolutely not find anything there that you can't find here on Seddit for free. Besides... here you get a supportive community AND FRs! Yay :) Oh and another thing... phone numbers don't mean shit. Don't focus on them because they aren't representative of attraction, just the girl's kindness. If you really want one, you are the guy, just ask. I p…
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:02 PM
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Your bolded quotations are true, stick with them. As someone who just graduated from college I am happy to say that you are on the right track. Sidenote... a girl acknowledging that you two have the same major is not always an IOI but in this case you made it sound like it was. Also, don't be the guy at parties that always opens with "what's your major". Nobody likes that guy. I am sure you already know this, but it is important to remember. Good job taking initiative, you sound like you already…
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:52 PM
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yes. she is currently in college across the country (1 year younger than me). We see each other every 2-3 months for a few weeks and talk on the phone sometimes but we have both kinda acknowledged that LT/LDR is devastating emotionally so we have an open relationship and keep our conversations light. She is my one-itis piece but it doesn't keep me from playing the game. 5 years is a long ass time. However, having a SO for that long really teaches you something about how women think, a lot of my …
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:46 PM
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I appreciate your motivation to give niche advice but honestly the game isn't incredibly different in high school. The most common problem I see from high school kids is that they have years of compounded one-itis. Just tell them to read the sidebar.
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:39 PM
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You have the classic answer... "Oh nothing I just wanted to get your attention, you are coming with all of us to X bar tonight right?"
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:35 PM
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lol Highdrogen, I know exactly how you feel. I hate that childish BS that facebook exudes. That being said... I regret to inform the community that I have one too, I just NEVER use it unless a HB goes out of her way to write something to me. I check it maybe once a week for 30 seconds. I'm so ashamed...
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:32 PM
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Try using the Seddit Locator :) in the sidebar ---------> Unfortunately I have been unable to find anything in my area but you may have better luck. Happy sarging
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:22 PM
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Effort. The AFC thinks about approaching/asking her out/going in for the kiss/asking her back to his place. The guy that is actually closing does those things. Although I find lists like these cliche and they appear too often on Seddit: Alpha Has no fear Values getting blown out Takes risks Pushes his comfort zone and HBs comfort zone Acts on what he wants (ie goes for the kiss) Goes out sarging often, is rarely discouraged or affected by outcome * Anunciates, smiles, jokes, Kino, tells stories …
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:19 PM
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cool, it sounds like you have options. My first two choices are "Let's play piano together, I want to learn formal piano and I would love to teach you a few things about faster jazz piano" and "I would love to play some guitar interlaced with your piano... it may sound as beautiful as you look" (just kidding about the second part, kinda cheesy) Anyway, you have an in... you just need to make the leap and be charming. Shouldn't be too hard for a sexy rockstar like yourself.
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:04 PM
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Oh I see, well it was an intern job (no money) and I don't work there anymore for unrelated reasons. I suppose I can see that it would be a problem to nail a girl in your office and then have her be scorned and angry when you told her it was just casual sex. Luckily, I don't work in those types of environments and these hookups have been absolutely problem-free. I am gonna keep flirting with coworkers because I have every reason too (see: above FR)
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:55 PM
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First of all, cool composition, gnomes is an appropriate tag and I like your little minor breakdown @ 1min. Can you play any of those instruments physically? And what does she play? I am telling you, trying to make music together is hot, don't hesitate. I think that you are right about not minding being friendzoned but I think that you came to that conclusion through apathy rather than rejection. Don't even think that you might stay friendzoned until you have tried to break it. Remember... you a…
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:34 PM
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I have several spots on the east shore, message me when you come to the lakes and I can show you (its kinda hard to describe). If we are both in the area during summer we should wingman together, I can show you some cool hangouts.
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:24 PM
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Its called being a man chasing tail. I think that most of the fun is in the chase as well... you are not alone.
/r/seduction13/04/11 05:59 PM
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Yeah. If thinking before you speak isn't working to prevent "word vomit" (I don't like that term... always having something to say can be a positive attribute), then my solution is this. You begin to notice that you are rambling... pick a thread out of your rant and ask her a question immediately, then shut up. You may take her by surprise but that is her problem, it may even work as a test to see if she is high quality by her response.
/r/seduction13/04/11 05:52 PM
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If you can pull off a casual meeting at her work then you should do it there. I avoid facebook like the plague because it is too mechanical and shows less confidence than meeting in person. The ideal frame is that you are at the bar and you "bump into her" (metaphorically or physically I guess). Have a false time constraint!! Don't make it look like you came to talk to her. Once you bump into each other, tell her it was great seeing her and you two should catch up on [some day]. If you can swing…
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:35 AM
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Some people in this community say that you shouldn't care what women think of you but I totally disagree. You must care in order to learn from your efforts. In response to your problem of coming up with the perfect thing to say 2 seconds too late... just slow down. Speaking slowly is something that guys fear sometimes but is a very alpha quality. Take a few seconds before you open your mouth and formulate what you want to say so that it sounds good. Speaking slowly allows you time to think as yo…
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:17 AM
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I think that you are right to want get out in the field (i didn't mean to sound judgmental, sorry). I just felt from the text you provided that this line may have gone cold a while ago and you could maybe try a better avenue. If you live in a small place with limited options though... go for it. Call or text and say that you want to see her, thats gotta be the starting point.
/r/seduction13/04/11 11:11 AM
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First of all... she was naked on top of him and he checked his phone to tell her the time!? I agree wtf!? I personally would have better things on my mind and I would make sure she did too. Iv never met a curfew that can't be broken by a good time.
/r/seduction13/04/11 10:17 AM
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Hey OP, don't worry if you are getting downvoted. You make an interesting point and I agree with you. I have done E twice (I subscribe to a "don't knock it til you've tried it mentality") and it does in fact make connecting with people easier and more enjoyable in some situations. Iv never done it in a club, that might be a little much. If any of the readers do decide to try it, they will be fine so long as they have self control, and they will see a new side of social interaction. I think it is…
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:39 AM
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I know one-itis is bad but I want your advice on how to deal with my one-itis (paraphrase) Drop it, you haven't spoken in months and you never see her? FB means nothing, forget it and stop lurking her page. How old are you? Can't you try your newfound charm and alphaness on girls that aren't instantly going to question your frame? You should really think about the fact that you have fallen prey to the worst problem (and 1st on the FAQ!) in the community and you are asking advice from those that …
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:21 AM
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Wazke is right you are friendzoned for the time being. It sounds like you blew the social situation with the smoking but I can't blame you, I become a bit of an introvert when I smoke trees too (thats why I quit). The good news? She gave you the shotgun hit so she obviously doesn't think you are a radioactive troll. If you really want to try to break friendzone it will be an uphill battle. It sounds like she is already pulling back. I think that you are right to "ask her out" but you are wrong a…
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:12 AM
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Pulled an evil exes cousin from a religious gathering!? Lets go out and wingman together!!
/r/seduction13/04/11 08:55 AM
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I don't think that it was a shit test... you brought it up. Also, I wouldn't ever make a joke about fleshlights for all the reasons you outlined. You handled it fine; it sounds like this girl wants to be fucking, whats the problem?
/r/seduction13/04/11 08:48 AM
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Funny FR, it must have been your 18th if you are still in high school. Good job controlling the night and being the alpha. Personally I wouldn't care if the girl calls or not, unless you are a virgin (you don't talk like one) then the night was about practicing the chase. You practiced, you were victorious... bask in it. PS. Its Jim Beam... and you can gamble in Seattle?
/r/seduction13/04/11 08:42 AM
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You are going to Coachella, it is understood that you may not hear everything people are saying, don't worry about it. Another thing... never be afraid to ask someone to repeat themselves if you think its really important. You asked if you can turn advantage out of hearing loss? "I'm sorry i didn't catch your name/whatever you said... can you lean in closer?" Don't worry about "picking up chicks" just have a fun time and be sociable. Concerts were made for strangers with things in common to meet…
/r/seduction13/04/11 08:33 AM
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I think that you are in the right frame of mind. I like having female friends (in some cases) more than I like my male friends. People in this community should stop stressing over the line of friendzone and realize that at a point it is just important to have female friends.
/r/seduction12/04/11 11:32 AM
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its not gay if you get paid for it...
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:44 AM
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The discussion and the swapping of advice is mostly located in AskSeddit. Regular Seddit is a good place for FRs because new users come in and benefit from the outlines (if they are written correctly). If they are interested in asking questions or talking about theories, I usually refer them to AskSeddit.
/r/seduction01/04/11 02:47 AM
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I agree that numbers are unimportant, but you don't need to be so hostile about it. Getting a number can still be an important milestone for someone coming here for advice, and we shouldn't rain on their parade by telling them they can't post FRs. That being said, I would like it if people kept their reports to important issues because at the end of the day, we can all be out collecting numbers all the time, we don't need to hear about them all.
/r/seduction01/04/11 02:31 AM
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Nice job I guess, but it sounds like they did all the hunting. I've never been pounced by a cougar but if it happens so easily, I will have to keep my wits about me.
/r/seduction31/03/11 10:46 PM
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Yes you are just a retard. She asked you to be her date to the dance and you said no? What did you expect to happen? Make a conscious effort to go and get what you want or you won't get it. Girls infrequently fall into guy's laps, and you definitely passed up a nice opportunity. You could have even salvaged it by dancing with her at the event. I understand that you are new to all this but... what are you so afraid of? You have to summon some courage and put yourself out there, or you may regret …
/r/seduction29/03/11 03:37 AM
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I am not a big guy, so take my advice with a grain of salt. What do you mean "plus size"? There is an important difference between being a giant guy and being fat. Many women find fat guys inherently unattractive so its all an uphill/unwinnable battle. If this is something you really care about, use it as motivation to get in shape.
/r/seduction28/03/11 10:45 PM
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This was agonizing to watch. The two guys both came off like serial killers and they creeped out everyone they approached. The weasel totally looked like he was on crack, and the lotion guy acted like he was going for the fastest consecutive blowouts. Absolutely painful. By the way, what the hell is this show?
/r/seduction28/03/11 07:00 PM
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actually thanks for that, iv always been confused about that because i didn't think moot was a word.
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:34 AM
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It is very difficult to see shit tests coming, but you can anticipate that they will come. Girls do this even if they don't realize it, it is kinda just a way to force us to qualify ourselves. Any time that you are trying to prove your value to a girl, she will inevitably try to punch holes in you, and you must react smoothly and confidently... thats how guys pass shit tests. I personally don't even think about shit tests because they are a mute point, as long as you are cool and confident, you …
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:39 AM
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I vote for more radio silence, it seems like you aren't going to get anywhere until her schedule opens up. Give her some time to crave the johnson.
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:18 AM
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Nothing like a phantom fiance to ruin a good thing... I joke with the girls that next time they need to bring a third girl for me and blah blah blah Kinda unrelated, but I wouldn't do that. It seems almost like you are begging, not very alpha. But you got her anyway so whatever. Honestly I don't think that this fiasco was your fault. She hid pretty damn important information from you and if she was upset about the kino/hooking she should have said or done something. The LMR should have been an i…
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:54 PM
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Thats a great FR, but I don't understand why you ejected after the makeout session. Being a good friend is nice, but your wingman did give you a green light, and an HB9 is nothing to scoff at. Given your statement "target acquired" I am also surprised that you didn't dance with her, it would have given you a huge leg up in the attraction before your game started. Great job flirting with everyone, it is a must. Expand on the "Do I look like a drug dealer?" kickstart. Why is it more effective than…
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:37 PM
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Oh I didn't know that, I don't read asf. I still think that opening 2 HB10s and getting blown out is a valuable FR, so long as the guy learned something. But anyway, if other communities use the other terms and you are determined to change it, ask Tofu and see what he says.
/r/seduction27/03/11 07:14 PM
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We can't tell you if salvage is possible because we weren't there, we didn't hear her tone of voice, see body language etc. However, if you do want to try to salvage I don't recommend reddicide's text as written. He makes good ponts about how to approach the situation, but the writing is too apologetic. She may meet you for coffee but I think she will internally friendzone you if you come off as too beta in your apology. I recommend giving her a day of silence and then go for the day date in a s…
/r/seduction27/03/11 07:11 PM
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Haha, at first read this sounds ridiculously cocky, but I can understand how it would be a problem. When I make a conscious effort to be the wingman and not the striker, I do the divide and conquer. Classic wingman technique says (for a 2set) to get them back to back and let your striker engage his target while you engage the friend. Don't completely ignore your friend and his target though, the other important part of being the wing is contributing DHVs. Ideally, you will have a few chances to …
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:52 PM
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I personally vote against terminology changes. As we have seen before, people try to change the system because they like it more, but it is about what is established for the community. Also, A FR is all about learning from the set... once you open, its a FR. I have had FRs of success and of getting blown out, but they are the same game, and the same field.
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:34 PM
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It sounds like you need to read the sidebar and initiate more kino.
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:26 PM
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I know several nice people that are in fraternities, but they are heavily outnumbered (perhaps I have a poor sample set) by the type of guy I wouldn't leave alone with a 14 year old girl. I am glad that you are part of an honorable fraternity, but don't tell me that they are all good places with upstanding individuals. One on my campus last year had its license (whatever its called) revoked for giving roofies to too many girls. So I spraypainted a 2 foot cock on their front door. They deserved i…
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:17 PM
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To be fair there are professional fraternities and douchebag fraternities. Unfortunately 95% fall into the second category, all you frat boys can polish my schvance.
/r/seduction27/03/11 07:09 AM
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You just encapsulated what any AFC can read on the internet... give us a FR?
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:50 AM
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Join a club/band/group/anything that causes you to have prolonged social interaction with cool people. I just graduated college and my freshman year went great because I didn't hold back, you could be out right now flirting with girls. Think about it.
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:10 AM
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one of my personal favorites... Me: I Can make my cock 14" Her: What? How? Me: I fold it in half
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:00 AM
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thats pretty good, I just sent an original one in text on the fly because I am drunk. Her: "Is it alright if I just tel myself you're a good guy only around me and no other girls? Please? <3" Drunken Me: "Other girls? I am a gentleman to the bone... and sometimes afterwards too." Its awful but I'm drunk and I don't care, I made myself laugh.
/r/seduction27/03/11 05:40 AM
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IDK which frat assholes are down-voting the sensible guys around here but thats enough. Don't you have roofies to buy?
/r/seduction27/03/11 03:52 AM
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Honestly, high school FRs are almost only useful for high school students. However, writing it out may help you identify your mistakes. First and foremost... where is the kino? You say that you missed many opportunities to kino and you are right. Your situation (the entire floor hockey issue) seems pretty conducive to teasing and kino, take advantage! She claims to have me on her “To Kill” list, but I doubt she plans on going through with it This is complex but I view it as an IOI, if she thinks…
/r/seduction27/03/11 03:49 AM
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You did well working the conversation, but you should realize that girls in clothing stores are paid to be friendly and helpful. If you really felt a connection, maybe go back and see if she is working, but don't hinge on her at the expense of meeting other cool girls.
/r/seduction27/03/11 03:28 AM
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Freeze out is a good idea. I know it sounds mechanical, but you should "punish" her for bailing on you. In most cases, freezing out causes her to want you even more and change her behavior. Twicewise is right, don't supplicate, dominate. You have other options, honestly you could nail a stranger tonight, don't hold yourself back.
/r/seduction27/03/11 03:02 AM
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NO! Fraternities a crutch and I prefer to meet people on my own terms. Are you in a sorority?
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:54 AM
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This is a great success. I don't care how you think you did, opening 10 sets in a night and making a friend along the way is all win. I hope you learned a few things too. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:52 AM
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Carefully. The only people that look like tools while flirting are the actual tools. If you are good, you will have no problems being the genuine guy that all the girls want to talk to.
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:49 AM
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I think that they have their time and place. I don't have any since I just graduated college, but I would use one in the right spot. Don't just give it to her out of the blue, you should wait until she expresses interest in contacting you, then the card is suave and a home run. They can also be stealthy, if thats ever important.
/r/seduction27/03/11 12:15 AM
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this is great, if you thought of this yourself I give you respect, and an upboat.
/r/seduction27/03/11 12:12 AM
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tell her you've always wanted to learn and ask her out for a drink
/r/seduction26/03/11 06:50 PM
1

How do you know she is into you if you have never spoken? Do you speak French? If yes, do it, she will love you for it. If no, ask her about the language, use it as an excuse to spend time together/converse.
/r/seduction26/03/11 06:01 PM
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I don't take offense, but consider this. Is lying about being taken more maligning than trying to nail her after she said she wasn't interested?
/r/seduction26/03/11 05:52 PM
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If weekends are out for the next 2, you probably need to try a weekday meeting between classes (daunting I know). No one is too busy to get coffee in the afternoon/morning. All I can say is try it out. If she is still interested in you she will make time. Just ensure that her making time is easy.
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:52 PM
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The opening tease is perfect. The rest is a little too much ice water. Also, thats a long ass text. I would bring up the fact that you thought the two of you moved a little too fast and you wouldn't want [other girl's name] to get the wrong idea about you. Do this dismissal quickly and nonchalantly or it won't work. I had a lot of fun with you though... how about a coffee tomorrow?
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:47 PM
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I seriously sympathize. I have adopted a near even mixture of A and B. One night I convinced 2 friends to come out and once they saw me open a set (2 HB8s in retrospect) it lit a fire under their asses.
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:39 PM
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Boo! The horse girl opener is terrible. Aside from "hey baby lets bang" I have never read an opener that is easier to see through. "Do you like horses?" DUH. Hidden motives?!
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:34 PM
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Burned. This sounds like a very difficult situation to convert. If you really are determined to get the f close I would advise playing a mirror and trying to get her out again. What I mean is that you should say something similar back to her to convey that you are also interested in someone else but you had fun with her and still want to see her again(platonically). In other words, pretend to friendzone her. The crux of the issue being that you take a step backward and take pressure off of her. …
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:26 PM
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She asks me if I want to come and I say its upto her. You shouldn't have done that. She wouldn't have offered if she didn't want you to come. Also, going to another bar with her and more HBs sounds like a winning move, why would you be passive? To answer your questions... If you want to have sex with her then you should definitely keep pursuing. Since you two already had good kino and kissing you have the hard part done already. I don't know where you live but I would personally try a day meetin…
/r/seduction26/03/11 04:07 PM
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Great FR. I usually don't consider using a girl's agonizing indecisiveness to my advantage, but it seemed to work for you. You make it sound like you went full throttle on negging her which is something I don't agree with. However, I can't argue with success so nice job. You were right about the fiddling with the ring indicator, girls almost always do something innocuous like that when they are thinking about escalation/sex. You did a good job of push/pull, and it sounds like she did too. Respec…
/r/seduction26/03/11 03:47 PM
1

I got all the women correct but about half the guys wrong. I wonder if this is telling of my preconceptions about guys, I called a lot of their genuine smiles fake. However, since we are on Seddit and I am straight, I am okay with my results.
/r/seduction26/03/11 03:28 PM
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Tofu is right, if the bar manager is actively trying to shut you down then you should have tried the stealth number close. You say that you spoke her language but you didn't use it in the bar? If you can speak her language do it as much as possible. You will soon become her favorite person in the bar. Great job going for the gold and taking a challenge. Often the "cutest girl in the bar" is the best target for practice and success.
/r/seduction26/03/11 03:15 PM
1

I agree that other girls are important as well, but we arrived together and we left together. I think that she deserved my attention, especially given the outcome. I did dance with other girls, but I liked the fact that she was jealous. Rock n roll.
/r/seduction26/03/11 03:58 AM
3

Endorphins, and I agree. A little exercise before you go out gets the blood flowing and makes you feel happy. Once you feel happy the hard part is over.
/r/seduction25/03/11 10:56 PM
2

The potential for success motivates me. Once you have a few beautiful pickups under your belt the memory of those successes will bring you your motivation. I save texts that are particularly heartwarming, because they remind me of how it feels to cause a girl to melt. Once you are used to that feeling you will create your own internal motivation to make it happen again. It is all about positive reinforcement. This afternoon I got a number that I didn't ask for and it totally motivated me keep pr…
/r/seduction25/03/11 09:26 AM
1

ya thats right, just graduated. I had never gone into Sac to go to a club before but I gotta say, this one turned out well.
/r/seduction25/03/11 09:13 AM
10

You dug your own grave. If I were a high school girl (as I often masquerade) I would have rejected you even if we were friends. People with confidence and charisma don't ask people out over facebook... especially if she has never spoken with you. What were you thinking? I don't mean to sound harsh but I view this as constructive criticism... don't do that again. Stop her in the hallway and tell her your friends dared you to ask out the hottest girl you could find, but now that you appeased them …
/r/seduction25/03/11 06:53 AM
5

I think that most of us here on Seddit understand that it is about becoming naturally attractive. If you find yourself using lines after lines you are probably doing something wrong. Also you should never be using more than one pickup line per set. Lines are to help AFCs get over AA and actually get into the game. One time I delivered a line just to see if it would hook and I felt a little fake, but it ended in a kiss and a number so it wasnt so bad. Mainly I just think of opening lines as crutc…
/r/seduction25/03/11 06:13 AM
1

ya thats the place... you must either go there often or you were with my group that night. Good tips on club dancing, and that is what I did, although I am much more used to rock n roll dancing. Girls just want to be touched... I won't be the one to deny them that.
/r/seduction25/03/11 06:04 AM
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well I graduated and she doesn't for another few months. I am back in Tahoe so I'm not sure what to do. She says she wants to see me when I come back to visit my friends and pick up my car. I think that no problems will arise, I'll probably get laid again if I play my cards right. No worries, life is pretty good.
/r/seduction25/03/11 05:36 AM
1

I think that you should create your own opener and use it verbatim on 5 sets in a row. Measure the differences in their reactions and you will be able to see the strengths and weaknesses of the opener. It can be as simple as "Hey I'm Felix and you look just like the type of fun person I want to celebrate with tonight" "WHAT ARE YOU CELEBRATING?" Just use the opener verbatim and remember the first thing the set does or says. If you get "What are you celebrating?" 5 times out of 5, you will know t…
/r/seduction25/03/11 12:01 AM
1

I think you are right on the money. I don't neg either, I find in counterproductive and a little childish. Keep at it, you already have the connection and probably a little attraction. Nice FR
/r/seduction24/03/11 11:40 PM
1

PS. If any of you gentlemen would care to share some tips on game in a classy nightclub or on the dancefloor I would like to hear it.
/r/seduction24/03/11 11:36 PM
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I think that this epiphany is good for the development of your inner game. Some people in this community say that you should not compliment/flatter someone until they give you something first. I disagree. While it is bad to shower her with praise, telling her something nice that shows your interest is a winning move. As you saw from this interaction, women love to be told that they are beautiful, especially if you do it playfully. So keep pursuing, she definitely gave you a few IOIs, so find a r…
/r/seduction24/03/11 10:31 PM
12

You should have interjected and walked all over him, it would be good practice. Nothing hardens the nerves like competing with a model.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:37 AM
13

absolutely do not use card magic tricks to pick up women. can you think of anything lamer than walking in with a pack of cards? They will think this too. If you must use tricks... use puzzles & natural magic. It cannot look like you prepared at home or you will look like a fool.
/r/seduction24/03/11 01:17 AM
1

I have thought about doing this as well because I want to go out more often than some of my regular wingmen & wingwomen. What is your plan of attack for a night like tonight? Do you intend to break into a group and win them over? This is a good idea and good practice, but I am so accustomed to being with my own friends as a fallback that it would probably seem strange. If I were to offer advice, it would be to go in strong and infiltrate the first promising set you see. Don't be afraid to leave …
/r/seduction23/03/11 11:58 PM
1

Going out in public and socializing/joking/seducing Playing guitar/bass/chess SUNSHINE & WATER I love swimming in the lake Animal behaviors (I'm an animal scientist) Exercise... endorphins are the bomb The sight of desire in a woman's eye, when she wants more of you than you are giving her The sex
/r/seduction23/03/11 11:35 PM
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So the push-pull is a complicated maneuver. I am trying kinda hard to not sound pretentious but it takes practice and intuition. As frogma, says, it is about showing interest and then taking it away. However, the pull is much more important than the push. Establish an interest and an attraction, then pull away and make her be the one that pursues the interaction. It has little to do with the intervals through which you intersperse your questions & statements. It has everything to do with establi…
/r/seduction23/03/11 06:52 AM
4

trolls have the best game i think you should rethink your approach
/r/seduction21/03/11 03:59 AM
2

I think that you should define hookup. If your dilemma is after one or several sexual encounters then you should still not tell that you want to escalate the relationship. Giving her reason to want to escalate the relationship and letting her do it herself is much more rewarding, much more skillful, and honestly much hotter when she actually takes sexual initiative to influence you.
/r/seduction20/03/11 09:00 PM
1

I think its interesting that women have trouble deciphering men's intentions. Some guys think of women as conversationally omnipotent, and we assume that they see right through us sometimes. If you want to get a sense of his intentions, I hate to say this but... give him a shit test. How he reacts will easily tell you how he wants to deal with the situation and it will make him very transparent. You: So you must have come over here to work on your pickup tactics right? Him: [Anything] Unless he …
/r/seduction20/03/11 08:55 PM
1

Hello, never thought I would see a married woman on Seddit. You ask an interesting question about how men pick women to chat with in public. After reading your submission I can safely assume that you are attractive and men find you interesting enough to approach. My first piece of advice is don't automatically play the married card, you correctly identified it as slightly presumptuous. Some men (like the ones here) enjoy socializing with women in public, particularly attractive women in bars. So…
/r/seduction20/03/11 08:31 PM
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After you danced together you should have tried to isolate so you could speak alone. Waiting until the bar closed may have been one of the nails in your coffin. I don't think that you could have recovered from this gunshot unless you are a supermodel astronaut rockstar. Since you had just met the girl and your friend bombs in to expose you both as drunken fools, the interaction became strange and intimidating for her quickly. The bright side... you seemed to be doing very well for yourself all n…
/r/seduction20/03/11 07:55 PM
1

I have to say, if you want a song to sing in public that is both bold and awesome... Twist and Shout - Beatles I did this once at a karaoke bar with a group of 5 new female friends and it killed. I would do it again in a heart beat.
/r/seduction12/03/11 09:10 PM
3

Study Group: 3 male students 5 female students mix ingredients and stir rapidly ingredients 1. meet regularly 2. meet in public 3. spend time gossiping/laughing/socializing 4. celebrate victories together 5. go out and do fun things at night yields 7 new friends and maybe slightly better grades PS; if that doesn't work start a band
/r/seduction11/03/11 02:41 AM
1

6 8 9 and 10 are okay in my mind, the others are douche moves.
/r/seduction09/03/11 12:17 AM
2

I agree that as you get better at the game your standards go up. Now that I know I can go to a bar and get a HB6or7 whenever I want, I don't really want to anymore. I am happy though that I am beginning to define my type. For instance, I am a college student and I won't touch a sorority bimbo with a ten foot pole. I think this is an important analogue to any game... once you get good, you don't want to play the game on easy mode anymore. I view it as a sign of progress. Nice post _^
/r/seduction09/03/11 12:13 AM
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I have been noticing a common problem with FRs lately. People need to include DIALOGUE!! I know it can be hard if your have been drinking but do your best, this subreddit is all about communication. Good job holding down the set until an eventual Fclose, I know how hard it can be to hold on to a college girl in the midst of massive people. Keep the FRs coming everyone... and more DIALOGUE!
/r/seduction08/03/11 11:50 PM
1

I also congratulate you on getting her excited about coming over... but this isnt really a field report. This is meant to elicit Seddit's opinions on text game. FRs are about personal communication and results. We want to know what you did right and wrong to get into this situation.
/r/seduction08/03/11 11:36 PM
1

read the terms list in the sidebar
/r/seduction08/03/11 06:00 AM
1

Go over to her place and console her, maybe cook her a meal. Then when its done ask her if some hot sausage would make her feel better.
/r/seduction08/03/11 05:59 AM
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The phrase is true because emphasis and frame place meaning in what you say. Each word is important, but what people should care most about is the overall effect of what they say. The basic meaning is in the words, but the effect comes in your presentation of the words. This is how charming people can say anything and still sound charming (watch a Bond movie). Think about emphasis and energy and smiling; can you really tell me that these things are less important than diction and syntax?
/r/seduction08/03/11 05:10 AM
2

Use more supporting details!! Sedditors want to know what you saw and said and how you acted with HB8&9. I propose FRs focus on conversation/interaction details rather than overarching narrative. Also... it sounds like you gave yourself reasons to eject too early with both women. Stick in there and don't jump out of the cockpit until the plane is on fire.
/r/seduction08/03/11 04:27 AM
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good job, you are starting out strong and breaking down your barriers. Once you have your epiphany 3 sets in a day will feel easy. Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:28 AM
2

The tinfoil is to add texture and to get you busted in airport metal detectors. The more important part of what I said is starting a band. My friends and I started a punk rock band at 14 and never looked back. Instant social gratification.
/r/seduction06/03/11 10:48 PM
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Nice ideas on "hacks" even though I don't like the word. My contributions... Don't sarge alone all the time. Go out with your female friends. Many Sedditors are amazed at how social dynamics change when you have 2 HB7s of social proof following you around all night. Get drunk. Don't fall face down in the bar, but i associate being buzzed with being loose and sociable and relaxed. I agree completely with the cold shower/exercise pregame strategies. Also, stay off your bloody phone when you are tr…
/r/seduction06/03/11 10:44 PM
7

a compare contrast of good vs bad pickup... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7a8zgfSwTCo
/r/seduction06/03/11 10:10 PM
2

start a band and wear a zucchini wrapped in tinfoil stuffed in your crotch.
/r/seduction06/03/11 09:41 PM
3

Hi CarrotWaffle I am happy to try an explanation. So if you are unfamiliar with the concepts of DHV and giving without taking, you may be helped by some of the FAQs or sidebar articles. However, my opinion is that giving value involves being enough fun to add energy to the group/set rather than taking it away. Regardless of their energy level before the approach, it should be higher or more fun after you have arrived. This is accomplished by engaging them in an interesting conversation, or doing…
/r/seduction06/03/11 09:27 PM
1

great FR, and your bring up an interesting point about slang. I am an American but I also speak intermediate spanish, what do you mean when you talk about specific "slang for pickup" that you did not know. Can you contribute a few examples for your fellow bilingual Sedditors? Also, what is the "chin chin" approach/opener that you mentioned? I love the reference you used... "It was a bit like ¨wow, I know kung fu¨ moment from The Matrix." I had a similar feeling when I realized that I was actuall…
/r/seduction06/03/11 09:08 PM
1

there are only 5 Seddit lairs? I propose in that case we start naming new places... LAKE TAHOE CALIFORNIA
/r/seduction06/03/11 06:03 AM
1

That was totally last minute resistance, you nailed it. That looks like a textbook ASD unless you did something else to specifically blow it. I think you did exactly what you should have done (minus the awkward restaurant scene), and for whatever reason she ejected. Talking her into staying would have been a mistake when she overtly ejected. Better luck next time...
/r/seduction06/03/11 12:50 AM
2

You should have interjected yourself and controlled the course of the argument so as that it could be resolved. Doing otherwise causes what you experienced, so next time some stupid argument jeopardizes your night... try your best to overcome it. Never be afraid to INTERJECT in a bad situation and turn it into a great one. Better luck next time... Use the Force
/r/seduction06/03/11 12:11 AM
4

"staring as I melt in molten beta awkwardness." this sounds devastatingly hilarious. Good work thinking outside the box with your approach tactics. And now Seddit has a little PUA material for the ever-important Kayak Game.
/r/seduction05/03/11 11:39 PM
1

this is great advice from The RealDJ. Part of going in for a close is leaving yourself the option to make a strategic retreat and go back in with a new thread/tactic. Saving your one and only attempt for a car door exit situation is a kamikaze move, usually resulting in failure over success. Remember to give yourself favorable situations (ie. the park) in which LMR is a barrier that you may overcome instead of a checkmate.
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:40 PM
3

good question falseprofit, for me it comes down to how the man uses his confidence/alphaness. A person who is "full of themselves" differs from the truly effective alpha because the first guy uses his confidence and persuasiveness to build himself up like a douche. Contrariwise, the real alpha uses his energy to give value to others and in the process, becomes both attractively charismatic and humble. I suppose a good way to put it is that real alphas use their powers for good, and selfish/bragg…
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:18 PM
2

I respectfully disagree with some of your points in this comment. I am one of the men who are astounded and cynical about rehearsed material. While it may be effective discourse during a "fake it till you make it" period of your game, it is not a genuine frame and not a genuine control of the situation. Until someone is able to work at 100% with no "material" they are not going to have the natural attractive quality called charisma. Having what you call meta-frame must come from an overarching c…
/r/seduction04/03/11 10:48 PM
1

good advice, asking directly beats the hell out of asking indirectly. nice catch
/r/seduction02/03/11 02:30 AM
1

you shut yourself down by having no plan. Te kiss of death on the date is when you ask her what she wants to do, or she asks you and you have nothing. She agreed to go on a date with you to spend time with you... just do Something and have fun with her.
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